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Speaker 1: You got your Second Date podcast, and today we've got

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Speaker 1: a brand new say Yes to the X.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't do these too often, so I hope

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Speaker 3: Maybe a reason why we don't do them often, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday's second date really resonated with a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: That's the one where the girl had all the videos

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Speaker 1: of the falling kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she thought that was really funny. That was her humor. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was it. So what were people saying about it?

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Speaker 3: We got we can't judge her. If you're listening to

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Speaker 3: this show, you like people falling too, Yeah, yeah we are. Hey,

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Speaker 3: women need to be more direct. Why do you just

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Speaker 3: go up and ask for a guy's number? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe if there was a video of her falling,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love.

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Speaker 4: To have that in the chamber. Yeah, share with people like, oh,

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Speaker 4: by the way, here's me too.

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Speaker 3: But most everyone's on her side. Okay, what was funny?

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Speaker 1: After we finished the second date with her yesterday, jose

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Speaker 1: and I spent about ten minutes watching videos of kids falling.

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Speaker 3: It's so good, Like literally, there's an Instagram page.

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Speaker 4: It's easy to find. There's a seven Millie, You're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for sure, for sure. Well, hey, thanks for

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Speaker 3: your comments always. We love the discussions.

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Speaker 1: About these segments and keep them coming because we've got

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Speaker 1: your brand new Say Yes to the X starting right now.

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Speaker 2: When you look back on any failed relationship, there's always

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Speaker 2: gonna be things you wish you had done differently. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like listened better, or taking them on more dates, or

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Speaker 4: Trust me, we get it.

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Speaker 2: But for one of our listeners, there's one particular night

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Speaker 2: that he wishes he could do over because it ended

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Speaker 4: WHOA, we didn't cheat or.

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Speaker 2: Anything like that, But he does fully regret his choices

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Speaker 2: from that night, which is why he's asking for our

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Speaker 2: his life. It's a brand new Say Yes to the X,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna do it.

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Speaker 4: Next.

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Speaker 2: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and it's time

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Speaker 2: for another heart throttling edition of Say Yes to the X.

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Speaker 2: Help one of our listeners reach out to an old

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Speaker 2: fling to find out if maybe there's any residual flang

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Speaker 2: okay to wonder about your exes sometimes, Brook certainly does.

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Speaker 2: The question is will they want to reconcile with you

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Speaker 1: If you use that residual word, then it's going to

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Speaker 4: Everybody likes to be flung every once in a while.

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Speaker 2: And today we've got Evan on the phone hoping to

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Speaker 4: Evan, you got some flang you want to try reflinging?

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Speaker 5: Hey, yes, yes, I do.

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Speaker 3: Answer.

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Speaker 4: I like that answer.

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Speaker 2: So tell us who is this X and just tell

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Speaker 5: Well, it's my ex Abby.

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Speaker 4: Abby. You are you really sad?

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Speaker 3: I know I was gonna say, are you sad? Or

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Speaker 2: Can be I'm sad actually, Oh, Bud, what happened with

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Speaker 4: Tell us about your dynamic together?

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Speaker 5: Well? I really miss her. I thought she was the

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Speaker 3: WHOA wow, Yeah that's.

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Speaker 4: A tough feeling. Yeah, like you feel helpless.

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Speaker 3: How long did you date for?

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Speaker 5: Oh? We did about a year and a half. It

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I mean I get it, like it can feel

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Speaker 4: Oh, Brooks talking about her exes again.

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Speaker 3: Saying like it sucks. I get what you're going through.

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Speaker 1: I've definitely felt like I was totally in love with

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Speaker 2: You know, Brook you know I'm in the room right

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Speaker 2: This is kind of embarrassing for you.

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Speaker 2: We have a lot of downer vibes going on right now.

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Speaker 2: To tell us about some highlights from your relations with Abby.

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Speaker 4: What were the good times?

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Speaker 5: Like, Well, we met a couple of years ago at

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Speaker 5: I know, like we have so many things. We had

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Speaker 5: fun road trips, late night tackle bell runs, matching Halloween costumes.

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Speaker 4: Lot of history there.

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Speaker 2: And if you're just joining us, we're in the middle

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Speaker 2: listener Evan is on the phone with us. He got

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Speaker 2: broken up with it sounds like, yeah, it was a

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Speaker 2: relationship was like before the breakup, but let's get to

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Speaker 2: was there a specific thing that ended your relationship?

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Speaker 4: Like, tell us how that went down.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's so embarrassing, but I went to karaoke

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Speaker 4: So wait her, you were going to do a marriage proposal?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean I feel like a year and a

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Speaker 1: I mean, had you guys talked about marriage? Did she

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Speaker 5: I was like, we danced around it at times.

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Speaker 4: That's the issue, you know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so this was going to be a real surprise.

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Speaker 5: Right. I tried to sing Nickelback's how You Remind Me.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's where you went wrong?

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Speaker 2: Well that is that a special song between you two?

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Speaker 2: Is there some history to that?

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Speaker 5: No, but I changed the lyrics to make it sound

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out how that would go, this

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Speaker 1: Did she let you finished the whole song or did

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we don't mean to laugh about it. But I

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Speaker 5: I thought it would be fun. She woke up mortified.

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Speaker 1: You know, some people are really anti public proposals, like

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Speaker 3: Oh, were you able to chase after her? What happened?

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Speaker 5: Watch I'd call her and shin the voicemail. And the

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Speaker 5: next day she texts me breaking up. Oh, in this

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, but would you change that?

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Speaker 2: Has it changed in the past six months since you

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Speaker 5: Absolutely the past six months. I've done the work. I

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you backed away, but you still are you?

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Speaker 3: Maybe better timing?

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Speaker 5: Yeah right, I'm not over the top anymore.

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Speaker 1: I could see if that was something already bothering her,

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Speaker 1: and then you used a parody song to propose that

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Speaker 3: Gosh, what if we do a parody song to get

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Speaker 4: You can help.

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Speaker 3: You're listening to.

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Speaker 2: What she maybe she has grown over the past six

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Speaker 2: months to enjoy more of it, and you're gonna meet

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Speaker 4: Oh no, if he's not.

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Speaker 1: Funny enough, I don't think it's a lack of humor.

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Speaker 1: It's just the lack of sincerity. Maybe it sounds like

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Speaker 2: He sounds really sincere on the phone right now. Sure,

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Speaker 2: And has there been any effort on your part, Evan

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Speaker 5: Well, it seemed like she blocked me after a while.

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Speaker 5: And you guys, really are my last hope?

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Speaker 3: Are you just a little mad?

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Speaker 1: Like you're that far into a relationship, you're proposing and

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Speaker 5: You know, I felt that way in the beginning, But

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Speaker 5: then thinking back to it, there's probably signs that she

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I love a self aware man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a very mature statement, almost too mature

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Speaker 4: Know how this works.

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Speaker 2: Our producer was able to get your ex girlfriend Abby

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Speaker 2: on the phone. She is there right now. We told

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Speaker 2: talk to her. She just doesn't know that it's you yet, and.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't know the name of the segment either.

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Speaker 2: She hasn't heard any of this. When we come back,

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Speaker 3: Oh, she doesn't hang out on to a proposal this time, though.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's not my choice.

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna find out when we do say yes to

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Speaker 2: Right after this, we're in the middle of a very

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Speaker 2: special say Yes to the X.

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Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Don't laugh so

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Speaker 4: you can't play this song.

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Speaker 2: I sure can because we're trying to help out our listener.

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Speaker 2: Evan get in touch with his ex girlfriend Abby. And

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Speaker 2: this one's a little different than ones we've done before

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Speaker 2: because their breakup didn't happen over a petty fight or

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Speaker 2: from cheating allegations.

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Speaker 4: It happened while Evan was trying to.

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Speaker 2: Propose to her via Nickelback parody song Okay oh Man,

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Speaker 2: which didn't go the way Evan wanted. Instead, she stormed

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Speaker 2: out of that karaoke bar and straight out of their

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Speaker 3: The next morning, broke up with it a long text.

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Speaker 2: It's been six months since that night, and Evan has

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Speaker 2: been desperately trying to fix it. We are his last resort,

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Speaker 2: which always feels good when people.

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Speaker 4: Tell us that, I would you play Papa Roaches last

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Speaker 4: resort next?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And even though you got basically rejected for your proposal, Elevan,

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Speaker 2: I want you to know there is hope because Brook,

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Speaker 2: how many times did you say no to your husband

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Speaker 2: Michael's terrible proposals before you finally gave in and said yes?

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Speaker 3: You only asked once.

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Speaker 1: Listen, what I think that we need to concentrate on

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's big.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's what relationships are all about totally.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's the part we're He's.

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Speaker 3: No, just a better man.

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Speaker 4: That's what I said.

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Speaker 2: So, like you already know, Evan, your ex Abby is

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So.

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Speaker 1: If she has a bad reaction, don't feel hopeless. I

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Speaker 5: That, all right.

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Speaker 2: We get a lot of bad reactions when people find

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Speaker 2: So, okay, all right, try to keep your breathing a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't interrupt us, Abby, there.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Yeah, Hi, I'm here, he Abby.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for being on with us. Welcome to Brook and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so glad you decided to come on the show.

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Speaker 6: Thanks for having me. But I'm a little confused, like

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Speaker 6: why I'm here? Did I win something or no?

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna find out in just a second, because

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Speaker 2: this is a segment that we do where we try

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Speaker 2: and you have four hundred guesses to try and figure.

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Speaker 4: Out who that is.

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Speaker 3: Hot or colder?

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Speaker 6: Are you saying like a long lost.

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Speaker 2: Friend or I guess in a way in some ways

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Speaker 2: because we're talking about your recent past, only like six

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Speaker 1: He didn't lead with the title because the O is

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Speaker 6: Yeah, wow, this is awkward. Okay. So did Evan talk

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You do remember him dated a year and a half,

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Speaker 4: Good sign that you haven't forgot.

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Speaker 2: About Yeah, well, we don't know that. I will tell

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Speaker 2: you that we spoke to Evan a little bit. He

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, I mean he was a really good guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and equally bad at trivia as you are.

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Speaker 6: That's actually funny. He would tell you that.

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Speaker 1: We kind of went down memory lane a little bit

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Speaker 6: So do you guys think that's healthy? Like to have

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Speaker 3: He's probably not the word.

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Speaker 2: We're not therapists, so we're not in any place to

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Speaker 2: feel like there's a lot of feelings on Evan's side

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Speaker 6: I mean, so I don't really have a choice, but okay, hi.

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Speaker 5: Evan, Hey, how you doing.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, to be honest with you, I'm just

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Speaker 5: I've been thinking about you. I miss you, and I'm honestly,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry it had to be in the radio.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that kind of sucks. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: We suck.

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Speaker 2: No offense taken on our side, Just so you know,

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Speaker 2: it's totally cool. It was.

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Speaker 6: I didn't mean to offend anybody it's.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's okay, we're joke.

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Speaker 4: It's okay, we'll cry later.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Evan hold of you. He said that maybe you

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Speaker 6: I didn't block him. I just I just felt like

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, Evan's told us that you've had more than a

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Speaker 2: In fact, he told us that he's learned to take

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Speaker 5: Evan, Well, I really want you to know that I've

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Speaker 5: done the work. I don't do armpit noises anymore. I

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Speaker 5: still think I'm funny, but I can be serious though,

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Speaker 5: and I think, no, I know you deserve a better

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Speaker 6: Well, that's really sweet.

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to let you know I might have

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Speaker 3: Wait is that a joke?

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Speaker 5: No, No, it's not a joke.

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Speaker 2: No wonder he's so even Keel, What do you take

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Speaker 2: if you have any recommendations? Are stressed in this studio

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Speaker 6: Okay, I appreciate you, Evan being vulnerable. I really do,

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Speaker 6: so I probably want to be vulnerable with you them. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: there's something you should know about that night that you

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Speaker 6: proposed to me at karaoke.

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Speaker 4: Oh that doesn't sound ominous.

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Speaker 5: What are you talking about.

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Speaker 6: Well, when you started singing that song, it just triggered

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Speaker 6: But I couldn't have you propose with a song that

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Speaker 4: This is how you funny.

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Speaker 5: That's crazy, Evan.

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Speaker 6: You Evan, you and I have talked so many times.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you believe in signs too, and that that

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's fair. That's not fair to Evan.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know you think it's a sign, but

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Speaker 1: what if it's not. What if it's just a coincidence

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Speaker 6: I know, but it just all kind of flooded me

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Speaker 6: I do? Should I break this off? I wasn't really

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Speaker 6: I just shut down like a clam and yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: A Nickelback guy that's cool?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah you like that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, it's a real quick changing emotion there. We

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Speaker 5: I really like that. I don't think our story is over,

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Speaker 5: so I'd like to go out with you so you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me look how chill he is.

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Speaker 6: I think it's a little weird for us to try again,

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Speaker 6: But I mean I can do coffee. Oh but you

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Speaker 6: I just I can't.

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Speaker 2: It's a weird request to go up to the barista

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Speaker 2: and be like, by the way, no Nickelback on their playlist.

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Speaker 4: This guy looks too much like Chad Kroger. We're going

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Speaker 3: The bice is like, yeah, we got you covered.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like she is saying maybe yes to

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Speaker 2: the ex Evan, how does that sound to you?

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Speaker 5: Sounds great?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: We got the door cracked open?

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Speaker 6: Me was that I had.

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Speaker 5: A joke with you a little to a.

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Speaker 2: Minimum, please pit farting change yourself, bro, I gotta take

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Speaker 2: more medication for that, but you do it, bro.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if we can call that a

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Speaker 2: successful say yes to the.

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Speaker 3: X his little foot just in that door joke?

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 2: At least she would agree to a coffee meet up

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Speaker 2: with him, and all it took was him drugging himself

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Speaker 2: so he could completely change his personality and agree to

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Speaker 2: a Nickelback song ever again, Just don't be him, and

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Speaker 2: he's gonna have the greatest.

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Speaker 6: Life, you guys.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't saying don't ever make jokes. It's just better jokes.

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Speaker 1: I hate a ballance they niffle back, though there was

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Speaker 3: That sounded like it was pretty yes.

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Speaker 2: Bad luck and he chose that and she used to

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Speaker 2: date one of them. I mean, but who hasn't dated

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Speaker 2: somebody from Nickelback. We're all guilty of that, so raising.

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Speaker 1: Her handsome were multiple people from the band, so we

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Speaker 1: give everybody grace for that.

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Speaker 2: But if you ever want help getting back in touch

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Speaker 2: with an X or somebody who's just dating you, you

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Speaker 3: Just go to breakin Jeffrey dot com.