1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 3 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 3: Scrub dub dub and the tub tub tub. Wow. I 4 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 3: didn't hit record, but now I am. Wow, that would 5 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 3: have been crazy crazy. She's a wife, I'm a wife. 6 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 3: Raise your hand if you're married, raise your hand if 7 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 3: you're married. Wow. 8 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: I mean, where do we begin? I don't even know 9 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: where to begin. There's so much to touch on. How 10 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: are you feeling like? 11 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: We're like coming back. 12 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: From the wedding, which was obviously like a lot in 13 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: terms of the planning and everything. Yeah, with the excitement 14 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: of getting. 15 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 3: Married, Yes, the build up for years, Yes. 16 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 4: It happens, and it was incredible. 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 5: It was literally more than I'd ever expected. It was 18 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 5: everything I wanted times a million. But the after is 19 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 5: so crazy, Like I definitely should not have come to 20 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 5: work this week. 21 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 6: I've been like, I disagree. 22 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 5: I have been so unwell the last two days, Like 23 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 5: I have been like not feeling good. 24 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: I've been so run down. 25 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 5: I feel like like you know when you're on your 26 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 5: period and you feel like somebody came and suck the 27 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 5: life out of you. 28 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: I feel like that I mean, yeah, I literally can't 29 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: imagine because I felt like that I did not exit 30 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 2: my bed yesterday. 31 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: I was so exhausted. 32 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like thinking about you being at 33 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: work and also like why did she go to work with? 34 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 5: And insight any bride out there that's listening, definitely take 35 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 5: a few days after your wedding. 36 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 6: I'm so happy you came in. You're the best, Like 37 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 6: that's that's what makes you Tanya. Is that kind of magic? 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 3: Insanity great? 39 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 5: It's like literally insane that I like went back to 40 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 5: work the next day. 41 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: But also just. 42 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 5: Because like I felt like my body was on fight 43 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 5: or flight mode for four full days, do you. 44 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 3: Know what I mean? 45 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 5: Like the minute we got to Mexico. The first day 46 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 5: was a kind of chill, but then the next day 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 5: it was just like full on and the people started arriving, 48 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 5: and then you're on. Then you're on, you're on, You're on, 49 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 5: and it's like this crazy high. And then I think 50 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 5: that your body just like lets it all go, like 51 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 5: it just like crashes. But I also wasn't sleeping, Like 52 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 5: I didn't sleep because I was so excited, so like 53 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 5: I barely slept, So I'm like not sleeping I'm on 54 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 5: this like crazy adrenaline rush and then like it all 55 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 5: just hits you and it's like crazy. 56 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's not sleeping, Yeah, it's stress. It's not 57 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 3: eating much. 58 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 6: Yeah. 59 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 5: The day of my wedding, we were like in the 60 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 5: middle of the horror and I was like, if I 61 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 5: don't eat something, I'm I'm literally going to pass out 62 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 5: on the dance floor. Like and I was like, I 63 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 5: was like, everybody needs to stop talking to me, and 64 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 5: I need to eat for ten minutes, Like seriously. 65 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 3: It was fun. 66 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: Well, we're jumping ahead, we're jumping ahead. Let's start from 67 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: the beginning. So we flew to Mexico on Tuesday. 68 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 5: Yes, Becca flew with my husband and I, oh how 69 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 5: many times many times? 70 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 3: Am I gonna say husband this podcast, who was then 71 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: just a mere fiance? 72 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh, I flew because I wanted to help 73 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 2: with like dressing, you know, any of the stuff that 74 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: you need to help with. 75 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 5: I have to say, you coming out there the day 76 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 5: that you did with us was the best gift you 77 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 5: could have ever given me. 78 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 3: I was telling Haley. 79 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: I was like, I was so it was so special, 80 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: even like obviously anytime I have Hailey with me I 81 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: love it, But it was so specifically special getting to 82 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: have that time with both of you guys, like into 83 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 2: like just to myself because I knew as soon as 84 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: everyone got there, you're like mingling with everyone, so I 85 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: wasn't gonna have your full attention, And it was so 86 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: fun getting to like be there for those moments leading 87 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: up too. 88 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 5: It really was like the best gift you could have 89 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 5: given us, Like I and like you were there and 90 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 5: I like needed you there, like obviously I it's I 91 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 5: would have been perfectly fine if it was just Robbie 92 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 5: and I because he does all those things for me too, 93 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 5: But like it was so nice having like somebody there, 94 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 5: but also like you you know exactly like when to 95 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 5: give us space, and like you weren't you know what 96 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 5: I mean, Like we weren't together the whole time, like 97 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 5: you would just go to your room chill for a 98 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 5: little bit meet up. Like it was just the perfect 99 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 5: amount of being there but like not being like always there. 100 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. It was very weird, but it 101 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 3: was the best. 102 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 5: Like I highly recommend that if anybody's getting married and 103 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 5: they're doing a destination, like have your best friend go 104 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 5: out there the day or two before with you, because 105 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 5: it was the best, Like you helped keep me calm, 106 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 5: like all the things, what do we need to do? 107 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was fun, I think going also as a bride, 108 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: even just getting to your destination early on and getting settled, 109 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 2: because like once people started coming next day. 110 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 3: It was plan yeah, yeah, take off time. Yeah. 111 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 4: So everyone starts coming, people start arriving. 112 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 3: You gave me a look like here we go. Yeah. 113 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 4: But Wednesday night was pretty chill too. It was just 114 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 4: like family, so that arrived. 115 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, for the most part, there were like one like 116 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 5: maybe like one set of friends, and. 117 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: Then Thursday came. First of all, I was staying like 118 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:24,679 Speaker 2: so far away. 119 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 3: My room was so far away. 120 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 2: From Tanya, and we had tried to switch it because 121 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: we were like, oh, like you know, she texted her 122 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: person was like, oh cut we I want my mate 123 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 2: of honor closer, and I was like, I'm so far away, 124 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: but they weren't able to move us. And so I 125 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: got like ten thousand steps the day of the welcome party, 126 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: just going back and forth, roaming around, going and doing 127 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 2: I was like, dang, I hit my step goal today. 128 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: And there's documentation of me saying this on the podcast 129 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: that I was not going to drink that night, but 130 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 2: I had my speech, right, everyone of their speech is 131 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: the first night. 132 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 3: Nobody can do that sober? Yeah, many people can, but 133 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 3: I didn't. 134 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: I was like, I was like relatively sober when I 135 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: gave a speech, and then once that was done, I 136 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: I really exceeded my one drink, one shot limit that 137 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: I had given myself on the podcast. 138 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 6: It was a lot of drinking that first night, a 139 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 6: lot a lot, Like people were very drunk, very quickly, 140 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 6: because I'm very noticed when people get drunk, and like 141 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 6: I was saying, oh, hi, nice to see you, Like 142 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 6: they just got here and they're already a little bit off. 143 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 3: Was that one of those no, no, no, yeah. 144 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 2: When I saw you all first, I don't think I 145 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: was there yet, But I have to say, because everyone 146 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: keeps asking like how was Tanya, Like was she bride chilla? 147 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: What was her vibe? 148 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 2: Tanya was literally the most calm I've ever seen her, 149 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 2: And I was like, either internally there's just like shotspiring 150 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: left and right, and it's just subdued on the outside. 151 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 2: But I was saying, how when you see a bride 152 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: that calm and relax, It's it makes you feel like, wow, 153 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: like this is the right Not that I doubted that 154 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: you were doing the right thing, but it's almost like confirmation. 155 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: Like while she's so at peace and like even with 156 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: all the people coming in and there's so much going 157 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: on that's still happening, there was this like calmness to you. 158 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 5: I felt calm. Yeah, Like I was shocked at how 159 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 5: calm I was. 160 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 3: I was like, did you garden? Like what? 161 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 5: Like, yeah, I honestly I didn't, but like I felt 162 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 5: like I like took some sort of like chill pill 163 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 5: or something. Yeah, especially the welcome party because it was 164 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 5: like a little chaotic. I was like getting ready a 165 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 5: little bit to the last minute, which I don't. 166 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 3: Enjoy doing it. Yeah. 167 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 5: So I didn't even get to look at a mirror 168 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 5: before I left to go see everybody. I hadn't even 169 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 5: looked at myself in a mirror. It was literally like 170 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 5: putting my makeup on, put my they put my dress 171 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 5: on for me, and I didn't even look take photos 172 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 5: and then like out the door. 173 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 3: So I was like, can someone do I look? Okay, 174 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 3: what's going on? How do I look here? 175 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 176 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 4: You didn't need to look in the mirror. You looked amazing. 177 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so we we had the rehearsal before we 178 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: had the welcome party, and it was so sweet because 179 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: Tanya even just like coming down the steps with her 180 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: dad at the rehearsal, like there was already waterworks and 181 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: she would like lean her head back as to not 182 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: mess up her makeup, and she was like rushing her 183 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: dad because she didn't want to cry. She's like, Dad, 184 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: come on, I'm like Tanya, just soak it in and 185 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: she's like, I don't want to cry. Before the party, Yeah, 186 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: I was like walk faster, dad, like dracking him down. 187 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: So I'm curious what where like when you got to 188 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 2: the welcome party, what that felt like seeing because like 189 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: that was the first time where you got to kind 190 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 2: of see everybody arrive. 191 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 192 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 5: That's like the most i think overwhelming part of the 193 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 5: weekend because everybody's there to see you, right, so, like 194 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 5: everybody's there for you. Yeah, so you want to make 195 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 5: sure that you're giving saying hi to everybody, buddy, spending 196 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 5: time with everybody. You also don't want to be so 197 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 5: rude and like not engage so much with people, But 198 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 5: you also don't want to engage with someone too long 199 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 5: because you want to like see everybody. Yeah, and then 200 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 5: you don't want to rob and I didn't want to 201 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 5: leave each other's side. We wanted to like try and 202 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 5: do everything together, which is a fail. 203 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 3: But we did a pretty good job. Like we did. 204 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 5: That's eighty percent of the time we were like together. 205 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 5: But that first night was I think the most overwhelming 206 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 5: because I felt like that was like my first time 207 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 5: seeing so many people. So I wanted to like hug 208 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 5: everybody and like express my gratitude. 209 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 3: But it's like one hundred people. Yeah, it's a lot 210 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 3: of people. 211 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was. The setup was so beautiful. It 212 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 2: was on the sand. There were our tables were on 213 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: the sand. There was a Mariachu band playing. 214 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 5: Was it sinky sand or was it like hard sand? 215 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 3: I couldn't. 216 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: I've tried your heels for a second, and they went straight. 217 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 5: Through these My little little tiny, like pointy heel I said, 218 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 5: if you have like a thicker heel on, I. 219 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: Think people who had a thick keel on were fine. 220 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: I did not have that, so I just went barefoot. 221 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: I ended up going barefoot too, which. 222 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: Is great for my later on my later on actions. 223 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 2: Barefoot was best. 224 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 225 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 2: So then we got into speeches, and I requested to 226 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 2: go early on because I didn't want to go at 227 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: the end too much pressure. I get really anxious when 228 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 2: I speak in front of people if I'm reading something, 229 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: and I felt like, even though I could have I 230 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 2: can wing things and it could be good. I had 231 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 2: already done that for your bridal shower, So I felt 232 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 2: like it was important for me to like have intention 233 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: behind what I was saying. 234 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, your speech was so good. Oh, thank you. I 235 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 3: don't I blocked, I just I just got it was 236 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: a Taylor. 237 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 5: Swift quote they quote in there good friends. 238 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. 239 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 2: I saw Robbie crying. I was like, okay, I've done 240 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: my job here. My job here is done. 241 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 242 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 6: Well, we skipped a couple I don't want to, you know, 243 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 6: I'll give short shrift to some of these speeches because 244 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 6: Robbie's son was the first speech, and that was yeah powerful. 245 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: Well, so I did not want to follow him. I 246 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: was very stressed about following March. 247 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 3: He wanted to go first. He was like, can I 248 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 3: go first? 249 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 6: He should have gone last because he was probably the best, 250 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 6: but I mean he was really good. Yeah, yeah, it 251 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 6: was really really moving. 252 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 5: Oh he had to say, you know what's interesting what 253 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 5: I heard a lot from this weekend, different guests that 254 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 5: come up to me that came from divorced families. 255 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 3: Our whole wedding was like very healing to a. 256 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 5: Lot of people that grew up in like divorced, bad 257 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 5: divorce situations. I don't know, parent situations. Yeah, like it 258 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 5: was very healing. Like I had like two guests in 259 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 5: particular come up to me saying how they wished that 260 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 5: their step parent was like that they had what Robby 261 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 5: and I have in our like family dynamic and it's weird. Yeah, 262 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 5: I felt like it was like very healing for people. 263 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: I don't have that, and it was healing for me. 264 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: I don't come from from a stepparent situation. 265 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: And I was like this is just but yeah. 266 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 5: Like so he spoke at our at our bridal dinner, right, 267 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 5: and this was like off the cuff. Everybody was just 268 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 5: kind of like popcorn giving speeches and he was like 269 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 5: I want to say something. We were like what, like 270 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 5: you're ten and it was like so crazy. He did 271 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 5: such a good job and everybody was like blown away. 272 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 5: And so then he asked us, He's like, can I 273 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 5: give a speech at the wedding. We were like sure, 274 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 5: you know, like we didn't want to put that pressure 275 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 5: on either one of them. And so yeah, he like 276 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 5: wrote it. He had like three paragraphs and he just 277 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 5: delivered it. Yeah, just no fear. 278 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 3: It was so impressive and people. 279 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 5: Kept clapping and He's like, I'm not done yet, I'm 280 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 5: not done. 281 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 3: So cute. Yeah, it was really cute. 282 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 6: Robbie's dad we got to talk about. Yeah, he talked 283 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 6: about listening to the morning show and yes, and learning 284 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 6: about your cycle. Yes, and whether he's a backer or 285 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 6: a Tanya. Yes, very very He was great. And what 286 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 6: really impressed me about him he had nothing written down. 287 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 6: That was all off the top of anatomy. Maybe he 288 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 6: memorized or thought us with things today, but he was 289 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 6: so funny. Yeah, without any kind of notes or anything. 290 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 5: I agree, I was. I was very taken aback by his. 291 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 3: Speech. I did not expect it to be that funny. 292 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 6: It was really funny. 293 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 2: It was like one there was like one liner after 294 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 2: the next. Oh my god, was listening to him. I 295 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: was like, we're getting scrubbing in shout ouse. 296 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is wild, every kind of shout out. Yeah, 297 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: the cycles. 298 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 5: Robbie told me that his dad wanted to like clear 299 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 5: two of the jokes with him to make sure that 300 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 5: they were okay, and the cycle joke was one of them. 301 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: Your cycle is a huge part of our community because 302 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: like the amount of questions that I got my question 303 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 2: box about your period. 304 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 3: I was like, this is so funny. We'll get to that. Yeah, 305 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 3: obviously we'll get to that. We will get to that. 306 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 3: But yeah, it was really great. 307 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 2: Like all of Robbie's groomsman got up and gave like 308 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 2: like many speeches together, and Pauline and Raquel. 309 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 6: Pauline got me. At the end of her speech, he said, 310 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 6: t you did it right. That one got me. 311 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, hers was very emotional. Ryan was like sobbing at Paulina's. 312 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Pauline's really got Ryan. 313 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 2: Good. 314 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was shocked. 315 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 6: I mean, we'll get to that, but shout out to 316 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 6: Ryan just from the beginning, just Ryan really came through 317 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 6: this weekend. Yeah, phenomenal. 318 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 5: Yeah. 319 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you kind of forget until you watch other 320 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: people's reaction to him how huge of a deal he is. Yeah, 321 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: Like when he came for the rehearsal and everyone is 322 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 2: trying to act like cool and chill, and He's like trying. 323 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 3: To be normal, but like no one's acting. It's just 324 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 3: such a you know what. 325 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 5: I also want to commend, like I feel like nobody 326 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 5: really treated him so different then, you know what I mean, 327 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 5: Like there wasn't like a line of selfies. There wasn't 328 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 5: like you know what I mean, Like he was kind 329 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 5: of like just one of the one of the crew. 330 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just that. 331 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 2: Feeling that you you feel it if you know it, 332 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 2: where you can tell people are. 333 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, people differently when there's a celebrity in the room. 334 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 4: But once he settled in, Yes, it felt like he 335 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 4: was settled in. 336 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 3: But like nobody wanted to sit at our table with 337 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 3: us and him. 338 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 6: Like I was like, why is by himself? Food? 339 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 3: I was like, why isn't anybody else gonna sit here? 340 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 2: Well, I think that that when it's your table, it's like, oh, 341 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 2: his family sit I think there's kind of there. 342 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 4: I think that was a hesitancy more than it was Ryan. 343 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, I didn't know because we didn't have tables, 344 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 5: we didn't have assigned seats. The first night, it was 345 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 5: just kind of like first comfort serve, wherever you want 346 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 5: to sit. Yeah, but yeah, I guess that was like 347 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 5: the prime table, right. 348 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: And you never know, like he's a fan who's sitting 349 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: there right right, right right. I don't think it was right, Okay, 350 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: not that Ryan's on a huge deal. I'm just saying 351 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 2: I think that was more like being respectful. 352 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 5: But yeah, So like the speeches, and our whole thing 353 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 5: was we wanted the speeches the night before because we 354 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 5: didn't want we just want to party the next night. 355 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: We didn't want speeches at the actual reception, so we. 356 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 5: Did them all the night before. And I think it 357 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 5: was okay in terms of length. 358 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 6: Oh great, yeah. 359 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 360 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 6: By the way, I don't have a single complaint from 361 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 6: that entire weekend, whether it's sifty sand or hard sand 362 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 6: or the length of the speeches. I have zero complaints 363 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 6: from touchdown to take off. 364 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: Wow, that is nice. It was perfect, Like it was. 365 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: It was it. 366 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 2: I'm so happy it exceeded your expectations because I was like, 367 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 2: this is there's so much hype around this weekend and 368 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 2: like it's a destination and you can't predict things and 369 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 2: how things are going to go or how everyone's going 370 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 2: to interact, right, and it was it exceeded every expectation 371 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: that I had. 372 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 3: It was just so fun and everyone was so happy 373 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 3: for you guys and like, Okay. 374 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 5: So so after this, which is we had this plan 375 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 5: where we were going to like do the fireworks, but 376 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 5: they planned it for like a specific time, and the 377 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 5: speeches ended earlier than the time, so they were like, 378 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 5: can you vamp for thirty minutes? 379 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 3: And I'm like, maybe I. 380 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 5: Can, like sing my I have a husband, And I 381 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 5: was like going to maybe like do a little performance 382 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 5: and like sing that, and then she was like, okay, 383 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 5: actually it's ten minutes. So I was like okay, okay, 384 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 5: and so the whole thing was like Rob and I 385 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,680 Speaker 5: were gonna give a toast and then it was gonna 386 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 5: like the fireworks go off. I think at that point 387 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 5: I was like kind of drunk. Oh really yeah, tipsy, Yeah, 388 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 5: could you tell? 389 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 6: I could tell very dru. 390 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: I was really yes, Yeah, I didn't. 391 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 5: Even know you had to dream because you were three sheets. 392 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 393 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 2: No, I didn't go three sheets till we'll talk about 394 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: my three sheets. 395 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 3: But I didn't. I didn't go there till after my 396 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 3: speech because I was like, yeah, this was after all 397 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 3: the speeches, but. 398 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 6: I'm a little drunk. 399 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, oh you did say that. 400 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 5: I remember, Yeah, I was a little drunk at that point, 401 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 5: but that was pretty cool. Like I like, I was like, 402 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 5: I knew the fireworks wouldn't be cool, but like some 403 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 5: people were so excited about the fireworks. 404 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, when you go like five four three two 405 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 2: one in a fireworks launch over the ocean, it's pretty epic. 406 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 3: So we wanted them for this reception. Is it time 407 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 3: to take a break? 408 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 6: A fact? 409 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 3: Who a real cliffhanger. 410 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 2: We'll be right back, all right, that banger of a cliffhanger. 411 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 3: You were going to do the fireworks for the reception. 412 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 5: We were going to do them for the reception for 413 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 5: the wedding day, but because they go off on the beach, 414 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 5: we were like, maybe we do it for the welcome 415 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 5: party to make it be like the kickoff. 416 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 3: And I was like, great idea, babe. That was great. 417 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it made more sense since we were on 418 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: the beach. Yeah, because the reception was not in the. 419 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 5: Garden, the fireworks would have been like not right there. Yeah, 420 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 5: we were right there. 421 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 6: It was so cool. 422 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 7: It was like Disneyland level, like there was like giant 423 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 7: ones or and it went on for a while. 424 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 6: It was a great show. 425 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 3: Sixty seconds to be exact. 426 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, you pay for the minute. 427 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you can do. 428 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 5: You pay per minutes, so you can do sixty seconds, 429 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 5: ninety seconds, and then there's like one other. 430 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 6: That's good to know because I felt sixty seconds was adequate. 431 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean more than six no, no, no, I 432 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 5: was like, maybe spring for the three minute sessions. 433 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 3: I would have done in three minutes. Yeah, yeah, no, 434 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 3: it's good. It goes a good call. 435 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was perfect. It was so fun. 436 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 3: That's when stuff started getting weird. Oh weird. 437 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, but like people started getting very drunk after the fireworks. 438 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: I feel how we were like, oh, you know, people 439 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,959 Speaker 2: go so hard on the first night. Like I specifically 440 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to do that. Like, if anything, 441 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 2: I might just wait until the wedding to drink m M. 442 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 3: And Robbie too. 443 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 2: Robbie was, oh my gosh, I maybe had at least 444 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 2: eight tequila shots. 445 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: I also felt like there wasn't like Robbie's guests and 446 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 5: Tanya's guest It felt very much like it was all 447 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 5: just one big guest fest. 448 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 2: It was a guest fest. Yeah, and I celebrated. I 449 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 2: was just celebrating. I took a shot for every person 450 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,239 Speaker 2: who was there. No, I'm just kidding, Bet it was. 451 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: It was excessive and I didn't eat because I was 452 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: nervous about my speech. 453 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 3: So I and I had walked ten thousand steps that day, 454 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 3: so you were tired. I literally dehydrated. 455 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 2: All the things. It was bad, bad combo. So but 456 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:01,959 Speaker 2: I I had a great time, Like I had so 457 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 2: much fun. 458 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't remember what time we'd shut down that dinner. 459 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 3: I think we had it till ten. I think we 460 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 3: went till ten thirty. 461 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 5: Then everybody wanted to like after party, so they went 462 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 5: to the bar next door. 463 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 4: This is where things really took a turn for me. 464 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 5: I think, yeah, this is where things are taking a turn, 465 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 5: because everybody shot for the groom. 466 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, the groom needs to wake up tomorrow. 467 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 5: So then like people kept like Michael kept taking Robbie's shot, 468 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 5: like taking them himself, and I was like, yeah, but 469 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 5: that was very much appreciative because I was like, he 470 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 5: was so drunk that like one or two more shots 471 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 5: would have dub him in. Like he was like a 472 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 5: good drunk, like you know, didn't get sick anything. 473 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm glad someone. I'm glad Michael took the 474 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 2: took one for the team. Yah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because 475 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 2: that wouldn't have been good. Robbie seemed to find the 476 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 2: next day he was fine, totally fine. Yeah you However, I, however, 477 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 2: I have never been so sick waking up in my 478 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 2: entire I could knock get off the bathroom floor. The 479 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 2: next morning, I was like, I cannot stand up. I 480 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 2: felt like I was gonna throw up anytime I stood up. 481 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 2: I was like, Haley, I don't know what I'm gonna do. 482 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm texting contiers, like do y'all have an IV service? 483 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 2: And then I'm like it's gonna take too long. I'm like, 484 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: I gotta be at Tanya's to get ready. Haley goes, 485 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: why don't you just tell her you're not feeling well 486 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: and just tell her you'll. 487 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 3: Be there for the wedding. 488 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: I go to work, I'll just be getting ready and 489 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: then we have photos all day until the wedding. 490 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was like, I just I just have 491 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 3: to go. 492 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 2: So I'm I'm gonna get I packed my little bag 493 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: of all my stuff and I'm hunched over walking to 494 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 2: the golf cart. 495 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 3: He's driving me. 496 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 2: I'm like spinning in the golf cart. I get to 497 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: your room, I'm like, hey, go straight back to your bathroom, 498 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 2: lay on the ground. Robbie comes back, He's like, are 499 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 2: you okay? And I'm like no, I literally can't stand up. 500 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm gonna do. So I go 501 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,959 Speaker 2: and sit down at the window because I was like, 502 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 2: I can't stand to do my makeup, so I'm just 503 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 2: gonna like prop my phone up and act like oh, I. 504 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 3: Want to be in the room with everyone, and I'm 505 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 3: doing it. 506 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 2: Midway through getting ready, I get up, go and throw 507 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 2: up in the bathroom. 508 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 3: Wow. 509 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 2: I never say a single thing to Tanya. She's like, hey, 510 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: do you have blah blah blah? Do you have the playlist? 511 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, yeah. I'm like she cannot know and 512 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 3: I did not know. Yeah, I just power powered through. 513 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 3: I found out yesterday it was. 514 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: Self induced, so it wasn't like, oh, everyone's trying to 515 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 2: be like I think you got food poisoning. 516 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 3: I was like, no, you guys, this is called shots. 517 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 2: No. 518 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 3: So all day I would like have to take breaks 519 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 3: and sit down. 520 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 2: And the photographer had is zofran, which is like a 521 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 2: prescribed like for nausea, so that like saved me. But 522 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 2: like I was like nibbling on bread like I could not. 523 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: I was just like sucking down electrolytes as much as 524 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 2: I could, Like I all threw. 525 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 3: Up the day. I'd be like, I just need to 526 00:23:58,880 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 3: sit down. 527 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 5: I literally had no idea, Like you put on a 528 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 5: A plus acting. 529 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: Wow, thank you, well, thank you. 530 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 2: I don't know if I should be applauded. I should 531 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:13,239 Speaker 2: have never put myself in this position. But yeah, I 532 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 2: did the opposite of what I said I was gonna do. 533 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 3: Like in hindsight, I could maybe now see that you 534 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 3: were like a hair off, just. 535 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:26,159 Speaker 5: Quiet, a little quieter than usual. But I had no 536 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 5: idea you were on the bathroom floor. I had no 537 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:28,719 Speaker 5: idea you threw up. 538 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. Did you drink it all on Friday? No, even 539 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 3: the wedding, even the reception, Nope, not once of alcohol? Nope. 540 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 2: Why you didn't even know? 541 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 3: I didn't know. I didn't know. You asked me to 542 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 3: go get shots for us. I had them pour me water. 543 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 3: They had like a full performance, as if I had 544 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 3: taken a Wow. 545 00:24:55,640 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 2: No one knew, and I felt I had so much fun. 546 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this was great. 547 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 3: You can't without drinking present I like really took in 548 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: every moment. 549 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 2: I just also have to say that Tanya's reception setup 550 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: was one of the most stunning setups that I've seen. 551 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 3: It was like twinkle light tents. 552 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 4: Ahead of ourselves, of the ceremony. 553 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 3: Yeah no, yeah, So anyways, that was fine. 554 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 6: So we are at the morning of right now. 555 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, so now we're getting ready and I was actually 556 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 5: super chill during that whole process, Like I had my 557 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 5: hair shout out to David and my makeup Liz. 558 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 3: They were doing their thing. 559 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 5: Sophia was like locked in, Like she was so locked 560 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 5: in in terms of bridesmaid If I said, like I 561 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 5: needed anything, she had it in my hand within two seconds. 562 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 5: I was like, I need a hard bowled egg, ordered it. 563 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 5: I need salt ordered it, I need whatever, Like she 564 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 5: had it in my hand. I was like, I need champagne. 565 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 5: She ordered the most expensive shit. 566 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 3: We're going through the bill. Robbie was like, who ordered 567 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 3: the dom pair and yellows. 568 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 5: I was like, okay, god, so yeah, but anyways, like 569 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,239 Speaker 5: whatever I needed, she ordered it. 570 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 3: She was like there. Like she literally was like so 571 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 3: locked in. 572 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, and you all were, Honestly, everybody was like very 573 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 5: very locked in. But people like wanted to come, Like 574 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 5: my mother in law wanted to come in, like take 575 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 5: a photo with me. 576 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 3: Like I was like, cool, no problem. I went sat 577 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 3: in the bed, took a couple of photos with her. Goodbye. 578 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 3: My sister in law came in, wanted to take a 579 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 3: picture with me, took some photos. 580 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: Cool bye, Like I felt like, I was like, so chill, 581 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 1: so chill, yeah, so relaxed. 582 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 3: Like I was like, whoever, They're like, we don't want 583 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 3: to overwhelm Tanya. 584 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 5: I was like, who can everybody can come in whatever 585 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 5: they want, whoever you want. 586 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 3: I have my own little section. Yeah. I was chilling, 587 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: so chill, yeah, calm, peaceful. 588 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 5: I was panicked a little bit because I realized that 589 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,239 Speaker 5: both of our vows were on our phones, and I 590 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 5: didn't want the phones. I felt like reading them on 591 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 5: phones was like kind of tacky, but handled that situation 592 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 5: quickly sent them to our shout out Marjorie, our wedding planner, 593 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 5: printed them out. 594 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 3: Then what what came the first one? I missed something? 595 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 3: What you gave him? The photo? 596 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 597 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, the night before I did the morning of 598 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 5: our wedding, which I wish we had so because of 599 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 5: the night before we didn't go to sleep because the 600 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 5: first night was so fun. We got back to our 601 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 5: room and Robbi and I were like, Robbie showered, I 602 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 5: took a bath, and we were like chatting about the 603 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 5: whole night for like an hour. 604 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 3: We're like in the shower, in. 605 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 5: The bath, just like chatting, talking, like reminiscing, like, Oh, 606 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 5: what did you see? 607 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 3: What did you see? What do you think? What do 608 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 3: you think? So we stayed up till like three thirty 609 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 3: four in the morning. 610 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,679 Speaker 5: Wow, And my gland was coming to my room at 611 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 5: ten thirty the next morning, so I was like, we 612 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 5: have a very short window. 613 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 3: Oh no, my face was coming in at nine am. 614 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 5: So I was like a very short window for me 615 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 5: to give him this boudoir book. But I really wanted 616 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 5: to do it the morning of the of our wedding. 617 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 5: So I get out and I give him the book, 618 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 5: and uh, he loved it. He freaking loved it, like 619 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 5: he thought it was so beautiful, and he was like 620 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 5: where were He was like asking me out, where were you? 621 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 3: When did you do this? I was like my bachelor party. 622 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 3: He was like who did these photos? I was like 623 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 3: Becca and like everybody else was like doing the lighting 624 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 3: and the setting a scene, and. 625 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he loved it. Yeah, great gift idea great good 626 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, because you weren't. 627 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,959 Speaker 3: Sure it turned out great. He's like obsessed with it. Well, 628 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 3: keep that hidden in the drawer. Yeah yeah, yeah, but. 629 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 5: It was very well received and I'm so happy I 630 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 5: did it the way that I did. I did not 631 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,479 Speaker 5: need to spend three thousand dollars on that. 632 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 6: But also interesting, just for traditionalists listening, that you gave 633 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 6: him gifts the morning of the wedding. You slept together 634 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 6: the night before the wedding. You know a lot of 635 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 6: people don't see each other until you walk down the aisle. 636 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 5: Well, I knew we weren't doing a first I knew 637 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 5: we were doing a first look. Any I knew I 638 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 5: was going to see him before we walked down the aisle. 639 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 5: Just logistically, I was like, I didn't want to spend 640 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 5: after the ceremony. 641 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 3: I just wanted to be with everybody. 642 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 5: So I knew I didn't want to take a bunch 643 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 5: of photos after the ceremony. I just wanted to get there, 644 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 5: So I wanted to do everything before. So I already 645 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 5: knew weren't going to see each other for the first 646 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:31,239 Speaker 5: time down the aisle. So I was like, why did 647 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 5: I not want to spend the night before I get 648 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 5: married to my husband? 649 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 6: I get that? Yeah, just saying. 650 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 3: Modern woman over here, she does what she wants. 651 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 4: Andy started your period and then I got my period. 652 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 5: Wow, that's great the morning when the morning of my wedding, 653 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 5: literally wake up to my period? 654 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 3: Wow, what are the odds? It feels very own brand? 655 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 3: It does, but does the universe know my brand? Yeah? 656 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 3: That's why I give it to you? Crazy. I could 657 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 3: not believe it. I was like, are you freaking joking me? 658 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 5: But I'm glad at least I got it in the morning, 659 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 5: so I knew I had it instead of guessing all day, 660 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 5: and so like that felt nice. But let me tell you, 661 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 5: having your best friends walk you into the bathroom and 662 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 5: hoist your dress up while you're having to change of 663 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 5: bloody tampon is a level of closeness that I. 664 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 3: Never Yeah, I never never thought i'd know. 665 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, something special about that. 666 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 667 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, you were super, super calm, and I wanted 668 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 2: to get to the procession book the first look. 669 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 4: But first we're going to take a break, all right. 670 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 2: So you had talked to me that before this podcast 671 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 2: and on this podcast that you were doing a first look. Yeah, 672 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: because you wanted to save time after the wedding, so 673 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 2: you knew that you were gonna have that moment. 674 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 5: Yes, tell us about it, Okay. So I thought it 675 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 5: was so cute. And then another piece of advice for 676 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 5: bride's out there. Sophia really wanted to like watch the 677 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 5: first look, and then like Paulina and Becker were like, well, 678 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 5: we want to watch it too, and. 679 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 3: I was like, great, everybody should watch it. Why not? 680 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 5: Like everybody was like they were like shocked that I 681 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 5: said that they could come, and I'm like, we're not 682 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 5: going to notice anything but each other, And I'm like, 683 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 5: how cool. But I'm so glad you guys got to 684 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 5: see it because there's like videos. Ashley got video of 685 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 5: like us doing the first look and then she'd like 686 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 5: pan over and like my best friends are like wiping 687 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 5: their tears and they're like part of the moment. So 688 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 5: it was like really special that you guys got to 689 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 5: like be there and see that. 690 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 2: I've never gotten to do that before. I was like, 691 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: that was the coolest thing ever getting to be there. 692 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 3: We were like the photographers were. 693 00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: Like, you're in the way you're in, the ways that 694 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 2: we're just like uttering around, like tell us where to go? 695 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 5: He cried, of course, Yeah, it was so beautiful. 696 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if you really, like if. 697 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 2: You remembered what happened, but he Tonia taps him on the 698 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 2: shoulder and he turned around and he just like stares 699 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 2: at her, and it was like the sweetest moment. 700 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 3: He just like took you in. 701 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he just like looked at you and took 702 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 2: you your beauty in. And then I think, I don't 703 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 2: know what he said. I couldn't hear. 704 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 4: I wasn't that close, but they weren't miked up. 705 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 2: But it was like the most beautiful moment of watching 706 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 2: y'all see each other, like the way that you were 707 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 2: going to become like husband and wife, you know. Yeah, 708 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 2: So it was so special. Thanks for letting us be apart. 709 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 5: No, it was like, so I love that you guys 710 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 5: got to see it. So we did the first look 711 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 5: and then we went and just took like a ton 712 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 5: of photos of like family, bridal party all that, and 713 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 5: then before I knew it, it was cocktail hour and 714 00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 5: I was like, oh my gosh, like we're doing this, 715 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 5: like we're freaking doing this, and uh, Robbie came back 716 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 5: to my room. So it was me, Robbie and then 717 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 5: all the bridesmaids. Right, so all the bridesmaids, me and 718 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 5: Robbie in the room. I was like, I need some champagne. 719 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 5: And then I started get nervous like at that point 720 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 5: because I was like, it's like happening. And then they 721 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 5: golf carted us over and then I started to get 722 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 5: like really nervous because we were like there by the way. 723 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 5: I heard that the food at the Cocktail Hour was 724 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 5: really good. 725 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, so again no complaints. 726 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 5: Again, I heard it was the best food, that their 727 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 5: favorite was. 728 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 3: The food from Cocktail Hour was good. 729 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 6: What was it was? Was it lovedter taco. 730 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 3: Tacos, some sort of chicken something, chicken burgers? 731 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? 732 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 7: I saw Kennedy with a burger and I was like, 733 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 7: did she bring that in from somewhere else? You got 734 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 7: to hear all right, Yeah, I know. 735 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, even not partake, I've been happy to 736 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 3: miss out. Really. 737 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 2: Yes, we got to the place of walking down the aisle. 738 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and what were you. 739 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,839 Speaker 2: Feeling because it was like you saw your dad and 740 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 2: what we had just seen them for photos but it 741 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 2: was like the moment was approaching. 742 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 5: That's like the first time I got nervous all day 743 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 5: was like that at that point. So I'm like, how's 744 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 5: this going to go down? Like you know what I mean, 745 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 5: Like you rehearse it, but like I don't know, you 746 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 5: know what I mean? Like that was crazy. And then 747 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 5: I was like hearing the strings and that was started 748 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 5: to like make me really emotional. 749 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 3: So I was already starting. 750 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,439 Speaker 5: To cry, and I put the veil over my head. 751 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 5: It was really hard for me to see. Like I 752 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 5: had to like really focus on the stairs because like 753 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 5: I had like a staircase that went down, and I 754 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 5: really had to focus on the stairs. And my dad 755 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 5: is the one that ends up tripping and like almost 756 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 5: really going down hard. 757 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a little bit scary. 758 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 4: I couldn't see him, So what happened. 759 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,240 Speaker 6: Just to stumble on the left step but he caught himself. 760 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 6: But he caught it himself kind of he was a 761 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 6: parallel to the ground when he caught himself. 762 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:04,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it could have been really bad. 763 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 6: He went down pretty him up. 764 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 3: No oh, And I didn't go down with him at all, 765 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 3: I know, but you could have. 766 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,439 Speaker 6: Like that's that's what I'm saying, like there's a point 767 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 6: where he caught himself that if he hadn't caught himself, 768 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 6: they're both going, yeah. 769 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 3: It was bad. I didn't know that. I just I 770 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 3: thought you were going to catch yourself up. Yeah, it 771 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 3: could have been really bad. 772 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 6: And my first thing was that it was that a joke, 773 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 6: like was he doing a bit Like he was like, oops, 774 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 6: I almost fell but no. 775 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no no bit. 776 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 5: So he walks me up, and then I kind of 777 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 5: blacked out, if I'm being honest, but I was. 778 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 3: Going to ask what it was like walking towards Robbie. 779 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 4: But do you not remember? 780 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 5: I remember, I remember him coming. He took the veil 781 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 5: over my head, tried to kiss me. Yeah yeah, but 782 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,439 Speaker 5: yeah at that point I like kind of blacked out, 783 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 5: like I remember it, but like not. 784 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 3: Well I saw you. 785 00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,720 Speaker 2: So then uh, once Ryan told everyone to be seated, 786 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 2: the bridal party went and sat down, so we got 787 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:05,760 Speaker 2: to like watch, which I loved. Another thing for future brides, 788 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 2: have your bridal party stand there so they get to 789 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 2: see the bridewalk down the aisle and then let them 790 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 2: go and. 791 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 6: Then have a seat. 792 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 3: It was so nice. 793 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, otherwise you're up there, somebody passes out because they 794 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 6: got to yeah relaxed. Yeah, but one thing we skipped 795 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 6: over is every person who came down had a different 796 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 6: song to come down to that the String Quartet played. 797 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, and you chose all of those? 798 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, well Roby and I together, okay, yeah that was. 799 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 5: Actually and tandem. But yeah, we had Ryan go down 800 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:37,240 Speaker 5: to Cold Play Yellow, and then we had our bridal 801 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 5: party come down to the Bones Maren Morris and then 802 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 5: Beyond Leon Bridges with which are two songs that like 803 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 5: have a lot of significance to our relationship. And then 804 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,359 Speaker 5: we had the boys and Sonny walk down to Here 805 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 5: Comes the Sun was favorite. 806 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,560 Speaker 2: That was when I That was when I started the tears. 807 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, that one was that was special. And then I 808 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 5: came down to Invisibles. Oh Robi sorry, Robbie went down 809 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 5: to at A at A James at Last, Oh yes, yeah. 810 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 5: And then I came down to Invisible String Taylor Swift. Yeah, 811 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,720 Speaker 5: but the again I blacked out. But the violin violin 812 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 5: the strings were good, right, oh yeah, they were really good. Yeah. 813 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 3: I got reports that they were really good. 814 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: Well. 815 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 6: They also played like a track, like a drum track 816 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 6: under some of their songs like to make it just 817 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:25,840 Speaker 6: sound fuller. 818 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 3: Yeah good. 819 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. So then Ryan did his thing and he. 820 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,880 Speaker 6: Crushed it, crushed it, like, couldn't have asked for a 821 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 6: better performance for more. It was really phenomenal. 822 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 3: Perfect top to bottom. 823 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 5: Yep, Like his intro, we basically gave him like a 824 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,920 Speaker 5: little bit of like a script or like a flow 825 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 5: of the events, like kind of like intro vows, just 826 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 5: like the skeleton of the ceremony. And then we just 827 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 5: told him like you have total freedom to like do 828 00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 5: what you want with it. And he crushed it, like 829 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 5: top to bottom, crushed it. 830 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,800 Speaker 3: Knew when to like when we set our vowels to 831 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 3: each other, he like moved out of the way, like 832 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 3: stepped aside. Let us say our vows to each other. 833 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,400 Speaker 6: Like and people will say, like, oh, of course, Like 834 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 6: he is a TV host, he knows what he's doing 835 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 6: and all this stuff, but he's never done something like 836 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,360 Speaker 6: this before. 837 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,320 Speaker 3: No, he's never done this. 838 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 6: Totally different. 839 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 5: It's so different, especially you're a host, like you're supposed 840 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 5: to be in every shot, in every frame, and like 841 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 5: this is so different because it's like it's. 842 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 6: He's kind of the host, but he's not the star. 843 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 3: You too are Yeah, yeah, yeah. 844 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 6: But he was so funny and so charming and so 845 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 6: and sweet and kind and telling your story. I just 846 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,280 Speaker 6: I just thought it was a masterful performance. 847 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like really sentimental and like sensitive but 848 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,759 Speaker 5: also very funny and engaging. Like it was perfect, and 849 00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 5: like we didn't want a super serious ceremony. We wanted 850 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 5: it to be like lighthearted and like fun and people 851 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,720 Speaker 5: to like laugh, and. 852 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 3: He just like crushed it. He crushed it. 853 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 4: Emuel's vows. Yes, so you went first. 854 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 2: Had to go first, which we all could have imagined 855 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 2: that that would have been emotional, but it was so 856 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 2: perfect because it was so you, and it was like so. 857 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 3: Sweet and. 858 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 2: Beautiful, and also you were like laugh crying through most 859 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 2: of it, and it was just so perfectly Tanya. 860 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 6: Yes, because I couldn't talk because you were crying so hard, 861 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 6: but the people would laugh. 862 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, there was. 863 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 5: One point where I was just like, I have to 864 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,879 Speaker 5: say this fast because I had to just get through 865 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,160 Speaker 5: it because I, like, I was crying so hard. 866 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,759 Speaker 2: But the real, the real tear jerker is when you 867 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 2: turned to the boys and address them, which I think 868 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 2: would be where everyone cohesively lost it and didn't get 869 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,720 Speaker 2: it back after that point because you addressed. 870 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 3: The boys and to the boys. Yeah. 871 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she had she had asked me to proofread 872 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 2: the her vows on the plane, just to give any 873 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 2: any notes. 874 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, And when I got to that point, I was like. 875 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 2: Oh, this is where we're all gonna collectively go down. 876 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 3: And it was perfect. 877 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,720 Speaker 2: And I think that is what healed so many people 878 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 2: who have had, you know, negative experiences or divorce parents 879 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 2: or step parents. I think it was like this moment 880 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 2: that you've shown that to them, since you've been in 881 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 2: a relationship with Robbie and since you've been in their lives, 882 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 2: like you've shown that commitment to them. But there was 883 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 2: this like significance of everyone being there and you looking 884 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,959 Speaker 2: directly at them after making your vows to their dad. 885 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,319 Speaker 2: That like made it so beautiful and like. 886 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:47,280 Speaker 3: It was perfect. 887 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:48,359 Speaker 6: Yeah. 888 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 5: I feel like one of my friends said, she was like, 889 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 5: I grew up in a divorce household and they're like 890 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 5: the the parents kind of had like a lot of 891 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,520 Speaker 5: different people in and out of their lives, and she 892 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 5: she was like, I always felt like the step kid, 893 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 5: Like I always felt not committed to and not nurtured 894 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,880 Speaker 5: and not cared for. And like that was like really sad, 895 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,360 Speaker 5: you know, because like she still thinks of it today. 896 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 897 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 5: So I knew I wanted to include them and I 898 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 5: wanted to have vowels for them, but I didn't know 899 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 5: like if I should make them like a little funny 900 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 5: or like you know what I mean. 901 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 3: Like perfect though. 902 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was sin and it it was a moment 903 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 2: for y'all, but it didn't It wasn't like uncomfortable for them, 904 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 2: you know, it was. 905 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:31,680 Speaker 4: Just like perfect. 906 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 3: Yeah right. He was like they're like. 907 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,360 Speaker 4: But they were just smiling at you. 908 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,799 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was like, okay, we're I got you right, yeah, 909 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 5: and they're like dah, like okay. 910 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 2: So then Robbie gave his vowels and that's where I 911 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,359 Speaker 2: think Easton's contact came out. 912 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:50,800 Speaker 3: From crying too hard. 913 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I started sobbing and then and my eyes were 914 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 7: all blurry and then my right eye was much blurrier 915 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 7: than the other one, and I'm like, oh god, it 916 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 7: came out and I thought it had popped onto my sunglasses. 917 00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 7: I took it off and it was nowhere to be found, 918 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,240 Speaker 7: and I was quietly panicking, and uh then I nudged 919 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 7: Alison and she found it. 920 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 2: On. 921 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,279 Speaker 7: She found it in the dirt on the ground, and 922 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 7: we just see very very uh surreptitiously rinse it off 923 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,319 Speaker 7: with some bottled water and popped it back. But I 924 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 7: was like, oh man, this is this is a this 925 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 7: is a big, tiny moment. I cried my contacts out 926 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 7: watching this happen. 927 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 6: Something about guys crying is it's impossible to not cry 928 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 6: when you see a guy break down. 929 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, he broke down. Yeah he broke down. I guess 930 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 3: that's what it was too. 931 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 2: Like we knew Tanya was going to break down because 932 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 2: she told, like, we've known that that was going to happen, 933 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 2: and but even still, it was so like there was 934 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 2: something about it that was just so sweet. Even though 935 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,399 Speaker 2: we knew you were, like I expected you to cry, 936 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 2: it was still like perfect. 937 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 4: But then Robbie crying through the whole his whole vowels. 938 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:56,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had no tissues. My hands were like all 939 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,240 Speaker 2: like soaked. My whole face and hands were drenched because 940 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,240 Speaker 2: I just kept try to like wipe them and didn't 941 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 2: have anything to do with it. 942 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 5: Was I was shoving tissues down my dress, putting her 943 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 5: tissue into her cleavage because I was just like I 944 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 5: don't know what to do, Like it was just constant. 945 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 5: So then we went to break the glass and we 946 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,400 Speaker 5: had like the wrong type of glass out there. So 947 00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 5: there was like a five minute like it was about 948 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 5: like five minutes, I know what it was. 949 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 3: And then Ryan pronounced his husband, and what would. 950 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 6: You like to hear that? Oh? Yes, First of all, 951 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 6: here's a little taste of the strings that Tanya walked 952 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 6: down to. 953 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,399 Speaker 5: And they learned that too, like they learned those those 954 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 5: three songs, they learned beyond h the Bones and Invisible String. 955 00:43:56,400 --> 00:44:01,600 Speaker 6: And here is the moment, Tanya and Rocky, by the 956 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 6: love that has brought us here today, by the vowels 957 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 6: you have exchanged, and by the strength of your commitment, 958 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 6: I now pronounce you husband and. 959 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:24,800 Speaker 3: Crazy. It's so crazy, it's so crazy, So you'll do 960 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 3: like out of body. Yeah, I was gonna say. 961 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 5: I felt like I was like floating on top of myself, 962 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,319 Speaker 5: like looking down being like. 963 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 3: Oh wow, this is really cool. Like it was really crazy. 964 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 2: So y'all did a kiss at the altar when he 965 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 2: announced you really great kiss you. 966 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 6: Well that was funny too. They kept trying to kiss 967 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 6: and Ryan kept stopping that. 968 00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, every time you would come together and be 969 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 2: like like after. 970 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 3: The vows, yeah, it feels weird to kiss. 971 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 2: And then y'all did a mid aisle kisses which was stunning. 972 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 3: A dip a dip, a dip with a kiss, yeah, 973 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 3: and then y'all headed to pictures. 974 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 2: Yes. 975 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 976 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 5: So then basically everybody was so funny because we walked 977 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 5: out the way that everybody was like going to walk 978 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 5: out to the reception, and like everybody was like tea, 979 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,280 Speaker 5: Robbie like, go, you're gonna have to like see everybody. 980 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:15,800 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I want to see everybody. 981 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 5: Like I was like I just didn't want to leave 982 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 5: at that point, so I was like, I'll take five 983 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,120 Speaker 5: photos and then that's it. Like I was like, I 984 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,040 Speaker 5: just want to like get to the dance floor. So 985 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,440 Speaker 5: we took the photos on the beach and then we 986 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 5: went straight into the reception. 987 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 6: And I think we should maybe save the reception for 988 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,400 Speaker 6: a part too, because we're on pace for a two 989 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,280 Speaker 6: hour podcast. Oh my, you should break it up. Sorry 990 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:40,919 Speaker 6: to be that Guy? 991 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 3: Part two Wow, coming soon, So let's tea. 992 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 6: What else can we look forward to in part two? 993 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,360 Speaker 3: First dance? Yeah, what else? 994 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 4: No, the reception in and of it changing into a 995 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 4: second dress. 996 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 3: Yes, the logistics, food. 997 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 4: The drinks, the dancing, the band. 998 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 3: Is it over now? 999 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. Yeah, that was one of the highlights 1000 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 5: of my wedding. 1001 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,879 Speaker 3: Like we're going to talk about it, yeah, in part 1002 00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 3: two of this