Speaker 1: Five rooking Jebels Second date update. Dude named William is
Speaker 1: on the phone for today's second date update, and in
Speaker 1: his email he said he felt like a kid again.
Speaker 1: So I don't know if that means like you threw
Speaker 1: a tantrum and pete his pants and that's why she's
Speaker 1: not calling him back. We'll find out. Hey, William, what's
Speaker 1: up man? How are you? Hey? Good? How are you
Speaker 1: guys doing pretty good? Before we get into why you
Speaker 1: felt like a kid on your first date, tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Grace? Grace? Okay,
Speaker 1: and how did you meet Grace? So we actually got
Speaker 1: set up by a mutual friend of ours. It is
Speaker 1: kind of like a blind date. We had never met before.
Speaker 1: We just had a friend who thought that we would
Speaker 1: get along. She was like recently single, is what he
Speaker 1: told me. And what were you looking for, like in
Speaker 1: terms of relationships? Kind of just that I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: open to kind of where things go. So it didn't
Speaker 1: stop me that she had just gotten out of a relationship.
Speaker 1: But I figured, you know, if they thought it we'd
Speaker 1: get along, then you know, why not. Let's just see
Speaker 1: where it goes? Okay? So tell us about your date.
Speaker 1: Why did you feel like a kid? She old enough
Speaker 1: to be your mom? No, thank god. It started off
Speaker 1: just like kind of her chill. We we went and
Speaker 1: got coffee, and when she got there, I was just like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's like beautiful. Like he didn't tell
Speaker 1: me anything about the way she looked, but I mean beautiful,
Speaker 1: which kind of made me a little bit nervous. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, because you hadn't seen her at all, You
Speaker 1: hadn't even done any like online research of who this
Speaker 1: woman was. No, it kind of happened fast. But yeah,
Speaker 1: so we just kind of met and that was in
Speaker 1: So I was like stunned when she walked through the door.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. Did she seem pleasantly
Speaker 1: surprised by you? I think? So? Okay. I mean she
Speaker 1: didn't make any faces that indicated that she wasn't so
Speaker 1: vomit right away. No vomiting, no, not nothing, nothing that bad.
Speaker 1: But I mean she she smiled a lot, like she
Speaker 1: laughed at a lot of stuff that I was saying,
Speaker 1: So like, you know, I could tell that she was
Speaker 1: into me, and like I was into her. So the
Speaker 1: reason I said I felt like a kid is because
Speaker 1: we went for a walk afterward, is like the sun
Speaker 1: was going down and we were walking through this park
Speaker 1: and we passed by like a playground that nobody was on.
Speaker 1: There weren't any kids on or anything because it was
Speaker 1: at night, but we were both we looked at each
Speaker 1: other and we were like, this would be fun. Let's
Speaker 1: go like play on the playground together. Yeah, and she
Speaker 1: seemed really excited about the idea. And it's been a
Speaker 1: long time since I've like been on a swing or anything.
Speaker 1: So we went over there and just like played around
Speaker 1: for a while, which was really fun. That's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Was at the end of your date, as you guys
Speaker 1: were playing, then you went your separate ways or what happened? Now? No,
Speaker 1: we so we we played we kind of did you
Speaker 1: know for a little while, but kind of got over
Speaker 1: that and then we just kind of laid down like
Speaker 1: there was like one of those old kind of like
Speaker 1: merry go round sort of things that spin, and we
Speaker 1: were there for probably a couple of hours, like talking
Speaker 1: about like I never imagined in this first date, like
Speaker 1: we get in but we talked about everything, like it
Speaker 1: got really deep, which was you know, it was It
Speaker 1: was cool and then we it just like it went
Speaker 1: on and on and we like lost track of time,
Speaker 1: and I looked at my phone, which I didn't look
Speaker 1: at the whole time pretty much, and realized it was
Speaker 1: like midnight. Oh my god, Yeah, you got a park
Speaker 1: at midnight. You gotta get out of there. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: two grown adults in a park at midnight's probably not
Speaker 1: a good look. Yeah, but no, she just um so
Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, I can't believe it's midnight.
Speaker 1: And so I walked her back to her car, and uh,
Speaker 1: I realized afterward I probably was a good place to
Speaker 1: kiss her, but I didn't. But we you know, made
Speaker 1: it to her car, hugged goodbye, and she left, you know,
Speaker 1: asked her because it was so late. I was like,
Speaker 1: can you text me when you get home? And she
Speaker 1: did and that was it. That was the end of it.
Speaker 1: So that was the last time you've heard from her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So when she texted me back that night to be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got home safe, that was the last time that
Speaker 1: I heard from her. And I've texted her, I left
Speaker 1: her messages. I even like, I reached out to my
Speaker 1: buddy who set us up, and he was like, I
Speaker 1: haven't heard from her either since then, so like, I
Speaker 1: literally have no idea what's going on. It sounds like
Speaker 1: a really intimate date, you know, and that you guys
Speaker 1: really got to know each other. Maybe it was just
Speaker 1: too much for her right out of a relationship. Maybe
Speaker 1: she got scared. Maybe I don't know. I mean, she
Speaker 1: was like really open with stuff, and you know, like
Speaker 1: I really was like listening to her, and so yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but like if she felt
Speaker 1: that way, like she could tell me. But like I've
Speaker 1: not heard a thing from her at all, like anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song and then come back and
Speaker 1: call her and see if she'll answer our phone call
Speaker 1: and get your second day to date. Okay, okay, thank you,
Speaker 1: all right, hang up looking jubile in the morning dates
Speaker 1: all right. In the middle of today's second day update,
Speaker 1: and if you missed the first part, William wants to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Grace. They were set up, I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like a blind date. Everything happened quickly. He
Speaker 1: didn't even see her before they went out. They met
Speaker 1: for coffee and then ended up hanging out at a
Speaker 1: playground until midnight, and he felt like a kid again.
Speaker 1: He said it was awesome. The one thing he does regret, though,
Speaker 1: is that he didn't kiss her at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, and now he's not getting a call back
Speaker 1: and he doesn't know why. Will I'm thinking maybe it
Speaker 1: was the kissing. Maybe you should have kissed her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought about that, like, I feel like maybe I
Speaker 1: had a chance to do that and I didn't, and
Speaker 1: now I regret it. But then I just I keep
Speaker 1: thinking about everything, like I mean, I just I want
Speaker 1: to know what it is like if I did something
Speaker 1: or said something do her, if you were to kiss
Speaker 1: or what would it sound like? What? Why you want
Speaker 1: to kiss? Sound? Yeah, William? Uh, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I want to do that. Come on, just a little sample.
Speaker 1: Why what does a William kiss sound like? It sounds normal? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a good answer, William. And sorry, No, you have
Speaker 1: your fantasy. Okay, I'm gonna dial her phone of her
Speaker 1: right now? Are you ready? Yeah? No, I'm I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Anything to stop talking about my kissing sounds all right?
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Grace please? Yeah? Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Grace. Hi, I'm Jewel from brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning. Hi. Hi. She's like, I don't know what
Speaker 1: that is. Who is this again? Jewel from Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. I mean,
Speaker 1: we're people, but we are on a radio show. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: why are you calling me? I'm calling you because we
Speaker 1: got an email about you from somebody who listens to show.
Speaker 1: His name is William William. He likes coffee and playgrounds.
Speaker 1: Can you make him someone weird? What's going on? We
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then don't call them after, they can email
Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: what happened. So William emailed us about you. He said
Speaker 1: that you guys had a great date and now you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back. Oh, this is really awkward on
Speaker 1: the radio, Like people hear me right now? Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: if they're listening they will ye, this is really okay. Um.
Speaker 1: He said a lot of really lovely things about you
Speaker 1: and your date sounded actually pretty magical. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it was a really it was a nice date. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So if it was a nice date and there were
Speaker 1: no problems with William, Then why won't you go out
Speaker 1: with him again? I feel really, really really bad because
Speaker 1: he is a really good guy and it was a
Speaker 1: really nice date. But we're not going to be going
Speaker 1: out again. Why? I mean, I didn't really plan for this. Um, well,
Speaker 1: what did he tell you? He said that you guys
Speaker 1: went out for coffee, then hung out on a playground
Speaker 1: and enjoy doing that until about midnight, and that was it.
Speaker 1: He also said he regrets not kissing you because he
Speaker 1: wanted to kiss you. Apparently he makes a really cool
Speaker 1: sound when he kisses. He regrets not kissing you though,
Speaker 1: Oh god, he's such a good guy. If you if
Speaker 1: you liked him so much, then can you at least
Speaker 1: tell us why so we can let him know. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you hated the dude and never want to hear
Speaker 1: from M again or whatever, I could understand you're just
Speaker 1: not telling us anything. But do you think he has
Speaker 1: a right to know? Well? Literally, when I got home
Speaker 1: after a date, I gotta knock on my door. It
Speaker 1: was my ex and we've been together for four years,
Speaker 1: like we've only been broken up for like a week,
Speaker 1: And he knocked at my door and he was really
Speaker 1: emotional and he had followed me and William through the
Speaker 1: entire date that we had, and he just following you guys,
Speaker 1: that's creepy. I kind of thought it was really kind
Speaker 1: of sweet. What he really thought like it should have
Speaker 1: been me and him instead of me and this new
Speaker 1: guy William. So wait, was he like in the park
Speaker 1: watching you this whole time that you're hanging out with
Speaker 1: your date? Yeah? I think he was like in his
Speaker 1: car and he was just taking I was okay, creepy.
Speaker 1: You don't see that as a red flag? No, I
Speaker 1: thought it was really sweet. But he just like waited
Speaker 1: for me and was making sure I was okay. And
Speaker 1: he doesn't know who William is. So what if William
Speaker 1: was like this crazy guy, he's just protecting me. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you see it as a good protection thing rather
Speaker 1: than a creepy stalker thing. Yeah. I mean I was
Speaker 1: with him for four years. I know him pretty well,
Speaker 1: so no, he's not a stalker. Yeah, it was a guy,
Speaker 1: I guess. I mean what happened Then that night he
Speaker 1: comes to your house. He's crying and he's like really
Speaker 1: upset and he really wants to get back together, and
Speaker 1: he says he's really serious about us, and he brought
Speaker 1: flowers and he wrote this really long letter and I
Speaker 1: was just really overwhelmed. And he was saying that he
Speaker 1: regretted cheating on me and he shouldn't have done that,
Speaker 1: and he's an apologizing and that's why you guys broke up. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: hee did once in four years? Well yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I think even yeah, I think one time for
Speaker 1: a lot of people is too much. But can you
Speaker 1: get one every four years? I guess yeah. But it
Speaker 1: was like the girl was kind of shoving herself on him,
Speaker 1: like she was like a really big flirt. Okay, so
Speaker 1: wait are you I mean, you're defending him a lot
Speaker 1: right now. Well, because he's a good guy. I've known
Speaker 1: him for him, he's not like a stalker and he's
Speaker 1: not a cheater, Like he's not like Furial. It's not
Speaker 1: that one time. I mean, he did both of those things,
Speaker 1: but that doesn't make him those things. I mean, he's
Speaker 1: just emotionally like overwhelmed. That's why he followed me and
Speaker 1: like we were having problems in our relationship and the
Speaker 1: scroll was just like shoving herself on him. So okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So are you saying that you don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with Willigan because you're getting back with your ax. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't give up on my guy. You know, William
Speaker 1: and I really had a great time. But I've only
Speaker 1: been single for a week and I've been with my
Speaker 1: guy for four years, and you know, we're really serious now,
Speaker 1: so I have to give him another shot. Why don't
Speaker 1: you tell Will that? Because Will is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening. I wants to talk to you. Will.
Speaker 1: Are you still there? Yeah, I am here, Grace Meet Will,
Speaker 1: Will Meet Grace, Will, Grace. I'm so sorry that I
Speaker 1: sort of dropped off, but I just I just didn't
Speaker 1: know how to handle the situation. I'm just I'm really
Speaker 1: embarrassed and I'm so sorry. Yeah, I mean I get
Speaker 1: that if that was a rough way to hear that stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I also didn't plan on being on the radio. I
Speaker 1: didn't even know you were listening. Yeah, but I just
Speaker 1: I texted you like a lot, and I called you
Speaker 1: and left messages and like I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 1: And then like to find out that like that's what
Speaker 1: happened that night after you left, and like that's why
Speaker 1: I haven't heard back from you, Like I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: that's I know. I like, okay, honestly, like I haven't
Speaker 1: dated in four years, you know, and my girlfriends were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's okay to like not respond after one day. So
Speaker 1: I thought, like that was like my response not responding.
Speaker 1: You could ask your boyfriend because he's been on I mean, yeah, like,
Speaker 1: what is the deal with this guy? Like, honestly he
Speaker 1: cheats on you? Like it sounded like it was a
Speaker 1: bad point in your relationship and like, yeah, it was
Speaker 1: like barely anything. I just like really reacted impulsively. But
Speaker 1: just for the record, like if it was you and I,
Speaker 1: like I would never cheat on you. I mean think
Speaker 1: of like it took this guy cheating on you and
Speaker 1: you breaking up with him for him to like open
Speaker 1: up to you the way that you and I did
Speaker 1: the very first time we met. Like, don't you feel
Speaker 1: like we had like something like really special that is
Speaker 1: like not like this other guy, Oh what a sight
Speaker 1: for it? Will you know? I've been with him for
Speaker 1: four years and he's a really good guy, and we
Speaker 1: definitely had like a connection, but we had more than
Speaker 1: a connection. I mean like I mean did wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: did you tell him that we were going on a date,
Speaker 1: Like is that how we knew where we were or
Speaker 1: did he just like find out on his own? I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I I told him that we were going
Speaker 1: on a date, But it wasn't like a like a
Speaker 1: weird thing like it was. I just was telling him
Speaker 1: when I was doing that day. I mean, listen, you
Speaker 1: were so nice. You really are a good guy, you know,
Speaker 1: and in any other universe we would definitely be trying something.
Speaker 1: But like right now, it's it's just not gonna work. Grace.
Speaker 1: So are you saying you want to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with William because if you do, we'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Would you like to go on a second
Speaker 1: date with William? I don't think we'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Hold on before you answer that, Grace, do listen to
Speaker 1: me for a second, Like think about what you're comparing here,
Speaker 1: Like you're looking at a guy who, even after four
Speaker 1: years with you, cheated on you. He only got back
Speaker 1: together with you because of like this desperate with him
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night to like come to
Speaker 1: your apartment after coming home from a date with another person.
Speaker 1: Or you've got like this guy who, like you had
Speaker 1: this really real connection with you have a chance to
Speaker 1: like start over with something good instead of like going
Speaker 1: back to this old thing that you saw, did it
Speaker 1: work and that, I mean, that's what you want to do, ma'am.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I I really have to give this
Speaker 1: a shot because I really care about him, and again,
Speaker 1: like you're so wonderful and like what you just said
Speaker 1: to me. If I was single, I would be like, yes,
Speaker 1: of course. I think everyone right now who has been
Speaker 1: in a relationship where they've been cheated on is just
Speaker 1: screaming like it's hot. I mean, I hope it works
Speaker 1: out for you, Grace, but the majority of people in
Speaker 1: your situation, you're just going to end up breaking up
Speaker 1: with him again and wasting more time and energy on
Speaker 1: a relationship that isn't going to last. That's your opinion,
Speaker 1: and you're entitled to have that. But I know him
Speaker 1: and I have to give it a shot. Okay, Sorry,
Speaker 1: I've been there. I get it. Sorry, William, no second date,
Speaker 1: Maybe start cheating on women and then well broken Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning,