Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: Halloween Sunday kind of a bummer. It's on a Sunday.
Speaker 1: To be honest, I know, right, how long I don't
Speaker 1: understand the calendar and I'm a grown adult. How long
Speaker 1: do we have to wait before it's on a Friday?
Speaker 1: Is that five years? Honestly? I don't know how it
Speaker 1: works either, but you would think that next year it
Speaker 1: will be on Monday, and then the new year after
Speaker 1: that it will be a Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. So five yeah,
Speaker 1: five years. Thank you for showing me your work. You
Speaker 1: know they teach you to say, I hear your answer,
Speaker 1: but how did you get there? Thank you for showing
Speaker 1: the exactly. Thank you. Let me ask our residents astrologer
Speaker 1: Plato mark, uh, what's the deal? Well, Halloween been on
Speaker 1: a Friday five years? It will be a Saturday. My god,
Speaker 1: that is not fair. Oh we're signed up to be here, right,
Speaker 1: you mean like here in terms of a contractor here
Speaker 1: in terms of like are we all sticking me on
Speaker 1: the Earth may will be in Mars space? In space
Speaker 1: by then? I mean, have you not seen them? The
Speaker 1: Boo Origin, that thing that's up there, and Jeff Bezos
Speaker 1: wants to make a an apartment complex and wants to
Speaker 1: make his own Melrose place up there with Laurence Sanchez. Man,
Speaker 1: she's living the life. I love her. I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about his personal life. I'm talking about the space station
Speaker 1: he wants to build, and then he's gonna rent it
Speaker 1: out to different you saw, Patty. He's gonna build a
Speaker 1: space station and then he's gonna have renters lease out
Speaker 1: like companies, lease it out like an office building. I
Speaker 1: believe it. It is going to be crazy. What about
Speaker 1: that commute You finished work out of that place and
Speaker 1: you gotta get home back? Mm hmm crazy lightning speed
Speaker 1: with the blue Origin and the space X rockets. The
Speaker 1: boo Origin is what it's called Origin Halloween boover Virgin
Speaker 1: Galactic too in the mix. Well, listen, let's just stick
Speaker 1: where we are right here, feet on Earth's soil for
Speaker 1: the moment and run it down. You guys survived Halloween?
Speaker 1: Looks like I don't see any face pain or any
Speaker 1: makeup anywhere, any rashes from rubbing it off. That's the worst.
Speaker 1: Are you packing candy? The kids get to eat candy
Speaker 1: all week, Patty, No so What happened is I took
Speaker 1: away their candy bags and I'm only handing a few
Speaker 1: on the weekends. Wow, he used to be fun. You
Speaker 1: became a little unfun with the candy. Remember years ago
Speaker 1: you would let to meet all the candy. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: when it's it's my my little one. He is really hyper.
Speaker 1: So by adding candy to the to him, it just
Speaker 1: makes it a lot worse. I can't get him down
Speaker 1: to bad. My kids are gonna have it real bad
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna go to Courtney Kardashian. Huh, I don't
Speaker 1: What does that mean? What does she do? You know
Speaker 1: they don't eat candy. They here, you know, she's very
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to my neighbors. I'm gonna deliver a
Speaker 1: box of dates, some figs, some berries. Cortney Kardashian toasted
Speaker 1: almonds and say, kids go to those five houses. That's
Speaker 1: that's good, But they won't know the difference. It's not good.
Speaker 1: I remember when we were kids. I used to keep
Speaker 1: my pillowcase of all my candy, like in a drawer
Speaker 1: in my bedroom. My parents didn't monitor it. I would
Speaker 1: just like go in there whenever I wanted a little
Speaker 1: sugar rush. Oh my god, I left my ted lasso
Speaker 1: whistle here from last Friday. And and the wig. All this,
Speaker 1: all this, all this stuff is still here. Get rid
Speaker 1: of this visor and the wig. No one cleans these,
Speaker 1: No one comes into you. Tell me we light saw
Speaker 1: the studio down. Yet my whistle is still here, my
Speaker 1: ted lasso wig and my visor all from Friday. You
Speaker 1: do have to get out faster a jiu jitsu match.
Speaker 1: No no, I cleaned up, but I light all the round.
Speaker 1: It all right? Actually, good morning. How are you feeling,
Speaker 1: What are you doing good? How are you guys? Good? Thanks? Yes?
Speaker 1: Did you use a tan towel over the weekend? No? What?
Speaker 1: M you just look you look like Tanner a little bit?
Speaker 1: Any other thoughts before we get to Ashley or like
Speaker 1: my mother do? Is that sometimes my father is literally
Speaker 1: having a conversation with her and then she'll go, did
Speaker 1: you take up the garbage? We're talking about something else.
Speaker 1: It looks good. I was going to ask you if
Speaker 1: you could send me the link to the tan towel.
Speaker 1: I don't have the link because I don't have a
Speaker 1: tan towel, but thank you for a compliment. Actually, how
Speaker 1: are you doing I'm okay, how are you guys decide? Well,
Speaker 1: clearly completely disheveled and unorganized, but that's all right, so
Speaker 1: um you we how can we let's hone in on
Speaker 1: your world? So what's going on? So I'm getting married
Speaker 1: next month and I had my brain star last weekend,
Speaker 1: and um, there was like this little display where you
Speaker 1: could write a no like advice or well wishes for
Speaker 1: me and my fiance on like a wooden heart, and
Speaker 1: then you put in the sick jar and it's to
Speaker 1: keep in our house. So we got this like weird
Speaker 1: one that said call your mom every day, which kind
Speaker 1: of stood up to us, was a little different than
Speaker 1: all the rest of them. Um, I found out that
Speaker 1: it's my fiance's mom who wrote it. So I'm curious,
Speaker 1: you guys thoughts if that is one odd and two
Speaker 1: is that a red flag that she's just going to
Speaker 1: be super over involved in our in our lives. But siance,
Speaker 1: they thought it was weird too, Well, I don't think
Speaker 1: it's weird at all. I think my mom would do
Speaker 1: the same thing almost joking, not joking, joking not joking,
Speaker 1: you know, like she in a perfect world would want
Speaker 1: that but realizes that's probably not going to happen, and
Speaker 1: you're in control of when you call your mom or
Speaker 1: when he calls his mom. So I like it as
Speaker 1: a cute thing to put into the wishing well, okay, Steve,
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it like, I mean, how blessed
Speaker 1: are you Ashley and he that we have a parent
Speaker 1: that's that loving and connected to you. You know, I
Speaker 1: think it's great. A matter of fact, it's a green flag. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's that's that's a good that's a good take on them.
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it like that. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: there you go, thanks for calling any other wedding, marriage,
Speaker 1: relationship questions tells every hopefully everything goes well, well, good luck,
Speaker 1: thank you, all right bye. But I could see myself
Speaker 1: easily saying that to my kid their wedding. Call your
Speaker 1: dad every week, called me every week, every day, every day.
Speaker 1: It's a joke, like, yeah, but it's not literal, there's figuratively,
Speaker 1: that's how I do that. There's a little truth in
Speaker 1: every joke, though. Don't you think everyone's kind of a
Speaker 1: bus skill this morning? Like where's up? I'm trying to
Speaker 1: be PEPPI longs talking here and ever buzzkill light Year.
Speaker 1: What are you peppy? You're buzzy. I'm peppy, peppy long
Speaker 1: Stock guys, Come on, Tanya, what's happened? I'm not buzz lighty,
Speaker 1: light gear. I'm just stating their backs. I think everybody
Speaker 1: there's a I don't know, there's an energy we don't
Speaker 1: recognize a little bit. Did something Halloween happen? No, Halloween
Speaker 1: was great. I'm still reeling from my Courtney Kardashian outfit. Look,
Speaker 1: I am no censor, but I feel there's a little
Speaker 1: bit of a film. I don't know what it is yet,
Speaker 1: but let's see what happened transport. We got a lot
Speaker 1: of hours together this morning, and see what that film is.
Speaker 1: So what is going on? What do you want to
Speaker 1: tell us? No, but normally I eat before we do
Speaker 1: the show, and I didn't eat today, so I could
Speaker 1: be there. That's what it is, because so you're a
Speaker 1: little distracted or you're thinking, you're you're having other conversations
Speaker 1: while we're having them, and so you have so we
Speaker 1: it's a it looks like a film, like a little
Speaker 1: bit of a like I'm a little hungry, so I'm
Speaker 1: a little like That makes that makes sense? Yeah, do
Speaker 1: you need to take an apple break? This is a
Speaker 1: morning hack that found so interesting. It's an iPhone hat.
Speaker 1: So Tony actually she found this and and thank you
Speaker 1: Tony for bringing it in. No problem. You saw it
Speaker 1: on TikTok. So many life hacks on TikTok. Thank you
Speaker 1: TikTok for the hacks. Yeah. So on TikTok you can
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Speaker 1: Max Miles points. It's got eight million views. So let's
Speaker 1: say you're going to pick somebody up from l a
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Speaker 1: a lot easier if they text you their flight number
Speaker 1: a tour. You just tap that and then instantly it
Speaker 1: will open up a tracker and you can see the
Speaker 1: flight in progress tracking. It's so cool. You have to
Speaker 1: go look it up. You have to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: text me when you land and kind of time it out,
Speaker 1: like you can actually track it yourself. How crazy is that?
Speaker 1: I know it is great. So that's a fun that's right,
Speaker 1: and eye mested's very fun. Today's quote. Sometimes you have
Speaker 1: to give up on people, not because you don't care,
Speaker 1: but because they don't On air with Ryan Secrets. All right, Tanny,
Speaker 1: these are some of the final news segments you'll do.
Speaker 1: Sisney will be back soon, but in for Sisney, Tanya
Speaker 1: breaking it down. That's right. If you're heading to the
Speaker 1: airport today, check your flight status before you leave. American
Speaker 1: Airlines canceled hundreds of flights yesterday for a third straight
Speaker 1: day as it struggled with staffing shortages. A spokeswoman said
Speaker 1: that they expect improvement starting today, although there will be
Speaker 1: some residual impact from the weekend. Unvaccinated teenagers are more
Speaker 1: likely to test positive for the coronavirus than unvaccinated adults
Speaker 1: in l A County. Public Health Director her Ferrara says
Speaker 1: that unvaccinated teens are eight times more likely just as
Speaker 1: positive than vaccinated teens and are helping drive transmission across communities.
Speaker 1: And The head football coach at Inglewood High is being
Speaker 1: criticized after his team beat Inglewood Morningside High a hundred
Speaker 1: and six to nothing on Friday night. Inglewood scored fifty
Speaker 1: nine points in the first quarter alone, but did not
Speaker 1: pull their starters, and even when winning by over a
Speaker 1: hundred points, went for a two point conversion, the score
Speaker 1: was condemned by the California Interscholastic Federation on air with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, how are we doing post Halloween on a Sunday?
Speaker 1: Kind of buzz kill, but at least it was back
Speaker 1: to Halloween. My sister at Flora dressed up as a
Speaker 1: Cookie Monster and Jimmy, her dad, dressed up as Cookie Monster,
Speaker 1: and they went out together, and uh, I guess Flora
Speaker 1: got she's three, she my Nie, she got so tired
Speaker 1: she had to lay in the road at one point.
Speaker 1: She's just exhausted from on the trick or treating. My
Speaker 1: sister said she got home in the evening, late afternoon
Speaker 1: after trick or treating and said, for the first time ever, Mummy,
Speaker 1: can I go to bed? And she was so tired, exhausted. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think they started treating at eleven am, so by
Speaker 1: six she was tired. All right, let's let's go, let's
Speaker 1: go around here. I was Richard Simmons, among others for Halloween.
Speaker 1: Maybe you saw some of that imagery, yeah, those legs,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, And then I carried the costume around all
Speaker 1: weekend long, thinking I was gonna wear a couple of times,
Speaker 1: but I just couldn't get myself back into it much. Uh.
Speaker 1: It's one thing to put it on once, but to
Speaker 1: keep dipping back into the well, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I did it once and it
Speaker 1: was but you, Tanya, you and your buffer Robbie. You
Speaker 1: guys were a Travis Barker and Corney Carte Ashan and
Speaker 1: it was well done. Thank you. Honestly, it was so fun.
Speaker 1: Once we decided we wanted to be them for Halloween,
Speaker 1: I was like, we're gonna go all in and make
Speaker 1: this as realistic as possible. And it was so fun.
Speaker 1: And Patty, how was it yesterday for you and the kids?
Speaker 1: You know? We ended up staying in. I think, Um,
Speaker 1: I was just I was just too exhausted. We did
Speaker 1: trigger treating on Saturday. We went to a little uh
Speaker 1: party where we trigger treat around the block, a private party.
Speaker 1: And yesterday I was like, you know what, I just can't.
Speaker 1: It's too cold. I just can't. Tired, kids just can't. Okay.
Speaker 1: I was so exhausted. Yeah, well, I was watching. I
Speaker 1: watched a lot of sports over the weekend. My Bulldogs
Speaker 1: University of Georgia number one. They beat Florida, was a
Speaker 1: big deal, big win. I was watching the Rams. I
Speaker 1: got I got two man crushes, and they happened over
Speaker 1: the weekend. One of my man crushes Sean McVeigh, coach
Speaker 1: of the Rams. Guys looking stack. Been having a thing
Speaker 1: for him for a while. He's you're a day one
Speaker 1: with him. I a little biased because you grew up
Speaker 1: in Atlanta and went to school high school near my
Speaker 1: high school. However, guys got good fitness right now. Check
Speaker 1: out the size of his arms and his hairs on point.
Speaker 1: And so Sean, coach of the Rams, congrats on the
Speaker 1: wind and looking good. Ro the other guy. I gotta
Speaker 1: I gotta mail crush on Joe Buck's voice. He was
Speaker 1: calling the World Series last night and he called Super
Speaker 1: Bowls World Series for twenty some years and his voice
Speaker 1: is just crushable. It does it really? I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just so knowledgeable and his quick quips and brave start
Speaker 1: out big and they end up losing. So the games
Speaker 1: go to Houston. Next game is tomorrow night. If you're
Speaker 1: following baseball, USC beat Arizona, U sill a lost ramspeed
Speaker 1: Houston Chargers loss of the Patriots. So Cecity is feeling
Speaker 1: that she's feeling that lost. This morning, we are wondering
Speaker 1: about if just looking at the counter, we're wondering about this.
Speaker 1: It's November one, it's the decorations and the lights are going.
Speaker 1: Is it time for all? This? Is it time for
Speaker 1: the Christmas music? Soon too? Or is it too early?
Speaker 1: I'm curious do you want a little? Do you want
Speaker 1: a little? And when do you put in your decorations up?
Speaker 1: Because I will say I have been both people. I've
Speaker 1: been annoyed with myself for playing that right now in
Speaker 1: years past, and I've also been for it. I've been
Speaker 1: annoyed with people put their decorations up this week, and
Speaker 1: I've also been for it. I've been for it recently
Speaker 1: because we need, like in the pandemics that we needed
Speaker 1: the holiday spirit. And I also find that I love
Speaker 1: it and I find that when it goes down, it's
Speaker 1: kind of depressing because every tree feels so bare, every
Speaker 1: room feels so naked. Do we want to enjoy more
Speaker 1: of it longer? Because you know, when it comes to
Speaker 1: an end, it's a downer. Just curious to note where
Speaker 1: the where the masses stand on this so eleven months ago,
Speaker 1: to take you back, this is now Monday, November one,
Speaker 1: and eleven months ago we met do you remember mr?
Speaker 1: We met this couple from Monterey Park, Marianna. She nominated
Speaker 1: her husband Enis to win one of our virtual jingle
Speaker 1: Ball bubble parties because we were not having real jingle Ball,
Speaker 1: so we're doing jingle Ball bubble parties and they want
Speaker 1: a new TV. They were the whole package that were
Speaker 1: given away Postmates dinner. But we couldn't give him ticket
Speaker 1: Gingle because it wasn't happening because of the pandemic. Correct,
Speaker 1: don me play it back because you you I think,
Speaker 1: remember what was happening this Marianna talking about Enis. Listen,
Speaker 1: he is literally the most hard working man that I know.
Speaker 1: He come he wakes up at eight to go to
Speaker 1: work um and then comes home like either six, seven
Speaker 1: or eight pm. And even though he comes home around
Speaker 1: that time, like he's just still working. So this would
Speaker 1: be a good way for him to have a break.
Speaker 1: Don't you feel that in your world? That's how you
Speaker 1: want your partner to talk about you. That's how you
Speaker 1: want your kids to talk about you when you're not there.
Speaker 1: It's when you're not there. So here's nays talking about Marianna.
Speaker 1: She's just the most amazing person. She's so supportive. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, she's by my side every step of the way. Uh.
Speaker 1: She cares so much for for myself and for our
Speaker 1: two daughters, for everyone just around her. She's a very
Speaker 1: caring person. So we told him that they won the
Speaker 1: jingle Ball Bubble party and listen, Ever since I was
Speaker 1: in high school, I've been wanting to go to jingle
Speaker 1: Ball and I've never had the opportunity to when I
Speaker 1: always told my wife, like, we we need to go
Speaker 1: to dingle Ball. That's that's my my birthday, my birthday concert.
Speaker 1: You know, we need to go jingle Ball. And this
Speaker 1: year in January that was one of my resolutions, was like,
Speaker 1: I need go to jingle Ball this year. And then
Speaker 1: COVID happens, so I I knew it wasn't gonna be possible.
Speaker 1: But thanks so much now I have both back. Now
Speaker 1: Marianna and Enes, Hello guys, how are you doing? Marianna
Speaker 1: nz Oh my gosh, it's been a year. Did it
Speaker 1: go by fast for you? Since we last spoke? It
Speaker 1: has been super fast. Wow, I think it goes by
Speaker 1: in a flash. But yeah, when you break it down
Speaker 1: day to day, so much has happened since then, and
Speaker 1: I remember that we talked and you were seeing this
Speaker 1: as we just heard that You're like goal, your dream,
Speaker 1: your resolution is all to be a jingle ball, and
Speaker 1: of course we couldn't have a jingle ball. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was That has been the team of hours for
Speaker 1: a long time last year to the COVID, Well, Marianna,
Speaker 1: before I do you want I'm about to do. I
Speaker 1: just make sure that you guys still love each other
Speaker 1: very much, so um, you know, yeah, just thinking about
Speaker 1: how much I love this man makes me cheered eye.
Speaker 1: I think of so many times I've married him. Um,
Speaker 1: and I my soul, my being, my every atom is
Speaker 1: in love with him. She had a wedding for every
Speaker 1: one of those things. Yea. All right, well, guys, I
Speaker 1: have good news now that jingle Ball is back in person.
Speaker 1: I held two tickets for you to go so you
Speaker 1: can be there December three with all of us. This amazing. Yes,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Ryan, It's our pleasure. I'm glad
Speaker 1: that we were able to follow up and follow through
Speaker 1: and get you guys there, so you're in person jingle
Speaker 1: Ball year late, but you got it all right. Thank
Speaker 1: you for my birthday. So we're super excited. Happy birthday, y'all,
Speaker 1: hang on, hang on what sec thank you? Mm hm
Speaker 1: hm I right so sweet. They he turns thirty one
Speaker 1: December four. I have two daughters. They went to Sierra
Speaker 1: High Parks. Now we're gonna focus on Paula. Paula says
Speaker 1: that her husband. This is Ryan's roses. Paula said that
Speaker 1: her husband reconnected with an X over Instagram, and she
Speaker 1: says she was fine with it, but then things changed. Paula,
Speaker 1: good morning. Thank you for coming on. So we know
Speaker 1: that you were fine with the reconnect on Instagram, but
Speaker 1: then what changed your mind? What happened? Just? I listened
Speaker 1: to Ryan's roses all the time, and it just it
Speaker 1: got me thinking, Um, I just I have this fear
Speaker 1: that he would send her and instead of me. So
Speaker 1: you think that if we were to call him. You
Speaker 1: heard other people and if we were to call him,
Speaker 1: she would be top of mind, not you. It's just
Speaker 1: a suspicion. I just need to know. I'm you know,
Speaker 1: if he doesn't send them to her, if you send
Speaker 1: them to me, just just let it go. Just don't
Speaker 1: con front of even because because he just never need
Speaker 1: even needs to know I did this I just need
Speaker 1: to get the thought out of my head. Paula's on
Speaker 1: the line. She wrote to us for Ryan's roses, and
Speaker 1: we're about to call her husband. She was fine with
Speaker 1: him reconnecting with an X over Instagram. Why were you
Speaker 1: okay with that? Because you know everyone in our lives.
Speaker 1: They come into our lives for a reason. They make
Speaker 1: us who we are. I don't feel like you have
Speaker 1: to cut off an ex just because it ended. That's
Speaker 1: I'm I trust my husband. I love my husband. He's
Speaker 1: not going to be running off somewhere with someone so
Speaker 1: I and he's very open with me. He has communicated
Speaker 1: with me when they went to coffee, when they had lunch.
Speaker 1: It's but then, but here, I'm trying to figure out
Speaker 1: So's about to call him. But you're if you're fine
Speaker 1: with that and he's open with you, he communicates with you,
Speaker 1: what are you so worried about? Right? I love listen
Speaker 1: to Brian. It just it just got me thinking, So,
Speaker 1: you don't trust him and he don't think he's communicating
Speaker 1: with you. You You think he's going to send the roses
Speaker 1: to the other woman. I just want to know that's
Speaker 1: her name, m Julie Julie. Okay, all right, be very quiet.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him and see what we can find out.
Speaker 1: Just easy to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call,
Speaker 1: and then his name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan,
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call. Alright, very quiet, Here
Speaker 1: we go, Tanya, you're up. Hello. Hi is this Seth?
Speaker 1: It is Hi Seth. My name is Liliana. I'm the
Speaker 1: owner of a new flower shop right here in Marino Valley.
Speaker 1: It's lilies and more, and I wanted to call and
Speaker 1: offer you a free dozen roses today. I don't need
Speaker 1: any information from you, just who you want to send
Speaker 1: them to and a note. Uh. Yeah, they're free, completely free.
Speaker 1: I don't need any of your credit card information. I'm
Speaker 1: being totally serious. I just need the name of who
Speaker 1: you want to send them to and the address, and
Speaker 1: I'll get them out by one pm today. Yeah. I've
Speaker 1: been told like there's no such thing as a free line,
Speaker 1: so I think maybe I'll just turn those down. Uh.
Speaker 1: I don't know who told you that, but that's not
Speaker 1: we're doing this. We're just we're new here and we
Speaker 1: just want to get our name out there. So if
Speaker 1: you like the flowers, maybe next time, you can buy
Speaker 1: some more if you recommend us to friends and family.
Speaker 1: That's really all I'm asking for, all right, Um, if
Speaker 1: you don't need any credit, Cary and Flo, I guess
Speaker 1: there's no harm. Sure, let's um, let's send these flowers
Speaker 1: to Julie. Okay, perfect, um, Julie, that's so nice. Who's
Speaker 1: Julie to you? Jesus? Just Frank? Okay, because I can
Speaker 1: do red roses, I can do lilies are lilies? Are beautiful?
Speaker 1: And what do you want to put on the note? Oh? Um,
Speaker 1: let's say I hope these will brighten your day something
Speaker 1: like that. So cute, seth your voice is being broadcast
Speaker 1: on the radio. I need you to know that your wife,
Speaker 1: Paula is on the line, and we know you should
Speaker 1: hear this. That we know about Julie and that she's
Speaker 1: an ex of yours and you guys have been seeing
Speaker 1: each other with your wife knowing about But now you've
Speaker 1: sent roses to her without thinking of your wife saying
Speaker 1: I hope these will brighten your day. Why is Julie
Speaker 1: your ex the first person you send romantic red roses too,
Speaker 1: and not your wife? Because she needs her day bright
Speaker 1: and you know it's no big deal. Okay, it is
Speaker 1: a big deal, and I won't speak about that. Paula,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell your husband Seth why it's a
Speaker 1: big deal. I just why why are you sending them
Speaker 1: to her? Why not? Look, Paula, she's going through a
Speaker 1: really hard time right now. We're pals. You know, we talk.
Speaker 1: I I you know, I talked to her last night.
Speaker 1: She job stuck, she got dumped their free flowers. I mean,
Speaker 1: what's the big deal here? Wait what you were talking?
Speaker 1: You were talking to her last night? Why were you
Speaker 1: talking to her last night? Because she was in a
Speaker 1: really bad place. She said. I don't like your I
Speaker 1: don't mean to be I don't mean to say what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, but I don't love the way you talk,
Speaker 1: all right? You mean you you you kind of sprung
Speaker 1: this whole. Well, that's fine, by the way, I didn't
Speaker 1: spring anything on you. Your wife thinks that something's going
Speaker 1: on with you and another woman, so I'm not involved
Speaker 1: at all. But I will say, you sound so condescending
Speaker 1: and almost emotionless about it, and you have you have
Speaker 1: no understanding for why your wife may think something's wrong,
Speaker 1: which is to me, is a red flag. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: I guess you're policing the way I'm responding when I'm
Speaker 1: in the middle of the area. I guess I'm a
Speaker 1: bit well, maybe you do. You think he sounds like
Speaker 1: someone that loves and cares for you? Doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: it to me. I just ah, Seth. I I'm a
Speaker 1: little bit floored here because I thought you were telling
Speaker 1: me every time you were coming in contact with her.
Speaker 1: I thought we were having discussions about this, and now
Speaker 1: you're telling me that you were talking to her yesterday.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm trying to wrap my mind around this,
Speaker 1: and it's it's Paula. Look, I'm sorry. You sound super upset,
Speaker 1: and I wish we could have this discussion not on
Speaker 1: the air. But still I get it. You sound like
Speaker 1: you've been sidelined here, and I do I tell you
Speaker 1: every time we see each other. I didn't know. I
Speaker 1: part of that was to let you know every time
Speaker 1: I make a call? Right? Did you have to know
Speaker 1: about every phone call? Do you tell me about every
Speaker 1: phone call you have with you know? Every no? No, no, no, not, Seth.
Speaker 1: We're not playing that game. Do you tell me this?
Speaker 1: For the moment focuses on you, and I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you what game right? What right that? This is not
Speaker 1: for us to debate. I'm gonna let you guys go.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're welcome, You're very welcome. I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you guys go. And Julie is not. I don't think
Speaker 1: Paula Julius who he should be sending red roses too,
Speaker 1: So in my experience, Seth, I'm gonna actually hang up
Speaker 1: on your line for a second. He did say she
Speaker 1: was just a friend. I'm gonna shoot hung up on
Speaker 1: both of them, all right. If we know Paula's number,
Speaker 1: get her back, Seth. I don't need that guy. Uh.
Speaker 1: Seth's guilty. Seth's got something going on. First, he's condescending
Speaker 1: to his wife. You just heard that. There are a
Speaker 1: lot of things that I you know, you could jump
Speaker 1: to conclusions there. But also it's just not okay you
Speaker 1: send red roses to your ex when you're married, Like,
Speaker 1: it's just not I'm not okay. I agree with you. No,
Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. But I do find it
Speaker 1: weird that he said when I said who is she
Speaker 1: to you? He said just a friend. But that's not
Speaker 1: what I believe. I believe he I don't know, I
Speaker 1: just have I guess I think he's emotionally cheating, but
Speaker 1: I don't think he's physically cheated yet. I don't like
Speaker 1: the way he spoke to his wife, Paula. I I
Speaker 1: don't know what's happening with your husband, but he spoke
Speaker 1: in a tone that I didn't think was okay, totally judgmental,
Speaker 1: and I probably shouldn't say it, but I really think
Speaker 1: there's something going on there, or there's something going on
Speaker 1: with the two of you that we don't even know about.
Speaker 1: But I'm a little worried about the way he spoke
Speaker 1: condescendingly to you. I'm I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: I'm unford. I just we've there's not much more we
Speaker 1: can do, and he's not having a lot of uh,
Speaker 1: he's not having it. So I just gonna let you
Speaker 1: guys go and sort it out. But I do wish
Speaker 1: you luck, and I think that you should really really
Speaker 1: listen to how he speaks to you. Thank you good luck, paul.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm thank you for coming on my naive two cents.
Speaker 1: But I just always worry when people are condescending to
Speaker 1: other people, they're supposed to be partners with. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: almost have less concern if the guy was cheating, but
Speaker 1: like sympathetic, empathetic, like had some emotion towards his wife,
Speaker 1: But he was talking in a derogatory, talking down, talking,
Speaker 1: unequal partner type tone. That it bothered me almost more
Speaker 1: than the cheaters. I always want to give them the
Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt because I think sometimes you know,
Speaker 1: if we're like you're on the air and they kind
Speaker 1: of get thrown off, and then their first knee jerk
Speaker 1: reaction is anger. So I I like to think that
Speaker 1: that might not be how they always speak to their partner.
Speaker 1: But so, just was looking up how to deal with
Speaker 1: someone talks down to you, you know, patronizing conversation. It
Speaker 1: says a lot of different things about it. I mean
Speaker 1: some say just walk out right, just leave, but that's
Speaker 1: hard to do here, and say don't take it personally,
Speaker 1: that's hard to do. They say expect it and ignore it.
Speaker 1: I don't like that either. Be upfront, call them out,
Speaker 1: excuse yourself. Maybe just excuse yourself, like you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm not having this conversation while you talk like that.
Speaker 1: You can speak your but not with that. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Is it tone for me? That's like a trigger tone
Speaker 1: triggers me. It's tone. But also you know what's interesting
Speaker 1: is that I think that maybe he talks to her
Speaker 1: like that all the time, because yeah, you need to
Speaker 1: like nip this in the beginning because it becomes a pattern.
Speaker 1: It's a lot harder to break a pattern. But I
Speaker 1: worry what's behind that pattern? I think is what I'm
Speaker 1: saying to you, Like where there's smoked, there could be fire.
Speaker 1: And that freaked me out a little bit. Oh, this
Speaker 1: reminds me of the conversation we put a pin in
Speaker 1: last week about Mark and Kelly Rippa. How could this
Speaker 1: remind you of that perfect couple? Because you were saying
Speaker 1: how they're so in sync and they like really have
Speaker 1: it down, And I said, were they always that way?
Speaker 1: Or did they have to? Like did they go through
Speaker 1: some growing pains in the beginning? You said you'd find out. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll text me early tomorrow morning and when I'm with her,
Speaker 1: all asks. Okay, all right, but you forget up early,
Speaker 1: like three in the morning, whatever are you can get
Speaker 1: up at all? Right? Let me grab Miranda. Hi, good morning, Miranda,
Speaker 1: how are you doing I'm good. How are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: So what do you think you were? What we're saying,
Speaker 1: what do you think about Seth Ryan's roses? So my
Speaker 1: thought is, you guys didn't ask a really important question,
Speaker 1: and that's what was their break up about, you know,
Speaker 1: like him, do you know what happens to with Miranda?
Speaker 1: Not to give you any excuse, but almost as if
Speaker 1: you're listening to you're in it, you kind of like
Speaker 1: you have all these thoughts and you ask questions and
Speaker 1: then when you look back at it, you go, I
Speaker 1: wish I would have asked this kind of like if
Speaker 1: you're in a conversation like that, you know, yeah, now
Speaker 1: I get it. I just wonder like if you know,
Speaker 1: if she done him, and like he's probably maybe still
Speaker 1: for her, and like, you know, I don't know, right,
Speaker 1: but still he had a chip on his shoulder. He
Speaker 1: had a weird tone about it, and he said the
Speaker 1: right he sent the red roses to the ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: when he's married, it seems all bad. Oh, No, he's
Speaker 1: totally in the wrong. He's totally in the wrong. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, like, maybe he's got to infer and he's
Speaker 1: not telling anybody, you know, because like I had an
Speaker 1: ex who was still into his X, you know, and
Speaker 1: eventually they got back together because he still had unresolved
Speaker 1: feelings And it really sucks to be on the other
Speaker 1: side of that. But it's like this guy needs to
Speaker 1: own up to whatever he's feeling. Right. You know what
Speaker 1: sucks when we as individuals let someone into our hearts
Speaker 1: and then get hurt by them. Yeah, and that is
Speaker 1: the And every time someone's in that organ it's kind
Speaker 1: of back of your mind, You're like, you will hurt me,
Speaker 1: And don't you feel like it makes hard shrink a little? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it takes a piece away, tells your welcome to jump
Speaker 1: into this. But once we let someone in our heart,
Speaker 1: beware caution flags everywhere because that person has the power
Speaker 1: to crush you, but they also have the power to
Speaker 1: make your life beautiful for how long until they crush you? Randon,
Speaker 1: we don't want to bring you into this, but you
Speaker 1: understand and a good d you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: think about I don't want to use names, but Patty,
Speaker 1: go ahead. I am grateful that I am not loved
Speaker 1: the way I thought I wanted to be loved. Okay,
Speaker 1: we need to put a pin in that because what
Speaker 1: the hell? Another show I don't know when it airs
Speaker 1: a len pm at night called The Cushion, The Pin
Speaker 1: Cushion Podcast Pin Cushion. Hold On. That is a lot
Speaker 1: to unpack. Do we have time right now, Ryan, or
Speaker 1: do we need to move? We definitely don't have time
Speaker 1: right now. We may have to do it tomorrow. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: not tomorrow. I'm gonna say, can you play some commercials
Speaker 1: and songs and we come back to it. Let me
Speaker 1: say it again. I am grateful that I am not
Speaker 1: loved the way I thought I wanted to be loved.
Speaker 1: Can I understand it first, I'm grateful I am not
Speaker 1: love oh, because you thought you wanted different kind of love.
Speaker 1: I was looking kind of love. We're all looking for
Speaker 1: someone to feel a void inside us, but no one
Speaker 1: can ever feel that avoid because you have to feel
Speaker 1: that avoid for you, right. But I'm just saying to
Speaker 1: go back on the same theme. Once someone's in, they
Speaker 1: have the keys to the castle to crush you. No,
Speaker 1: they don't hurt you gave them the keys, keys, whatever.
Speaker 1: Trust me. If I fall in love with someone and
Speaker 1: they leave me, I'm hurt. Like there's no I was.
Speaker 1: I was filled before they came into my heart. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be fine. I'm it doesn't work like that. It doesn't.
Speaker 1: I don't know who you mean. I am an example
Speaker 1: of that. Wow, we have gotten into it in the
Speaker 1: last two weeks here. I wonder, are you guys feeling
Speaker 1: that because Sissony is not here, you're telling me more
Speaker 1: because normally you tell her more. I think so for sure,
Speaker 1: because normally you guys talk about things that half of
Speaker 1: which I get to hear about. Right, because she's not here,
Speaker 1: I'm getting a lot more of that unpacking. That's correct,
Speaker 1: You're alright, So pincushion, now, pincushion. Now we got into
Speaker 1: a lot of different conversations, but I think the gist
Speaker 1: of it was, hey, be careful again. Now this is
Speaker 1: my view. So I'm a bit cynical about it because
Speaker 1: I have been Look, I have gone through pain and
Speaker 1: so have other people, and it happens. But you can't
Speaker 1: live your life thinking like this all the time. But
Speaker 1: you can say it, and I'm gonna say it. You
Speaker 1: let someone into your heart. They get into your heart
Speaker 1: and they kind of have some power. You're they have
Speaker 1: emotional power because if they hurt you, you break. When
Speaker 1: they hurt you, you're sore, and getting through that is tough,
Speaker 1: and people handle it differently and it leaves emotional scarring.
Speaker 1: So I think one can say, when they feel the
Speaker 1: comfort of someone inside their heart, caution, caution, caution, because
Speaker 1: I know many times it doesn't work out for some
Speaker 1: crazy reason. And when you're in it and it feels
Speaker 1: really good, you still have that fear inside you. It
Speaker 1: sucks because you're not enjoying the moment of the good
Speaker 1: because you're fearing. You're waiting for the shoot to drop.
Speaker 1: And that's such a terrible place to be. And that
Speaker 1: is one of the things I wrote on my paper
Speaker 1: and through in the l A River last week. Clearly
Speaker 1: I was in the river and I found your paper
Speaker 1: because I brought it back up. Yeah, all right now, Patty.
Speaker 1: Then you said this, go ahead. I am grateful to
Speaker 1: not be loved the way I thought I always wanted
Speaker 1: to be loved. Okay, now we heard that. And then
Speaker 1: you said because of that, someone will never have the
Speaker 1: emotional power inside your heart to hurt you, and we
Speaker 1: disagree wholeheartedly. I wouldn't say that. I would say that,
Speaker 1: of course is going to hurt because there's love, and
Speaker 1: love is supposed to hurt. Um when it breaks. I
Speaker 1: hate that though I don't want to hurt. That's wanted.
Speaker 1: That's the beauty about being alive. You know, feel things, Yeah, excitement,
Speaker 1: all these beautiful feelings that we feel. Um, we have
Speaker 1: to feel pain. However, I'm sorry, I do think that
Speaker 1: most of that pain can be regulated if we begin
Speaker 1: filling ourselves, as opposed to expecting the other partner individual
Speaker 1: to fill your cup. So if your situation were to
Speaker 1: end badly, you would be okay managing it and getting
Speaker 1: through it and fulfilled. It will hurt, but I will
Speaker 1: be okay. I would be mortified. I would be literally
Speaker 1: in a state of sadness that you couldn't even imagine.
Speaker 1: I think this is a defense mechanism, Patty, Well, you
Speaker 1: swimmer sink, right. We'd rather swim and not sink. I'm
Speaker 1: swimming right now, right, but we don't jump. But we're
Speaker 1: not in the pool sometimes Why because you gave us
Speaker 1: two choices swimmer sinc So I actually I'm staying on
Speaker 1: the beach, but you're not swimming in the relationship that
Speaker 1: you always wanted to be swimming in. But if I
Speaker 1: had the relationship I wanted. I wouldn't be the person
Speaker 1: that I'm becoming, because I know who I was before
Speaker 1: this person I was. When you were attracting the wrong
Speaker 1: kind of relationship with the wrong kind of person. I
Speaker 1: wasn't attracting the wrong well maybe, but I was. I
Speaker 1: was wanting them to make me happy fully, and I
Speaker 1: was giving myself to them completely, and I was not
Speaker 1: thinking of me and my dreams and what I wanted
Speaker 1: to build and what I wanted to achieve, because I
Speaker 1: wanted to give my entire being to this other individual.
Speaker 1: But if I may, you had a personal, professional vision
Speaker 1: of what you needed to make yourself fulfilled before you
Speaker 1: could even entertain the love component. I'm just saying, from
Speaker 1: my view, I don't think that's true. I think I
Speaker 1: had an idea. But your your entrepreneurial drive had to
Speaker 1: get to a certain place of success before you made
Speaker 1: this pivot. You told us one day that no, but
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have arrived at that moment if I had
Speaker 1: allowed myself to yearn for the love that I thought
Speaker 1: I needed. But have your achievements and your accomplishments in
Speaker 1: life on your entrepreneur journey given you a moment to
Speaker 1: look differently at love. It allows me to see love
Speaker 1: as an addition to everything that I'm creating and building,
Speaker 1: an addition or like equal in addition to it. It's
Speaker 1: it's beautiful. You know. I love my children. My children
Speaker 1: are part of my life. Um, you guys are part
Speaker 1: of my life. It's all an addition, It's all part
Speaker 1: of this big, big Patty puzzle. We're all puzzles, all
Speaker 1: of us, Patty Puzzle, y puzzle, and there's a tony
Speaker 1: of puzzle. We're all puzzles. Let's get to that trending
Speaker 1: report Claudie Cool highs in the mid sixties and seventies.
Speaker 1: Do you know twenty four years ago, just reading this
Speaker 1: this morning, twenty four years ago, the u r L
Speaker 1: Amazon dot Com was registered Amazon and comments registered twenty
Speaker 1: four years ago today, and suddenly it is November and
Speaker 1: here we go with the holidays. All right, So you
Speaker 1: as discussed dressed up as um Courtney Kardashian and Travis
Speaker 1: Barker was your boyfriend. Yes, still taking it all in.
Speaker 1: So you know, when when that picture first circulating our
Speaker 1: group text, I thought it was them. It was just
Speaker 1: like so fun. The slow motion video just did well,
Speaker 1: and Robbie had to put on all those tattoos, like
Speaker 1: fake tattoos. What that's too much work? It was. It
Speaker 1: took a lot more time than we had anticipated because
Speaker 1: we basically his um, his chest was out and then
Speaker 1: and then his hands are covered. So we had to
Speaker 1: do his whole neck, his chest, his hands, and in
Speaker 1: the back of his neck. And it was She means
Speaker 1: I was there to help, all right, So let's get
Speaker 1: to Kim Kardashi Pete Davidson. They were not scary farm,
Speaker 1: their whole hands. What's up? I know. So basically it's
Speaker 1: a photo that everybody was talking about over the weekend.
Speaker 1: It was Kim Kardashian Pete Davidson. Uh, not scary farm.
Speaker 1: They're holding hands. But they do say that they are
Speaker 1: just friends. So I want to talk about could they
Speaker 1: be the next Cravice because we know Courtney Kardashian Travis
Speaker 1: Barker they were really good friends for years before they
Speaker 1: started dating. Flash forward a little bit and then boom,
Speaker 1: now they're engaged. Um. Also, I don't I don't know
Speaker 1: if you guys remember, but when Kim Kardashian hosted SNL,
Speaker 1: she and Pete Davidson had a kiss on that carpet
Speaker 1: when she was Jasmine. They were doing a sketch and
Speaker 1: they shared a kiss. So I'm just saying, Also, the
Speaker 1: whole SNL thing is it is the actual thing in
Speaker 1: the in the universe. Emma Stone guest hosted SNL and
Speaker 1: she's now married to Dave McCarry, whom she met when
Speaker 1: she did it. Also, Scarlett Johansson and Colin Joe's they
Speaker 1: met on SNL and then a few years went by
Speaker 1: and they ended up getting married and now they're having
Speaker 1: their first baby. So what do you guys think? Well,
Speaker 1: I think that being friends and then becoming a partners,
Speaker 1: lovers romantic is the best right because you've got a
Speaker 1: real foundation of respect and friendship and if that can
Speaker 1: turn into passion, I'm all for that equation. I think
Speaker 1: it's fantastic. But I don't know that they're I don't
Speaker 1: know if they're romantic yet. I think they I think
Speaker 1: they are out at not scary farm, holding hands, so
Speaker 1: they definitely want us to think they are. Well, No,
Speaker 1: they were holding it on like a ride, Like it
Speaker 1: seemed like if Tubbs and I were on a roller coaster,
Speaker 1: I'd be squeezing his palm doesn't mean that we're a
Speaker 1: new ship it right, exactly. They weren't just like roaming
Speaker 1: around the park holding hands for all. But I don't
Speaker 1: know if there's a kiss, holding hands and not scary farm.
Speaker 1: You know what, you are gonna be here every day
Speaker 1: to let us know the moment that it evolves into
Speaker 1: another category. Air on air with Ryan Secrets. Let's get
Speaker 1: to tell me something good. One or two seven Martina, Hey, Martina,
Speaker 1: Brent would tell me something good. We're ready for good news. Hi, Ryan.
Speaker 1: My good news is my husband who has been fighting
Speaker 1: brain cancer after being a fireman in New York City
Speaker 1: after nine eleven for list five years. Yeah, the cancer
Speaker 1: is gone and were finally totally see you in a
Speaker 1: year cancer. You know that is great news. How is
Speaker 1: he feeling. He's feeling fantastic. He really is well. I
Speaker 1: feel like you should call every day to tell us
Speaker 1: this good news because it is such a eight news,
Speaker 1: you know, I we I I've said this before on
Speaker 1: the show. We got good news that my father's cancer
Speaker 1: was undetected not too long ago. And he's like a
Speaker 1: different guy. I mean he's like a different person. Yes, yes, good,
Speaker 1: that's good news. Ryan I'm happy for your father. What's
Speaker 1: what's your what's your husband's name? I gotta give him
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Speaker 1: Jean Drew, Jean Drury. Well, thank you, Martina and you
Speaker 1: have a great, great day. Big hug to Jean for us. Okay,
Speaker 1: thanks Ryan, watch you in the morning. To you do great,
Speaker 1: Thank you you take care of On air with Ryan
Speaker 1: Seacrest today is Seacrest with you, Patty and Tanya. We're
Speaker 1: just talking about Halloween and Tania and Robbie were Courtney
Speaker 1: Kardashian and Travis Barker. Right, Little Knee dressed up as
Speaker 1: the Cookie Monster and her dad went along with her
Speaker 1: as the adult Cookie Monster. Realize there's so many kids
Speaker 1: that their parents dressed up too. Is the same thing.
Speaker 1: It's kind of fun. Uh. And then we are looking
Speaker 1: at the counter thing and we're in November. Is it
Speaker 1: too early to dip into a Christmas song or two?
Speaker 1: I don't know what your temperature is, because I feel like,
Speaker 1: as we've been through the last two years of a crisis,
Speaker 1: maybe holiday spirit could come sooner and not annoy you, right,
Speaker 1: because it can be annoying if it's too soon, but
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: not like it. To give you a double negative, all right,
Speaker 1: are you ready for some of it? And then you
Speaker 1: got because when I find what happens is it's too early,
Speaker 1: then it's already here. There's no one between, right, there's
Speaker 1: no seasons change. It's like it's no, it's too early,
Speaker 1: then boom, it's two. It's it's here, and it's it's
Speaker 1: moving on. The other thought is wait to Thanksgiving. But
Speaker 1: there's something there's kind of a law between Halloween and Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: I don't want a lull. It's too much of a law.
Speaker 1: And then you can set up for Thanksgiving. But then
Speaker 1: it's kind of like it's not a big enough window
Speaker 1: to have Thanksgiving dick or up? So I think you
Speaker 1: just and what is Thanksgiving decor? It's a little like
Speaker 1: less than Halloween. Orange, you know, pumpkins, leaves, little baskets
Speaker 1: and corn and brown. You know, it's like, okay, brown corn,
Speaker 1: I got it. Baskets, those little baskets. You put a
Speaker 1: little brown corn, a little dried corn in there, and
Speaker 1: a couple of pumpkins with bumps on them, and you
Speaker 1: call it at Thanksgiving? Um, are you what do you
Speaker 1: and Robbi your boyfriend gonna dress up as for a Christmas?
Speaker 1: You don't dress? We do? We do? We do? We do?
Speaker 1: We do? We are going to. You do do every year? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do every year? Do your family. But you guys
Speaker 1: do the pajamas, right, your pajamas. We do socks. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I put on a very ugly plaid jacket, you know,
Speaker 1: things like for the evening celebration, things like things of
Speaker 1: this nature. It's fine, all right, So I mean, look,
Speaker 1: don't get upset if you hear a little Davil Kristmas. Uh. Sadie, Sadie, Sadie.
Speaker 1: I need your two cents on this. Is it too
Speaker 1: early or should we go for it? Let's go for it.
Speaker 1: We need the cheer, all right, I think. So it's
Speaker 1: the best time of Thank you for calling Sadie. Thank
Speaker 1: bye bye. Now. If we really planned ahead, I would
Speaker 1: play a Christmas song here. But I only took clips
Speaker 1: and put them up. I only cut some clips. I
Speaker 1: don't have the full thing. But at this ready with
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