WEBVTT - The Royal Wedding 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.960 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:13.200 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:20.720 Scrub dub dub and the tub tub tub. Wow. I 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:23.759 didn't hit record, but now I am. Wow, that would 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:28.840 have been crazy crazy. She's a wife, I'm a wife. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:32.839 Raise your hand if you're married, raise your hand if 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:34.880 you're married. Wow. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:40.920 I mean, where do we begin? I don't even know 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:43.760 where to begin. There's so much to touch on. How 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:44.680 are you feeling like? 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:47.360 We're like coming back. 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:50.400 From the wedding, which was obviously like a lot in 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.720 terms of the planning and everything. Yeah, with the excitement 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:55.040 of getting. 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:57.720 Married, Yes, the build up for years, Yes. 0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:01.800 It happens, and it was incredible. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:07.480 It was literally more than I'd ever expected. It was 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:12.400 everything I wanted times a million. But the after is 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:16.720 so crazy, Like I definitely should not have come to 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:17.399 work this week. 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.160 I've been like, I disagree. 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.959 I have been so unwell the last two days, Like 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:24.920 I have been like not feeling good. 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:26.200 I've been so run down. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.200 I feel like like you know when you're on your 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.039 period and you feel like somebody came and suck the 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:30.679 life out of you. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:35.080 I feel like that I mean, yeah, I literally can't 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:37.880 imagine because I felt like that I did not exit 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:38.920 my bed yesterday. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.800 I was so exhausted. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.560 Yeah, and I was like thinking about you being at 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.880 work and also like why did she go to work with? 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:50.760 And insight any bride out there that's listening, definitely take 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:52.480 a few days after your wedding. 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:55.000 I'm so happy you came in. You're the best, Like 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.800 that's that's what makes you Tanya. Is that kind of magic? 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:00.400 Insanity great? 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.480 It's like literally insane that I like went back to 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:04.280 work the next day. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:05.320 But also just. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:09.200 Because like I felt like my body was on fight 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.600 or flight mode for four full days, do you. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:11.960 Know what I mean? 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:14.760 Like the minute we got to Mexico. The first day 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:16.080 was a kind of chill, but then the next day 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.120 it was just like full on and the people started arriving, 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:19.840 and then you're on. Then you're on, you're on, You're on, 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.639 and it's like this crazy high. And then I think 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.800 that your body just like lets it all go, like 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.520 it just like crashes. But I also wasn't sleeping, Like 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:32.920 I didn't sleep because I was so excited, so like 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:35.320 I barely slept, So I'm like not sleeping I'm on 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.840 this like crazy adrenaline rush and then like it all 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.280 just hits you and it's like crazy. 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.880 Well, yeah, it's not sleeping, Yeah, it's stress. It's not 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:44.720 eating much. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:45.600 Yeah. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.519 The day of my wedding, we were like in the 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.280 middle of the horror and I was like, if I 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:51.280 don't eat something, I'm I'm literally going to pass out 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:52.800 on the dance floor. Like and I was like, I 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:54.840 was like, everybody needs to stop talking to me, and 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:58.160 I need to eat for ten minutes, Like seriously. 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.280 It was fun. 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.760 Well, we're jumping ahead, we're jumping ahead. Let's start from 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.440 the beginning. So we flew to Mexico on Tuesday. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:10.120 Yes, Becca flew with my husband and I, oh how 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.520 many times many times? 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:14.239 Am I gonna say husband this podcast, who was then 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:15.560 just a mere fiance? 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:20.760 Yeah, and uh, I flew because I wanted to help 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:22.760 with like dressing, you know, any of the stuff that 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:23.480 you need to help with. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:27.240 I have to say, you coming out there the day 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.480 that you did with us was the best gift you 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:30.480 could have ever given me. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.240 I was telling Haley. 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:35.120 I was like, I was so it was so special, 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:39.240 even like obviously anytime I have Hailey with me I 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:41.960 love it, But it was so specifically special getting to 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:44.560 have that time with both of you guys, like into 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:46.800 like just to myself because I knew as soon as 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:51.240 everyone got there, you're like mingling with everyone, so I 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.400 wasn't gonna have your full attention, And it was so 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.280 fun getting to like be there for those moments leading 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:56.680 up too. 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:59.240 It really was like the best gift you could have 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:02.760 given us, Like I and like you were there and 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:07.280 I like needed you there, like obviously I it's I 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:09.720 would have been perfectly fine if it was just Robbie 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:11.320 and I because he does all those things for me too, 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:15.200 But like it was so nice having like somebody there, 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:18.520 but also like you you know exactly like when to 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.320 give us space, and like you weren't you know what 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.120 I mean, Like we weren't together the whole time, like 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:23.760 you would just go to your room chill for a 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.560 little bit meet up. Like it was just the perfect 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:32.960 amount of being there but like not being like always there. 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:34.680 Yeah, I don't know. It was very weird, but it 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:35.760 was the best. 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:39.720 Like I highly recommend that if anybody's getting married and 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.800 they're doing a destination, like have your best friend go 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.360 out there the day or two before with you, because 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:47.520 it was the best, Like you helped keep me calm, 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.560 like all the things, what do we need to do? 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:54.679 Yeah, it was fun, I think going also as a bride, 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:58.000 even just getting to your destination early on and getting settled, 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.719 because like once people started coming next day. 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:04.320 It was plan yeah, yeah, take off time. Yeah. 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:08.320 So everyone starts coming, people start arriving. 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.640 You gave me a look like here we go. Yeah. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.680 But Wednesday night was pretty chill too. It was just 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:16.240 like family, so that arrived. 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:18.159 Yeah, for the most part, there were like one like 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.160 maybe like one set of friends, and. 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:23.800 Then Thursday came. First of all, I was staying like 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:24.679 so far away. 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:26.360 My room was so far away. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:28.479 From Tanya, and we had tried to switch it because 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:30.880 we were like, oh, like you know, she texted her 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:32.960 person was like, oh cut we I want my mate 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:35.000 of honor closer, and I was like, I'm so far away, 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:37.320 but they weren't able to move us. And so I 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:40.360 got like ten thousand steps the day of the welcome party, 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:44.160 just going back and forth, roaming around, going and doing 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.560 I was like, dang, I hit my step goal today. 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:52.440 And there's documentation of me saying this on the podcast 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:57.520 that I was not going to drink that night, but 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:00.800 I had my speech, right, everyone of their speech is 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:01.400 the first night. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:05.080 Nobody can do that sober? Yeah, many people can, but 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:06.159 I didn't. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.839 I was like, I was like relatively sober when I 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:15.080 gave a speech, and then once that was done, I 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:19.120 I really exceeded my one drink, one shot limit that 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.760 I had given myself on the podcast. 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.599 It was a lot of drinking that first night, a 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.719 lot a lot, Like people were very drunk, very quickly, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.680 because I'm very noticed when people get drunk, and like 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.320 I was saying, oh, hi, nice to see you, Like 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.760 they just got here and they're already a little bit off. 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:38.840 Was that one of those no, no, no, yeah. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:40.359 When I saw you all first, I don't think I 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:43.359 was there yet, But I have to say, because everyone 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:46.560 keeps asking like how was Tanya, Like was she bride chilla? 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:47.560 What was her vibe? 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:52.600 Tanya was literally the most calm I've ever seen her, 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:57.120 And I was like, either internally there's just like shotspiring 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.400 left and right, and it's just subdued on the outside. 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.840 But I was saying, how when you see a bride 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.640 that calm and relax, It's it makes you feel like, wow, 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.120 like this is the right Not that I doubted that 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:11.200 you were doing the right thing, but it's almost like confirmation. 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.840 Like while she's so at peace and like even with 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:15.680 all the people coming in and there's so much going 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:19.120 on that's still happening, there was this like calmness to you. 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:23.440 I felt calm. Yeah, Like I was shocked at how 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:24.120 calm I was. 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:26.280 I was like, did you garden? Like what? 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.560 Like, yeah, I honestly I didn't, but like I felt 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:33.800 like I like took some sort of like chill pill 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:37.360 or something. Yeah, especially the welcome party because it was 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.640 like a little chaotic. I was like getting ready a 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:41.560 little bit to the last minute, which I don't. 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:42.880 Enjoy doing it. Yeah. 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:44.360 So I didn't even get to look at a mirror 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.520 before I left to go see everybody. I hadn't even 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.680 looked at myself in a mirror. It was literally like 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.880 putting my makeup on, put my they put my dress 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.240 on for me, and I didn't even look take photos 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:56.400 and then like out the door. 0:07:56.880 --> 0:08:00.640 So I was like, can someone do I look? Okay, 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:02.640 what's going on? How do I look here? 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:03.320 Yeah? 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:05.240 You didn't need to look in the mirror. You looked amazing. 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.200 Yeah, and so we we had the rehearsal before we 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:14.480 had the welcome party, and it was so sweet because 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.480 Tanya even just like coming down the steps with her 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:21.280 dad at the rehearsal, like there was already waterworks and 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.120 she would like lean her head back as to not 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.680 mess up her makeup, and she was like rushing her 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:27.400 dad because she didn't want to cry. She's like, Dad, 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.840 come on, I'm like Tanya, just soak it in and 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.360 she's like, I don't want to cry. Before the party, Yeah, 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:37.040 I was like walk faster, dad, like dracking him down. 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:42.000 So I'm curious what where like when you got to 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:44.440 the welcome party, what that felt like seeing because like 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:45.760 that was the first time where you got to kind 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:47.000 of see everybody arrive. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:47.440 Yeah. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:51.080 That's like the most i think overwhelming part of the 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:54.720 weekend because everybody's there to see you, right, so, like 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.400 everybody's there for you. Yeah, so you want to make 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:02.040 sure that you're giving saying hi to everybody, buddy, spending 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:04.320 time with everybody. You also don't want to be so 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.360 rude and like not engage so much with people, But 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.280 you also don't want to engage with someone too long 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.640 because you want to like see everybody. Yeah, and then 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.439 you don't want to rob and I didn't want to 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:16.240 leave each other's side. We wanted to like try and 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.320 do everything together, which is a fail. 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.560 But we did a pretty good job. Like we did. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.040 That's eighty percent of the time we were like together. 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.520 But that first night was I think the most overwhelming 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:28.480 because I felt like that was like my first time 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:31.880 seeing so many people. So I wanted to like hug 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.040 everybody and like express my gratitude. 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.160 But it's like one hundred people. Yeah, it's a lot 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:36.600 of people. 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:40.560 Yeah, And it was. The setup was so beautiful. It 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:42.839 was on the sand. There were our tables were on 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:44.920 the sand. There was a Mariachu band playing. 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.920 Was it sinky sand or was it like hard sand? 0:09:48.559 --> 0:09:49.720 I couldn't. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.920 I've tried your heels for a second, and they went straight. 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:56.000 Through these My little little tiny, like pointy heel I said, 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.920 if you have like a thicker heel on, I. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:00.000 Think people who had a thick keel on were fine. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.640 I did not have that, so I just went barefoot. 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:04.920 I ended up going barefoot too, which. 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:09.280 Is great for my later on my later on actions. 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:10.400 Barefoot was best. 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.040 Yeah. 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:16.440 So then we got into speeches, and I requested to 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:20.000 go early on because I didn't want to go at 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.640 the end too much pressure. I get really anxious when 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.800 I speak in front of people if I'm reading something, 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:28.360 and I felt like, even though I could have I 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.320 can wing things and it could be good. I had 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.640 already done that for your bridal shower, So I felt 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.840 like it was important for me to like have intention 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:36.000 behind what I was saying. 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:40.720 Yeah, your speech was so good. Oh, thank you. I 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.079 don't I blocked, I just I just got it was 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:43.920 a Taylor. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:47.600 Swift quote they quote in there good friends. 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:47.880 Yeah. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.160 I saw Robbie crying. I was like, okay, I've done 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:56.400 my job here. My job here is done. 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:57.720 Thank you so much. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:10:59.920 Well, we skipped a couple I don't want to, you know, 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.320 I'll give short shrift to some of these speeches because 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.520 Robbie's son was the first speech, and that was yeah powerful. 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.200 Well, so I did not want to follow him. I 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:09.760 was very stressed about following March. 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.000 He wanted to go first. He was like, can I 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:12.320 go first? 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:14.679 He should have gone last because he was probably the best, 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.400 but I mean he was really good. Yeah, yeah, it 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:18.600 was really really moving. 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.760 Oh he had to say, you know what's interesting what 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:25.000 I heard a lot from this weekend, different guests that 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.240 come up to me that came from divorced families. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:29.839 Our whole wedding was like very healing to a. 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:34.040 Lot of people that grew up in like divorced, bad 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:38.720 divorce situations. I don't know, parent situations. Yeah, like it 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.560 was very healing. Like I had like two guests in 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:44.160 particular come up to me saying how they wished that 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:48.360 their step parent was like that they had what Robby 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:52.199 and I have in our like family dynamic and it's weird. Yeah, 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.040 I felt like it was like very healing for people. 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.040 I don't have that, and it was healing for me. 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:01.640 I don't come from from a stepparent situation. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.280 And I was like this is just but yeah. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:11.319 Like so he spoke at our at our bridal dinner, right, 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.040 and this was like off the cuff. Everybody was just 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.520 kind of like popcorn giving speeches and he was like 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.040 I want to say something. We were like what, like 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:21.880 you're ten and it was like so crazy. He did 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:23.800 such a good job and everybody was like blown away. 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.440 And so then he asked us, He's like, can I 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.680 give a speech at the wedding. We were like sure, 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:30.240 you know, like we didn't want to put that pressure 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:34.080 on either one of them. And so yeah, he like 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.720 wrote it. He had like three paragraphs and he just 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:39.199 delivered it. Yeah, just no fear. 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:41.600 It was so impressive and people. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.560 Kept clapping and He's like, I'm not done yet, I'm 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:44.920 not done. 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:47.400 So cute. Yeah, it was really cute. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:50.199 Robbie's dad we got to talk about. Yeah, he talked 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:54.840 about listening to the morning show and yes, and learning 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:57.959 about your cycle. Yes, and whether he's a backer or 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:01.840 a Tanya. Yes, very very He was great. And what 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:04.440 really impressed me about him he had nothing written down. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:06.480 That was all off the top of anatomy. Maybe he 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.200 memorized or thought us with things today, but he was 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:13.640 so funny. Yeah, without any kind of notes or anything. 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:17.600 I agree, I was. I was very taken aback by his. 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.040 Speech. I did not expect it to be that funny. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:22.160 It was really funny. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.480 It was like one there was like one liner after 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:29.280 the next. Oh my god, was listening to him. I 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.640 was like, we're getting scrubbing in shout ouse. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:35.000 Yeah, this is wild, every kind of shout out. Yeah, 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:35.880 the cycles. 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:40.560 Robbie told me that his dad wanted to like clear 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.000 two of the jokes with him to make sure that 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.880 they were okay, and the cycle joke was one of them. 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.120 Your cycle is a huge part of our community because 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:52.880 like the amount of questions that I got my question 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:54.319 box about your period. 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:57.320 I was like, this is so funny. We'll get to that. Yeah, 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.400 obviously we'll get to that. We will get to that. 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:01.760 But yeah, it was really great. 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.440 Like all of Robbie's groomsman got up and gave like 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:08.080 like many speeches together, and Pauline and Raquel. 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:12.200 Pauline got me. At the end of her speech, he said, 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:15.920 t you did it right. That one got me. 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:22.200 Yeah, hers was very emotional. Ryan was like sobbing at Paulina's. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.720 Yeah, Pauline's really got Ryan. 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:23.960 Good. 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.840 Yeah, I was shocked. 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:28.920 I mean, we'll get to that, but shout out to 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:32.280 Ryan just from the beginning, just Ryan really came through 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:33.720 this weekend. Yeah, phenomenal. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:34.200 Yeah. 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.720 Yeah, and you kind of forget until you watch other 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:42.760 people's reaction to him how huge of a deal he is. Yeah, 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.480 Like when he came for the rehearsal and everyone is 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:49.600 trying to act like cool and chill, and He's like trying. 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.800 To be normal, but like no one's acting. It's just 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:52.560 such a you know what. 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:56.680 I also want to commend, like I feel like nobody 0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:01.400 really treated him so different then, you know what I mean, 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.720 Like there wasn't like a line of selfies. There wasn't 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.400 like you know what I mean, Like he was kind 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:09.400 of like just one of the one of the crew. 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:10.560 Yeah, it's just that. 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:13.040 Feeling that you you feel it if you know it, 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:14.360 where you can tell people are. 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.600 Yeah, people differently when there's a celebrity in the room. 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.080 But once he settled in, Yes, it felt like he 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:21.760 was settled in. 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.920 But like nobody wanted to sit at our table with 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:24.600 us and him. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:28.840 Like I was like, why is by himself? Food? 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.080 I was like, why isn't anybody else gonna sit here? 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:36.840 Well, I think that that when it's your table, it's like, oh, 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:38.600 his family sit I think there's kind of there. 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:40.840 I think that was a hesitancy more than it was Ryan. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.480 Okay, Yeah, I didn't know because we didn't have tables, 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:46.440 we didn't have assigned seats. The first night, it was 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.480 just kind of like first comfort serve, wherever you want 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.880 to sit. Yeah, but yeah, I guess that was like 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.760 the prime table, right. 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.520 And you never know, like he's a fan who's sitting 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.280 there right right, right right. I don't think it was right, Okay, 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:00.000 not that Ryan's on a huge deal. I'm just saying 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.200 I think that was more like being respectful. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.840 But yeah, So like the speeches, and our whole thing 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:08.840 was we wanted the speeches the night before because we 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.280 didn't want we just want to party the next night. 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:16.680 We didn't want speeches at the actual reception, so we. 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:20.000 Did them all the night before. And I think it 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:21.440 was okay in terms of length. 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:22.800 Oh great, yeah. 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:23.160 Yeah. 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.080 By the way, I don't have a single complaint from 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:28.640 that entire weekend, whether it's sifty sand or hard sand 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.560 or the length of the speeches. I have zero complaints 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.160 from touchdown to take off. 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:36.880 Wow, that is nice. It was perfect, Like it was. 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:37.640 It was it. 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:41.160 I'm so happy it exceeded your expectations because I was like, 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:44.080 this is there's so much hype around this weekend and 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:47.560 like it's a destination and you can't predict things and 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:49.440 how things are going to go or how everyone's going 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:53.360 to interact, right, and it was it exceeded every expectation 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:53.920 that I had. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.960 It was just so fun and everyone was so happy 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:58.760 for you guys and like, Okay. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:00.880 So so after this, which is we had this plan 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.280 where we were going to like do the fireworks, but 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:05.000 they planned it for like a specific time, and the 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:07.720 speeches ended earlier than the time, so they were like, 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:09.119 can you vamp for thirty minutes? 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:12.560 And I'm like, maybe I. 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:14.560 Can, like sing my I have a husband, And I 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:16.320 was like going to maybe like do a little performance 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:19.160 and like sing that, and then she was like, okay, 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.640 actually it's ten minutes. So I was like okay, okay, 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:23.200 and so the whole thing was like Rob and I 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:24.680 were gonna give a toast and then it was gonna 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:27.359 like the fireworks go off. I think at that point 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:31.720 I was like kind of drunk. Oh really yeah, tipsy, Yeah, 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:32.440 could you tell? 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:33.840 I could tell very dru. 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:39.400 I was really yes, Yeah, I didn't. 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:42.560 Even know you had to dream because you were three sheets. 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:43.400 Yeah. 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.920 No, I didn't go three sheets till we'll talk about 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:47.600 my three sheets. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:49.800 But I didn't. I didn't go there till after my 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.600 speech because I was like, yeah, this was after all 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:53.520 the speeches, but. 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:55.359 I'm a little drunk. 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.119 Yeah yeah, oh you did say that. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:02.399 I remember, Yeah, I was a little drunk at that point, 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:05.000