WEBVTT - Say Yes To The Ex: You Remind Me 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.560 You got your Second Date podcast, and today we've got 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:04.000 a brand new say Yes to the X. 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:04.320 Yeah. 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:07.320 Yeah, we don't do these too often, so I hope 0:00:07.320 --> 0:00:08.240 you enjoy the segment. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.560 Maybe a reason why we don't do them often, I guess. 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:14.840 Yesterday's second date really resonated with a lot of people. 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:17.239 That's the one where the girl had all the videos 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:18.200 of the falling kids. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.360 Yeah, she thought that was really funny. That was her humor. Yeah, 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:23.400 that was it. So what were people saying about it? 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.520 We got we can't judge her. If you're listening to 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:30.080 this show, you like people falling too, Yeah, yeah we are. Hey, 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.040 women need to be more direct. Why do you just 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.519 go up and ask for a guy's number? Okay? 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.960 Yeah, maybe if there was a video of her falling, 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:38.559 she could have added it to her collection. 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:41.080 Yeah, I love. 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:43.319 To have that in the chamber. Yeah, share with people like, oh, 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:44.360 by the way, here's me too. 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:48.240 But most everyone's on her side. Okay, what was funny? 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:51.600 After we finished the second date with her yesterday, jose 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:54.760 and I spent about ten minutes watching videos of kids falling. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:58.120 It's so good, Like literally, there's an Instagram page. 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:00.840 It's easy to find. There's a seven Millie, You're not 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:01.400 the only one. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.640 Yeah, yeah, for sure, for sure. Well, hey, thanks for 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:07.480 your comments always. We love the discussions. 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.360 About these segments and keep them coming because we've got 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:11.559 your brand new Say Yes to the X starting right now. 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:16.360 When you look back on any failed relationship, there's always 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.560 gonna be things you wish you had done differently. Yeah, 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.080 like listened better, or taking them on more dates, or 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:24.640 stopped calling them mommy. 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:28.040 Trust me, we get it. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:32.240 But for one of our listeners, there's one particular night 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:35.839 that he wishes he could do over because it ended 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:38.880 with his girlfriend running out of the bar and out 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:40.200 of his life for good. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.560 WHOA, we didn't cheat or. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:46.520 Anything like that, But he does fully regret his choices 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:49.280 from that night, which is why he's asking for our 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.160 help to get one more shot with the love of 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:55.880 his life. It's a brand new Say Yes to the X, 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:56.960 and we're gonna do it. 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:57.480 Next. 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.040 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and it's time 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:05.560 for another heart throttling edition of Say Yes to the X. 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:09.960 Help one of our listeners reach out to an old 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:14.320 fling to find out if maybe there's any residual flang 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:18.160 left to be flung because you never know, and it's 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.440 okay to wonder about your exes sometimes, Brook certainly does. 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:25.560 The question is will they want to reconcile with you 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:27.760 or just run away screaming? 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.079 If you use that residual word, then it's going to 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.720 be runaway screaming. 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:35.760 Everybody likes to be flung every once in a while. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:39.120 And today we've got Evan on the phone hoping to 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:41.520 get in touch with an old past relationship. 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:43.760 Evan, you got some flang you want to try reflinging? 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:46.600 Hey, yes, yes, I do. 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:48.760 Answer. 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:50.480 I like that answer. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:53.320 So tell us who is this X and just tell 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.000 us about her and your relationship together. 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.640 Well, it's my ex Abby. 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.800 Abby. You are you really sad? 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.560 I know I was gonna say, are you sad? Or 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.840 you low energy? Right now? Maybe just nervous? You know 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:06.960 sometimes that. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:10.680 Can be I'm sad actually, Oh, Bud, what happened with 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:11.320 you and Abby? 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:13.040 Tell us about your dynamic together? 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.840 Well? I really miss her. I thought she was the 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:16.480 love of my life. 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:18.680 WHOA wow, Yeah that's. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:21.080 A tough feeling. Yeah, like you feel helpless. 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:22.080 How long did you date for? 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.400 Oh? We did about a year and a half. It 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:25.840 was great. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:29.880 Honestly, I mean I get it, like it can feel 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.320 that way, but then when you meet somebody else that 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:36.000 feels the same as you, then you really know that's 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:37.040 the one you should be with. 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:38.880 Oh, Brooks talking about her exes again. 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:42.360 Saying like it sucks. I get what you're going through. 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:44.760 I've definitely felt like I was totally in love with 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:46.160 someone and they didn't love me back. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.640 You know, Brook you know I'm in the room right 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.840 This is kind of embarrassing for you. 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:54.520 Definitely not. 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.280 We have a lot of downer vibes going on right now. 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:00.760 To tell us about some highlights from your relations with Abby. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:01.760 What were the good times? 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.920 Like, Well, we met a couple of years ago at 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:08.920 a dive bar trivia night. You know, we bonded over 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:12.040 not knowing any of the answers, and we bonded like 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:15.600 I felt so connected to her. Okay. I'm a big 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:20.119 personality guy. I like doing loud jokes and goofy stunts okay, 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.799 And honestly, I think she liked that in the beginning. 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.440 Oh what changed? Why didn't she like it in the end? 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:28.280 I know, like we have so many things. We had 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:32.599 fun road trips, late night tackle bell runs, matching Halloween costumes. 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.760 Oh wow, a. 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:35.599 Lot of history there. 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:36.960 And if you're just joining us, we're in the middle 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.280 of a segment called Say Yes to the Ex. Our 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.000 listener Evan is on the phone with us. He got 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:46.800 broken up with it sounds like, yeah, it was a 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:48.640 woman named Abby. So far, we've heard about what the 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:51.080 relationship was like before the breakup, but let's get to 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:54.440 was there a specific thing that ended your relationship? 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:55.840 Like, tell us how that went down. 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:02.320 I mean, it's so embarrassing, but I went to karaoke 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.160 and I was proposing. 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:11.240 So wait her, you were going to do a marriage proposal? 0:05:12.400 --> 0:05:14.760 Yeah? I mean I feel like a year and a 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:15.440 half was time. 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:16.240 Did she? 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.320 I mean, had you guys talked about marriage? Did she 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.119 see this coming? 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:23.159 I was like, we danced around it at times. 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.080 That's the issue, you know. 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.960 Okay, so this was going to be a real surprise. 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:29.200 Yeah. 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:32.880 Right. I tried to sing Nickelback's how You Remind Me. 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:34.880 Well, that's where you went wrong? 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:38.040 Well that is that a special song between you two? 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:39.440 Is there some history to that? 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:42.520 No, but I changed the lyrics to make it sound 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:43.320 like a proposal. 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:49.440 I'm trying to figure out how that would go, this 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:50.640 is why you should marry me. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.520 Did she let you finished the whole song or did 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:54.200 she cut you off and say no? 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.120 Sorry, we don't mean to laugh about it. But I 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.240 think we need help understanding how that scene went down. 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:02.159 I thought it would be fun. She woke up mortified. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:07.560 You know, some people are really anti public proposals, like 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.760 it feels like too much pressure to a lot of people. 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:13.200 Oh, were you able to chase after her? What happened? 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:17.039 Watch I'd call her and shin the voicemail. And the 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:20.800 next day she texts me breaking up. Oh, in this 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:24.520 long text saying I was always on, I did pranks 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:26.880 the wrong time. She felt like super thing to stand 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:27.279 up act. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:30.880 Oh okay, but would you change that? 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.479 Has it changed in the past six months since you 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:34.200 guys broke up? 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.680 Absolutely the past six months. I've done the work. I 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:38.719 can balance it now. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.960 Okay, So you backed away, but you still are you? 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:44.040 Maybe better timing? 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.320 Yeah right, I'm not over the top anymore. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:47.560 Okay, Okay. 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:50.200 I could see if that was something already bothering her, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:54.279 and then you used a parody song to propose that 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:55.960 it like just tipped it all over the. 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:58.440 Gosh, what if we do a parody song to get 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:59.159 her back. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:00.799 You can help. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:02.680 You're listening to. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:06.080 What she maybe she has grown over the past six 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:09.080 months to enjoy more of it, and you're gonna meet 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:09.920 right in the middle. 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:10.960 Oh no, if he's not. 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.800 Funny enough, I don't think it's a lack of humor. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.560 It's just the lack of sincerity. Maybe it sounds like 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:17.640 she was missing. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.239 He sounds really sincere on the phone right now. Sure, 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:23.160 And has there been any effort on your part, Evan 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.200 lately to try and get a hold of her. 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.920 Well, it seemed like she blocked me after a while. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:31.120 And you guys, really are my last hope? 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:32.840 Are you just a little mad? 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:36.000 Like you're that far into a relationship, you're proposing and 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.760 then she only gives you a text and not even 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:40.600 anything else, like you. 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.200 You know, I felt that way in the beginning, But 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:46.840 then thinking back to it, there's probably signs that she 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.760 was trying to tell me and I just wasn't listening. 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.400 Okay, Okay, I love a self aware man. 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:56.560 Yeah, that is a very mature statement, almost too mature 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.400 to be aired on our show, But we're going to 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:00.320 keep it, and Evan, you. 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:01.280 Know how this works. 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.920 Our producer was able to get your ex girlfriend Abby 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:08.320 on the phone. She is there right now. We told 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:11.120 her someone is waiting on the other line wanting to 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:14.160 talk to her. She just doesn't know that it's you yet, and. 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:15.760 She doesn't know the name of the segment either. 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.679 She hasn't heard any of this. When we come back, 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:22.640 we are going to bring her on and tell her 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:25.000 that it's you and find out if she is willing 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:28.240 to maybe give you another chance and say yes to 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:28.880 the X. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:31.960 Oh, she doesn't hang out on to a proposal this time, though. 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:34.640 I mean, it's not my choice. 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:35.280 I'm not sure. 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:40.120 I didn't know. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:42.160 We're gonna find out when we do say yes to 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:42.640 the X. 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:46.280 Right after this, we're in the middle of a very 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:48.520 special say Yes to the X. 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:51.319 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Don't laugh so 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:52.800 you can't play this song. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:55.840 I sure can because we're trying to help out our listener. 0:08:55.920 --> 0:09:00.320 Evan get in touch with his ex girlfriend Abby. And 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.600 this one's a little different than ones we've done before 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:05.280 because their breakup didn't happen over a petty fight or 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:06.760 from cheating allegations. 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.520 It happened while Evan was trying to. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:14.360 Propose to her via Nickelback parody song Okay oh Man, 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:18.200 which didn't go the way Evan wanted. Instead, she stormed 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:21.280 out of that karaoke bar and straight out of their 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:22.640 relationship altogether. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.800 The next morning, broke up with it a long text. 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:29.040 It's been six months since that night, and Evan has 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:33.360 been desperately trying to fix it. We are his last resort, 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.120 which always feels good when people. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:38.000 Tell us that, I would you play Papa Roaches last 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:38.600 resort next? 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:39.319 Yes? 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.960 And even though you got basically rejected for your proposal, Elevan, 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:44.920 I want you to know there is hope because Brook, 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.080 how many times did you say no to your husband 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:50.800 Michael's terrible proposals before you finally gave in and said yes? 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:51.040 Right? 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:52.280 You only asked once. 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:56.040 I always said one but but but, but you have to. 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:56.719 Actually say it. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:00.079 Listen, what I think that we need to concentrate on 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:04.280 is Evan. You sound like you heard what her problems 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:06.480 were in the relationship and that you have tried to 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:07.439 fix them. 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:09.320 Yeah, and that's big. 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:12.320 Yes, that's what relationships are all about totally. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.640 But they're not actually in a relationship right now. 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.320 Oh, that's the part we're He's. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:19.000 Trying to change himself into the man he thinks Abby 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:19.800 wants him to be. 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:21.200 No, just a better man. 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:22.000 That's what I said. 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:26.680 So, like you already know, Evan, your ex Abby is 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.680 already on the line. Hasn't heard any of this. She 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.080 does not know the reason that she has been brought 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:33.080 onto the show yet. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:34.720 Okay, okay, So. 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.840 If she has a bad reaction, don't feel hopeless. I 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:39.199 think we can come back from. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:40.160 That, all right. 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:43.120 We get a lot of bad reactions when people find 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.080 out they're on our show. So let us talk to 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.200 her a little bit first, and then we'll let you 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.000 come in and re swoop her off her feet all. 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:53.120 Over again, I guess. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:55.679 So, okay, all right, try to keep your breathing a 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.360 little bit quieter while we talked to her at the beginning. 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.880 Yeah, don't interrupt us, Abby, there. 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.719 Hi, Yeah, Hi, I'm here, he Abby. 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:06.800 Thanks for being on with us. Welcome to Brook and 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:07.680 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:09.800 Yeah, so glad you decided to come on the show. 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:13.360 Thanks for having me. But I'm a little confused, like 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:17.400 why I'm here? Did I win something or no? 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:17.960 Exactly. 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.960 Well, we're gonna find out in just a second, because 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:23.560 this is a segment that we do where we try 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:30.480 to reconnect you with somebody important from your past. Okay, 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:34.400 and you have four hundred guesses to try and figure. 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:35.120 Out who that is. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:37.400 Hot or colder? 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.800 Are you saying like a long lost. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:45.120 Friend or I guess in a way in some ways 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:47.400 they may have been your best friend at some point, 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:52.160 because we're talking about your recent past, only like six 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:55.440 months ago. Because this is a segment, the name of 0:11:55.480 --> 0:12:00.680 it is called say Yes to the X, so that 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.160 might give you a little hint of who I'm talking about. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.840 He didn't lead with the title because the O is 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:06.920 what we were worried about. 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:11.760 Yeah, wow, this is awkward. Okay. So did Evan talk 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:12.080 to you? 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:13.600 Yeah? 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.040 You do remember him dated a year and a half, 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:18.600 but that's a. 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.199 Good sign that you haven't forgot. 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:24.800 About Yeah, well, we don't know that. I will tell 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.400 you that we spoke to Evan a little bit. He 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.120 seemed like a really nice guy. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.439 Yeah yeah, I mean he was a really good guy. 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:36.400 Okay, and equally bad at trivia as you are. 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:39.679 That's actually funny. He would tell you that. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.360 We kind of went down memory lane a little bit 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.600 with him on some of the highlights and most love memories. 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:48.400 So do you guys think that's healthy? Like to have 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:51.199 him blurred out on the radio, like all the stuff 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:52.720 that happened before our breakup. 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:54.199 He's probably not the word. 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:58.040 We're not therapists, so we're not in any place to 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:01.000 determine what is healthy or not healthy. But we do 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:04.240 feel like there's a lot of feelings on Evan's side 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:07.640 that are unresolved, and the reason that he reached out 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.199 to us is he was wondering if maybe you might 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:13.960 be feeling any of those same feelings. And before you 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:17.920 even answer that, I should probably let you know that 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:22.360 Evan is actually here himself on the phone wanting to 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:23.280 talk to you directly. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:29.120 I mean, so I don't really have a choice, but okay, hi. 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:34.040 Evan, Hey, how you doing. 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:38.280 I don't know, to be honest with you, I'm just 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.280 confused and a little shocked. 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:46.640 I've been thinking about you. I miss you, and I'm honestly, 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:48.200 I'm sorry it had to be in the radio. 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:50.800 Yeah, that kind of sucks. I'm not gonna lie. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:52.600 We suck. 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.160 No offense taken on our side, Just so you know, 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:56.599 it's totally cool. It was. 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:59.000 I didn't mean to offend anybody it's. 0:13:58.880 --> 0:13:59.959 Okay, it's okay, we're joke. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:01.120 It's okay, we'll cry later. 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:03.720 Yeah, Evan hold of you. He said that maybe you 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:04.560 had blocked him. 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:07.760 I didn't block him. I just I just felt like 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:08.640 space was good. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:09.320 Okay. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:12.040 Well, Evan's told us that you've had more than a 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:15.080 few months of space during that time, and I'll let 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:17.719 you know. He did not feel sorry for himself at all. 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:20.280 In fact, he told us that he's learned to take 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:24.000 some situations more seriously. But I mean, he could probably 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:24.800 tell you better than me. 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:28.480 Evan, Well, I really want you to know that I've 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:33.800 done the work. I don't do armpit noises anymore. I 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:37.120 still think I'm funny, but I can be serious though, 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:40.360 and I think, no, I know you deserve a better 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:40.880 version of me. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.160 Well, that's really sweet. 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:47.800 I just wanted to let you know I might have 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:49.920 taken a few things before this called to relax me. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:54.000 Wait is that a joke? 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:56.680 No, No, it's not a joke. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.760 No wonder he's so even Keel, What do you take 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:04.960 if you have any recommendations? Are stressed in this studio 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:05.960 most of the day. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:11.840 Okay, I appreciate you, Evan being vulnerable. I really do, 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:17.880 so I probably want to be vulnerable with you them. Yeah, 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:21.360 there's something you should know about that night that you 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.800 proposed to me at karaoke. 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:26.440 Oh that doesn't sound ominous. 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:28.240 What are you talking about. 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:33.520 Well, when you started singing that song, it just triggered 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:37.440 something in me, something I never brought up to be 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:40.880 honest with you, but I actually stated one of the 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:47.920 guys from nickelback a long time ago, and it was weird. 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:53.480 But I couldn't have you propose with a song that 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:55.560 obviously reminded me of my ex. 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:00.520 This is how you funny. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:04.920 That's crazy, Evan. 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.200 You Evan, you and I have talked so many times. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.240 I mean, you believe in signs too, and that that 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:10.280 was a sign for me. 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.080 I don't think that's fair. That's not fair to Evan. 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:14.880 I mean, I know you think it's a sign, but 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.120 what if it's not. What if it's just a coincidence 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:17.280 in you? 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:19.880 I know, but it just all kind of flooded me 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.080 at the same time, you know, and I had been 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:23.920 going back and forth in my head, like what should 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:25.840 I do? Should I break this off? I wasn't really 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:29.160 expecting a proposal that night, and then when it happens. 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:34.120 I just shut down like a clam and yeah. Yeah, 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:34.760 so you think. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.760 A Nickelback guy that's cool? 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:39.440 Oh yeah you like that? 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:46.360 Yeah yeah, it's a real quick changing emotion there. We 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:49.520 are running out of time though here and again. The 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:51.560 reason that we do this segment called Say Yes to 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:53.720 the X is to find out if you would be 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.960 willing to, like, not even get back together with him, 0:16:57.320 --> 0:17:01.200 but just open up a future con station and meet 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.960 up to see if there's anything still left between you two. 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:07.360 I really like that. I don't think our story is over, 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.080 so I'd like to go out with you so you 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:10.040 can get to know the new me. 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:14.840 Yeah, let me look how chill he is. 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:18.080 I think it's a little weird for us to try again, 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:22.439 But I mean I can do coffee. Oh but you 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:26.919 have to ask the coffee shop please do not play Nickelback. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:30.919 I just I can't. 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.880 It's a weird request to go up to the barista 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:37.040 and be like, by the way, no Nickelback on their playlist. 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:40.080 This guy looks too much like Chad Kroger. We're going 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:41.399 to another coffee shop, okay. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.200 The bice is like, yeah, we got you covered. 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:47.280 Yeah, it sounds like she is saying maybe yes to 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:49.760 the ex Evan, how does that sound to you? 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:51.359 Sounds great? 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:51.960 Okay? 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:52.880 Right? 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:54.399