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Speaker 1: Five rooking Jebels Second date update. Dude named William is

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Speaker 1: on the phone for today's second date update, and in

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Speaker 1: his email he said he felt like a kid again.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if that means like you threw

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Speaker 1: not calling him back. We'll find out. Hey, William, what's

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Speaker 1: up man? How are you? Hey? Good? How are you

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Speaker 1: guys doing pretty good? Before we get into why you

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Speaker 1: felt like a kid on your first date, tell us

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Speaker 1: about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Grace? Grace? Okay,

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Speaker 1: and how did you meet Grace? So we actually got

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Speaker 1: set up by a mutual friend of ours. It is

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Speaker 1: kind of like a blind date. We had never met before.

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Speaker 1: We just had a friend who thought that we would

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Speaker 1: get along. She was like recently single, is what he

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Speaker 1: told me. And what were you looking for, like in

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Speaker 1: But I figured, you know, if they thought it we'd

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Speaker 1: where it goes? Okay? So tell us about your date.

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Speaker 1: Why did you feel like a kid? She old enough

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Speaker 1: to be your mom? No, thank god. It started off

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Speaker 1: just like kind of her chill. We we went and

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Speaker 1: oh my god, she's like beautiful. Like he didn't tell

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Speaker 1: my god, because you hadn't seen her at all, You

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Speaker 1: hadn't even done any like online research of who this

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Speaker 1: So I was like stunned when she walked through the door.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. Did she seem pleasantly

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Speaker 1: surprised by you? I think? So? Okay. I mean she

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Speaker 1: But I mean she she smiled a lot, like she

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Speaker 1: So like, you know, I could tell that she was

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Speaker 1: we went for a walk afterward, is like the sun

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Speaker 1: other and we were like, this would be fun. Let's

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Speaker 1: So we went over there and just like played around

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Speaker 1: Was at the end of your date, as you guys

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Speaker 1: And so I walked her back to her car, and uh,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang up looking jubile in the morning dates

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Speaker 1: all right. In the middle of today's second day update,

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Speaker 1: and if you missed the first part, William wants to

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Speaker 1: call a girl named Grace. They were set up, I'm

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Speaker 1: kind of like a blind date. Everything happened quickly. He

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Speaker 1: He said it was awesome. The one thing he does regret, though,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't know why. Will I'm thinking maybe it

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Speaker 1: or what would it sound like? What? Why you want

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Speaker 1: I want to do that. Come on, just a little sample.

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Speaker 1: Why what does a William kiss sound like? It sounds normal? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's a good answer, William. And sorry, No, you have

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Grace please? Yeah? Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm Grace. Hi, I'm Jewel from brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Hi. Hi. She's like, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: that is. Who is this again? Jewel from Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we're people, but we are on a radio show. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: why are you calling me? I'm calling you because we

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Speaker 1: His name is William William. He likes coffee and playgrounds.

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Speaker 1: Can you make him someone weird? What's going on? We

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Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: what happened. So William emailed us about you. He said

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Speaker 1: not calling him back. Oh, this is really awkward on

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Speaker 1: the radio, Like people hear me right now? Yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: if they're listening they will ye, this is really okay. Um.

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Speaker 1: He said a lot of really lovely things about you

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Speaker 1: So if it was a nice date and there were

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Speaker 1: was like this crazy guy, he's just protecting me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you see it as a good protection thing rather

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Speaker 1: than a creepy stalker thing. Yeah. I mean I was

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Speaker 1: so no, he's not a stalker. Yeah, it was a guy,

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Speaker 1: I guess. I mean what happened Then that night he

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Speaker 1: and he's an apologizing and that's why you guys broke up. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: wait are you I mean, you're defending him a lot

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Speaker 1: right now. Well, because he's a good guy. I've known

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Speaker 1: him for him, he's not like a stalker and he's

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Speaker 1: not a cheater, Like he's not like Furial. It's not

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