WEBVTT - #162: What's In Your Death Box? 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:08.400 Start Up, Start Up, Brooklyn Boys, Start Up, Brooklyn Buys, 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:15.680 Start dat Up. They make it noise, dat Up, start Up. 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:19.720 Episode one sixty two. This is the Brooklyn Boys podcast. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:24.200 What's yeah? We made it? It reminds me of nineteen 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:27.320 sixty two. I was not alive, but that's the year 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.280 the Mets became a team, and you know we're fans, 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.400 So sixty two reminds me of the Mets. I didn't 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:34.680 bring it up an episode sixty two, but now that 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.479 we've got a one, it's like three out of the 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:43.280 four digits. When I did hundred episodes and probably two years. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.640 I'm letting you know I'm not gonna do the math here, 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.320 and please don't tweet me on the math. But when 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:52.000 we get to episode one thousand nine sixty two, right, 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:55.320 that'll be that'll be a while from now. That'll be 0:00:55.360 --> 0:01:00.280 the year, right, yeah, the year it'll be dred Studs 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.560 from now. Wow, how far do you think this thing 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.520 is gonna go before we crash? Will probably end around 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:14.400 uh one next week one. Yeah, we'll see how this goes. Yeah. Well, 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:17.160 you know, if you are a new listener, ull welcome. 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:20.080 We are the Brooklyn Boys. I'm scary that's brody and 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:24.520 um brody, that's scary, exactly in neither direction. Uh enjoy 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.640 this episode. But after this episode is over, we have 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:31.399 a rule. Yeah, listen to order and go back to 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:35.280 episode zero. So please take the journey with us because 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:36.640 a lot of the things that we refer to on 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:38.880 this podcast and we haven't That's why I'm covering this 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:41.000 right now because we haven't covered it in a while. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:42.600 But the truth of the matter is, we do a 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:44.440 lot of inside jokes. There's a lot of language that 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:46.680 you're gonna hear that some of it will be offensive, 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.880 mostly scary. He's got a potty mouth. But other language 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:53.520 that you're gonna hear, maybe stuff that you're like, what 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:57.320 what was that word? I didn't under slang Brooklyn boy slang, Yeah, 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:02.000 brook Brooklyn slang. Yeah. Speaking of things you might not 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.080 know or understand, We've been trying to get on the 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:08.799 Deezer app for just because we weren't on Deezer, not 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:12.000 because we didn't oo case right. So we got on 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:15.760 Deezer and we may have we may have a problem. 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:18.640 We don't know yet. Well here's the problem. And uh, 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:20.520 Scar told you I was gonna mention it later but 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:23.880 I can't wait. So we got on Deezer. We announced 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:27.200 were on Deezer, and I don't think it's possible because 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:31.000 anyone who heard us mentioned Deezer last week wouldn't be 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.000 part of the problem. You would have had to have 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:35.200 heard that we're on Deezer and then to be a problem. 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:36.359 So now that I think about it, we don't have 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:39.119 a problem yet, but we may. We may. But last 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:41.399 week's episode one sixty one, you guys listen to order, 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:43.119 so you've all heard it by now, unless you're brand 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:47.280 new for some reason, and you can tweet us, by 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:51.639 the way, and um, what's today's date? What today's today's February. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:56.480 I'll give you till after that, like a month from now. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.120 It's too late to tell us. But if you listen 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.280 to this episode or the couple episodes in a row, 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.960 it seems like we a lot of people have not 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.640 listened episode one six one within the first week like 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:11.240 you normally do. So scary theory is you didn't listen 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.239 on time because the super Bowl weekend, but we released 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.480 the episode Wednesday night. The other video I have. The 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:19.560 scary theory number two is the fact that they didn't 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.560 send a notification to remind you to listen, so hence 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.880 the low listenership. So here's our reminder. Okay, I learned 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:30.280 by the way that I didn't update my um My 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.280 I Heart Radio app on my phone and I'm at 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:37.960 the version right before notifications became a daily thing, So 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:42.600 I'm not getting notifications. Okay, there's a reason I'm not updating. 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:44.720 It's a long story. But you guys should update, right. 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:49.160 So if you are assuming that we don't have a 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:52.520 new episode because you didn't get a notification, don't assume 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:55.400 that you know, we do an episode everywhere every week. 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:58.240 Now something that when we're on vacation and which case 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:00.400 will tell you, hang on vacation, vacage and we're not 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.840 going to be here, but we may have a surprise 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:06.160 for you. We may get some free dessert next week. Well, yeah, 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.400 we're working on the lawyers are talking. Yeah, but we 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.720 are on vaca. The Big Stift managers are putting on 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:14.920 a presentation. Mr rand Big Show is on vacation next week, 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:20.560 so we schedule President's Day week. We're scheduled to be 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:22.440 We can't say next week because we don't know when 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.440 you're listening to this, right, But we're scheduled to be 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:25.960 off the week of the fifteen, and we we have 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.880 an idea. We have a thing. We got a thing. 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:30.280 We may we may put something, we drop something, We 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:34.560 drop it like it's hot. Boom. Here's another problem. We 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:37.640 aren't sure yet. If if you listen, if you listen 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:40.320 on Deezer, if we get credit for the listen, why 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:42.560 are you talking to the Deezer audience. There's probably two 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:46.840 people listening on Deezer. I understand that. But until we confirm, uh, 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:50.160 switch back off Deezer to however you normally listen, because 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:51.960 I don't want Deezer to bury us because we didn't 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:56.280 get credit from a four minutes in here. I got 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.880 a lot of stuff, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I will. Speaking 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:03.320 of a lot of stuff the merchandise store. What are 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:04.880 we gonna do with that? You know, we need to 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:08.480 clear out the current inventory before we start to bring 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.800 in new items for spring. But you know, you know 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.720 it's gonna be pretty warm quick enough, So let's sell 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:17.560 those tank tops. Ladies, I'm talking to you and guys, 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.200 well maybe I'm talking to some of you too. Buy 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:23.000 a tank top by tank Top, you know, Muscle t 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:26.200 s whatever. Yeah, I would just go up aside because 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:29.040 they were, you know, originally women's size. Brooklyn Boys dot 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:35.359 Big Cartel dot com. That's Brooklyn Boys dot Big Cartel 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:36.920 dot com. I want to throw Buddy off. Who was 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:40.560 waiting tongue? No, no, I was. I wanted to do 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:45.640 a dramatic pause because everyone was going did um. Yeah. 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.480 So there's some things that we know are very popular, 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:51.240 and we're gonna fill in some sizes soon. But before 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.680 we can place a big order, we got to move 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:55.719 out some of the things that are there and get 0:05:55.720 --> 0:06:00.240 an idea of you know, what we're gonna bring in next. Oh, 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.000 by the way, Janovic, I think was Janevick. I don't 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:05.880 want to give wrong credit. I think it was. Or 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:09.520 is it it's one of the two. No, no, it 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:15.080 was Jane Vic. I'm up to episode again again another 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:18.240 another time. This is the episode where you discussed the 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.840 merch for Brooklyn Boys dot Big Cartel dot com. I'm 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:24.360 waiting for the phone case and pizza cutter, maybe the 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:28.160 mount the mounted you're up mountain, but it's okay. Mounted, 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:31.120 singing fish, the big mouth billy bass, which in our 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:34.799 case would be like big mouth, uh, you know, Joey 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:39.560 shark or something right. So, yeah, we were still exploring 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.760 what we're gonna bring out next. But we just got 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.920 the email from the big boss at the company and said, oh, 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:47.599 you're missing some sizes. What are you gonna order? So 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:49.960 give us an idea if you guys still want shirts, 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:52.360 if you try to go buy shirts and we didn't 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:54.920 have your size, let us know. Now. This weekend coming 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:59.520 up is Valentine's Day weekend, and on Sunday, I'm planning 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.320 to do something it I have never ever done. Oh, 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:05.719 treat your girlfriend with respect. Hi. Oh see, I set 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:06.880 you up for that joke because I knew you were 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:09.120 gonna insert funny line here. I figured I would tee 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.680 it up for Did you think it was funny? The truth, 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:14.920 the truth of the matter is, um, what I haven't 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:18.480 done forever is stay home. It's your own day. Oh, 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:27.000 stay home, on on on Valentin, bless you covid. Oh, 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:29.240 by the way, that sneeze is a friendly reminder for 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:32.760 me to friendly remind everyone there's there's no m in 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:38.480 Valentine's Day. It's not Valentine's it's Valentine's Day, Valentine, It's 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:42.760 not Valentine Day. It's Valentine's So, so, yeah, I'm gonna 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:45.680 stay home. My girlfriend's gonna cook for me at her 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:49.000 house for the first time ever, How can you stay 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:51.120 home if she's cooking at her house, you bring in 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:52.840 the food, Well, where's coing to your house? I'm gonna 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.840 let me put that we are staying home. As a couple. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.960 We have never stayed home. We've always gone out to 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:59.840 eat a new restaurants. And you're staying at her home 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:03.240 for Valentine's Yes, Wow, when was the last time you 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:06.400 slept at her house? Well it's been a minute, but yeah, 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:10.520 but it's always at the man's house. True. But but 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:15.120 even moreover, the bigger feet here, the bigger accomplishment. Who 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:19.000 has bigger feet? I hope you think I do? Definitely do. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.560 She's uh, yeah, she she's kind of cook So I 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:27.040 think I'm looking forward to it. And obviously these are 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.120 extraordinary times. So she's cooking, what are you? What are 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:38.199 you doing? What are you bringing? Um? A box? As 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:40.200 long as it's a hard shaped, hard shape box, you're fine. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:42.760 Digging her shape? Did you ever do that when you 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:46.120 were growing up? Like? No, like you know this Valentine's 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:49.600 Day traditions, right, First of all, the couple dresses in red, 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.920 like all red. It's like, oh, it's the Valentine's couple. 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:57.000 I'm red. You're red, so you wear red shirts and everything. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:08:59.360 You never did that. You weren't the couple that went 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:02.400 out to eat and in red, no dinner what we 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.319 like people who go to Disney wearing matching clothes. Were 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:07.160 you the couple that did the rose pedal trail to 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.480 the bed with the rose petal? No? No, were you 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:13.319 the couple where she shaved her bush in the shape 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:19.040 of her red heart. Okay, all right, okay, stop, and 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:24.880 you had a heart on for her red shaved bush. No, 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:27.800 it's harder to do that these days since most people 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:30.320 don't have any That's very true. I'm saying back in that. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.880 That's what I'm saying back in the day. I'm going back. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:35.600 I'm going back to the nineties. Dude. People still had 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.280 bush in the early up until like two thousand ten, 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.120 I think was that when they eradicated the bush. And 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.560 by the way, you know why that is? You know why, uh, 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:47.880 the whole general shaving thing, you know, yeah, the old 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:51.040 huh right, it's all clear. You get to see, I 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.040 didn't need a better view. I mean, I watched a 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.160 lot of porn back in the day. I saw everything fine, 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:57.559 So with the advent of porn, it caused women to 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:00.680 shave more. No, not that you're trying to say, no, 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:04.280 I'm saying no, the advent of porn. Uh. No one 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.559 was complaining about porn in the in the eighties. No, 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:09.480 But I'm saying that you're saying that caused in real life. 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.199 That's life imitates art. Yes, it's like, well art, you 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.400 call it what you want, it's it's life imitating you know, 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:19.720 people got men got turned on by seeing women in 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:22.960 videos do that, and then it it somehow translated really 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:27.160 spread pun intended to the outside porn world. But women 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:29.200 will tell you that they did it for themselves, and 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:31.600 they did it as a hygiene thing and not for 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:34.520 the guy, because that would be I mean, why would 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:36.120 you do that for your guy? You could do it 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:39.520 for yourself, right, isn't that what it's all about? You 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.400 can you can say that, you try to want to, 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:44.559 you can get into that debate. We're not gonna get 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:47.480 into that debate because because that's the that's the thing, 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.000 it's the whole all. I do it for me, I 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:53.280 do it for you. I did it for you. Know. Yeah, 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.920 if there are people who might say, if you go 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.200 out and with a blouse on and your your large 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:03.480 boobs or ninety sent out, she's dresses for herself, right, 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.320 But then I then I expect you to stare down 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:08.839 at them all day like we are. So you're saying 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.880 if if they're out, you're gonna look unless they're warm 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:13.480 and you're trying to cool them. What. They're not there 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:17.000 for your looking, they're there for I'm sorry's advocate here. 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:19.640 I'm not saying. I'm not saying I'm saying there are 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:22.160 people who say that. I'm not saying I say that, 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:24.640 but you think that they did it deliberately and they're 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:30.840 dressing for you. If I if I look, if I 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.760 put on a nice clothing or your tongue tied tonight. No, 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:37.280 if I put on nice clothing, right, it makes me 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:40.200 feel five percent. Maybe I'm like, I look good tonight. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:44.160 It's so other people will think I look good. Because 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:48.720 that's why you do scary you do you Never you 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.160 get dressed and you put on your five thousand dollars 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:54.440 smoking jacket right when you go Brooklyn Industrial, Are you 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:56.439 doing that because you like to you feel better about 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.240 scary Jones, or you do it so people who go 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.200 wow looking at smoking Jackie's war. I want to feel 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:01.640 good about myself. I look in the mirror, I'm like, 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:05.120 you know what, I'm confident people, I'm more confident tonight. 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.920 I'm going out of this smoking because you look good 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:12.640 to other people. Ah. And they say when you give 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:15.160 a compliment, you're not supposed to say that, look, that 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.920 dress looks great on you. You're supposed to say, you 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:22.480 make that dress look great? Is that that carry it 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:24.360 too far? There? It depends on who the person is. 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.480 But if you want to dress like a clown with 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:30.040 makeup and a big red afro, then you're dressing for 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.240 yourself because then you don't care what other people think. 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:37.800 But if you are wearing current trendy clothing, right, you're 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.600 going on stage at jingle ball, right, you want to 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.640 look good in pictures because other people are seeing those pictures. 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.480 So I didn't dress for me that night. I dressed 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:50.480 for the masses. Of course, you dress. You know what's 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.720 something that's most people Well, women are disagreeing right now, 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:55.400 they're shaking their head. But I will say here's another. 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:59.040 Here's something that may support your argument. Uh, when you 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:04.560 get engaged, right, when you get that ring right, what 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:06.040 what do you like to do with that ring? You 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:08.839 like and show it off at everybody? Oh, I kind 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.600 of see the ring every First of all, everyone wants 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:11.960 to see the ring. That's the person they ask for. 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:14.480 You're not walking around with your palm down, fingers out 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:17.200 for you, right, you do it, and you photograph it, 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:21.200 and you you make it prominent. So so in that case, 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:25.280 the ring is for your friends and your family. You're 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:30.640 not for you. Would you? Would you? Right? If? Yeah? Right? 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:33.280 If you wear a paratype jeans, right, they make your 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:36.040 ass look good. If you say you're doing it for yourself, 0:13:36.080 --> 0:13:38.679 you're lying because you can't see your own ass. You're lying. 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.800 Why do you look good in genes? Because society has 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.960 determined what looks good in genes. So you are making 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.319 yourself look good according to societal norms because you want 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.840 society to think you look good in those genes. If 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:52.360 you say, oh, I'm wearing these geness because they make 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:55.400 my ass look good for me, but you don't. You 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.680 don't see your ass, but you know your ass looks 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.440 good to who to other other people who don't think, 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:02.720 you know what that diets working at that time at 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:04.959 the gym is working. You want them to see that 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:07.240 you look good in those genes. Then, so it's both 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.800 I dressed from me. Yeah, but you know, I don't know. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.920 You know, I think that I put a Mat jersey 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.640 on I go to a Mets game. Am I doing 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:19.400 it for me? Or I want everyone in the stands 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.840 to see my Mats jersey. I want people on television. 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:24.120 I want the other fans to see I'm on on 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.880 one of them. I'm not wearing the Mat jersey to 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.040 make myself. It's a great listen, it's a great debate. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.000 It's been it's it's a debate that's been around a 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.600 while and then. But I feel like in recent years 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:36.160 the tables have turned and people are starting to say, 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:41.040 but I dressed from me for you. I know, listen. 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:43.240 I have three daughters, and I had this conversation with 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:46.680 one of my daughters three days ago. I said something 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:49.720 like she I don't want to get into the details, 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:51.720 but I said, you can't go out like that. It 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.480 was a ridiculous. It wasn't like I was being over 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:56.840 that was a ridiculous joke outfits you put together. She 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:59.720 just I said, well, she's why I go because she 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.360 whatever I said, I said, you, I dressed for me. 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.760 It doesn't matter. Other people think it matters if you 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:10.760 get arrested dressed like that, even though you you because 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.040 it has an effect, has a ripple effect. You can 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.000 say you're going outside and your underwear and a braw 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:19.760 and it's to make you feel sexy. You're getting attention, 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:22.840 which makes you feel good. But that's okay. They're trying 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:25.280 to say the attention is your own fault. You know, 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:28.160 you know, you know, but I'm giving you the attention. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.880 But if I dressed for me, if you dressed for you, 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:34.440 the attention you get for most people, not everybody, is 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.760 what makes you feel good. We might have might buy 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.760 new sneakers, I buy a new jacket. I look good. 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.920 I go I look good today. But it's also don't 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:45.480 kid yourself. Most people, not speaking of everybody. Most people 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:47.120 also like when somebody goes, hey, you look good in 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:49.680 that jacket, then you go thanks, I thought so too. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:52.800 I think it's both. I think it's not just anyway. 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:57.440 So you know, people who may think that we're chauving 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:00.160 hisst pigs that we you know we you know, I 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:03.040 said men too, if you put on jeans, make your 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:07.880 ass look good, you know. Alright? Alright, well, speaking of 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:11.680 speaking of people, uh that we lost as listeners. I 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:15.680 gotta read something for you. This just this just came through. Um, 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:20.000 wouldn't lose anybody in the No, it's my fault. It's 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.200 my fault. I might have lost a listener on our 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.800 then you owe me have a listener. Oh my god. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:29.560 Well okay, so someone left, but they knew we were 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.680 going to see it. Uh and this is you know, 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:41.160 left an age seventy seven type review on on Apple Podcasts. Uh. 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:48.960 This came from Samantha Ashle. She used her whole name. Yeah, 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:55.800 she gave out podcast one well some some Ashley, Samantha Samantha. 0:16:56.240 --> 0:17:00.360 She she gave our podcast one star on February fifth 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:08.359 on Apple Podcasts, and she wrote, love Brody, okay, next 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:14.280 love His rance was a big slice for life. Now 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:16.240 this is where I want to break this down. Is 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:19.480 a big slice for life for a while, but no 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:23.760 longer can deal with scary and his nonchalance to a 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:27.720 worldwide pandemic. Stop make fun making fun of Brody for 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:31.120 being cautious. Now this several levels of issue I take 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:34.320 with this. First. First of all, um, if you were 0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:36.320 a Slice for Life, you would have been a Slice 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.479 for Life. You see that phrase how that works, And 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:41.520 it wouldn't matter you know us of a hundred sixty 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:46.480 one episodes that you wouldn't write us off for something 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.280 that you may disagree with, or a joke that might 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:51.760 have been off color, or something I may have said. 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:55.320 It's the whole culture of being part of you know, 0:17:55.359 --> 0:17:58.280 you don't You don't dismiss your friends, do you The 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:01.600 Samantha actually dismissed her ends in family because they might 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:04.159 have said something she disagree with, you disagreed with, or 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.639 it just doesn't make any sense that she would drop 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:10.159 us flat and leave a one star review. Ouch she 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.320 was Samante actually yea. So if that's like nine to 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:17.320 five like she works, is probably September twenty five, it's 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:19.560 probably her birthday. I like nine to five. I'm going 0:18:19.560 --> 0:18:21.520 with that big Dolly parton fan. Here's what I'll say 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:24.240 if you have a complaint about Scary. It's, first of all, 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:26.600 I understand where it's coming from as a listener, but 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.320 you guys should know if you're Slice for Life. We're 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:32.000 a team. We're a team, and it's it's it's tongue 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:35.520 in cheeks. Yeah, it's scary, pokes fun at me. But 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:39.199 then I I forcefully pushed back to remind everyone that 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.480 regardless of where you live, people are dying. We're in 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:44.560 a pandemic. And of course i may be more cautious 0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:46.680 and I'm a little bit more liberal. I'm a little 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:50.760 bit countries. I'm not really liberal. I'm not. I'm a 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:53.399 little bit more free. But no, but hold on, I'm 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:58.760 for her. Hold on, she get no, hold on, hold on. 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:03.040 We want to, No, we need The Slices would agree, yes, 0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:07.720 getting offended by by loose lip pandemic talking, here's the 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:10.760 comment I think that, No, I'm not. This is what 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:13.439 I said. This is what I said. I just found 0:19:13.480 --> 0:19:16.280 it odd that Brody and his family would have the 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.720 courage to go to do outdoor dining. This is for 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.840 your birthday, right, You went outside for your birthday and 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:25.919 you were socially distant. Tables were far apart and you 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:29.200 were socially distant. You're outside eating and you guys had 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:33.320 your entire meal with your masks on. When when people 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:38.240 who decide to go out and actually enter that arena. 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:42.040 Well most of the time don't have their masks on 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:45.760 at the dinner table. So precautions were being followed. The 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:48.359 CDC guidelines were being followed. Let me tell you something. 0:19:48.359 --> 0:19:51.800 If that restaurant wasn't wasn't following the rules and protocol 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:53.479 hold on, they would hold on, they would have been 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:58.240 shut down and they would have find I know, but 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:03.280 what the rules and protocols are there to minimize the risk, 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:06.840 not eliminate the risk. So I made by on the 0:20:06.880 --> 0:20:10.199 last episode my medical history, the medical history of my 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:13.000 family understood. No, no, no, you don't. You live alone, 0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:18.440 right understood. So I have different reasons for being extra precautious. 0:20:19.080 --> 0:20:24.040 And even though I'm six ft away, wind blows saliva. Right, okay, 0:20:24.080 --> 0:20:27.119 but here's the thing, and don't just went out and 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:29.720 if I okay, the point is, don't get but hurt. No, 0:20:30.040 --> 0:20:32.720 here's here's the point. The point is everything we do 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:36.199 on this everything we stop, stop, stop, everything we do 0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:41.600 on this podcast is fodder. Is not taking offense too 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:44.000 and is taking in tongue in cheek, And that's what 0:20:44.040 --> 0:20:46.560 we do. We joke around on this podcast. We have 0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:49.280 silly conversations. But the thing is, I get the right 0:20:49.480 --> 0:20:51.840 to do that, to make to poke a little fun 0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:54.800 of you, the same way the smash took it seriously, 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:57.360 which means she's not really a slice. She's not really 0:20:57.400 --> 0:20:59.280 in the club. You know what. Here's what I'll say 0:20:59.320 --> 0:21:02.520 about smash Lee smash Nobody's her name is Samantha Ashley. 0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:04.520 I'm actually giving her real name. You name her smash 0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:06.400 smash because I think it's cute. That's it. I don't 0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:08.040 want to say her name all the time. It's easier 0:21:08.320 --> 0:21:11.920 smash Le, s m Ashley, Smashley. I'm not gonna give 0:21:11.920 --> 0:21:16.040 her the fuck you abe. I'm Santa Smashly as a slice, 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:18.960 smash Lee. I'm surprised you didn't reach out to us. 0:21:19.560 --> 0:21:22.200 You know, I returned every tweet d M. You couldn't 0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:24.160 DM me or or hit me up at Brody delvis 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:25.440 Er and dot com, which, by the way, I have 0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:27.040