WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Playground Peeper

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<v Speaker 1>Five rooking Jebels Second date update. Dude named William is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for today's second date update, and in

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<v Speaker 1>his email he said he felt like a kid again.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if that means like you threw

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<v Speaker 1>a tantrum and pete his pants and that's why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. We'll find out. Hey, William, what's

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<v Speaker 1>up man? How are you? Hey? Good? How are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys doing pretty good? Before we get into why you

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<v Speaker 1>felt like a kid on your first date, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Grace? Grace? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and how did you meet Grace? So we actually got

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<v Speaker 1>set up by a mutual friend of ours. It is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a blind date. We had never met before.

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<v Speaker 1>We just had a friend who thought that we would

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<v Speaker 1>get along. She was like recently single, is what he

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<v Speaker 1>told me. And what were you looking for, like in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of relationships? Kind of just that I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>open to kind of where things go. So it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>stop me that she had just gotten out of a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>But I figured, you know, if they thought it we'd

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<v Speaker 1>get along, then you know, why not. Let's just see

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<v Speaker 1>where it goes? Okay? So tell us about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you feel like a kid? She old enough

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<v Speaker 1>to be your mom? No, thank god. It started off

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<v Speaker 1>just like kind of her chill. We we went and

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<v Speaker 1>got coffee, and when she got there, I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, she's like beautiful. Like he didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me anything about the way she looked, but I mean beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>which kind of made me a little bit nervous. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, because you hadn't seen her at all, You

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't even done any like online research of who this

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<v Speaker 1>woman was. No, it kind of happened fast. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we just kind of met and that was in

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like stunned when she walked through the door.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god. Did she seem pleasantly

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<v Speaker 1>surprised by you? I think? So? Okay. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make any faces that indicated that she wasn't so

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<v Speaker 1>vomit right away. No vomiting, no, not nothing, nothing that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean she she smiled a lot, like she

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<v Speaker 1>laughed at a lot of stuff that I was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>So like, you know, I could tell that she was

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<v Speaker 1>into me, and like I was into her. So the

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<v Speaker 1>reason I said I felt like a kid is because

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<v Speaker 1>we went for a walk afterward, is like the sun

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<v Speaker 1>was going down and we were walking through this park

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<v Speaker 1>and we passed by like a playground that nobody was on.

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<v Speaker 1>There weren't any kids on or anything because it was

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<v Speaker 1>at night, but we were both we looked at each

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<v Speaker 1>other and we were like, this would be fun. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>go like play on the playground together. Yeah, and she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed really excited about the idea. And it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>long time since I've like been on a swing or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So we went over there and just like played around

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, which was really fun. That's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Was at the end of your date, as you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were playing, then you went your separate ways or what happened? Now? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we so we we played we kind of did you

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<v Speaker 1>know for a little while, but kind of got over

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<v Speaker 1>that and then we just kind of laid down like

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<v Speaker 1>there was like one of those old kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>merry go round sort of things that spin, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were there for probably a couple of hours, like talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like I never imagined in this first date, like

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<v Speaker 1>we get in but we talked about everything, like it

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<v Speaker 1>got really deep, which was you know, it was It

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<v Speaker 1>was cool and then we it just like it went

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<v Speaker 1>on and on and we like lost track of time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I looked at my phone, which I didn't look

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<v Speaker 1>at the whole time pretty much, and realized it was

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<v Speaker 1>like midnight. Oh my god, Yeah, you got a park

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<v Speaker 1>at midnight. You gotta get out of there. Yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>two grown adults in a park at midnight's probably not

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<v Speaker 1>a good look. Yeah, but no, she just um so

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh my god, I can't believe it's midnight.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I walked her back to her car, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized afterward I probably was a good place to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her, but I didn't. But we you know, made

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<v Speaker 1>it to her car, hugged goodbye, and she left, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>asked her because it was so late. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you text me when you get home? And she

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<v Speaker 1>did and that was it. That was the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was the last time you've heard from her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So when she texted me back that night to be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got home safe, that was the last time that

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<v Speaker 1>I heard from her. And I've texted her, I left

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<v Speaker 1>her messages. I even like, I reached out to my

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<v Speaker 1>buddy who set us up, and he was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard from her either since then, so like, I

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<v Speaker 1>literally have no idea what's going on. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a really intimate date, you know, and that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>really got to know each other. Maybe it was just

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<v Speaker 1>too much for her right out of a relationship. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she got scared. Maybe I don't know. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>was like really open with stuff, and you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I really was like listening to her, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what happened, but like if she felt

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<v Speaker 1>that way, like she could tell me. But like I've

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<v Speaker 1>not heard a thing from her at all, like anything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song and then come back and

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<v Speaker 1>call her and see if she'll answer our phone call

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day to date. Okay, okay, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang up looking jubile in the morning dates

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<v Speaker 1>all right. In the middle of today's second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you missed the first part, William wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Grace. They were set up, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a blind date. Everything happened quickly. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even see her before they went out. They met

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<v Speaker 1>for coffee and then ended up hanging out at a

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<v Speaker 1>playground until midnight, and he felt like a kid again.

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<v Speaker 1>He said it was awesome. The one thing he does regret, though,

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<v Speaker 1>is that he didn't kiss her at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and now he's not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>and he doesn't know why. Will I'm thinking maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was the kissing. Maybe you should have kissed her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about that, like, I feel like maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>had a chance to do that and I didn't, and

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<v Speaker 1>now I regret it. But then I just I keep

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about everything, like I mean, I just I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what it is like if I did something

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<v Speaker 1>or said something do her, if you were to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>or what would it sound like? What? Why you want

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss? Sound? Yeah, William? Uh, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do that. Come on, just a little sample.

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<v Speaker 1>Why what does a William kiss sound like? It sounds normal? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good answer, William. And sorry, No, you have

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<v Speaker 1>your fantasy. Okay, I'm gonna dial her phone of her

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Are you ready? Yeah? No, I'm I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything to stop talking about my kissing sounds all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Grace please? Yeah? Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Grace. Hi, I'm Jewel from brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Hi. Hi. She's like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is. Who is this again? Jewel from Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we're people, but we are on a radio show. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you calling me? I'm calling you because we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from somebody who listens to show.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is William William. He likes coffee and playgrounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you make him someone weird? What's going on? We

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then don't call them after, they can email

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<v Speaker 1>us to get you on the phone and find out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. So William emailed us about you. He said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys had a great date and now you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. Oh, this is really awkward on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio, Like people hear me right now? Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if they're listening they will ye, this is really okay. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>He said a lot of really lovely things about you

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<v Speaker 1>and your date sounded actually pretty magical. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was a really it was a nice date. Okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So if it was a nice date and there were

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<v Speaker 1>no problems with William, Then why won't you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? I feel really, really really bad because

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<v Speaker 1>he is a really good guy and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice date. But we're not going to be going

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<v Speaker 1>out again. Why? I mean, I didn't really plan for this. Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what did he tell you? He said that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out for coffee, then hung out on a playground

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoy doing that until about midnight, and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>He also said he regrets not kissing you because he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss you. Apparently he makes a really cool

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<v Speaker 1>sound when he kisses. He regrets not kissing you though,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, he's such a good guy. If you if

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<v Speaker 1>you liked him so much, then can you at least

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<v Speaker 1>tell us why so we can let him know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you hated the dude and never want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from M again or whatever, I could understand you're just

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<v Speaker 1>not telling us anything. But do you think he has

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<v Speaker 1>a right to know? Well? Literally, when I got home

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<v Speaker 1>after a date, I gotta knock on my door. It

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<v Speaker 1>was my ex and we've been together for four years,

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<v Speaker 1>like we've only been broken up for like a week,

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<v Speaker 1>And he knocked at my door and he was really

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<v Speaker 1>emotional and he had followed me and William through the

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<v Speaker 1>entire date that we had, and he just following you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>that's creepy. I kind of thought it was really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sweet. What he really thought like it should have

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<v Speaker 1>been me and him instead of me and this new

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<v Speaker 1>guy William. So wait, was he like in the park

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<v Speaker 1>watching you this whole time that you're hanging out with

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<v Speaker 1>your date? Yeah? I think he was like in his

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<v Speaker 1>car and he was just taking I was okay, creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't see that as a red flag? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was really sweet. But he just like waited

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<v Speaker 1>for me and was making sure I was okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't know who William is. So what if William

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<v Speaker 1>was like this crazy guy, he's just protecting me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you see it as a good protection thing rather

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<v Speaker 1>than a creepy stalker thing. Yeah. I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>with him for four years. I know him pretty well,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, he's not a stalker. Yeah, it was a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. I mean what happened Then that night he

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<v Speaker 1>comes to your house. He's crying and he's like really

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<v Speaker 1>upset and he really wants to get back together, and

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<v Speaker 1>he says he's really serious about us, and he brought

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<v Speaker 1>flowers and he wrote this really long letter and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just really overwhelmed. And he was saying that he

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<v Speaker 1>regretted cheating on me and he shouldn't have done that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's an apologizing and that's why you guys broke up. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hee did once in four years? Well yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think even yeah, I think one time for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people is too much. But can you

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<v Speaker 1>get one every four years? I guess yeah. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the girl was kind of shoving herself on him,

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<v Speaker 1>like she was like a really big flirt. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>wait are you I mean, you're defending him a lot

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Well, because he's a good guy. I've known

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<v Speaker 1>him for him, he's not like a stalker and he's

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<v Speaker 1>not a cheater, Like he's not like Furial. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>that one time. I mean, he did both of those things,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't make him those things. I mean, he's

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<v Speaker 1>just emotionally like overwhelmed. That's why he followed me and

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<v Speaker 1>like we were having problems in our relationship and the

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<v Speaker 1>scroll was just like shoving herself on him. So okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So are you saying that you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Willigan because you're getting back with your ax. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give up on my guy. You know, William

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<v Speaker 1>and I really had a great time. But I've only

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<v Speaker 1>been single for a week and I've been with my

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<v Speaker 1>guy for four years, and you know, we're really serious now,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have to give him another shot. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you tell Will that? Because Will is actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening. I wants to talk to you. Will.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still there? Yeah, I am here, Grace Meet Will,

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<v Speaker 1>Will Meet Grace, Will, Grace. I'm so sorry that I

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<v Speaker 1>sort of dropped off, but I just I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to handle the situation. I'm just I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed and I'm so sorry. Yeah, I mean I get

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<v Speaker 1>that if that was a rough way to hear that stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I also didn't plan on being on the radio. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know you were listening. Yeah, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>I texted you like a lot, and I called you

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<v Speaker 1>and left messages and like I didn't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like to find out that like that's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened that night after you left, and like that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard back from you, Like I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's I know. I like, okay, honestly, like I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>dated in four years, you know, and my girlfriends were like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay to like not respond after one day. So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, like that was like my response not responding.

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<v Speaker 1>You could ask your boyfriend because he's been on I mean, yeah, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is the deal with this guy? Like, honestly he

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<v Speaker 1>cheats on you? Like it sounded like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>bad point in your relationship and like, yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like barely anything. I just like really reacted impulsively. But

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<v Speaker 1>just for the record, like if it was you and I,

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<v Speaker 1>like I would never cheat on you. I mean think

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<v Speaker 1>of like it took this guy cheating on you and

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<v Speaker 1>you breaking up with him for him to like open

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<v Speaker 1>up to you the way that you and I did

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<v Speaker 1>the very first time we met. Like, don't you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we had like something like really special that is

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<v Speaker 1>like not like this other guy, Oh what a sight

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<v Speaker 1>for it? Will you know? I've been with him for

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<v Speaker 1>four years and he's a really good guy, and we

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<v Speaker 1>definitely had like a connection, but we had more than

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<v Speaker 1>a connection. I mean like I mean did wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell him that we were going on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>Like is that how we knew where we were or

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<v Speaker 1>did he just like find out on his own? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I I told him that we were going

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, But it wasn't like a like a

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing like it was. I just was telling him

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<v Speaker 1>when I was doing that day. I mean, listen, you

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<v Speaker 1>were so nice. You really are a good guy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and in any other universe we would definitely be trying something.

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<v Speaker 1>But like right now, it's it's just not gonna work. Grace.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you saying you want to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with William because if you do, we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Would you like to go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with William? I don't think we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on before you answer that, Grace, do listen to

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<v Speaker 1>me for a second, Like think about what you're comparing here,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're looking at a guy who, even after four

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<v Speaker 1>years with you, cheated on you. He only got back

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<v Speaker 1>together with you because of like this desperate with him

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the night to like come to

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<v Speaker 1>your apartment after coming home from a date with another person.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you've got like this guy who, like you had

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<v Speaker 1>this really real connection with you have a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>like start over with something good instead of like going

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<v Speaker 1>back to this old thing that you saw, did it

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<v Speaker 1>work and that, I mean, that's what you want to do, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I I really have to give this

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<v Speaker 1>a shot because I really care about him, and again,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're so wonderful and like what you just said

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<v Speaker 1>to me. If I was single, I would be like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. I think everyone right now who has been

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship where they've been cheated on is just

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<v Speaker 1>screaming like it's hot. I mean, I hope it works

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<v Speaker 1>out for you, Grace, but the majority of people in

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<v Speaker 1>your situation, you're just going to end up breaking up

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<v Speaker 1>with him again and wasting more time and energy on

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship that isn't going to last. That's your opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're entitled to have that. But I know him

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<v Speaker 1>and I have to give it a shot. Okay, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there. I get it. Sorry, William, no second date,

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe start cheating on women and then well broken Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,