1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody. It is Thursday, December fourth, and this 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: is day four of our Holiday Gift Guide. And each 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: day we've been sharing with you some holiday gift ideas 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: that our producers from iHeart sent to our apartment. We're 5 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 1: testing them out fifteen in total, one every weekday, and 6 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: the hope is we can make your holiday shopping a 7 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: little bit easier. We're not getting paid by these products. 8 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: We're giving our honest feedback about what these gifts have 9 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: been like to experience. And we have been very excited 10 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: about this particular gift. 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 2: This is dangerous. 12 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: It's a game. It's called fill your Tank questions people 13 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: are never honest about. Oh wow, okay you nervous? 14 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 2: Uh? I don't well, we're recording this. If I don't 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 2: like something, we can stop, all right. 16 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: So this deck of cards, I think this already, this 17 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: seems like a really fun, interactive gift. 18 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: Again. 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: It's called fill your Tank questions people are never honest about, 20 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: and so it has fifty three question cards. They're designed 21 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: to spark deeper, honest conversations and ones that you never 22 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: probably have on your own. 23 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 2: Now, is this something you can win or lose? Or 24 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 2: this is just something to have fun with like cars 25 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: of humanity against Umanity. 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: So I didn't read the rules. I think it's just 27 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: to have fun. So basically there are they've got three 28 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: different levels, so three different levels of intensity, so it 29 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: lets you start out light and easy, and then you 30 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: can get into more vulnerable conversations at your own pace. 31 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: So each level takes you deeper, okay, and then you 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: can get I didn't see this five bonus introspective questions, 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: so that you can get to know someone new or 34 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 1: reconnect with people you love. They suggest that you take 35 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: this box of cards with you on everything from wine 36 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: nights to weekend trips to late night couch chats, so 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: you can do it a group of two to six. 38 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: Don't take it on a honeymoon. 39 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: And maybe you should do this before you propose. 40 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: Wow. 41 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: But this is how they describe this deck of cards, raw, 42 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: unfiltered and intentionally honest, a fun way to break down 43 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: walls and actually learn something real about the people around you. 44 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 2: And that's why we got We held off because Sabine 45 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 2: was hanging out and opened this box, was checking out 46 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 2: and read us a few and we said stop. This 47 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 2: is going to be an incredible podcast because the questions 48 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: are uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable at least what we've seen so far, 49 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 2: and you're supposed to answer them honestly. Who's going to 50 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: answer this honestly in the middle of the game. 51 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: Well that's the whole point though, I mean the questions. 52 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,399 Speaker 1: Are we going to answer this honestly? Can we say? 53 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: Skip? 54 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: So we right now A gave each other yep, some 55 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: cards from level one, level two, and level three to 56 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: ask one another. Now we have looked at these cards, 57 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: we have not so I think we should be able 58 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: to have pass. 59 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: Come on, let's not do that. No passes here. Let's 60 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: show the people how this game is supposed to work. 61 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, is this and no? You give the 62 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 2: price and everything later? Is this a fairly new game 63 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: where something like this has been out and we're just 64 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: hearing about it. 65 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: I've never heard of this game before. You know, I 66 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: love games, Cards against Humanity, all of those kind of fun. 67 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: There's no winner loser in that, is it? Well, you're 68 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 2: just going around. 69 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: There's no winner or loser. No, but you people play 70 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: it with a glass of beverage in hand and have 71 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: fun with How would. 72 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: You play that? And seeing people get pissed like it 73 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: gets really uncomfortable. 74 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: Oh, I have seen I have been in situations where 75 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: couples get into we're going to break up fights over 76 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: certain things being revealed or said or shared or suspected. 77 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 2: So maybe this game is not one for everybody. Really, 78 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 2: you need to be playing with people you are very close, comfortable, 79 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: and who will be like maybe family. 80 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: I think you have to be in the right state 81 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: of mind. I think you have to be willing to 82 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: be open and vulnerable and want to hear honest answers 83 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: and not take things personally or have expectations that someone 84 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: should or needs to answer a certain way. 85 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: Is this supposed to be fun? 86 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: Though? It's supposed to be fun, But I'm a little murvous. 87 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: Maybe my story about breakup couples, but that was a 88 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: specific would you rather or I've one of those stupid 89 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: games and it just, man, it just absolutely spiraled out. 90 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 2: Okay, here, so these are the ones that Sabine already 91 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: let us here, so I'll share it. We've heard, so 92 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 2: let's give people an idea. Now. It just so happens 93 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: the ones Sabine gave us are all level three. Oh 94 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: I did not know. 95 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: That she went straight for the love of free intensity. 96 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: That makes sense. Okay. 97 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 2: So the cards just on one side have a color 98 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: and it says level one, level till over three And 99 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: then you turn on the back and the question is 100 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 2: there here it is is there somebody that left your 101 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: life that you wish stayed? A question like that? Right, 102 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: your head is spinning, and I'm sure people who are 103 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 2: listening you think about that. If you're sitting around with 104 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 2: a group of people and somebody asked you that in 105 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,799 Speaker 2: front of everybody, do you have and answer? Another card? 106 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 2: Level three? Describe your last poop. 107 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: Ill? 108 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 2: Would you do that in front of a group? 109 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: No? 110 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, Do you wish you lost your virginity at a 111 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 2: different time into a different person? 112 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: That could cause a problem in a relationship? 113 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 2: Another level three card? Turn them back and this is 114 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: all it says, worst sex story. 115 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: Go. 116 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 2: What is the most physically attractive part of yourself? I 117 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: think we answer that in front of Sabine. We had 118 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: a good time with. Yes, what would your younger self 119 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 2: say about the person you are today? It's not so 120 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 2: bad as the level three Right, that's not bad. What 121 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: do you think is the most beautiful thing about me? 122 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: Is this one? So that gives you an idea those 123 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 2: and when she went through those, we were having such 124 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: a good time. We said stop, we'll wait and we'll 125 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: do this in front of everybody. So do you so 126 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: far at least what you know of the game? Is 127 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 2: it something you recommend? 128 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: I think this is great. I think this is fun. 129 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: I think this is a fun gift because it's something 130 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 1: that could be played later. You know, we've got family 131 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: gatherings and again, as long as you're in a comfortable space, 132 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: this is a really fun gift that everyone can enjoy. 133 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: I like that. It's an experience and it's something that 134 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: can be used again and again and again. 135 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 2: Oh, there's nothing political. You don't know that yet. You 136 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: want to go you know what I'm going to do this? Okay, 137 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: I'm a star. Level two. Let's go down the middle 138 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: with a steet spot. I question again, folks, she has 139 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: not seen it. I have not seen it. We're all 140 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: going to do it. Lie, you're ready to be it? 141 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? All right? 142 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 2: Level two question from this gift we are possibly recommending 143 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 2: it says, would you rather be alone or settle for 144 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 2: the wrong person alone? What is an insult somebody said 145 00:06:55,720 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 2: to you that you still remember today, you're a fraud. 146 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: What is something you think people over react to. 147 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: Life's little annoyances? 148 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: Nice? What is something you learned in your last breakup? 149 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: And with that we'll take a commercial break up. 150 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: That it's better to be it's it's better to rip 151 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: the band aid off? 152 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 2: Wow? Wow? Okay, so those are all your level two. 153 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 2: I have to be honest with you. Not so bad. 154 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: No, it wasn't bad. But let's see how you feel 155 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: when I return. Should I do level two? I'll do 156 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: level two. I'll do tit for tat all. 157 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: Right, that's what a relationship is, after all. 158 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: When was the last time you cried? Uh? 159 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: Probably this morning? Typically I do it in the morning, 160 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: you know what. I'm be honest. I cary almost daily 161 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: with something emotional, not because something upset me, but something 162 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 2: touches me in some way. What was the last It 163 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: was during news coverage of some kind. I cannot remember, 164 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 2: but it was a news story that did it. 165 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: Wow, I do I do concur you do cry almost daily? 166 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: It's very sweet? I see you? 167 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: Why see not sweet? Sad? It's terrible. 168 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: No, you you're you're I feel like you're in connection 169 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: with your emotions. That's amazing. All right, would you rather 170 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: break somebody's heart or get your heartbroken? 171 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 2: Give my heart broken? 172 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? What is the farthest you've cyber stalked someone? 173 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: The farthest yep? 174 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: What does? 175 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: I don't even know what that means, Like how far? 176 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: How long have you googled, like done a deep dive 177 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: basically on somebody, like you're trying to figure. 178 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 2: Out like what ours days, weeks, months, Yeah. 179 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: It's the farthest you've cyber stalked somebody. 180 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if I ever have, only for a 181 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,479 Speaker 2: news story, probably cyberstalked. 182 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: Meaning like that's kind of it sounds like a nefarious term, 183 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: but you're googling them to find more and more. Like 184 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: it could even be a celebrity, like for instance, Terror Reid. Right, 185 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: we're looking to see what happened to her? How deep 186 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: did you dive into her life or whatever? Like that 187 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: would be the thing I could think of. 188 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 2: Not very is my response to. 189 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: Okay, are we going to go to level three? Oh? 190 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: You're done with Two's? 191 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: Okay? 192 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 2: So that wasn't so bad. 193 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: No, not at all. 194 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: That was so I assume the level ones won't be so. 195 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: So now my question is does the game go far enough. 196 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 2: My question to you now, is it provocative enough? 197 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: I think we'd have to go and see what level 198 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: three brings us. 199 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: All right, well, folks, stay with us when we come back. 200 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 2: You know what, let me knock out the level ones. 201 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: Can I do that with you? 202 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 203 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 2: Okay, so this can't be that bad. Level one? Is 204 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: your life more a result of luck or hard work? 205 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Hard work? All right? Are you a follow the herd 206 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: or create new ways? Mentality? 207 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's try to create new ways there. What is 208 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: a red flag you've ignored? Now? That's an interesting question. 209 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: Love bombing? 210 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 2: Nice? 211 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: What is the first thing you think about when you 212 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: wake up? Work? 213 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: Shit? It's work. 214 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: That's an honest answer, that's true. 215 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: From one to ten? How happy are you to wake 216 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 2: up every day? 217 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: Nine? 218 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to talk about that last one later. 219 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,599 Speaker 2: This is se that's a relationship question there. Why is 220 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: it not a ten? 221 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: Because it's four am? That's why seem like I could 222 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: wake up at six thirty, it'd be a ten. 223 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 2: You wake up alone every morning, and that's because I'm 224 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 2: already out of it. 225 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 1: I know, I know. Yeah, so I feel guilty. That's 226 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: part of that too. If time was frozen for eight 227 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: hours right now, and you could still move freely. What 228 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: would you do? 229 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 2: I have questions. I have questions. Is anybody going to 230 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: know what I was doing? 231 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: No? Because time is frozen, so you can do whatever 232 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: you want, Like all of us are frozen and it's 233 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: just you. What do you do? 234 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 2: I got eight hours? 235 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: Eight hours. 236 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: I might disappear, I might put it all together. And 237 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 2: when everybody starts moving again, where's TJ. 238 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: Well, that's a relationship vender too. 239 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 2: Look, were supposed to be honest here. If you don't 240 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: like my answers, you should stop asking scared questions. What 241 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: is the worst thing you have forgiven? I'm glad I 242 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 2: did not get that question? 243 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: The worst wow thing you have forgiven? Ooh? I just 244 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: think like, oh. 245 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 2: Do I have options? 246 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: I do? 247 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 2: Okay, that could come up with one. 248 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: Do you want to know what I was trying to think? 249 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: Have I truly forgiven? I think being lied about, like 250 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: deliberately maliciously lied about. I think for me that's been 251 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: the hardest start, and I think I've forgiven on my 252 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: way and last one for you ask a wise friend 253 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: in the group to oh, that doesn't make any sense, 254 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: what is it? Says? Ask a wise friend in the 255 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: group to write their own question into the deck and 256 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: sign it. 257 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, we're not going to do that. Most 258 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: embarrassing moment you chose to forget about. 259 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: Most embarrassing moment I chose to forget about? Well, then, 260 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: why would I want to tell everybody right now? 261 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 2: What is a small thing you judge people about? 262 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 263 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: I think do you hold grudges? 264 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: No? 265 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 2: See, okay, folks. That gives you an idea again the game. 266 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: What's the name here? Fill your tank? It comes in 267 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: this actually small, cute, little easily to carry. 268 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: I like it. 269 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: This is very at all cards to come in a 270 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 2: little box like this. It's very easy to travel with, 271 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 2: very easy to carry. But again those were level one 272 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 2: and level two a little uncomfortable at times. Stay here 273 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 2: will tell you where you can get this thing, how 274 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 2: much it's going to cost. You will tell you if 275 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 2: we actually do recommend it, and most importantly, we will 276 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 2: tell tell you how we are about to answer the 277 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 2: still unseen level three cards in the decks. Stay here, 278 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 2: we continue back. We are still together after the first 279 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 2: round level one and level two of this game. It's 280 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: our gift guy, Fill your tank. This is a fun one. 281 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: It's been a couple of beauty items so far, a 282 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 2: neck pillow. But this is a fun game, and if 283 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 2: you're going to get this one, I would recommend you 284 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: get it before the holiday so everybody could enjoy it. 285 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: Maybe during the holiday. 286 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really fun and thought provoking, and so far 287 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: it's interesting. The level one questions I think actually were 288 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: a little bit more fun trickier. 289 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: Oh well they may. They were more thought provocative, provocative 290 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: than yes than the two two. So I don't know 291 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: what to expect from level three. 292 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't either, but should we give it a whirl? 293 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: Level three questions again reminded they come in level one, 294 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 2: level two, Level three these are supposed to be the 295 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,719 Speaker 2: more difficult and probing ones. How about this, robes, What 296 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 2: are you insecure about that you shouldn't be but still are? Damn? 297 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 2: These are tough things. 298 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: That something that I'm insecure about that I shouldn't be, 299 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: but that I still am. Ah, I'm trying to think they. 300 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 2: Do get tougher. I guess they do. 301 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: I guess that I no that I actually should be 302 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: insecure about that. Guess. 303 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you need to move on. 304 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: I know I can't think of that's a tough one. 305 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: Rapid fire. All right. 306 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: What is the most pain you felt that wasn't physical? 307 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: Uh, it might have been a was it a relationship? 308 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of a more gutting one. I'm 309 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: thinking about deaths and family members. A pain I felt 310 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 2: there was a personal defeat, you know, it might have Yeah, 311 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: I remember her heartbreak more than anything else. I'm trying 312 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 2: to think of a pain that wasn't physical. I remember 313 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 2: that more anything. Yeah, I had some professional losses that 314 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 2: job and work out. I didn't get that. It was 315 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 2: just devastating and almost feel that in my gut, and 316 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: so the stuff was in the heart. 317 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. 318 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: If someone were to write a biography about you, what 319 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: would you want them to leave out? These do get good? 320 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 2: Oh man, y'all should see her face right now. 321 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: I would say I would want them to leave out 322 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: any anything embarrassing, which is a lot. 323 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, keep it going, all right. 324 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: What is the worst thing you've had to apologize to 325 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: someone else for? 326 00:15:55,440 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 2: Worst thing I apologize to some one else? 327 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: Four? 328 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 2: The worst thing I've apologized for Because I think I 329 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 2: think of all these bad things I've done, I'd never 330 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: apologized for it. That reads I'm kidding. I know the 331 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 2: worst thing I'm trying to I stole something once, but 332 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: I was a child, so I don't know if that 333 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 2: was so bad. You know what I I apologize to 334 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: a coworker for talking about them behind their back, and 335 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 2: I walked them into the I went into their face 336 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: and I said I should have I had a problem 337 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 2: with you, and I told somebody else about it, and 338 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: I ducked around it and I skipped and I walked 339 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: to her and I looked at her in the face 340 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: and I said, hey, I apologize, and this happened and 341 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 2: I had to reveal and we were cool after that. 342 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: Wow, that's impressive. 343 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: I'm not sure why I ended up doing that old, 344 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: but yeah, I didn't have to. Not impressive. 345 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: Most people wouldn't do that. That's that. That takes a 346 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: lot of courage. 347 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 2: I know the level three for you? How many items 348 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 2: are in your bedside drawer that you would choose not 349 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 2: to disclose to a group? 350 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: Zero? 351 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in there. 352 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: You've seen it. There's nothing in there. 353 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 2: It's a mess, though. 354 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: But other than that, Penn's keys, passports. 355 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 2: And a bunch of glass cases, sunglass and a. 356 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: Lot of yep, and then I have a lot of 357 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: lip balm, like lots of different kinds of But that's 358 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: not embarrassing, all right. What is something you wish people 359 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:39,479 Speaker 1: noticed more about you? 360 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 2: You know what kindness? People recognize it individually, but you 361 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 2: have seen this, like the the I forget sometimes the 362 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 2: things I have done, and then I have somebody come 363 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 2: up to me and say, man, several years ago when 364 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 2: I had bo I have that happen to me on 365 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: individual basis, But I am considered sometimes. I mean, yes, 366 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,360 Speaker 2: that story is written not for us sometimes, but I 367 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 2: think I am even sometimes I stop and I go, wow, 368 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 2: I forgot I did that? Remember we in Arkansas and 369 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 2: this girl I ain't talked to. She's a grown woman now, 370 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 2: she said when she was in high school, I wrote 371 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: a letter to her encouraging her to go to the 372 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 2: Universe of Arkansas Journalism department and not the University of Missouri. 373 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: You remember that, That's very cool. 374 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,959 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I find like things like that I 375 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 2: don't recognize. And sometimes everybody, remember, you make an impact 376 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 2: on people, one buccaroo at a times. 377 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes yes, But I think people also just don't recognize 378 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 1: how kind you are for a lot of reasons, because 379 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 1: you're direct, and I think there's a real kindness to that. 380 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: But some people are taken aback by that and don't 381 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 1: recognize how kind that actually is. I've appreciated that about you, 382 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: and some people aren't, like it's better than being some 383 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: smooth talking schmoozer who's just manipulating you. You are not 384 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: like that, and there's a real kindness to that, which 385 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: I appreciate. I was actually trying to think about because 386 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 1: I didn't want to skip out of not having the 387 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 1: insecure you know what it is? I would think something 388 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: that I'm still insecure about that I shouldn't be is 389 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: weakness of any kind, physical or mental or emotional. I 390 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: am insecure about it. I beat myself up about it. 391 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 1: I don't give myself the up because I don't like 392 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: to be weak and that's ridiculous, and I feel insecure 393 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 1: about it. So I always maybe even posture or try 394 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: to prove something when I know I can't do it 395 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: physically or weakness. The weakness is that, No, what is 396 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 1: weakness to you? Oh, physically not being able to do 397 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 1: something or reach something. 398 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 2: Any I can't do. We all can't, but sure. 399 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: About it, And I think I try to pretend like 400 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm not, and that's that is something that's I need 401 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: to let go. But I know that I'm like. 402 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 2: That, like on the plane trying to put your bag. 403 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: Up exactly exactly. 404 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. See, who's a big girl to make fun 405 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:55,640 Speaker 2: of me? Three? 406 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 1: Oh you got one more? 407 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 2: Oh you don't have any more? One? Great? Do you 408 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 2: still think about your excess? That's the question. 409 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 1: No, that is very easy to answer. Absolutely. 410 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So folks, that gives you an idea of this game. 411 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 2: It's this is a fun one. Fill your tank, and 412 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: it's one I think is more fun the more people 413 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 2: maybe you have around the table. Really is our drinks 414 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: necessary for this one? 415 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: They're not necessary, but they might make people be a 416 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: little more honest. You know what they say about liquid courage. 417 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: So look, if you are somebody who likes to have 418 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,439 Speaker 1: a little wine a little beer when you're playing a 419 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,880 Speaker 1: game around the table, this would sure be a fun one, 420 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 1: I think to add to the merriment. 421 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: And this isn't an expensive one? Well, yes, where can 422 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 2: we find this one? And how much it's going to 423 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 2: set us back? 424 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 1: Yes? So this is at goop dot com and the 425 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 1: retail price is twenty five bucks. So it's a perfect 426 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: stocking stuffer. It's a great gift to give someone that 427 00:20:56,240 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 1: everyone can enjoy. So I fully recommend this. How about you? 428 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 2: Can you use this over and over? I wonder if 429 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 2: you with the same group or will this get old? 430 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: I think you would definitely want to mix up the 431 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: groups because at a certain point if you go through 432 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: all the cards. A lot of these types of games, 433 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 1: if they're successful, they'll have like edition one, Edition two, 434 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,880 Speaker 1: they know that they have to kind of keep upping. 435 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: The anti cards against Humanity has like I don't even 436 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: know how many different variations that you can keep playing it. 437 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: But I love the idea of this, and I think 438 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: it could make your holidays even more fun because you're 439 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: going deep. You're getting to learn about the people who 440 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: you love spending time. 441 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 2: With, or you'll have a family disaster, but either way 442 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 2: it'll be entertaining. With that, we also one, two, three. 443 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of this is is this the 444 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 2: first one I recommend? 445 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: Maybe? I don't know if you have because you really 446 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 1: haven't put your rubber stamp on anything because they've mostly 447 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: been for us girls. 448 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 2: Yes, the neck pillow thing, I at least acknowledged it 449 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 2: looks better than the other neck pillows without the hood. 450 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: Though without the hood. Okay, anyway, that was Gift three. 451 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 1: Check out now and tomorrow. I want to tease what 452 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,719 Speaker 1: we are bringing to you tomorrow. It will be our 453 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,160 Speaker 1: Friday gift, So this will be the fifth in our series. 454 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: It is for the athletic content creator in your life. 455 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: It is it's a multifunctional gift that I believe most 456 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: people under the age of thirty five will love. There 457 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: there's some function to this and some fun to it. 458 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: So excited about bringing this one to you tomorrow. 459 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 2: Most confusing tease ever, which is what teases should be. 460 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 2: It's a mystery. 461 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: And with that everyone, thank you for listening to us. 462 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: I made roboch alongside TJ. Holmes. We'll talk to you soon.