WEBVTT - Ep. 25 "Sex Escapades" feat Zola 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:06.400 Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:12.959 who talked back, Good morning to you. How you said 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:15.560 that ship The other day as they getting morning to 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:25.080 you were, Oh, that's one of my favorite fucking comedy tours. Man. Look, 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:26.720 I wish I was old enough to actually go to 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.040 one though at that time, you know, not me, because 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:31.400 that means we'd be fifty. We'll be in our fifties 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:36.040 right now. Granny Official, Granny Pussy Facts. Hey, y'all, it's 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:40.199 Tam Bam and it's a j and this is we 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:43.680 talk back again, right and we thank you guys for 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:47.320 tuning in for a new episode. We got some special 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:49.479 good ship going on. You know, we'd like to have 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.920 guests and our showing ship and we love guests that 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:56.480 pop d pussy and this guests pop day pussy. So 0:00:56.600 --> 0:01:02.080 look y'all, this week we have Zola. Y'all remember Zola Um. 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.600 She had that a hundred and forty eight thread tweet 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:08.480 telling the story about how she went on a trip 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:11.680 with some white girls she met at her fucking job 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:15.240 at Hooters, actually her second job because she wasn't dancing 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:19.400 at the time, and they basically went on the ocation. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:27.120 They actually went on a dance trip. Look, but we 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:28.920 have her on the show this week to talk more 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:32.200 about new movie just came out last week. If you 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.680 guys hadn't seen it, Zola the actual name of the 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:37.240 movie as well, watch it. It's fun. It's fun, little, 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:43.120 it's But before we get into that interview, I want 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:45.880 to go over some of this week's stupid ship on 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:53.080 the internet. Okay, where a girl. I am so sick 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:59.960 of these people playing without Auntie Felicia Rashard. These kids 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.280 don't know who she is. That's the problem. They do 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:07.040 not understand the significance of Felicia was shod Like, you know, 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.600 aside from the ship that Bill Cosby was accused of 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:15.200 and essentially not convicted of, Felicia was shot and Bill 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:19.560 Cosby is like living legions America's dad to Black Americans, 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:21.560 dad Niggers who ain't have no daddy in the house, 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:24.560 like they could watch the Cosby like a different world, 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:27.320 Like he created a different world and that made people 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:30.160 want to go to college and even shed a lot 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.680 of light on Howard University. He wore all the different 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.800 colleges on him, like he would wear a different Black 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:41.119 university on his chests every episode, sweatshirts, exactly, a man 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:44.720 that's really for the culture. Like I'm happy Bill Cosby, 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:50.680 I don't care how nobody. I don't care exactly because 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.520 with that, with him going to prison and then violating 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.919 his rights that way, you know, basically lying to him 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:59.640 to try and get some not even a real confession, 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.040 just like yeah I did that, but like that could 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:05.000 happen to any one of us, Like the judicial system 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:11.440 could literally create a murderer, create a rapist. They've they've 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.960 been doing it to us since forever, forever, exactly like 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:16.920 Nigga's been going to jail for ship. They can't do 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.679 all the time. Look at the movie Life. Life is 0:03:19.720 --> 0:03:23.560 a perfect example of niggas going to jail for ship 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:27.480 that they don't even do. Girl, these goddamn um what 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:29.839 do these people call? These Generation X and who else 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:34.359 people after us generate gen Z Like they oh it's 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:37.400 not gen xtually right gen Z. They don't know nothing 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:40.640 about none of these fucking movies, So we can't expect 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:43.120 much from them. But the mob rule type ship like 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:47.640 culture people, yes, can get together side your faith and 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.880 forced exactly forced the d A to come fist and 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:53.960 charges on your ass right quick, because they feel like it. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:58.320 And to me, cancel culture is just a representation of 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:01.520 a bunch of haters who can't figure their fucking life out. 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.240 So let me pull this person who's up here down 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:07.520 back to my level. That's how I feel like cancel 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.160 culture is because people do not get any grace. Now, 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.800 you don't have any grace to fuck up. Meanwhile, they 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:15.640 might be at home doing the same ship. They're on 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:17.960 the internet trying to cancel somebody. And the only people 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.040 who get canceled as the people who everybody watching. You 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:22.920 can have your cousin doing the same ship. You don't 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:24.960 give a funk about your cousin doing it, but you 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:32.159 want to cancel heart exactly. Felicia Richard was celebrating a 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:36.640 lifelong friend coming home for prison. I'm pretty sure, Pooky, 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:38.440 all of niggers who do not did all the dirt 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:41.400 in the hood, they come home from all type of 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.080 ship letting on your family member, like what the fund 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:48.000 is wrong with? You're crazy, Like I'm so sick, I'm 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:57.400 so yeah. Yeah, we're calling you stupid, so canceled. He's nuts, man. 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:09.000 Let's get into the show. Welcome to we talk back 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.360 I'm Tam Bam and this is a j and we 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:17.000 have a super special guest on we talked back today. 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:20.880 We have the lovely Asia King. Do you go by 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:27.000 Asia Zola? Okay Zola? And she's basically famous for a 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:32.200 hundred and forty eight tweet tail that went viral. But 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.200 we thank you, thank you, thank you for pulling up 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:37.840 on us. Of course, thank you for having me. Um. So, 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:41.880 I mean there people have been living under a rock 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.440 for the last I don't know six years or so 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.800 with the six years now, so if you were living 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:52.719 under a rock in the movie Zola came out yesterday 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:57.560 June thirtieth, and it's based on um a young woman 0:05:57.720 --> 0:06:08.320 Zola who meets a white bitch and gonna dancing trip right, Um, 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.120 tell us a little bit about what was the process 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:15.200 for what made you tweet? Yeah, what made you tweet 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:18.320 the story five years ago? Whatever? I was scrolling through 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:21.600 my phone and a picture of us from earlier that 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:25.760 year popped up, and I was like, i'llow to tell 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:29.640 Twitter about this che like so stick of it. So 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.600 I just went to Twitter and like, you know, just 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:36.520 just really let him have it. Question, did you ever 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:42.200 see Stephanie after the movie, um no, and I well, yes, 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:45.720 but not immediately after. So when after I went home, 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.360 they got in trouble. They did exactly what they did 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:53.719 in Florida in Vegas, but like less. I mean, it 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.719 wasn't smart how they did it in Florida either. I 0:06:55.800 --> 0:07:00.680 was gonna say less smart, but you know, just more 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.559 like out in the open with it in his brain. 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:08.599 Prostitution is legal in Vegas in his brain. But you know, 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:11.600 he's not the smartest, so he doesn't understand like yes 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.160 and no, like where your papers, where do you work? 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:17.320 What is your Like? Vegas don't play with you. He 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:20.840 went to Vegas thinking that, and they got arrested and 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:24.840 she called me the next day. It was like she's 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:28.480 in jail, Like I'm like, who is this? Like what 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:32.400 am I supposed to do about that? And yeah, so 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.040 I have just found out that they were a jail 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:35.680 hung up on around my place stupid. I'm like, I 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.040 don't know who you're looking for, but they're not over here. 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:42.720 And yeah, he went to prison. She played victims, she 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:46.920 was forced, she was kidnapped. She didn't know all that. 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:52.120 And that was the end of our communication. And then 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:57.640 the following year when everything came to she tried to 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.840 sue me for defamation of character. To court, she said 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.080 that I outed her as a sex worker and that's 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:07.400 why she can no longer have custody of her daughter. 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.000 I'm like, it doesn't work like that. Lots of sex 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:16.080 workers or moms try, nice, try, but yeah, so then 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:20.320 after that I've been she I'm good. So so how 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.920 does that work with having a movie including her in it? 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:27.440 How does that work with her suing you for defamation? Like? 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:33.720 Is there any like it? No? Like she's not very smart, 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.199 so I don't that shouldn't have been the charge. Maybe 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:40.120 if she wanted something, because right, there was no proof 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:45.080 in that. And then after the case, she signed documents 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.679 stating she will never bring up me or this movie 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.400 ever again. So let me be careful when you sign things. 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.000 Why I went because I was like, I'm not she 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:56.040 doesn't have a case. I'm not going to court with 0:08:56.600 --> 0:09:01.160 right to to crow this witch. And they're like, well, 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.199 if you go to court, we're gonna have her sign 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.800 saying that she'll never do this sin. I was like, okay, 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:12.400 let's go. So, so you're the executive producer, right, how 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:15.240 I'm boring? Was that for you to make sure that 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:18.360 you have full control over your project, because I mean, 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:21.160 you're a good as writer. Like I knew The Ship 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:25.520 was a movie before the movie came out, you know. Um, 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:31.200 that part of it was actually um Janni's influence because 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:34.040 I didn't really know like what to ask for really. 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.000 I mean, yes, I knew I wanted control, and I 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:41.000 don't have my writer's credited obviously, but um, any deeper 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:44.880 than that, I didn't know, like this was my first rodeo, 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:47.680 so to speak, so I didn't even really know what 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:50.520 to ask for. So that was really her. She was like, yeah, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.160 we're gonna we're gonna get you that as well. And 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:55.440 I was like, okay, girl, you know what you're listen, 0:09:55.880 --> 0:10:00.840 go ahead. Yes, how did you and Jeniqu's to get connected? 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:04.560 Like how did y'all winke up? A four brought her 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:08.160 and she went through the whole audition process to direct 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:10.640 the film when we didn't have one, um because our 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.640 initial director you know, he had to step down, and 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:17.520 so um, yeah, she was just she auditioned, she went 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:22.560 through the through the process, and they brought her on 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.920 and then that's when our relationship really started. She would 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:28.040 call me and she was face timing me all the 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:31.360 time we had you know, we went through the whole 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:35.920 weekend in detail, and she would ask those random questions 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:38.199 that I don't even didn't understand at the time how 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.360 they even made sense to the story, like well, what 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.480 did you eat for breakfast? And like you know, stuff 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:47.559 like that, what was the weather? Like, I'm like, let 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.600 me think four years ago, what was the weather? Like, oh, March? 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:54.560 It Like, I don't know, but you know, our relationship was, 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:58.040 you know, began like that. Did people immediately start reaching 0:10:58.040 --> 0:10:59.760 out to you after the tweets or it's just like, 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.280 what was that? What was it? Like? The time I'm 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:06.520 leading up to them, it was such a long, long timeline. Um, 0:11:06.640 --> 0:11:10.520 the next day after everything, I was getting emails and 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:16.160 clause and all that, and I went with well after 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:19.199 the Sorry, at the beginning, I didn't go with anybody. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.840 I um, we were just all in conversation and there 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.199 was w ME talks. There was you know a lot 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.719 of production companies reaching out, but I didn't go with anybody. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.320 That's how it happened. And then when James Franco reached out, 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:33.839 he was like, we don't want to get to know you. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.439 I want to meet you. We have to do something 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:40.160 with this, and my mother who's my manager, and myself 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:43.240 we flew out to l A. And this was within 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.080 the same time, so maybe a week you know, of 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:49.920 of the tweets and we flew out met him, talks. 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:52.800 We didn't really talk business at that point. We just 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:54.720 kind of, you know, got to know each other. And 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:58.240 I came back home and that's when we decided we're 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:01.800 gonna go with Franco. So that was right after the tweets. 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:06.160 Then maybe a year or two later, he has to 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:10.040 step down, so and there was a there was a 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:13.600 draft already, a script already you know, written up, and 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.280 it wasn't the best I could have been because there 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:20.400 were no black women in the writer's room, could have 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:23.240 been because there were no sex workers in the writer's room. 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:26.240 So it was turning into one of those situations where 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:32.040 none black respectives are telling a black experience and it 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:37.679 just wasn't at all. And so I think just divine 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.160 intervention because when he had to step down, his writer's 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:45.840 had to go with him, and I was like, next time, 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:50.719 next time. So yeah, that happened, and now we're three 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:54.960 years in and then to four comes into the picture. 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:59.560 Um comes into the picture, Jeremy comes into the picture 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:05.760 of oppers script as being written, and yeah, Taylor came 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.840 on board. And then she actually she had the original 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.880 script too, and she even said herself like I did 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:12.720 not I was not doing this. I was like, yeah, 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:16.800 like I wouldn't have either. So yeah, then now here 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:19.520 we are six years later. She did a really good job. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.760 She did a really good job playing you. She did 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:27.280 you have any role in picking the cast for the movie? No, 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:33.720 the casting director she she nailed it, but um, we did. 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:38.160 Taylor specifically did ask for my blessing. She called me 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:42.400 before she you know, really agreed and I was like, yes, 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:43.880 but I had already you know, I don't know if 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:47.000 you were on Twitter at the time Twitter was making 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:50.880 they were creating casts like they were making it. There 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:54.560 were so many with her picture, and so from day one, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.440 I was like, you know that actually, like that makes sense, 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.720 especially compared to everyone else. I mean, like, who else 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:05.800 really is there? I mean, and all the girls that 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:08.600 had auditioned. I mean, I know KIKEI Palmer audition like 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:15.240 love you not thank you, um, you know, Noe Cravis audition, 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:19.400 which was crazy like ten shades too white, but again, 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:22.640 thank you, and so Taylor, it was just a no 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:26.960 brainer for me. So was there anything that happened that 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:29.760 wasn't depicted in the movie that you wish that it was? 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:33.840 M M. I mean, you can only fit so much 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:37.400 into into this much time, and that weekend was was 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:39.960 dragged out. I think all the key points are there. 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:43.760 I do wish the little fact, but it's fine. I 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.720 guess I'll just explain it. Because everyone always acts like, 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:51.360 you know, they assume I could have left sooner or like, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:53.840 you know, maybe that part of it wasn't clear. But 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.360 when I first got there, like he took my phone, 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:59.680 he took my I D he took my money, I 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:02.920 did to have any of my things, took my house key, 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:07.120 like he took my my things. And so it's like, 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.400 at what, at what point I'm going to run out 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:14.400 with what? Like where am I gonna go? And then 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:18.200 when he gave us those bunder faults from Walmart? M hm, 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:21.480 the um he he got two of them? What was 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.360 for her? Woman's for me? And he's like anytime they ring, 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:26.200 just answer, guys are gonna come up whatever. I'm like, okay, cool, 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.920 Well he left it up to us to set them up. Like, 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.160 He's like, these are the numbers, just set up the phones. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.640 I'm like sure, But the whole weekend I just wasn't 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.920 wouldn't set my phone up. So she set hers up. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.440 So obviously her phone's ringing and guys are falling, they're 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.440 coming up, but I just never set my phone up. 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:44.040 And so he would come up and check and he 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:47.320 was like, you still haven't gotten any calls. I'm like, no, no, 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:49.920 it's just won't ring. And so he went to the 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.880 Walmart like four different times trying to get a different 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:55.120 I'm like, y'all are so still uncle, I'm getting home 0:15:55.280 --> 0:16:01.600 just fine. Like dollars so dumb. So I just wish 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:04.680 that maybe we would have show just how dumb, just 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:08.960 how you know. Not there they were, but I think 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:12.360 I think the energyce there. I think you give it. Right, 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.160 So she took that forty dollars to a whole another 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.360 level based on the movie Get a hundred and fifty 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:20.920 for the first one, right, yeah, God damn not some 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:24.560 cheap pussy right what I was like, absolutely not, we 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:28.360 can't do this. So question being a sex worker, is 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:32.200 it hard to have like a healthy relationship outside of 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:37.760 your job? Yes and no. It's like, I don't know, 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.560 it's a it's a fun line, like because it's you'll 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:42.880 you'll find someone and they'll be like, oh, I'm comfortable 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:45.800 with it, like they so they think and then once 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:49.800 y'all get deeper into the relationship, they're like, are you 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:53.440 ever gonna stop? Do you think you're gonna like like, no, 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.440 we have a podcast. People may consider this sex work 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:02.680 because we talk about sex many sex work. Are you 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.280 ever gonna quit the club? Like no, I don't even 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:07.960 work at the club anymore, but if they call me 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:12.840 for a one night only, I'm going, you know, you 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:17.919 supplement all this income, like come on out, so it 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.800 gets there. You you think that it's you know, working out, 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:25.160 and then that ship happens, so I guess it is. Yeah, 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.280 look seeing in a movie with all of its like 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:33.280 all these different favorites, it's like my favorite because I 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:35.720 feel like if you maybe if you if you aren't 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:40.520 as sex positive, or if you haven't seen that many, 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:42.520 or if you don't work in sex work, you just 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.439 cannot find them. How many I'm listening. I gotta thing 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.840 for short men. I like short men right because I 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:51.120 always say short men got the biggest dicks work the hardest. 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:54.359 They just be like overall better men. So what do 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:58.920 you think taller, taller, short, who got the bigger, bigger dicks? 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:07.720 Maybe sure it's the short like stocky one. I love 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:12.320 a pet bowl. That funny man. That scene. It was 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:14.760 so many different dicks. It was like little dick, yeah, 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:18.800 small round dicks, grenade dicks, like it was so many 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:21.920 different I appreciated that because I don't feel like they 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:28.520 movies always show women's bodies, never show men's bodies. Just nuts. 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:38.040 It was just big nuts. Yeah. That was crazy about 0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:41.600 the film, Like it's a stripper film about sex work, 0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:45.520 and you saw no titties, you saw lots of dicks, right, 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.359 so all right, has it ever been someone like you 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:53.679 were dealing with where you there? Dick came out and 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:56.480 he was like, yeah, no, I'm not gonna be able 0:18:56.480 --> 0:18:58.280 to touch that dick. I don't want no parts of 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:02.439 that dick. And if so, why in in like just 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:06.760 regular dating life, yes, And it was just who he 0:19:06.880 --> 0:19:10.400 was too hairy. It was this interesting smell. I wouldn't 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:13.119 even say it was a bad smell. It was just interesting. 0:19:13.600 --> 0:19:16.720 It's like, yeah, I'm good on that, Like actually oh 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:19.800 my god, I think I think my period is here. 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:30.080 Actually actually, whoa, my mom's calling me. But when I'm working, no, 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:33.960 because I put myself in this other type of headspace. 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.080 I'm like, I'm at work, Like it'd be like your 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:38.880 boss coming and throwing a bunch of papers on your 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:42.160 desk and you're like, actually, I'm sick, I'm gonna go home. 0:19:42.560 --> 0:19:44.480 It's like I can't do that. I'm at work, Like 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:46.800 he can't whip it out, and I'm like, actually it's ugly. 0:19:46.960 --> 0:19:49.480 Never mind, like it's already money in my hand. We 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:55.040 already here. No, just I'm at work. I had to 0:19:55.040 --> 0:20:01.600 throw that ugly dig back. I'm so let me ask 0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:05.920 you this. If you could give young girls coming into 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:10.080 the sex work game advice, what would that be? Oh? No, 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:14.879 they're worth and set boundaries and just don't overstep up. 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:17.000 Like I know when I was working, even when I 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:20.919 was just dancing, I had a strict like my boundaries 0:20:20.960 --> 0:20:23.919 were like that for a reason, Like it's almost like 0:20:23.960 --> 0:20:27.879 my cheat code to to what I'm doing. It's like 0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:30.920 I can't accept anything less than this. If you say 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:33.480 you're not gonna do something, really don't do it. Just 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:36.480 set boundaries for yourself and follow them or it's your 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:41.560 sp your standard operation procedures. Literally, it's like there's no way, 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:44.720 you know, I can't go, you know, go go away 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:47.640 from these rules. I can't deviate from what I said 0:20:47.680 --> 0:20:51.439 for myself. Um, it's about the money. It's focus on 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:55.040 the money when girls get into sex working. I understand 0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:58.280 it too. You know, many layers to the conversation. But 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:01.320 confidence is key, right. You wouldn't be here if you 0:21:01.359 --> 0:21:05.040 were not confident enough to to do so. So just 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:10.040 lean on that confidence, making your money and go home. Yeah. Well, 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:11.960 I mean as we talk back, we're happy to know 0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:14.879 that for the most part, you had agency over your 0:21:14.920 --> 0:21:17.760 body and what you wanted to do. You know, of 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:22.600 my voice and my sexuality. There's what else do I 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:26.480 really own? You know? So I say what I say, 0:21:26.640 --> 0:21:30.040 this is what you're doing, now, what you got going on? Now? 0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:34.320 I'm just this has been six years into making, so 0:21:34.400 --> 0:21:38.280 this has been like my baby, just like here, and 0:21:38.320 --> 0:21:41.360 so now that it's here and it's out, I can, 0:21:41.400 --> 0:21:44.720 I guess focus on other things. I still write, I 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:47.840 write music, I have the e p all. I'm still 0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:50.960 a sex worker. She's on only fans, Okay, she's still 0:21:51.000 --> 0:21:56.200 getting getting her point virtual you know. Um, And that's me. 0:21:56.240 --> 0:22:00.320 I'm trying to get into certain writer's room because I 0:22:00.320 --> 0:22:03.320 would love to put my input on on a lot 0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:05.760 of projects and a lot of black experiences that I 0:22:05.800 --> 0:22:10.359 feel inspired by that I've had. So I'm just taking 0:22:10.359 --> 0:22:13.480 it to day at its time. I'm open. I'm open 0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:18.080 to so many things. So we have this segment called 0:22:18.440 --> 0:22:24.840 dumb Bitch story. Right once or twice in our life, 0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:29.040 do you share you share a moment where you feel 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:39.040 like you got played aside from this movie, let me think. Okay, 0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:43.359 it was this one time I did at I was 0:22:43.400 --> 0:22:46.200 at some club at home and in the city in Detroit, 0:22:47.359 --> 0:22:50.120 and this is my first time danced at this club. 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:52.840 I usually danced at the white clubs because I'm making 0:22:52.920 --> 0:22:56.040 less money. Whatever, it's it's levels to it. But I 0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:58.639 was dancing at this black club for the first time 0:22:59.480 --> 0:23:03.680 and they did full new dances, like on the floor. 0:23:03.800 --> 0:23:06.280 I didn't I didn't know that. I was like, okay, 0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:08.840 because usually you gotta go in the back or you know, 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:12.720 pay for pay for private dance whatever. So I'm like, okay, sure, 0:23:12.840 --> 0:23:15.560 I guess, so I'm giving I'm doing this one full 0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:18.159 of new dance and my dumbass I know, maybe I 0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:20.200 had just been drinking too much, like I didn't get 0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:23.520 my money beforehand. I'm like, how many songs you want? 0:23:23.560 --> 0:23:25.520 He's like like four. I'm like, okay, cool, So I'm 0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:27.800 you know, I'm dancing. I'm keep at tracking the music. 0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:33.320 So by like the fourth song, I turned around, it's 0:23:33.320 --> 0:23:35.960 not even it's somebody else staying behind me. And I'm 0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:39.560 like and I'm like wait a minute, and I'm butt 0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:42.520 ass naked, just just dancing in front of whoever the 0:23:42.560 --> 0:23:45.719 funk this is. So I'm like, where'd your friend go? Like, 0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:47.800 where did your friend go? He was like, oh, girl, 0:23:47.840 --> 0:23:51.040 he left, but go ahead keep. I was like, oh, hen, 0:23:51.160 --> 0:23:53.200 I was snaking a snuck out on me and I 0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:55.920 was dancing like I'm putting my whole heart and so 0:23:56.200 --> 0:23:59.520 into it. Ain't got no clothes on. Well yeah, he's 0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:03.000 about to get this money. Yeah, and around it gone. 0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:11.040 It's like never again again ever since then. I'm like, yes, 0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:16.520 so how many right your own room? I got a 0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:21.880 whole bo go off that ass. So yes, It's like no, 0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:29.000 I was really dancing, so all right. There was a 0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:32.919 scene in the movie that wasn't in the tweets where 0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:37.439 y'all went into this um building and it was a 0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:41.199 lot of men and she got down on her knees 0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:44.600 in that scene. Did that really happen or was that 0:24:44.640 --> 0:24:48.439