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Speaker 1: Hi everyone, Welcome to the Cheekys and Chill podcast. So

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Speaker 1: if this is your first time listening to my podcast, welcome,

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Speaker 1: I am your host Cheeky's. I am so happy to

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Speaker 1: have you here. And if you are a regular think

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Speaker 1: you think you, thank you. I would not have a

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Speaker 1: podcast if it wasn't for you guys, so thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm sending you.

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Speaker 1: All a warm hug, a virtual hug. So what are

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Speaker 1: we talking about today? We're going to talk about scarcity mindset.

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Speaker 1: What exactly is scarcity mindset and why should we have

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Speaker 1: an abundant mindset instead?

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Speaker 2: Well, let's find out.

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Speaker 1: I believe a lot in the law of attraction. I

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Speaker 1: believe in the power of the tongue, the words that

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Speaker 1: we speak, the thoughts that we think. Mind you, we

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Speaker 1: don't always have control, especially of the thoughts, but we

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Speaker 1: do have control of changing the thoughts and not letting

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Speaker 1: that thought become a reality. I truly believe that, and

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you not only do I believe it, I've

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Speaker 1: experienced it in my life. I have gone from a broken, jaded,

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Speaker 1: tainted human being to a much lighter, abundant person. And

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Speaker 1: when I'm talking about abundance, I'm not talking about money

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Speaker 1: and materialistic things. I'm talking about my happiness and how

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Speaker 1: I've been able to attract love in my life with healing,

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Speaker 1: with healing these things that I have learned in my household,

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Speaker 1: from my parents, from our community, from society, from school,

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Speaker 1: from our teachers, things that as children we absorb. And

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Speaker 1: it's not to blame anyone, because the adults in our

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Speaker 1: lives that were meant to be examples didn't have it

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Speaker 1: all together. But since I've learned this, and since I

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Speaker 1: have made changes in my life intentionally, I always use

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Speaker 1: that word, I know, but it's everything to me. We

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Speaker 1: have to be intentional in everything that we do, especially

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Speaker 1: when we're speaking about ourselves and about what we have

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Speaker 1: and we don't have, and what we want and what

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Speaker 1: we want to attract. In order to do that, we

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Speaker 1: need to change the way that we think and the

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Speaker 1: way that we speak. Okay, because there's power in that, guys,

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Speaker 1: and everything in the world, whether you want to believe

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Speaker 1: it or not, it's energetic. A lot of people don't

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Speaker 1: believe in the power of the moon and the stars

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Speaker 1: and astrology and all that stuff. It's all it's scientific.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to get into that but it's energy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we do come from the stars, guys. I have a

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Speaker 1: song that says it, So we come from the stars.

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Speaker 1: It's a whole other commerce station. But my point is

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Speaker 1: that we need to start speaking life. What is life.

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Speaker 1: Life is beauty, life is breathing, Life is positivity. Life

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Speaker 1: is light, life, life, life, life, life, life. That's what

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Speaker 1: I mean when I say speak words of life to yourself,

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Speaker 1: to your children, to your partner, to your employees. It

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Speaker 1: is life changing. Now talking about scarcity mindset, I went

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Speaker 1: on a whole tangent, but it was important for me

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Speaker 1: to explain why I'm so passionate about this subject because

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Speaker 1: this and how they speak about their finances, especially the finances,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, damn, if you were just to

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Speaker 1: attracting prosperity and abundance money, yes, but more than that, happiness,

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Speaker 1: because for me, success is finally getting to a point

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Speaker 1: in your life where there are no secrets, when you

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Speaker 1: don't have to pretend to be someone that you're not,

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Speaker 1: when you're not chasing the money, when it just comes

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Speaker 1: to you because you finally found yourself. That is success

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Speaker 1: When you can sleep at night and say, I like

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Speaker 1: who I am. Even the mistakes I've made, I like

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Speaker 1: because I learned, Even the pain I went through, I

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Speaker 1: That is success. That is real, true success, not oh,

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Speaker 1: That's great, that makes you happy, and that's but that

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Speaker 1: should not be everything that makes you happy. Getting back

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Speaker 1: to what scarcity mind is, So let me define, okay,

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Speaker 1: scarcity mindset. I wrote it down, okay, because I looked

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Speaker 1: A scarcity mindset is a belief that there's not enough,

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Speaker 1: the energy of lack rather than abundance. Spiritually, it's rooted

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Speaker 1: if someone else has it, there's less for me. But

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Speaker 1: the truth is the universe is abundant, God source or

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Speaker 1: life doesn't run out of blessings. The more we trust,

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Speaker 1: the more we open ourselves to receive, rewind that replay

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Speaker 1: it listen to it as many times as you need

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Speaker 1: to in order for you to believe it. Trust is

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Speaker 1: that we come from the stars. That's the universe. It

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 1: We have power within us. We just have to tap

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Speaker 1: into it, believe it, and trust in God, the Creator,

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Speaker 1: the Higher Power, the Great Spirit, whatever you want to

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Speaker 2: Higher than you.

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Speaker 1: So that is what scarcity mindset is is thinking, oh,

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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that there's less for you, Like No,

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Speaker 1: All that jealousy and envy is energy that you should

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Speaker 1: he could do it, so can I. Let me focus

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Speaker 1: within what do I need to fix my mental, spiritual, physical,

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Speaker 1: that I can also do it because I'm divine, because

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Speaker 1: I come from an abundant universe, and God is good

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Speaker 1: and God made enough for all of us. I hear

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Speaker 1: create space for this? Believing there's never enough even when

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Speaker 1: your needs are met. Going back to spirituality, spiritually, fear

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Speaker 1: It's like it's just like, Okay, I understand, maybe you

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Speaker 1: It's just like you keep honestly like, I might sound

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Speaker 1: like very overly optimistic. I don't know there's a word,

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Speaker 1: stop even me saying it. I just I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 1: I have to be a better steward me personally, Jane?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Do I overspend sometimes? Yes? Can I be excessive? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I'm learning that right now in this season of my life.

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Speaker 1: A very heavy download that I got in one of

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Speaker 1: just do senseless shopping, guys. And that's something I've been

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Speaker 1: So I'm also learning, you know, because today I may

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Speaker 1: want to base my idea of abundance on just cash

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Speaker 1: There aren't any good men left, you know. Oh, they're

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Speaker 1: all cheaters. If one cheats, they're all cheaters. If he's

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Speaker 1: all this negative stuff that only kept attracting the wrong

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Speaker 1: I was a runner, I very deeply in my heart.

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Speaker 1: I guess I was afraid of commitment because there were

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Speaker 1: And I just came to the realization that every person

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Speaker 1: the work. The hard work of healing and facing myself

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Speaker 1: also staying in unhealthy relationships because you fear you won't

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Speaker 1: I'm in my mid thirties. I don't know if I

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Speaker 1: I told Emilio. I'm broken, I'm going through it. I

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Speaker 1: am jaded. I was very honest, and I'm glad I

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