WEBVTT - Episode 404: That GOOD Coochie (Feat. Sukihana) 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.960 What's what's at the slip Service? I'm Angela Yee, I'm. 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:09.639 Gigi Maguire, I'm Laura Rama and it's Suki with the Hey, 0:00:10.760 --> 0:00:12.120 what introduction we're doing today? 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.520 Ukie was a good COUCHI well, welcome our first time 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:19.840 having you on. You're a virgin on lip service, highly is. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:21.480 Oh for real? 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:21.800 Yeah? 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:22.480 I didn't know that. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:24.640 The people have been asking for you for years, honey 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:25.279 for real? 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:28.400 Yes, I didn't. I had no glove. I appreciate that 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:29.720 they want me to come on the show. 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:31.840 I think the first time was when you and money 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:36.000 Long put out the single Yes early on, because first 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:37.640 of all, we love money Long up here. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:40.159 Too, so that's my sister. Mm hmmm. It feels like 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:41.400 people love working with you. 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:45.800 I'm just a real, real woman, real person, you know, 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.040 and I'm genuine. So a lot of the people that 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:50.600 you may see me considered them family. 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:52.080 And you work really hard. 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.400 I saw you been back but back to back shows 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:56.840 like every single day. Yeah, and I've seen you doing 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.240 interviews pers and you're filming for Love and Hip Hop 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:00.320 like you got a lot going on. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:02.760 Yeah, and you're a mom. Yes we top of all 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.720 of that. Does it get overwhelming. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:11.039 I feel like it does get exhausting at times, but 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:13.319 this is the career that, this is my career, pair, 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:15.720 this is what I want, is what I'm working for, 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.119 so I don't have any complaints. It's what I want 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:18.399 to tell. 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:19.520 Are you single now? 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:19.959 Yes? 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:20.080 Me? 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:21.479 And are you single okay? 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.920 Do you like being single better right now or in 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.800 a relationship because sometimes I find that grind harder when I'm. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:27.119 On my own. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.200 Yeah, that's true. We do grind harder. We'll buy ourselves. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.640 But I mean, I'm not gonna lie more of a 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:38.320 relationship type of girl. But I'm enjoying being single. Like, 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.000 explore my options, you know. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:43.199 Any good options, a lot of them. 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.800 There's a lot of people that want to change my life. 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:49.080 Right now. I'm changing my life, so of course somebody 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:50.400 want to do the same. 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:52.360 And there's some lives you might be changing too. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.680 Yeah. Yeah, we see a lot of. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:57.680 People spending the block two. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.680 You're seeing a Shanty and Nelly, and then we've seeing 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:03.680 Janet Jackson brought out Jamaine Dupree while she was performing 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:04.280 in Atlanta. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:06.320 Do you ever spend the black Uh? 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:15.840 I don't. I don't like I feel like in the 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.079 what's in the past is in the past, Like I see, 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:19.560 if I'm not I'm not there. I'm not there for 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:22.280 a reason. I don't really spend I don't do that. 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.280 A lot of people do that they'll be comfortable with 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:27.400 going back to the old dick that they used to have. Me, 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.040 I'm like, if I'm done with you and I feel 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:33.640 like you're toxic and it is just a burden, I'm leaving. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:35.760 I'm a Scorpio. We don't leave people. So if I 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.600 leave you over there at yeah, so I don't. I 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.200 don't spend the block. I just go and the enjoy. Yeah, 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.600 like I keep it moving. That's the type of woman 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:47.320 I am. Ashanti Her and Nelly they're older now, so they. 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:47.960 Probably break up. 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.760 Yeah, like they probably you know ya, I think they 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:52.960 will always talk to each other. 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:54.679 What's that deal breaker for you? 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:56.799 Because in a relationship it feels like you don't put 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.360 up with a lot of stuff, a lot of shit. 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:01.240 But what's a deal breaker when you're like I, after this, 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:02.440 I can't come back from that? 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:10.600 Uh? The deal breakers for me, I would say, maybe 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:13.880 I don't. I don't really Le'm gonna tell you what 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.680 my turn offs are. Not the deal breakers but my 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:20.359 turnoffs are, like, you know, people that don't work as 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:20.920 hard as me. 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:22.120 That's hard to find. 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:26.120 I don't like being the first one to wake up 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:27.960 in the last one to go to sleep because I'm grinded. 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.840 I want someone that equally you like, someone that has 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:32.680 the same grind as me. I can accept that same. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:34.920 I'm not saying you got to be as rich as 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.320 me or richer than me, but if you got that 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:40.560 same grind and that same hustle, that potential is good 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:42.800 enough for me. I respect that. So that's that's what 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:43.160 I like. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:46.880 Okay, what is the mother turn offs? 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.280 But I don't eat pussy. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.640 You don't eat pussy? Who said that? 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:53.880 No? 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.720 No, no, no, no no, I mean no, If you 0:03:57.720 --> 0:03:59.000 don't eat pussy. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:01.120 I feel that might be a deal break. That's definitely. 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:02.240 I wouldn't be faithful to him. 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:04.400 We could be, we could be cool, but somebody gonna 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:04.880 eat his cat. 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.880 I'm not gonna lie. There's some dick out there that 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.480 don't got to eat pussy. Okay, it is like you 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:12.480 just me want to go over there for that. But 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:16.039 who like be faithful forever to somebody that don't eat pussy? 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:17.520 I don't think I could be with that guy that 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:18.360 doesn't do that at all. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:25.360 It's crazy before once upon a time the last and yeah, no, 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:27.880 I will never do that again. Yeah no, I just 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:31.600 found myself just I eventually, you know, it's like pay 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:34.560 but I even I just found myself master being way 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:35.600 more because. 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:38.160 He was American? Who was he? 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:41.880 I choose not to say right now because that's gonna 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:45.000 give it away who it is. But but yeah, I 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:46.480 mean I probably just gave it away anyway. 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.760 But was even a career No, oh, he was African? 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.960 Okay, But all right, so you said, but there's some 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:00.719 dick that you can say that will to take. 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.960 Over and yeah, but we honestly like were grown America. 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:08.600 Are you American America? We American women, our culture we 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.919 have really staying nobody don't eat what we like, what 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:14.600 we like in America. So it's like we cold what you. 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.320 We can fuck with you, but you know, even you 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:22.480 ain't gonna eventually maybe you guys, you gotta you gotta 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.839 do both over here. Well that's what we like. You 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:28.360 gotta eat some cat and maybe some ass just standing 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.280 with the girl. Yo, it is too right, I might 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:35.200 how about y'all, by the way, how about y'all. 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.680 I won't, I will I don't like I don't like 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:41.360 my ask I won't. I've never tried. 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:44.640 I have, I've done, I've conquered, I've been back. I'm 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.480 spending the black on that I'm gonna do it again. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.680 I can tell, okay, you just you just got this. 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:50.920 That's that I'm that bitch spirit And. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.839 When did you decide? Like when did you say, Okay, 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:53.760 I'm gonna try this? 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:56.119 Ship? 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:58.720 Girls, I'm not even feel comfortable telling y'all because you 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:00.400 already said what y'all don't do. I want to know 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:01.800 what y'all do so I can feel like it. Maybe 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:03.440 we we both on a freaking level. 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.760 I just made it sound very enticing. 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:13.280 Somebody was up here and they were like explaining it 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.120 and explaining why they do that and why it's like 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:16.760 one of their favorite things to do. And I was like, 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:18.559 that doesn't sound like a bad idea. 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:19.760 It's really not a bad idea. 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.000 But I haven't done it. I'm not saying I would 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:23.839 never do it, but I haven't. 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:28.360 No one's made me to be really funny about that, too, 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:29.560 is pretty long, So. 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.120 I know I think there's anything that I wouldn't do. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.760 The only reason why I haven't is because I don't 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:36.480 really like it in my ass eight like that's been 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:36.919 done to me. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.240 I don't like my ass I. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.560 Really don't like it either. It's just like, okay, can 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:41.239 you get. 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:46.760 Back to it's overrated. But we have a different anatomy, 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.680 so if our nerve endings and our spots are different 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.480 than men, so it feels very different to them than 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:55.200 it does to which is why. 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:56.960 You have to stick your tongue in the asshole. 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.320 You don't have to, but it's, you know, how kind 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:00.560 of how it. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.680 Depends on how creative you are, or how. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:05.400 Willing or how far he's willing to go, because he 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.680 might like a lick but no insertion tongue or finger 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:08.200 or anything. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.960 Or he might like it all. He might like two 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.880 three fingers, you know what I'm saying. Complicated. 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:17.360 And some guys don't like their nipples, like an early 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.920 chap it was just up here. He likes his asshole like, 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:21.600 but he don't like his nipples play with, and he 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:24.120 thinks there's something wrong with that. But some guys love that. 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:26.240 Some girls don't like their nipples play with. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:28.960 I like it, play with, but like I said, don't 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:29.840 torture my nipples. 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:31.280 Don't try to be sensitive. 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:39.080 You can be sensitive right like like that. I mean, yeah, 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.760 I pay for them these big ass cities. They gonna 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.520 have to do some little I don't mind that. But 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.000 some guys just I feel like, oh, when it comes 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.240 to sex, like it's more about chemistry. If you gotta 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:51.560 have chemistry with a person, and then they just automatically know. 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.840 I think the right person can get you to do 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.520 things that you never thought you would do. 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:57.880 That's what I said. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.720 The right man would be to bring the freak about you, 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:01.720 for sure. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:03.760 But I feel like guys are a lot more conservative 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.880 than women, a lot, like as far as what you 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:07.880 could do to them, Like they'll be like, oh, you 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.880 can't tie me up, Oh you can't blind for me. 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:12.120 Like they have a lot of things that I think 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:15.000 society makes them feel like this isn't cool to do 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:15.800 two men. 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:20.160 I mean maybe in front of society, but right a 0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:23.000 lot of those guys behind closed doors. Depending on what 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.920 type of woman you are, you know, it always seems 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.800 like there's some girls that don't notice side of guys 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:30.920 and then some girls that do. And it's about who 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:35.560 makes them feel comfortable, you know, like, shit, you don't 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.600 know what these guys be doing I do behind closed 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:39.440 doors that they be freaked down. 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:41.600 I feel like guys don't know what their friends be 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:43.560 doing because you'll be talking to like it and he'll 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.079 be like, nah, we don't. 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:46.600 Do that at home, and he like, yes he does. 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.880 You know, Oh it's true. 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:51.679 But I feel like somebody would feel like they could 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.920 be open with you because you're open and like you're 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:57.040 very liberated, which I think is a positive thing. That's 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:59.080 the whole reason we created lip Service, a space for 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.440 people to feel like I can talk about sex and 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:02.440 talk about the things that I do. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:04.400 But it can also be educational. 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.960 Because sometimes people feel like they have no space to 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:09.439 hear these conversations. 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.600 Yeah, no, okay, I get that, that makes sense, yeah, 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.080 or to even be open with how they really feel 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:18.360 about sex and you know, their sexuality and different positions 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:21.320 and things that they like, you know, like listen and 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:22.520 all that good stuff. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.680 And I feel like people like guests come on here 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.920 and they forget that there are on a podcast that's 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:31.839 viewed by millions of people because they get so comfortable 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.400 and sometimes come back like, oh my god, that I 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:37.160 really yo, I didn't even realize I said that. But 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:38.960 we have to pat ourselves on the back for making 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:43.480 the atmosphere so inviting and yes, free and liberating for 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.000 people to feel comfortable enough to share those things with us. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.960 All right, So let's talk about the music, because it 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.800 feels like you've been going First of all, you've been 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:52.840 going hard at the music for quite some time. Right now, 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.560 I saw that it just went viral you performing on 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:56.560 Jerry Springer. 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:00.280 Yeah, from like when is that six years ago? Because 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:02.400 he just passed away and then somehow just got. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.680 You rest in peace to Church Springer. 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:08.600 But to me, that shows how long you've been grinding 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:08.960 at this. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.080 While she's a star. 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:13.760 Oh look Stephanie's hair, Stephanie Santiagos. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:18.040 With the good coochie. What's up girl, Nice to see you. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:21.720 Obviously, we see you've been doing some afrobeats too, So 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.120 is that the direction you're playing. 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:23.240 In a movie. 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:27.240 I'm just I'm just going with the flow. I love 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:31.160 making music, I love writing it, I love producing. Like 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:35.400 I'm just I'm a musician. I'm a artists right all right? 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.400 Because we got you some casamigos for that, because we 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:37.959 was feeling that bad. 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.360 The I'm gonnake Shot'm gonna take a shot too, all. 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:44.679 Right, Yeah, because I need that. I had a long. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:48.200 So talk to me about how life has changed for 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:51.200 you since, like say, in the past five years, where 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.080 you were at five years ago and where you are now? 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:59.240 Where was that five years ago? I ain't gonna lie. 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.559 I was fucked up. There was nothing like this. I 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.840 didn't have this tough of money. It's a you know, 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.000 a new mother, you know, just trying to take care 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.840 of my children, trying to find a way. And then 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.960 I said I want to chase my dreams. And I 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:15.400 stoock beside myself and I believed in myself and I 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:20.760 forced people to believe in me. And now everything has 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.720 turned to be what it is now. And that's just 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.520 me taking a leap of faith and believe who I am. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.840 And people might say, oh, this sounds like a fair tale. 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:30.440 This is not how I go, but it is how 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:30.679 we go. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.000 Yeah, And this is why I want to say. Back 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:38.760 in oh, probably twenty fifteen was when I think I 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:42.040 first saw you on Instagram and you had green hair 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:46.960 and you were just like so not really outspoken, but 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.600 you could tell you would being genuine, but you were 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:50.480 just like saying what you wanted, doing what you wanted. 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.760 And I had a friend at the time who was 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:57.240 trying to get to where you are now, and she 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:01.160 kind of would like use you as like, and you 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:04.280 hadn't even made it this far, right, but at that moment, 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.679 she was just like, I see the potential on her, 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:08.680 I see where she going One day, She's gonna be huge, 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.959 and I want that. And that's that was how I 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.240 learned about who you was way back when. Yeah, so 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.080 to see how far you've come and to see you 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.640 gotten you know, your dreams extra well, we're not friends 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:19.840 no more. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:23.920 Sound damn did she get it though? 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:27.280 No, that's what I say. 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:30.400 You. I feel like I do inspire people, but I 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.160 don't want to inspire nobody to be me. I want 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:34.040 women to be I mean. 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:35.480 She of course she wanted to be her, but you 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:38.400 were like inspiration for her because you're from Delaware, from Philly, 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:39.360 you know, so. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:41.640 We kind of feel like you're from the same place. 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:43.040 You get what I'm saying. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:47.079 Yeah, we're all really close, so you know, and you 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:49.760 you just really like it was a beacon of light 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.560 for her to kind of just keep going with people 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.000 doubted her and she was like if she can do it, 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:53.440 I can do it. 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.319 Was that type of thing. Now you did it and 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:55.880 you didn't. 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.480 But I just want to say that, you know, seeing 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:00.760 from then to where you are now, you know, it's 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:01.160 good to. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:02.839 See that came a long way. But I haven't gotten 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.559 and you and you still don't know. Yeah, Like, honestly, 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:09.720 this is the beginning for me. This is the beginning, 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:15.520 you know, starting, and I just I feel like this 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:15.959 is beginning. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:16.320 It's a lot. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:16.640 I don't know. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.960 If you're on that. I can see your transition from 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:22.240 when you started to where you are now, Like you're 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:26.120 showing more. You're still yourself, You're still outgoing and you know, 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:29.680 standing out as usual, but you're you're showing the more 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:34.000 you know intelligent side, the more sophisticated. 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.320 Side that you have inside of you. Yeah, I can 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:36.080 see it. Thank you. 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.120 I appreciate that it's still keeping it good. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:42.960 And that's what I like. I like that you are 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:47.400 very like yourself. Like I don't care what you think, 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.560 what you say. I'm gonna be me, whether I got 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.240 it I don't have it, I'm gonna remain who I am. 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:52.920 And that's what got you where you. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:54.600 And to be able to say things that people might 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.000 be scared to say exactly, like the conversations. 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:58.640 That's kind of like this podcast. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.839 We have these conversations, but some times people don't want 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:02.199 to say it out loud or they don't want to 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:04.120 put it out there because then they don't want to 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:06.280 hear like the backlash and what people have to say, 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:07.120 but they're real. 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.040 Kind of I can't live life based on what people 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.800 say of yours. 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:13.680 I'm like, man, that should have been all the service, 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:15.800 like that was good, that was a girl. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.920 I can't live your life based on how people feel 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:19.800 or perceive you or with people, because guess what I 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.320 say all the time, what I eat don't make you 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.320 ship and vice versa. So what you got going on 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:25.320 is not affecting my life? Why and what I Why 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.720 would what I'm doing affect yours? It shouldn't so, and 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:28.400 if it do, guess what. 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:28.800 Tough shit. 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.120 I don't care because as long as I'm happy with 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:33.000 who I am and what I'm doing, that's all that matters. 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.040 Just when did you first realize that the power that 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:37.680 you had or that it was going to be like 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:40.000 all right, I mean, I'm sure you always knew you 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:40.560 were going to make it. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:42.800 But when was the first turn in life? This is it? 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:50.880 M hmmm, I mean shit, I just always knew I 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.800 was that girl. Like I just I went forward like 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.320 people always say, like how do you feel and not 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:01.000 just like I'm just working like people look at me 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:03.120 and I look at myself like that. I just feel 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:06.080 like I'm normal. It's I don't really know how to 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:07.040 answer that question. 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.080 Because sometimes there's a moment when you might be like, 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:10.720 like you're saying, five years ago, it's way different than 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.440 where you are now. But there's sometimes something that you like, damn, 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:16.560 this was a life changing event, you know that happened, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.880 Like from this day, I was like, iright, all that 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.120 hard work I put in, I feel it. 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:25.760 Nothing. No, it's just been an uphill grind. 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:28.400 It's going, We're going, We're going, and I'm just myself. 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:31.160 It's critic I know what I did. I know where 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.440 I'm at, and I know where I'm going, you know, 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:36.560 I just I just pray. I just thank God, like 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:41.840 I don't sham. I just tell people like who I'm 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.560 who I'm supposed to be. It's already supposed to happen, 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:48.680 and I'm just out here and I'm just tasting my dreads. Yeah, Like, 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:51.800 I'm not gonna think I'm happy. I'm very grateful for 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:55.040 where i am, but I know it's working hard. I'm 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.840 not done. I'm a very hard worker. I'm very smart worker. 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:03.240 So I'm not the type to just celebrate. I'm not celebrating. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:03.720 I'm working. 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:04.640 You. 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.600 But I'm a fan of celebrating too, because sometimes I 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.400 work a lot. But you gotta sometimes be like. 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.080 That's what people say, Well, I'm not ready to celebrate. 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:17.640 You're not ready. I do next year. What's you celebrating? 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:19.400 My baby's birthdays? My children birthdays? 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:20.840 Okay, and I know them. 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:24.360 Birthdays is lit right about now for them? They are 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:28.040 what's your favorite place to go on vacation? Now, if 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:31.000 somebody was like, I'm trying to go away, you know 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:32.440 what's a good what's a good spot? 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.640 I mean, I don't really know yet because I just 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:38.600 got my passport. I just started traveling. But my favorite 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:41.000 places that I went is Africa and Jamaica. 0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:42.440 That's where I like to be. 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:45.920 Okay, I'm really glad you asked that question. You travel 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:49.000 and I'm actually looking for a vacation spot to go, 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:50.240 So what's yours? 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.760 Well, first of all, I do love Jamaica. 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:55.400