1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Avery, Good morning, welcome to the program. 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 2: How are you Hi? I'm doing okay. 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 3: How are you? 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 2: We're doing all right, We're doing gratually. We're doing great, 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 2: maybe better than you because you feel like this guy 7 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: Jason is ghosting you. So what we need to know 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 2: is kind of you have to set us up here 9 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: with all the backstory. How did you meet Jason? How 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 2: many dates have you been on Jason rows? 11 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 4: Is you? 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Are you dabbling again? It is not me because I 13 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: would be doing Avery right. Yes, of course you would. 14 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: Of course you would. I just didn't know if you're 15 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 2: going back to your pastways. But you never know. There's 16 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 2: a different Jason. But what did fill us in? Avery? 17 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: What's the backstory? Yeah? 18 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 3: Different, different Jason. Because we matched on hinge. 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 5: And he asked me out for drinks, I will say 20 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 5: he is hun. 21 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: It could be this Jason though. 22 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean I'm glad to be talking to 23 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: you then if it is you Jason, but no, we 24 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 3: had a blast in our date and I'm honestly just 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 3: so confused about why he's ghost to me because I 26 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 3: thought we had so much fun he was so cute. 27 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 3: I I don't get it. 28 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so everything went well. I asked the 29 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: same question several times a week. I feel like, but 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: we're looking back on the communication. That was good, The 31 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 2: conversation was good. No weird topics. I don't know. You 32 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 2: don't have like seven pet parrots at home or something. 33 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 4: I don't know. 34 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: I'm giving you a chance to just you know anything, 35 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: when you look back, is there anything that you thought 36 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 2: was weird or any reason why this guy wouldn't have 37 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: called you? 38 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 3: Again, I have no parrots? 39 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: No, okay? All right? Yeah no, And that's perplexing, right, 40 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: and it's frustrating. Perplexing. It's not a word I thought 41 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: I was going to pull out today of the old lexicon. 42 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: But you know, you meet someone on the apps and 43 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: it can be kind of a process and it's a 44 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: pain and not that much fun sometimes, And then you 45 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: meet someone you're like, this is great, and then we 46 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: don't hear from them. You're like, what's going on? So 47 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: let's call this guy Jason in just a second, see 48 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: if we can get him on the phone. Ask these questions. 49 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone as well. And the hope 50 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: is always is that we can straighten this out, set 51 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: you guys up on another date and pay for it. 52 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: All right, Okay, let's see what happens next. Part two 53 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 2: of Waiting by the Phone after this song on the 54 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 2: Fred Show. Good morning, it's the Fred Show. Part two 55 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: of Waiting by the Phone. Avery, Let's call Jason. You guys, 56 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: you met up one of the apps and you went 57 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 2: out for drinks and you were super attracted to this guy, Jason. 58 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: You had a great time on the date, but you 59 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: have not heard a peep from him since then, not 60 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 2: a word. He's not responding to you, he's not initiating, 61 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: and you're like, what's going on? Why? All right, let's 62 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: call him now, Avery, Good luck? 63 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 4: Thank you? Hello. 64 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: Hi is this Jason? 65 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 66 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, who's Jason? Hig? Good morning. My name is Fred 67 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and 68 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: I have to tell you that, oh wow, all right, 69 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: we're off to a good start. I have to tell 70 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 2: you that we are on the radio right now. I 71 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 2: have to say that, and I do need your permission 72 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 2: to continue with the call. Yeah, sure, go for it, okay, perfect, Well, 73 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: thank you man. This guy's sounds like a nice guy. 74 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 2: So far, so good. Let's see if now I'm going 75 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 2: to tell you why we're calling you, we'll see if 76 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: you're still nice. We're calling on behalf of a woman 77 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: named Avery who you recently went on a date with. 78 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: I guess you guys masked. Okay, Well, she had a 79 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: lot of nice things to say about you, especially your appearance. 80 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 2: She thought you were very attractive, really enjoyed the date 81 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: that you guys went on. And she's trying to figure 82 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: out why you're not calling her back. She says, she's 83 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: reached out, you haven't. You have not responded, nor have 84 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: you initiated a second date. So where is the disconnect here? 85 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: What happened? 86 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 6: So this is like if I'm a family of shows, 87 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 6: so thank you. If I want to go down this 88 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 6: path with her, then you guys like pay for our 89 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 6: second date. 90 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: Right, that's right? That is that is correct? 91 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 92 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: Cool, cool, not going to happen. That's funny. So if 93 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 2: I do want to there, you'll pay for it, even 94 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: though there's no way we're going to do that again. 95 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: Why is she nuts? 96 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: Uh? 97 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 4: Yeah no, So. 98 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 6: What do I I start? She she like, during the date, 99 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 6: she kept bragging about all this crazy stuff that she's 100 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 6: done to her exes like she was. She was smoking hot, 101 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 6: and I had a lot of fun. 102 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 4: And it was until that point that I was like, oh, 103 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 4: this chick. 104 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: Is dangerous, dangerous, like like vindictive, you know, like she 105 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: she was like laughing telling me about how she smashed 106 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: the windows of one of her exes car, like he 107 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: cheated on our. 108 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 2: Guests and he should not have done that. I mean, yeah, don't, 109 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 2: don't and then don't get your car windows smashed. And 110 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: I see it pretty simple to make. Yeah, okay, well 111 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 2: she was crazy. One doesn't so crazy yet. 112 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 6: She put she putnir in this other dude's shampoo bottle there. 113 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 2: You know, and she did he was he inconsiderate with 114 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 2: the grooming process. I mean, what why would he do that? 115 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: Or why would she do that? 116 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 4: To be honest, like I I kind of like I 117 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 4: disassociated at some point because the last one she told 118 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 4: me about was another X where she she took every 119 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 4: single I'll never forget this for the rest of my 120 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 4: left every single left shoe of her X just so 121 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 4: that he only had right shoes. 122 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 2: That's actually I've never heard that is a problem. Like 123 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 2: you you got to throw all your shoes when you're done. 124 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: You got to start over with shoes, no shoes, just 125 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: the way it was. 126 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 6: I mean, I was laughing a bit until she like 127 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 6: winked and then was like, just don't hurt me and 128 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 6: we're good. 129 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 4: It's like cool, yeah, yeah, we're good, definitely. And I'm 130 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 4: just thinking, how the hell do I get out of here? 131 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: Oh? God, yeah, I guess. I mean, I see both 132 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: sides here. Obviously, if you cheated on that's a terrible 133 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: thing to do to somebody. It's a really awful thing 134 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 2: to do. Somebody goes without saying. But as far as 135 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 2: you know retaliation, I guess I can see why people 136 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: might think that's a little bit nuts. But you know 137 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: what here to tell us more? And you know this, 138 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: of course because you're a fan of the show. But 139 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 2: Avery is here, Avery tell us about why you would 140 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 2: brag on a first date about some of the nutty 141 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: things that you've done, because, let's face it, you may 142 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: have been justified, still nutty, and still concerning for somebody 143 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 2: who doesn't know you not to mention hasn't cheated on you? 144 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: Oh nutty? 145 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 5: I don't think is you know the proper word, But honestly, 146 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 5: I do have defense mechanisms up a little bit on 147 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 5: first dates, especially when someone is so hot, you know, 148 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 5: like I get a little nervous and I just want 149 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 5: to protect myself and say, hey, you know, don't mess 150 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 5: with me. 151 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 2: Those people did cheat on me. And if he treats 152 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 2: me right, there's nothing to worry about. Yeah, I mean, 153 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: but we don't have to. I mean, we don't have 154 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 2: to commit vandalism. I mean it's actually against the law 155 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 2: what you've done, you know, with the smashing of the 156 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: windows thing. Not to say this person didn't deserve it, 157 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 2: but I mean, I guess I would be thinking, Wow, 158 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 2: this person, this person's going to become unhinged if she 159 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: feels that I've betrayed her or done something. And I 160 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: don't know that I necessarily blame you, but I also 161 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 2: wouldn't maybe advertise all that when I first met someone. Well, 162 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 2: I think. 163 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 3: Cheating should be a crime, truly, I really do. 164 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 2: Interesting take, Yeah, it. 165 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 3: Should be consequences for cheating to just go around and hurting. 166 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: People like that. 167 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: And I've really been hurt. 168 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 5: And I defend myself and you know, an act of 169 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 5: justice where I think justice should be an acted and 170 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 5: I just want new men in my life. 171 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: I don't know who they are. I don't necessarily trust them, 172 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: yet I want them to know. Just don't mess with me. 173 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 3: I'm tired of being messed with. I really am, And 174 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 3: I don't think there's anything wrong with saying, you know, 175 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 3: I'm a strong woman. I'll take care of my help 176 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 3: if I meet too, But don't mess with me, you know, 177 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 3: treat me properly or there will be consequences. 178 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you. It's Jason. You know, you 179 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: said you admitted she was smoking hot and she thought 180 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 2: you were good looking. So I don't know, maybe you 181 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: just don't mess with her. You know, you don't cheat 182 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: on her, you don't screw her over, and then you 183 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: don't have this problem. I don't know. 184 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 6: I'm I'm totally down to go on another date with 185 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 6: Avery after she's gone and like hooked up with a 186 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 6: therapist and process some of this stuff, because yeah, it's 187 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 6: just too much. On the first date, like I Avery, 188 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 6: like I was having a great time, but just it's 189 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 6: just it was like it. 190 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 4: Was a lot to lead off with. 191 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 6: So at this point, I think, I'm it's just I'm 192 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 6: a little nervous to go out. 193 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 4: With you again. 194 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 6: I don't know what will happen, and uh, you know 195 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 6: my cars. My car's not that great, but I do 196 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 6: value the windshields, so like, yeah, I think I'm good. So, Kicky, 197 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 6: you're not in your head. This is not a risk 198 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 6: worth taking. 199 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 2: No, the only thing she did wrong was tell him, 200 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 2: my girl, you don't never tell them about your crazy. Yeah, 201 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 2: that's kind of where I'm at, Like like it's a warning. Yeah, 202 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: but like we got to keep the crazy inside for 203 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 2: several days. And everybody, everybody knows you don't act normal 204 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 2: until the person's like definitely locked in, and then you 205 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: can start, you know, actually exposing who you really are. 206 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: Everybody knows that. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now the guy's basically 207 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: stuck with you, so yes, exactly. Yeah what did you say? 208 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 2: I've never heard that. I've not heard that. Okay, look 209 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 2: so Jason, I'll ask the question. I think I know 210 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 2: the answer. But would you like to go out with 211 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: Avery again? We'll pay for it, thank you, but no, 212 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 2: thank you. 213 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 4: I wish you the best, Avery, I really do. 214 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you better be nice to her because now hey, 215 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: and hide your kids, hide your wife, hide your car, 216 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 2: you know, because hide all your shoes, your windows, yeah, 217 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: all that stuff. Yeah, Avery, look, I wish you the best, 218 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: and I agree. I think the only the only mistake 219 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 2: that was made here is is telling this guy who 220 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 2: doesn't know you very well that you're capable of this. 221 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 2: Whether it was right to do or not, that's up 222 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 2: to you. But maybe we just don't advertise that. 223 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 3: I guess I didn't realize how that honesty was coming off, 224 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 3: but I suppose I can. 225 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 2: Think about that. We live, and we learn avery, we 226 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 2: do avery. Good luck to you, Jason, good luck to 227 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 2: you as well, and thanks thanks for answering. You have 228 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 2: a great day.