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It is Strawberry Letter, all. 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: Right, and if you thank you. Subject What's up with 12 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: my spoiled old man? Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty 13 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: four year old married woman and my husband has been 14 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: sleeping in the other room lately. He and I got 15 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: into an argument on Easter weekend and he told me 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: that he could do a lot better than me and 17 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: find someone that doesn't nag him or treat him like 18 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: a child. He's sixty seven and we've been married for 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: four years. Since we got married, I bathe him every night. 20 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: I lotion. 21 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: I put lotion on his body and I suffer through 22 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: bad sex. I also cook every night. I wash all 23 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: of his clothes, and I wash both of our cars 24 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: whenever they need to be cleaned or what. He complains 25 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: about me to his friends, and they all say he 26 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: is crazy and he's got it made. I overheard him 27 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: on the phone telling his son that I stop bathing 28 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: him because I'm lazy and I put my own needs 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: before his. He's dern right I do. I treated him 30 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: like a king, and nothing is wrong with his legs 31 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: or arms, so he can wash his own behind. I've 32 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: been snooping to see if he's entertaining another woman, but 33 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: I didn't see anything in his phone or computer, so 34 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: I have no idea what's gotten into him. He did 35 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: withdraw five thousand dollars out of his savings account last week, 36 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: and when I asked him about it, he yelled and 37 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: screamed so loud I thought he was about to have 38 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: a heart attack. I told him that maybe I treat 39 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: him like a kid, because I take care of him 40 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: like he's my kid. I stopped cooking and washing his 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: clothes last month. Yesterday he came in with his clothes 42 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: in a basket, neatly folded, and he had two plates 43 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: of food covered. 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: In aluminum foil. I couldn't believe him. 45 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: There has to be another woman, right, Does he think 46 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: another woman will treat him like I do? 47 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 3: What should I do? 48 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: Okay, wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. 49 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: You're bathing a grown man every night. He's not sick 50 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: or anything, no medical reason for this. You're just bathing 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: him and loationing him and all of this. Uh huh no, no, 52 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: call me crazy, but I've just never heard of this before. 53 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: What's more, this man doesn't respect you. He doesn't appreciate 54 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: any of the things you do for him. His friends 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: were right. What is he complaining about. He's got it made. 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: There's nothing more to say here, really, except I'm glad 57 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,839 Speaker 1: you finally came to your senses and stopped bathing him 58 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: and loationing him, cooking and doing the laundry, suffering through 59 00:02:55,400 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: horrible sex, and washing his car. Come on, lady, this 60 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: is a fully grown man, sixty seven years old. He's 61 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: capable of doing all the things that you're doing for him. Yes, 62 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: of course, he got another woman to do those things 63 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 1: for him. He's paying her. He is paying her. That's 64 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: the only difference. I'm sure that's why he went into 65 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: a rage when you asked him about the five thousand dollars. 66 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: Let this man go, please, He's not worth it and 67 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: you could do much better. That's all I have to 68 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: say to you. 69 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: Let him go, Tommy, if you don't bathe me, glad 70 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 2: as Will. Now, I'm just gonna take if you don't 71 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 2: bathe me, glad as Will. What you're not gonna do 72 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 2: is start our relationship out with you bathing me, washing 73 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: my clothes, cooking for me, folding up all my stuff, 74 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 2: and washing my car. What you're not gonna do is 75 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: start our relationship. I'd like this, and they're gonna stop 76 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: four five years later. I'm not gonna take it. I'm 77 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: not finished down the wrest. Somebody gonna bathe me. If 78 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: you're not gonna bathe me, glad as Will, I'm sorry. 79 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: I have got gotten accustomed to being bathed. So I'm 80 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: gonna walk around here nicked for a few minutes and 81 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: see if you're gonna get done. If not, Gladys to 82 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: do it. I'm sorry you started out doing this. You 83 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 2: have got to continue what you started. What the older 84 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: ladies say, whatever it took to get that man, you 85 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: got to keep doing it. You started out bathing this man, 86 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna be walking around here dirty because 87 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: you don't feel like Bathy being And I'm not getting 88 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 2: in that car and that car ain't clean. I'm not 89 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: I'm not getting in that car and you ain't cleaning. 90 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: You don't pull that car, pull that I pull that 91 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: car out that garage and I'm leaving in thirty minutes 92 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 2: and I need this car clean before I get up 93 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: out of here. 94 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 4: Hello, so you're not gonna do it? Fine, I go 95 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 4: to Gladys glads and. 96 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 2: Cook me something to eat. And yeah, I brought two 97 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 2: things home with some fall in it. That's none of 98 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: that is for you. That's what Gladys mayan for. 99 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 3: Men have any Ain't. 100 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: Nobody brought you nothing from Gladys house. And gladysdon put 101 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: Gladyson put that gain in there. And they're down here 102 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 2: on my clothes, and my clothes excellent, and they are 103 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: folded and they looked nice. And I am gonna be fine, 104 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: and yes I am clean. If you sniff me, I 105 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: smell like some great soap because Gladys done took care 106 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 2: of me. I'm not finna sit up there and argue 107 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: with you. You've been cleaning clothes, You've been cleaning me. 108 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: You've been folding, watching them folding my clothes. You've been 109 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: cooking around here, you've been bathing. What what now all 110 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: of a sudden we threw. 111 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 3: You so he can bathe himself. 112 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 2: No, Shirley, for the last four years that we have 113 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 2: been married, she has been bathing me. And now we No, 114 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 2: everybody don't have bathers, and I understand that. I understand 115 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 2: that everybody don't have bathers. Once you get one. Oh, 116 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: you're not losing your bathe. Oh no, you're not finna change. 117 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 2: Why you make me feel Oh no, no, no no, 118 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 2: But why. 119 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: He gets so mad about the five thousand dollars too, 120 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: Because that go to. 121 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 2: The new bathel that ain't got nothing to do with 122 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: you no more. This is for her, This is for Gladys. 123 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: If Glady's gonna cook, and if Gladdy's gonna have food 124 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: for me, and if glad It's gonna fold my clothes, 125 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 2: Gladdys need a little money, So Gladys need a little 126 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: some some. But guess what, look at my Gladyson got 127 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: out there and. 128 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 3: Clean dot car shiny. 129 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: Glad to take care of me. I'm sorry, glad it's 130 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: got me on lock. Baby, what you can see i'd 131 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: have walked around here. You got me stinking around here. 132 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 2: I ain't clean or nothing. 133 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: What is this? 134 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 3: How's you gonna do me yourself? What is wrong with you? 135 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 4: Jackie? If you listening, we're gonna start a new style. 136 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: I want to get bathe tonight, tonight, Please call us. 137 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 2: I know the generator, I know the generated thing is 138 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 2: still kind of hot with us. 139 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 4: But I want to get bathe tonight. 140 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: All right, listen, we're gonna have part two of today's 141 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. 142 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 3: Uh. 143 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: The subject is what's up with my spoiled old Man? 144 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: We'll hear from Junior when we come back right after this. 145 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 2: When I raised my leg up. If you don't get 146 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 2: up under that. 147 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 3: You're listening. 148 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: Morning show? All right, it is time now to recap 149 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, and then we're gonna hear from Junior's subject, 150 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,679 Speaker 1: what is up with my spoiled old man? A forty 151 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: four year old woman wrote in she's married to a 152 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: sixty seven year old man. They've been married for four years. 153 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: Every night, this woman, this dutiful, faithful wife, bathes her husband. 154 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: Now he's perfectly healthy, perfectly fine. She bathes her husband. Listen, 155 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: lotions her husband down. She cooks for him, she cleans 156 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: for him, she washes both their cars, I mean, and 157 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: on top of all of that, she has to suffer 158 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: through bad sex with this man. 159 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 3: So I guess she just got fed up. Fed up. 160 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: He started complaining, saying she's lazy because she stopped doing 161 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: these things. But his friends, his friends are telling him 162 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: what is he complaining about? Because he's got it made. 163 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: So she's thinking now that he's coming home with plates 164 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: of food and his laundry folded and all that, that 165 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: he's got another woman. Plus he took five grand out 166 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: of the and when she asked him about it, he 167 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: started hollering and. 168 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: Screaming at her. So she's just wanting to know is 169 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: there another woman? And what should she do? Junior? What 170 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: you got? 171 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 5: You know? I don't really like talking about people who 172 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 5: like bathing. I really don't like that. I really don't 173 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 5: think that's really something. I'm four, I'll be everybody take 174 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 5: a bath every day. But I just want to say, 175 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 5: I believe this man is allergic to soap and water 176 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 5: plus lotion as of lately, because that's what she said, 177 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 5: as of lately. You don't do that because wherever there's 178 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 5: soap and water. His ass ain't over there if she 179 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 5: ain't bathing him. 180 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 4: What is water? 181 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 5: One way you can get clean when she out there 182 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 5: washing them calls, get your ass on that hood and 183 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 5: just let this holes hold you down. Get some sads 184 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 5: on you. Become part of the car because you need 185 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 5: to bathe. Sir, you sixty seven years old. This more. 186 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 4: If you don't want to bathe. 187 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 5: Yourself, be where soap and water at. She do the 188 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 5: dishes after she cooks. Clowd your ass in the sink 189 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 5: and put your knees in your chest and let her 190 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 5: do them dishes and. 191 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 4: Wash you there. 192 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 5: Because you're not getting in the tub. Obviously, you need 193 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 5: to do some other things differently, sir. When she washing clothes, 194 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 5: climb your ass in the washing machine and get spunked 195 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 5: because it's soap and water in a washing machine. 196 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 3: Just putting places for you to get clean. 197 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 5: Sir. If you don't want it in the tub, she 198 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 5: ain't doing it. Be where she at. Just be out there. 199 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 5: When you own the hood and she take that glove 200 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 5: and she clean the hood, let it run up down 201 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 5: your back. Just get some signs on you. We gonna 202 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 5: clean off that's it. Just be right there by the 203 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 5: emblem on the car, Get in the sink, let that 204 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 5: dawn come across your back. And when she rubbing them dishes, 205 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 5: she rubbing you too. As your car soap onelver, it's soap, dishwashing, detergent. 206 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 5: It sways to get clean. Get in the dish washing, 207 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 5: get in there with the plates, sending forks and knives 208 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 5: in the spoon, and let her turn that off and 209 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 5: get clean, because that's all is, you know, if she 210 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 5: not doing it, that's the way you can get clean. 211 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 5: All the way around you. 212 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 3: We ain't taking man bathe himself. 213 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 5: He don't want you, obviously, Shirley. He don't want you 214 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 5: because he told the Sun on the phone, she stopped 215 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 5: bathing me. 216 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 4: That's no excuse me. 217 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 5: You still be dirty. He says that. 218 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:13,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, he told the son. 219 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 5: That as of lately she stopped bathing me. Well, there's 220 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 5: other places where there's soaping water at you know, you know, 221 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 5: get it. Go to the car wash, get in line, 222 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 5: stand behind there, just walk her behind through that. 223 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 4: Wait for your light to light up. 224 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 5: Sons just coming, get jump behind clean take it too 225 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 5: many excuses? 226 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 3: Should he vacuum first? 227 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 5: I don't care what he do. 228 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 4: He just can go. 229 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 5: He can go after he get out, he can vacuum 230 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 5: himself dry. But you need to get It's what I'm saying. 231 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 5: There's no reason for this because she ain't bathing you. 232 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 5: You just gonna be nasty now. 233 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 2: Now, well what junior let me ask though? Now she 234 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 2: started out bathing him for four years now, the man 235 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 2: he's used to that. 236 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 5: Now that's what he used to Okay, but she tired though. 237 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: She and we say all all the time, how you 238 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: how you uh? You keep him the same way you 239 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: got them? 240 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 4: You got me in on this man, I'm in on 241 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 4: this now. 242 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, well but he it ain't happening now though, so 243 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 5: while we still dirty. 244 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 4: When I'm trying to figure. 245 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: Out, but is this a thing? 246 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: Though? 247 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: That's what I pressure. 248 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: Washed the house. 249 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 5: They put soap into pressure washing. Stand out there in 250 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 5: front of your garage and just get pressure pressure ways 251 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 5: to get clean. You ain't looking at just be a dirty. 252 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: But back to my question, is this a thing? 253 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 4: I would love to be bathed? 254 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 5: Could? 255 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 4: Yes? 256 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 5: Well if I could, if I could get my wife 257 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 5: to bathe me do? How long I've been sitting in 258 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 5: that toil waiting on how to bathe. 259 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 3: Me, Carla, what you got? What you got, Carla? 260 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 1: I've been married, it'll be twenty years next month. 261 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 3: It's not a thing. I didn't think it was a thing. 262 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 4: It could be a new thing, though, it could be 263 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 4: a new thing. 264 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: No, it's not. You're grown. 265 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, when I raised this up, get under that. 266 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 5: Man going down to the airport. When they clean the 267 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 5: planes out there, get get get get out there on 268 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 5: that tire and get clean with them planes, his whites 269 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 5: get clean. You ain't thinking of But. 270 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: She didn't say they showered together. She didn't say, you know, 271 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: they take sexy baths together. 272 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 3: She didn't say that. 273 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:17,959 Speaker 1: She said she bathed him and lotioned him down after 274 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: the fact. 275 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: And now that may have been walking around as like 276 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: this here because you don't want to take care of 277 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 2: what you've been doing looking halfway white, that man, you 278 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: believe that that you ought to stop. 279 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 3: I just don't understand how come you can't bathe on? 280 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: Why is she bathing? 281 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 5: It's not defend this ain't nothing wrong with him? 282 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 4: Would would y'all? Okay, let's go back to it to 283 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 4: what would y'all be? 284 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 3: Michael, No, he could bathe me though, See right. 285 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 5: There, surely you said now gonna happen? 286 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 4: Can okay call it? 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