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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. All right, let's do a hypothetical here.

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Speaker 2: I always love those.

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Speaker 1: And Brooke, we're gonna pretend that you're single. Okay you,

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Speaker 1: I know she's faked up.

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Speaker 2: Husband. But let's say for a long time.

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Speaker 1: You're hanging out at the bar, you're the same age

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Speaker 1: that you are right now. I don't want to say

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Speaker 1: it out loud, let's just keep that in mind. But again,

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Speaker 1: you're single and you see a cute guy cross the room,

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Speaker 1: very attractive. Do you approach him or do you try

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Speaker 3: I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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Speaker 1: And what do you do? What do you do?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. Maybe buy him a drink extra.

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Speaker 1: You're just like Hi and Brooke, I think you're cute

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Speaker 1: dreams and flash a bunch of money in his face

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Speaker 3: I've told many guys at bars when I was goal,

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Speaker 3: you're hot.

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Speaker 2: We love that.

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Speaker 1: No, we would that. Girls will finally tell you told you.

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Speaker 2: I don't have much shame or anything. I don't well, no,

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Speaker 2: not really, but it works. I'm telling you it works.

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Speaker 1: I do think you forgot. I said, you're still your

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Speaker 1: same age as now, but I'm gonna let you get

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Speaker 2: So I still say that more desperate at my age.

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Speaker 4: But I bring it up because one of our listeners

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Speaker 4: says that he got approached by not just one, but

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Speaker 4: on how that happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's.

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Speaker 1: Talk to him. Tony, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Were my two twins at the bar?

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Speaker 1: Is that what she means look alikes? Not the other girl?

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Speaker 1: Classic she's accidentally hitting. I know Tony apologized for Brook,

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Speaker 1: but I know you went on a date recently. Who

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Speaker 5: Her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: Said somebody approached you at the bar. You met it

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I know, sorry, that might have been a

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Speaker 5: little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and

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Speaker 2: Things like community seating.

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Speaker 5: Yeah exactly, We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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Speaker 5: like that, and it's kind of social. You know, people

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Speaker 5: and sister. We were there on a date together.

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Speaker 1: You how do you be clear about that? Like T

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Speaker 5: No, I don't think so. But it was more like

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Speaker 5: the way we got treated, I guess because we were

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Speaker 5: I mean, we were flirting, we were doing the whole

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Speaker 5: And Jemmy at one point got up and she went

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Speaker 2: About your date.

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, I could see, like two girls that

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh, look at there on a first date.

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Speaker 2: Let's go mess, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: She thinks going back, like I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 3: Almost The women were still there when she came back

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying

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Speaker 4: So it was weird that maybe she saw that they and.

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Speaker 3: It's the only thing if they're like making it a joke, right,

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Speaker 2: But this sounds like she was really left out.

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Speaker 5: It probably hurt, yeah, But I was trying to do

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Speaker 3: You didn't do everything, you didn't move.

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Speaker 1: And one time I pretended to fall asleep during a

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Speaker 1: I kissed one of them. What do you think, like

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Speaker 5: I kind of And I told her this too. I

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Speaker 2: Did Emma like that reason?

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Speaker 5: Not at all?

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Speaker 2: Were you able to salvage the date at all?

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Speaker 2: How long were they there?

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Speaker 5: They were there for the rest of the date, but

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Speaker 5: we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and

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Speaker 5: she wasn't really talking to me at the end, and uh,

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Speaker 5: no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of

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Speaker 1: You bring it up with Jemma though about like, sorry

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Speaker 2: He told her. The whole reason he thought they were

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Speaker 5: After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were

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Speaker 5: in the car, and I apologized for their behavior and said, look,

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Speaker 5: I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: It was weird.

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Speaker 2: What did she say?

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Speaker 5: She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, dangde what do you wish you would have

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Speaker 5: Uh? It was a weird social situation. So, I mean,

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Speaker 5: I guess I should have asked for a private table,

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Speaker 1: I wonder, I wonder where her side is. Yeah, well

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Speaker 1: we'll get that from her when we reach out to her.

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Speaker 1: But at least next time, probably need to avoid the

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Speaker 3: You're just accepting attention from other women is probably what

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Speaker 1: You're with a girl.

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Speaker 2: Kerr Brother Chicks.

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Speaker 1: Learned, and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach

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Speaker 1: out to Gemma for you and come back. Try to

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Speaker 1: get your second date update. Right after this second date update,

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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Speaker 1: one date boy, and the person who got excluded was Jemma,

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Speaker 1: because two random girls got up and sat down right

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Speaker 1: the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward.

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Speaker 2: From there, he tried to play foot sees, does just.

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Speaker 1: Show Jemma that I'm actually interested in you? I don't

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Speaker 1: really care about these two new girls, but she was

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 2: It's probably just a table leg.

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Speaker 1: And Tony's thoughts on why this happened was actually pretty

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Speaker 1: flattering towards Gemma, saying that she was so attractive that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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Speaker 5: A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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Speaker 1: I think, okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're

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Speaker 2: Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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Speaker 5: No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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Speaker 1: From three women to zero now giving Tony attention. So

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Speaker 1: hopefully you didn't get their numbers?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I know we didn't ask.

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Speaker 5: No, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: This yeause that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in

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Speaker 1: let's call Gemma. We'll see if she picks up, and

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, we're looking to talk to Gemma.

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Speaker 6: This is Gemma.

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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, weird. Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: Well, we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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Speaker 1: Sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying to

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Speaker 1: help out one of our listeners get a hold of

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Speaker 1: you after you went out on a date with him recently,

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, did.

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Speaker 2: You just gag? Is that what I heard?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you like a cop throat?

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Speaker 5: Listen.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what this guy told you, but it

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Speaker 1: Bacon, he actually.

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Speaker 2: Told us something similar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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Speaker 1: that occurred at the Mexican Place with the the two

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Speaker 3: Okay, we honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Gemma,

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Speaker 3: because that means that you were disappointed, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean. Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you

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Speaker 3: liked him, because if he didn't like him, you might

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Speaker 2: They got.

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Speaker 6: Ye. That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, well, Tony says that he felt really bad

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Speaker 1: about how it all went down. We're curious how you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sure he did, honestly, Like at first when

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Speaker 6: I came back and I was like what, And then

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Speaker 6: I saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable.

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Speaker 6: So I was kind of I was kind of laughing,

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Speaker 1: That's such a relief.

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Speaker 2: What do you think their intentions were?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I know what their intentions were. I'm pretty I'm pretty

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Speaker 6: sure Tony by the way of a really good looking guy.

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Speaker 6: Oh and they like they swarmed in like locusts or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Okay, I think lately. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 6: I don't think he invited this necessarily. But I started

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Speaker 6: to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.

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Speaker 6: I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.

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Speaker 6: So Tony was so like plumboxed or whatever that he

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Speaker 6: I was like, try it. Attempted to bribe the waiter.

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Speaker 6: He's still falsa on these girls.

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Speaker 2: Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How

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Speaker 6: The waiter's probably annoyed at them too, if they're this

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Speaker 1: To Salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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Speaker 6: I waved a twenty at him and he was like,

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I can't do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I hope he gave that restaurant a bad review.

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Speaker 2: I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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Speaker 6: I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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Speaker 6: but by the end this went on for so long

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think he feels that way too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about

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Speaker 1: I do have to let you know, Tony is currently

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Speaker 6: Oh, my god, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: That's the only woman.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I am here.

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Speaker 2: That's it. That's very forrrimal, Tony.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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Speaker 5: what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.

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Speaker 5: Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know

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Speaker 5: weird awkward like just it was our first date. I

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Speaker 1: At Okay, that was That was good, Tony. You can

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Kenna and I appreciate the apology, Tony, but you already apologize.

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Speaker 6: You told me that on the card. I'm not hearing

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Speaker 1: Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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Speaker 3: It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,

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Speaker 2: Up to like your own non action a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: Are you just like a very non confrontational person?

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Speaker 6: Brother?

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Speaker 5: Like No, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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Speaker 5: That's why it was a tough position too.

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Speaker 2: Is that hot for you, jem.

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: I mean I don't want to guys like punching people

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think he was just trying to

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Speaker 3: And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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Speaker 1: What are you saying, Brooke? Oh, he's trying to put

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Speaker 2: Did I just break Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Gemma.

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Speaker 1: Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to do communal tables.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, I will reserve a table for two.

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Speaker 1: So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and

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Speaker 1: even pay for it if you're willing to give him

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Speaker 1: another shot. What do you think, Jenna?

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Speaker 6: I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a

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Speaker 6: all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments.

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Speaker 6: What does that mean, Well, I'm going to date down.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're just going to date the guys that you

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Speaker 2: What does that mean, competition?

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to go after its music, the hottest guy,

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Speaker 6: you know, the hottest guy, and the dating profile, because

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Speaker 6: I still need this kind of headache. I mean, I

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Speaker 6: like you, Tony, but you're just too attractives for what

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Speaker 6: I'm looking for right now.

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Speaker 5: I'm not the competition.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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Speaker 1: second date update before dating.

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Speaker 5: It's this is the most ridiculous response. I was not

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Speaker 1: Why could convince her that you're not as attractive as

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Speaker 1: she thinks you are.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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Speaker 5: never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends,

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Speaker 5: no girls are approaching me.

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Speaker 1: I'm usually a repulse women.

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Speaker 2: Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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Speaker 6: Again the girl magnet and your friends just repell them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, So he hasn't convinced you that he's ugly enough.

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Speaker 6: I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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Speaker 6: he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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Speaker 1: Wen, you started with one woman on a date landed

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Speaker 1: two more, and now you've ended up with zero because

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Speaker 1: you're too attractive. Now that's boy Matt, ridiculous

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Speaker 2: Freaking chick free in the morning.