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Speaker 1: Second date updated. Is it ever a good idea to

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Speaker 1: talk about your other dates while you're on a date? No?

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't know if you're like commiserating and

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Speaker 2: sharing ten stories back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The

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Speaker 1: longer answer absolutely not. No. You plan to be on

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Speaker 1: with us because we love to hear the dirt And

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Speaker 1: I'm just thankful that Jennifer, our listener is on the

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Speaker 1: phone with us today because apparently she talked about her

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Speaker 1: other dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire

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Speaker 1: your class. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thank you you are.

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Speaker 2: It's not like you're talking about like her ex boyfriend

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Speaker 2: that she's still in love with, right, Jennifer.

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Speaker 1: We don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.

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Speaker 3: Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right, Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well who are you sharing these stories with? What's

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Speaker 1: this guy's name?

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Speaker 3: His name was Joshua?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I met him on the Coffee and Bagel app.

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Speaker 4: Oh is that still around a while?

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Speaker 1: Aile? I know about the Bengal and the candle app,

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Speaker 1: but the coffee Bengal Yeah, I like that one. Okay.

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Speaker 3: He just looked cute. He had like a a dog

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Speaker 3: with him in his photo. And okay, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, actually I've heard that guys who have dogs in

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Speaker 1: their photos get ninety percent more matches.

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Speaker 4: Way that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Even can I borrow your dog? Bro?

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Speaker 2: The whole point is that you can actually keep something

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Speaker 2: alive and care for something outside of yourself.

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Speaker 4: The attractive point of it.

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Speaker 1: Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if

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Speaker 1: it's your dog and how well it's taken care of,

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Speaker 1: as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna know after date one, yeah, or put a

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Speaker 2: little net brace.

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Speaker 1: On it like it is we're trying to do, is accomplished?

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Speaker 1: Sick dog?

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Speaker 2: Dog?

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Speaker 1: Sick the guy? Could you determine his dog health from

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Speaker 1: the photo?

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Speaker 3: Jennifer, It definitely looked like a healthy cute.

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Speaker 1: This is what you're talking about right here. I see

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. Okay, you take us to the date

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Speaker 1: with Joshua.

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Speaker 3: So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I

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Speaker 4: Is there a reason for that?

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Speaker 3: I just in particular, like I love food, I love.

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Speaker 1: That, And you're like, I have my favorites.

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Speaker 2: Let me pick the Yeah, you like the certain tables,

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Speaker 2: you like all the things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I called and made a reservation, but when

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Speaker 3: we got there they had lost our reservation. Oh no, no, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Did that like throw the night off? Did it make

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Speaker 3: I wasn't upset, Like they apologized, but they were just

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that sounds.

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Speaker 1: Like a popular restaurant.

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Speaker 4: I know there's only two of you.

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Speaker 2: It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere well, sill

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Speaker 2: at the end of somebody else's table, No big deal.

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Speaker 1: Literally make a table. Yes, eat in the alley back

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Speaker 4: Jeff, Absolutely, totally.

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Speaker 3: It totally turned out to be a good thing because

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Speaker 3: we ended up just wandering around the city and like

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Speaker 3: we ended up getting burgers at a takeout place and

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Speaker 3: just talking about our bad date experiences.

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Speaker 1: Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the

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Speaker 1: many bad date experiences that you've gone on.

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Speaker 3: No, this was just like a little bump in the

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Speaker 3: road compared to like one time this guy venmowed me

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Speaker 3: like two dollars and forty seven cents for half of

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Speaker 2: Oh my goshno requested you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, I was okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you shared stories like that with him? Did

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Speaker 4: Joshua did so.

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Speaker 3: He said he had like a date who brought her

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Speaker 2: Straight.

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Speaker 1: I actually think that's some nice feedback.

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Speaker 1: Me, you're slouching a little, so okay, now this is

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Speaker 1: a way to be like, you're actually way better than

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Speaker 3: Yes, like we were having a great time, just like

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Speaker 2: And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's

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Speaker 1: But this wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, but they're both commiserating over the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?

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Speaker 3: For like a couple hours? And neither of us had

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Speaker 2: It was you expected the date to go on longer,

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Speaker 2: Like did you want him to invite you back to

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's a bar or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool. You know, like

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Speaker 2: sometimes if you go out on top, you end it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore. So he did

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even

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Speaker 4: So I guess that is planet cold.

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're crazy. We're beyond the cool apartment. We just

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Speaker 1: want to help you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer,

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Speaker 1: maybe the burger was bad that he ate it wasn't

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Speaker 1: date update, our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of

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Speaker 1: when life gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't think I mean or well, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever it is. Because her dinner reservation fell through.

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Speaker 1: went even worse than this one, and her date Joshua

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Speaker 1: shared his worst dates too, so it really actually bonded

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Speaker 1: them together. But Jennifer, how long has it been since

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't

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Speaker 3: heard anything. No, And I've sent like some text messages

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you're definitely being ignored.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried sending him a photo? Because if he

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Speaker 1: What jack of anything?

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Speaker 4: Don't do that? Do that, don't listen to their advice.

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Speaker 1: You could send him a photo of me. No, if

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Speaker 1: to that. I think he's mad that she was talking

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Speaker 3: Him, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if she does and he doesn't respond,

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Speaker 4: Think she knows before the picture, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's not an idiot, Brooks saying we're not at

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Speaker 1: see where we end up today, Jennifer, any last words

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Speaker 2: Or any last pictures, so Jeff that you want to

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Speaker 3: I just can't believe I have to do this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the

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Speaker 1: last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being

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Speaker 1: in a weird mood, you want to call back tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: This may not be a good call.

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Speaker 3: Well, we'll see, we'll find out.

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Speaker 1: We're here. Let's just go through with it. How bad

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Speaker 1: could it get? All right, let's do it. You tell us.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you about some of the worst second date

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Speaker 1: updates we've ever done, and that'll make you feel better

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Speaker 1: about it. Hold on, just okay, here we go. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Joshua?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling

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Speaker 1: you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 4: Uh came in real hot there, josh How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: It's Joshua?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Sorry, I'm married to a Michael who hates Mike.

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Speaker 4: I get it. I apologize.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this

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Speaker 1: we get it. The real thing that we're interested in, though, Joshua,

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Speaker 1: other night with one of our listeners named Jennifer. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you remember her? You know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember her. Yeah, it sounds like you guys

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Speaker 1: Why do you know that?

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Speaker 3: Great question?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because that's how this segment works. It's called

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your date.

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Speaker 1: And she's a little bit confused about why she's not

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Speaker 3: Really, yeah, she said that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, she said that she had a great time

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Speaker 4: It sounds like you guys laugh together a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Is that not accurate?

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Speaker 2: No, it's accurate.

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Speaker 1: She's like a really nice person. She's cute and everything,

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Speaker 1: but you're yeah, your words are saying nice things, but

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Speaker 1: your tone is saying something else. Yeah, it's wasn't very good.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't think I know how to say this,

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Speaker 3: but I just don't think I'm the right person for her.

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Speaker 2: You know, uh uh, we don't know because she I mean,

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Speaker 2: you don't get to decide that, right, That's what she

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Speaker 2: a choice, that's her choice, right, and she obviously thinks

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Speaker 2: that there's definitely something in between you two if she's.

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Speaker 3: Calling us, yeah, definitely your choice.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Song is going on, Like can we get your take

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Speaker 3: I don't know, man, Like we're wanting different things. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you know what she's she's like into

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Speaker 3: what's called stacking.

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Speaker 4: Stacking the cup where you do it in competition.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the Anna Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we

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Speaker 1: don't know what that is. Yeah, what is stacking?

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Speaker 4: Were out with someone else. Right after me. That would

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Speaker 2: I could understand that, and that's why I took her

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Speaker 3: He was like looking back at it fondly, and it

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Speaker 2: Okay, I can totally understand that she's doing anything wrong,

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Speaker 4: Doesn't seem like she likes you a lot.

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Speaker 1: We kind of all see where you're coming from. I

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Speaker 4: That's just right after us. She's good at timing.

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Speaker 2: It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have

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Speaker 2: Well, because how could you ever like be invested enough

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Speaker 3: I hear you guys talk about this all the time

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Speaker 1: Contradictory to what your advice is, like you said, get

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Speaker 4: But I think dating lots of people is great.

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Speaker 2: It's just like, if you're gonna ask someone to give

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Speaker 1: Well said, you should have brought her presence, Dude.

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Speaker 3: I gave every guy I was with an hour and

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Speaker 1: I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.

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Speaker 4: She had a boyfriend after that for years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean that's how you see a Jennifer. But

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Speaker 1: clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, Joshua, I

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Speaker 3: I see it like that's your default setting.

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Speaker 1: I think the anomaly is you having a long term relationship,

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Speaker 3: That we're looking for the same things. That's what I want.

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Speaker 3: That's is something that's in the past. And by no

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Speaker 4: Because she said not makes me think she did.

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Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, not that night, but the next five nights.

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Speaker 1: That's different.

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to be on my side.

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Speaker 4: You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,

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Speaker 3: I got the I'm sorry. I can't fix that, Okay, Joshua,

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Speaker 2: No to me's Oh god, that's not true anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice. Whatever. I'll just keep stacking.

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Speaker 1: Wait the weekend, you didn't want to do that anymore?

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Speaker 3: All right, Well it makes me happy, it's fun. I'm

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's where true happiness comes from, looking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning. All right, So no second date there. Jennifer

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Speaker 2: I know you're looking at me, jeff I'm fault. She's like,

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Speaker 2: I just really missdating lots of men at the same night.

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Speaker 4: Maybe no one would feel special.

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Speaker 1: That, but you understand where she's coming from, right, Brooks.

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Speaker 4: I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,

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Speaker 4: I could not pull that off.

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Speaker 1: Remembered to tell us how good of a liar she was, Brooke.

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Speaker 1: Unstackable is the definition one at a time. Fox Goodness

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Speaker 1: is we've got dozens of guys on the textboard who

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Speaker 1: are DT yes and down to stack whenever. So Jennifer,

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Speaker 1: you stay positive. Yeah, yeah, we don't know. That means

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Speaker 1: that's weird. It'll happen for you, jen And if you're

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Speaker 1: into stacking videos, you can always watch a bunch of

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Speaker 1: ours on YouTube. Got all of our second date updates

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Speaker 1: on there. You can like, share, and subscribe all of

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Speaker 1: it at brook and Jeffrey