Speaker 1: Alright, what's up? It's lip service. This is gonna be
Speaker 1: a fun one because we have a lip service veteran
Speaker 1: here with us. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm
Speaker 1: g g McGuire. What's up? Trey songs are there finally,
Speaker 1: and you know people have been requesting you, like why
Speaker 1: won't Jay songs? But we wanted to wait till it
Speaker 1: was the right time. Yeah, I think it's the right time.
Speaker 1: And we know you're looking for love. Now you're made
Speaker 1: to playboy what he's looking for love. So that's why
Speaker 1: we're actually gonna start up with the tip of the day,
Speaker 1: all right, and we're gonna give a tip. What can
Speaker 1: a woman do to stand out? Like, what are some
Speaker 1: things that a woman can do for you? Because it's
Speaker 1: times that you've settled down somewhat. What have those women
Speaker 1: done that have made them stand out from the rest? Ah,
Speaker 1: that's a good question. Actually, what can a woman do
Speaker 1: to stand out in a way whereas though she makes me,
Speaker 1: she gets my attention to the point where I'm settling
Speaker 1: down with her kicking it in that way, it's just
Speaker 1: being attentive, you know what I mean, Paying attention to details,
Speaker 1: which is different to talking. By the way, it's not
Speaker 1: on my social media paying mad attention to everything, right, No,
Speaker 1: it's definitely different than that. It's it's just paying attention
Speaker 1: to you know. And I'm moving a lot, like I'm
Speaker 1: working a lot, and it's a lot of things going on,
Speaker 1: and it takes I think a special kind of woman
Speaker 1: to understand, uh that every time you're moving around, you're
Speaker 1: not getting into some ship, you know what I mean. So, uh,
Speaker 1: a woman that's just there for your needs. Like you know,
Speaker 1: I'll do a lot for a lot of people in
Speaker 1: my relationships. I do a lot for the woman I'm with,
Speaker 1: So I just need somebody to do a lot for me.
Speaker 1: Like even if that's just making sure I'm fit, making sure,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like popping up somewhere where
Speaker 1: you know I might need you to be popping up now,
Speaker 1: popping up Its cool, we've like I'm not saying pop up,
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean. But if it's a
Speaker 1: special day for me and you and I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get you there and you you you're working or whatever, uh,
Speaker 1: and you make time for what I need you to
Speaker 1: be there for. Like, but I like a woman that
Speaker 1: has a schedule that needs to be averted from you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't like a woman that
Speaker 1: can just pop up and go anywhere anytime. Okay, that
Speaker 1: makes sense. What do you say, Stephanie? What makes somebody
Speaker 1: stand out for you? What makes a guy stand out
Speaker 1: for me? While like I'm I'm the type of woman
Speaker 1: I don't reach out. I'm not the type of person
Speaker 1: to a call or a text. So a guy, you know,
Speaker 1: being attentive and like really reaching out and looking for
Speaker 1: me and always you know, keeping up. That was That's
Speaker 1: what sticks out for me. That's where I always I'm
Speaker 1: the befalling Thanks Tray. When you say attention to detail, like,
Speaker 1: what are some details about you that a woman that
Speaker 1: pays attention to you would know? Uh? When? Um, when
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted, but I'm still going when I need a break?
Speaker 1: Is it like in the bedroom he's talking I'm talking
Speaker 1: about in life tonight, talking about when you when you
Speaker 1: need a break and you need like you need just
Speaker 1: what up? Boy? Kane is here, but inter you can't
Speaker 1: gonna be in and out all day. But maybe gifts
Speaker 1: for the dog for Kane helps? No, that definitely helps
Speaker 1: y You want to watch Kane can always you want
Speaker 1: to clean up Kane ship. We got people for that.
Speaker 1: Just like like step said, attention to detail most definitely,
Speaker 1: like just uh like don't be a knack but and
Speaker 1: don't be mad. And I think in this day and
Speaker 1: age like of texting and people, you know, being so
Speaker 1: easily reachable, uh inattainable, Like people get upset when you
Speaker 1: don't hit them back quick. I need somebody that's not
Speaker 1: on that that somebody like you hit me back because
Speaker 1: you know, like I remember when you had to call
Speaker 1: somebody like you appreciate phone calls. Okay, you appreciate phone call, dude,
Speaker 1: Like I think the art of conversing and having real
Speaker 1: conversations and not better than because it's so passive. You
Speaker 1: could retext wrongs. You can. Uh, it's so passive as well.
Speaker 1: You could do whatever why you type, But when you're
Speaker 1: talking to somebody, you got to give them a certain
Speaker 1: money of your attention and a certain amount of detail.
Speaker 1: I always feel like that that's how you know a
Speaker 1: guy really likes you when he actually will pick up
Speaker 1: the phone and call you want to talk, like FaceTime
Speaker 1: from rocking with you on face something you like we're
Speaker 1: in the studio and facetithing you know what I mean, Like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm doing vocals, Like but if if I'm rocking with you,
Speaker 1: I want you a part of my day. Now, what
Speaker 1: if a woman gets like too familiar with your friends?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry that question. She's about to say something. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not. What I'm gonna say is that I'm a
Speaker 1: person that man, by the way, Jesus newly single, so
Speaker 1: she am new kind of rules. I don't have the rules,
Speaker 1: but I'm just one of them type of people that
Speaker 1: chemistry is everything for me, and I like the person
Speaker 1: that is genuine and that's themselves and it's not trying
Speaker 1: too hard to be what they think I might want
Speaker 1: them to be or think I might like. How can
Speaker 1: you tell the difference? You can feel that you know
Speaker 1: when it's real. So some guys are good actors. Some
Speaker 1: guys are really good actors too. They I'll tell you anything,
Speaker 1: to tell you anything, just to just to get what
Speaker 1: I want. I think that's uh, it's corn. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that's been out here. That's what everybody of course.
Speaker 1: But I've never been I've never been wanting to get
Speaker 1: like play like that either, because I like that's why
Speaker 1: the Tremaine the playboydy thing was so like you already
Speaker 1: think I would do that. That's on y'all, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like that's you never got played, Like
Speaker 1: not of course anybody been played, but in the context
Speaker 1: of continuously getting played the same way, like, that's not
Speaker 1: something that happened, you know what I mean. My my
Speaker 1: thought process is, you know, if you if you see
Speaker 1: and spend enough time with the person, you know what
Speaker 1: they're into you for, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: if you take the time to really assess yourself and
Speaker 1: assess the situation of any relationship, business, relationship, friendship, whatever,
Speaker 1: you you can gauge what somebody wants from you, and
Speaker 1: you have good intuitions, you could gauge what you want
Speaker 1: to give them. Because any relationship is for the benefits,
Speaker 1: for the benefit of two people. It's over very much.
Speaker 1: So g what can the guy do to stand out
Speaker 1: for you now that you're single. I was laughing at
Speaker 1: the door, sorr, okay, bad, Yeah, just just keeping it
Speaker 1: one hunted and being genuine. It's a lot of you know,
Speaker 1: loyalty is vintage. In the words of my friend Brooklyn
Speaker 1: Carter and it's a lot of just like fiitness going
Speaker 1: on these days. And I'm a very real person and
Speaker 1: I'm always be genuine and give you one hunted. So
Speaker 1: what if things like I got a girl, but I
Speaker 1: still want to sucking. I still like you are you
Speaker 1: cool with that? I'm off that to my thing is
Speaker 1: like and it's tough though, it's tough for me, like
Speaker 1: to get a situation where that's I feel that's uh
Speaker 1: enough for me to start a famine all that because
Speaker 1: and this day and there's like women will sacrifice what
Speaker 1: they what they want in life, what they accustomed to
Speaker 1: because of who I am or what status I have,
Speaker 1: Like I tell the truth and all my relationships, like
Speaker 1: it's it's hard for me to stay what's the truth.
Speaker 1: The truth is, it's hard. It's hard for me to
Speaker 1: be with one Woman's hard for me to while I'm
Speaker 1: moving around everywhere I go, like and to be to
Speaker 1: be consistently lower to one person. What if you had
Speaker 1: a kid though, that really might change? No, But that's
Speaker 1: why I haven't had a random child. That's why I
Speaker 1: don't have children because I haven't found the person that
Speaker 1: I think and I think that was you're looking to
Speaker 1: settle down and had The thing is Tremaine, the playboys
Speaker 1: are sending them for my life. Like, if you really
Speaker 1: pay attention, you see that in it's only been the
Speaker 1: first episode in the first video, but you see the
Speaker 1: love interest being in. That's a consistent thing in my life,
Speaker 1: whether it be one woman for two years, for three years.
Speaker 1: And I never been one to put my relationships on
Speaker 1: for the greater evolution of my career, Like you don't
Speaker 1: know who I really been kicking it with, Like it's
Speaker 1: rumors about this and that, but I never put my
Speaker 1: relationships out there for a greater game because I want
Speaker 1: a real relationship. But truth be told, the tremainean playboy
Speaker 1: is that's what it is for me. Like if I leave,
Speaker 1: that's what you said, Well, it's not more dudes in
Speaker 1: the party, because it don't be nobody in the party
Speaker 1: be me and twenty girls, Like it'd be like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is like when you're young and put I gotta
Speaker 1: make it two thousand five? Could you deal with the
Speaker 1: women who doesn't like other women? What you say? I
Speaker 1: mean those the relationships I end up in, But like
Speaker 1: I probably need a woman that like other women, but
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna take her home to my mama, Like
Speaker 1: this the type of ship I think about, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I like women that like women,
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna take that home and be like
Speaker 1: I'm about to marry her because we'd be having three
Speaker 1: somethings and going crazy. She do what I wanted to
Speaker 1: do even though that ain't what she want to do,
Speaker 1: and ten years later she'll be mad. That's why why
Speaker 1: isn't that women do that? We know women will have
Speaker 1: a threesome because they know it's what their guy wants,
Speaker 1: even if they're not really into it or if they're not.
Speaker 1: Because you want to be the one you want to
Speaker 1: do whatever. And that's what I'm saying. That's why it's hard.
Speaker 1: That's why it's hard for me who really want a relationship.
Speaker 1: At least I say that. My actions don't show that.
Speaker 1: So when you look at the opportunity for a man
Speaker 1: to be with a woman who will be with women
Speaker 1: even though she don't want to be with women, like
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna do that. I could do
Speaker 1: that I've never liked. Did that put a woman in
Speaker 1: that situation where I'm like, we're gonna go like I
Speaker 1: have three somes all the time. Pick a girl you like,
Speaker 1: like I have girls that I kick it with like that,
Speaker 1: But I never made a woman my woman that we've
Speaker 1: done the type of things with because later that bill resentment.
Speaker 1: Why is it so hard for you to set it
Speaker 1: down if it's it seems like you wanted it seems
Speaker 1: like you want no, no, because the difference between what
Speaker 1: I want and what everybody have. But I don't want
Speaker 1: a thing that I just showed the world I got
Speaker 1: for a year, like I'm kicking with like like I said,
Speaker 1: I wanted something real, Like I'm not gonna kick it
Speaker 1: with somebody just because it's good for me or it
Speaker 1: looked good for the moment, or you need to be
Speaker 1: my girlfriend from now or and I have had girlfriends,
Speaker 1: like I had a relationship that you don't know shit
Speaker 1: about because I don't like sharing my life with the world.
Speaker 1: So why didn't it work out? Because one half of
Speaker 1: that is because I don't like sharing my life with
Speaker 1: the world. Because the ways of the world today, Like
Speaker 1: you got a girl and you don't show it to
Speaker 1: the world appreciate like it's tricky, Like why you don't
Speaker 1: want to show me off? Because you got this chill,
Speaker 1: this you you're there with this girl. It ain't that
Speaker 1: it's because you got to protect something in order for
Speaker 1: it to become something. You can something. Who's the gage
Speaker 1: how long that time period is. But if you with
Speaker 1: somebody and you really love and appreciate that, you have
Speaker 1: to protect that before you let people opinions and voices
Speaker 1: in on that. I totally agree with that when you
Speaker 1: talk like that, because you know, we know each other person.
Speaker 1: When you talk like that, I think of one relationship
Speaker 1: that I know of that I know that the world
Speaker 1: don't know about, and I know that you really was
Speaker 1: in love with this girl, and I know that you
Speaker 1: really had good feelings for this girl. And so I
Speaker 1: kind of think took back to that when you just
Speaker 1: sit here and talk about you know what I'm talking about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: most it's just like I feel like today's world, it's
Speaker 1: it's all about you know, your your your social appearances
Speaker 1: like currency. It's like money, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: And people treat their relationships like uh, like endorsement deals
Speaker 1: like this advertisement, you know what I mean. I'm gonna ADM.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this for us because she got me hot,
Speaker 1: I got her hot. We're gonna do this for as
Speaker 1: long as it's cool, and I'm gonna go get another
Speaker 1: one six months. I ain't that nigger like I'm I'm
Speaker 1: I'm trade songs because of me. I know, relations ship,
Speaker 1: not no publicity stunts. Nothing is that hard, though, because
Speaker 1: your fans get upset, like when you get in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Sometimes some of them are happy they're all his women.
Speaker 1: I live my life for me like I give my
Speaker 1: life to the fans, but I lived my life for me.
Speaker 1: And when I say I protect the relationship by way
Speaker 1: of not posting this so that it's not so my
Speaker 1: fans don't get mad, it's it's really so I'm protecting
Speaker 1: my woman and what we have so we can learn
Speaker 1: to understand one another. So when the bullshit do come,
Speaker 1: we got such a strong foundation, it don't matter what
Speaker 1: the fans say. A fan gonna promote that love because
Speaker 1: they're gonna see its genuine. They're gonna see y'all work
Speaker 1: hard for that. But let's talk about you man the
Speaker 1: playboy for a second, and what kind of women? What
Speaker 1: kind of woman would Tremaine like to settle down with? All? Right?
Speaker 1: Zero followers are ten million followers. Uh, definitely want the girl.
Speaker 1: Don't nobody knows if I could get it. Uh. I think,
Speaker 1: like I said, like, I'm so you would rather have
Speaker 1: somebody that no one knows? Damn right, I think that, man,
Speaker 1: would you think so? I think so? I think so.
Speaker 1: I think that. I'm telling you, I'm not like these niggas.
Speaker 1: These niggas be in these relationships for people. Man, No,
Speaker 1: but that's because they want something else in life. That's
Speaker 1: because they're not looking for the genuineness. And you, as
Speaker 1: a body, shouldn't even matter either way that simillion followers
Speaker 1: or two followers, It shouldn't matter. It shouldn't make a difference,
Speaker 1: shouldn't it. It shouldn't make a difference. It shouldn't make
Speaker 1: a difference being with somebody whether they're famous or not
Speaker 1: many damn followers. I mean, it shouldn't be about that,
Speaker 1: you know, it shouldn't just be about that, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna as possible, I would will pick somebody low
Speaker 1: key over somebody high key. But let's be real, somebody
Speaker 1: local'll never see like I for real, now come on me,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't have a lot of flings one night
Speaker 1: off with like people, I would never even name, Like
Speaker 1: your fame matters not to me, Like if I care
Speaker 1: about fame, I would be out here on the blogs.
Speaker 1: Do you be worried to talk about you know, I
Speaker 1: don't like what if a girl you really mess with,
Speaker 1: that's like, yeah, you know what songs she probably did,
Speaker 1: but she would that bother you though, I mean it's
Speaker 1: been done before. The thing. Man, I've been doing this
Speaker 1: so long, like just making music and going on to
Speaker 1: and having women around me and you know, having success.
Speaker 1: It's all like you know what to do, how to
Speaker 1: move if something happens, something happened, you get through it.
Speaker 1: Somebody talks, somebody talk, but I don't. I ain't a
Speaker 1: guy that really uh uh present myself like you fuln't me? Right?
Speaker 1: All right, you don't gonna look at me like a killer?
Speaker 1: Now all right? School teacher, are about a waitress. Both
Speaker 1: you try to pick out. You gotta pick one daytime, nights,
Speaker 1: everything else, everything else. That's two jobs. Got to be
Speaker 1: the rose got to be the same shift, school teacher,
Speaker 1: abottle waitress, which one? What time is it? Six pm?
Speaker 1: This is a relationship, relations relationship, everything else, the same
Speaker 1: school teachers. Okay, al right, she knows all the NFL
Speaker 1: players and she knows sports, or she don't watch sports
Speaker 1: at all, because you know you watch ESPN all day.
Speaker 1: She knows sports. But if funk with my head because
Speaker 1: you know on the NFL player, you know the contract
Speaker 1: for the college, like for real, it's a great conversation,
Speaker 1: you know this, But she would prefer that you do
Speaker 1: know all the players. What if like y'all in the
Speaker 1: club and she's giving everybody pounds and hugs all the
Speaker 1: football players, no, no, no, but she's not because she's
Speaker 1: no no, no, no no no. The club and the club.
Speaker 1: You gotta do the most to speak to somebody, all right,
Speaker 1: that's true, you go dinner like you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: But what if you in the club and then so
Speaker 1: be speaking niggas? For real? Why not you're gonna speak
Speaker 1: to women? I'm not. If we're all in the club,
Speaker 1: you're gonna say hi to that. But I mean, it
Speaker 1: depends on your business orientation, what our relationship is, and
Speaker 1: what you're doing. Why are you speaking to these people?
Speaker 1: I will say that. Okay, she can't be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we know I used to work as an assistant at right.
Speaker 1: We gotta have that's what. That's the type of stuff
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. You gotta learn and build to grow
Speaker 1: before you go places and let people know because if
Speaker 1: that's what you used to do, I should know that
Speaker 1: before we in that situation. We shouldn't get into that situation.
Speaker 1: And then it's explained in the car, she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, my homegirl used to mess with him, so
Speaker 1: I know him and all his boys. You're not speaking
Speaker 1: of that speaking to him for whatever you lose, don't
Speaker 1: go speaking to you can say hi when I'm out
Speaker 1: with a guy. I don't even care. Yeah, there's so
Speaker 1: many people I do. But I mean, look what I do.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people lovely do what you do.
Speaker 1: But if you as my girl, you still wouldn't be speaking.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, that's rude. I can't speak when I said,
Speaker 1: but if we just kicking it, like if they're coming
Speaker 1: and speaking to you and they say it's up to
Speaker 1: me and you and that's in that way. But if
Speaker 1: you're going out your way like what it's like, man,
Speaker 1: you with that trade? Come on now, no, but nobody
Speaker 1: wants a guy. That's why you're not speaking to That's
Speaker 1: the that's terrible. We do want to tell you that
Speaker 1: the guy said that and you didn't hear it. I
Speaker 1: want to know everything. See now, that might cause some
Speaker 1: problems in the clubs about your temperament. It's that's for
Speaker 1: me to know. It ain't for me to act on,
Speaker 1: but it's for me to know. I don't know you're
Speaker 1: tempering my act on that. I'm coming down. If you
Speaker 1: were the guy and another guy is talking about him
Speaker 1: like say you would, you would? And then if you
Speaker 1: feel that he texts you, he texts you, why are
Speaker 1: you with that punk? But that's the thing. If you,
Speaker 1: if you, if you, if you do the one that's
Speaker 1: holding down that spot, you know what to do with
Speaker 1: that information. And you know, you know my temperament. You
Speaker 1: know where Matt, if you should tell me that now,
Speaker 1: if you should tell me that, wouldn't you be mad
Speaker 1: if she didn't tell you right away? Like you, he
Speaker 1: was going to react And I don't want to ruin
Speaker 1: the night. So I'm gonna just week until you understand
Speaker 1: that nothing. Some men might act like they're like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let me tell you what boy said. Fun boy boy.
Speaker 1: He's a fun boy boy because you're talking about my nigga. Now,
Speaker 1: what if you was with a woman in the club
Speaker 1: and another chick texts you like, oh you with that whole?
Speaker 1: You know she sucked out? Would you ask her about it?
Speaker 1: And would you tell her? Somebody else said that, hold
Speaker 1: on what you're in the cloud with a female and
Speaker 1: another woman text you like, oh it a little layer
Speaker 1: on that drink? Oh you with this bitch? Well, you
Speaker 1: know she ran the train on her. I can't believe
Speaker 1: you with this whole? Would you tell her? Damn she
Speaker 1: got the train. I don't even meet, you know, people
Speaker 1: to say anything. It might not even be people definitely
Speaker 1: say everything. But you ask what, girl, you had a
Speaker 1: train right on you? Okay, you can tell me. I
Speaker 1: would choke on my drink. Would you tell her though
Speaker 1: that you know this girl said you had a train
Speaker 1: ran on you. I just got to ask for my
Speaker 1: own personal It is the same thing, like you don't
Speaker 1: bring that all right there, but you would bring it
Speaker 1: up later. You gotta have a conversation. But I think
Speaker 1: it should be. I think it should you should be
Speaker 1: able to talk about anything. I wonder if I'm dating
Speaker 1: somebody and I'm with them in the club and somebody texts, me,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're with this person. They did X,
Speaker 1: Y and Z and oh my god, this I'm going
Speaker 1: to show the person I'm worth the text. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, right, ship all kind of problems. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, look with this person said, would
Speaker 1: you believe? But that's the person I'm with. Man, I
Speaker 1: ain't even in all that, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like I get bullshit all day long, Like half of
Speaker 1: everything I read I don't even believe, right, So you
Speaker 1: would take it with a green salt, Like, yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: take everything with a grand of salt. Because everybody got
Speaker 1: the agenda. Everybody got something they want to say about
Speaker 1: this person that person for the great game. You just
Speaker 1: gotta I'd be appalled by the ship people believe. I'm appalled,
Speaker 1: really really baffled, like just out here really like believe
Speaker 1: in anything anybody say without a shred of credit evidence
Speaker 1: of anything. So very true. People could say anything or
Speaker 1: write anything or whatever. They everybody and it's not even
Speaker 1: really it's not even real comments and attend you think
Speaker 1: about the people that's in comments, and that's right, and
Speaker 1: like it's passive. It's not how they really feel. They
Speaker 1: don't really give a funk. Like they're gonna do that,
Speaker 1: They're gonna keep going with their life. Like that's just
Speaker 1: like and that really affect people, like affect people mindset
Speaker 1: what people say about them, and they come you gotta
Speaker 1: understand that life is living and breathing, walking, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's not being on your phone and
Speaker 1: giving a funk about what strangers say, Like even though
Speaker 1: I'm an entertainer, like I'm not gonna live my life
Speaker 1: out of kinds of what people say I should be
Speaker 1: doing or I'm not gonna believe that. And because I
Speaker 1: think it's a blessing that because I've been lied on it,
Speaker 1: because it's been missing that told or said about me
Speaker 1: in so many situations where people that are really knowing
Speaker 1: close to me come to me like yo, what's wrong
Speaker 1: with you? Like what is wrong with you? Like for real,
Speaker 1: Like it's a blessing that have been in the situations.
Speaker 1: So I look at other people and and give people
Speaker 1: the benefit of the document whenever anything is being said,
Speaker 1: did you ever think you had a baby on the way? No,
Speaker 1: you never had a girl? Be like I'm pregnant, No,
Speaker 1: what's up? I take the test, But having a baby
Speaker 1: that you're scared of it. But like no has ever
Speaker 1: called you and been like the four paternity test, I
Speaker 1: ain't never had no baby. Damn they want that baby back.
Speaker 1: Three paternity test from people I've never met. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: because once they put it out there to the courts,
Speaker 1: even if you never had sex with that person, never
Speaker 1: met them in your life. What four months ago they
Speaker 1: said I had a baby coming. The account was deleted
Speaker 1: a week later, nobody post that post that I had
Speaker 1: a baby coming. But then Motherer disappear and nothing post
Speaker 1: on his face. I don't even know him. It was
Speaker 1: a fake page. And then it all everything got deleted
Speaker 1: in the pay the girl. And that's the thing about it,
Speaker 1: like negative attention will always get more attention than anything
Speaker 1: like that when the story gets when the story gets rectified,
Speaker 1: when the correct version of it comes out, that nobody
Speaker 1: gets posted, it's always what they initially happened. They only
Speaker 1: want to see the train rent right, Well that's a
Speaker 1: damn shame all right. Now, let's see um drinks or
Speaker 1: doesn't drink at all? Which woman would you rather drinks? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you got that sex, you need some drinks flowing
Speaker 1: right like a little drink. Have you ever dated somebody
Speaker 1: that doesn't drink, not dated somebody that stopped drinking for
Speaker 1: a while, but not doesn't drink unless're pregnant on the way. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could date somebody that doesn't drink. No,
Speaker 1: you could, but you're right, I don't think I could either.
Speaker 1: I like to drink. I like because how boring is
Speaker 1: it to not be able to go out for a drink? Yeah,
Speaker 1: at least definitely drink. Sometimes. I drink. Sometimes I drink
Speaker 1: when I want to fuck drink. I stopped drinking, but
Speaker 1: she's I drink when I want to funk, though, because
Speaker 1: I like to get fun when i'm drunk. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: she stopped drinking like a year ago. But that's interesting
Speaker 1: that you only rink what you want to suck. No, seriously,
Speaker 1: I drink when I go out on dates, that's it.
Speaker 1: Or when I'm stressed out, when when I want the
Speaker 1: person that i'm dating to think that I'm getting sucked.
Speaker 1: Talking to the Mike Train, I definitely. I think the
Speaker 1: psychiatrist I would say that that's because you, you know,
Speaker 1: using something to avert what should distract yourself or what
Speaker 1: you're doing. She's ashamed of having psychiatrists would say that
Speaker 1: I don't need to do it amplify your experience or
Speaker 1: does it numb you? Um, it kind of numbs my throat,
Speaker 1: so yeah, it numbers me. I need to have a drink.
Speaker 1: I can definitely take take a tack better than my
Speaker 1: throat when I'm drinking. She's talking crazy. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: you're talking about it. So I'm talking about that like
Speaker 1: they got like some candy that numbr throat. But that's
Speaker 1: gonna make the guys take numbnaint. No, don't know, it's
Speaker 1: not sex. The an't eat ship. You can only so
Speaker 1: much you can only use. That's why you use the
Speaker 1: k while jelly with THEE throughout the water base one,
Speaker 1: because then you can use as much of it as
Speaker 1: you want in it to go right in and he
Speaker 1: won't have to. I mean, I don't know, no numbness.
Speaker 1: I don't need need to be I don't need to
Speaker 1: drink to have I might having I like having sex.
Speaker 1: I like having sex. I'm sober too. I love have
Speaker 1: you ever had sex? I like to have your head sex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're not drunk, I could. I could take a
Speaker 1: dick in my throat when i'm so, so it's just
Speaker 1: better when I'm drunk. Okay, It's a better way of
Speaker 1: putting it. Stuff, it's a better way of explaining the
Speaker 1: situation at hand. You have to choose between sober dick
Speaker 1: sucking and drunk dick sucking. What do you pick? Um? Um,
Speaker 1: sober because I look prettier, You might the drunk to Yeah,
Speaker 1: I might. Would you let somebody say you let somebody
Speaker 1: film you though? Because you care about how you look? What?
Speaker 1: I let somebody film me? Win? Like second, dick, is
Speaker 1: it okay a drunk sober if that's how I'm feeling, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's okay. We can feel it. But he could keep
Speaker 1: it on his phone? Um? Yeah, sure, I mean if that,
Speaker 1: if I like him like that, if I trust him,
Speaker 1: so there might be like, uh to your detriment, What
Speaker 1: do you mean said he could keep it on the phone,
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean I could. I could count
Speaker 1: on one hand how many guys have me filmed? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And I trust hand, no hand,
Speaker 1: not even the hand you could count it. I would
Speaker 1: probably say maybe three or four guys I'll be filmed.
Speaker 1: You know. I don't let anybody feelm me. You don't
Speaker 1: think about it, like Dan, what if I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: the guys that have filmed me, the guys that probably
Speaker 1: can go on their phone and look at a video
Speaker 1: of me, I've known them for a long time. Like
Speaker 1: I know that they're not gonna put a sex tape
Speaker 1: at them or somebody could hack their phone. It might
Speaker 1: even be a better you know, Like it wouldn't be
Speaker 1: good for for me. It wouldn't be good for me,
Speaker 1: and it wouldn't be good for them. So A really
Speaker 1: worried about it. They have a situation. I mean, not
Speaker 1: not that they have a situation. Nobody wants to have
Speaker 1: their I mean nobody really wants everybody, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Because if you're dick popping, you don't mind
Speaker 1: if it they ain't that that popping. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't think I've ever filmed with somebody that dick wasn't popping.
Speaker 1: Like if the dick is popping, like they're a I'm
Speaker 1: pretty much down for whatever, you know, if we get
Speaker 1: that far. Just jeez, you said somebody has you like, yeah,
Speaker 1: mix and you used to we used to film OI
Speaker 1: ship nostalgic. But you don't think that he would put
Speaker 1: that out. He would he's not that type of person,
Speaker 1: Thank god. He don't want to put his own stuff
Speaker 1: out there, so he would never put me out there. Like,
Speaker 1: so it's good what I'm saying, Like, that's a good strategy.
Speaker 1: People don't want to put them. He's a very person,
Speaker 1: he's very like, I don't want to blow his own
Speaker 1: spot up. So if I ever make a videos for me, like,
Speaker 1: I know a lot of it. We got a lot
Speaker 1: of that, do a lot of it's two ones that
Speaker 1: I wish I had. Just right, I'm straight freak. So
Speaker 1: I don't make a video and look at it later.
Speaker 1: That's what I do. Right, would you let a girl
Speaker 1: make a video of you know, I ain't did that yet?
Speaker 1: Like I make the video, I might let you see it.
Speaker 1: You can see it, but you can't say you can't
Speaker 1: have it. You can see. But what about like when
Speaker 1: you're serious, she can't she can't film a little something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if I'm serious, Okay, so there might be some trade
Speaker 1: songs videos out there. You still can see it's on
Speaker 1: my phone. Oh so she has to make it out
Speaker 1: your phone. That's whack. I'm about this business man. Anybody
Speaker 1: gonna suck my money and poke my place up, but
Speaker 1: it might actually increase, right, But that ain't what I
Speaker 1: want to do that. I want to do exposure about it.
Speaker 1: If people want that. I don't gonna say nobody want that.
Speaker 1: My thing is if I'm gonna do that, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do that. Nobody's gonna have an opportunity to do that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tak my own right tomorrow, I'm stroking on camera, mall,
Speaker 1: I forgot. So what are the things that you say
Speaker 1: in the bedroom? A you're talking about that, Well, you
Speaker 1: can't talk about it. It's nice, don't sound it. It's
Speaker 1: not inside you, like I gotta for you to hear.
Speaker 1: So you don't know. So you don't want people to
Speaker 1: know your go to lines. I just want you it's
Speaker 1: not it's not genuine if you just say it right now,
Speaker 1: it's not actually go to lines. I think the lines
Speaker 1: go with the person that you're sleep on, right. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying there's certain things that you always like, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: like everybody says daddy, right, everybody calls everybody daddy. No,
Speaker 1: I don't say daddy either because if they really have kids,
Speaker 1: it's like weird, a little overrated, like daddy. Now like oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I say, my daughters go on the morning daddy, daddy, Daddy,
Speaker 1: Daddy is just so like the norm. It is so normal,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I like when guys act like
Speaker 1: real bitchy when they come, Like when they when they
Speaker 1: come and they're like, I have an ex used to
Speaker 1: yell my name? Are you talking about scream my name?
Speaker 1: I think that's great. You know he used to scream
Speaker 1: my name, Like scream my name. Yo. I think the
Speaker 1: guys and make a lot of noise when they come.
Speaker 1: I think that's good something coming you said, you said,
Speaker 1: you know a lot of tell it. Listen. Guys are
Speaker 1: very vulnerable when they come. I think that's a great time.
Speaker 1: They'd be like in the fetal position, don't see. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If I was a psychologist, I would say,
Speaker 1: you have problems that you want inferious, that's not infirm
Speaker 1: when they come, and then they should fall asleep. I'm
Speaker 1: like you like they do, have they biterress about it
Speaker 1: or not. I like when a guy when I'm sucking,
Speaker 1: you know, his feet are like you know, like like
Speaker 1: curl that you know. I like that he's like tapping
Speaker 1: his to be like oh like me. No, that's terrible,
Speaker 1: that's awful. I like for when a guy comes from
Speaker 1: to sound like a man, like what's the man? Sounds
Speaker 1: like like a like a you know, like a man.
Speaker 1: It's terrible, but you know what I mean, because I
Speaker 1: think it's bad when guys don't make any noise when
Speaker 1: they come, like the nigga is coming silence, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't silence. Yeah, really don't come in silence. He
Speaker 1: had to come correct, let us know, like, come on,
Speaker 1: I don't come at all, come fast? Are you an
Speaker 1: noisy comer? I think it happened. Sound when you come?
Speaker 1: Can you make the sound? It made me? Come? Get
Speaker 1: somebody giving my hand job? When the next time you
Speaker 1: had a hand job, train hands. When I had a
Speaker 1: hand job, you just gave a handshot last week? What
Speaker 1: I did just a handso yeah, what what what? What? Hold?
Speaker 1: I can't? I did? I did? I didn't have it
Speaker 1: hand jobs? And so long for real? You give me
Speaker 1: your hand job. You you don't kiss, you don't suck
Speaker 1: something week, don't have your mouth been on it, head
Speaker 1: down there close to it. But I don't leave my
Speaker 1: ship alone. Man. That's kind of well, he loved it
Speaker 1: you cut your but I was this close to it,
Speaker 1: and just man, he thought it was your mouth. He's listen, well,
Speaker 1: y'all must have an understanding about your teasing, and that's
Speaker 1: the way y'all get down. But you play with me
Speaker 1: like that. The next day he told me he thought
Speaker 1: he had the pussy. It felt so good, he said.
Speaker 1: It turns out it was just the last ya y'all guys,
Speaker 1: you gotta be situation was the technique. I'm telling y'all. See,
Speaker 1: that's the thing about a woman. Woman could get a square,
Speaker 1: lock him up real quick like that never had a
Speaker 1: woman could get a guy to buy and mash it
Speaker 1: and never suck them. That's definitely mean. I'm the queen
Speaker 1: of that. But I feel bad taking step from somebody
Speaker 1: that I have no intention of ever. Part about feeling
Speaker 1: bad is the part that you've already accepted it, so
Speaker 1: then you feel bad afterwards. That's why I gave him
Speaker 1: the hand job, because I accepted the head, and then
Speaker 1: I felt bad after I came so good, I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: they I gotta do st just got to stop out here, man,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. My pussy with his boots on
Speaker 1: everything fully closed. He had on Tim's of what kind
Speaker 1: of boots was a Martin. That's what I'm saying, y'all
Speaker 1: got the game fucked up about his niggas all fucked
Speaker 1: up niggas doing whatever. And I'm an R and B singer,
Speaker 1: Like for real, I'm supposed to be the cat that's
Speaker 1: okay with all that, But y'all the game fucked up. Man.
Speaker 1: You think you're a different type of R and B
Speaker 1: singer though you were nigga? Like what happened? Since we're
Speaker 1: talking about the game, you know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: got the game being up, so until you started buying presents.
Speaker 1: I was watching um this whole Cameron Jim Jones thing right,
Speaker 1: and Cameron was talking about Jim Jones and like kind
Speaker 1: of had their little falling out started. And it was
Speaker 1: because he was making fun of him when he said it.
Speaker 1: Dating Christie, he said, after two or three weeks he
Speaker 1: was buying her mad gifts and he didn't know they
Speaker 1: were going to end up together, so he said he felt,
Speaker 1: I think about anybody perception of what you do for
Speaker 1: anybody else, what fucked that in any situation? Not for
Speaker 1: you buying reasons for a woman right, is that something
Speaker 1: that can happen? Like, really, I'm not gonna happen whenever
Speaker 1: it happened, like depending on the feeling you feel like,
Speaker 1: I think nothing should be constrained to this or that
Speaker 1: emotional this or that time, and depending on what. Because
Speaker 1: when two people meet two new people like Jimmy and Crazy,
Speaker 1: they still together after three weeks and need buying ship.
Speaker 1: Now how many years you know what I'm saying, So
Speaker 1: you can never determine what's gonna be what? So I
Speaker 1: think people living a life for other people is a
Speaker 1: basis of this conversation. And now, but Valentine's, they haven't
Speaker 1: just passed though. Let's say you were dating somebody for
Speaker 1: like two or three weeks or so, you have several girls,
Speaker 1: Do they all get a gift? Yeah? See me and
Speaker 1: one hun Flowers, we got this thing. Okay, you will
Speaker 1: get a promo item from from Tremaine. But if I'm
Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm dealing with you and I'm serious
Speaker 1: about you, if I care about you, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: sure you feel appreciated on on a regular basis. So
Speaker 1: Valentine's they just back. Now, how often when you start
Speaker 1: dating somebody said y'all keep in contact. Like let's just say,
Speaker 1: y'all meet and she's hitting you up every day? Is
Speaker 1: that okay? Should she do that or should she kind
Speaker 1: of like trying to be like, Okay, I hit him yesterday,
Speaker 1: so let me just wait, think man, Like, I think
Speaker 1: it's all dependent upon who that is and who you're
Speaker 1: clicking with. Like, I don't think you could say that
Speaker 1: for everybody, like you know what I mean, because you
Speaker 1: don't want to be annoying, but then you don't want
Speaker 1: to like make them feel like you're not interested. I
Speaker 1: think you could tell on reciprocity what you're getting back,
Speaker 1: especially as a woman, if you reach it out. And
Speaker 1: you know, I don't feel like a woman that in
Speaker 1: any case should be the one like thirsty for attention.
Speaker 1: Uh you know. And that's hard for me too because
Speaker 1: I don't like to give attention because in a new situation,
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. I don't know what
Speaker 1: that turned into. I don't know if and today's day
Speaker 1: and ay is just corny to like express how much
Speaker 1: you did somebody like then you thirsty, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, I think a woman should be sought after.
Speaker 1: I think a woman should be pursued a man. I agree,
Speaker 1: but we know that I am right. Pursue me, no,
Speaker 1: because if to me, you'll never hear from me like
Speaker 1: you have it. So if you're smart, you pursue stuff
Speaker 1: you take on a day, she's gonna drink get ye, No,
Speaker 1: not like that. Yes, you said it wrong. I mean
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, when I go on dates with new guys,
Speaker 1: it's my number one rule not to drink when I
Speaker 1: go on dates because that might get Yeah, when I'm drink,
Speaker 1: that's true, I regret when I'm drunk. So that's my
Speaker 1: number one back to. If you do it like the psychiatrist,
Speaker 1: I think you're drinking to number emotion and do things
Speaker 1: you really don't osion to. That's what I'm saying. She's
Speaker 1: coming to you. I appreciate you. Yeah, all right, now,
Speaker 1: when is it time to stop thatting? This is a
Speaker 1: question that the ladies were talking about earlier. When do
Speaker 1: you say, Okay, it's time for me to start being
Speaker 1: out here like this, It's time to settle down. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like you've come to that time yet? I mean,
Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I've come to that time. Like
Speaker 1: I said earlier in the interview. I feel like I've
Speaker 1: come to that place mentally, but in my actions, I'm
Speaker 1: still doing a lot of the same ship I don't
Speaker 1: want to do. How are you doing something that you
Speaker 1: don't want to do? Though? Come on now, I mean
Speaker 1: that's life. That's like I did it, but I sucked it.
Speaker 1: But I don't really just like the circumstances that he's
Speaker 1: oh ya, look who just texted me here? And dr?
Speaker 1: Do you ever feel like you have to like women
Speaker 1: just because I mean anything about it? It ain't about
Speaker 1: what I have to do for real. A lot of times, uh,
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like, man, do you expected like lip service?
Speaker 1: What was it? Two thirs? Like you put that expected you?
Speaker 1: I was talking about how I was out here doing
Speaker 1: I was doing. You know what I'm saying. I've been
Speaker 1: having to hold up my reputation since then. I said
Speaker 1: I have been a sex Did you did say that?
Speaker 1: And a lot of little stories flowing around about trade
Speaker 1: songs in the bad room that you have to live
Speaker 1: up to those expectations songs. I don't know about your stories,
Speaker 1: but so much, I mean stuff online and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: Heirl was talking about, I didn't see some things that
Speaker 1: I didn't seen some things, and the expectation bar is high.
Speaker 1: It's a little bit different for me over here. Those
Speaker 1: I said, I said, I didn't hurt the stories, but
Speaker 1: I also didn't seen something. So it's a little different
Speaker 1: from me over here. Jesus, we used living the same,
Speaker 1: you know. We lived like my sister like to anybody
Speaker 1: really watching, it's like a system. Her daughters, like my niece,
Speaker 1: like literally, so in Atlanta we lived together. Like so
Speaker 1: you've seen some ship, you know. I literally pop popcorn
Speaker 1: and watching my home girl like it was. You watched
Speaker 1: him do it, and he went downstairs and pop popcorn
Speaker 1: and came in the room and watched something. How was
Speaker 1: he doing? He did a great job. He did a
Speaker 1: great job. I didn't know you was gonna see. I mean,
Speaker 1: Jesus's a lot of time ago. And she used to
Speaker 1: bring she said, take that dick, point take that dick.
Speaker 1: N't you back and point your toes? So you were
Speaker 1: coaching her. Yeah, I used to bring like sacrificial lambs
Speaker 1: to the house. Oh my god, because I wouldn't lead.
Speaker 1: I work all day like I'm in the studio. I
Speaker 1: just moved to Atlanta. It's bad. I met on my Space. Yep, damn,
Speaker 1: don't nobody know that? You know, don't nobody know that
Speaker 1: you met on We really met on my Space. That's
Speaker 1: the truth. How did this? Nobody knows email on my Space?
Speaker 1: Because he put out there that he was going to
Speaker 1: be in Atlanta, was moving to do trade a and
Speaker 1: I had just moved there and I was working with
Speaker 1: him already, like he was my got it? What that
Speaker 1: was my ship? Who was everything? So I'm moving to Atlanta.
Speaker 1: We got this house. We got this house. Shout out Chris,
Speaker 1: Chris and Chris Anderson. Uh, I get this two thousand six,
Speaker 1: six March two thousand six. So I'm moved into this
Speaker 1: house to make the album. All my albums I've mainly
Speaker 1: made in the houses because I leave to let the time.
Speaker 1: So I walked in the house and it's it's and
Speaker 1: it's her home girl and they got on the Magic
Speaker 1: City outfits and they cook. It's an album. And from
Speaker 1: that point on, like she just held it down like
Speaker 1: it won't never a situation where like we were into
Speaker 1: each other that way, like she everybody, let's talk about
Speaker 1: trades sucking abilities. Since you was there watching him from
Speaker 1: a young and if you could critique him. What are
Speaker 1: some things that he needed to work on because he
Speaker 1: was young at that time. And I'm sure the way
Speaker 1: you work back then is way different than now. Are
Speaker 1: you sure? No? Honestly, I honestly can't say anything bad
Speaker 1: about I saw. I can only critique the girl, and
Speaker 1: I critiqued her on spot okay that she needed to
Speaker 1: point her toes Archer back, was it weird for you
Speaker 1: to have somebody like watching and critiquing the girl and
Speaker 1: like coaching? He thought it was funny. It was funny
Speaker 1: because she was my whole girl. It wasn't like a stranger,
Speaker 1: like she was my friend. And I still she's like,
Speaker 1: that's the home stop both of Now, when you date
Speaker 1: somebody for real, like you become serious, do you have
Speaker 1: to cut off all these other women? Yeah? You do.
Speaker 1: Got to do a degree of cutting off or a
Speaker 1: degree of having conversations where you know in the relationship
Speaker 1: who you might still keep in contact and why, I mean,
Speaker 1: who you might still keep in contact with and why?
Speaker 1: But just for the lines of respect, Like certain people
Speaker 1: you can't even hit back to give an explanation about
Speaker 1: what you're doing. Why are you not talking to them?
Speaker 1: Like and she's got to cut off those guys too
Speaker 1: that she used to deal with. H m hmmm. And
Speaker 1: if it's a situation where you still communicating with somebody,
Speaker 1: I need to know why? What what y'all guy? If
Speaker 1: it isn't a baby, is it something like what some
Speaker 1: tragic happens? And why y'all connect? No? Really, these things
Speaker 1: like this happened. But what is the connection that you
Speaker 1: have with this person that you still that you you
Speaker 1: have to speak with them? While are you dealing with me? Well?
Speaker 1: What if like she's like, well, my family is still
Speaker 1: cool with them. We grew up together. No, I like
Speaker 1: what what? What else? Damn? Now, let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: when are you comfortable enough for a woman to like
Speaker 1: go to bed and ladies, when do y'all comeortable Stephanie
Speaker 1: gg to go to bed with you? Your head wrap? One?
Speaker 1: No makeup? It's never. I want to wake up like sexy.
Speaker 1: I want to like have clean hair when I'm with
Speaker 1: a guy. Like, I don't like that. I don't like
Speaker 1: that that you're dirty. I don't like even just like
Speaker 1: I did these not to do these curls. I cannot
Speaker 1: with that though? Is you taking your eyelashes? Off like
Speaker 1: I take my eye not just off in my makeup
Speaker 1: and all of that. But you know, I'm like to
Speaker 1: wake up with my hair nights. I like, but if
Speaker 1: you wrap it does, what's gonna have? No, No, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go to sleep like that. But I'm
Speaker 1: I'm I'm Puerto Rican. Come on. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: do style like I did a hairstyle. You know that
Speaker 1: I had to sleep in last night. By the way,
Speaker 1: if I was like, yeah, but you put it in
Speaker 1: us nuts, but I put it in not it probably
Speaker 1: looks like that in the morning and I went to sleep,
Speaker 1: I woke up looking crazy. I wouldn't want to suck
Speaker 1: me looking like that. And I usually want to like
Speaker 1: when I wake up in the morn, when I'm specially
Speaker 1: like hey girl, you know, like hello, I really feel
Speaker 1: myself hell really, you know, I'm really sexually attractive to myself,
Speaker 1: Like I think I look really good, you know, so
Speaker 1: usually in the morning, like my body is really nice
Speaker 1: because you know, in the morning, you wake up in
Speaker 1: your body stomachs flat, you know what I mean? So right, So,
Speaker 1: but we're talking about somebody you're gonna spend like really
Speaker 1: your life with. Yeah, but That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: don't really sleep in hairstyle. I mean, if I had to,
Speaker 1: I tell you right now, you're putting yourself to super
Speaker 1: high standard. Though. I know, if I had to sleep
Speaker 1: with the knots with the guys, I would be like,
Speaker 1: don't look at me, don't just go away, look crazy.
Speaker 1: I want to look at us. Your ass up while
Speaker 1: you're looking crazy. No, that's what I was seeing in
Speaker 1: the room earlier, Like how could I be sucking my
Speaker 1: nigga's dick with this hair with these knots in it? Well,
Speaker 1: this here, I would have had have wrapped it. You
Speaker 1: could a guy, like when I'm when I'm sleeping with
Speaker 1: a guy, like when I'm staying with a guy, you know, um,
Speaker 1: even even in my long term relationships, like four out
Speaker 1: of five times we're gonna have sex before we go
Speaker 1: to sleep, you know, like four out of five times,
Speaker 1: it's it's a big chance that we're gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: be sexual and be intimate. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Would you jump up and he wakes up? Like even
Speaker 1: the guy that you know, like a whole week, like
Speaker 1: how many out of seven? And listen, how many out
Speaker 1: of seven? I know like, I'm all right, I'm dating
Speaker 1: somebody that of how many out of seven out of five?
Speaker 1: How many out of seven? Five out of seven? Right right,
Speaker 1: that's normal. No, But even now I'm dating a guy
Speaker 1: that you know, I go and I stayed with him
Speaker 1: for a couple of days, and I would I would
Speaker 1: like to do this hair for him, like I would
Speaker 1: like to, But you don't want to add it out
Speaker 1: hair to go out with him and spend the day
Speaker 1: with this hair. But I'm saying because it's me as
Speaker 1: as as a man, like I let the pursuit. I
Speaker 1: love when you're looking beautiful all the time. But when
Speaker 1: we settled and like I get to know, I appreciate
Speaker 1: the rawness. I just appreciate the moments of being there
Speaker 1: for the for the preparation of Like I see you
Speaker 1: in your raws form, I see you make that happen,
Speaker 1: Like I appreciate that. Like I think, uh, when you
Speaker 1: you in a relationship and you really like, you really
Speaker 1: into somebody, you love to see them in every shape.
Speaker 1: When when you're broken down to that rawness, that that
Speaker 1: makes this that much more appreciate it what it is
Speaker 1: because you did that for me, or you you did it.
Speaker 1: I know what you like when you If you always that,
Speaker 1: then it's no. No, I'm not saying that I'm always
Speaker 1: It's just my I don't go to sleep in hairstyles.
Speaker 1: I don't go to sleep and have rocks. But if
Speaker 1: you said it's so embarrassing, five times out of seven
Speaker 1: before you go to bed, you're waking up your ship,
Speaker 1: you have spitting it look good. You gotta look good
Speaker 1: in the morning with my natural hair, no makeup on, right,
Speaker 1: I look good. You know what I mean? You just
Speaker 1: don't want to us. Yeah, exactly my hair exactly, my
Speaker 1: hair can't be done. It have to just be the
Speaker 1: natural hair that you know it is when I watch it,
Speaker 1: because even a straight style, I don't wrap it. So
Speaker 1: I wake up like it's curly. I woke up like
Speaker 1: that this morning, exactly. I want to seek like this.
Speaker 1: I woke up all this side was all curly, right,
Speaker 1: I just work with that like one of them. When
Speaker 1: you like girls, my boy, yeah, that's normal natural ship.
Speaker 1: But to like to be actually have the rod with
Speaker 1: the people cream. Have you ever natured Have you ever
Speaker 1: been with a girl that you got with her and
Speaker 1: then she looked completely different about her makeup on and
Speaker 1: her hair did and without her girdle on. What you
Speaker 1: mean got back to the room and she took everything off,
Speaker 1: and it was like, whoa, and I've just seen Oh
Speaker 1: no that that that was something that happened early on
Speaker 1: in life. What you learned from those mistakes about it?
Speaker 1: From mistakes, I can tell when you take that off,
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be right. You gotta extra sent eyebrow off. Now,
Speaker 1: Tremaine the playboy. Would you rather be with somebody that
Speaker 1: is sexually experienced and has been with a lot of
Speaker 1: people and knows what she's doing, or somebody that's only
Speaker 1: ever been with one person and not that experience. I
Speaker 1: pick one, the only one of together and thing else
Speaker 1: is equal. But I would pick experience. Okay, somebody else seasoned,
Speaker 1: they're done that, somebody to know. You know, that's not
Speaker 1: you're scared to have fun. I mean, my heart says,
Speaker 1: because I'm paranoid. I want to be with the person
Speaker 1: who only even on one person, but everybody being with
Speaker 1: somebody like everybody as somebody, everybody somebody right now, I
Speaker 1: would rather be with somebody I don't have to teach
Speaker 1: them anything, you know, I'm down to teach, I forever teacher,
Speaker 1: I forever learned. Like, but it's so good when they
Speaker 1: already know what saying. He would pick the sexually experienced season,
Speaker 1: been around the black woman over the it's only been
Speaker 1: with one person. Yeah, but yeah, I mean when you
Speaker 1: throw extra variables and they're like being around the blood
Speaker 1: experience even she season, but she what she does pro
Speaker 1: pro it was su bourbon block was it? But in
Speaker 1: these people that But if you're run on the nigga,
Speaker 1: isn't like for real? This This is the way I
Speaker 1: approach life. This is way I approach relationships with I
Speaker 1: approach uh, just everything. Everybody's been with somebody. Everybody gotta
Speaker 1: pass if your past don't and the people that you've
Speaker 1: been with, don't directly bash in with what I got
Speaker 1: going on. If you and I know a lot of people,
Speaker 1: the people I end up meeting and having relationships with
Speaker 1: know a lot of people have done a lot of things.
Speaker 1: But if they're not with people that I have things
Speaker 1: going on with a somebody that that's really close to me,
Speaker 1: even if it's an associate of mine. If I if
Speaker 1: I'm interested in the woman, I think I could build
Speaker 1: something with her more than you know, just fucking I
Speaker 1: don't care that she's been with this nigga, that nigga
Speaker 1: because she at this age and of course you didn't
Speaker 1: did this with her life. I care if she's been
Speaker 1: with this nigga that I love a death, that that's
Speaker 1: with me area other day, or this nigga that I
Speaker 1: didn't created this music with, and I gotta see him
Speaker 1: and have this repport with. I just think as as
Speaker 1: as I'm getting it to a point where I know
Speaker 1: I want somebody like and like I said, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I'm all the way there. I know that
Speaker 1: I want somebody for me, but I know I got
Speaker 1: things about me that are flawed. So certain things I
Speaker 1: got to take with a grain of salt. Certain things
Speaker 1: I gotta know. So she got to tell you what
Speaker 1: she's done, Like I mean, I'm gonna tell you what
Speaker 1: I've done off really even saying things that you feel like, No,
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you. I'm trade songs. That's if I
Speaker 1: don't tell you. If I don't tell you, you're gonna
Speaker 1: think about it. Though. If I don't tell, you're gonna
Speaker 1: guess and you're gonna make you You're gonna make your
Speaker 1: own problems. So I'm gonna tell you that when we're
Speaker 1: in a room, I'm gonna tell you, like, look, I
Speaker 1: know her, I know her, like I've been in this
Speaker 1: with that. You know what I mean everything I don't
Speaker 1: think so, I mean everybody everything, But yeah, everything ain't relevant.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm never gonna let you
Speaker 1: get played. What it's like. Well, you know, one time
Speaker 1: fab bit my pussy, but that was it and we
Speaker 1: never have sex. You can't be my girl, fast my man, like,
Speaker 1: you can't be my girl. Nothing but not eating pussy.
Speaker 1: I don't even talk about me talk about that's my
Speaker 1: bro's not pussy and not getting job. Fat guy nice?
Speaker 1: Ain't that nice? You never nobody spussy didn't get I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna I have you see, so you're a nice
Speaker 1: guy one time for the nice guy. It's not even
Speaker 1: about me being a nice guy. You just gotta be
Speaker 1: a woman that deserved that. I ain't a nice guy
Speaker 1: like that. You're not a nice guy. I like that
Speaker 1: just to be eat pussy getting no restaurant. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I like that so much every time,
Speaker 1: Like after I get my pussy and I want to
Speaker 1: get fucked. I just she's dead and your job because
Speaker 1: I not. A thousand times I've sucked. I've sucked without
Speaker 1: my per strange requests. The woman has asked for you
Speaker 1: to do that, you've been like, as too crazy, I'm
Speaker 1: not doing that. M I know, somebody to ask you
Speaker 1: to do some strange ship and you've been like negative, No,
Speaker 1: it's a gang of strange ship people like talking about
Speaker 1: strange ships. Like but if somebody asked you to do that,
Speaker 1: she was like no, I'm never no, like like what
Speaker 1: unsanitary ship? That's what it him? Somebody asked you to
Speaker 1: shoot on him? So I coughed over. Did somebody really
Speaker 1: asked you to shoot on them? If I don't saying
Speaker 1: saying what about p if I don't say nothing that
Speaker 1: you saying that nice warm urine like that about spit
Speaker 1: on them? That girl I've actually like spitting her mouth
Speaker 1: or something like that's normal, like it is that Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not like howbody? I mean? I think if if
Speaker 1: in the early two thousand, if you met a woman
Speaker 1: that like to be spat on, she probably used to
Speaker 1: sun with me. You spit on straight, good lord, you
Speaker 1: invented it? What else? What else? Is that I want
Speaker 1: to hear like some weird ship that. No, you tell
Speaker 1: me this is trade songs here. Your girls have been
Speaker 1: like yo, just do this to me, Like what what
Speaker 1: about sucking her period? You cool with that? With you?
Speaker 1: I got to die anything that ain't too crazy. So
Speaker 1: at the house that we used to live in, it
Speaker 1: was like it was the studio house. It was him
Speaker 1: and all his niggas, it was the family. It was
Speaker 1: me and my home girls on my Magic City Crew.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, cream cartel. Even though that
Speaker 1: did now different story. All cooked, Yeah, it was great,
Speaker 1: but no, I cooked from five pm the five eight
Speaker 1: and five am. That's not the story. Okay. So one
Speaker 1: time we were sitting around on the couch watching TV
Speaker 1: and this nigga and this nigga. All right, so you
Speaker 1: know how the couch behind the couch is empty, right,
Speaker 1: So my home girl didn't want the couch. So this
Speaker 1: nigga comes far and pull his dick out and fop
Speaker 1: from the top of his dick. Oh my, she turned around.
Speaker 1: It was like what the fuck? He was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I just took you to China Town like that. That
Speaker 1: was It's just a type of phone music wasn't like,
Speaker 1: it wasn't sexual. It wasn't sexual. It was a shop,
Speaker 1: wasn't it was? It was right from behind though, and
Speaker 1: like this all right now, Please don't anybody at home
Speaker 1: try this thinking it's okay to hit chicks on the
Speaker 1: head with your dick. If you do do it, make
Speaker 1: sure you tell that you took to Chinatown. What does
Speaker 1: that mean? Take it to Chinatown. That's a whole different story,
Speaker 1: but could not be a Chinatown. I just want to
Speaker 1: know what that means. Yeah, that was like she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, she got miss understood spelled wrong on her back.
Speaker 1: What it's a much ter stood. It wasn't an end
Speaker 1: there end wrong tattoos understood, no end. So we've all
Speaker 1: been waiting for some new music. So I know that's
Speaker 1: coming with this. Uh Tremaine the Playboy. Yeah, well nobody
Speaker 1: else with you is out right now, Um Tremaine the Playboy.
Speaker 1: Although it's it's it's been promoted as a reality show
Speaker 1: and you know, the gag is up now everybody knows
Speaker 1: his music. The theme will continue week after week. Every Thursday,
Speaker 1: nine pm the video will play. There will be a
Speaker 1: version without the reality aspects that in the version that
Speaker 1: just has the you know, just music, so people that
Speaker 1: consume music on YouTube could just listen as well, uh
Speaker 1: and immediately will be available everywhere as soon as the
Speaker 1: video comes as well. So five five weeks straight at that.
Speaker 1: That's then then the album mar those women that you
Speaker 1: feel like you went day in real life. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was a couple of its cool Okay, were they like
Speaker 1: arguing over you for because I know, being on set
Speaker 1: and about it like everywey like I scripted all that,
Speaker 1: like shot the uh Shauna, Roxy and yosh who actually
Speaker 1: came up with the original concept and when they came
Speaker 1: to me the concept fortified videos just a reality. I
Speaker 1: wanted to just take it to a whole another level
Speaker 1: and like thro the market and dude, just full just
Speaker 1: play with it like and uh it worked very well,
Speaker 1: Like I had a great time with it. I directed
Speaker 1: the videos edited them myself as well. Wow, it was
Speaker 1: a lot of work, Like we actually gave it the
Speaker 1: girls separate personalities, like everything was scripted, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So it was funny. They did a great job. Actually,
Speaker 1: after being in the industry as long as I have been,
Speaker 1: that was like and having that many girls on set
Speaker 1: it was crazy like that. They like that. That's ingenious
Speaker 1: because the women are going to watch for you. The
Speaker 1: men are gonna watch to watch the women when we
Speaker 1: and everybody's getting a nice little look, you know, and
Speaker 1: we get to see what it would probably be like
Speaker 1: for real. Like I'm sure you were yourself everything with script, yourself,
Speaker 1: but you getting a little bit of a flavor flavor moment.
Speaker 1: At times you look flavor flav no, but you know,
Speaker 1: because flavor love. Clearly it's like the whole music behind
Speaker 1: nobody that you are. But I'm just saying. But secondly,
Speaker 1: it's just fun, like you know what I mean. It's
Speaker 1: something that I have fun with. It's something that you know,
Speaker 1: I used to bring the attention to music. If you
Speaker 1: think about the music industry and you think about the
Speaker 1: way it's perceived, the way it's consumed, you think about
Speaker 1: how passive it is. I use the word passive because
Speaker 1: I remember you had to go get CDs. I remember
Speaker 1: you had to make time for music. I remember you
Speaker 1: had to I was a little boy. You had to
Speaker 1: record music that you want to you know what I mean. Radio,
Speaker 1: So right now you can play music. You can check
Speaker 1: your emails, check your Twitter, do this make a snap
Speaker 1: with the music. It's not music first, that's the difference
Speaker 1: in music. Music was first, it was something that you
Speaker 1: had to move and and and do things to get right.
Speaker 1: Now moving music will do whatever to suit your lifestyle.
Speaker 1: And people are so visual more than ever, and streaming
Speaker 1: is so crazy, so it's not exciting for artists to
Speaker 1: just put an album out anymore. It's not exciting for
Speaker 1: artists to, uh, you know, just give you music and
Speaker 1: just to keep someone's attention, you have to go that
Speaker 1: extra mile. And for me, it was just it was
Speaker 1: fun creatively, Yeah, fun with it at least a great
Speaker 1: time with the Dope Project. Yeah. And it's a very
Speaker 1: special album to me. Like it's called Tremaine. I've never,
Speaker 1: like I said twelve years, I never self titled album.
Speaker 1: So that means you're gonna be bearing a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very vulnerable. I hope to Tremaine find some lovemain bro.
Speaker 1: We saw in the first episode your mom said, you know,
Speaker 1: your two younger brothers already have kids. She's waiting on
Speaker 1: you to have one. So and I know that's a
Speaker 1: big deal to you. If your mom is going to
Speaker 1: be happy with whoever it is that you end up
Speaker 1: with two. Yeah, I think my mama's gonna be what
Speaker 1: have people? Whatever I choose for my life, you know,
Speaker 1: well not whatever she really You're gonna make sure he
Speaker 1: choose something that he knows. And you know, my mom
Speaker 1: was gonna be happy with what I choose for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know about Rooskie though. Roosky Ruski said this
Speaker 1: in bullshit whatever y'all believe it. I want but my
Speaker 1: like I said, like, I didn't waited this long. Like
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't had a wild ride, and it's
Speaker 1: been a fun time, and I ain't had no mishaps.
Speaker 1: I ain't had no notion, no green gup coming out
Speaker 1: your dick or nothing exactly. Congratulations to you for keeping
Speaker 1: it on the street and narrow. And so for me,
Speaker 1: it's a it's about, you know, just making sure that
Speaker 1: when I do, it is pure. It's not if I
Speaker 1: waited this long, it's not I'm not trying to have
Speaker 1: a baby with a woman that I don't like, or
Speaker 1: that I gotta be beef And with all that, I
Speaker 1: gotta go to child Spoor with I want. I want
Speaker 1: to kick it with my back. But shout out to
Speaker 1: all the trades angels out there. He's still looking. She
Speaker 1: bought sauce. Al right, Well that was lift service trad songs.
Speaker 1: Thank you, and I appreciate you coming because you know,
Speaker 1: I always look at you as like the lift service
Speaker 1: kind of person that laid down the groundwork for the
Speaker 1: show from the very beginning. You've always been really instrumental
Speaker 1: that me neither, but maybe later, I mean back then, yeah,
Speaker 1: not back then. Seriously didn't pay that Well, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie, but I'm just saying I didn't get I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna I didn't get no extra money to do
Speaker 1: lip service that I did from the morning show. It
Speaker 1: is my same salary. Sometimes you just do things because
Speaker 1: you love it, right, Did you get extra money for
Speaker 1: directing your own videos? And did I get extra money
Speaker 1: to turn into some money? Exactly turn into some money?
Speaker 1: There you go, NGS Shares Tremaine. I'm serious. Hey, we
Speaker 1: all know everything and about stuff. We got a bottle
Speaker 1: of water, but we don't know that's you know. I
Speaker 1: wish you got it. Don't be bad. I don't have enough,
Speaker 1: all right. I can't even get my throat numb it up.