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Speaker 1: My husband was disgusted by my unborn baby, but now

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Speaker 2: Okayop, this is OKAYOP. I'm Samuel Daughner and I'm John Fry.

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Speaker 2: We tell the funniest stories on the Internet. And before

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, same, you're looking kind of fresh fresh,

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Speaker 1: Why if I don't say so myself because.

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Speaker 2: Of my merch oh oh oh oh oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: So those Karen's we don't want them. Get him, get

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Speaker 1: But John, also, you got some merch on Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: So we got merch that's canceled. Karen hats, t l

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Speaker 1: beautiful naked lady, very sensual, very essential. So and it

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Speaker 1: not the hole exactly right. Yeah, cancel Karen. You know

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Speaker 1: you're part of the cancel careen crusaders, Like yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. So if you joined the movement, cancel

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Speaker 1: I believe it to effectively cancel them. I mean, like

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Speaker 1: that will send the message to solidarity. We'll sol So

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Speaker 3: I think we got Yeah, give me a juice one.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I got I gotta do something through it like

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Speaker 2: a piece of meat and have the blood dripped down

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Speaker 2: my gums and my chin.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Oddly descriptive like serial killer level descriptive. Right there.

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Speaker 1: I love it, all right. My husband was disgusted by

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Speaker 1: my unborn baby, but now he loves it.

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Speaker 2: Disgust That disgusting damn husband is a bad husband. He

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Speaker 2: needs to go to the clink, go the doghouse, no

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Speaker 2: meals for a week.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, don't don't judge a story by its title, Samuel.

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Speaker 1: We've I think we've learned that in all of our.

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Speaker 2: Don't judge an a hole before we've read the story

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Speaker 2: exactly exactly, all right, Opie says.

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Speaker 1: When we started dating, he male forty eight, was very

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Speaker 1: clear that he didn't want kids, and I, female twenty five,

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Speaker 1: just like note the age difference there. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: pretty big age gap. Like there are forty different places

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Speaker 1: in life. Ony five man's had like two divorces, and

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Speaker 1: you know, like made his wealth on his he's like

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Speaker 3: Girl just got out of college.

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Speaker 1: Hey, good for her, Like, you know, lock it down,

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Speaker 1: like sugar daddy, dude, I don't want to work for

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Speaker 1: my whole life. He goes on to say, I made

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Speaker 1: a mistake with my birth control and ended up pregnant.

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Speaker 1: He was not happy at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, make sure you take the right pills if you

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Speaker 1: You know, the the cautious you figure it out.

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Speaker 2: You know, they used to have male birth control. But

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Speaker 2: then the guys are like, this makes me feel weird believe.

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Speaker 1: The male birth They're like, let's completely like modify the

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Speaker 1: So I like that plan. So did they just like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, basically, like the men had the exact same symptoms

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Speaker 2: as as women on birth control, and they're like and

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Speaker 3: This, and then they just continued the study. Nice. Nice.

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Speaker 1: During the first five months of the pregnancy, he acted

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Speaker 3: How do you not acknowledge that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, bruh, you're a dick of a of

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Speaker 1: Given that jar of pickles getting Yeah, the cravings were

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Speaker 3: And ice cream together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. When my husband had to start buying things for

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Speaker 1: And our daughter, who's now six months old, loves him.

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Speaker 1: And I thought he loved her too, thought.

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Speaker 2: All right, I sense a turn turn, I send something brewing.

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Speaker 1: But a couple of nights ago, his friends, they're all

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because he is old as heck.

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Speaker 1: Because he's freaking old. Came to her house for dinner

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Speaker 1: and I overheard a conversation that I should not have heard,

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Speaker 1: And now I wonder if he's honest or not.

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Speaker 2: See, like, those are the conversations that you want to

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Speaker 2: is real talk, you know. Yeah, yeah, conversations are not

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Speaker 1: Those are conversations they actually do need to hear. You're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to hear. One of his friends was making

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Speaker 1: and the other one said something like, I thought you

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Speaker 1: come on, that's so whack.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're having like also like imagine if he

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Speaker 2: if he's like he actually wants the kid now yeah,

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Speaker 2: and it is super excited or like.

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Speaker 3: You're adobe for having kids like.

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Speaker 1: Also cares like if someone, if an older person have

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Speaker 3: The words of John Lennon, let it be Oh, John.

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Speaker 1: Lennon, it was so funny. I thought you mixed up

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Speaker 1: John and Lennon and John Legend, but I mixed.

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Speaker 2: Up two very different people, John Legend, John Lennon.

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Speaker 1: When Glasses, the husband's friend goes on to say, I

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Speaker 1: and now you're changing diapers and preparing bottles at three am.

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Speaker 1: This this friend needs to not be a friend, like

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Speaker 3: Get them to the girl.

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Speaker 1: You gotta have good people in your average.

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Speaker 2: You gotta have a supportive circle around you that's at

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Speaker 1: My husband just laughed when he said that and said

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Speaker 1: that even if they couldn't believe it, he's enjoying it.

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Speaker 2: To the husband for actually like sticking up for his

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Speaker 2: move and it's not confrontational too, like he's not he's

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Speaker 2: not being like fu, but I know that first response

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Speaker 1: Also, don't speak to speak too highly of a fee.

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Speaker 1: Then his friend goes on to say that he's only

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Speaker 1: here and he can't change that. But he knows that

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Speaker 1: he never wanted to be a dad. They have known

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Speaker 3: Bruh, just bruh, bruh, by the bruch. But bruh, what

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Speaker 3: why why are you saying all that?

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Speaker 1: Dude? Like literally, it's like they're just trying to have

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Speaker 2: They're at like some like little party and this guy

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Speaker 2: right now, and maybe it's worth like really asking, like

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Speaker 2: there's there's a time in a place if you really

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Speaker 2: way to ask it, Like yeah, ridiculous, Honestly, ridiculous. I

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Speaker 2: just the bad friend, bad friend totally. It also doesn't

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Speaker 2: know when to stop talking either. It's like freaking up,

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Speaker 2: like the husband deflects the first time, and then the

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Speaker 1: Whole, like my pistol didn't get you. Let me get

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Speaker 1: my AK forty seven and try to get so. At

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Speaker 1: this point, my husband kept quiet and didn't say anything,

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, he was silent on the next one.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that is a indicator of him

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's I I would view it

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Speaker 2: this very uncomfortable and dumb conversation. Like your point, sometimes

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Speaker 2: arguing against someone's strong held opinion just brings you down

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