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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Eastern Easterns in the studio right now, behind the gold

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Speaker 1: Why hasn't anyone gotten you a professional last a few times?

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Speaker 1: So last week we did the podcast and so for

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Speaker 1: of respect for like my passion and my drive and

426
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: what and what comes naturally to me. So it's like,

427
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,640
Speaker 1: I think we have to we overly communicate everything because

428
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: it's like uncharted territory, you know what I mean. And

429
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: so I mean, I think we've been doing a good

430
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 1: job alright, So I think what we'll do on this

431
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: because we're gonna save half of them for next week

432
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: and we have an even even well, I have one more, yeah,

433
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 1: one more, Rebecca, and then Tanya will do the one

434
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: you teased the earlier. Okay, okay, um. So this one's

435
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: from Shelby Johnson and the question is how did you

436
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: feel when Becca took back her I love you after

437
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: she first said it. I can imagine that didn't feel great.

438
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: But I came back within like a week and said it.

439
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: So I am curious to hear the response. Well it's

440
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: the response starts with a big laugh. Ha ha. That's

441
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: good that that eases things. I was very confused, to

442
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 1: be honest at first, but then I understood because she

443
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: wanted to say it on her own terms instead of

444
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: echoing me. Then I think she said it like a

445
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 1: week after or something, so we weren't too far off.

446
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: Ha ha, It's true. I said it and then panicked

447
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: because I was like, oh my gosh, I've never said

448
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: that before, and it was so soon into our relationship

449
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 1: that I felt like there's no way I should be

450
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 1: saying this so soon. Panicked and then um, I think

451
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: it literally was like a week or weekend half like

452
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: that would be the worst week ever for me, because yeah,

453
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: but I was very open about like, I've never said

454
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: this before, and I think my feelings are there, but

455
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that I'm saying it at

456
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: my own time and not just because I feel pressure

457
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: because you said it. So I think it was understood

458
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: where I was coming from, and it wasn't so much

459
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: like I don't see myself getting there anytime soon. It

460
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: was just kind of like, I I need to do

461
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: this on my own terms without the pressure of saying

462
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: it back. When did you say at a Red Star

463
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: end of May? And as he said it to you, yeah,

464
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: he has I think this is new information, but it

465
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: wasn't like it's not really like a fun story because

466
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: we were like kind of in a fight. I love it.

467
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: It's kind of like a rom com. You know, you're

468
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: in a fight and it's like I love you, okay. Yeah.

469
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: It was like kind of like one of the yeah,

470
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: and then you're like, that's the first said yeah. And

471
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: I was like, and this isn't I wanted to hear it,

472
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But um, yes, he did

473
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: say it back. And the thing that I love about

474
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: it or I mean, I don't obviously whatever it happened,

475
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: the way that happened. But he's not one of those

476
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: people like I'm one of those people that say, like

477
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 1: whenever Beck and I hang up the phone, like I'm like,

478
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: I love you, Like I just say it, like I

479
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: spew it out like candy. I love saying it to people.

480
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: He's very intentional, Like he doesn't say it every night

481
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: now before we go to sleep, or you know what

482
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 1: I mean. Like he'll say it like randomly, we were

483
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: out to dinner and we're just I'm just talking to something.

484
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: He'll just like say it and it means so much more,

485
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: just like I love you and you're like you're the

486
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: sweet well yeah, because it just comes out of nowhere,

487
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean. I don't know how

488
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 1: to explain it, but it's it's nice because you know

489
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: he's really meaning it when he says yeah, it's not

490
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: just like he doesn't spew it out like candy. Because

491
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: you said, Tobecca, oh, that would have been the worst

492
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: week ever for me. Well, you had months. I did.

493
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: I had months. But it's not like he said it

494
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: and then took it back. That's so different. It was

495
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: like and that those months were hard for me. I

496
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: was gonna say, I feel like even if I hadn't

497
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: said it back and just been like thank you, I

498
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: think that would have been equally as unfortunate. Yeah, I

499
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 1: mean it wasn't. It wasn't not hard, um, but it

500
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: was like I think if you said it and then

501
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: took it back, I would have been like, yeah, that

502
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: it stung a little deeper. Honestly. It was just like

503
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: I wanted to look out for myself and make sure

504
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: I was, you know, doing it all my time and

505
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: not feeling pressured to say it back just because it

506
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: was said to me, right, And I think that's what

507
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: I tried to do in my situation, Like I was like,

508
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: I don't want him to say it be just because

509
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: I said it, So I was just trying to play cool,

510
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: losey goosey, when in reality, I was like, what's happening here?

511
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: You're like anything anything you want to tell me today.

512
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: But you know what's funny, you know what, like you

513
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: think it's coming, like we're like having something like a

514
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: super romantic night, and then you're like, I like predicted

515
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: that he was gonna do it was like your birthday. Yeah, yeah,

516
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: I think I really say you up. That wasn't even

517
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: the only time. There were like other times where I

518
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I think, like I think, I think,

519
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: I just feel it, like and here's the thing too,

520
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: I felt it from him for a lot longer before,

521
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 1: so I always felt it. But I was like, oh,

522
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: I think it's coming. I think it's coming, and then

523
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: it didn't happen, and I was like maybe tomorrow. Um, okay,

524
00:29:54,840 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: So Tony was gonna read one more question, Kelly Hudgens. Yeah,

525
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm so scared to hear. Okay, So, Kelly Hudgens, this

526
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 1: is the question, have you ever heard Tanya fart on FaceTime?

527
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: Should we leave this as a tease for next week?

528
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm fine with that, you know, I love my teasers.

529
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: I need to know. I'm stressed. I think, I think

530
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: I like this as a t I can't see him

531
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: tonight and not know what if we get Monica from

532
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: Cheron and then we do an email and then at

533
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: the very end of the episode, I reveal the answer. Okay,

534
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: that's fair, that's teasy enough for me. Um, I just

535
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: want you all to know. So I have been a

536
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: massive fan of coach Monica since chair came out, Like

537
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: I just think she's amazing, and I was so excited

538
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: to have her on the podcast Tanya. This was the

539
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: same day she had her pelvic floor but just missed

540
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: some big ones. I was busy, but um, I just

541
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: love her and my wife I went out right before

542
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: we were supposed to start, and I was so stressed

543
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: out because I thought I was not going to get

544
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: the opportunity to talk to her because she had like

545
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: interviews back to back and she's just the best. So

546
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: I hope you all enjoyed this interview. I tried to.

547
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: I was like fan girling. I was trying to ask

548
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: questions from the scrubbing in group too, so it was

549
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: a little chaotic because I was so excited but enjoying

550
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: this interne Alright, so we have a very exciting guest today. Um,

551
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: I have been a fan since it's like the beginning

552
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: of Quarantine. We have coach Monica here, and I just

553
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: want to say, when I found out that you followed

554
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: me on Instagram, it was like a highlight of my life.

555
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: And I followed you for a long time. Well I

556
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: went to look, you know, when did he here come out?

557
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: Was that in March January? Oh okay, wow, time doesn't

558
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: exist anymore. No. Um, when I went to look at

559
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,959
Speaker 1: your page and it said follow back, I guessed. I

560
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: was like, you guys will not believe that. Um, but

561
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: I feel like life has just been an absolute whirlwind

562
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: for you. I would imagine it has. It's been, um

563
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: really crazy. I mean, had we not had the pandemic. Um,

564
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: I mean that was the only thing that slowed us down,

565
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, and we're I'm used to fast pace. That's

566
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: what we do basically year round. It's we go, go go.

567
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: We have a thousand things we're doing. Um. But added

568
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: to that, you know the show coming out and the

569
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: success we were just you know, barely hanging a line

570
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: before the pandificate. Well, I was gonna say, because I

571
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: feel like there's a lot of shows that come out

572
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: on Netflix and then you they have a season, you

573
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: don't really hear about them, and then they're gone, And

574
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: yours couldn't have been more opposite. I mean, cheer was

575
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: every single person, and it happened. It kept rolling out

576
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: like a new wave of people would be watching it

577
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, So it wasn't like it had

578
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: one moment and then people stopped talking. People are still

579
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: talking about it, and like you said, it's been out

580
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: since January. It's just kind of it has to be

581
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: one of those things because you get asked to do

582
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: a show on Netflix and you have no idea which

583
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: direction it's gonna go. Absolutely, and especially because it's about cheerleading. UM,

584
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: you know, we were just hoping that the cheerleading community

585
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: would watch it. We we really had no thought that um,

586
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: a really large audience would watch it, just because a

587
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: lot of people have stereotypes about cheerleading and I didn't

588
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: think that they would even be interested in and you know,

589
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: checking it out. But it literally was UM as soon

590
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: as it came out that day, you know, I was

591
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: my email, my d ms just exploded with people who

592
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: had binged watched it, and we were just all kind

593
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: of blown away. Well, there was something about I mean,

594
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: there's something about you that I feel like everyone just

595
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: it's the same thing as me sing that you followed me.

596
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: It was like this little like approval of coach Monica,

597
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: you know. And it's just funny because you're so humble,

598
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 1: you're so down to earth, you're a hard worker, You've

599
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: been doing this for so long, and it's like this

600
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: whole the whole world kind of fell in love with

601
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: you and this team and it's such a special It

602
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: really was just such a special show, like how you

603
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: connected with a lot of these kids who may not

604
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: have the support at home or you know, we're struggling

605
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: with school. It was just it was there was there's

606
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: just something about you that feels that like comforting, that

607
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: safe feeling. You're like the Southern Bell, but in the

608
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 1: best way. Well thank you. That's so sweet. Um. I

609
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: was gonna fan Girl for a little bit longer, but

610
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: I know we're short on time, and I wanted to.

611
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 1: I we have a very loyal and active Facebook group

612
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: for the podcast, and who wanted to ask some of

613
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: their questions because everyone I had over a hundred comments

614
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: of people wanting to ask you questions on the post

615
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,479
Speaker 1: that I just posted, so, um, I wanted to get

616
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: to some of those. This is actually one of mine.

617
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: What was who was the coolest most shocking celebrity like

618
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: that you had a fan girl moment that when they

619
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: fan girl tover you Uh you know, it's it's really

620
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: strange because, like I said, since we weren't expecting this

621
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:43,240
Speaker 1: really uh like when we anytime we saw anyone tweet

622
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: about it, we were all of us. We're kind of

623
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: fan girling. Um. You know when Chrissy Teagan you know,

624
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 1: was stretching and show did some throwback pictures and when

625
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: she cheered, um, and Reese witherspent just so many people

626
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: that you know, we've kind of uh followed and watched forever. Um,

627
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: you I was excited to you. Um Honestly, I think

628
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 1: the whole world saw me go crazy over j J.

629
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: What but that was us such a the Today's Show.

630
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm just really pretty wonderful memories this This has been

631
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: a crazy, crazy experience. Has there been any um like

632
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: downsides to the excitement, because I know, you know, what

633
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: we all see is just like it's fun and you're

634
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: getting to do all this cool stuff. Has there been

635
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: any any moments where you're like, oh wow, I kind

636
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: of miss when I wasn't known around the world. Um, well,

637
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: you know, I mean yes, definitely, Um, things got weird.

638
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: You know, we had to cover the windows at the

639
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: gym that we practice in because people were video and

640
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: through the windows. We have people coming by to college

641
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: pretty much every day, Um, you know, looking for us

642
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: or just taking pictures, which is pretty cool, but um,

643
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: you know, I mean I've gotten some negative things and

644
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: you may have experienced experienced this as well. Being on

645
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: a reality show. Um, I was just surprised at how

646
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: many people, not not that it was a lot, but

647
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: just the some of the things people said that we're

648
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: you know, so far from who I am. Um, you know,

649
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: the d m s that were negative, or you know,

650
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: I've had some weird things happen as far as people

651
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: showing up that we're a little you know, just odd,

652
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: that we're a little scary. Um. So, I mean, you know,

653
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: and then just you know, I don't I think that's

654
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 1: the biggest downside, just that the comments, the negative stuff,

655
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: and I really honestly try not to read them because

656
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: I take everything very personal and you know, I want

657
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: to do better. If someone's you know, thinks a certain way,

658
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, you don't even think that that

659
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: I would ever do something like that, you know. So

660
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: I've just tried to really just like just take the positive.

661
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: I know, I always telp because you know it, it

662
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: is weird when you have so much love flooding in

663
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: and then there's those few negative ones, and for some

664
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: reason we always hold onto those instead of all the love,

665
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: we like focus on the negative, and it's like we

666
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: feel this need to please these people who for some

667
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 1: reason don't like us based on this like tiny you

668
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: know show of like however many hours they've seen of

669
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,479
Speaker 1: your life. It's like, I'm more than what you saw

670
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: on this Netflix show. Yeah, and then the way you

671
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: interpreted some things, you know, I'm like, I don't know

672
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: how you got that out of it. But okay, well

673
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: what's happening right now with the pandemic and like, are

674
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: y'all able to practice right now? Or what's happening? Well,

675
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: you know, we had a pretty devastating end to our

676
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: season because we were supposed to compete in April and

677
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: we were very you know, we were only a few

678
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: weeks away from competing. We had put a lot of

679
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: time into practice and UM had done a ton of

680
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: full out. We were really you know, I mean we

681
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: could have competed. We weren't, you know, obviously want to

682
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: clean some stuff up, but we were doing really well.

683
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: And everything happened so fast, like literally within four days,

684
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 1: we went from having this amazing last spring break practice

685
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 1: two the whole world kind of falling apart, and then

686
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: within those four days our our season was canceled, and

687
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 1: so it just hit us really fast, and we really

688
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: didn't get to prepare to tell each other goodbye or

689
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, or anything. We just met again

690
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: and turned in uniforms and just had basically a cryfest. Um.

691
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,720
Speaker 1: I have not had practice with a team or anything

692
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: since then. We were supposed to go to camp in

693
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,439
Speaker 1: July with the new team, and that got canceled. So

694
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 1: they actually are moving in today. We have our first

695
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: tomorrow and our first practice next week. Wow. So what

696
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: are I mean are they making are they requiring you

697
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,879
Speaker 1: to do certain things for the guidelines or how does

698
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: that work? Because I feel like there's a lot of

699
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: contact in Oh absolutely, yeah, I mean obviously things will

700
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: not look the same at all. All of our sports

701
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: got moved to the spring, so we're not even gonna

702
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: have any sports to cheer for right now. Uh, we're

703
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: gonna have them in two separate groups and then smaller

704
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 1: groups within the two separate groups to start off, and

705
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 1: we'll do you know, um, we'll have masks and stuff

706
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 1: within those small groups. But um, you know, we're just

707
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: grateful that we can even come back. So you know,

708
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: it's a small sacrifice to you know, practice this way

709
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: for a bigger picture later on. So you know, we're

710
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 1: just grateful for what for being able to come back, period.

711
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: So we're just gonna push through these weird times and

712
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: they being able to all be together or not being

713
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: able to come and practice like we normally would. But

714
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, hopefully by the hopefully sooner than later, we'll

715
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 1: get there. I know, I know. It's like everyone's just

716
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: happy to have any sense of normalcy. Is like, we're

717
00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: grateful for any capacity. What is your family, like, I

718
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: know you have kids and your husband. What if they

719
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: thought about all of this, Um, I mean they they've

720
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 1: been you know, excited, I mean kind of the same

721
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: as me, just kind of shocked at how it all

722
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: went down and everything happened so fast. They were you know,

723
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: every time something a new opportunity would come up, We're

724
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: all just kind of in disbelief, like, oh wow, I'm

725
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: flying to l A right now, and now I'm going

726
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: to New York. Now I'm doing an interview with this

727
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: person or that person is So it's just all, you know,

728
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 1: not a world that we're used to, but we're all,

729
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: you know, just enjoying it. So I know, I remember,

730
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 1: even just the short time I was on The Bachelor,

731
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: my family was like, this is the weirdest right. Um. Okay.

732
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: So one of the other questions that I liked was, um,

733
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: would you go on Dancing with the Stars if you

734
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: were approached? Um, that's a good question. I don't know.

735
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: I got I got the privilege of going to their

736
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: live show back in the spring before the pandemic kits,

737
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: so I got to meet val and and a lot

738
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: of the cast members and they were so nice, and uh,

739
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: it would definitely be completely out of my comfort zone.

740
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm always up for any challenge. All right,

741
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: good to know, ABC. Did you hear that? Um? Um,

742
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 1: someone Crystal Lynn said if you could pick one person

743
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: that you were most proud of from the show as

744
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: far as how far they came during and after the show.

745
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: Who would it be, Oh goodness, well, I mean all

746
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: of the kids, but you know, probably someone like la

747
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: Darius he um. He and I have, uh, you know,

748
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: we have kind of a special bond because we're both

749
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: so hardheaded and we just kind of do this at

750
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,439
Speaker 1: all times with each other. But he has come so far,

751
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: um just growing um and you know, really working on

752
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 1: himself to kind of overcome some of those past um

753
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: demons that he had, you know, that he was kind

754
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 1: of dealing with. And UM, I've just really really enjoyed

755
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 1: watching the growth that he has had and really you know,

756
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: letting go of that past and being able to um,

757
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: you know, work towards his future. And you know, he

758
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: graduated this year. He's just got so much going for him.

759
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: He's a really he's the most fun person to be around.

760
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: I love I mean, I felt like every single person,

761
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,439
Speaker 1: I felt myself rooting for them. You know. I feel

762
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 1: like a lot of times when you have a cast

763
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: with so many different personalities, you kind of go, I

764
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: don't you know, I'm really rooting for this person. I

765
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 1: don't really like this person. I don't connect with them,

766
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 1: and I felt like there was something about every person

767
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: on the show where I felt like I wanted them

768
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: to do their best and I wanted them to succeed

769
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: and be able to do all their routines. Absolutely, and

770
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: you know that. I mean, that's just really truly who

771
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: they are there. And that was why one of the

772
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: reasons I was open to doing the show, because I'm

773
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: actually kind of a very private person. I like to

774
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: kind of stand to the back and whatnot, so this

775
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: was once again very much out of my comfort him.

776
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: But um, you know, I just felt like the kids

777
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: that come through this program are very special. Just the

778
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: work ethic that they have, the determination, the athleticism, you know,

779
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 1: it's something that a lot of people didn't realize that

780
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: happens in in cheerleading, and um, you know, I just

781
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: felt like it they're so special that it was worth,

782
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: you know, doing this documentary and showing the world. Yeah,

783
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: do you I know, was there supposed to be a

784
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,919
Speaker 1: season two and then things shut down? Or is there

785
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: gonna be a season two? You know, we're just enjoying

786
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 1: season one and you know the ride that we're having

787
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: with season one, So yeah, I feel like that is

788
00:44:53,320 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: in non answer answer which gives me anything about UM.

789
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: So I have one more question than I'll let you

790
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: go because I know you you have like interviews back

791
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 1: to back. UM. I guess after all of this happened,

792
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: where you approached because Navar is a small school, it's

793
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: such a small community. Were you approached by bigger schools

794
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: and like bigger programs to come and coach No, I wasn't, UM.

795
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean I had a lot of coaches reach out

796
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: to me, just um from other programs, just with the

797
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: whole women. Lots of different messages as far as just

798
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: like thank you for you know, showing the world you

799
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 1: know what athletes the kids really are, or just really

800
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: a lot of positive feedback from a bunch of different

801
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: coaches in the industry that you know, I was happy that,

802
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 1: you know, that they acknowledged that and that they were

803
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,720
Speaker 1: happy with how it turned out. Because it's a scary

804
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 1: thing to do, as you well know, you don't know

805
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: how this show is gonna come. You don't know how

806
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 1: it's gonna turn out. You know, you're you know, you're

807
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: putting yourself out there in your filming, but you know,

808
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you don't know what's

809
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: gonna what the end result will be. Yeah, I mean

810
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: you just hope for the best bet it is in

811
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: your favor, right. Um. Oh wait, I have one more question.

812
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: There's a photo I think it's Morgan and she has

813
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: this it looks like a sports brawl and it says

814
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: F I O F M U and they want to

815
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: know what that stands for. Uh. Well, in in the

816
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: world of cheerleading, most teams have their own personal letters

817
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,760
Speaker 1: that stand for something. And it's really just a team.

818
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: You have to be on the team obviously to know.

819
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: But it's um just an acronym, uh that like brings

820
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: the team together, like a unity top thing from years

821
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:57,800
Speaker 1: and years past. So um just something you know, It's

822
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: just an acronym that makes us feel special and bring

823
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 1: our teams together from all years. Oh, I love it.

824
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: So it's almost like a it's like a sorority code

825
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah. And and most your teams, you know,

826
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: and have some kind of letters that they called their own.

827
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: And we were surprised. It was so funny the things

828
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: that that come out, you know, like people were focused

829
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: on I mean we never mentioned that. It's just like

830
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 1: it was on our clothes and and stuff, and I

831
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: mean that was such a big topic of discussion on

832
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: social media. Everybody want to know people are selling clothes

833
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: with it. We're like, hold on a second, that's kind

834
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: of a like a the whole world gets to wear that,

835
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, everyone's like thinking that they're part of it.

836
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: So funny. Um, well, thank you. So, I mean I

837
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: could talk to you all day, but I know you're busy,

838
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: and I just love you. I think I'm just so

839
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: happy for all your success and everyone on the show

840
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: and hopefully moving forward to maybe another see reason. Um,

841
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: I just I think you're amazing. Thank you. I think

842
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: you're amazing too. Maybe when the pandemics ever, we can

843
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: we can hang out. Yes, when you're in l A

844
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: next time, if it's allowed, we're gonna do dinner or

845
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: something perfect. All right, thanks Monica, all right, bye bye,

846
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: all right, way to hold it down. I freaking love her.

847
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: I'm serious. If she comes to l A, we're going

848
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: dinner together. I appreciate you holding it down. I do

849
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Speaker 1: also have to say, um that I have gone to

850
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 1: my second peblic floor appointment, and she saw a lot

851
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 1: of progress in my pelvic floor. My second time around.

852
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:01,919
Speaker 1: So all star student over here, and um, my pelvis

853
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: pelvic floor is getting looser by the minute. We love

854
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: to hear it. Thank you. Um We're going to do

855
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 1: an email and give some just great advice and wisdom,

856
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 1: and then we're going to get the answer to a

857
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Speaker 1: red star hearing if if he's ever heard tan your

858
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Speaker 1: part over face, which if you listen to podcast, you

859
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: know has happened. We just don't know if he heard

860
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: all right. This is from anonymous. She says, So, my

861
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I have been dating for seven years and

862
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: recently we've been really struggling. The root of a lot

863
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: of our problems is Snapchat. I use Snapchat no more

864
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: than the next millennial to talk to my friends on

865
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: a regular basis. My boyfriend has this thing where he

866
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: looks at my Snapchat score and notices it goes up

867
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: a fair amount each day and thinks I'm snapchatting other boys.

868
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 1: I've given him the option to look at my Snapchat

869
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 1: and reassure him, but he doesn't want to be that boyfriend,

870
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: so he doesn't. He thinks the fact that I don't

871
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: just delete it is in considerate to his feelings, and

872
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: I care more about the app than I do him.

873
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: Obviously this isn't true. But I sold you Snapchat to

874
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: talk to my friends and I do not snapchat other guys.

875
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: What do you think I should do? This is so interesting.

876
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: I don't use Snapchat at all, so like, to me,

877
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm like just to lead it if it's a problem.

878
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: But I know that would be like if Instagram was

879
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 1: a problem, and right right, I wouldn't like take Snapchat

880
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 1: out of it equated to something that you use regularly. Okay,

881
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 1: So let's say it's Instagram. Okay, but if I'm not

882
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: doing anything wrong, it's like there's just a trust I mean,

883
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: how do you how do you convince someone that you're

884
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: not doing anything? Like you know what I'm saying. I

885
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: don't really understand why. I guess my thing is, is

886
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: there another reason why he has a trust issue with this?

887
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: If they've been together for seven years? That was my

888
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,760
Speaker 1: trigger here is like, it's not the Snapchat. There's obviously

889
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: something else to it, Like I love you? Was it anonymous?

890
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: I love you Anonymous? But I feel like we're not

891
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: getting the full story because if it was just the

892
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 1: Snapchat or whatever, I feel like he would want to

893
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like we're missing something. I

894
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: think what you need to ask him is like, what

895
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: what is it about me or this score or whatever?

896
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: What like tangibly, what is it that is making you

897
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: upset or like making you question anything about me? And

898
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: then like, what can we actually do two ease that

899
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: fear or anxiety or whatever like tangibly? What can we

900
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: tangibly do? And if he says like nothing, then or

901
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: I mean I guess he is. He's saying delete it. Well, Look,

902
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 1: he has trust issues and there's a reason for either

903
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 1: he's been cheated on in the past, anonymous has done

904
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,399
Speaker 1: something behind his back that we are not being made

905
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: aware of. Or three he just has deep seated insecurity

906
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: issues all of these or none of these, but some

907
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: of some combination of these. I think it's got to

908
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 1: be the issue here. So this is tough because it's

909
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: his issue to get over, it's not your issue to

910
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: guide him through it. You don't have to delete apps

911
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: off your phone. You don't have to only speak to

912
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: certain people, because if you do delete the snapchat, there's

913
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: going to be more stuff. He's not gonna like friends

914
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 1: with certain people because they're bad influencers. Or something like that,

915
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: you can't you can't give on this issue, or he's

916
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: going to take a mile. So he's got to get

917
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: over it somehow and he's got to figure that out,

918
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 1: or he's not the guy for you, I was gonna say,

919
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: Or or what if I mean sometimes you know, we

920
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: project what we're doing on to other people, Like what

921
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 1: if he's doing something that's sneaky and he's assuming that

922
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 1: that something's going on with you because of your Snapchat

923
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:32,400
Speaker 1: score or whatever. But I agree, I think there must

924
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: there might be like an underlying issue that y'all need

925
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 1: to address or he needs to open up about, and

926
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 1: that way y'all can solve that. Because I agree Mark,

927
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: I think deleting Snapchat, he's going to find the insecurity

928
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: or the distrust somewhere else. Seven years to a long time.

929
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,720
Speaker 1: I know, I'm confused. There's gotta be some trust issues

930
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: that he's had from either pastorallytionship or something. Yes, seven years,

931
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: you think he'd be in a better place with the

932
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: whole situation. Yeah, that sounds like a seven month issue.

933
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: I was reading about the the fallacy of what's it

934
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: called the fallacy? Have spent time. I think it is

935
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: isn't that when um isn't that like penis like felic

936
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: or a pallast. But no, that's not what I'm referring to.

937
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: It's the feeling of I should continue in this relationship

938
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 1: because I've spent seven years in it, and that's flawed.

939
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:37,760
Speaker 1: Its flawed reasoning that time was already spent. So don't

940
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: that time is gone, that time's not coming back no

941
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: matter what. Are you happy now? Is this working for

942
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 1: you now and in the future, And that's what you

943
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: need to focus on. Same thing with money. While I

944
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: should keep going with this whatever it is, because I've

945
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,720
Speaker 1: spent this much money on it doesn't matter that money's gone.

946
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: Deal with it now, deal with situation in hand. That's

947
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: a very good point I have. I've had a lot

948
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: of friends who have been in longer relationships where it's

949
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, the thought of starting over sounds horrible,

950
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: and it's like, but you have a lot of life,

951
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: Like I know that would mean too. That Like when

952
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: people are like, I wasted this many years, I'm like,

953
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't think so, you wasted that. We've talked about that.

954
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 1: How Like I never view relationships as a waste of

955
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: time because like any any even friendships, Like, I never

956
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 1: consider them a waste of my time because I've grown

957
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: or learned something from that person that I wouldn't have

958
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: learned or grown not having them in my life at

959
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: a certain point, so I always get up like when

960
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 1: people are like, oh, you're wasting your time, It's like,

961
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: if you're happy and you're enjoying each other, then be together.

962
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: If you're not, don't be together. Like it's really more

963
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: simple than we make. It's called the fallacy of sunk

964
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: cough if anyone's interested in pon. Sometimes Becca just really

965
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: preaches the gospel. All right, here we go, ready for

966
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: his answer. Yeah, I don't. I don't know. So what

967
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: do we know? So far? We know that this it

968
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: happened while you're on FaceTime. The question is whether or

969
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:06,280
Speaker 1: not he heard it, and so our dear friend, the listener,

970
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: Kelly Hudgens, scrubber extraordinaire, decided to just get to the

971
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: bottom of it and ask him. I know, because here's

972
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 1: the thing. So whatever his response is, okay, let's here's response. Okay,

973
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: she said, have you ever heard Tanya fart on FaceTime?

974
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: Red Star responded, L O L no, and as far

975
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:28,399
Speaker 1: as I know, she never has. And then he put

976
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: a winky face cryptic that is so cryptic that winky

977
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: face has it could mean so many different means's so

978
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: many things. Do we think you hurt? What is the

979
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,919
Speaker 1: winky face mean? Maybe the winky face is like I know,

980
00:55:53,560 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna gentlemen, that's how I read it. I

981
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 1: was about to say, it's so anti climactic until the

982
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: winky face. Wow, I think you heard? Or yeah, So

983
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: now I have to have a conversation about it. Great,

984
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: that's why I want to take it up with Kelly Humphreys.

985
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: That's not what's her name, Kelly, Kelly Hudgins, Because now

986
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: it's going to be a conversation. What are you gonna say?

987
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:36,439
Speaker 1: How do you bring? Like, I don't know. I haven't

988
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: talked to him. Since he can't we just leave it be.

989
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:43,879
Speaker 1: You keep your dignity, that's what he's trying to do here.

990
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:47,760
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so just keep being sexy. I think, allow

991
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: him to let him keep your dignity. Okay, fair enough,

992
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: No conversation to be had, And the fact that I

993
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: haven't farted in front of him is like so good.

994
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: I'm thrilled with the winky pace that that's exactly what

995
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: that was high that I needed. So next week we'll

996
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: finish the questions and Olivia Holt is going to be

997
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 1: on the show. Yeay, it's gonna be so fun. Um.

998
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: I can't wait to answer more questions. You are very

999
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 1: respectful about the questions that you asked and mark the

1000
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: ones that you chose. It's like giving insight without being um,

1001
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: you know, too invasive. Yeah, we were talking about that.

1002
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: How nice it was the questions. It was like very

1003
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: respectful to Yeah, Like I felt as though sending him

1004
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: those questions, I was like, I think this might make

1005
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: him feel like better, you know what I mean, saut

1006
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,439
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Um, okay, well we'll be back next

1007
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: week and have a great week. Can't wait to hear

1008
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: um the party happening on my street right now. I

1009
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: just thought there was an earthquake. I just panics. So

1010
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: I live on a busy street and cars drive by

1011
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: blaring their music, so it's always fun. Never shook. I

1012
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: felt like might wow. Um, anyways, we will see you

1013
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: next week. We love you guys, and have a great day.

1014
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Speaker 1: Love you bye. H