1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: My daughter's school said her hair was unnatural, so they 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: tried to force me to diet to a different color, 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: but I refused, Am I the a hole? 4 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 2: Is it unnatural? 5 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Like? 6 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: How is it in a natural color? It is like 7 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 2: green or something? Maybe she has a magenta magentaaturally and 8 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 2: that is just criminally offensive. Yeah, you know, I remember 9 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: in high school I had like you couldn't you couldn't 10 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 2: dye your hair. You had to you couldn't have it 11 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: too long. Classic jesuit schools. It's all boys, jesuit schools. 12 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Slight side story my my sister's school there was they 13 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: had a bunch of like rules, like crazy like that. 14 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 2: They my sister shaved her head. 15 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: And they made her basically wear it turbin because she 16 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to have like a shaved haircut. 17 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 2: Why because they're stupid. 18 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: And then in twenty seventeen, one of the girls like 19 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: wasn't wearing a bra, so they made her like put 20 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: bandages on her nipples and then jump up and down 21 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: to see if she or like put a swimsuit on 22 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: to see if it like still like held it held 23 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: it in place or whatever. And then BuzzFeed found the 24 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: story and then ya blew it wide open. 25 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 2: Dude. Yikes, dude, that is so fucked. 26 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really bad. 27 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: Who decided to do that? 28 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: The thing is like like my sister's thing, stuff like 29 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: that happened all the time, but this one st I 30 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: mean that was really bad. 31 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: That's like that one got picked up egregious. 32 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: Well anyways, let's let's let's see what's going on in 33 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: this is this person's world. So my daughter female fifteen, 34 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: dyed her hair a dark reddish brown color for her birthday. 35 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: I didn't let her die her hair in middle school, 36 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: but I did say that she could die in high school. 37 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: The school has a dress code that just that specified 38 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: natural hair colors only. 39 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: Does that mean no dye or does that mean you 40 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: can die to any natural color? 41 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: One would suspect dyeing it to a natural color is suitable, 42 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: which also is just like it doesn't. 43 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 2: Matter, like hey, it's school's wants to conform man, no 44 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: individuality allowed. 45 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: And it's like like like I had a person that 46 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: I worked with, not at my company, but like as 47 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: another company. She literally had like bright blue hair, like 48 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 1: she changed her hair like every two months and everyone 49 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: loved it. 50 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: So it can be done. You can be accepting, And. 51 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: So I took this to mean that brown's blondes, reds, blacks, 52 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. Basically natural tones were fine. So 53 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: her natural hair is black, but I didn't think it 54 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: would be much of a change. The hairdresser did a 55 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: bleaching on her hair and said that it was not 56 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: lightened enough to cause a significant damage. 57 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 2: Right, because basically, if you bleach your hair, it can 58 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 2: cause damage if it's done too much. Yeah, So it 59 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: seems like it's the hair's gonna be good. Yeah. 60 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: But then one of the teachers in the beginning of 61 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: October last year began complaining to me during the parent 62 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: teacher meetings that her hair did not meet the dress code. 63 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 2: Are you really going to be that much of a stickler? 64 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: Like? 65 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: Who cares? Do you have? Like aren't there better things 66 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: to do like teach your students? 67 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: Literally, like like what like what benefit do you get 68 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: out of out of like doing it? And it's like 69 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: this one teacher pointed out, no one else cared. It 70 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: wasn't like the principal or anything like that. It's like, God, 71 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: I said, her hair color grew out of people's heads, 72 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: which is just like a hilarious way to like, the 73 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: hair color grows out of people's freaking skulls is natural. 74 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so why was that out of dress code? Well? 75 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: She told me it was clearly not her natural hair color. 76 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: And I shot back that tons of her students that 77 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: I saw that evening had blonde hair and highlights that 78 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: are clearly natural brunettes. 79 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: Good clot back. Honestly, keep that same energy. 80 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: Baby. She claimed that it didn't look like they could 81 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: be blonde, but my daughter's hair was definitely supposed to 82 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: be black. 83 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: Yo, what difference doesn't mean? What does that mean? God? 84 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: My daughter's Asian? Ah, here we go a little adults 85 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: of racism for you. 86 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: My daughter's Asian, So it's pretty racist to say that 87 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: she can't dye her hair. And I brought it up 88 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: with the principal, but he agreed with her, saying that 89 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: it was against the dress code. 90 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: Yikes, Yo, dude, you're just opening yourself up to a lawsuit. Yo, yikes. 91 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: Why are people so dumb? 92 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: But I saw tons of white kids in her class 93 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: with obviously brown hair that died it blonde and even red, 94 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: and no one said anything. 95 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: Shit, dude, shit. 96 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: They want me to darken her hair again, so that 97 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: way it looks natural. 98 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is so fucked bruh. 99 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: This was until the end of the school year. I 100 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: contacted the superintendent several times, but she never got back 101 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: to me. It's almost the start of a school year again, 102 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: and I get an email from the principal reminding me 103 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 1: that my daughter is only allowed black hair. Okay, so 104 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: you're telling me you're the principal of an entire school, 105 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: like probably at. 106 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 2: Least this is your top priority, hundreds of students. 107 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: And you some like I would like, I would forget that, 108 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: Like not A, I would never do that, but b 109 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: even if I ever did, or something like that, like 110 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: oh someone needs to get a uniform or something, I 111 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: would completely forget. 112 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that's like glast on my list of priority. 113 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: Literally, Yet you email out of the blue, unprompted of 114 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 1: your own volition and memory to do this shit. 115 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: What bananas. She still has. 116 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: Reddish brown hair and she does not want to die 117 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: it back. But I've tried to fight it, and the 118 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 1: last thing I want to do is barge into the 119 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: superintendent's office and demand she get involved. Honestly, at this point, 120 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: I think it's totally justified, like even though it's like 121 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: a quote unquote small thing, like like the hair color, 122 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: Like it's so ridiculous, yeah, that they're doing this. Yeah yeah, yeah, 123 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: it's just like also as as as the school, you're 124 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: opening yourself up to some fucking crazy shit. 125 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 2: Like if the internet got ahold of this, yo, they're 126 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 2: over alright over yeah living. 127 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: Someone commented Live in the US, go talk to the 128 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: ACLU about your daughter's rights being infringed upon because she's agent. 129 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: Now you'll get a fat payoff. Bruh. 130 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: Literally just like I would want to go, Like I 131 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't even necessarily like want pay I mean, hey, payout's great, 132 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: but like I would just want to make all these 133 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: people suffer and just like email all all the big 134 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: outlets and be like blast yeah, blast this, blast this story, 135 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: and like make sure none of these people have a 136 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: career over again. That would damn John's going to the 137 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: nuclear Yeah oh yeah, I not a career over again. 138 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: But just like I want to embarrass this shit out 139 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: of you because it's like just sit for two seconds 140 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 1: and use your brain. 141 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: That's all you got to do. And it's just like 142 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: also use your brain on other stuff, Like there's so 143 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 2: many other things that are way more important than this, 144 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 2: and this is what you choose to like stick in 145 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 2: the ground and like claim ownership over, like like this 146 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: is what you're like choose to to really care about. 147 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: I bet, I bet there's so many programs that could 148 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: use this kind of involvement. Yeah, at the school, but 149 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: yet the principle is like worried about this. 150 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: This girl's so dumb, so dumb. Bit