WEBVTT - We Dated the Same Guy… Then Became Best Friends

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<v Speaker 1>Personally old men.

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<v Speaker 2>My best friends of over a decade are joining me

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<v Speaker 2>this week. We recorded this episode when they were visiting

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<v Speaker 2>me in Nashville for our yearly best friend trip, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was so much fun to do with them. I

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<v Speaker 2>definitely made him do this, so go easy on them,

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<v Speaker 2>but I loved getting to highlight our friendships because I

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<v Speaker 2>have learned so much from them over the years, and

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<v Speaker 2>we have a funny history of how we became friends. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>girly pops. I'm really excited for this episode because two

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<v Speaker 2>of my oldest childhood friends are on the episode with me,

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<v Speaker 2>and they are freaking out that I am making them

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<v Speaker 2>do this. Everybody meet Carla and Ali. Hi, guys, Hi

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<v Speaker 2>you feel that yet? Are we still nervous? We're talking

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<v Speaker 2>about friendship. I made the girls come on because we

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<v Speaker 2>have such a special relationship and we are all in

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<v Speaker 2>very different phases of our lives in multiple different cities.

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<v Speaker 2>We had another friend that was with us for the weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>but she had to jump on a flight because we

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<v Speaker 2>partied a little too hard this weekend and never a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit quite ready time for the podcast. But all

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<v Speaker 2>that to say, these girls are some of my greatest

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<v Speaker 2>friends and we have great stories to share and moments

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<v Speaker 2>of life that I think will be really fun for

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<v Speaker 2>people to hear. So Carla, let's talk how you and

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<v Speaker 2>I first met. That's a story. Yeah, yeah, you want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell it, share with the people how we first met.

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<v Speaker 3>We were long story short, dating the same guy back

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<v Speaker 3>in the day. He was a real winner and continued

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<v Speaker 3>for a little while meeting each other. I guess, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you were the blessing that came out of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're a dark time. We were both on Facebook

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<v Speaker 2>and messaging each other when we realized we were both

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<v Speaker 2>dating the same guy. It was basically, are we dating

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<v Speaker 2>the same guy? Facebook page? But in real life? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>We had it before that ever happened, and Carla reached

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<v Speaker 2>out to me. I was like, I'm pretty sure we're

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<v Speaker 2>dating the same guy. And I was like, what is happening?

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<v Speaker 2>And Carla and I? Which is so ironic because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like in most scenarios we would have hated each

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<v Speaker 2>other for a lot of people, I think that's typically

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<v Speaker 2>what happens. But Carla and I instead were like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to team up and and that's exactly what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>And we showed up to a party and dumped the

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<v Speaker 2>news on him and we said Syonara. And then you

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<v Speaker 2>and I became best friends instantly, Yeah, we did. And

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<v Speaker 2>then by way of you, I met Ali. Ali. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you remember when we first met.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was a house party. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it was definitely a house party, but I also think

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<v Speaker 2>it was a house party. That was it was with

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<v Speaker 2>Carla's family. I think we were at Carla's house and

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<v Speaker 2>we were having a sleepover. I think this is one

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<v Speaker 2>of the first times Carla and I had a sleepover

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<v Speaker 2>and you came over and it was us. We're hanging up. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because you guys were neighbors, because you two grew up together. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and you've known each other. Okay, were you best friends

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<v Speaker 2>from the start?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, yeah, for sure. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are both sweet, so I would imagine back

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<v Speaker 2>then too, you guys were just like, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>be my friend? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened with you? Do you want to be our friend? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>It was great edition.

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<v Speaker 2>And we still have pictures from that night when our

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<v Speaker 2>first sleepover happened, if you will, And there was cake

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<v Speaker 2>and we hung out with your brother Carla, and we

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<v Speaker 2>were just there was cake. I don't know why, but

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<v Speaker 2>it might have been your brother's birthday maybe something. But

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<v Speaker 2>I have pictures, like on a Facebook album page of

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<v Speaker 2>that night and we sat in your basement taking like

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<v Speaker 2>the stupidest photos for over an hour. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>that was all of our first met I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 2>that was the first time I met you officially, because

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<v Speaker 2>we did walk this back the other night. We were

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<v Speaker 2>all sitting at dinner together and you were like, didn't

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<v Speaker 2>we all meet up at a water park when this

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<v Speaker 2>first happened to compare stories, Yes, but you guys remember

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<v Speaker 2>that better than me, so can you share that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was like when we were messaging on Facebook,

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<v Speaker 3>we're like, where should we meet up? We were already

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<v Speaker 3>going to this water I think we're already going to

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<v Speaker 3>the water park maybe, And then we invited you.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're like, did it? But I didn't stay and

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<v Speaker 2>hang out? Did I just come and talk to you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>It was short and sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we meet in the parking lot or did I

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<v Speaker 2>come in the water park?

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<v Speaker 3>This all sounds right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Okay, So from a sketchy meeting on Facebook to

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<v Speaker 2>a water park meeting and a parking lot, a little sketchy,

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<v Speaker 2>all sketchy to becoming lifelong friends. We have all been friends. Now, gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>what was that? What is that? What you're are we on?

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<v Speaker 2>And what you're you guys on?

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<v Speaker 3>That's going to make it seven years old?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is part of the.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty six years.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you guys are twenty six years and I

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<v Speaker 2>believe I met you guys when I was roughly fifteen, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>which should be like sixteen years now? Is that crazy memory?

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<v Speaker 2>We put like that on it and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>what is happening? So that's our where our friendship stories began.

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<v Speaker 2>And we've had so many memories along the way, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to put you guys on the spot. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk about some of our favorite memories. So

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<v Speaker 2>who wants to go first? Who wants to share, like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe one of their favorite memories all of us together

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<v Speaker 2>or one on one whatever it may be. Anybody. They're

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<v Speaker 2>both looking at me like I'm absolutely crazy right now.

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<v Speaker 3>We have so many I'm trying to like think of

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<v Speaker 3>the stories.

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<v Speaker 1>In my head right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, I think all the trips that we

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<v Speaker 2>go on together are my favorite. So like I love.

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<v Speaker 2>Carla and I did Washington and organ together. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll never forget that trip.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I made Carla trek on so many hikes. She was like,

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<v Speaker 2>what it was happening?

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<v Speaker 3>Did like over twenty like eight miles or something we did.

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<v Speaker 2>But also something to know about Carla is like she

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<v Speaker 2>loves to like party and have a good time. So

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<v Speaker 2>when we booked this trip, she was like, so when

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<v Speaker 2>are we gonna go out or got some drinks out?

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<v Speaker 2>As like yeah, And I was like, Carla, I didn't trip. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really put that in the schedule this time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that was our first trip where we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>consume a lot of alcohol. We did a lot of sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And then Ali, I think it was my birthday

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<v Speaker 2>trip to Disneyland.

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<v Speaker 1>That was so so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>We had so much fun out there.

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<v Speaker 1>It was such a last minute trip. I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go because I had just got back from Disney

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<v Speaker 1>and Florida. Oh that's great, and like literally maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>week before the trip, I'm like I'm coming. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>were a birthday trip. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So those are two of my favorites. Anything come to

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<v Speaker 2>mind for you guys, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was gonna say the Washington organ trip on one, but

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<v Speaker 3>also when you came to visit me in Colorado, that

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<v Speaker 3>was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah too.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little bit colder, yeah, and lots.

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<v Speaker 3>Of restaurants and drinking spots, a good spot come snowboard.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know DVD our next trip, Ali.

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<v Speaker 1>So many. We have a lot of funny memories to

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<v Speaker 1>Country Stampede.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah that actually, you know what, I might take

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<v Speaker 2>the Disney one back.

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<v Speaker 3>Was I even invited? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you were there, but you were there, you

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<v Speaker 2>might have not been.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I was dating somebody and I was dating

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<v Speaker 3>someone in high school, and I think I was on

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<v Speaker 3>a trip with his family, like a lake trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in the summer. Summer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh yeah, it was summer. Yeah, Ali was there.

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<v Speaker 2>I've told the story on the Bobby Bone Show. Ali

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<v Speaker 2>was there when I missed Zac Brown Band and I

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<v Speaker 2>passed out in the r V. It was one of

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<v Speaker 2>Al's friends and girlfriend. Are you okay? I'm like, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>And at this point we maybe been friends like a year,

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<v Speaker 2>so we had it even like truly evolved.

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<v Speaker 1>You were more than sixteen at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Oh, maybe you're right, Okay, it might have been

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<v Speaker 2>closer to when I was in college. Was I in

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<v Speaker 2>high school? I don't know how old were you trying

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<v Speaker 2>to think? Yeah, it could have been like still regardless,

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<v Speaker 2>I was young, and it was still we were still

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<v Speaker 2>under the five year mark of our friendship, so we're

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<v Speaker 2>still learning each other, like figuring things out. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I just passed out this random person's

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<v Speaker 2>RV and I don't know half of these people.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a little quick naps.

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<v Speaker 2>Your parents were something really good breathing. Yes, that was

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<v Speaker 2>a good one. Also, there was another one when we

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<v Speaker 2>went to an antel party and we were hanging out

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<v Speaker 2>of Ali's house before and we had like our little

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<v Speaker 2>party pregame. Guys, I don't condone after each should not

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<v Speaker 2>be underactreet service and now there's not a lot to

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<v Speaker 2>do in Kansas at the time, okay, And we were

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<v Speaker 2>in Ali's house and then we were going to like

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<v Speaker 2>a house party. But I don't know if you guys

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<v Speaker 2>remember this. I got like a mole concussion because I

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<v Speaker 2>was on a skateboard. Yes, don't ask me why I

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<v Speaker 2>was on a skateboard in somebody else's house, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was and I fell off in him my head on

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<v Speaker 2>the coffee table. Yes, And you guys proceeded to like

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<v Speaker 2>sit up next to me the entire evening to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure I was okay, You're going to make sure. You're

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<v Speaker 2>going to make it. We're like, do we call our parents?

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<v Speaker 1>What do we do?

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<v Speaker 2>That one was a funny memory too, Okay, So I

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<v Speaker 2>want to get into the fun sentimental stuff here, Carla.

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<v Speaker 2>One of your biggest assets we were talking about this

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<v Speaker 2>at dinner, is that you make such a priority for

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<v Speaker 2>your friendships. It is the most important thing to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You make sure everybody is always known, cared for, and

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<v Speaker 2>know this. Carla lives in Denver, Alli lives in Fort Worth.

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<v Speaker 2>Our other friend that was here, Jewelie, lives in all

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<v Speaker 2>of our hometown of Wichita, and we so not only

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<v Speaker 2>are we four friends of been friends for a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>but we're four friends who live import different cities, different

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<v Speaker 2>places in our lives. And Carla, what you are so

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<v Speaker 2>good about is just always showing up physically and on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone and everything. It is so important. Why is

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<v Speaker 2>it so important to you?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like my friends and family, like everybody close

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<v Speaker 3>to me, brings me so much joy, So that's very

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<v Speaker 3>important to me, and all the memories and just almost

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<v Speaker 3>like soul sisters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like you look at most people in life

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<v Speaker 2>and it's really hard to make friendships a priority. Fills

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<v Speaker 2>my cup. Yeah, so how do you make sure you're

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<v Speaker 2>always making the time? What's going through your thought brous

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<v Speaker 2>when you're doing things? You're like, I have to be

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<v Speaker 2>doing this for other people. This is really important to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like just checking in on everybody and making

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<v Speaker 3>sure they're okay, it's important to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but why give me a breakdown of why.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, Like my people, the close people are

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<v Speaker 3>always just so important. Just I don't know, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>almost like a daily thing I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to do.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just always in your head.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah basically really so you're just that you're just amazing,

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<v Speaker 3>but everyone before me sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which which has.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it just makes me very happy to check on everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and you do. You're so good at that, And

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<v Speaker 2>that's why I wanted to ask you because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I don't think it's easy for most people to

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<v Speaker 2>do that. But you just always make the time.

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<v Speaker 3>It's always been like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, It's always been important too, Okay, Ali, Now you

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<v Speaker 2>ms mama of two and you also always make time.

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<v Speaker 2>You are a mother of two children and you come

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<v Speaker 2>and spend time and always check in and your making

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<v Speaker 2>sure friendships stay important to you. Why is it important

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<v Speaker 2>to you?

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely fills my cup. I agree with you there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And like I was saying, my mom used to say

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<v Speaker 1>that all of your true friends and you count them

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<v Speaker 1>on your hand.

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<v Speaker 3>Very true.

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<v Speaker 1>True, and you two are a part of that. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's important to me to check on you. Makes me happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I know you guys are good. Yeah, and it

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<v Speaker 2>is it does?

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<v Speaker 1>It brings us joy.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you feel like you manage with being a mom,

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<v Speaker 2>a wife and then also managing having friends and keeping

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<v Speaker 2>your friends?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I think definitely after having kids that was hard

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<v Speaker 1>because you're always going and it is harder to stay

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with people when you are married with kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like and making sure the kids are good. But you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are my family too, So.

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<v Speaker 2>What benefits you feel like as a mother, Because we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about this at dinner the other night. To

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<v Speaker 2>make sure that you're keeping that community of friendships, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you feel like that does for you? And if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't have that, what do you feel like that

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<v Speaker 2>would be.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I would be a terrible mom if I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have my friendships. Like, I feel like I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>better person because of you guys, and calmer. I get

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<v Speaker 1>a weekend away, I can go back, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like your med time and then come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel recharged after being with you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you first dated started dating your husband Steven,

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<v Speaker 2>was that a priority for you, like when you were

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<v Speaker 2>finding a partner where you were like, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to manage and be a good partner in

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<v Speaker 2>all facets, so I can also keep my friendships.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, friendships are important to him too. He has lifelong

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<v Speaker 1>friends and so for both of us that's just a priority.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just part of who we are.

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<v Speaker 2>And it always it's easy. It seems easy for you

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<v Speaker 2>guys to always be like, hey, you got this weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go. I don't feel like Stephen has

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<v Speaker 2>ever been someone who's no, you can't do this, and

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<v Speaker 2>I got your back. I'm here for you to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>As he was driving me to the airport, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to do this more. You need to go

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<v Speaker 1>have more girl trips.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well plan the next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, see, like once an it's rare, and that is

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<v Speaker 2>the partner that you're supposed to have. I think that

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<v Speaker 2>plays such a significant role because one you feel secure

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<v Speaker 2>and leaving because you know he's a good partner, you

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<v Speaker 2>know he's a good dad into that he pushes you

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<v Speaker 2>to be that way. That is such an important part.

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<v Speaker 2>And we get really caught up when even just getting

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<v Speaker 2>in relationships or dating and then you get married and

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<v Speaker 2>friendships really get pushed down when as we were all

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<v Speaker 2>talking about this, like friendships should be one of the

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<v Speaker 2>top priorities because you can't exist to your best self

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<v Speaker 2>much like you were saying without the friendships. There's such

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<v Speaker 2>a big piece of your story and we were looking

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<v Speaker 2>at it of I've seen you as a kid, as

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<v Speaker 2>a girl, as a woman, now a wife and a mother,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will be there for whatever comes next. And

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<v Speaker 2>your friends are the only ones that have that ability

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<v Speaker 2>besides your siblings and your family, but as a human

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<v Speaker 2>that is not blood related, that will be like potentially

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<v Speaker 2>the only person who has seen you in all facets

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<v Speaker 2>of life. And that's crazy to think about. Special Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah different now And Carla is my fellow single girl

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<v Speaker 2>in the group. Ali and Julie really love hearing our

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<v Speaker 2>crazy dating story.

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<v Speaker 3>They're quite entertaining.

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<v Speaker 1>We could really share some Yeah, we do.

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<v Speaker 2>We can get into that. We can get into that.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know when you're dating and stuff, do

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<v Speaker 2>you make sure you're looking for someone who is seeing

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<v Speaker 2>the priority for you in friendships? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>What does that look like when you're dating? What are

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<v Speaker 2>you paying attention to be? Like? How is he going

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<v Speaker 2>to handle me having all of these friends and these

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<v Speaker 2>being close in the time?

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<v Speaker 3>What is that like if his close friends are important

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<v Speaker 3>to him? And like family time? Like who wow? Does

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<v Speaker 3>he do his meat time? Kind of like that?

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<v Speaker 2>And then evaluate and be like are we on some

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<v Speaker 2>more pages? Exactly what does this look like?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>This is crazy and we are like in full transparency,

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<v Speaker 2>like we had this girl's weekend because it was important

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<v Speaker 2>and necessary and we always plan a trip. Yes, once

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<v Speaker 2>a year, that's like a priority. We've all made it

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<v Speaker 2>very important that we see each other at least once

0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:05.520
<v Speaker 2>a year, being in different cities, having multiple different styles

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<v Speaker 2>of life. But more important than that, we were in

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<v Speaker 2>a time that Carla really needed us. Yes, and that

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<v Speaker 2>was what this weekend was for Yeah, like we've always

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<v Speaker 2>shown up. I remember, like when I went through my

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<v Speaker 2>breakup last year, all three of you girls had sent

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<v Speaker 2>me like this box of all these goodies. I still

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<v Speaker 2>have the little pickle, the emotional support pickle. It's my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite thing. Like everything else in there was amazing, but

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<v Speaker 2>the emotional support pickle was all that I needed. You did,

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<v Speaker 2>You did, like you guys always find ways to show up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to get into your guys' brains a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit because being a empathetic and compassionate friend isn't easy

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<v Speaker 2>for everybody, but you guys always do it. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys always show up in that way, especially like when

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<v Speaker 2>we are all struggling and going through really hard things,

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<v Speaker 2>Like when I went through my breakup. What was that

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<v Speaker 2>process like for you guys, where you're like, okay, Morgan

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<v Speaker 2>needs us.

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<v Speaker 3>Just trying to be there the best we could for you,

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<v Speaker 3>even though we were afar, whether checking in on you,

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<v Speaker 3>sending you goodies to bring you smile to your face,

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<v Speaker 3>face time calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Knock on the door.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah too, surprised you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you ended up doing and you weren't far

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<v Speaker 2>behind that you ended up coming in October you for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>that is your one of your strongest quality traits. And

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, I'm just gonna make the time. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>care what is going on, I'll be there, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>it's such a huge trait and it's also a testament.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Ali talked to how Carla is and a really

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<v Speaker 2>good aunt to your kiddo's. I'm also an aunt, but

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<v Speaker 2>like Carla, Carla is above and beyond.

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<v Speaker 1>Always sending the packages, calling, facetiming them like she is

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<v Speaker 1>truly like an aunt to them. Yeah, people know growing

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<v Speaker 1>up forever.

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<v Speaker 2>That Carl I know. And it's so fun to watch, right,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think it's so cool to watch you have

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<v Speaker 2>become a mom, Julie become a mom, and watch that

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<v Speaker 2>process and then also get to be a part of

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<v Speaker 2>like your little one's life that's half you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>see that transition. Yeah, but also just in this situation itself,

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<v Speaker 2>like Carla could have easily been like you had kids.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a different time of our lives. And I

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<v Speaker 2>love you, I support you, but we're distancing ourselves. But

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<v Speaker 2>you chose not to. Why did you choose not to?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Why was that important for you? Even though she was

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<v Speaker 2>transitioning to a new part of her life.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I already love kiddos in general, So

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like when your best friend has kids, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like their little best you but also the best friends

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<v Speaker 3>it is, and seeing them like as a mom, like

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<v Speaker 3>all my friends are such wonderful moms. It's just like

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<v Speaker 3>a different version of them you're seeing.

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<v Speaker 2>And you can't what an Ali for you? Were you

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<v Speaker 2>like when you started having kids? Were you worried? And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to lose all my friends? This is about to.

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<v Speaker 1>Change, yeah for sure, because I'm like, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>it is busy, Yeah, we're going to have We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be at a different in our life. What does

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<v Speaker 1>that look like? But really it didn't change at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Our friend should be a lot better after kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, yeah, I feel like I agree. And

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<v Speaker 2>I have so much to do with priority, like making

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<v Speaker 2>the time and always it doesn't have to be anything big,

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<v Speaker 2>Like Carl and I will randomly be like, we should

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<v Speaker 2>say a FaceTime, it's been a few weeks. We should

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<v Speaker 2>find days go by? Yeah yeah, We're like, okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>need about that on the calendar, or Ali and I

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<v Speaker 2>will randomly message each other on Instagram about everything. That's

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<v Speaker 2>how we stay up to day all the time. We're like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what's happening in our lives. Yes, Like I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>the kids happened today because Ali posts just about as

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<v Speaker 2>much as I do love her kiddos, and it's so

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<v Speaker 2>much fun for me to watch life through that way

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<v Speaker 2>for you. So it's just fun. And I love our

0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:49.760
<v Speaker 2>friendship so much on so many different levels. And it's impressive. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>we've been friends for over a decade. We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>going on to you guys are past two days. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys are going on your third decade, Like, don't remind you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's pretty crazy to think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy to think about it's so special. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a lot of people can say they've had

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<v Speaker 1>a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>How long you make time, things you want to do,

0:20:09.280 --> 0:20:12.360
<v Speaker 3>and the people you want to be with or around.

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<v Speaker 2>And we have all tried to get Karlat to move

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<v Speaker 2>to our respective cities. All of us are trying one day.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what I do like about us all

0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.520
<v Speaker 2>living in different cities is we always have fun places

0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:29.560
<v Speaker 2>to go visit. Like you guys came here this weekend

0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:32.680
<v Speaker 2>we've gone to Denver, like I've been to Fort Worth

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<v Speaker 2>with you in Wichita is home, so we always have

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<v Speaker 2>a reason to go home. There's just so much a

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<v Speaker 2>part of the traveling experience. Dukes. We all are little

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<v Speaker 2>travelers too. What's there like similarities? Look at our friendships.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think draw us to each other despite

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<v Speaker 2>the start of what happened with ours? Why do we

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<v Speaker 2>feel like we all gravitated toward each other and it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think we're all so similar, like

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<v Speaker 1>we enjoy doing the same thing. Yes, we're kind people.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the kindness is a huge, yeah, huge factor,

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<v Speaker 2>all super kind. I think we also one of the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest things I noticed about all of us is we

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<v Speaker 2>have similar personalities and that we're always up for anything

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<v Speaker 2>and we were willing to go and try everything once. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>all of us have that on different levels in different ways,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's the base is we all just have this

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<v Speaker 2>very easy going life, will work itself out kind of

0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:35.960
<v Speaker 2>nature on top of also being kind, and we were

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<v Speaker 2>always super friendly and just heartfelt.

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<v Speaker 1>With each other.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good way to put it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like those were important. I'm looking at Carl's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like at me.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, or what have you done?

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<v Speaker 3>Nor happening?

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<v Speaker 2>We do have to a funny story. Okay, gosh, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you guys when I love at Facebook, I

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<v Speaker 2>have the silliest Facebook albums.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I need to delete.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to delete. Those are great memory, great memories.

0:22:11.560 --> 0:22:12.960
<v Speaker 3>You can put them in a photo album.

0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:15.239
<v Speaker 2>They're private, nobody else can see them.

0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:16.440
<v Speaker 3>But that's true.

0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:19.840
<v Speaker 2>But guys are so funny. There was times where we

0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:22.399
<v Speaker 2>took pictures on back roads with random and that I

0:22:22.560 --> 0:22:25.679
<v Speaker 2>could not tell you their names today. Yeah, I know

0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:27.800
<v Speaker 2>we knew them. They were our friends at one point,

0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:30.800
<v Speaker 2>but like beyond that moment in time.

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<v Speaker 3>No idea makes for a good memory now.

0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:36.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Also, we were jumping in fields. I have jumping

0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.120
<v Speaker 2>pictures of us in fields.

0:22:40.200 --> 0:22:42.920
<v Speaker 3>At the time I thought it was cool. Now maybe

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<v Speaker 3>not not so much.

0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Or the Walmart photo shoots, Yes, there's.

0:22:48.400 --> 0:22:50.600
<v Speaker 3>A lot of those, Like I feel like that was

0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:52.880
<v Speaker 3>like the fun thing to do, or the sonic meet

0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:55.280
<v Speaker 3>your friends, get a slushy tree line made.

0:22:56.000 --> 0:22:59.800
<v Speaker 2>That was another one. We did. Also all attend prom together.

0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:03.160
<v Speaker 2>I came to your guys as prom so we got

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<v Speaker 2>a those pictures. I know, I started dating a guy

0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:08.480
<v Speaker 2>by way of you guys. You guys have been in

0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:11.480
<v Speaker 2>a lot of weird circumstances, and then that I date.

0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:13.960
<v Speaker 2>Also we have to talk about the curse here in

0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:18.399
<v Speaker 2>a second, but that's an important detail. But I had

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<v Speaker 2>started dating a guy that went to you guys as

0:23:19.960 --> 0:23:23.520
<v Speaker 2>high school, and I think that was such a formative

0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:26.520
<v Speaker 2>time in my life. And I spent so much of

0:23:26.560 --> 0:23:29.520
<v Speaker 2>it out there with you guys, because you guys know,

0:23:29.560 --> 0:23:31.240
<v Speaker 2>I had gone through that really horrible stuff that was

0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:34.359
<v Speaker 2>happening in high school, and I spent most of my

0:23:34.400 --> 0:23:36.600
<v Speaker 2>time out there with you guys. Like I really wasn't

0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:40.480
<v Speaker 2>around my high school. I was with you in hand, yeah,

0:23:40.520 --> 0:23:45.760
<v Speaker 2>in a way, And my first really like official boyfriend

0:23:45.880 --> 0:23:48.840
<v Speaker 2>was out there, and so we got to go to

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:51.679
<v Speaker 2>proms and stuff together. He's not in the picture at

0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:54.640
<v Speaker 2>all anymore, but that was a fun part of it. Yeah.

0:23:54.680 --> 0:23:56.320
<v Speaker 2>It allowed me to go to prom and do things

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.720
<v Speaker 2>with you guys. So if that was all he was

0:23:58.760 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 2>supposed to serve as a purpose for was for me

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:02.440
<v Speaker 2>to be able to go to all of your guys events.

0:24:02.720 --> 0:24:03.919
<v Speaker 2>Like I was an andel student.

0:24:04.480 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>That was good friends, friendship.

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:12.280
<v Speaker 2>It was okay. The curse Carla, that's the curse. Remember

0:24:12.320 --> 0:24:15.400
<v Speaker 2>we were talking about the curse the other night. Yeah,

0:24:15.520 --> 0:24:19.560
<v Speaker 2>our ex that we mutually date that started our friendship. Guys,

0:24:19.560 --> 0:24:21.840
<v Speaker 2>this man was it's the work.

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 1>He was not good a toothpick.

0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, uh huh. If the ick was a thing, him

0:24:30.200 --> 0:24:33.600
<v Speaker 2>chewing on the toothpick would have been the I don't

0:24:35.200 --> 0:24:37.360
<v Speaker 2>I still I don't think he ever actually used it

0:24:37.480 --> 0:24:40.600
<v Speaker 2>to use on his teeth. He simply chewed on it

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:42.840
<v Speaker 2>like it was bubblegum.

0:24:43.560 --> 0:24:44.400
<v Speaker 3>It was the look.

0:24:44.920 --> 0:24:47.640
<v Speaker 2>It was sick if it was a thing back then.

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:52.639
<v Speaker 2>He was just not great partner. Who knows where how

0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:54.720
<v Speaker 2>what he is in his life now, but at the time,

0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:57.240
<v Speaker 2>not a great partner. And you're not a great person.

0:24:58.080 --> 0:25:02.440
<v Speaker 2>But Carla and I have had a series of unfortunate relationships,

0:25:02.680 --> 0:25:07.960
<v Speaker 2>this man events literally both of us. Have you also

0:25:08.000 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 2>been cheated on in all of yours? Yeah, for the

0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 2>most part. Yeah, both of us have been cheated on

0:25:15.240 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 2>in every relationship since besides my last current one. And

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I think we decided as we were sitting over a

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:30.280
<v Speaker 2>couple of glasses deep of alcohol that we he cursed us.

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:33.119
<v Speaker 2>How do you feel about our curse?

0:25:34.480 --> 0:25:38.040
<v Speaker 3>Not well, but it can only go up, you break

0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:41.159
<v Speaker 3>it and change it. Yes, maybe try to see the

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:43.840
<v Speaker 3>positives over.

0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:47.000
<v Speaker 2>Alie seems to think that the curse is broken because

0:25:47.040 --> 0:25:49.119
<v Speaker 2>we finally recognized it. But I don't think that's how

0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:49.800
<v Speaker 2>curses work.

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:52.760
<v Speaker 3>I don't know curse are the right person.

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:54.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm hoping, so.

0:25:56.800 --> 0:26:01.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in life's timing, whatever that looks like.

0:26:01.359 --> 0:26:03.480
<v Speaker 2>But just to say, if you've ever known us or

0:26:03.720 --> 0:26:06.119
<v Speaker 2>heard either of our dating stories, just know that we

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:12.320
<v Speaker 2>have found the source. And the source was absolutely a curse. Unfortunately,

0:26:12.720 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 2>have a man named Baltimore who should never be named.

0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 2>And here's the reason for our bad luck. We are

0:26:19.760 --> 0:26:23.439
<v Speaker 2>the reverse of good luck. Chuck. We got bad luck chucked,

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:27.560
<v Speaker 2>and that's a bit we can change you, right. I

0:26:27.600 --> 0:26:33.040
<v Speaker 2>haven't had good luck so far, but is definitely coming.

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.160
<v Speaker 2>It is coming. We were out the other night, and

0:26:38.240 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 2>first of all, I would like you guys to share

0:26:40.080 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 2>your Thursday night outing. So here's the deal. These girls

0:26:43.320 --> 0:26:45.399
<v Speaker 2>came up to Nashville. I was exhausted that at a

0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:47.359
<v Speaker 2>long day of work. We went and had some dinner.

0:26:47.400 --> 0:26:50.159
<v Speaker 2>It was great. They're like, no, we're going to continue

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.639
<v Speaker 2>on the evening. I said, that's amazing. You guys, go

0:26:52.800 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 2>have fun y Yeah, talk to me about.

0:26:58.960 --> 0:26:59.880
<v Speaker 3>Why are we going to bed now?

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:02.360
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, it happens every It was the first on the vacation.

0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:04.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited to be together.

0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:08.560
<v Speaker 3>So we're like, let's continuing for almost twenty four hours.

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>We only let you leave because you had to work

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:11.160
<v Speaker 1>the next morning.

0:27:11.240 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 2>That's true. I don't think I would have been able to. Yeah,

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 2>so you guys bopped around in all of Nashville. Where

0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:20.240
<v Speaker 2>did where'd you guys go? Started it?

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 3>Jason Aldan's. Yep, it's been good dancing, great music, yes,

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:25.679
<v Speaker 3>great drinks.

0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:28.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, dance on the bar. You dance on the bar

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:31.320
<v Speaker 2>at All Dunes, Yeah, just for a little bit. Was

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 2>it the bar or was it the stage little thing?

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:34.840
<v Speaker 3>Stage?

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:35.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:36.880
<v Speaker 2>Dang. If you guys got on the bar, I would

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:38.560
<v Speaker 2>have been impressed, because you get kicked out if you

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 2>dance on the bar.

0:27:39.920 --> 0:27:40.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:42.640
<v Speaker 2>True, but you're on the stage. Do you guys meet

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:45.679
<v Speaker 2>any men at Jasonlethan's. Did you get hit on at us?

0:27:45.840 --> 0:27:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:27:46.040 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 3>Definitely got hit on tis Yeah, no one worthy of

0:27:49.920 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 3>chatting any younger.

0:27:50.800 --> 0:27:54.240
<v Speaker 2>But it was fun, just fun, little confidence boost exactly. Nice.

0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:54.879
<v Speaker 3>They were nice.

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:57.360
<v Speaker 1>And then we went to Chief yep.

0:27:57.440 --> 0:27:57.880
<v Speaker 3>That was fun.

0:27:57.920 --> 0:28:00.280
<v Speaker 1>We wanted to go get the little chair drink for

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:01.920
<v Speaker 1>the members. I'm going to give my daughter in the

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:03.480
<v Speaker 1>chair so she can play with it with her barbie.

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 2>It came with a little chair and it's called the chair.

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:09.439
<v Speaker 2>I had seen them post about the chair. But was

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 2>it a good drink?

0:28:10.720 --> 0:28:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh? We didn't get the drink we got. We ordered

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 1>our own drink and I said, I want to pay

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:16.480
<v Speaker 1>extra for the chair, please, I just want the chair.

0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 2>Stop.

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:20.720
<v Speaker 3>So we got the cup in the chair in a

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:21.400
<v Speaker 3>different drink.

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:25.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, only you. Ali is a massive country music fan.

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:28.720
<v Speaker 2>Carlos too, but Ali is like probably the most fan

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:31.720
<v Speaker 2>of all of us. I would say all of us.

0:28:32.560 --> 0:28:33.240
<v Speaker 2>Maybe a tie?

0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you love you?

0:28:35.640 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 2>Do her? I think hers is more specific? Maybe that's

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 2>more what it is.

0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:40.320
<v Speaker 3>That's true.

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.160
<v Speaker 2>She had the request of us going to morganwall In's bar.

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 2>That was like her only request for the weekend. And

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 2>she's wearing her Morgan wall and hat right now? Yes,

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 2>where do we go after that?

0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Then we went to Losers Oh, yes, we tried to

0:28:57.600 --> 0:29:00.320
<v Speaker 1>go to Riley Greens Bar. It was close. We were

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 1>just walking up the rampo a little.

0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 3>Dark, so that our first clue and then.

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:13.280
<v Speaker 2>You both rolled into the house clad again, and hilariously,

0:29:13.680 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 2>these two walk in. It's three o'clock in the morning.

0:29:16.360 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 2>The dogs are barking. Both Julie and I, who stayed behind,

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 2>were awake because the dogs were obviously barking, they knew

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:26.800
<v Speaker 2>somebody was home. These two little yahoos. I would go

0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 2>downstairs the next line and they are asleep in their

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 2>full outfits and decided to sleep on the couch even

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 2>though there were perfectly available beds upstairs.

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:39.960
<v Speaker 1>Pick you guys up even though you are.

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Awake, but ind you were really like playing the.

0:29:47.240 --> 0:29:49.800
<v Speaker 2>And at the same time, they also left out chips

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 2>and cazo to which my cat ate, Yeah, she didn't,

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:57.720
<v Speaker 2>but she definitely had herself a time. She had her

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 2>time as much as you probably guys did Thursday night,

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:05.280
<v Speaker 2>and then we had two really fun nights at Skinny Dinners,

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 2>which is like a new bar in Nashville, and you

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 2>guys promptly embarrassed me all the time.

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, we do, gladly. That's what friends are for.

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:17.040
<v Speaker 2>It makes for a great story, right, yeah, oh yeah,

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:20.480
<v Speaker 2>I have lots of stories after this weekend. But you guys,

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I think it is part of your especially Carla and

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:27.760
<v Speaker 2>I still get embarrassed from things, yeah, because of certain things,

0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 2>not being married, and there's still a lot of shame

0:30:31.440 --> 0:30:33.480
<v Speaker 2>associated with us. I feel like when you get married

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:36.320
<v Speaker 2>and you start to have kids, there's nothing that faces

0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 2>you anymore.

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Not as much some stuff does some stuff.

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 2>Because you guys had no shame. You and Julie were like, no,

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:47.200
<v Speaker 2>it's fine, we'll go talk to him, and they kept

0:30:47.240 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 2>making me talk to man and Carlot talk to men.

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I find you, guys a man, okay, real man, a

0:30:53.640 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 1>real man, good quality man.

0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.400
<v Speaker 3>See the diamond in the rough I think these days?

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 2>Right, it is, and this is the married women help

0:31:02.720 --> 0:31:06.360
<v Speaker 2>us be the wingwoman or the best they are. There's

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 2>no because they can just be like, yeah, no, I

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 2>don't like a mean, they know what you like. They

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:14.280
<v Speaker 2>do too, they see a different side spot on you guys.

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 2>I had the best we can have ever had because

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.800
<v Speaker 2>of you guys. You guys like pushed them some things

0:31:18.840 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 2>to happen in due time. If anything ever transpires, then

0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 2>that'll be talked about.

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 3>For the matchmakers.

0:31:24.600 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 2>But for this, yeah, you guys really were. Isn't it

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 2>crazy how much your friends played that role for you.

0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 2>It's so much more fun than me being on hinge

0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 2>and having to date people that way.

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and meeting them out naturally, yes, and whatever you're

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 3>doing because they like doing that as well.

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 2>And you guys, just being in town brings out a

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 2>different side of me. I just am on a different vibe,

0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 2>confidence level, high energy levels, typically high becaudes last night

0:31:51.240 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 2>when I fell asleep in the bar because I was

0:31:54.240 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 2>so tired. But you guys make me feel this is

0:31:58.560 --> 0:32:02.520
<v Speaker 2>what's so crazy about such great friendships. You guys make

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 2>me feel like the best version of myself. So when

0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm out, I do feel like I meet more people

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 2>with you guys, because I am just in such a

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 2>different state of mind than when I'm just like by

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:17.960
<v Speaker 2>myself or with friends that we go out all the time,

0:32:18.040 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 2>where you're at dinner, Like when I'm with you guys,

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:23.960
<v Speaker 2>it is a I truly experience a different level of consciousness.

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 2>I think because of how close a friends we are.

0:32:26.600 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's just different, Yeah, different.

0:32:28.880 --> 0:32:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Vibe it is. There's something that's happening and I just like,

0:32:32.280 --> 0:32:34.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I'm like two sheets still win and

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like whatever, life's good, We'll get home safe.

0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 3>And it's like when we're together, we're all like the

0:32:39.800 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 3>same vibe we are. We're wanting to have a good time,

0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:44.560
<v Speaker 3>just be together, make memories.

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 2>It is so you feel it too, Oh yeah that one, Ali,

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Do you feel it?

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel it too.

0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 2>It's a vibe. There's a certain level of that.

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 2>As we wrap up our episode, I would like to

0:32:56.640 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 2>know from you girlies advice for other women out there

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 2>in making friendships and sustaining friendships. What are your thoughts

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:08.080
<v Speaker 2>on that. I feel like it's.

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Hard as you get older, Toris.

0:33:09.880 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 3>We didn't go to school together or grew up together.

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you just have to be yourself. So you

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>just have to find people that like completely, like they.

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 3>Bring you up or do an activity that you like

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 3>to do, and usually you'll meet other people in that way,

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 3>whether it be friends or a guy or yeah, either way.

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<v Speaker 2>And you are really good at that. Girl, you go

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<v Speaker 2>out and you make new friends anywhere you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you definitely make friends anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Even if you're like shy or nervous. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>just being yourself and doing your activities.

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<v Speaker 4>Usually you'll tract someone that likes to do so, see,

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<v Speaker 4>you're really take a friend that way or Finally, for

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<v Speaker 4>the fellow mamas out there who are trying to keep

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<v Speaker 4>and sustaining their friendships, any thoughts, advice.

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<v Speaker 1>You just gotta check in. And I don't know you,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very true.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are so sweet, innocent, and you really both.

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<v Speaker 2>I can see it in your eyes. But if you're

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<v Speaker 2>just looking at me like what has she gotten us

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<v Speaker 2>into for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I says, we love you.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys did great and it was good talking to you. Guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for coming to visit me, of course, thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>having soon always we'll be We're already on our plan

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<v Speaker 2>to plan our next trip, our yearly trip together. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and also if anybody out there has a good idea.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to figure out our sisterhood of the traveling

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<v Speaker 2>pants thing. We decided that we need to have something

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<v Speaker 2>that we can send to each other. Not jeans, because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that actually exists. Something different, Yeah, something

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<v Speaker 2>that we can send to each other and pass around

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<v Speaker 2>because we all are in different cities as a little

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<v Speaker 2>snail mail. I feel like people have to be doing

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<v Speaker 2>something out there that we could by steal their idea

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<v Speaker 2>and continue or I don't know, Yeah, some cute memory

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<v Speaker 2>there's something. So if you're out there and you have one,

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<v Speaker 2>cheated our way, because we need one. We're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>come up with one, the way, the one. All right, friends,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for being here, Thanks for visiting. I love you

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<v Speaker 2>both so much. You guys are incredible friends, incredible humans,

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<v Speaker 2>and you are both of you guys deserve the world

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<v Speaker 2>and all the happiness too. No, I love you, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for having us.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe this episode reminded you of your friends or pushed

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<v Speaker 2>you to show up for your friends in a new way.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, friendships don't get enough credit for how much

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<v Speaker 2>they impact and play a role in our lives. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I will continue to highlight friendships and just how

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<v Speaker 2>special they are. I have so many new episodes ready

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<v Speaker 2>and waiting for you, guys, and I really can't wait

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<v Speaker 2>for you to hear. We're going to talk to some

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<v Speaker 2>change makers the next few weeks. And one of them

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<v Speaker 2>is one of my favorite follows on Instagram. His name's

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<v Speaker 2>Nile and he saves street dogs in Thailand and he

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<v Speaker 2>has a new book out and I just think you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are going to love him and so many of

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<v Speaker 2>the other ones coming up, So get subscribed. Follow on

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram at take this personally so you don't miss a

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<v Speaker 2>single thing. Thanks for being here as always. I love you. Bye.