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Speaker 1: Jessica again.

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Speaker 2: Hi everyone, it's me again.

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Speaker 1: Yay, welcome to the Give Them Lala Podcast. Last night's episode,

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Speaker 1: let's just get into it, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen it yet, so Lala, I need to

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Speaker 2: know what to.

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Speaker 1: Expect, what to expect. There's a party for Charlie. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they are trying to get her food issues to go away, which,

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Speaker 1: let me be very very clear on this. We'll obviously

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Speaker 1: discuss this at the reunion. But when I learned about

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Speaker 1: Charlie's food issues, there was no context behind them. It

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Speaker 1: was just kind of you know what she said last

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Speaker 1: year or two years ago, I don't eat pasta because

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Speaker 1: I have a theory that it makes you gain weight. Right,

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Speaker 1: that was all I knew about it. I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that seems strange. Don't get it then, is you? You know,

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Speaker 1: as we've heard her talk about, you know, her childhood trauma,

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Speaker 1: it all makes so much sense, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I wasn't invited to that party where everyone else was,

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Speaker 1: and they all brought different food for her to try.

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Speaker 2: Wait, you weren't invited?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: No? I was like an outsider. Oh you know, this

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Speaker 1: season was so strange for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just because I was a brand new mom. You know,

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Speaker 1: I work really hard in my program. And that's not

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Speaker 1: I still need to work on, because I definitely do.

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Speaker 1: But you know, AA is not just to stop drinking.

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Speaker 1: It's to really get down to the root of all

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Speaker 1: of your issues and really just become a better human being. Granted,

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Speaker 1: when you become sober, you don't become Jesus and start

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Speaker 1: walking on water and turning the other cheek and becoming

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Speaker 1: this like, oh my gosh, incredible person. We're human beings.

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Speaker 1: We make mistakes, and the problem is is I this

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Speaker 1: season was having to pay for mistakes that I felt

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Speaker 1: And perceptions are real, bitch, because the way I see

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Speaker 1: things is not going to be the same as Sina

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Speaker 1: seeing things, or Ariana or sand of all. So it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And when you watch this season so far and

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Speaker 2: watched last night's episode and saw the party happening with

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Speaker 1: When it was happening. I was really trying to like

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Speaker 1: bring that energy home to ocean. Yeah, but at this

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Speaker 1: bigger fish to fry, right, you know, right, Yes, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you better keep your fucking head up and do

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Speaker 2: And that's sort of what I was talking about when

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Speaker 2: know you're dealing with a lot, but you also have

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I just never thought that my life would

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, this is a new chapter. It's like I've

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Speaker 1: It's crazy because I look back on that book and

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Speaker 1: Those people inspire me, who deal with things with grace

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Speaker 2: I love that. That's amazing. That's I mean, I see

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Speaker 2: Not everyone can say wow. I look back at that

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Speaker 2: And they're stuck in their same ways and they can

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Speaker 2: be like, yep, that was me. I'm the same God. No, Like,

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Speaker 2: I love that burn the bridge, and.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if I end up with three people

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Speaker 1: I don't need a million friends. I need my mom,

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Speaker 2: I think that's incredible. And I think just like I mean,

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Speaker 1: You're the best, jess I always like I I've told

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Speaker 2: Higher power and prayer and Ocean and Laala are in

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Speaker 1: So with all of that being said, I'm excited for

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Speaker 1: today's podcast because last week it was a Mommy podcast.

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Speaker 1: Britt was on Yeah, and after the podcast my writer died.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So, so Jessica is going to ask us all

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Speaker 2: Okay, I have a list, ladies and gentlemen, Lisa, please

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Speaker 2: say hi to everyone.

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Speaker 3: Hello, everyone, good morning.

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Speaker 2: I love Lisa. Lisa's iconic. She's gigie.

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Speaker 1: We know. She see your face and she said good morning.

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Speaker 1: She looked like, what if people listen and it's not morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's okay, mama. They got it, they get it.

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Speaker 2: So here's the thing. I'm going to ask all the questions, Lisa.

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Speaker 2: If you don't feel comfortable answering some, then you don't

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Speaker 3: I was just gonna say that I'm a totally open book.

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Speaker 3: So here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to start with an easy one. This

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Speaker 4: So mine was just do I want to hear that

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Speaker 1: I wasn't it was even killed. I just needed it

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Speaker 2: Wait stop really the fingers thing? So yes, zenus penises

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Speaker 1: I know, I know had my little handy dandy fingers.

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Speaker 3: Let me think about this.

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Speaker 4: Were probably on the norm two to three times a week.

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Speaker 1: Oh is that norm? Kyle? You hear that.

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Speaker 2: We gotta step it up a little.

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Speaker 3: Bit, Okabe?

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Speaker 1: No, I know, I know you, Lisa love it.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever seen the videos? I this is off topic,

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Speaker 3: into caring for these little guys.

439
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: I mean totally no, you're absolutely right. Because when Ocean

440
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: was born, if they don't poop within twenty four hours,

441
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: that's a sign of jaundice. And the nurse had to

442
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: come in and put a little vacoline on like the

443
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,719
Speaker 1: tip of this thermometer and like massage inside so that

444
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: she would have a poop.

445
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

446
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 3: She couldn't go home right until she had that first.

447
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 1: Pis she she couldn't go home until they cleared her

448
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: for and then literally I was I gave birth on

449
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: a Monday, I got to go home on a Tuesday,

450
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 1: and literally on Thursday, I was taking her to the doctor.

451
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 1: They had already been in communication, my pediatrician and cedar

452
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: Cyan I, so he knew what he was looking for.

453
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 2: Wow, my pediatrician, Yeah that is wow. See I didn't

454
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: know any of that. Okay. So then with breast milk,

455
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 2: that was another question.

456
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: By the way, what breast milk is not just for

457
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: feeding your baby if your baby gets little acne or

458
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 1: anything like that, Like the other day, Ocean got a

459
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: little mosquito bite. Yeah, I put the breast milk on

460
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 1: it and it literally went down the next day.

461
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: That's how amazing is that something your body produces as

462
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: like a miracle milk?

463
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 3: It is.

464
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 4: And I wish I had known that back in the

465
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 4: day because at five weeks Lauren got these little those

466
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 4: little pimplest baby.

467
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: It's really common.

468
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 4: And some breast milk would have totally cleared it up.

469
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 4: And I was putting all this other stuff on it

470
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 4: because nobody told me.

471
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's a lot when you have a baby

472
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: and you're just expected there the hospital's like here, you

473
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: go take it home and you're like, what do I

474
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 1: do with it?

475
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 2: I have to keep this alive. Well, that's breast milk sells,

476
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: probably illegally, I don't know, but for a pretty penny

477
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 2: online to like bodybuilders.

478
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: I know I've heard that. Yeah, there's like a market,

479
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: a huge market market.

480
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of breast milk, so obviously this is different

481
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: then from what you said. Women produce breast milk differently.

482
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: But one of my questions is, obviously your boobs start

483
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 2: getting so then when do you know that you have breastmlke?

484
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: Do they randomly start leaking one day?

485
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 1: No? I So in January I had wet spots on

486
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: my pj's and I was like, what is this. I

487
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: ran to my mom and I was like, what is this?

488
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: And she's like, that's claws strum it's coming in because

489
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: it was like this orange, not orange, but like yellow,

490
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: like a yellow. Ye. No, it's basically the fat that

491
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: comes like this, the fatty part that comes in before,

492
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: and it's very rich. It comes in first, and your baby,

493
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: if you're able to breastfeed, will take that first because

494
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: it's got a lot of nutrients in it. And then

495
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: your milk comes in, right, But my tits were so big, Jess,

496
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: they were awesome. I was like, these are the funnest bags.

497
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 3: Ever, you know.

498
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 4: And it's interesting too, because a lot of women will say, oh,

499
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 4: I felt my milk come in are or they'd be

500
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 4: so in gorge that they'd have to get in the

501
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 4: shower to relieve it.

502
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: I never had that ever, ever.

503
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: No, I had to actually see. I pumped a lot

504
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 1: as well because I had a lot of milk, and

505
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: when I was doing Watch What Happens Live in September,

506
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: I didn't take my pump because I'm like, I'm breastfeeding

507
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 1: her just in the morning, afternoon, night, right, Yeah, her

508
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: teeth are coming in. By the way, there's nothing more

509
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: painful than feeling a little baby tooth rip your nipple.

510
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 1: It is excruciating. But I was like, I won't need

511
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 1: to I can't imagine that that much milk would come in,

512
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: and it did. I was literally sitting in the shower

513
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: warming my boobs up and just pushing on them and

514
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: it was just like squirming everywhere.

515
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 2: I need to know, then, did you ever get curious

516
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: and turn it towards your mouth and try a little.

517
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: Well, breast milk is like liquid gold. So if there

518
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: was a bottle that Ocean took and she didn't finish it, yeah,

519
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: I would drink it because I didn't want it to

520
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: go to waste. And you know it's only good for

521
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: a certain amount of time. Yeah, so I would drink it. Yeah.

522
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

523
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: But I was producing so much that I froze so much.

524
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 2: You know.

525
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 4: And I think going into this, I think I attribute

526
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 4: some of my not being able to breastfeed, not Milt

527
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 4: not coming in.

528
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 3: I had postpartum depression.

529
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 1: Oh, I love that you mentioned that.

530
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: What was though?

531
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,479
Speaker 1: I remember you telling me, Mom that your best friend

532
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: Sid whose daughter is my best friend, we both have

533
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,239
Speaker 1: babies that are six months apart. We started to give

534
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: them Lalla baby together. And you told me because you

535
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: had your first baby when she was having her last,

536
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: which is Olivia, and it was her fourth, and she

537
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: would come into your house and open the drapes you

538
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,479
Speaker 1: to the mall totally.

539
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 4: I would be in my pajamas all day, the drape strawn,

540
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 4: the TV wasn't on.

541
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 3: She'd come over and.

542
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 4: She'd say, well, of course you're depressed, and she'd rip

543
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 4: open the rapes, turn on the TV, get me dressed,

544
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 4: make me go to the mall or do something. But

545
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 4: you know what was so freaky is I would be

546
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 4: doing something at that moment. Like I remember we were

547
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 4: at the mall and I was worried about what I

548
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 4: was going to be doing the next day or the

549
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: next week.

550
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 3: It was. It was not a good mind space for me.

551
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: That's depression, where you're concerned about where your headspace is

552
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: going to be when you have to go home.

553
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

554
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a really common thing. And it's a huge

555
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: reason your experience mom was a huge reason why I

556
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: used Mommy made, which they encapsulate your placenta and you

557
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: have to remember your body forms an organ that it

558
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: then just gets rid of.

559
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 3: That is so amazing.

560
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 4: And you know, I think you guys are so lucky

561
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 4: in this day and age because mental health is spoken about.

562
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: Back it was spoken about, but I didn't talk about it. Yeah,

563
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: you know, but it was like taboo.

564
00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

565
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 4: And then I remember I would go in for be

566
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 4: twelve shots and they wanted to put me on an

567
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 4: antidepressant and I was too afraid that I would be

568
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 4: locked in and to what's the word I want to say,

569
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 4: dependent dependent on it? Yeah, you thought you'd be dependent

570
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 4: on the ansid, right.

571
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 3: Which is nothing wrong with taking an antidepressant.

572
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: But now in the day, it was just a different

573
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: day and age it was, and now everything is spoken about.

574
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: There's so many outlets for you to call and understand

575
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: what it is that you're feeling. We talk about chemical imbalances,

576
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: what happens after you give birth, and even beyond that exactly.

577
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 4: It's like, I say, you guys are so so lucky

578
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 4: that you're in this day and age.

579
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

580
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 2: And that was another question I had about the placenta.

581
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 2: So obviously it's an organ that comes out of your body.

582
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: I have heard there's different ways. First things. First, I've

583
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: heard the rumors that eating your placenta ingesting it after

584
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: you have a baby can help with postpartum depression. Yeah,

585
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 2: did you find that accurate?

586
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: You know, I would feel I suffered from heavy depression

587
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: while I would like the first few months of my pregnancy,

588
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: and I felt guilty because I'm like, how when my

589
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: body is creating something that is you can give me

590
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: all of the scientific facts in the world on how

591
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: a baby is created and how it's born. Yeah, I

592
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: don't give a shit. That is nothing short of a

593
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: miracle period. So I would sit there and be like,

594
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: how are you depressed? You're creating a miracle right now.

595
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: So I got into this weird headspace. Luckily it subsided,

596
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: but there were times after, you know, I gave birth

597
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: that I'd be like, I'm a little down today. And

598
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: you know, Mommy Made gives you instructions when you're feeling

599
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: this way, take four of those capsules and face chug them.

600
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,719
Speaker 1: And I did, and it absolutely helped.

601
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 4: Really, yes, and I'm so thankful that you had that.

602
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 4: I mean that really is truly, You're so blessed to

603
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 4: have had that.

604
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: No, I know, I recommend that to everybody you can find.

605
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: I actually follow Mommy Made on Instagram, so look them

606
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: up on my Instagram. They are the best. They made

607
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: it so easy for me. Literally, I just told my obi,

608
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: by the way, I'm gonna eat this thing in a capsule,

609
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: and he was like perfect. I brought my little cooler.

610
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: They picked it up and a few days later it

611
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: was like, here's your pills.

612
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: So that's what you do. You bring they give you

613
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: a cooler to bring yep, and then you give birth

614
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: and does the obgyn immediately put it in the cooler.

615
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: How does that work?

616
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do whatever they do with the plus for

617
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: the placenta, and then they put it in the cooler

618
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: and your indirect contact with someone from Mommy Made. They say,

619
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: we'll be there in whatever timeframe they pick it up,

620
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: and you can actually look on their instagram on how

621
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: the process is done. It's crazy. And they even sent

622
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: oceans on bilical cord that was made into a heart

623
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: and painted, so I have that too.

624
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 2: That's so sweet. And how many days after you're home

625
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: from the hospital or after you give birth do you

626
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: get the pills?

627
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: It was pretty immediate, really, yeah, like it was a

628
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,959
Speaker 1: couple of days maybe, yeah, really it was fast.

629
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: And it's just a free I'm assuming, like freeze dried placenta.

630
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much. Yeah. And they're all colorful. You can

631
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: pick a flavor.

632
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: Isn't that the jar that you have on your counter?

633
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 3: That's that pretty? Like fisha ping?

634
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,479
Speaker 1: Yep, that's exactly what it is.

635
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: And so okay, okay, so well, like Lalla said, they

636
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: have it on their instagram how it's done, so check

637
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: it out.

638
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: What is it?

639
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: Just Mommy made?

640
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: Mommy made encapsulation okay, yeah, and literally like my saving grace.

641
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: On that note, we're going to take a short break.

642
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: We will be right back with all things birth. Okay,

643
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,239
Speaker 1: we're back. We've spoken about placentas. Are you gonna get

644
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: into nitty gritty because, by the way, you're gonna get

645
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: nitty gritty.

646
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 2: I've got the questions.

647
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: Okay, because by the way, what like, we haven't even

648
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: gotten into the part where they're like, time to put

649
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: the catheter in.

650
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: See, now, this is the stuff I need to hear.

651
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 3: So and the enema.

652
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't have an enema. I had no.

653
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: Wow, breaking news, Lisa had an enema when she was

654
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: giving birth to Laala. Everyone.

655
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't know that.

656
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 3: See how things have changed.

657
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 4: Maybe, Yeah, I was dilated to a five when I

658
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 4: got to the hospital and they immediately gave me an

659
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 4: enema and then they put the catheter.

660
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, oh wow, okay, really quick on dilation. This

661
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 2: is the dumbest question ever, But I need to know

662
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: because it's it's mind blowing. So when they say dilated

663
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: to a five or dilated to let's say a nine, right, Oh,

664
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 2: your baby's coming, Does that mean though that you they

665
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: go Laala's dilated to a seven? If you laid down

666
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 2: and spread your legs. Would I see a seven centimeter

667
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 2: hole right there? How does that?

668
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: Is that?

669
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 2: How it goes?

670
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 4: So, you know, I'm not quite sure. All I know

671
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 4: is when you're at a ten, you are given birth.

672
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 3: Baby.

673
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: But you you had your water break with me, right,

674
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: You weren't induced?

675
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 3: No, I was two weeks overdue with you. Okay. They

676
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 3: were telling me that they were.

677
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 4: Gonna induce me on a Monday Sunday. I remember speaking

678
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 4: to Sid and all of a sudden, I'd have these

679
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 4: pains and then i'd have another pain, and she's like,

680
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 4: we're gonna time them.

681
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, she's like, you're in labor.

682
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 4: So I labored throughout the night at home, Okay, got

683
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 4: up at seven o'clock. Of course I didn't get up.

684
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 4: I was already at but Dad got up at seven

685
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. We headed to the hospital and

686
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 4: I was dilated to a five and like I said,

687
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 4: and then at one twenty three, I had a baby girl.

688
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was not that new. Like tell I

689
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: fast forwarded much.

690
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

691
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Now you a traumatic experience, very.

692
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 4: Traumatic, Like I got in there and your heart rate dropped.

693
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 3: They had to put oxygen on me.

694
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 4: And then the doctor came in and was looking at

695
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 4: the heartbeat papers. Back in the day, I don't know

696
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 4: what they do now, and he said, we have to

697
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 4: get this baby out.

698
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 3: Now.

699
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 4: I had a nurse laying on my stomach. He was

700
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 4: inside me trying to flip the baby around. He got

701
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 4: four sets that were snapping, and I thought they were

702
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 4: pulling my baby's hat off. My poor mother did not

703
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 4: want to be in the delivery room. She was with me,

704
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 4: but once I was going to give birth, she wanted to,

705
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 4: you know, be out. She poor thing was pinned against

706
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 4: the wall and my best friend said was there, and

707
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 4: obviously my husband And all of a sudden, I'm pushing

708
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 4: there laying on my stomach and this purple this is

709
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 4: what Sid and Kent tell me, this purple like cone

710
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: starts appearing and they look at each other like, oh

711
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 4: my gosh, like what is wrong with this baby? Like

712
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 4: then she they got her out and they whist her

713
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 4: away to the nic U unit. For five hours, I

714
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 4: didn't even get to see her. I mean, mine was

715
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 4: a very traumatic berth, very traumatic.

716
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So what was the purple cone?

717
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 2: Was that her head?

718
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 4: She was in the birth canal and though so that

719
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 4: was part of and the trauma of trying to get

720
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 4: her out.

721
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and.

722
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: Look at her now, no conehead, Miles.

723
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: Well, who knows that never shaved my head. I could

724
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: still be there, still be there.

725
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: Let's get in. I need to know the obvious. Okay,

726
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 2: poop key and did the space I'm not going to

727
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: use medical terms. Did the space between your vagina and

728
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: your butthole rip? So while you're pushing, did you poop?

729
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 2: Did you pee? And did that space rip? I know

730
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: there's a medical term.

731
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 3: I didn't poop.

732
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 4: And as far as they they snipped me, Oh yeah,

733
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 4: they snipped me.

734
00:36:54,880 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: Yes, wow eezyotomy you go, Glenn Coco, you know all

735
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: the medical No, they didn't snip me. I did not poop,

736
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: and there was no pee because I had a catheter

737
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 1: and had a cat by the way, it was awesome.

738
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 2: Wait tell us about the catheter, because that makes me scared.

739
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: Don't let it make you scared. The most traumatic part

740
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: of my birthing experience was the most basic, which is

741
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: when you go in and they put the ivy in

742
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: your arm. Really, oh yeah, I passed out twice. They

743
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: thought I was seizing but I wasn't seizing because Ocean's

744
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: heart rate didn't drop. Okay, but I was fully out

745
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: cold twice. I'm a freak when it comes to needles.

746
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear them talking about I can't

747
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: find the vein. I'm like, I'm gonna pass out. That

748
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: is enough to make me black out and I'm just done. No.

749
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 1: So once we got through that, and they did the epidural,

750
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: which was no issue for me, like, just don't tell

751
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: me about it.

752
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: The epidural is the big thing up your spine.

753
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: Yes, that numbs you, That numbs you.

754
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 4: And everybody wanted to tell me their horror stories about

755
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 4: their epidural.

756
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: So that was another fun fact.

757
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: Did you I learned? Was it fine?

758
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 3: It was a piece of cake.

759
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: Piece of cake for me too. They shoved it in

760
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: whatever I was. I was having anxiety about the fact

761
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: that I was so numb. I felt like humpty dumpty.

762
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: Really I felt like a rolling egg. I was like,

763
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: this is I'm gonna freak out, like I can't feel

764
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: my legs, you know, and the reason you just know,

765
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: you just know, your body just knows. Yeah, And I

766
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: kept asking them, am I doing it? And they're like

767
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: you're doing fantastic, Like she's right, I'm looking at her.

768
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: It was crazy.

769
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: So let's go back to the catheter. How do they

770
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: put that in?

771
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: They shove it little thing in your tea hole, in

772
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,439
Speaker 1: your peep hole. Yeah, but you can't feel it because

773
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: you've already had your epidural. Okay, yeah, And then they

774
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: come in and empty the bag every so often. You're

775
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: straight chilling.

776
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 2: So the bag is where can you see it filling up?

777
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: I didn't see the bag. I couldn't see the bag.

778
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 3: It was hung on the side of the bed.

779
00:38:56,239 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 1: Yummy, who's horny? No, I didn't see the bag of

780
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: pea at all. In fact, they would come in to

781
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: check to see if I was dilated anymore, and it

782
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: was time to break my water, and I was so comfortable.

783
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: After they broke my water, they were like, we're gonna

784
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: change the sheets because it's very wet, and I was like,

785
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: I can't feel anything, so just leave it.

786
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 3: Really yeah, yes, I remember that.

787
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: I got the best sleep of my life.

788
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 2: Really yes, Okay, then here's my question. We're going we're

789
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: moving on to pain because I have heard the comparison

790
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 2: use that I've heard multiple times is it's like a

791
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 2: football coming through your nostril. That doesn't seem accurate. But

792
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 2: like maybe if you don't have an epidural, did you

793
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 2: feel pain?

794
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 4: You know, I was in pain up until I went

795
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 4: to the hospital, and that's right epidural. But I've also

796
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 4: been told I have that very high pain tolerance. I've

797
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 4: passed kidney stones twice on my own, so doctor.

798
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: Sad me that.

799
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

800
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 2: De Savage, that's amazing.

801
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: She would have done well in like the stone ages.

802
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh do.

803
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: You think I would?

804
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 2: I would have died at the end of the world

805
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: comes she's on our team.

806
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. Because my apidural kind of wore off,

807
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 1: like the button wasn't working. Yeah, and it like wasn't

808
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: that bad, but for me, it was excruciating. I was like,

809
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: this needs to be fixed with media.

810
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 2: It was so you could feel the baby coming out ocean.

811
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: It more is like cramping, like have you ever had

812
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: period cramps? Yes, of course, so intensify that by like

813
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: a hundred.

814
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: Okay, see that doesn't feel like it's that much pain

815
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 2: to me, though.

816
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:40,240
Speaker 1: Well that's because you're a bad app by one hundred though, yeah, maybe,

817
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: But if someone out there like that doesn't sound that bad.

818
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's horrific.

819
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 2: My thing is if I feel the hole at the

820
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 2: bottom of me like ripping.

821
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 1: No, don't get that out of your head. You don't

822
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: even know you have a hole down there. Really, you're

823
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: so numb you don't know.

824
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:56,879
Speaker 3: Shit.

825
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: Okay, you forget you forget that you even have a

826
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: bottom half of your body. Really, yes, And when they're

827
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: telling you to push, yeah, you feel pressure, but it's

828
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:12,479
Speaker 1: not painful. Now after it wears off and you go home,

829
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: you feel like someone's taking a sledgehammer from the inside

830
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: of your vagina.

831
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh see now this lots of questions on this.

832
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 3: What did you have a donut? I don't remember. Did

833
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 3: you sit on the donut?

834
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 1: Yeah?

835
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 3: Me too, bed though, what.

836
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: Do we mean by donut?

837
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: We need to know.

838
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 3: It's like an inflatable inner tube that you sit on, sit.

839
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 1: On when when you're in a city, at the table

840
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: or wherever you so that there's not direct pressure on

841
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: your huh. Okay, ok And I did rip a little bit.

842
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: I had like two stitches, and it was every time

843
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: you'd go to the bathroom, which, by the way, you can't.

844
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,280
Speaker 2: Wipe you can't wipe, do they The stitches just dissolve.

845
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: Yes, they dissolve. But you they give you like this

846
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: little douchey thing. Yeah that you you pee, then you

847
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 1: spray it, then witch hazel pads for you to pat it, okay,

848
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: and then you let it air dry your vagina. Your vagina,

849
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: you're pretty little.

850
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 2: Set air dry.

851
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: Let it air dry. You're not supposed to rub it

852
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: at all, just gently pat okay.

853
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: Yep.

854
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: And I liked the ice pads by Freda. There's like

855
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 1: a giant pad you like, just snap it a little

856
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 1: bit and it releases the little things that make it cold. Yeah,

857
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: those were a lifesaver. They also gave me spray to

858
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: numb it. But when you have a baby, yeah, go

859
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: and get either Depends or Secret diaper, you know diapers

860
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: by Secret, the little liner companies. Okay, so full sized diapers,

861
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: full sized diapers. You're gonna live in them, and it's

862
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: just so much easier to take them off and throw

863
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: them away for how long depending on how long you're bleeding.

864
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 1: I mean I was probably in mind for a good

865
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: three weeks.

866
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 2: And you're bleeding just from your body is just bleeding.

867
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you just had a baby there.

868
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's so it's kind of the lining

869
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 4: sluffing off. Everything's kind of sluffing off.

870
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

871
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 1: And also if you ripped like I did, there's gonna

872
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: be a little bit of blood from that. It's just

873
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: like your body just pushed out a living human being.

874
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, nitty gritty, did you take a mirror and

875
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 2: look at your vagina? How different did it look like?

876
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 2: What did it look like stretched? And how long until

877
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: it snaps back?

878
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: My cookie looked cuter after childbirth. Really, she snapped back

879
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: like a rubber band. Sure it did.

880
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 3: I don't remember looking at it. No, I don't know.

881
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 2: Really, it's interesting.

882
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: Oh I remember laying in my closet spread eagle, being like,

883
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: you're a badass bitch.

884
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 2: Really and it snaps back because and I don't think

885
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 2: my mom would care about saying this, but my mom

886
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 2: did have five kids. So, like, I remember jumping on

887
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: the trampoline and she would come jump on the trampoline

888
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 2: with us and then be like, oh my god, I

889
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: have to get off the trempline because she was literally

890
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 2: peeing her pants.

891
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: Was it p though or juice? Because I juice way

892
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: more now that I've had ocean really.

893
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so it's just like discharge.

894
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: It's just whatever yumminess that is, like a slip and slide.

895
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

896
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 2: Oh, speaking of slip and slide, we're back to birth.

897
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,720
Speaker 2: Mucus plug. What in the world is a mucus plug?

898
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: And when does it come out? Lisa help?

899
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so I heard about this. Do you know anything

900
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: about it? No?

901
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 3: I never even experienced that. But they had to break

902
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 3: my water.

903
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: So I had to break mine too. So I've heard

904
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: about the mucus plug. Yeah, but I didn't experience it.

905
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 2: Okay, So my boyfriend Kyle knows a lot about childbirth

906
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: for some reason, and he said the mucus plug was

907
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 2: something that comes out before your water breaks, like the mucus.

908
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: It's like mucus in there.

909
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 3: I know this too because of Sid's daughter.

910
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were really into like what about her mucus plug?

911
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,240
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know what that is.

912
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: But again, I was induced, so I was laying in

913
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: a hospital bed and they were just dealing with whatever

914
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: was happening down there.

915
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: Okay, if anyone knows the exact thing of what a

916
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 2: mucus plug is, we're not going to google this comment

917
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: and lawless.

918
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 3: Photos on Instagram.

919
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, or call in to the podcast. Yes, a call in, yes,

920
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: and tell us what a mucus plug is? Eight six

921
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: six La La pod because I want to know.

922
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 2: We all want to know. Okay, so we're back. You

923
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 2: had to wear a diaper?

924
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:26,720
Speaker 1: Yes?

925
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 2: How long until you can have sex again? And is

926
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 2: it painful when you do?

927
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: It? Was six weeks they recommend.

928
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to have a six week check up

929
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 4: to clear before you can do anything.

930
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, any sort of exercise, sex, finger banging yourself, all

931
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: of it.

932
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 2: Were you fine after six weeks, either of you? Or

933
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: did you have to wait? No?

934
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 3: I was totally clear.

935
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 2: Good to know, good to know. What about douching, then,

936
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 2: is that just like a thing you have to do regularly?

937
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: You just like hold the douche.

938
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: Oh, you don't out, you don't know.

939
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: Do You don't put any anything in there, and that's

940
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: just to clean it from the outside.

941
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: Because you don't get your affection right and you can

942
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: get an infection with putting things in there after you

943
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 2: have a baby.

944
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: Yes, because it's all toe up in there. Oh, so

945
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: you do it from the outside. You squirt it down,

946
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: No soap, just warm water. Okay. And it's funny because

947
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 1: I remember you asking me about the smell.

948
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does it smell.

949
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't smell bad. Okay, there's for me, it smelled

950
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: like medical and I actually I was obsessed with everything

951
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: that was happening to my body after I gave birth.

952
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: See, and that's what. And you just loved it. Because

953
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 2: you loved it, you have your miracle, like you have

954
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 2: a miracle in front of you.

955
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: I just felt like I am a woman.

956
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 3: Hear me, roar.

957
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: I just gave like I have. I've never felt so

958
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: much like a strong, beautiful woman.

959
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 3: And you were and looked like a strong beautiful woman

960
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 3: and you are.

961
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: Thank you. But yeah, after childbirth, there's something that for me.

962
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,919
Speaker 1: I know that a lot of my friends struggled after

963
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: they gave birth with their body because your body is

964
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: not yours anymore. Yeah, your boobs are not just these

965
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: sexy things that are for Kyle to play with. Yes,

966
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: those belong to the baby. They're feeding her. Your body

967
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,879
Speaker 1: isn't yours anymore. Yeah. I was okay with that. I

968
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 1: loved it.

969
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just felt like mama and you just have

970
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean that is I mean, hello,

971
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: that's beautiful, She's like.

972
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 4: And you know, I think both Lauren and I were

973
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 4: super lucky too, because at my six week checkup, I

974
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 4: was back to my pre pregnancy weight and I think

975
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 4: Lauren was too, which you know is we have to

976
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 4: be very grateful for that.

977
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. And people ask me like, what did

978
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: you do? And I have to just say it was genetics.

979
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you didn't do anything spec and you didn't

980
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,919
Speaker 2: even seem I mean, I started working for you three

981
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 2: months after Ocean was born, but you didn't seem you

982
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 2: were just like, I'm just it's not like you were

983
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 2: a woman who was like I need to get back

984
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: to this body. You were just like you seemed thankful

985
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 2: for your body and just like it's going to do

986
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: what it's going to do right now. Yeah.

987
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: And I think when I express how I felt about

988
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: my body, there have been commons where it's like, well,

989
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: of course you would think about your body that way,

990
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:18,959
Speaker 1: I mean, look at it, but mentally you don't think

991
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 1: that way after you give birth, right, you don't think,

992
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, my bounce back is amazing. Like I

993
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: acknowledge as an outsider how people would say that, Yeah,

994
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: but mentally I still gave birth like everybody else. Yes,

995
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: I'm very lucky that my bounce back was very quick. Yeah,

996
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: but I still felt like things are sitting different.

997
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 2: That was another question. Oh, for sure, you know, is

998
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 2: your body forever change? Because I have a friend who

999
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: was like, who actually was happy about it, but she

1000
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,800
Speaker 2: was like, I never had hips. Look at these hips now. Yeah,

1001
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 2: like I heard your hips sort of you blow out or.

1002
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't really fit into any of my genes.

1003
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: I remember telling my mom, I need to go Jean

1004
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: shopping so that I can and throw these out. And

1005
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 1: she was like, no, no, no, you gotta wait because

1006
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: now I fit right back into them.

1007
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 2: So your body doesn't permanently change, or it does in

1008
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 2: some ways.

1009
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 1: I think it depends on who you are.

1010
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 3: I think it depends on who you are too.

1011
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:14,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1012
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 4: I think some people get you know, curvier and more volumptuous,

1013
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,720
Speaker 4: and others, you know, go back to what they were before.

1014
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 3: It just I think it's an individual thing for sure.

1015
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I felt like my body was. I loved

1016
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: my body after I gave birth because I've always loved

1017
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: I've always loved women with me on them who are

1018
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,720
Speaker 1: curvy and volumptuous, like I've always wanted in the fall. Yeah,

1019
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: like I've always loved that. I've always said, like, give

1020
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: me Ashley Graham on a silver platter and I will

1021
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 1: be the happiest girl in the entire world. I am

1022
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: grateful for my genetics. But I've always, even when I

1023
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: was a young kid, wanted to be curvy. Yeah, like

1024
00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 1: big boobs, the hips, the big but I always wanted

1025
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 1: that really yeah, and I've tried to get it in

1026
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: the gym and it just doesn't happen.

1027
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 4: Well, it's funny that we all want what we don't have.

1028
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 4: I mean, don't you feel that way?

1029
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 3: Yes, hello, yeah.

1030
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.

1031
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: But my dream woman is curvy and sexy, and like,

1032
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: just give me all of the curves, all the curves.

1033
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 2: Yes, we love curbs. I love curves. Okay, this is

1034
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: gonna be one of the last ones. But I do

1035
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 2: want to know, because it's not clear to me. Can

1036
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 2: you just breastfeed forever? Obviously, people, a lot of people,

1037
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 2: I mean most people wouldn't choose to do that. Can

1038
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 2: you just some women just choose however long I want

1039
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 2: to pump, you just have milk in there.

1040
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: You want to know what's so crazy is I was

1041
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: watching Old school Housewives of Orange County and I remember

1042
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: Shannon Badore. She like mentioned that if she hears a

1043
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: baby cry like she'll start lactating. And Andy Cohen asked

1044
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: her about it on the Union and she was like, yeah,

1045
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: I could still produce milk. So that's an interesting question.

1046
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: I've heard breast milk is supply and demand, like now

1047
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: that ocean. It's funny because with her teeth coming in,

1048
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: depending on the day, if it's morning time, she'll sucky sucky,

1049
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: no biting, nighttime sucky sucky, no biting. Mid day. It's

1050
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: a chew toy, feed and bite. So for me, it's

1051
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: like supply and demand. If I used to feed her

1052
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: every single meal from the boobe. Yeah, my boobs were huge,

1053
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 1: just filled with milk. Now it's kind of lessened, but

1054
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: I think it is supply and demand if you choose

1055
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: to feed your kid, even if it's once a day

1056
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: from the boobe. I have heard of kids that are

1057
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: like five still sucking on the baby.

1058
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 3: I actually have.

1059
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,839
Speaker 4: A friend and she nursed her baby till I think

1060
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:50,919
Speaker 4: she was almost four.

1061
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1062
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 3: What I kid you not?

1063
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: That is incredible.

1064
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: It is because if you think about it, if the

1065
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: world comes to an and there's no food, you want

1066
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: to be with a mom who's nursing because we're all

1067
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 1: going to need to take a turn.

1068
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 2: Yes, well, it goes back to I don't know the

1069
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 2: actual like hardcore facts on the tribal days, but it

1070
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: was like women would always that's why periods sync up,

1071
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 2: you guys. And again we can fact check this with

1072
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 2: an expert, but that's why periods sync up because it

1073
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 2: was always easiest for women and tribes to be on

1074
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: the same cycle, to give birth at the same to

1075
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 2: breastfeed at the same because women would just breastfeed all

1076
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: the babies, right.

1077
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 3: I think that is so cool.

1078
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: It's amazing women. It is a miracle. No, I've always

1079
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 1: loved women. So let's talk about all the things that

1080
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: women can do.

1081
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 3: Wow.

1082
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations to everyone who's given birth, because what a

1083
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: ride it is.

1084
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 3: It is.

1085
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: It's very intense, but like I said, you forget about

1086
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: all of the things that are not great because you

1087
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 1: have like this perfect little human who's you.

1088
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just thinking. Amen to moms area.

1089
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 1: They're superheroes.

1090
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 2: Celebrate moms.

1091
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: They really are.

1092
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 4: So whether you have a surrogate, whether you adopted, whether

1093
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 4: you gave birth.

1094
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: Doesn't I always say that, stars. I love that you

1095
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: said that, Mom, because I say that all the time.

1096
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't matter how your kid got here.

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Speaker 1: There's something that happens when you know your baby is

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Speaker 1: on the way that you are just you just become

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Speaker 1: like this like incredible force. You become like a mama bear. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you'll die for your kid and you'll take someone out

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Speaker 1: for them, so be prepared.

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Speaker 2: And that's amazing. And yes, no, you're so right, Lisa.

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Speaker 2: That goes to all of the women. So many women

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Speaker 2: can't have babies, and so many women choose to not

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Speaker 2: be mothers, and whatever path you choose, I think it's incredible.

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Speaker 2: Women are incredible in general. But I think celebrating it

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Speaker 2: all is beautiful.

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Speaker 1: What an amazing podcast today. Thank you Mama for joining us.

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Speaker 3: Love being with you girls.

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Speaker 1: You guys are my tribe, a home full of girls,

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Speaker 1: even the dogs.

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Speaker 3: What's up.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Jessica for my co host again. We make

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Speaker 1: a good team. And of course, thank you guys for

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Speaker 1: listening to another episode of To Give Them Lalla podcast.

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Speaker 1: I am so grateful for you all. Remember I want

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Speaker 1: to hear from you, so please call me my number

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Speaker 1: eight six six La La Pod and we will be

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Speaker 1: back with another episode next week