WEBVTT - Episode 85: Ft. Trey Songz 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.800 Alright, what's up? It's lip service. This is gonna be 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:06.840 a fun one because we have a lip service veteran 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:10.639 here with us. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:14.480 g g McGuire. What's up? Trey songs are there finally, 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:16.079 and you know people have been requesting you, like why 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:18.000 won't Jay songs? But we wanted to wait till it 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.360 was the right time. Yeah, I think it's the right time. 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:23.480 And we know you're looking for love. Now you're made 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:27.920 to playboy what he's looking for love. So that's why 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:30.760 we're actually gonna start up with the tip of the day, 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.599 all right, and we're gonna give a tip. What can 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:34.960 a woman do to stand out? Like, what are some 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.360 things that a woman can do for you? Because it's 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:41.520 times that you've settled down somewhat. What have those women 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:44.760 done that have made them stand out from the rest? Ah, 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.640 that's a good question. Actually, what can a woman do 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:49.199 to stand out in a way whereas though she makes me, 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:51.880 she gets my attention to the point where I'm settling 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:54.920 down with her kicking it in that way, it's just 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:58.080 being attentive, you know what I mean, Paying attention to details, 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:01.240 which is different to talking. By the way, it's not 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.640 on my social media paying mad attention to everything, right, No, 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.840 it's definitely different than that. It's it's just paying attention 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:11.039 to you know. And I'm moving a lot, like I'm 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:13.679 working a lot, and it's a lot of things going on, 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.320 and it takes I think a special kind of woman 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:22.039 to understand, uh that every time you're moving around, you're 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:25.160 not getting into some ship, you know what I mean. So, uh, 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.480 a woman that's just there for your needs. Like you know, 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:29.240 I'll do a lot for a lot of people in 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:32.520 my relationships. I do a lot for the woman I'm with, 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.400 So I just need somebody to do a lot for me. 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:38.199 Like even if that's just making sure I'm fit, making sure, 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:40.920 you know what I mean, like popping up somewhere where 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:44.360 you know I might need you to be popping up now, 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:49.240 popping up Its cool, we've like I'm not saying pop up, 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.080 like you know what I mean. But if it's a 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.400 special day for me and you and I'm trying to 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.640 get you there and you you you're working or whatever, uh, 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:58.880 and you make time for what I need you to 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:01.400 be there for. Like, but I like a woman that 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.600 has a schedule that needs to be averted from you 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:04.680 know what I mean. I don't like a woman that 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:08.160 can just pop up and go anywhere anytime. Okay, that 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:11.160 makes sense. What do you say, Stephanie? What makes somebody 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.600 stand out for you? What makes a guy stand out 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.400 for me? While like I'm I'm the type of woman 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.360 I don't reach out. I'm not the type of person 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:21.520 to a call or a text. So a guy, you know, 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:26.200 being attentive and like really reaching out and looking for 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.440 me and always you know, keeping up. That was That's 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.480 what sticks out for me. That's where I always I'm 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.400 the befalling Thanks Tray. When you say attention to detail, like, 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.280 what are some details about you that a woman that 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:42.359 pays attention to you would know? Uh? When? Um, when 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:46.799 I'm exhausted, but I'm still going when I need a break? 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:50.399 Is it like in the bedroom he's talking I'm talking 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:56.080 about in life tonight, talking about when you when you 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.560 need a break and you need like you need just 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:06.280 what up? Boy? Kane is here, but inter you can't 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:12.840 gonna be in and out all day. But maybe gifts 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.760 for the dog for Kane helps? No, that definitely helps 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:21.320 y You want to watch Kane can always you want 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:25.000 to clean up Kane ship. We got people for that. 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:31.079 Just like like step said, attention to detail most definitely, 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.720 like just uh like don't be a knack but and 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.240 don't be mad. And I think in this day and 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:39.080 age like of texting and people, you know, being so 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:43.600 easily reachable, uh inattainable, Like people get upset when you 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.840 don't hit them back quick. I need somebody that's not 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.480 on that that somebody like you hit me back because 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:51.160 you know, like I remember when you had to call 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:55.840 somebody like you appreciate phone calls. Okay, you appreciate phone call, dude, 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:58.960 Like I think the art of conversing and having real 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:02.160 conversations and not better than because it's so passive. You 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:05.600 could retext wrongs. You can. Uh, it's so passive as well. 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.200 You could do whatever why you type, But when you're 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:08.840 talking to somebody, you got to give them a certain 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.240 money of your attention and a certain amount of detail. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:12.640 I always feel like that that's how you know a 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.960 guy really likes you when he actually will pick up 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.360 the phone and call you want to talk, like FaceTime 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.840 from rocking with you on face something you like we're 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:22.200 in the studio and facetithing you know what I mean, Like, well, 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:25.400 I'm doing vocals, Like but if if I'm rocking with you, 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:28.240 I want you a part of my day. Now, what 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.719 if a woman gets like too familiar with your friends? 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:36.200 Oh yeah, sorry that question. She's about to say something. No, 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:40.640 I'm not. What I'm gonna say is that I'm a 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:51.840 person that man, by the way, Jesus newly single, so 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.800 she am new kind of rules. I don't have the rules, 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.000 but I'm just one of them type of people that 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.400 chemistry is everything for me, and I like the person 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:03.760 that is genuine and that's themselves and it's not trying 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:05.240 too hard to be what they think I might want 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:06.920 them to be or think I might like. How can 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:09.159 you tell the difference? You can feel that you know 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:13.120 when it's real. So some guys are good actors. Some 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:18.120 guys are really good actors too. They I'll tell you anything, 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:20.200 to tell you anything, just to just to get what 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.159 I want. I think that's uh, it's corn. Yeah, I 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:30.360 think that's been out here. That's what everybody of course. 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.080 But I've never been I've never been wanting to get 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.920 like play like that either, because I like that's why 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.360 the Tremaine the playboydy thing was so like you already 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.080 think I would do that. That's on y'all, you know 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.320 what I mean, Like that's you never got played, Like 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:45.239 not of course anybody been played, but in the context 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.640 of continuously getting played the same way, like, that's not 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:51.240 something that happened, you know what I mean. My my 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:55.719 thought process is, you know, if you if you see 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.680 and spend enough time with the person, you know what 0:05:57.680 --> 0:05:59.840 they're into you for, you know what I mean. And 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:03.839 if you take the time to really assess yourself and 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:08.000 assess the situation of any relationship, business, relationship, friendship, whatever, 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:11.039 you you can gauge what somebody wants from you, and 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.440 you have good intuitions, you could gauge what you want 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.279 to give them. Because any relationship is for the benefits, 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:28.800 for the benefit of two people. It's over very much. 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:32.560 So g what can the guy do to stand out 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:38.840 for you now that you're single. I was laughing at 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:42.680 the door, sorr, okay, bad, Yeah, just just keeping it 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.080 one hunted and being genuine. It's a lot of you know, 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.600 loyalty is vintage. In the words of my friend Brooklyn 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:49.920 Carter and it's a lot of just like fiitness going 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.039 on these days. And I'm a very real person and 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.280 I'm always be genuine and give you one hunted. So 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:57.000 what if things like I got a girl, but I 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.800 still want to sucking. I still like you are you 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:08.479 cool with that? I'm off that to my thing is 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:12.880 like and it's tough though, it's tough for me, like 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:17.080 to get a situation where that's I feel that's uh 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.240 enough for me to start a famine all that because 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:22.240 and this day and there's like women will sacrifice what 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:26.440 they what they want in life, what they accustomed to 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.040 because of who I am or what status I have, 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:32.400 Like I tell the truth and all my relationships, like 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.720 it's it's hard for me to stay what's the truth. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:36.640 The truth is, it's hard. It's hard for me to 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.160 be with one Woman's hard for me to while I'm 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.800 moving around everywhere I go, like and to be to 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.680 be consistently lower to one person. What if you had 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:47.800 a kid though, that really might change? No, But that's 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.640 why I haven't had a random child. That's why I 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.120 don't have children because I haven't found the person that 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.480 I think and I think that was you're looking to 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.800 settle down and had The thing is Tremaine, the playboys 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:00.720 are sending them for my life. Like, if you really 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:04.720 pay attention, you see that in it's only been the 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:07.800 first episode in the first video, but you see the 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.520 love interest being in. That's a consistent thing in my life, 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:13.840 whether it be one woman for two years, for three years. 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.120 And I never been one to put my relationships on 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:19.440 for the greater evolution of my career, Like you don't 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:21.000 know who I really been kicking it with, Like it's 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.240 rumors about this and that, but I never put my 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.200 relationships out there for a greater game because I want 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:31.240 a real relationship. But truth be told, the tremainean playboy 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.840 is that's what it is for me. Like if I leave, 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:36.040 that's what you said, Well, it's not more dudes in 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.000 the party, because it don't be nobody in the party 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:41.959 be me and twenty girls, Like it'd be like that. Yeah, 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:52.120 it is like when you're young and put I gotta 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.480 make it two thousand five? Could you deal with the 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:57.600 women who doesn't like other women? What you say? I 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.520 mean those the relationships I end up in, But like 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.079 I probably need a woman that like other women, but 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:04.440 I ain't gonna take her home to my mama, Like 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.640 this the type of ship I think about, you know 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.839 what I mean, Like I like women that like women, 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:10.480 But I'm not gonna take that home and be like 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.600 I'm about to marry her because we'd be having three 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:15.480 somethings and going crazy. She do what I wanted to 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.160 do even though that ain't what she want to do, 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:21.320 and ten years later she'll be mad. That's why why 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:25.280 isn't that women do that? We know women will have 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.439 a threesome because they know it's what their guy wants, 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.760 even if they're not really into it or if they're not. 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:31.520 Because you want to be the one you want to 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:34.240 do whatever. And that's what I'm saying. That's why it's hard. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:37.160 That's why it's hard for me who really want a relationship. 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:40.080 At least I say that. My actions don't show that. 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:45.920 So when you look at the opportunity for a man 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.840 to be with a woman who will be with women 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:49.840 even though she don't want to be with women, like 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.880 I'm not I'm not gonna do that. I could do 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:55.320 that I've never liked. Did that put a woman in 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:58.400 that situation where I'm like, we're gonna go like I 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.559 have three somes all the time. Pick a girl you like, 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:02.120 like I have girls that I kick it with like that, 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:04.560 But I never made a woman my woman that we've 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:07.560 done the type of things with because later that bill resentment. 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:09.400 Why is it so hard for you to set it 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:12.079 down if it's it seems like you wanted it seems 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.559 like you want no, no, because the difference between what 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.559 I want and what everybody have. But I don't want 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.680 a thing that I just showed the world I got 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.920 for a year, like I'm kicking with like like I said, 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:23.360 I wanted something real, Like I'm not gonna kick it 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:25.320 with somebody just because it's good for me or it 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.400 looked good for the moment, or you need to be 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:30.319 my girlfriend from now or and I have had girlfriends, 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.480 like I had a relationship that you don't know shit 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:34.640 about because I don't like sharing my life with the world. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:39.840 So why didn't it work out? Because one half of 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:41.680 that is because I don't like sharing my life with 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.480 the world. Because the ways of the world today, Like 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:44.920 you got a girl and you don't show it to 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:50.560 the world appreciate like it's tricky, Like why you don't 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:53.320 want to show me off? Because you got this chill, 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:56.200 this you you're there with this girl. It ain't that 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.120 it's because you got to protect something in order for 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.880 it to become something. You can something. Who's the gage 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.440 how long that time period is. But if you with 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.720 somebody and you really love and appreciate that, you have 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:10.000 to protect that before you let people opinions and voices 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.880 in on that. I totally agree with that when you 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.960 talk like that, because you know, we know each other person. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:16.800 When you talk like that, I think of one relationship 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.760 that I know of that I know that the world 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:20.960 don't know about, and I know that you really was 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:22.360 in love with this girl, and I know that you 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:25.199 really had good feelings for this girl. And so I 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.080 kind of think took back to that when you just 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:29.240 sit here and talk about you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:33.360 most it's just like I feel like today's world, it's 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:38.280 it's all about you know, your your your social appearances 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.800 like currency. It's like money, you know what I mean, 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:45.240 And people treat their relationships like uh, like endorsement deals 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:49.240 like this advertisement, you know what I mean. I'm gonna ADM. 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.720 I'm gonna do this for us because she got me hot, 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:53.520 I got her hot. We're gonna do this for as 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:55.040 long as it's cool, and I'm gonna go get another 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.920 one six months. I ain't that nigger like I'm I'm 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:00.360 I'm trade songs because of me. I know, relations ship, 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:04.600 not no publicity stunts. Nothing is that hard, though, because 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:07.120 your fans get upset, like when you get in a relationship. 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:11.240 Sometimes some of them are happy they're all his women. 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.360 I live my life for me like I give my 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:18.120 life to the fans, but I lived my life for me. 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.720 And when I say I protect the relationship by way 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:23.840 of not posting this so that it's not so my 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:27.440 fans don't get mad, it's it's really so I'm protecting 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:31.320 my woman and what we have so we can learn 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.880 to understand one another. So when the bullshit do come, 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:37.560 we got such a strong foundation, it don't matter what 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:40.080 the fans say. A fan gonna promote that love because 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:41.920 they're gonna see its genuine. They're gonna see y'all work 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:43.559 hard for that. But let's talk about you man the 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:51.280 playboy for a second, and what kind of women? What 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:55.439 kind of woman would Tremaine like to settle down with? All? Right? 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:00.839 Zero followers are ten million followers. Uh, definitely want the girl. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:04.840 Don't nobody knows if I could get it. Uh. I think, 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.920 like I said, like, I'm so you would rather have 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:11.120 somebody that no one knows? Damn right, I think that, man, 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.000 would you think so? I think so? I think so. 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.880 I think that. I'm telling you, I'm not like these niggas. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:20.920 These niggas be in these relationships for people. Man, No, 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:23.600 but that's because they want something else in life. That's 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:26.240 because they're not looking for the genuineness. And you, as 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:29.800 a body, shouldn't even matter either way that simillion followers 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:32.240 or two followers, It shouldn't matter. It shouldn't make a difference, 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:35.560 shouldn't it. It shouldn't make a difference. It shouldn't make 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:37.920 a difference being with somebody whether they're famous or not 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:43.439 many damn followers. I mean, it shouldn't be about that, 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:45.679 you know, it shouldn't just be about that, Like, oh, 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:51.000 I'm gonna as possible, I would will pick somebody low 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:53.520 key over somebody high key. But let's be real, somebody 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.600 local'll never see like I for real, now come on me, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:59.679 Like I didn't have a lot of flings one night 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:02.120 off with like people, I would never even name, Like 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:05.480 your fame matters not to me, Like if I care 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.440 about fame, I would be out here on the blogs. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:10.360 Do you be worried to talk about you know, I 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:12.760 don't like what if a girl you really mess with, 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.959 that's like, yeah, you know what songs she probably did, 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:19.920 but she would that bother you though, I mean it's 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:23.720 been done before. The thing. Man, I've been doing this 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:27.520 so long, like just making music and going on to 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:31.920 and having women around me and you know, having success. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:33.880 It's all like you know what to do, how to 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:36.920 move if something happens, something happened, you get through it. 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:41.280 Somebody talks, somebody talk, but I don't. I ain't a 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:48.200 guy that really uh uh present myself like you fuln't me? Right? 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:50.640 All right, you don't gonna look at me like a killer? 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:58.840 Now all right? School teacher, are about a waitress. Both 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.880 you try to pick out. You gotta pick one daytime, nights, 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:06.480 everything else, everything else. That's two jobs. Got to be 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:10.040 the rose got to be the same shift, school teacher, 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:14.920 abottle waitress, which one? What time is it? Six pm? 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.520 This is a relationship, relations relationship, everything else, the same 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:22.280 school teachers. Okay, al right, she knows all the NFL 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:24.480 players and she knows sports, or she don't watch sports 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:26.680 at all, because you know you watch ESPN all day. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:31.280 She knows sports. But if funk with my head because 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:36.920 you know on the NFL player, you know the contract 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:42.840 for the college, like for real, it's a great conversation, 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.760 you know this, But she would prefer that you do 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:50.360 know all the players. What if like y'all in the 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:53.880 club and she's giving everybody pounds and hugs all the 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:56.480 football players, no, no, no, but she's not because she's 0:15:56.880 --> 0:16:01.960 no no, no, no no no. The club and the club. 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:04.720 You gotta do the most to speak to somebody, all right, 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:09.040 that's true, you go dinner like you know what I mean? 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:12.960 But what if you in the club and then so 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.680 be speaking niggas? For real? Why not you're gonna speak 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:19.120 to women? I'm not. If we're all in the club, 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:21.160 you're gonna say hi to that. But I mean, it 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:23.600 depends on your business orientation, what our relationship is, and 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:25.440 what you're doing. Why are you speaking to these people? 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:28.680 I will say that. Okay, she can't be like, Okay, 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:30.920 we know I used to work as an assistant at right. 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:32.720 We gotta have that's what. That's the type of stuff 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:34.800 I'm talking about. You gotta learn and build to grow 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.680 before you go places and let people know because if 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.040 that's what you used to do, I should know that 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:44.240 before we in that situation. We shouldn't get into that situation. 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.800 And then it's explained in the car, she's like, oh, 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:48.320 you know, my homegirl used to mess with him, so 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.760 I know him and all his boys. You're not speaking 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:58.320 of that speaking to him for whatever you lose, don't 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:02.000 go speaking to you can say hi when I'm out 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:08.879 with a guy. I don't even care. Yeah, there's so 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.080 many people I do. But I mean, look what I do. 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:13.120 I know a lot of people lovely do what you do. 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:15.440 But if you as my girl, you still wouldn't be speaking. 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:19.400 Come on, now, that's rude. I can't speak when I said, 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:21.160 but if we just kicking it, like if they're coming 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:22.720 and speaking to you and they say it's up to 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:25.239 me and you and that's in that way. But if 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.360 you're going out your way like what it's like, man, 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.280 you with that trade? Come on now, no, but nobody 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:38.119 wants a guy. That's why you're not speaking to That's 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:46.440 the that's terrible. We do want to tell you that 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:48.320 the guy said that and you didn't hear it. I 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:52.080 want to know everything. See now, that might cause some 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:57.919 problems in the clubs about your temperament. It's that's for 0:17:57.960 --> 0:17:59.560 me to know. It ain't for me to act on, 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:01.400 but it's for me to know. I don't know you're 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:06.919 tempering my act on that. I'm coming down. If you 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:09.040 were the guy and another guy is talking about him 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:12.639 like say you would, you would? And then if you 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:14.320 feel that he texts you, he texts you, why are 0:18:14.320 --> 0:18:16.320 you with that punk? But that's the thing. If you, 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.880 if you, if you, if you do the one that's 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:20.720 holding down that spot, you know what to do with 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.159 that information. And you know, you know my temperament. You 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:25.640 know where Matt, if you should tell me that now, 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:27.920 if you should tell me that, wouldn't you be mad 0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:33.480 if she didn't tell you right away? Like you, he 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:34.840 was going to react And I don't want to ruin 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:37.360 the night. So I'm gonna just week until you understand 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:40.080 that nothing. Some men might act like they're like, oh yeah, 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.000 let me tell you what boy said. Fun boy boy. 0:18:43.040 --> 0:18:45.760 He's a fun boy boy because you're talking about my nigga. Now, 0:18:45.760 --> 0:18:47.720 what if you was with a woman in the club 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.080 and another chick texts you like, oh you with that whole? 0:18:50.560 --> 0:18:53.119 You know she sucked out? Would you ask her about it? 0:18:53.119 --> 0:18:55.440 And would you tell her? Somebody else said that, hold 0:18:55.440 --> 0:18:58.320 on what you're in the cloud with a female and 0:18:58.359 --> 0:19:00.800 another woman text you like, oh it a little layer 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:03.240 on that drink? Oh you with this bitch? Well, you 0:19:03.280 --> 0:19:06.040 know she ran the train on her. I can't believe 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:08.840 you with this whole? Would you tell her? Damn she 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:12.399 got the train. I don't even meet, you know, people 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:16.359 to say anything. It might not even be people definitely 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:20.480 say everything. But you ask what, girl, you had a 0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:30.040 train right on you? Okay, you can tell me. I 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:32.720 would choke on my drink. Would you tell her though 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:34.320 that you know this girl said you had a train 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:35.919 ran on you. I just got to ask for my 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:39.560 own personal It is the same thing, like you don't 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:41.240 bring that all right there, but you would bring it 0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:43.359 up later. You gotta have a conversation. But I think 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.600 it should be. I think it should you should be 0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:48.159 able to talk about anything. I wonder if I'm dating 0:19:48.160 --> 0:19:50.480 somebody and I'm with them in the club and somebody texts, me, 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:52.280 oh my god, you're with this person. They did X, 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:54.120 Y and Z and oh my god, this I'm going 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:57.159 to show the person I'm worth the text. That's what 0:19:57.200 --> 0:20:01.600 I'm gonna do, right, ship all kind of problems. Yeah, 0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:04.040 I'm gonna be like, look with this person said, would 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:06.040 you believe? But that's the person I'm with. Man, I 0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:07.960 ain't even in all that, you know what I mean? 0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:10.879 Like I get bullshit all day long, Like half of 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:14.200 everything I read I don't even believe, right, So you 0:20:14.240 --> 0:20:16.000 would take it with a green salt, Like, yeah, I'll 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:18.760 take everything with a grand of salt. Because everybody got 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:21.720 the agenda. Everybody got something they want to say about 0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:24.440 this person that person for the great game. You just 0:20:24.480 --> 0:20:30.320 gotta I'd be appalled by the ship people believe. I'm appalled, 0:20:30.760 --> 0:20:35.840 really really baffled, like just out here really like believe 0:20:35.880 --> 0:20:38.480 in anything anybody say without a shred of credit evidence 0:20:38.480 --> 0:20:41.720 of anything. So very true. People could say anything or 0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:48.520 write anything or whatever. They everybody and it's not even 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:51.239 really it's not even real comments and attend you think 0:20:51.240 --> 0:20:53.480 about the people that's in comments, and that's right, and 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:55.359 like it's passive. It's not how they really feel. They 0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:57.600 don't really give a funk. Like they're gonna do that, 0:20:57.600 --> 0:20:59.560 They're gonna keep going with their life. Like that's just 0:21:00.160 --> 0:21:02.920