1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show, 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Julia is on the phone today and she's been with 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: her husband John for three years, but now she thinks 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: he might be being unfaithful. So we're going to see 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: if we can find out if he is. We try 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: to catch him in a few minutes. But first, Julia, 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think your husband's cheating? 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: You know, we've been together for you know, like three 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: years now, we've been marriage for three years at least, 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: have been been together for much longer. But I just 11 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 2: I've noticed lately we've just been arguing like constantly, like distickering. 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: I just feel like we're not really connecting. And he's 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: never around, he's always at work, he never really has 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 2: the time to even prioritize Mechelleen. We never spend time together, 15 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: we never even actually talk, and I just feel like 16 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: something's off. You know, you just know, it's like an 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 2: instinct where you just have a feeling that something's not right. 18 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: And what I what I worry about is that he's 19 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 2: he's a super close relationship with my sister Aaron. So 20 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: John and my sister Aarin have been friends forever. 21 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: And do you think it's a sister, your sister. 22 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to say that, Yes, I think it's 23 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 2: I think it's my sister. And they text constantly, Like 24 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 2: I've said, they were friends before we even got together, 25 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: and it just it feels all so suspicious to me. 26 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: It just doesn't feel right. 27 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 3: That's quite a leap, though, to assume that it's your 28 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 3: sister spending time with him. I mean, are they just 29 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 3: good friends? I mean I text with my friends all 30 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 3: the time, you know, even ones that are dudes in relationships, 31 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 3: but we're just friends. Is there anything else other than texting? 32 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 3: But listen, your gut always listened to it. But is 33 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 3: there anything else that you've seen that makes you feel 34 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: like for sure this is happening. 35 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, well, they hang out all the time, 36 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: Like he's get lunch lunch with her, they get coffee. 37 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: Not too long ago, we got together for my mom's 38 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 2: birthday party and they hung out the entire time. You know, 39 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: they had these cute little jokes back and forth. 40 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 3: You know, have they always done this though, like ever 41 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 3: since y'all kind of like started, I don't. 42 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: Think I noticed that they were. I didn't notice it 43 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: because I felt like he made time for me. Yeah, 44 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: you know, I felt like it was a normal balance 45 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: of you know, they were friends, but now it just 46 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: it just feels excessive. 47 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 3: Is your sister sketchy? Do you trust her. 48 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: At this point? 49 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 4: I don't. 50 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's just I don't know 51 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 2: who to trust. 52 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 3: Oh, that's such a tough position. 53 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: Are there any other things that have happened to make 54 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: you think he might be cheating? 55 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: I just think that, you know, he's working really late, 56 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: like all the time. He won't even come home for dinner, 57 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: which I think is super strange. Like before we had 58 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: a pretty normal routine. Okay, and you know, he's he's 59 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: just been weird. He doesn't he just doesn't. I don't know, 60 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: he's not affectionate. We just don't do anything together. We 61 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: don't he doesn't make we don't go on gage, we 62 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: don't do anything. It's we're just not we're not intimate. 63 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 3: Did you say anything to him about it? 64 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? I did bring it up. I just I basically 65 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 2: said that I felt like he was making more time 66 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: for her than me, and it turned into this giant argument. 67 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: We like, how did it turn into an argument? Was 68 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: he super defensive? 69 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was defense. He was basically didn't say it 70 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: out right, but he's basically saying like I'm crazy, you know. 71 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh god. Yeah, there's usually a red flag when you 72 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: confront somebody about that kind of behavior. So we'll see. 73 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe in this case it's just because it's 74 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: your sister, you know, but also that still shouldn't be 75 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: something that somebody makes you feel like you're crazy, for sure. 76 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 3: But don't you think that like a person would want 77 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: to make their person feel better, Yeah, comfortable in a situation, 78 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 3: so when they can get defensive so quickly, or especially 79 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 3: when they go to the crry. 80 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: But no matter what, if you have that feeling, you 81 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: have that feeling, if they do care about you, they 82 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: shouldn't make you feel crazy. But we'll see if we 83 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: can figure it out. You already told us what grocery 84 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: store he's an awards card member at, So we'll do the 85 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: usual and we'll play a song, come back, and then 86 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: call him and pretend to be from the grocery store 87 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: and say that he's this month's big winner of thirty 88 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: six long stim red roses to be delivered anywhere he 89 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: wants in the entire country, to anybody that he wants, 90 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those flowers to you 91 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: or to somebody else. Okay, all right, yep, we'll play 92 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: a song. Come back and get your to catch a Cheater. Next, 93 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: it's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Tubile show. 94 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater and 95 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone 96 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: and she thinks that her husband, a three years named John, 97 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: might be cheating on her. So in a minute, we're 98 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: going to call him and pretend to be from the 99 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at and 100 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: say that he's this month's big winner of thirty six 101 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: long stim red roses delivered to anybody that he wants, 102 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: and we'll see if he if he buys that load 103 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: of crap, and if he wants the flowers, and we'll 104 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: see who he sends them to, if he sends them 105 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 1: to his wife or to somebody else. But first, Julia, 106 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: why don't you tell everybody what the situation is? 107 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 2: Ok So, my husband and three years John, he's been 108 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: busy at work, he's never home. He always has excuses. 109 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: I think that he might be cheating with my sister 110 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 2: Aaron the text constantly. They were friends before we even met, 111 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: and he's just defensive and I feel like it just 112 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: doesn't make time for me, and he spends time with her. 113 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: All right, well, are you ready for us to call him? 114 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so. 115 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 3: We're here with you, Carl. 116 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 4: Really all right? 117 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: This is Jorble calling from So. I was looking for 118 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 1: our rewards card member named John. 119 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 4: Uh, yeah, this is this is me, Hi John. 120 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. 121 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: I'm calling to actually let you know that you're this 122 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: must beg winner. Congratulations, great winner of what the flowers? 123 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: Flowers? I win flowers. 124 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: Oh maybe you don't know. Every single month we choose 125 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: one rewards card member, just totally random, who gets free 126 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the country, 127 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: anybody in the country, anywhere you want, absolutely free. You've 128 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box 129 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: of chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody 130 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: that you want. 131 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 4: I think, like, what's the catch. It's like you need 132 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:26,679 Speaker 4: my info or something. 133 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: No catch at all, just our way of saying thank 134 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,799 Speaker 1: you very much for shopping with us. 135 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 4: Uh, okay, I can say them morever. 136 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: Yes, you'll get confirmations of everything, so you know it's 137 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: absolutely free. If you know who you want to send 138 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: them to. I can take the information in just a 139 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: matter of minutes over the phone. 140 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 4: No, I think, Yeah, I know what I want to them. 141 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 4: That's fine. 142 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: What I would need would be the first and last 143 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: name of the person, anything you want to put on 144 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: the card, and then the address and like I said, 145 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: confirmations of all this. 146 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 4: Okay, her name is Aaron. 147 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on the card. They're too good, ol'. 148 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 5: Eron Yeah, yeah, like yeah, if you go out space, 149 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 5: if you can just say thanks for hearing me out 150 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 5: and letting me get some stuff off my chest. 151 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that'll work. That'll be nice. She'll appreciate that, 152 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 4: totally nice. 153 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: Here for great yep, and I'll get to the address 154 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: here in just a second. First, I want to let 155 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: you know that your wife's on the phone. What Yes, 156 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. 157 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: My name is Jubil. 158 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm Nina. 159 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria, and your wife Julia is on the 160 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: phone and probably wondering who aeron? 161 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 4: Isa? 162 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: What do you know, Aaron is my sister, and you're 163 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: sending flowers to her. So my question to you is, 164 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: why are you sending my sister flowers? Are you having a. 165 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Julia, this is so, this is exactly 166 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 5: why I'm sending her flowers and. 167 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: Not you can we have a argument. 168 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 3: That's a valid. 169 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 4: Man. You guys gonna be involved in this. You really 170 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 4: know me, all right. 171 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 5: So I'm sending Aaron flowers because I can actually have 172 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 5: conversations with her. We converse, we have dialogues, it's an 173 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 5: exchange of information. Anytime we talk, you just start yelling 174 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 5: at me, and there's and we just end up fighting 175 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 5: and it's a drag. 176 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:20,679 Speaker 3: Man. 177 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 5: So I would really feel like get any flowers right 178 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 5: now that I don't much love from you, you know 179 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 5: what I mean. I am not into your sister. She's 180 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 5: just the one friend I have in this family right now. Jesus, Julia, 181 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 5: this is exactly why, like this is our problems. Instead 182 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 5: of just asking me like straight up, like what's going on, 183 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 5: you get a bunch of radio strangers on the phone 184 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 5: and then have them like like lie about sending flowers 185 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 5: from a reward card? 186 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 4: What is this? Why not just come to me and. 187 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 2: Awesome, I did. I've had I have talked to you 188 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: about it and then you got defensive. So this is 189 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: exactly why I'm doing it. It's because obviously this is 190 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 2: a weird situation. This is my sister. Like I don't 191 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 2: I don't want to accused either of you of this, 192 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: but it feels weird and I don't feel right about it. 193 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: I feel like I have every right to say something 194 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: to you, and this is the only way I can 195 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 2: talk to you, because yeah, everything turns to an argument. 196 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 5: You know, like I've been friends with her before we 197 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 5: even met. Dude, Like we're like you, I am good 198 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 5: friends with your sister. 199 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 4: That's just something, you know. I'm not into her like 200 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 4: that though. 201 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 5: It's like we've known each other for years, like nothing's 202 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 5: ever happened. I'm into you, but like then, you know, 203 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 5: you call strangers and to moderate our arguments, which like 204 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 5: just this is like jumping the sharks, Like if you 205 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 5: have we had an issue. 206 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: Called we weren't telling the supposed to moderate anything. We're 207 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: just trying to catch you. 208 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, god, just like people in a fight. Like 209 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 5: great work, guys, really did your homework. 210 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 2: You did send flowers to my sister, Like that's weird, man, 211 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: Like that doesn't make any sense. I don't if we 212 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 2: have problems, sure, but in fact that your first thought 213 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: to send flowers to my sister. That's like not right. 214 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: I don't even care if your friends are not, Like, 215 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: if you are into me and you do love me, 216 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 2: then you would send me flowers. You wouldn't be sending 217 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: them to my sisters. That's just weird. 218 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 5: Did you see then? Did you listen and you listen 219 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 5: to the note that I sent her? Like was there 220 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 5: anything flirting? Like like just like thank you for being 221 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 5: there for me. That's like not even romantic. That's like sad. 222 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 5: That's straight up sad, Like I'm not even happy that 223 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 5: that's the person I hunting flowers. Who's just like, you know, 224 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 5: things are tough at home, you know what I mean, 225 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 5: Like come on, yeah, but what is. 226 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 2: She there for you for? Like she's there for you? 227 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 4: I don't know what that means. 228 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: That could mean so many things. 229 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 5: So I can talk with her about our issues, because 230 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 5: every time I talk with you about it, you just 231 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 5: shut down and start yelling at me, and then I 232 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 5: gotta go back to work. Anyone and hired from the day. 233 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 5: Your sister actually listens to me, man, Like, she probably 234 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 5: knows more about how I'm feeling about our relationships than 235 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:39,559 Speaker 5: you do. Could you never actually listen? 236 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: I just want to feel good about this, and I 237 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: don't feel good about it. I just just feel like 238 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 2: more confused. 239 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 4: Oh great, that's fine. 240 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 5: Well, well, because you're not ever gonna listen to me, Like, 241 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 5: I'll talk to Aaron after this and like explain the 242 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 5: situation and she'll actually listen to me and like empathize 243 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 5: with me, and you can hear it from her. 244 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 4: Because you talk with her more than you talk with me. Absurd, 245 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 4: It's absurd. Listen, Julia, I am busy right now. I 246 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 4: am at work. 247 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 5: When I get home, we can talk about this, but 248 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 5: I know it's just going to be end up being 249 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 5: us yelling and you like having to leave the house again. 250 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 4: So you know what, Thanks for this, This is great 251 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 4: for us. Bye, guys, y'all suck. 252 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, he hung up. 253 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 3: I think the problems are a little bit deeper than Yeah, 254 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 3: we are qualified. 255 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: For definitely, Julie. I'm sorry, so sorry. 256 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guys, I was I don't even know. 257 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 3: I honestly don't think he's cheating though, Julia, But I 258 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: do see that there are clear problems. 259 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean especially I mean even if your sister, 260 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: if he's confiding in her all that stuff, is she 261 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 1: talking to you about it too? 262 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 4: Or no? 263 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 2: Not really? Yeah, I'm aware of any of this. I mean, 264 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 2: you know, I get that he feels like he doesn't 265 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 2: that you can't talk to me. I mean if we're 266 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: arguing that, yeah, we're not being able to talk to 267 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: each other. So that's an issue. I'm assuming she isn't 268 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 2: so comfortable talking to me about, which seems it is. Also, 269 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 2: it's so weird, it's like a weird. 270 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 3: Maybe when he comes home today, just listen, Yeah, just 271 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 3: listen to what he has to say, and then you 272 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 3: can react and decide what you want to do based 273 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 3: off of that. 274 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are right, good luck let us know. 275 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so sorry. 276 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: We can help it anyway, Okay. 277 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate you guys. 278 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, you too. 279 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 2: The Jewble shows to Catch a Cheater