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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 3: It's a great way to wear two shirts. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: I had another electrifying weekend. That's about all I can

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. We're here changing your life, rocking

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Speaker 3: It's Jessica McKenna, Jessica, welcome to Issaid No kids.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so happy to have you here in your

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Speaker 3: What restaurant impossible? One knows kitchen.

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Speaker 3: Novella. Yes, yeah, that's a one place that that kind

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Speaker 2: Out of call Robert irvmine and I gotta get out

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Speaker 3: Terrible and I hate the thing so much. Too sweet.

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Speaker 3: Something that sweet in the morning. It's a real sugar

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Speaker 3: alcohol tasting bar. But they should have got He should

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Speaker 3: start going to giant corporations to rescue them rather than

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Speaker 2: Right, it would be great to watch him save red Lobster.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I would watch that as a mini series.

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Speaker 3: You know, Wow, that could be a good limited series.

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Speaker 3: That's who lose next, Big Fat checked Red Lobster, right,

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Speaker 2: Right. Oh my gosh, can you imagine having like a

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Speaker 3: Just a plane full of extremely sick people speaking of

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Speaker 3: to want me to stop talking about, is have you

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Speaker 3: ever heard of Tabitha's Takeover? Get into this show?

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Speaker 2: Yes, remind the name is immediately because Tabitha is such

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Speaker 2: Years exactly exactly. I believe there was a witch named

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Speaker 2: It was wild. It would be the kind of thing

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Speaker 3: Right Anyway, Tabitha was soap operas have a witch.

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Speaker 2: That's what made Passions.

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Speaker 3: So that's what made it such a failure. Failure, but Passions, Oh,

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Speaker 3: Tabitha Takeover is not a soap opera. Yeah, it mean

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was on Bravo. It's this Australian woman and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can picture her hair now.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's a very two thousand and eight like blondelde,

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Speaker 3: it's just a phenomenal show and I just love watching it.

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Speaker 3: But where did she go? Oh? I know what she did?

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Speaker 3: She started. She's now kind of a self help guru.

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Speaker 3: She has something called bitch Camp, which she teaches.

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Speaker 2: How to go after pool camp. Does she want us

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Speaker 2: to be more or less bitch? That's what I need

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Speaker 2: to know.

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Speaker 3: She wants you to be more. She wants you to

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Speaker 3: be much much more. And I hope that she's doing. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I think maybe I should reboot the show. I'm sure

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Speaker 3: there are plenty of salons that still need help.

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Speaker 2: Also, just your takeover of Tabitha's takeover.

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Speaker 3: Oh interesting, Tabitha has taken over. This is the new

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Speaker 2: Shows, like someone should have been able to come. I mean,

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Speaker 2: we'll see how it goes. But with like vander Pump

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Speaker 2: be like the Robert Irvine of like the menu's too many.

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Speaker 2: It's too many, friend of I don't care about. Right,

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Speaker 2: You need to start with some relationships that are real

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Speaker 2: Some of this has to be organic.

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Speaker 3: We know we no no longer know what they're fighting about.

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Speaker 3: This is a fight about a fight about a fight

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Speaker 3: about a fight. Yes, it could be kind of Project

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Speaker 2: And one of the biggest notes that I would give

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Speaker 2: the Bravo shows is you are not allowed to have

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Speaker 3: What about do you watch Salt Lake City?

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Speaker 2: Of course?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what about like the TikTok or tweet because there's

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Speaker 2: Well really just Merediths reaction to the TikTok that then,

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Speaker 2: are we going to see footage from this plane.

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Speaker 3: The pl where Todd was looking at the other gal

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Speaker 2: It's crazy or at least that actually how was there.

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Speaker 3: No, you bring up such a good point. There should

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Speaker 3: there's footage of everything else that's ever happened on a

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Speaker 3: by somebody on that plane? Brittany not filming it?

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Speaker 2: So true? Well, apparently she was crying into her hair.

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Speaker 2: Her hair was wet with tears. Here's evidence that we

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Speaker 3: She had to towel off after this flush.

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Speaker 2: Here's the person sorry to just arail into Salt Lake

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Speaker 3: Don't apologize, but I mean the.

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Speaker 2: Person that I do trust in that situation is Mary,

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Speaker 2: cause because she has no reason to lie or fabricate,

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Speaker 2: you know, like I understand why Meredith would downplay and

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Speaker 2: of moving story right right, Whitney will fall in line

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Speaker 2: with whatever happens there. Britney sobbed to tears into her hair.

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Speaker 2: Angie is like riding high but doesn't really need the drama,

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Speaker 2: only wants us to love grease. Mary has no reason

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Speaker 2: to lie. So the fact that she has said, Meredith,

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Speaker 2: it was out of hand, and why won't you just

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Speaker 2: admit it was out of hand and we can move forward.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it was out of hand, like it was.

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Speaker 2: Mary to me is the like the ding in the

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Speaker 2: scales that makes me go it was.

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Speaker 3: This is the thing about Mary Cosby is she has

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Speaker 3: about being involved in the show. Yes, so it's like

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Speaker 3: she's she's essentially the one normal person.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, she couldn't be further from normal. But

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Speaker 3: Care, because she refuses to listen to producer.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and she's not interested in machinations or like let's

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Speaker 3: She's just like no, yeah, she like often i'll watch her,

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00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 3: it's like she's not even aware that it's a reality.

443
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,679
Speaker 3: She'll be like, she's not. She's like, why are they

444
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 3: fighting with each other? Why are you fighting with each other?

445
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,480
Speaker 3: You should apologize? But she's thinking of them as human

446
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 3: beings rather than character Right, it's so fascinating. That's such

447
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 3: a good point. But who how small was this plane

448
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:15,679
Speaker 3: that no one was filming it. There was a simply

449
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 3: there was a gay flight.

450
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 2: Attendant, and I'm thinking, are they holding it to the reunion?

451
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 3: Oh? Interesting? But what oh yeah, that's a great How

452
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,120
Speaker 3: did it not.

453
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,520
Speaker 2: Leak unless they bought out the footage? And they're like,

454
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,640
Speaker 2: this is part of the rule is we will pay

455
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,080
Speaker 2: you this amount of money for the footage, but if

456
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 2: it leaks, we you only get it if we make

457
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 2: it to the reunion with it being sealed.

458
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 3: Right, Andy Cohen kills you Yeah, wow, I bet everyone

459
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 3: on the plane had to sign an NDA well.

460
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 2: And also the production must have bought out first class entirely.

461
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,399
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, And then you have that little curtain.

462
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 3: Here's my question. We frequently see them on these planes

463
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 3: and it's like, oh, they're not even in business class.

464
00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like what was this flight coming home from?

465
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,919
Speaker 2: It was like, oh, from the from the island, the

466
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: Lillys Playground or whatever. The frink like it looked like

467
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 2: a sette to go on the yacht okay, right, And

468
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 2: it was like and this is an SLC recap podcast, right,

469
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:15,120
Speaker 2: but you recap episodes from six weeks ago.

470
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 3: That you're basically describing. My patreon, I do talk about

471
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,360
Speaker 3: this thing constantly. I mean, what I'm going I'm going

472
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 3: to Utah for for Christmas, and I'm going to I'm

473
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 3: going to visit Uh. Something I've learned recently is the

474
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 3: angiut sort of a Nepo baby. Her father owns this

475
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 3: chain of Utah famous Utah hamburger restaurants called Crown Burger.

476
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:40,200
Speaker 3: So I'll probably make a stop there. I'm going to

477
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 3: go to Mary's Church beauty. Oh, I mean, I go

478
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 3: there every single time I'm there. I've been there. The

479
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: only time I haven't been there was my most recent

480
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 3: time because I went to jay Z Styles, which is

481
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 3: from the other show, Yeah, Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

482
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 3: And I can't go to two different beauty places in

483
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:57,400
Speaker 3: one trick.

484
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 2: And will you be cruising around with a dirty soda?

485
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: You know what? I try. I've been to Swig twice

486
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 3: and I regret it every time.

487
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 2: I just can't imagine drinking doctor pepper with coffee meat

488
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: in it. I just can't imagine.

489
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,239
Speaker 3: Well, you can't imagine until you are, I know, and

490
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,879
Speaker 3: then everything changes.

491
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: Now.

492
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 3: I didn't do that. I tried. I've tried other ones

493
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 3: that don't have I'm not going to try the cream

494
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,439
Speaker 3: in a in the Doctor Pepper. But every time I go,

495
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I'll try the more controlled option and

496
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 3: it's still disgusting, revolting drink. But it's extremely popular. They're

497
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 3: on every corner there. Wow, And so maybe I'll try again.

498
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. My boyfriend hasn't been there yet, so

499
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 3: maybe we'll go through swig once.

500
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got you gotta do it.

501
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 3: Have you been to your towel?

502
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 2: Yes?

503
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 3: Okay, have you win?

504
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: I've been a bunch of times. Like I've not done

505
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 2: a lot of like Salt Lake City like city time,

506
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,880
Speaker 2: Like we went on a ski trip there growing up,

507
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,160
Speaker 2: and then I've gone to like the National Park.

508
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 3: Since Okay, so nothing really since the shows have become famous. No, okay, yeah,

509
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: so now that that don't have to be a whole tour,

510
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 3: I don't.

511
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 2: Have to be a whole trip.

512
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

513
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder how.

514
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 3: Much longer Salt Lake City Housewives will last.

515
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 2: I feel like SLC is the crown jewel.

516
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 3: Right, yes, but it's like, how long does something like

517
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 3: this go?

518
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: Has like two more good seasons?

519
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 3: Well that's rough to hear two.

520
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe not. It's just like eventually people tire.

521
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I always say, bring Monica and Linda back. Oh,

522
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 3: and then you've got I mean that will revive the

523
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 3: show for five seasons. Yeah, true, but I think they

524
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 3: will also.

525
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,880
Speaker 2: Do you think we'll ever just merge ourt?

526
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh, at some point one of the Secret Lives gals

527
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 3: is going to come over. Wow, it'll probably be Whitney Levitt. Yeah,

528
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 3: she's done with I mean, she is soaring.

529
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 2: I loved her honesty of like, I am here because

530
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: I can be on Dancing with the Stars. I was like, God,

531
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 2: bless it. This is a type of character I've never

532
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 2: seen on reality TV.

533
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 3: I am using all of you, and I'm open about it.

534
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: But this is a sisterhood, and I do.

535
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: Wish we could be friendlier, but I'm not that worried

536
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 2: about it. And it's working for Oh my gosh, it's brilliant.

537
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 3: She's going to be in a Hulu show at some point, she's.

538
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 2: Getting I'll get tickets to the Oscars. I golly, I

539
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 2: love it.

540
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: She's a talented gal and we love her.

541
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

542
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: Well, speaking of things I don't love. Look, I was

543
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 3: excited to have you here today.

544
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 2: Thank you.

545
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought Jessica we'll come by, we'll have an

546
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 3: incredible time, and then we'll just you know, go on

547
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 3: with our lives. Yeah, the podcast is called I said

548
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 3: no gifts, right, and you waltzed in today whistling, holding

549
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 3: a little gift bag over your shoulder, and I thought, well,

550
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 3: now here comes trouble.

551
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's the holiday season, and you know,

552
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 2: my mother raised me right that you don't ever show

553
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 2: up without a host. Get so you know, maybe if

554
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 2: I was booked at a different time of year, I would

555
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: have obeyed it, Okay, but I just simply couldn't come

556
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: in empty, not to your beautiful study right now in

557
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 2: this the festive time of year.

558
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 3: None of that makes any sense to me. But I

559
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 3: mean the damage is done. Should we open it here

560
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 3: on the podcast?

561
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: I mean I'd love it if you would. Okay, fine,

562
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: you know, just you know, and I like to you know,

563
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 2: they say, don't don't make more work for a host,

564
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: So sometimes rude to bring flowers and now they must

565
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: fetch a vase or that before. Don't make work for

566
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 2: the host. Don't bring something that now needs a platter, right,

567
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: bring a bottle of wine, bring.

568
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 3: You know, whatever's going to happen.

569
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 2: And whatever's going to happen in here? Oh if we.

570
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 3: Haven't had tissue in a while. Oh oops, okay, okay,

571
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 3: reaching there, it seems like there are two things.

572
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: There's two well ones, like I would say, you know thin,

573
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 2: think about think about the festive season. One is a

574
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 2: gift and one's more of a stocking stuff.

575
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 3: Which one should take out first?

576
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 2: I think maybe the gift the thing that you can

577
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 2: really get your.

578
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 3: We'll take both. Yeah, perfect, let's just ignore you. I'll

579
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 3: ask for your advice that they ignore.

580
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

581
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 3: Oh I love this. I love Uh it's a juice

582
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 3: and citrus squeeze. Excuse me, Yeah, I've I've received one

583
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 3: of these before from Paul fig Wow. So you really

584
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 3: you two are twins?

585
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: Now, wow, that's an honor.

586
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: And you know, I used to do more videos of

587
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 3: demonstrating how to use the gifts. And I demonstrated and

588
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 3: everyone said, well, have you ever used one of these before?

589
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 3: You're doing it so wrong apparently, like and I've already

590
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 3: forgotten the way to do it, but like, how would

591
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 3: you do this?

592
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 2: Okay, so I would, uh, you know, cut the piece

593
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 2: of citrus in half. Yes, and then and this one's

594
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 2: really good for limes. This is very lime size, and

595
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 2: you'll remember because it's green.

596
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 3: Yes, of course I need.

597
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 2: Don't try to put a grape fruit in here, okay,

598
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: This one's mostly for limes or a small lemon.

599
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 3: Trying to put a grape fruit in this is mostly.

600
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 2: For limes, okay. And then I would put the lime

601
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 2: cut side down over these holes. It's little butt facing

602
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: up and then you press down right, and it, I mean.

603
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 3: It is.

604
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 2: It's such a game changer to have a citrus squeezer.

605
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that this is doubling up, but I mean,

606
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 2: I know he's a martini man and it is essential

607
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 2: for any home bar, but also just cooking as well.

608
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 2: And anytime that I think, oh I don't want to

609
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: dirty it, let me not get it out right now,

610
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 2: it only calls for a squeeze of lemon. I'm always like,

611
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: what the hell am I doing? I'm getting way less

612
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 2: juice every time I use my.

613
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: Dumb hands, And why else do you own it? Well?

614
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: Exactly, And you know I used I watched a lot

615
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: of like Cooking Network Food Network growing up, and Alton

616
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:55,239
Speaker 2: Brown used to rage against the single purpose tool. But

617
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: I feel like this doesn't apply because the difference of

618
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: the juice yield is massive.

619
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 3: I also think, like, I don't know, I feel like

620
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 3: this doesn't really get that dirty.

621
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: No, no, no, And it's just like a city. You

622
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 2: could literally just wipe it and put it back because

623
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: it's got all that acid.

624
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 3: I just assume it'll just burn away any bacteria.

625
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: And it's what we use for savich exactly.

626
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 3: Wow, great points. Yeah, tell at and Brown, how often

627
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 3: are you using a citrus to make up food or drink?

628
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: I would say a lot, Like you know, you do

629
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 2: like a little. And then also the seeds can't get through,

630
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 2: So if you want to brighten up a dish with

631
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: a little lemon across.

632
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 3: The top, uh huh. I have a couple of trees

633
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 3: in my backyard and I've been in my house for

634
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: five years and the orange tree has finally got fruit

635
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 3: on it, and I'm losing my mind. Yeah, eating, And

636
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 3: I've decided my favorite fruit is a blood.

637
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 2: Orange, and so now that's a lovely choice. You might

638
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: be able to fit a blood orange in there.

639
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: Yes, these are and this is about the size.

640
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: Oh.

641
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 3: And I will say that the way you demonstrated you

642
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 3: were doing it correctly, and I was doing it wrong,

643
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 3: did you I was putting it in, uh with the fruit? Yeah,

644
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: because you know it's like.

645
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 2: It looks like it looks like it's a cubby. Yeah.

646
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 3: They need to re shape these.

647
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's more like I'm going to use force to

648
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: make it fit. It's not going to.

649
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 3: Fit right, And I stand by the way I chose

650
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: to use it. How was I supposed to know?

651
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's confused.

652
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: Was humiliated on the line.

653
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 2: You don't put anything in that top there, and yet

654
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: it looks like it's meant to ho right.

655
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 3: The top is like an ice cream scoop. This could

656
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 3: easily scoop an ice cream. Why do they have that?

657
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 3: They should just block this off. They should have a

658
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 3: little cover over the tope.

659
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 2: They have a piece of caution tape at least.

660
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, do not use that.

661
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 2: You don't get confused.

662
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: I mean this could be used as a spoon, a

663
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 3: gravy ladle, all kinds of things. So maybe that that's

664
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 3: I feel like there has to be some purpose for this.

665
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: It could just be filled.

666
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: That could simply be filled. And but maybe I bet

667
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 3: there are worse ones than this, and they fill them

668
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 3: in like a cheaper But this is more delicate class.

669
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 2: And they want you to. They're not using any unnecessary metals,

670
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: you know.

671
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 3: Right right, it's very efficient efficient. Where did this come from?

672
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 2: This came from the general store across the street from

673
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 2: where I live. I thought that place will have something fun,

674
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 2: and I popped around and there were lots of like

675
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 2: dumb things, and then ultimately I was like, I mean,

676
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: I'd actually use a citrus squeezer.

677
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 3: General stores are a confusing concept. Yes, they're kind of

678
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 3: at this point like what is it to go buy

679
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 3: like a like gifts for guys.

680
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 2: So I think this one is a little bit more

681
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,479
Speaker 2: operating like a convenience store. I would say it has

682
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 2: like beer, wine, alcohol snacks. It it's almost like a

683
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 2: fancy seven to eleven that also has like incense and

684
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 2: candles and citru squeezers, right, and funny cards and like

685
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 2: and then it's attached to a pizza place. So it's

686
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: got a little bit more of a function. I remember

687
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 2: when it was like first coming in, it was like

688
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: this neighborhood does not need a twee pendleton blanket and

689
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: wood pencils, but it does have like food and not

690
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: only and not like tweet food, and how you can

691
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 2: get like talkies there.

692
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 3: I've seen this place before. Yeah, I've been. Yeah, I

693
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 3: know the pizza place it's attached to. I'm not going

694
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 3: to docs you, but I'm familiar with this place and

695
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 3: I have not visited it yet. It's nice, but I

696
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 3: was attempted to go in and get like a soda

697
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 3: or something.

698
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: You could get a soda. Right.

699
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 3: There's a general store in Silver Lake. That's a little

700
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 3: bit more of what you're describing. Yes, every time I

701
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: go in there, I just think, well, how are you

702
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 3: in businesses? Who's buying any of this?

703
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: I think that about the Strip and Atwater, where I

704
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: feel like there are four and I'm like, how are

705
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: you all sustained?

706
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, there are a lot of I think it's rich children.

707
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I was just gonna say it's their

708
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: parents are successful and that's what they do.

709
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 3: It's like, now I'll open a place where like you

710
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 3: can buy like a leather bookmark. Uh huh yeah right.

711
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 3: I just like, and you never see anybody in them.

712
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 3: I have no I know exactly what's happening and that

713
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 3: everything will be way too expensive. So I just and

714
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 3: there are at least four in at Water, And I.

715
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: Also feel like I always feel like it's too personal somehow,

716
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: like that's the type of store that I feel like

717
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: I need to say goodbye when I leave.

718
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 3: Because that's the sort of store where I have to

719
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: lie yeh, I'm like I'll be back.

720
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh thank you? Oh good you do have? Okay? Great?

721
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 2: Good to know? Okay, good to know.

722
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 3: And I always feel embarrassed that I might like even

723
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 3: looking at the price tag because I know they're looking

724
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: at me and they know that I'm going to think

725
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 3: it's too expensive. I hate those places. I do like

726
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 3: them for like cards, Okay, when you want to spend

727
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 3: nine dollars in a card, yeah, I guess that's you

728
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: know where I like to get a card. Trader Joe's

729
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: me too.

730
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: I love their cards. But also sometimes I feel like

731
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 2: they'll have like the main ones, and then you'll be like,

732
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 2: wait a second, you're missing like a whole main category,

733
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 2: like what funerals they'll have that, but they like won't

734
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: have like thank you or something oh right, which I

735
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 2: guess like I don't know. I think you should always

736
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: have like birthday, thank you, getting well, get well, thinking

737
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: of you, congratulations.

738
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: Right, I feel like you should never have they should

739
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: all be completely blownd. Just put an image on the

740
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 3: front and let me figure it out. Yeah, I'm always

741
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 3: so uncomfortable with whatever any card says.

742
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: So usually do they have writing inside the Trader Joe's cards.

743
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: It's like rare or it's very similarre.

744
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: I think that's how they keep prices down. They only

745
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 3: print on.

746
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 2: The front, just like the Squeezer. They're very yes, yes,

747
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: but the front will make it clear. The front will

748
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 2: say like, right, here comes your birthday and it'll be

749
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 2: like a train. That's like birthday train.

750
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 3: That makes up the majority. We all love the Trader

751
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 3: Joe's Birthday train.

752
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 2: No.

753
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: I like the ones where it's like, oh, here's a

754
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 3: here's the ocean washing up on the beach, and now

755
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 3: I can apply this to whatever. It's the birthday beach,

756
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 3: it's the death beach, it's the baby is coming to shore.

757
00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: Just let me sign the wedding wave at it's a dollar.

758
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 3: And I think every other car card company is scamming. Yeah,

759
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 3: there's just no justifying more than a dollar for a card.

760
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 2: It's true.

761
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say, but how did we

762
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 3: get to car We were complaining about general stories and

763
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 3: this is a beautiful item to have gotten there. Do

764
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: you have a favorite fruit?

765
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 2: I think it's pineapple, really good mangos up there.

766
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 3: I'm trying to start to think about favorite things. I

767
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: feel like as a child, you have all of your

768
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,919
Speaker 3: favorite things. Then that all goes away and.

769
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: You're constantly getting drilled on.

770
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 3: Them constantly people. I'm even quizzed constantly, I get pulled over.

771
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 3: I'm being asked what my favorite fruit?

772
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: That answer ready?

773
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 3: But eating a blood orange recently, I was thinking, Wow,

774
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 3: this is my favorite fruit.

775
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 2: That's nice.

776
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 3: I like a fruit that's not too sweet that if

777
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 3: I eat too many of them it will give me

778
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 3: a stomach ache. So the tartness, I feel like, controls

779
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 3: how many you can eat, but I do the blood orange.

780
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 3: Blood orange is excellent.

781
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 2: I like a I like a grape well, I like

782
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: grapefruit flavored. I like citrus a lot.

783
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 3: In general, I love grapefruit juice. But I've recently realized

784
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 3: that it interacts with my medication.

785
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yet what a weird one.

786
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 3: It's like kind of a magic fruit in a way

787
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 3: that like you're on well, U turn and suddenly that

788
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 3: grapefruit is saying no, you can't, So I can't. I

789
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 3: guess I can't drink it that often. It's more of

790
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 3: a treat, but it feels dangerous. It's like, well, maybe

791
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: I'll be really depressed today.

792
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 2: And ultimately I would say, no, grapefruit's worth that.

793
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: I'll say it absolutely is send me to the edge

794
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 3: of depression. I love the taste of grapefruit. I love

795
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 3: to eat a grapefruit. I don't own any grapefruit forks though.

796
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 2: Oh okay, do you know, but all right, future guests.

797
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 3: Please mark it. I love a little grapefruit fork.

798
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, very delicate.

799
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 3: I guess you can eat them with a regular.

800
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 2: Fork, but I mostly ate them with spoons. With spoons, yeah,

801
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 2: it was like really carving segment.

802
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 3: It is kind of a disaster. As far as eating

803
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 3: it should be shaped like an orange. The segments should

804
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 3: be more like an orange.

805
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: I guess they are. If you seal them, no, they

806
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 2: would be big.

807
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 3: It would be massive. I've never peeled a grape.

808
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: I think it was just the aesthetics of the eighties

809
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 2: of diet culture, like we're gonna cut this and you're

810
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,760
Speaker 2: gonna eat it like it's cereal, and that'll trick your brain.

811
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 3: I've never thought about that.

812
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 2: Is each segment. You're really gonna work for it, But

813
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 2: it means exactly the same.

814
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 3: I feel like you would feel insane peeling one. No

815
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 3: you can Wow, you'd feel so small.

816
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that'd be good.

817
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you'd feel like a little mouse, like when we

818
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 3: look at the stars. Right, it's exactly the same experience

819
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 3: as looking at the big dipper.

820
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, remind reminding you of your place. Oh it's grapefruit.

821
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:44,959
Speaker 3: I'm probably not that big.

822
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 2: Yes, this doesn't matter. Look at those grapefruit. Okay, take

823
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: a deep breath.

824
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 3: What was the last thing you made with your juice squeezer?

825
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: In the summer, my husband and I love a gin

826
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 2: and tonic. Oh, and we make something called an HV

827
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 2: G and T, which is a high volume G and

828
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: T because we love a G and T. But you're

829
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 2: but in the summer, you we actually desire more liquid,

830
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 2: especially if it's like the sundown or it's like the

831
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: like a happy hour cocktail. You don't want to like

832
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 2: have like a strong mixed drink. You actually want to

833
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: be like sipping on something exactly. So we invented the

834
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 2: HVG and T and we had cups made and so

835
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 2: that is a regular it's like two shots of gin,

836
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: usually drum shambo of the Irish gin. It has like

837
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:36,280
Speaker 2: kind of notes of earl gray and then some tonic

838
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: and then you top the whole like rest of it

839
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 2: with like almost a whole can of pure bubbly Oh see,

840
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 2: like water it down with club soda. So now you're

841
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 2: gonna drink the equivalent of two drinks, but it's going

842
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 2: to take you way longer. And the key of it

843
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: to make the flavors balance is to put a lot

844
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 2: of lime, so it'll be like a full lime in each.

845
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 3: And what are the cups you had designed for them?

846
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 2: They're like the Yetti cup that's like one size. This

847
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 2: is not an official YETI no friads, but this is

848
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 2: it's like the size bigger than this that has the

849
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: like bulb out. Okay, and you can get those monograms.

850
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: So he got it for our anniversary, one for him

851
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: and one for me and they say HVG and T

852
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 2: and then our name on the back.

853
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 3: Oh hgt kind of HGTV very close. Wow, that could

854
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: be confused. Yeah, that feels like some sort of lawsuits. Yeah,

855
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: just on the fridge. Do you guys do a lot

856
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 3: of anniversary gifts?

857
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 2: No?

858
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 3: No, it was rare. Did you ever do? How long

859
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 3: have you been together?

860
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 2: We've been together fifteen years and we've been married for

861
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: ten and we have pretty like set rules about like

862
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: we don't give gifts for we say, no gifts, no

863
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: god loss. We give birthday gifts and Chris we have

864
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: like Christmas is like give one big gift and maybe

865
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: like four stocking stuffers. We try to keep it like

866
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 2: even no gift for Valentine's Day, no gift for anniversary.

867
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: So he kind of broke it.

868
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah, that was a He always forgets that. We

869
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 3: do cards, okay.

870
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 2: And then I'll be like I have a card and

871
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 2: it's nine dollars from a general store.

872
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 3: We don't. Uh, we're really like slowing down on gifts.

873
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 3: I just yeah, I just don't need any. And you know,

874
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 3: it's like as an adult, you just buy everything you

875
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 3: need or yeah.

876
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,919
Speaker 2: Or if something occurs to you organically, then it's really

877
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: cool that you know someone can think of you, right,

878
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: But when it's forced and it's in like a if

879
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 2: you don't have a good idea and you end up

880
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 2: being like, okay, I bout you five shirts, Like I

881
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 2: don't know why'd I do that?

882
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 3: You know, you probably would have bought once that you

883
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 3: like more.

884
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

885
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a giant Yeah. I don't think we're getting

886
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 3: I mean it's we're getting past the idea of being

887
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 3: a sad thing. Yeah, it's like, well, we just have

888
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 3: agreed what would I buy you?

889
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we did a thing where for a while

890
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 2: we were like, oh, let's just make sure we do

891
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: something fun on our anniversary.

892
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, right.

893
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 2: Let's go make sure we like, let's go away for

894
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: the weekend, or let's like like this year is our tenures?

895
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: Just like, so we went away for the weekend.

896
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 3: Where did you go? Oh? Hi, Oh that's nice.

897
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

898
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 3: I'm not a no high person.

899
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 2: I feel full of general stores.

900
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 3: It feels like to me, like Mother's Day as a city.

901
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 3: Does that make any sense?

902
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 2: It makes perfect sense.

903
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 3: It's for whatever reason, it doesn't have anything for me there,

904
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: but I totally understand why other people like it.

905
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: Do you enjoy like a spa.

906
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever actually been to like a spa.

907
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 3: You stay at and I don't drink so like wine,

908
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,760
Speaker 3: I feel like you do need to have a glass

909
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 3: of wine while you're there.

910
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I would say, like a little massage and

911
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 2: then like a bike ride into town for brunch, you know.

912
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 3: See Mother's Day. Yeah, that's literally well, there's nothing wrong

913
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 3: with Mother's Day. Yeah, but I think if you were

914
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,399
Speaker 3: to turn it into a physical place that would be oh.

915
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 2: Hi, yeah, I think that's probably true.

916
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 3: But that sounds like a lovely anniversary. True.

917
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was nice.

918
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to.

919
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no. We rode bikes and we sat by

920
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: the pool and.

921
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 3: We totally relaxing. I mean it's I mean, that's essentially

922
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 3: what I do in Palm Springs, yes.

923
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 2: But very similar, like if you go in the right

924
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 2: weather where you're gonna be by a pool. To me,

925
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 2: it's pretty similar to like a Palm Springs experience.

926
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 3: I just need somewhere to read. Yeah, I don't know. Okay,

927
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: let's uh. We've got this other thing here, which it's

928
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: a fortune teller fish.

929
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 2: Have you ever done this?

930
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 3: I have no idea what this is. Oh really, listener.

931
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 3: It's a little like plastic uh what would you say, bag?

932
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a small plastic sleeve.

933
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 3: And it says fortune teller miracle fish with a very

934
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 3: cute fish on the front.

935
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: I didn't realize how seafood themed this was gonna it

936
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 2: was going to be. But okay, so I have a

937
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 2: very vivid memory that when I saw a little mermaid

938
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 2: in the theaters, we got these. But they're just like,

939
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: you know, it's in the same sort of vein as

940
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 2: like a finger trap or like a yo yo or

941
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: something like some small trinket, but or like a mood rink.

942
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: So if you open the sleeve, there's a small fish

943
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 2: in it. Oh my god, you're going to put it

944
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: on your palm, hold your palm out, and it's going

945
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 2: to tell your fortune.

946
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 3: So just like this, yeah, just put it on it.

947
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. Okay, okay, so it's like curling up.

948
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 2: Uh huh, it's actively curly, really curly. Oh my gosh,

949
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: fall curl tail flip what Okay, So then you can

950
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 2: look at the sleeve and it'll tell you your fortune.

951
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 3: Let's see. So uh with them, it says moving tail.

952
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: But uh, you definitely had moving tail, but you might

953
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 2: have is full curl.

954
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 3: One of the curling curls up entirely. Yeah, passionate, that's you.

955
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: The fish has told your fortune.

956
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: Everybody knew that already. I live a life of passion.

957
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 2: And what's tailed tail?

958
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 3: Moving tail? Indifference.

959
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 2: When it fully moved, it didn't just like flop like

960
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 2: a dead fish.

961
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 3: Right, It really curled up there in a way that

962
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 3: you know, I'm a fiery, passionate person.

963
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 2: That's a tight curl for a fortune fish.

964
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 3: Look at that, well, look at that full tube. Wow,

965
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 3: this has been I can't believe. I've never heard of this.

966
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 3: I've never used one.

967
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: You know, they might not be allowed in the city

968
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 2: of Utah.

969
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 3: How does this even work? What is that made of that?

970
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 3: That it's reacting to the heat of your hand or

971
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 3: just the who I am?

972
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, the pulse of your heart. You know, it's sensing you.

973
00:42:58,440 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 2: It's making a home in your hand.

974
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 3: And this is interesting because I feel like I have

975
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 3: horrible circulation and usually my hands and feet are very cold.

976
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 3: So today something with the universe was saying passion, passion.

977
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 3: When was the last time you did one of those?

978
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: I think maybe this. There was a time like recently

979
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 2: where we were somewhere and we saw them and my

980
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 2: family was like laughing because we hadn't seen them in years,

981
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 2: and we like made my nephews and niece like try it.

982
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: We were just like fortune fish. It's been ages.

983
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah, Are you big into like psychics

984
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: this kind of thing? No, No, have you ever been

985
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 3: to a psychic?

986
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 2: No?

987
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 3: What a shame? Not in LA. You've got to go

988
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 3: to one.

989
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 2: I know. I'm just trying to hold the line.

990
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 3: For what line are you holding? Not losing your mind?

991
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, just trying to just trying to keep those feet

992
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 2: on the ground.

993
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: Good luck. Yeah, No, I think I've held the line

994
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 3: pretty well. But I love the experience. Sure, It's just

995
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 3: like I haven't been to one of those ones that

996
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 3: says fortune teller the window, which I think that would

997
00:43:59,280 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 3: be incredible.

998
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, and I sometimes like try to keep an

999
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 2: open mind, Like if I'm walking the streets of New

1000
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 2: Orleans and I see something like that could be almost

1001
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 2: like a I guess it's here too, Like if it

1002
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 2: feels so ingrained in the culture, you're just being like

1003
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: an open hearted tourist. Really, but I one time, for

1004
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 2: a quiz for my friend's bachelor party, called a psychic

1005
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 2: for their behalf and invented a game called like is

1006
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 2: this something the psychic said? Or is this a lyric

1007
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 2: from a musical?

1008
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 3: That's great? Yeah, what musicals were using for every music?

1009
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 2: Any like, really really broad You're a.

1010
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 3: Big musical person. Yeah, have you been to New York

1011
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 3: recently to see any shows?

1012
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 2: I just was in New York with like a sort

1013
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 2: of dedicated purpose that I wanted to see shows. But brag.

1014
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 2: I have two friends who are in place, The World

1015
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: of Tomorrow, which is with Tom Hanks and then Marjorie

1016
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,399
Speaker 2: Prime with June Squib. My friends Tom Hanks and June. Yeah,

1017
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 2: of course my friends in plays, and so the plays

1018
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 2: we saw were their plays.

1019
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 3: Oh that's great, which is lovely.

1020
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 2: But I was like, this is funny because it's been

1021
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 2: a minute since I've been able to like go to

1022
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: New York for shows.

1023
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 3: And about your friend's work.

1024
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like a work friend. I wasn't like,

1025
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: let me see death becomser or something right, right.

1026
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 3: And you'll never see Queena Versailles.

1027
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: I'll never see it that one before my very eyes.

1028
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 3: I think it was like three weeks or something.

1029
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 2: Tough, tough, it's a tough business.

1030
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, talking to somebody about this, I think that is

1031
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 3: that the first Oh no, that's not the first documentary

1032
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 3: to musical because there's great gardens gardens, but it was No.

1033
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 2: I was going to say, like it might have just

1034
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 2: been a zeitgeist thing where I feel like spelling Bee

1035
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 2: was at the similar time as the Spelling and it's

1036
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 2: not based on but it feels of a similar like oh,

1037
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 2: group think moment where we decided spelling Bee's.

1038
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 3: Were Spelling Bee the documentary. I loved that. I wonder

1039
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: where those kids are now, we need to do a

1040
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 3: catch up?

1041
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, where are they?

1042
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 3: Where did the Spelling Bee take them? And it's been probably.

1043
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 2: At least hundred years, so it's public domain.

1044
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wonder that's hard. Somebody's got to catch up

1045
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 3: a spelling Yeah. I imagine it probably wouldn't be very

1046
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 3: fun to watch.

1047
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1048
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 3: I feel like anytime you're catching up with people from

1049
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 3: a documentary, it's usually.

1050
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 2: They did that one documentary where they followed like a

1051
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 2: certain group.

1052
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 3: Of kids for seven up. Yeah, the British thing.

1053
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never watched it, but I know how to

1054
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 2: reference it in this moment.

1055
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean it's yeah, it's just watching time. Yeah,

1056
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 3: it's uh, the funnest experience.

1057
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 2: And that's why I feel like our dear sweet SLC.

1058
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 2: Maybe you know you don't want it to overstay. It's

1059
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 2: welcome and become.

1060
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: But the thing I'll say is with you know, you

1061
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 3: start with people whose lives are already a complete mess, right,

1062
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 3: so it's just like, let's just watch it become a

1063
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: different type of mess.

1064
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, are any of these I mean,

1065
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 2: I feel like the longer they stay, the more like

1066
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:53,280
Speaker 2: the marriages don't last.

1067
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah, well, and these marriages were all hanging

1068
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 3: by a thread. The fact that there hasn't been a

1069
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 3: big dival until now, right, Todd? Goodbye Todd? Wait?

1070
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 2: Is that a fish?

1071
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 3: I thought it was? I thought Bronwin was divorcing him.

1072
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 2: Is that outside the show? Is that news?

1073
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 3: That's news outside of the show?

1074
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 2: That's huge?

1075
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like recent outside of you know, because they

1076
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 3: probably shot it in the spring of twenty five. What

1077
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 3: is time?

1078
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: I mean, it seemed bad. He stole the cherry out

1079
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 2: of her Sunday after she explicitly said that's my favorite part,

1080
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 2: and that's.

1081
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 3: Just a red flag about both of them. No one

1082
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 3: likes that cherry.

1083
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, as an adult, like that was like something I

1084
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 2: would get out the bottom of my Shirley Temple is like, hooray.

1085
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 3: The fact that he stole that was so crazy and

1086
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 3: it was such a father daughter day. I know everything

1087
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 3: about it was tough to watch. Yeah, he wasn't you know,

1088
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 3: like age gap things you can be like sometimes like

1089
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 3: oh he's charming or he's really good looking. He was

1090
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 3: just kind of nothing. He was just like a Yeah,

1091
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 3: he should have been married to Muzzy. Yeah, those two

1092
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 3: would be an excellent couple. Yes, maybe that's maybe she

1093
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 3: was the gal he was looking at on a plane.

1094
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Muzzy.

1095
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 3: She was sending him photos. Now wow, how did I

1096
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 3: not piece that together? She was living in his house.

1097
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 3: It was all under Bronwin's nose.

1098
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 2: And here's what we've been able to do today. We've

1099
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: been sleuths.

1100
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 3: Get your magnifying glass, put on your hat, and you're

1101
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 3: smoking pipe. Wow.

1102
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like we could be a segment on

1103
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 2: the reun your world, Like, don't tell us anything yet,

1104
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:28,280
Speaker 2: let us guess.

1105
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 3: Do you know what I heard recently? Part of the

1106
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 3: reason Lisa has makeup every day is she can't see

1107
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 3: very well. I think that's what I heard.

1108
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: That kind of breaks my heart.

1109
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 3: But it's the sort of thing where it's like, why

1110
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 3: doesn't she say that, that's the one thing that could

1111
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 3: humanize this person. She's like, no, I want to be

1112
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 3: a monster.

1113
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 2: Why don't you You can't just like put on this

1114
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean my mom will often be like,

1115
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 2: will you check my eyeliner? You know, and there's like

1116
00:48:56,160 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 2: a dexterity thing. And but apparently my sister was just like, mom,

1117
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 2: just line with shadow instead and use this brush and

1118
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: it'll blend softer anyway.

1119
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:07,479
Speaker 3: Wow, what a great tip.

1120
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 2: I know.

1121
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: See this is how podcasts change people's lives. So listeners like, oh,

1122
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 3: now I can fix my I'm a mess. But yeah,

1123
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:18,879
Speaker 3: apparently I think Heather said that on an after show

1124
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,800
Speaker 3: or something that is interesting, big secrets that should be

1125
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 3: the drama of Dex season. Yeah, that revelation you never know.

1126
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 2: And that's why she's always wearing big glasses.

1127
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, do you know? Wow? Those are all giant

1128
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 3: prescription glasses.

1129
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 2: There's a chance and maybe she doesn't have good she's

1130
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 2: not a candidate for contacts.

1131
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 3: Maybe And we never see her driving, do we. I

1132
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 3: feel like it's usually John driving. Yeah, and she's eating

1133
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 3: chicken nug Yeah. Oh wow, it's one of these.

1134
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 2: It's all becoming clear. Oh my gosh.

1135
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 3: It's all like it's very sixth sense, where it's.

1136
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 2: Like it's been there the whole time.

1137
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 3: It was all the little can't.

1138
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: Hear and Lisa can't see I have to stick together.

1139
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 3: Wow.

1140
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: And they're both not from Utah.

1141
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 3: Fascinating and they're both very sensitive about it.

1142
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1143
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 3: Interesting interesting, interesting, And if they would both just own

1144
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 3: up to it are a little bit more, yeah, I'd

1145
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 3: be like, Oh, I get it now, Yeah, you're not

1146
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:24,879
Speaker 3: just the devil. I don't know. Well, I'm passionate. I've

1147
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 3: got my lime squeezer. I think we should play a game. Great,

1148
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,879
Speaker 3: we're gonna play a game called Gift or a Curse.

1149
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 3: But I need a number between one and ten from

1150
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 3: you four. Okay. I have to do some light calculating

1151
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 3: to get our game piece. So right now, you can recommend, promote,

1152
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 3: do whatever you want. I'll be right back.

1153
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 2: Okay, great, I don't really have anything to super promote

1154
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 2: right now. I tour a lot, but we won't be

1155
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 2: touring un till April. I guess if you live in Texas,

1156
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: you can see off Book, which is my former podcast

1157
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,839
Speaker 2: that now just tours where we improvise a musical. So

1158
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 2: if you're in Texas and you want to come to Moontower,

1159
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 2: you can come see off Book also I'll recommend a

1160
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: sitch a squeezer. I really think it's worth it. And

1161
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: anytime you have ever cut just like a wedge of

1162
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 2: a lime and tried to do that, it's not the same.

1163
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: And that squeeze is going sideways. It's not going down

1164
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 2: into your cup, okay, And that's how you get that's

1165
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 2: how you get it in an open cut. You know

1166
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 2: that's not nice. And also more recipes than you think

1167
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,280
Speaker 2: could benefit from a little bit of citrus to brighten

1168
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: it up. Do you know about acid in your food?

1169
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 3: Very good?

1170
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 2: Thanks, very good.

1171
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 3: I mean I will say, when you're out squeezing the

1172
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 3: thing into the drink, go for it. And I also

1173
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 3: think getting it in a cut nothing wrong with that. Wow,

1174
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,280
Speaker 3: it's a little prairie advice. But now suddenly it's so clean.

1175
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 3: It is clean, fresh smelling. Yeah, but ultimately we need

1176
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:46,919
Speaker 3: the squeezer in the home.

1177
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, I agree. Like if you are

1178
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 2: at a wedding and you got like a you waited

1179
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes for a vodka cran and you're like, gotta

1180
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,439
Speaker 2: get this lime in here, do your best, but no,

1181
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 2: most of that juice is going sideways when you squeeze it.

1182
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 3: And now you have thing floating at the bottom of

1183
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 3: your drink, kind of a little dead shrimp down there.

1184
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 3: Tough to hear. Okay, do I have anything to recommend her?

1185
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 3: I already said, We've got the T shirt. Now the

1186
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 3: merch go to exactly right store dot com. Yeah, that

1187
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 3: seems right.

1188
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 2: Okay, seemed exactly right.

1189
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 3: This is how we play Gift or a Curse. I'm

1190
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 3: going to name three things, so you'll tell me if

1191
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 3: there are a gift or a curse and why I

1192
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 3: don't tell you if you're right or wrong, because there

1193
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 3: are correct answers, you can lose the game. Great, all right?

1194
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 3: This first one is from a listener named Emily. Gift

1195
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 3: or a Curse looking at a menu online right before

1196
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: dining at the restaurant.

1197
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 2: I think this is ultimately a curse. Why I have

1198
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 2: done that before? Sometimes right before. I don't think I've

1199
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 2: ever done right before. I've sometimes if it's a really

1200
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: big splurge, or or if you're in charge of like

1201
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 2: picking a food place for maybe disparate dietary needs and

1202
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 2: you have to look at the menu to make sure, like, oh,

1203
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: everyone could get something here, or this is gonna be

1204
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 2: the right vibe for this, you know, hangout that I'm

1205
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 2: trying to plan. But ultimately, I think one of the

1206
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 2: great joys and I'm I'm glad that the QR codes

1207
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: have like been pushed back a little bit and they're

1208
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 2: mostly just at like very very fast casual type restaurants now.

1209
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: But I think a great joy is to sit down

1210
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 2: and have that like discovery. It's a great small talk

1211
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 2: to the beginning of the night to have that, like,

1212
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 2: you know, let's break the ice here. We can be like,

1213
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 2: oh wait, did you see they actually have fetuccini? And

1214
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 2: now we're and now we can talk about that before

1215
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 2: we talk about like, hey, did you hear the uh

1216
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: Todd and Brownwood are getting a divorce? You know, you

1217
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 2: can't just go right to that. It's like the emmuz

1218
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 2: boosh for the conversation is the menu And if everyone's

1219
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:49,240
Speaker 2: like I already looked ahead and I know what I'm getting.

1220
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm getting duck comfee and I'm like, whoa should we

1221
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 2: share the duck comfie? Like you know, And also I

1222
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 2: think it's very nice to sit down at a meal

1223
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 2: and try to be on even footing. So if you've

1224
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:03,919
Speaker 2: looked at the menu, and some hasn't. I understand there's

1225
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 2: a time and place, but I think ultimately.

1226
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 3: Occurs correct, thank you, but for different reasons. I'm seeing

1227
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 3: the words right before. No, no, no, it should have

1228
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 3: been weeks. You should have been studying the menu. Uh huh.

1229
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 3: Worrying about the price is panicking about what you'll eat,

1230
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 3: deciding and looking and going back and forth, really weighing

1231
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 3: the pros and cons of each menu item, saying if

1232
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 3: you even trust the restaurant, then looking at it again,

1233
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,879
Speaker 3: maybe showing it to your partner, showing it again, then

1234
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: going to the restaurant, and still asking the waiter for suggestions. Yes,

1235
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 3: I think that ultimately you need to have you need

1236
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 3: to essentially have memorized the menu in advance.

1237
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 2: Well, so that's an example where maybe I would have

1238
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: gotten points deducted in my show the work, but but

1239
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: you would have ultimately said some of the points because

1240
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,720
Speaker 2: you're like you did get the right answer. The hypot

1241
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:53,760
Speaker 2: news is this.

1242
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 3: But but we know you cheated. You looked at somebody.

1243
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 3: All right, You've gotten one right so far. The second

1244
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: from a listener named Samantha Gift or a curse gravestone recipes.

1245
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 3: Have you heard of this. Now, this is something I

1246
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 3: recently became familiar with. I don't know if this is

1247
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 3: something that's bubbling up online or what, but there, you know,

1248
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 3: it's literally what it is. I think it's like on

1249
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 3: your gravestone, you have your favorite recipe or something.

1250
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 2: I don't know about this, Okay, let me think about it.

1251
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 2: Let me not just be knee jerk. Okay. I'm torn

1252
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: because I think I'm becoming anti grave in general. Like

1253
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 2: I think we should all be made into seed pods

1254
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 2: or dust.

1255
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 3: Like.

1256
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't like the idea all grieving machinations and businesses

1257
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 2: are for the living, and so I get that, do

1258
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 2: what you think. But I don't want people to like

1259
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 2: come to a little like granite square for me. I

1260
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 2: want them to think about me any other place and

1261
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 2: not just have this very morbid place where they go

1262
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 2: where they're surrounded by other granite squares, where you're like,

1263
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is really set. I mean up

1264
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 2: visiting my grandmother's grave, and it was always very sad.

1265
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 2: It didn't make me feel closer to her or like,

1266
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 2: you know, I felt closer to her when I would

1267
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 2: remember something, or we'd laugh about something, or someone would

1268
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 2: tell the story about something funny she did, or that

1269
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 2: was how we kept her memory alive. The granite stone

1270
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: I don't like. Also recipes, they get splatched, they get

1271
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 2: like things spilled on them. They're meant to like live

1272
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: in the kitchen, because ultimately you're gonna have to have

1273
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: a picture of this gravestone. So if you're like, hey,

1274
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 2: does anyone remember how grandma made her Swedish meatballs? Here,

1275
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 2: let me send you a screenshot of a photo I

1276
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 2: have of her grave. Whereas that should just be in

1277
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 2: a recipe card or something that you all have as

1278
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 2: her grandchildren. So I'm gonna say curse, although I like

1279
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 2: the idea of that. I like part of that, which

1280
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 2: is like honoring something joyful about their life and not

1281
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 2: just dates and like list of familial roles they held.

1282
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, just say I heard almost nothing

1283
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 3: you were saying. Because I was thinking about being turned

1284
00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 3: into a bath ball. I think that should be an option,

1285
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 3: a death option, being turned into a bath bomb. If

1286
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,919
Speaker 3: that's not already, what is it called bed? No bath

1287
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 3: and body works? That should be their new thing.

1288
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's brilliant.

1289
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: Bath and body works. Ash bombs, ash bath bombs, brilliant.

1290
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's okay. I'm so sorry I was distracted.

1291
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 2: I mean, you were having a once in a generation idea.

1292
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 3: But I will say I did hear what you said.

1293
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 3: I think that well, first of all, you're wrong. They

1294
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 3: are a gift. I think every gravestone should come with

1295
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 3: a recipe. This is the this is the only place

1296
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,479
Speaker 3: where you should be able to get recipes. We should

1297
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 3: take them all off of the Internet, and people should

1298
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 3: be scouring graveyards for people's favorite recipes.

1299
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: Now that I agree with, because the experience of looking

1300
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 2: up a recipe online is a healthscape.

1301
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 3: Oh it's a tough one. It's I mean, the you know,

1302
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 3: I feel bad for the recipe authors because it's obviously

1303
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 3: a nightmare and that's how they get trying to make

1304
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 3: money on whatever.

1305
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 2: But it's horrific that you have to read a posts

1306
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 2: and they'll like they'll like soft dole out the information

1307
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 2: where they tell you like some of the ingredients, and

1308
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 2: then you're like, wait, wait, wait, no, where's the list

1309
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: of the ingredients? And you're like scrolling, scrolling, scrolling millions

1310
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 2: of pop ups. And I didn't think about this about

1311
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 2: taking recipes from graves you're not connected to, right, and

1312
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 2: then that would make a cemetery much more pleasant. You

1313
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 2: could just like walk among the gravestones and say, oh

1314
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: my gosh, I've never thought to do that with Ricotta.

1315
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 3: All right, and maybe the grave the graveyard has a

1316
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 3: grocery store attached trull, so we can do all our

1317
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 3: shopping and recipe gathering with the dead.

1318
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 2: That's nice.

1319
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 3: So you were wrong, but that's fine. You made some

1320
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 3: good points you thanks, all right. This final one is

1321
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 3: from Peter Gift. You're a curse reacting to texts or

1322
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 3: shared posts with a non red heart, for example, orange, green,

1323
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 3: et cetera.

1324
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 2: I'm even caught up in the semantics that I believe

1325
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 2: the original one was more like pink and you actually

1326
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 2: have to scroll to get there to get the true red.

1327
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Well, we had our starter pack of thumbs up,

1328
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 2: thumbs down question and mark heart. It's more of a

1329
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 2: pink heart. You have to scroll to get a red heart, right,

1330
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: But I don't think that's what Peter meant, and I

1331
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,919
Speaker 2: don't purposely difficult. Yeah, I don't need a drag Peter

1332
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 2: about like shades of pinks and reds.

1333
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 3: Well, he's not a tech head like you are.

1334
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah me, no one can ever accuse me of being

1335
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: a luddite. I think it's okay. Just different color hearts, yes,

1336
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 2: not like oh I'm searching for like a ding bell,

1337
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 2: or like a lightning bolt, or a snowman.

1338
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 3: Right, or a weird little silhouette of a man. That

1339
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 3: means that's so ominous.

1340
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say a curse. Why because you have to

1341
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 2: do work for that, and that's such a lateral move

1342
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 2: and I have nothing connected to green heart, Purple heart.

1343
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: Purple heart makes me think of someone who got injured

1344
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: in war. Orange heart, m.

1345
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 3: H, what does orange heart that one? Really?

1346
00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 2: Holland nothing? You're you're excited that the Holland national soccer

1347
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 2: team is doing well.

1348
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 3: That comes up all the time for me.

1349
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 2: I'm always talking about that.

1350
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 3: I have several different threads about the Holland team. You're correct,

1351
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 3: this is a curse. I uh, we should have stopped

1352
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 3: at the one color at heart, red or pink, whatever

1353
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 3: it was, the one Valentine's the heart.

1354
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 2: Yes.

1355
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 3: I can't continue to read into whatever your your reaction

1356
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 3: is to my text. I just need to know that

1357
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 3: you wanted to stop talking to me, Yes, that you

1358
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 3: were done.

1359
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 2: With the conversation, you're putting a period on it.

1360
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 3: Yes, thank you. I will not be responding to this

1361
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 3: any firm.

1362
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 2: I used to send my my manager and I when

1363
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: we text, when I was sort of done with the conversation,

1364
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 2: or when I was like cool, I got it. I

1365
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 2: would just send back, not react, but would send just

1366
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 2: the sunglasses emoji.

1367
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 3: Oh that's a good one, you know, like.

1368
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 2: Cool cool, gotcha. We were big, cool, cool kids to

1369
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 2: each other. You know, he's also so cowboy, so it's

1370
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 2: a lot of.

1371
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 3: Like cool cool, cool, surfs.

1372
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: Up, calban guy, hang loose, toasts the nose, and then one.

1373
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 2: And I always thought it was a charming way in

1374
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 2: the conversation. And then one time he was like, oh,

1375
01:00:58,480 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 2: so you're done talking to me.

1376
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 3: Well, yes, but it's a nice way to answer, I know.

1377
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 2: I was like, sorry, it's a good exit point. I mean,

1378
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 2: weel olled. It was appropriate ribbing. But I was like, oh,

1379
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 2: so you did see what I was doing.

1380
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 3: Yes, but when you see what somebody's doing, just doing it.

1381
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, let it be whisper words.

1382
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 3: Okay, we got two out of three. Not too terrible.

1383
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 3: All right. This is the final segment of the podcast.

1384
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 3: This is I said no emails people write into I

1385
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 3: said no gifts at gmail dot com begging for answers.

1386
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 3: Can help me answer a question I love to all Right,

1387
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 3: this is hybridg or and guest. I am a Day

1388
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 3: one listener and love the podcast. Well, this is a

1389
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 3: huge red flag for us. This person's a problem person.

1390
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 3: I'm writing with a bit of a unique gift situation.

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01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 3: I'm hoping you can help me with. My husband had

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01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 3: a stroke last weekend at the age of thirty five.

1393
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 2: Oh gosh.

1394
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 3: She's doing really well and is recovering at home now,

1395
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 3: but it was the most terrifying experience of our lives.

1396
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 3: The future remains somewhat unknown in terms of what of

1397
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 3: when he'll be able to return to work and what

1398
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 3: kinds of activity he'll be able to do. Now that

1399
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 3: I've thoroughly killed the vibe you have, you've ruined the episode.

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01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 3: Here's my question. With Christmas coming up? Okay, and so

1401
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 3: now this is tough tough all.

1402
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 2: Around for Ida really timestamped this, but I'm sorry you

1403
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 2: will now get this advice after.

1404
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 3: Christmas is always coming up. Ultimately true, start the Mariah Carey.

1405
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 3: Now just get into the spirit of the season in January. Absolutely,

1406
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 3: I'm okay. So with Christmas coming up, I'm struggling to

1407
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 3: think of gift ideas. Everything I would normally get him

1408
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 3: doesn't feel meaningful enough to express how thankful I am

1409
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 3: for him, how much I love him, and how much

1410
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 3: he means to me and our son. I'm almost limited

1411
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 3: by the I'm also limited by the unknown future. He

1412
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 3: loves his craft beer, but can't drink right now. We

1413
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 3: love to travel together, but he can't travel yet, et cetera.

1414
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 3: He enjoys music, video games, and his job as a

1415
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 3: behavior specialist in in middle school. God bless this person.

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01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 3: He's the best person I know. I appreciate any ideas

1417
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 3: you can give me to make this Christmas special Alex.

1418
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 3: And then there's a ps. It says, I know this

1419
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 3: is a serious topic, a serious and not very funny topic,

1420
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 3: but my husband and I both have a sense of humor,

1421
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 3: so feel free to joke about it. Well, I was listen.

1422
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 3: I was gonna do whatever I wanted, no matter what.

1423
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 2: That's very sweet, she says.

1424
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 3: I almost brought his The Strokes T shirt to the

1425
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 3: hospital for him to go home in and then he

1426
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 3: was disappointed, disappointed that I didn't. I would. I would say,

1427
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 3: you have to have multiple strokes if you're gonna wear

1428
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 3: that T shirt. That's true, So that would have been

1429
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 3: a bad thing.

1430
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 2: Unless she taped over the final less Yes, exactly the stroke,

1431
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 2: the stroke, But I love that they're aligned. You gotta laugh.

1432
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 3: You got what else can you do?

1433
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 2: Alex? Oh Man? That is tough to you.

1434
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 3: And what a tough year for both of them. Because

1435
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 3: now the Christmas email has been read in January.

1436
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 2: Yes, but hopefully like his birthday, this will still be

1437
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 2: applying always. There's always another occasion.

1438
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 3: It will always have had the stroke. Yes, So it's

1439
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 3: totally fine. And by now, you know, maybe he's up

1440
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 3: and running.

1441
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean without wow trying to show appreciation.

1442
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 2: What's the what's Alex's husband's name?

1443
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: Uh?

1444
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 3: We never found out. That was the one piece of

1445
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 3: information that from Alex's life that we didn't.

1446
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 2: Get, Okay, So without knowing Tony Tony, you know, I

1447
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 2: would need to know Tony's love language, I feel because

1448
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 2: I think, you know, appreciation when you really want to

1449
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 2: show like meaning a lot of times it's like doing

1450
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 2: the thing that they have been putting off for themselves,

1451
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 2: you know, like changing the dome light in your car

1452
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 2: or like that's a big one.

1453
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1454
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 2: One time my husband replaced the ram in my computer.

1455
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I was like cool and he was like

1456
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 2: it probably saved you like two years on getting a

1457
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 2: new computer. And those don't always get the showiest reaction

1458
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 2: for me because that doesn't mean as much to me.

1459
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 2: But I think it's like thinking of things that make

1460
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 2: life easier is always I used for your partner, or like,

1461
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 2: oh I I you mentioned obviously that's always the best.

1462
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 2: Is someone like mentioned it if we're laughing? I mean,

1463
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 2: is there a cameo we can get from the Strokes where.

1464
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 3: They say in Casablancas cameo, you know, have him say

1465
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 3: or do you've had a stroke?

1466
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 2: You know, maybe a little song right, but like they

1467
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 2: can play every time things are getting kind of bleak,

1468
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 2: they can like maybe we should actually dance out to

1469
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 2: your bespoke song that's like, hey, it's okay, We're so

1470
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 2: glad that you're here, don't be afraid.

1471
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 3: You know, that's a good one. We're wondering, are any

1472
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 3: of the Strokes on cameo that feels like.

1473
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:36,959
Speaker 2: We can always like reach out to their record label

1474
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 2: and their manager and say this is a very specific ask,

1475
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 2: but I think it would really bring a smile to

1476
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 2: his face. And it's something that you could replay and

1477
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,439
Speaker 2: laugh about, like it's a little evergreen.

1478
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 3: In their Instagram comments and just reply over and over,

1479
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,919
Speaker 3: comment after comment. Please write myself, Please, please husband a song. Yeah,

1480
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 3: he had a stroke, Write him a song. Yes, as

1481
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 3: many times as you want.

1482
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 2: Okay, then a completely different direction, but just so that

1483
01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 2: I would enjoy if I was in a place of

1484
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 2: like needing to take things a little slower and be

1485
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 2: at home. But I'm sensitive that I hope there's if

1486
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 2: there aren't any dexterity fall out issues from the stroke.

1487
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 2: But I love a really complicated lego set.

1488
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 3: Oh I've never been able to complete a lego set.

1489
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 3: My older brother would always complete them for me.

1490
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 2: Have you ventured as an adult? No?

1491
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 3: I don't think I have the skills. I don't have

1492
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 3: the spatial skills.

1493
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 2: No, you do. And they're so peaceful and they are

1494
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 2: brilliantly organized. Where here's the best thing about them as

1495
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 2: an adult because I like a puzzle too, But then

1496
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 2: it's like sitting out. You know, a big lego set

1497
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 2: is divided by bags, so I like, I recently did

1498
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 2: like a floral arrangement and it was tense bags, right,

1499
01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 2: and so I could like keep the box away and

1500
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:47,439
Speaker 2: be like, oh, you know what I could do right now?

1501
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 2: One bag.

1502
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 3: Oh that's a very contained and.

1503
01:06:52,360 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 2: It's very peaceful and zen and fun. And they have

1504
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 2: like a cool guitar. There's a typewriter. Also, my mom

1505
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 2: had some health stuff last year, and when I was

1506
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 2: like sitting at home with her, I did this really

1507
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 2: elaborate Nintendo set with a like a companion TV with Mario,

1508
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 2: and it was really fun to like take my brain

1509
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 2: off of it. So you could do it together. I

1510
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,160
Speaker 2: don't know how your son is probably probably too young

1511
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 2: to help with a complicated set, but it is kind

1512
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: of a fun. You can do it slowly. You could

1513
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 2: do a really hard one, like you know, the taj

1514
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 2: Mahal or something.

1515
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,600
Speaker 3: Put on some music in the background.

1516
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 2: Chill out, We'll just keep strokes.

1517
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 3: Get the strokes on vinyl and blast it while you're

1518
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 3: doing some legos.

1519
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 2: Okay. And then also I've seen and I keep thinking

1520
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 2: that I would like these. There's a there's like these

1521
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 2: drumsticks that are just like they you just like drum

1522
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 2: in the air and does it make noise? It makes noise,

1523
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 2: and like I think you can have your headphones on too,

1524
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 2: And I feel like that's a good like that's a

1525
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 2: good like physical thing that if you if you feel

1526
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 2: mad about, like why this happened to me? This is

1527
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 2: this is dumb that this happened to me, you can

1528
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 2: give yourself a little like rage it out a little bit.

1529
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 3: You know, I want those drums. Sounds delightful. Okay, Shoot,

1530
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 3: I love to air drum. Yeah, I love to air guitar. Wow.

1531
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 3: Well then I mean I feel like, look, did we

1532
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 3: miss Christmas? Did we ruin their year?

1533
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 2: Yes?

1534
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

1535
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 2: Have we potentially helped their next year a full year,

1536
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 2: which is way better than way better. I mean right

1537
01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 2: now we only have we have like fifty sixteen days left.

1538
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 3: Right if this had been a Christmas one, they would

1539
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 3: have had like two weeks. Yeah, and then who knows

1540
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 3: what twenty six is for them?

1541
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:28,680
Speaker 2: And a lot of those big lego sets are on

1542
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 2: back order.

1543
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 3: Oh they are crostillar toilets. The teens, Yes, the teens

1544
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:38,720
Speaker 3: are loving and me and me, the teens especially are

1545
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 3: getting the floral design ones.

1546
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah you know which one? I did a few years

1547
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 2: ago is amazing. The home alone house.

1548
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they've really gotten into some crossovers.

1549
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's beautiful.

1550
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 3: Does that have little traps?

1551
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:52,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah?

1552
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 3: Does that have an iron slam somebody in the face? Incredible?

1553
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 2: It has a small lego that is Kevin's plan the

1554
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:00,160
Speaker 2: battle in.

1555
01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 3: Wow. Does that have a Joe Pesci Yeah?

1556
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:06,720
Speaker 2: Wow, including the van that they drive in. It's a

1557
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 2: very special set.

1558
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 3: Well, we answered the question perfectly, I think, so we

1559
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:11,759
Speaker 3: can't get any more complaints.

1560
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 2: Still right back in, Maybe get that set and you

1561
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 2: can work on it slowly through the whole year and

1562
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,639
Speaker 2: that then it'll take you up to next Christmas.

1563
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, and then you can surprise him with some

1564
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 3: other gift. Right back in.

1565
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:21,800
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1566
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:24,600
Speaker 3: Actually again, don't right back in, but think about what

1567
01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:27,879
Speaker 3: we told you. Yeah, yes, we answered the question perfectly.

1568
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 3: I have this go absolutely gorgeous lime green citrus squeezer,

1569
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 3: and I've found who I am. The question fish, I'm

1570
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 3: very passionate and indifferent.

1571
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 2: The fish was like, could could he be indifferent? And

1572
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 2: then it's like, actually.

1573
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 3: No, this guy's an absolute freak. Uh huh, So what

1574
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 3: do we know. I've had such a lovely time with you.

1575
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,439
Speaker 2: Thank you as well well.

1576
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:58,719
Speaker 3: Listener, the podcast is over. You know I have nothing

1577
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 3: left to say to you or the guests, and so

1578
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 3: you have to stop listening right now. I love you, goodbye.

1579
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 3: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. Our

1580
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 3: senior producer is on Alisa Nelson, and our episodes are

1581
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 3: beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday. The theme song is by

1582
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 3: miracle Worker Amy Mann, and we couldn't do it without

1583
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 3: our booker, Patrick Cottner. You must follow the show on

1584
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 3: Instagram at I said no Gifts, That's where you're going

1585
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 3: to see pictures of all these wonderful gifts I'm getting.

1586
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 3: And don't you want to see the gifts?

1587
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 2: Lie? Why did you hear?

1588
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: Thot a man? Myself perfectly clear?

1589
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:44,600
Speaker 2: But you're a guest to me.

1590
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:53,720
Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no guests,

1591
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: your presences presents and.

1592
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 2: I'm already that stuff. So how do you dance to

1593
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:04,519
Speaker 2: survey me