WEBVTT - The Pin Cushion

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>Halloween Sunday kind of a bummer. It's on a Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I know, right, how long I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand the calendar and I'm a grown adult. How long

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<v Speaker 1>do we have to wait before it's on a Friday?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that five years? Honestly? I don't know how it

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<v Speaker 1>works either, but you would think that next year it

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<v Speaker 1>will be on Monday, and then the new year after

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<v Speaker 1>that it will be a Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. So five yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>five years. Thank you for showing me your work. You

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<v Speaker 1>know they teach you to say, I hear your answer,

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<v Speaker 1>but how did you get there? Thank you for showing

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<v Speaker 1>the exactly. Thank you. Let me ask our residents astrologer

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<v Speaker 1>Plato mark, uh, what's the deal? Well, Halloween been on

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<v Speaker 1>a Friday five years? It will be a Saturday. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not fair. Oh we're signed up to be here, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you mean like here in terms of a contractor here

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of like are we all sticking me on

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<v Speaker 1>the Earth may will be in Mars space? In space

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<v Speaker 1>by then? I mean, have you not seen them? The

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<v Speaker 1>Boo Origin, that thing that's up there, and Jeff Bezos

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<v Speaker 1>wants to make a an apartment complex and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>make his own Melrose place up there with Laurence Sanchez. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>she's living the life. I love her. I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about his personal life. I'm talking about the space station

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to build, and then he's gonna rent it

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<v Speaker 1>out to different you saw, Patty. He's gonna build a

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<v Speaker 1>space station and then he's gonna have renters lease out

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<v Speaker 1>like companies, lease it out like an office building. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe it. It is going to be crazy. What about

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<v Speaker 1>that commute You finished work out of that place and

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta get home back? Mm hmm crazy lightning speed

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<v Speaker 1>with the blue Origin and the space X rockets. The

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<v Speaker 1>boo Origin is what it's called Origin Halloween boover Virgin

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<v Speaker 1>Galactic too in the mix. Well, listen, let's just stick

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<v Speaker 1>where we are right here, feet on Earth's soil for

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<v Speaker 1>the moment and run it down. You guys survived Halloween?

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<v Speaker 1>Looks like I don't see any face pain or any

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<v Speaker 1>makeup anywhere, any rashes from rubbing it off. That's the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you packing candy? The kids get to eat candy

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<v Speaker 1>all week, Patty, No so What happened is I took

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<v Speaker 1>away their candy bags and I'm only handing a few

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<v Speaker 1>on the weekends. Wow, he used to be fun. You

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<v Speaker 1>became a little unfun with the candy. Remember years ago

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<v Speaker 1>you would let to meet all the candy. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when it's it's my my little one. He is really hyper.

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<v Speaker 1>So by adding candy to the to him, it just

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<v Speaker 1>makes it a lot worse. I can't get him down

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<v Speaker 1>to bad. My kids are gonna have it real bad

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm gonna go to Courtney Kardashian. Huh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? What does she do? You know

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<v Speaker 1>they don't eat candy. They here, you know, she's very

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go to my neighbors. I'm gonna deliver a

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<v Speaker 1>box of dates, some figs, some berries. Cortney Kardashian toasted

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<v Speaker 1>almonds and say, kids go to those five houses. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's good, But they won't know the difference. It's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when we were kids. I used to keep

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<v Speaker 1>my pillowcase of all my candy, like in a drawer

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<v Speaker 1>in my bedroom. My parents didn't monitor it. I would

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<v Speaker 1>just like go in there whenever I wanted a little

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<v Speaker 1>sugar rush. Oh my god, I left my ted lasso

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<v Speaker 1>whistle here from last Friday. And and the wig. All this,

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<v Speaker 1>all this, all this stuff is still here. Get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of this visor and the wig. No one cleans these,

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<v Speaker 1>No one comes into you. Tell me we light saw

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<v Speaker 1>the studio down. Yet my whistle is still here, my

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<v Speaker 1>ted lasso wig and my visor all from Friday. You

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<v Speaker 1>do have to get out faster a jiu jitsu match.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, I cleaned up, but I light all the round.

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<v Speaker 1>It all right? Actually, good morning. How are you feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing good? How are you guys? Good? Thanks? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you use a tan towel over the weekend? No? What?

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<v Speaker 1>M you just look you look like Tanner a little bit?

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<v Speaker 1>Any other thoughts before we get to Ashley or like

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<v Speaker 1>my mother do? Is that sometimes my father is literally

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<v Speaker 1>having a conversation with her and then she'll go, did

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<v Speaker 1>you take up the garbage? We're talking about something else.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks good. I was going to ask you if

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<v Speaker 1>you could send me the link to the tan towel.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have the link because I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>tan towel, but thank you for a compliment. Actually, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing I'm okay, how are you guys decide? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>clearly completely disheveled and unorganized, but that's all right, so

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<v Speaker 1>um you we how can we let's hone in on

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<v Speaker 1>your world? So what's going on? So I'm getting married

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<v Speaker 1>next month and I had my brain star last weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, there was like this little display where you

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<v Speaker 1>could write a no like advice or well wishes for

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<v Speaker 1>me and my fiance on like a wooden heart, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you put in the sick jar and it's to

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<v Speaker 1>keep in our house. So we got this like weird

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<v Speaker 1>one that said call your mom every day, which kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stood up to us, was a little different than

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<v Speaker 1>all the rest of them. Um, I found out that

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<v Speaker 1>it's my fiance's mom who wrote it. So I'm curious,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys thoughts if that is one odd and two

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<v Speaker 1>is that a red flag that she's just going to

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<v Speaker 1>be super over involved in our in our lives. But siance,

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<v Speaker 1>they thought it was weird too, Well, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird at all. I think my mom would do

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing almost joking, not joking, joking not joking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like she in a perfect world would want

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<v Speaker 1>that but realizes that's probably not going to happen, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're in control of when you call your mom or

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<v Speaker 1>when he calls his mom. So I like it as

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<v Speaker 1>a cute thing to put into the wishing well, okay, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think about it like, I mean, how blessed

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<v Speaker 1>are you Ashley and he that we have a parent

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<v Speaker 1>that's that loving and connected to you. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's great. A matter of fact, it's a green flag. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's that's a good that's a good take on them.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think about it like that. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, thanks for calling any other wedding, marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>relationship questions tells every hopefully everything goes well, well, good luck,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, all right bye. But I could see myself

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<v Speaker 1>easily saying that to my kid their wedding. Call your

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<v Speaker 1>dad every week, called me every week, every day, every day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a joke, like, yeah, but it's not literal, there's figuratively,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I do that. There's a little truth in

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<v Speaker 1>every joke, though. Don't you think everyone's kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>bus skill this morning? Like where's up? I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be PEPPI longs talking here and ever buzzkill light Year.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you peppy? You're buzzy. I'm peppy, peppy long

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<v Speaker 1>Stock guys, Come on, Tanya, what's happened? I'm not buzz lighty,

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<v Speaker 1>light gear. I'm just stating their backs. I think everybody

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<v Speaker 1>there's a I don't know, there's an energy we don't

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<v Speaker 1>recognize a little bit. Did something Halloween happen? No, Halloween

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<v Speaker 1>was great. I'm still reeling from my Courtney Kardashian outfit. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I am no censor, but I feel there's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a film. I don't know what it is yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but let's see what happened transport. We got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hours together this morning, and see what that film is.

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<v Speaker 1>So what is going on? What do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us? No, but normally I eat before we do

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and I didn't eat today, so I could

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<v Speaker 1>be there. That's what it is, because so you're a

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<v Speaker 1>little distracted or you're thinking, you're you're having other conversations

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<v Speaker 1>while we're having them, and so you have so we

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it looks like a film, like a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a like I'm a little hungry, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little like That makes that makes sense? Yeah, do

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<v Speaker 1>you need to take an apple break? This is a

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<v Speaker 1>morning hack that found so interesting. It's an iPhone hat.

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<v Speaker 1>So Tony actually she found this and and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>Tony for bringing it in. No problem. You saw it

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok. So many life hacks on TikTok. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok for the hacks. Yeah. So on TikTok you can

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<v Speaker 1>find obviously entertainment music and hacks like this from at

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<v Speaker 1>Max Miles points. It's got eight million views. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you're going to pick somebody up from l a

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<v Speaker 1>AX the airport wherever, John Wayne. This is gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>a lot easier if they text you their flight number

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<v Speaker 1>a tour. You just tap that and then instantly it

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<v Speaker 1>will open up a tracker and you can see the

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<v Speaker 1>flight in progress tracking. It's so cool. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>go look it up. You have to be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>text me when you land and kind of time it out,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can actually track it yourself. How crazy is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I know it is great. So that's a fun that's right,

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<v Speaker 1>and eye mested's very fun. Today's quote. Sometimes you have

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<v Speaker 1>to give up on people, not because you don't care,

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<v Speaker 1>but because they don't On air with Ryan Secrets. All right, Tanny,

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<v Speaker 1>these are some of the final news segments you'll do.

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<v Speaker 1>Sisney will be back soon, but in for Sisney, Tanya

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<v Speaker 1>breaking it down. That's right. If you're heading to the

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<v Speaker 1>airport today, check your flight status before you leave. American

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<v Speaker 1>Airlines canceled hundreds of flights yesterday for a third straight

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<v Speaker 1>day as it struggled with staffing shortages. A spokeswoman said

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<v Speaker 1>that they expect improvement starting today, although there will be

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<v Speaker 1>some residual impact from the weekend. Unvaccinated teenagers are more

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<v Speaker 1>likely to test positive for the coronavirus than unvaccinated adults

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<v Speaker 1>in l A County. Public Health Director her Ferrara says

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<v Speaker 1>that unvaccinated teens are eight times more likely just as

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<v Speaker 1>positive than vaccinated teens and are helping drive transmission across communities.

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<v Speaker 1>And The head football coach at Inglewood High is being

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<v Speaker 1>criticized after his team beat Inglewood Morningside High a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and six to nothing on Friday night. Inglewood scored fifty

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<v Speaker 1>nine points in the first quarter alone, but did not

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<v Speaker 1>pull their starters, and even when winning by over a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred points, went for a two point conversion, the score

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<v Speaker 1>was condemned by the California Interscholastic Federation on air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest, how are we doing post Halloween on a Sunday?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of buzz kill, but at least it was back

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<v Speaker 1>to Halloween. My sister at Flora dressed up as a

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<v Speaker 1>Cookie Monster and Jimmy, her dad, dressed up as Cookie Monster,

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<v Speaker 1>and they went out together, and uh, I guess Flora

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<v Speaker 1>got she's three, she my Nie, she got so tired

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<v Speaker 1>she had to lay in the road at one point.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just exhausted from on the trick or treating. My

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<v Speaker 1>sister said she got home in the evening, late afternoon

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<v Speaker 1>after trick or treating and said, for the first time ever, Mummy,

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<v Speaker 1>can I go to bed? And she was so tired, exhausted. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they started treating at eleven am, so by

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<v Speaker 1>six she was tired. All right, let's let's go, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go around here. I was Richard Simmons, among others for Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you saw some of that imagery, yeah, those legs,

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<v Speaker 1>uh yeah, And then I carried the costume around all

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<v Speaker 1>weekend long, thinking I was gonna wear a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just couldn't get myself back into it much. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one thing to put it on once, but to

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<v Speaker 1>keep dipping back into the well, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't know. I did it once and it

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<v Speaker 1>was but you, Tanya, you and your buffer Robbie. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys were a Travis Barker and Corney Carte Ashan and

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<v Speaker 1>it was well done. Thank you. Honestly, it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we decided we wanted to be them for Halloween,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, we're gonna go all in and make

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<v Speaker 1>this as realistic as possible. And it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And Patty, how was it yesterday for you and the kids?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? We ended up staying in. I think, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just I was just too exhausted. We did

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<v Speaker 1>trigger treating on Saturday. We went to a little uh

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<v Speaker 1>party where we trigger treat around the block, a private party.

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<v Speaker 1>And yesterday I was like, you know what, I just can't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's too cold. I just can't. Tired, kids just can't. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so exhausted. Yeah, well, I was watching. I

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<v Speaker 1>watched a lot of sports over the weekend. My Bulldogs

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<v Speaker 1>University of Georgia number one. They beat Florida, was a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal, big win. I was watching the Rams. I

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<v Speaker 1>got I got two man crushes, and they happened over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend. One of my man crushes Sean McVeigh, coach

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<v Speaker 1>of the Rams. Guys looking stack. Been having a thing

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<v Speaker 1>for him for a while. He's you're a day one

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<v Speaker 1>with him. I a little biased because you grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta and went to school high school near my

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<v Speaker 1>high school. However, guys got good fitness right now. Check

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<v Speaker 1>out the size of his arms and his hairs on point.

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<v Speaker 1>And so Sean, coach of the Rams, congrats on the

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<v Speaker 1>wind and looking good. Ro the other guy. I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta mail crush on Joe Buck's voice. He was

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<v Speaker 1>calling the World Series last night and he called Super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowls World Series for twenty some years and his voice

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<v Speaker 1>is just crushable. It does it really? I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just so knowledgeable and his quick quips and brave start

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<v Speaker 1>out big and they end up losing. So the games

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<v Speaker 1>go to Houston. Next game is tomorrow night. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>following baseball, USC beat Arizona, U sill a lost ramspeed

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<v Speaker 1>Houston Chargers loss of the Patriots. So Cecity is feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that she's feeling that lost. This morning, we are wondering

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<v Speaker 1>about if just looking at the counter, we're wondering about this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's November one, it's the decorations and the lights are going.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it time for all? This? Is it time for

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<v Speaker 1>the Christmas music? Soon too? Or is it too early?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious do you want a little? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>a little? And when do you put in your decorations up?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I will say I have been both people. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been annoyed with myself for playing that right now in

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<v Speaker 1>years past, and I've also been for it. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>annoyed with people put their decorations up this week, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've also been for it. I've been for it recently

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<v Speaker 1>because we need, like in the pandemics that we needed

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<v Speaker 1>the holiday spirit. And I also find that I love

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<v Speaker 1>it and I find that when it goes down, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of depressing because every tree feels so bare, every

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<v Speaker 1>room feels so naked. Do we want to enjoy more

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<v Speaker 1>of it longer? Because you know, when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>an end, it's a downer. Just curious to note where

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<v Speaker 1>the where the masses stand on this so eleven months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>to take you back, this is now Monday, November one,

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<v Speaker 1>and eleven months ago we met do you remember mr?

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<v Speaker 1>We met this couple from Monterey Park, Marianna. She nominated

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<v Speaker 1>her husband Enis to win one of our virtual jingle

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<v Speaker 1>Ball bubble parties because we were not having real jingle Ball,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're doing jingle Ball bubble parties and they want

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<v Speaker 1>a new TV. They were the whole package that were

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<v Speaker 1>given away Postmates dinner. But we couldn't give him ticket

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<v Speaker 1>Gingle because it wasn't happening because of the pandemic. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>don me play it back because you you I think,

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<v Speaker 1>remember what was happening this Marianna talking about Enis. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>he is literally the most hard working man that I know.

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<v Speaker 1>He come he wakes up at eight to go to

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<v Speaker 1>work um and then comes home like either six, seven

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<v Speaker 1>or eight pm. And even though he comes home around

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<v Speaker 1>that time, like he's just still working. So this would

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<v Speaker 1>be a good way for him to have a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you feel that in your world? That's how you

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<v Speaker 1>want your partner to talk about you. That's how you

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<v Speaker 1>want your kids to talk about you when you're not there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's when you're not there. So here's nays talking about Marianna.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just the most amazing person. She's so supportive. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she's by my side every step of the way. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>She cares so much for for myself and for our

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<v Speaker 1>two daughters, for everyone just around her. She's a very

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<v Speaker 1>caring person. So we told him that they won the

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<v Speaker 1>jingle Ball Bubble party and listen, Ever since I was

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<v Speaker 1>in high school, I've been wanting to go to jingle

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<v Speaker 1>Ball and I've never had the opportunity to when I

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<v Speaker 1>always told my wife, like, we we need to go

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<v Speaker 1>to dingle Ball. That's that's my my birthday, my birthday concert.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we need to go jingle Ball. And this

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<v Speaker 1>year in January that was one of my resolutions, was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need go to jingle Ball this year. And then

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<v Speaker 1>COVID happens, so I I knew it wasn't gonna be possible.

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<v Speaker 1>But thanks so much now I have both back. Now

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<v Speaker 1>Marianna and Enes, Hello guys, how are you doing? Marianna

0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:10.680
<v Speaker 1>nz Oh my gosh, it's been a year. Did it

0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.720
<v Speaker 1>go by fast for you? Since we last spoke? It

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<v Speaker 1>has been super fast. Wow, I think it goes by

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<v Speaker 1>in a flash. But yeah, when you break it down

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<v Speaker 1>day to day, so much has happened since then, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that we talked and you were seeing this

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<v Speaker 1>as we just heard that You're like goal, your dream,

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<v Speaker 1>your resolution is all to be a jingle ball, and

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<v Speaker 1>of course we couldn't have a jingle ball. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was That has been the team of hours for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time last year to the COVID, Well, Marianna,

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<v Speaker 1>before I do you want I'm about to do. I

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<v Speaker 1>just make sure that you guys still love each other

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<v Speaker 1>very much, so um, you know, yeah, just thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>how much I love this man makes me cheered eye.

0:17:56.680 --> 0:18:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I think of so many times I've married him. Um,

0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:05.560
<v Speaker 1>and I my soul, my being, my every atom is

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<v Speaker 1>in love with him. She had a wedding for every

0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:14.280
<v Speaker 1>one of those things. Yea. All right, well, guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>have good news now that jingle Ball is back in person.

0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:19.439
<v Speaker 1>I held two tickets for you to go so you

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<v Speaker 1>can be there December three with all of us. This amazing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much, Ryan, It's our pleasure. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>that we were able to follow up and follow through

0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:41.080
<v Speaker 1>and get you guys there, so you're in person jingle

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<v Speaker 1>Ball year late, but you got it all right. Thank

0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:48.760
<v Speaker 1>you for my birthday. So we're super excited. Happy birthday, y'all,

0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:53.959
<v Speaker 1>hang on, hang on what sec thank you? Mm hm

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<v Speaker 1>hm I right so sweet. They he turns thirty one

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<v Speaker 1>December four. I have two daughters. They went to Sierra

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<v Speaker 1>High Parks. Now we're gonna focus on Paula. Paula says

0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:20.240
<v Speaker 1>that her husband. This is Ryan's roses. Paula said that

0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:25.399
<v Speaker 1>her husband reconnected with an X over Instagram, and she

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<v Speaker 1>says she was fine with it, but then things changed. Paula,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Thank you for coming on. So we know

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<v Speaker 1>that you were fine with the reconnect on Instagram, but

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<v Speaker 1>then what changed your mind? What happened? Just? I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to Ryan's roses all the time, and it just it

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<v Speaker 1>got me thinking, Um, I just I have this fear

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<v Speaker 1>that he would send her and instead of me. So

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<v Speaker 1>you think that if we were to call him. You

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<v Speaker 1>heard other people and if we were to call him,

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<v Speaker 1>she would be top of mind, not you. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>a suspicion. I just need to know. I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if he doesn't send them to her, if you send

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<v Speaker 1>them to me, just just let it go. Just don't

0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:16.320
<v Speaker 1>con front of even because because he just never need

0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.640
<v Speaker 1>even needs to know I did this I just need

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<v Speaker 1>to get the thought out of my head. Paula's on

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<v Speaker 1>the line. She wrote to us for Ryan's roses, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to call her husband. She was fine with

0:20:30.160 --> 0:20:33.399
<v Speaker 1>him reconnecting with an X over Instagram. Why were you

0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:38.439
<v Speaker 1>okay with that? Because you know everyone in our lives.

0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:40.760
<v Speaker 1>They come into our lives for a reason. They make

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<v Speaker 1>us who we are. I don't feel like you have

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<v Speaker 1>to cut off an ex just because it ended. That's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I trust my husband. I love my husband. He's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be running off somewhere with someone so

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<v Speaker 1>I and he's very open with me. He has communicated

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<v Speaker 1>with me when they went to coffee, when they had lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>It's but then, but here, I'm trying to figure out

0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:09.359
<v Speaker 1>So's about to call him. But you're if you're fine

0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:11.400
<v Speaker 1>with that and he's open with you, he communicates with you,

0:21:11.720 --> 0:21:17.159
<v Speaker 1>what are you so worried about? Right? I love listen

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<v Speaker 1>to Brian. It just it just got me thinking, So,

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:22.760
<v Speaker 1>you don't trust him and he don't think he's communicating

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<v Speaker 1>with you. You You think he's going to send the roses

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<v Speaker 1>to the other woman. I just want to know that's

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<v Speaker 1>her name, m Julie Julie. Okay, all right, be very quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call him and see what we can find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Just easy to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call,

0:21:42.920 --> 0:21:46.280
<v Speaker 1>and then his name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan,

0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:50.359
<v Speaker 1>you have my permission to call. Alright, very quiet, Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Tanya, you're up. Hello. Hi is this Seth?

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<v Speaker 1>It is Hi Seth. My name is Liliana. I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>owner of a new flower shop right here in Marino Valley.

0:22:13.480 --> 0:22:16.159
<v Speaker 1>It's lilies and more, and I wanted to call and

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<v Speaker 1>offer you a free dozen roses today. I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>any information from you, just who you want to send

0:22:21.800 --> 0:22:30.320
<v Speaker 1>them to and a note. Uh. Yeah, they're free, completely free.

0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't need any of your credit card information. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being totally serious. I just need the name of who

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:37.600
<v Speaker 1>you want to send them to and the address, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get them out by one pm today. Yeah. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been told like there's no such thing as a free line,

0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:48.639
<v Speaker 1>so I think maybe I'll just turn those down. Uh.

0:22:48.800 --> 0:22:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who told you that, but that's not

0:22:51.359 --> 0:22:53.280
<v Speaker 1>we're doing this. We're just we're new here and we

0:22:53.359 --> 0:22:55.520
<v Speaker 1>just want to get our name out there. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you like the flowers, maybe next time, you can buy

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<v Speaker 1>some more if you recommend us to friends and family.

0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:07.920
<v Speaker 1>That's really all I'm asking for, all right, Um, if

0:23:07.920 --> 0:23:09.560
<v Speaker 1>you don't need any credit, Cary and Flo, I guess

0:23:09.560 --> 0:23:13.720
<v Speaker 1>there's no harm. Sure, let's um, let's send these flowers

0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:20.080
<v Speaker 1>to Julie. Okay, perfect, um, Julie, that's so nice. Who's

0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Julie to you? Jesus? Just Frank? Okay, because I can

0:23:25.880 --> 0:23:28.840
<v Speaker 1>do red roses, I can do lilies are lilies? Are beautiful?

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<v Speaker 1>And what do you want to put on the note? Oh? Um,

0:23:33.480 --> 0:23:36.840
<v Speaker 1>let's say I hope these will brighten your day something

0:23:36.920 --> 0:23:41.919
<v Speaker 1>like that. So cute, seth your voice is being broadcast

0:23:42.040 --> 0:23:46.439
<v Speaker 1>on the radio. I need you to know that your wife,

0:23:46.600 --> 0:23:49.160
<v Speaker 1>Paula is on the line, and we know you should

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<v Speaker 1>hear this. That we know about Julie and that she's

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<v Speaker 1>an ex of yours and you guys have been seeing

0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:57.600
<v Speaker 1>each other with your wife knowing about But now you've

0:23:57.600 --> 0:24:01.240
<v Speaker 1>sent roses to her without thinking of your wife saying

0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I hope these will brighten your day. Why is Julie

0:24:04.960 --> 0:24:08.920
<v Speaker 1>your ex the first person you send romantic red roses too,

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<v Speaker 1>and not your wife? Because she needs her day bright

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 1>and you know it's no big deal. Okay, it is

0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:19.520
<v Speaker 1>a big deal, and I won't speak about that. Paula,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell your husband Seth why it's a

0:24:21.520 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>big deal. I just why why are you sending them

0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:34.119
<v Speaker 1>to her? Why not? Look, Paula, she's going through a

0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:37.320
<v Speaker 1>really hard time right now. We're pals. You know, we talk.

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:40.160
<v Speaker 1>I I you know, I talked to her last night.

0:24:40.880 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 1>She job stuck, she got dumped their free flowers. I mean,

0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:48.240
<v Speaker 1>what's the big deal here? Wait what you were talking?

0:24:48.320 --> 0:24:51.439
<v Speaker 1>You were talking to her last night? Why were you

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:54.439
<v Speaker 1>talking to her last night? Because she was in a

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 1>really bad place. She said. I don't like your I

0:24:57.800 --> 0:25:00.840
<v Speaker 1>don't mean to be I don't mean to say what

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:05.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say, but I don't love the way you talk,

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:09.720
<v Speaker 1>all right? You mean you you you kind of sprung

0:25:09.800 --> 0:25:13.320
<v Speaker 1>this whole. Well, that's fine, by the way, I didn't

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:15.719
<v Speaker 1>spring anything on you. Your wife thinks that something's going

0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:18.200
<v Speaker 1>on with you and another woman, so I'm not involved

0:25:18.280 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>at all. But I will say, you sound so condescending

0:25:21.440 --> 0:25:25.160
<v Speaker 1>and almost emotionless about it, and you have you have

0:25:25.200 --> 0:25:28.439
<v Speaker 1>no understanding for why your wife may think something's wrong,

0:25:28.680 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 1>which is to me, is a red flag. Well, you know,

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess you're policing the way I'm responding when I'm

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the area. I guess I'm a

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:41.439
<v Speaker 1>bit well, maybe you do. You think he sounds like

0:25:41.480 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 1>someone that loves and cares for you? Doesn't sound like

0:25:44.240 --> 0:25:51.560
<v Speaker 1>it to me. I just ah, Seth. I I'm a

0:25:51.600 --> 0:25:55.240
<v Speaker 1>little bit floored here because I thought you were telling

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:58.600
<v Speaker 1>me every time you were coming in contact with her.

0:25:58.680 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I thought we were having discussions about this, and now

0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:05.320
<v Speaker 1>you're telling me that you were talking to her yesterday.

0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I'm trying to wrap my mind around this,

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:16.840
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's Paula. Look, I'm sorry. You sound super upset,

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.719
<v Speaker 1>and I wish we could have this discussion not on

0:26:19.760 --> 0:26:22.720
<v Speaker 1>the air. But still I get it. You sound like

0:26:22.840 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you've been sidelined here, and I do I tell you

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:26.639
<v Speaker 1>every time we see each other. I didn't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>part of that was to let you know every time

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:31.639
<v Speaker 1>I make a call? Right? Did you have to know

0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:34.879
<v Speaker 1>about every phone call? Do you tell me about every

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 1>phone call you have with you know? Every no? No, no, no, not, Seth.

0:26:40.119 --> 0:26:43.119
<v Speaker 1>We're not playing that game. Do you tell me this?

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 1>For the moment focuses on you, and I'm gonna let

0:26:46.920 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>you what game right? What right that? This is not

0:26:50.560 --> 0:26:52.399
<v Speaker 1>for us to debate. I'm gonna let you guys go.

0:26:52.520 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're welcome, You're very welcome. I'm gonna let

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:58.360
<v Speaker 1>you guys go. And Julie is not. I don't think

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 1>Paula Julius who he should be sending red roses too,

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.560
<v Speaker 1>So in my experience, Seth, I'm gonna actually hang up

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:10.719
<v Speaker 1>on your line for a second. He did say she

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:15.560
<v Speaker 1>was just a friend. I'm gonna shoot hung up on

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>both of them, all right. If we know Paula's number,

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 1>get her back, Seth. I don't need that guy. Uh.

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Seth's guilty. Seth's got something going on. First, he's condescending

0:27:25.160 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>to his wife. You just heard that. There are a

0:27:28.040 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of things that I you know, you could jump

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:34.919
<v Speaker 1>to conclusions there. But also it's just not okay you

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>send red roses to your ex when you're married, Like,

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:42.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just not I'm not okay. I agree with you. No,

0:27:42.400 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 1>I totally agree with you. But I do find it

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:46.800
<v Speaker 1>weird that he said when I said who is she

0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:50.800
<v Speaker 1>to you? He said just a friend. But that's not

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 1>what I believe. I believe he I don't know, I

0:27:55.080 --> 0:27:57.879
<v Speaker 1>just have I guess I think he's emotionally cheating, but

0:27:57.880 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 1>I don't think he's physically cheated yet. I don't like

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:04.119
<v Speaker 1>the way he spoke to his wife, Paula. I I

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know what's happening with your husband, but he spoke

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:10.919
<v Speaker 1>in a tone that I didn't think was okay, totally judgmental,

0:28:11.000 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>and I probably shouldn't say it, but I really think

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 1>there's something going on there, or there's something going on

0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 1>with the two of you that we don't even know about.

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 1>But I'm a little worried about the way he spoke

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 1>condescendingly to you. I'm I don't even know what to say.

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm unford. I just we've there's not much more we

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:35.639
<v Speaker 1>can do, and he's not having a lot of uh,

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:37.760
<v Speaker 1>he's not having it. So I just gonna let you

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 1>guys go and sort it out. But I do wish

0:28:39.400 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 1>you luck, and I think that you should really really

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:49.000
<v Speaker 1>listen to how he speaks to you. Thank you good luck, paul.

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm thank you for coming on my naive two cents.

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:54.200
<v Speaker 1>But I just always worry when people are condescending to

0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 1>other people, they're supposed to be partners with. Yeah, I

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>almost have less concern if the guy was cheating, but

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>like sympathetic, empathetic, like had some emotion towards his wife,

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 1>But he was talking in a derogatory, talking down, talking,

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:16.640
<v Speaker 1>unequal partner type tone. That it bothered me almost more

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 1>than the cheaters. I always want to give them the

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:23.280
<v Speaker 1>benefit of the doubt because I think sometimes you know,

0:29:23.480 --> 0:29:25.720
<v Speaker 1>if we're like you're on the air and they kind

0:29:25.720 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>of get thrown off, and then their first knee jerk

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 1>reaction is anger. So I I like to think that

0:29:33.160 --> 0:29:35.720
<v Speaker 1>that might not be how they always speak to their partner.

0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 1>But so, just was looking up how to deal with

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 1>someone talks down to you, you know, patronizing conversation. It

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:51.719
<v Speaker 1>says a lot of different things about it. I mean

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 1>some say just walk out right, just leave, but that's

0:29:55.560 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>hard to do here, and say don't take it personally,

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 1>that's hard to do. They say expect it and ignore it.

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that either. Be upfront, call them out,

0:30:10.320 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 1>excuse yourself. Maybe just excuse yourself, like you know what,

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not having this conversation while you talk like that.

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>You can speak your but not with that. I don't know.

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Is it tone for me? That's like a trigger tone

0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 1>triggers me. It's tone. But also you know what's interesting

0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 1>is that I think that maybe he talks to her

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:33.240
<v Speaker 1>like that all the time, because yeah, you need to

0:30:33.280 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>like nip this in the beginning because it becomes a pattern.

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:37.640
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot harder to break a pattern. But I

0:30:37.760 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 1>worry what's behind that pattern? I think is what I'm

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 1>saying to you, Like where there's smoked, there could be fire.

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:47.719
<v Speaker 1>And that freaked me out a little bit. Oh, this

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>reminds me of the conversation we put a pin in

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 1>last week about Mark and Kelly Rippa. How could this

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 1>remind you of that perfect couple? Because you were saying

0:30:57.840 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 1>how they're so in sync and they like really have

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 1>it down, And I said, were they always that way?

0:31:03.160 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 1>Or did they have to? Like did they go through

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 1>some growing pains in the beginning? You said you'd find out. Okay,

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>we'll text me early tomorrow morning and when I'm with her,

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 1>all asks. Okay, all right, but you forget up early,

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>like three in the morning, whatever are you can get

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>up at all? Right? Let me grab Miranda. Hi, good morning, Miranda,

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>how are you doing I'm good. How are you? I'm good?

0:31:31.920 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 1>So what do you think you were? What we're saying,

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:38.920
<v Speaker 1>what do you think about Seth Ryan's roses? So my

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 1>thought is, you guys didn't ask a really important question,

0:31:42.120 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 1>and that's what was their break up about, you know,

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:48.320
<v Speaker 1>like him, do you know what happens to with Miranda?

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Not to give you any excuse, but almost as if

0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 1>you're listening to you're in it, you kind of like

0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 1>you have all these thoughts and you ask questions and

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:00.960
<v Speaker 1>then when you look back at it, you go, I

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:02.479
<v Speaker 1>wish I would have asked this kind of like if

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>you're in a conversation like that, you know, yeah, now

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I just wonder like if you know,

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 1>if she done him, and like he's probably maybe still

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.680
<v Speaker 1>for her, and like, you know, I don't know, right,

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 1>but still he had a chip on his shoulder. He

0:32:19.000 --> 0:32:20.640
<v Speaker 1>had a weird tone about it, and he said the

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 1>right he sent the red roses to the ex girlfriend

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 1>when he's married, it seems all bad. Oh, No, he's

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>totally in the wrong. He's totally in the wrong. I'm

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:33.760
<v Speaker 1>just saying, like, maybe he's got to infer and he's

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 1>not telling anybody, you know, because like I had an

0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>ex who was still into his X, you know, and

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 1>eventually they got back together because he still had unresolved

0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>feelings And it really sucks to be on the other

0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 1>side of that. But it's like this guy needs to

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>own up to whatever he's feeling. Right. You know what

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 1>sucks when we as individuals let someone into our hearts

0:32:56.080 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 1>and then get hurt by them. Yeah, and that is

0:33:00.600 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>the And every time someone's in that organ it's kind

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:07.160
<v Speaker 1>of back of your mind, You're like, you will hurt me,

0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>And don't you feel like it makes hard shrink a little? Yeah,

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 1>it takes a piece away, tells your welcome to jump

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>into this. But once we let someone in our heart,

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>beware caution flags everywhere because that person has the power

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 1>to crush you, but they also have the power to

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 1>make your life beautiful for how long until they crush you? Randon,

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 1>we don't want to bring you into this, but you

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:42.360
<v Speaker 1>understand and a good d you know what I mean, Like,

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>think about I don't want to use names, but Patty,

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:52.040
<v Speaker 1>go ahead. I am grateful that I am not loved

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:56.840
<v Speaker 1>the way I thought I wanted to be loved. Okay,

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 1>we need to put a pin in that because what

0:33:59.840 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 1>the hell? Another show I don't know when it airs

0:34:03.120 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>a len pm at night called The Cushion, The Pin

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Cushion Podcast Pin Cushion. Hold On. That is a lot

0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>to unpack. Do we have time right now, Ryan, or

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 1>do we need to move? We definitely don't have time

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:16.719
<v Speaker 1>right now. We may have to do it tomorrow. No, no, no,

0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:18.760
<v Speaker 1>not tomorrow. I'm gonna say, can you play some commercials

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>and songs and we come back to it. Let me

0:34:21.640 --> 0:34:23.719
<v Speaker 1>say it again. I am grateful that I am not

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>loved the way I thought I wanted to be loved.

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Can I understand it first, I'm grateful I am not

0:34:30.280 --> 0:34:33.040
<v Speaker 1>love oh, because you thought you wanted different kind of love.

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I was looking kind of love. We're all looking for

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:40.160
<v Speaker 1>someone to feel a void inside us, but no one

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>can ever feel that avoid because you have to feel

0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>that avoid for you, right. But I'm just saying to

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:50.399
<v Speaker 1>go back on the same theme. Once someone's in, they

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:53.279
<v Speaker 1>have the keys to the castle to crush you. No,

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:57.960
<v Speaker 1>they don't hurt you gave them the keys, keys, whatever.

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:00.400
<v Speaker 1>Trust me. If I fall in love with someone and

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:03.799
<v Speaker 1>they leave me, I'm hurt. Like there's no I was.

0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:05.759
<v Speaker 1>I was filled before they came into my heart. I'm

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:11.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna be fine. I'm it doesn't work like that. It doesn't.

0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who you mean. I am an example

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:18.920
<v Speaker 1>of that. Wow, we have gotten into it in the

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 1>last two weeks here. I wonder, are you guys feeling

0:35:23.040 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 1>that because Sissony is not here, you're telling me more

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:29.879
<v Speaker 1>because normally you tell her more. I think so for sure,

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:34.680
<v Speaker 1>because normally you guys talk about things that half of

0:35:34.680 --> 0:35:38.319
<v Speaker 1>which I get to hear about. Right, because she's not here,

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting a lot more of that unpacking. That's correct,

0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 1>You're alright, So pincushion, now, pincushion. Now we got into

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:52.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of different conversations, but I think the gist

0:35:52.360 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 1>of it was, hey, be careful again. Now this is

0:35:56.880 --> 0:36:00.280
<v Speaker 1>my view. So I'm a bit cynical about it because

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I have been Look, I have gone through pain and

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:06.439
<v Speaker 1>so have other people, and it happens. But you can't

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:09.200
<v Speaker 1>live your life thinking like this all the time. But

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 1>you can say it, and I'm gonna say it. You

0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:13.399
<v Speaker 1>let someone into your heart. They get into your heart

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:17.880
<v Speaker 1>and they kind of have some power. You're they have

0:36:17.920 --> 0:36:23.080
<v Speaker 1>emotional power because if they hurt you, you break. When

0:36:23.120 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 1>they hurt you, you're sore, and getting through that is tough,

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and people handle it differently and it leaves emotional scarring.

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:35.960
<v Speaker 1>So I think one can say, when they feel the

0:36:36.040 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>comfort of someone inside their heart, caution, caution, caution, because

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I know many times it doesn't work out for some

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 1>crazy reason. And when you're in it and it feels

0:36:48.920 --> 0:36:53.719
<v Speaker 1>really good, you still have that fear inside you. It

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:56.239
<v Speaker 1>sucks because you're not enjoying the moment of the good

0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>because you're fearing. You're waiting for the shoot to drop.

0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:02.080
<v Speaker 1>And that's such a terrible place to be. And that

0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:04.200
<v Speaker 1>is one of the things I wrote on my paper

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.400
<v Speaker 1>and through in the l A River last week. Clearly

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I was in the river and I found your paper

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:12.800
<v Speaker 1>because I brought it back up. Yeah, all right now, Patty.

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 1>Then you said this, go ahead. I am grateful to

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 1>not be loved the way I thought I always wanted

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:27.359
<v Speaker 1>to be loved. Okay, now we heard that. And then

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>you said because of that, someone will never have the

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 1>emotional power inside your heart to hurt you, and we

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 1>disagree wholeheartedly. I wouldn't say that. I would say that,

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:42.239
<v Speaker 1>of course is going to hurt because there's love, and

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 1>love is supposed to hurt. Um when it breaks. I

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:49.720
<v Speaker 1>hate that though I don't want to hurt. That's wanted.

0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:59.759
<v Speaker 1>That's the beauty about being alive. You know, feel things, Yeah, excitement,

0:38:00.000 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 1>all these beautiful feelings that we feel. Um, we have

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:12.320
<v Speaker 1>to feel pain. However, I'm sorry, I do think that

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:17.240
<v Speaker 1>most of that pain can be regulated if we begin

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 1>filling ourselves, as opposed to expecting the other partner individual

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 1>to fill your cup. So if your situation were to

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:30.959
<v Speaker 1>end badly, you would be okay managing it and getting

0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:35.359
<v Speaker 1>through it and fulfilled. It will hurt, but I will

0:38:35.400 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>be okay. I would be mortified. I would be literally

0:38:39.920 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 1>in a state of sadness that you couldn't even imagine.

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I think this is a defense mechanism, Patty, Well, you

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 1>swimmer sink, right. We'd rather swim and not sink. I'm

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 1>swimming right now, right, but we don't jump. But we're

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:58.400
<v Speaker 1>not in the pool sometimes Why because you gave us

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.319
<v Speaker 1>two choices swimmer sinc So I actually I'm staying on

0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:05.640
<v Speaker 1>the beach, but you're not swimming in the relationship that

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:08.799
<v Speaker 1>you always wanted to be swimming in. But if I

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 1>had the relationship I wanted. I wouldn't be the person

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 1>that I'm becoming, because I know who I was before

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.360
<v Speaker 1>this person I was. When you were attracting the wrong

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of relationship with the wrong kind of person. I

0:39:19.480 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't attracting the wrong well maybe, but I was. I

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:28.920
<v Speaker 1>was wanting them to make me happy fully, and I

0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:32.440
<v Speaker 1>was giving myself to them completely, and I was not

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 1>thinking of me and my dreams and what I wanted

0:39:35.520 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>to build and what I wanted to achieve, because I

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>wanted to give my entire being to this other individual.

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:50.120
<v Speaker 1>But if I may, you had a personal, professional vision

0:39:50.200 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 1>of what you needed to make yourself fulfilled before you

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<v Speaker 1>could even entertain the love component. I'm just saying, from

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<v Speaker 1>my view, I don't think that's true. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>had an idea. But your your entrepreneurial drive had to

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<v Speaker 1>get to a certain place of success before you made

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<v Speaker 1>this pivot. You told us one day that no, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't have arrived at that moment if I had

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<v Speaker 1>allowed myself to yearn for the love that I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I needed. But have your achievements and your accomplishments in

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<v Speaker 1>life on your entrepreneur journey given you a moment to

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<v Speaker 1>look differently at love. It allows me to see love

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<v Speaker 1>as an addition to everything that I'm creating and building,

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<v Speaker 1>an addition or like equal in addition to it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's beautiful. You know. I love my children. My children

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<v Speaker 1>are part of my life. Um, you guys are part

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<v Speaker 1>of my life. It's all an addition, It's all part

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<v Speaker 1>of this big, big Patty puzzle. We're all puzzles, all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, Patty Puzzle, y puzzle, and there's a tony

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<v Speaker 1>of puzzle. We're all puzzles. Let's get to that trending

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<v Speaker 1>report Claudie Cool highs in the mid sixties and seventies.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know twenty four years ago, just reading this

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<v Speaker 1>this morning, twenty four years ago, the u r L

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon dot Com was registered Amazon and comments registered twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four years ago today, and suddenly it is November and

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<v Speaker 1>here we go with the holidays. All right, So you

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<v Speaker 1>as discussed dressed up as um Courtney Kardashian and Travis

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<v Speaker 1>Barker was your boyfriend. Yes, still taking it all in.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, when when that picture first circulating our

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<v Speaker 1>group text, I thought it was them. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like so fun. The slow motion video just did well,

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<v Speaker 1>and Robbie had to put on all those tattoos, like

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<v Speaker 1>fake tattoos. What that's too much work? It was. It

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<v Speaker 1>took a lot more time than we had anticipated because

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<v Speaker 1>we basically his um, his chest was out and then

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<v Speaker 1>and then his hands are covered. So we had to

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<v Speaker 1>do his whole neck, his chest, his hands, and in

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<v Speaker 1>the back of his neck. And it was She means

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<v Speaker 1>I was there to help, all right, So let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to Kim Kardashi Pete Davidson. They were not scary farm,

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<v Speaker 1>their whole hands. What's up? I know. So basically it's

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<v Speaker 1>a photo that everybody was talking about over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Kim Kardashian Pete Davidson. Uh, not scary farm.

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<v Speaker 1>They're holding hands. But they do say that they are

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<v Speaker 1>just friends. So I want to talk about could they

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<v Speaker 1>be the next Cravice because we know Courtney Kardashian Travis

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<v Speaker 1>Barker they were really good friends for years before they

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<v Speaker 1>started dating. Flash forward a little bit and then boom,

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<v Speaker 1>now they're engaged. Um. Also, I don't I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys remember, but when Kim Kardashian hosted SNL,

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<v Speaker 1>she and Pete Davidson had a kiss on that carpet

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<v Speaker 1>when she was Jasmine. They were doing a sketch and

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<v Speaker 1>they shared a kiss. So I'm just saying, Also, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole SNL thing is it is the actual thing in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the universe. Emma Stone guest hosted SNL and

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<v Speaker 1>she's now married to Dave McCarry, whom she met when

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<v Speaker 1>she did it. Also, Scarlett Johansson and Colin Joe's they

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<v Speaker 1>met on SNL and then a few years went by

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<v Speaker 1>and they ended up getting married and now they're having

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<v Speaker 1>their first baby. So what do you guys think? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that being friends and then becoming a partners,

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<v Speaker 1>lovers romantic is the best right because you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>real foundation of respect and friendship and if that can

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<v Speaker 1>turn into passion, I'm all for that equation. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's fantastic. But I don't know that they're I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if they're romantic yet. I think they I think

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<v Speaker 1>they are out at not scary farm, holding hands, so

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<v Speaker 1>they definitely want us to think they are. Well, No,

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<v Speaker 1>they were holding it on like a ride, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like if Tubbs and I were on a roller coaster,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be squeezing his palm doesn't mean that we're a

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<v Speaker 1>new ship it right, exactly. They weren't just like roaming

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<v Speaker 1>around the park holding hands for all. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if there's a kiss, holding hands and not scary farm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, you are gonna be here every day

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<v Speaker 1>to let us know the moment that it evolves into

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<v Speaker 1>another category. Air on air with Ryan Secrets. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me something good. One or two seven Martina, Hey, Martina,

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<v Speaker 1>Brent would tell me something good. We're ready for good news. Hi, Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>My good news is my husband who has been fighting

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<v Speaker 1>brain cancer after being a fireman in New York City

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<v Speaker 1>after nine eleven for list five years. Yeah, the cancer

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<v Speaker 1>is gone and were finally totally see you in a

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<v Speaker 1>year cancer. You know that is great news. How is

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<v Speaker 1>he feeling. He's feeling fantastic. He really is well. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you should call every day to tell us

0:44:58.560 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 1>this good news because it is such a eight news,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I we I I've said this before on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. We got good news that my father's cancer

0:45:06.440 --> 0:45:09.520
<v Speaker 1>was undetected not too long ago. And he's like a

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<v Speaker 1>different guy. I mean he's like a different person. Yes, yes, good,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good news. Ryan I'm happy for your father. What's

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<v Speaker 1>what's your what's your husband's name? I gotta give him

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<v Speaker 1>some airtime. Geen Geene one, Jean Drury, r U r Y,

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<v Speaker 1>Jean Drew, Jean Drury. Well, thank you, Martina and you

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<v Speaker 1>have a great, great day. Big hug to Jean for us. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks Ryan, watch you in the morning. To you do great,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you you take care of On air with Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>Seacrest today is Seacrest with you, Patty and Tanya. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about Halloween and Tania and Robbie were Courtney

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashian and Travis Barker. Right, Little Knee dressed up as

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<v Speaker 1>the Cookie Monster and her dad went along with her

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<v Speaker 1>as the adult Cookie Monster. Realize there's so many kids

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<v Speaker 1>that their parents dressed up too. Is the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of fun. Uh. And then we are looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the counter thing and we're in November. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>too early to dip into a Christmas song or two?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what your temperature is, because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>as we've been through the last two years of a crisis,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe holiday spirit could come sooner and not annoy you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because it can be annoying if it's too soon, but

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. I like it, I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>not like it. To give you a double negative, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready for some of it? And then you

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<v Speaker 1>got because when I find what happens is it's too early,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's already here. There's no one between, right, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no seasons change. It's like it's no, it's too early,

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<v Speaker 1>then boom, it's two. It's it's here, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>moving on. The other thought is wait to Thanksgiving. But

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<v Speaker 1>there's something there's kind of a law between Halloween and Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a lull. It's too much of a law.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you can set up for Thanksgiving. But then

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like it's not a big enough window

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<v Speaker 1>to have Thanksgiving dick or up? So I think you

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<v Speaker 1>just and what is Thanksgiving decor? It's a little like

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<v Speaker 1>less than Halloween. Orange, you know, pumpkins, leaves, little baskets

0:47:22.520 --> 0:47:26.319
<v Speaker 1>and corn and brown. You know, it's like, okay, brown corn,

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I got it. Baskets, those little baskets. You put a

0:47:31.000 --> 0:47:32.719
<v Speaker 1>little brown corn, a little dried corn in there, and

0:47:32.760 --> 0:47:34.920
<v Speaker 1>a couple of pumpkins with bumps on them, and you

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<v Speaker 1>call it at Thanksgiving? Um, are you what do you

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<v Speaker 1>and Robbi your boyfriend gonna dress up as for a Christmas?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't dress? We do? We do? We do? We do?

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<v Speaker 1>We do? We are going to. You do do every year? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I do every year? Do your family. But you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do the pajamas, right, your pajamas. We do socks. Sometimes

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I put on a very ugly plaid jacket, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things like for the evening celebration, things like things of

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<v Speaker 1>this nature. It's fine, all right, So I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get upset if you hear a little Davil Kristmas. Uh. Sadie, Sadie, Sadie.

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<v Speaker 1>I need your two cents on this. Is it too

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<v Speaker 1>early or should we go for it? Let's go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>We need the cheer, all right, I think. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>the best time of Thank you for calling Sadie. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>bye bye. Now. If we really planned ahead, I would

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<v Speaker 1>play a Christmas song here. But I only took clips

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<v Speaker 1>and put them up. I only cut some clips. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the full thing. But at this ready with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest, what's about Gabby Das standing by to run

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