1 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: Personally old men. 2 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 2: My best friends of over a decade are joining me 3 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: this week. We recorded this episode when they were visiting 4 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: me in Nashville for our yearly best friend trip, and 5 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: it was so much fun to do with them. I 6 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: definitely made him do this, so go easy on them, 7 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: but I loved getting to highlight our friendships because I 8 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: have learned so much from them over the years, and 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 2: we have a funny history of how we became friends. Right, 10 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 2: girly pops. I'm really excited for this episode because two 11 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: of my oldest childhood friends are on the episode with me, 12 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: and they are freaking out that I am making them 13 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 2: do this. Everybody meet Carla and Ali. Hi, guys, Hi 14 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: you feel that yet? Are we still nervous? We're talking 15 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: about friendship. I made the girls come on because we 16 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: have such a special relationship and we are all in 17 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: very different phases of our lives in multiple different cities. 18 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: We had another friend that was with us for the weekend, 19 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: but she had to jump on a flight because we 20 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 2: partied a little too hard this weekend and never a 21 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 2: little bit quite ready time for the podcast. But all 22 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 2: that to say, these girls are some of my greatest 23 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 2: friends and we have great stories to share and moments 24 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: of life that I think will be really fun for 25 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: people to hear. So Carla, let's talk how you and 26 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 2: I first met. That's a story. Yeah, yeah, you want 27 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: to tell it, share with the people how we first met. 28 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: We were long story short, dating the same guy back 29 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: in the day. He was a real winner and continued 30 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 3: for a little while meeting each other. I guess, and yeah, 31 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: you were the blessing that came out of that. 32 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're a dark time. We were both on Facebook 33 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: and messaging each other when we realized we were both 34 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: dating the same guy. It was basically, are we dating 35 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 2: the same guy? Facebook page? But in real life? Yes, 36 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: We had it before that ever happened, and Carla reached 37 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: out to me. I was like, I'm pretty sure we're 38 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 2: dating the same guy. And I was like, what is happening? 39 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: And Carla and I? Which is so ironic because I 40 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 2: feel like in most scenarios we would have hated each 41 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: other for a lot of people, I think that's typically 42 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 2: what happens. But Carla and I instead were like, no, 43 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: we're going to team up and and that's exactly what happened. 44 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 2: And we showed up to a party and dumped the 45 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: news on him and we said Syonara. And then you 46 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: and I became best friends instantly, Yeah, we did. And 47 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: then by way of you, I met Ali. Ali. Do 48 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 2: you remember when we first met. 49 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 50 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 2: I think it was a house party. I feel like 51 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: it was definitely a house party, but I also think 52 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 2: it was a house party. That was it was with 53 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 2: Carla's family. I think we were at Carla's house and 54 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: we were having a sleepover. I think this is one 55 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: of the first times Carla and I had a sleepover 56 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 2: and you came over and it was us. We're hanging up. Yes, yeah, 57 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 2: because you guys were neighbors, because you two grew up together. Yes, 58 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 2: and you've known each other. Okay, were you best friends 59 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: from the start? 60 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: I think so, yeah, for sure. Yeah. 61 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: You guys are both sweet, so I would imagine back 62 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: then too, you guys were just like, you want to 63 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 2: be my friend? Yes? 64 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: What happened with you? Do you want to be our friend? Yes? 65 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 3: It was great edition. 66 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: And we still have pictures from that night when our 67 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: first sleepover happened, if you will, And there was cake 68 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: and we hung out with your brother Carla, and we 69 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: were just there was cake. I don't know why, but 70 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: it might have been your brother's birthday maybe something. But 71 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: I have pictures, like on a Facebook album page of 72 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: that night and we sat in your basement taking like 73 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: the stupidest photos for over an hour. It sounds like 74 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: that was all of our first met I'm pretty sure 75 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: that was the first time I met you officially, because 76 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 2: we did walk this back the other night. We were 77 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: all sitting at dinner together and you were like, didn't 78 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: we all meet up at a water park when this 79 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: first happened to compare stories, Yes, but you guys remember 80 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: that better than me, so can you share that? 81 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 82 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 3: I think it was like when we were messaging on Facebook, 83 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 3: we're like, where should we meet up? We were already 84 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 3: going to this water I think we're already going to 85 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 3: the water park maybe, And then we invited you. 86 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 2: And we're like, did it? But I didn't stay and 87 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: hang out? Did I just come and talk to you guys? 88 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 89 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 3: It was short and sweet. 90 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 2: Did we meet in the parking lot or did I 91 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 2: come in the water park? 92 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: This all sounds right? 93 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, So from a sketchy meeting on Facebook to 94 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 2: a water park meeting and a parking lot, a little sketchy, 95 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: all sketchy to becoming lifelong friends. We have all been friends. Now, gosh, 96 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: what was that? What is that? What you're are we on? 97 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: And what you're you guys on? 98 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 3: That's going to make it seven years old? 99 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is part of the. 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: Twenty six years. 101 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 102 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you guys are twenty six years and I 103 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 2: believe I met you guys when I was roughly fifteen, yes, 104 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: which should be like sixteen years now? Is that crazy memory? 105 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: We put like that on it and you're like, oh, 106 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: what is happening? So that's our where our friendship stories began. 107 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 2: And we've had so many memories along the way, and 108 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to put you guys on the spot. I 109 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: want to talk about some of our favorite memories. So 110 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 2: who wants to go first? Who wants to share, like 111 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 2: maybe one of their favorite memories all of us together 112 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 2: or one on one whatever it may be. Anybody. They're 113 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 2: both looking at me like I'm absolutely crazy right now. 114 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: We have so many I'm trying to like think of 115 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 3: the stories. 116 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: In my head right now. 117 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I think all the trips that we 118 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: go on together are my favorite. So like I love. 119 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 2: Carla and I did Washington and organ together. So yeah, 120 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 2: and I'll never forget that trip. 121 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 3: It was so fun. 122 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 2: I made Carla trek on so many hikes. She was like, 123 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 2: what it was happening? 124 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 3: Did like over twenty like eight miles or something we did. 125 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: But also something to know about Carla is like she 126 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 2: loves to like party and have a good time. So 127 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: when we booked this trip, she was like, so when 128 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 2: are we gonna go out or got some drinks out? 129 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 2: As like yeah, And I was like, Carla, I didn't trip. Yeah, 130 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 2: I didn't really put that in the schedule this time. 131 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 2: I think that was our first trip where we didn't 132 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: consume a lot of alcohol. We did a lot of sleep. 133 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 134 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then Ali, I think it was my birthday 135 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: trip to Disneyland. 136 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: That was so so fun. 137 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: We had so much fun out there. 138 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: It was such a last minute trip. I wasn't even 139 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,679 Speaker 1: gonna go because I had just got back from Disney 140 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: and Florida. Oh that's great, and like literally maybe a 141 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: week before the trip, I'm like I'm coming. Yeah, you 142 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: were a birthday trip. Yeah. Yeah. 143 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: So those are two of my favorites. Anything come to 144 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 2: mind for you guys, I. 145 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 3: Was gonna say the Washington organ trip on one, but 146 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 3: also when you came to visit me in Colorado, that 147 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: was a lot of fun. 148 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: Yeah too. 149 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: It's a little bit colder, yeah, and lots. 150 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 3: Of restaurants and drinking spots, a good spot come snowboard. 151 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: But I know DVD our next trip, Ali. 152 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: So many. We have a lot of funny memories to 153 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: Country Stampede. 154 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah that actually, you know what, I might take 155 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: the Disney one back. 156 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: Was I even invited? I don't know. 157 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: I think you were there, but you were there, you 158 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 2: might have not been. 159 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 3: I think I was dating somebody and I was dating 160 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 3: someone in high school, and I think I was on 161 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 3: a trip with his family, like a lake trip. 162 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 2: Yeah that's what it was. 163 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: It was in the summer. Summer. 164 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: Yes, oh yeah, it was summer. Yeah, Ali was there. 165 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 2: I've told the story on the Bobby Bone Show. Ali 166 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: was there when I missed Zac Brown Band and I 167 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: passed out in the r V. It was one of 168 00:07:54,960 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: Al's friends and girlfriend. Are you okay? I'm like, I'm not. 169 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: And at this point we maybe been friends like a year, 170 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: so we had it even like truly evolved. 171 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: You were more than sixteen at that point. 172 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: Right, Oh, maybe you're right, Okay, it might have been 173 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: closer to when I was in college. Was I in 174 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: high school? I don't know how old were you trying 175 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 2: to think? Yeah, it could have been like still regardless, 176 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 2: I was young, and it was still we were still 177 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 2: under the five year mark of our friendship, so we're 178 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 2: still learning each other, like figuring things out. I'm like, 179 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: oh my god, I just passed out this random person's 180 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 2: RV and I don't know half of these people. 181 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: It was like a little quick naps. 182 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: Your parents were something really good breathing. Yes, that was 183 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 2: a good one. Also, there was another one when we 184 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: went to an antel party and we were hanging out 185 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: of Ali's house before and we had like our little 186 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: party pregame. Guys, I don't condone after each should not 187 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: be underactreet service and now there's not a lot to 188 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 2: do in Kansas at the time, okay, And we were 189 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: in Ali's house and then we were going to like 190 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 2: a house party. But I don't know if you guys 191 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 2: remember this. I got like a mole concussion because I 192 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: was on a skateboard. Yes, don't ask me why I 193 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 2: was on a skateboard in somebody else's house, but I 194 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: was and I fell off in him my head on 195 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: the coffee table. Yes, And you guys proceeded to like 196 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 2: sit up next to me the entire evening to make 197 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 2: sure I was okay, You're going to make sure. You're 198 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 2: going to make it. We're like, do we call our parents? 199 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: What do we do? 200 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: That one was a funny memory too, Okay, So I 201 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 2: want to get into the fun sentimental stuff here, Carla. 202 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: One of your biggest assets we were talking about this 203 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: at dinner, is that you make such a priority for 204 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: your friendships. It is the most important thing to you. 205 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: You make sure everybody is always known, cared for, and 206 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: know this. Carla lives in Denver, Alli lives in Fort Worth. 207 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: Our other friend that was here, Jewelie, lives in all 208 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 2: of our hometown of Wichita, and we so not only 209 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 2: are we four friends of been friends for a long time, 210 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 2: but we're four friends who live import different cities, different 211 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: places in our lives. And Carla, what you are so 212 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,719 Speaker 2: good about is just always showing up physically and on 213 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 2: the phone and everything. It is so important. Why is 214 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: it so important to you? 215 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: I feel like my friends and family, like everybody close 216 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 3: to me, brings me so much joy, So that's very 217 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 3: important to me, and all the memories and just almost 218 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 3: like soul sisters. 219 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like you look at most people in life 220 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 2: and it's really hard to make friendships a priority. Fills 221 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: my cup. Yeah, so how do you make sure you're 222 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 2: always making the time? What's going through your thought brous 223 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 2: when you're doing things? You're like, I have to be 224 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 2: doing this for other people. This is really important to me. 225 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 3: I feel like just checking in on everybody and making 226 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 3: sure they're okay, it's important to me. 227 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but why give me a breakdown of why. 228 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, Like my people, the close people are 229 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 3: always just so important. Just I don't know, it's like 230 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 3: almost like a daily thing I. 231 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: Have to do. 232 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: We're just always in your head. 233 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 3: Yeah basically really so you're just that you're just amazing, 234 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 3: but everyone before me sometimes. 235 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, which which has. 236 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 3: Like it just makes me very happy to check on everyone. 237 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 2: Yes, and you do. You're so good at that, And 238 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 2: that's why I wanted to ask you because I don't 239 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: think I don't think it's easy for most people to 240 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: do that. But you just always make the time. 241 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 3: It's always been like that. 242 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, It's always been important too, Okay, Ali, Now you 243 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 2: ms mama of two and you also always make time. 244 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 2: You are a mother of two children and you come 245 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 2: and spend time and always check in and your making 246 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 2: sure friendships stay important to you. Why is it important 247 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 2: to you? 248 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: It definitely fills my cup. I agree with you there. Yeah, 249 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: And like I was saying, my mom used to say 250 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: that all of your true friends and you count them 251 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 1: on your hand. 252 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 3: Very true. 253 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: True, and you two are a part of that. So 254 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: it's important to me to check on you. Makes me happy. 255 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: Yes, I know you guys are good. Yeah, and it 256 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 2: is it does? 257 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: It brings us joy. 258 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 2: How do you feel like you manage with being a mom, 259 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: a wife and then also managing having friends and keeping 260 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: your friends? 261 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? I think definitely after having kids that was hard 262 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: because you're always going and it is harder to stay 263 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: in touch with people when you are married with kids, 264 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: like and making sure the kids are good. But you 265 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: guys are my family too, So. 266 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 2: What benefits you feel like as a mother, Because we 267 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: were talking about this at dinner the other night. To 268 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 2: make sure that you're keeping that community of friendships, what 269 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: do you feel like that does for you? And if 270 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: you didn't have that, what do you feel like that 271 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: would be. 272 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: I think I would be a terrible mom if I 273 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: didn't have my friendships. Like, I feel like I'm a 274 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 1: better person because of you guys, and calmer. I get 275 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: a weekend away, I can go back, it's. 276 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:02,719 Speaker 3: Like your med time and then come back. 277 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel recharged after being with you guys. 278 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 2: And when you first dated started dating your husband Steven, 279 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 2: was that a priority for you, like when you were 280 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 2: finding a partner where you were like, you have to 281 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 2: be able to manage and be a good partner in 282 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 2: all facets, so I can also keep my friendships. 283 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: Yes, friendships are important to him too. He has lifelong 284 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: friends and so for both of us that's just a priority. 285 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: That's just part of who we are. 286 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: And it always it's easy. It seems easy for you 287 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 2: guys to always be like, hey, you got this weekend, 288 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 2: I'm going to go. I don't feel like Stephen has 289 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: ever been someone who's no, you can't do this, and 290 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 2: I got your back. I'm here for you to do this. 291 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: As he was driving me to the airport, he was like, 292 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: you need to do this more. You need to go 293 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: have more girl trips. 294 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 3: Okay, well plan the next time. 295 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, see, like once an it's rare, and that is 296 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 2: the partner that you're supposed to have. I think that 297 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: plays such a significant role because one you feel secure 298 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 2: and leaving because you know he's a good partner, you 299 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: know he's a good dad into that he pushes you 300 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: to be that way. That is such an important part. 301 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 2: And we get really caught up when even just getting 302 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: in relationships or dating and then you get married and 303 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: friendships really get pushed down when as we were all 304 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 2: talking about this, like friendships should be one of the 305 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 2: top priorities because you can't exist to your best self 306 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 2: much like you were saying without the friendships. There's such 307 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: a big piece of your story and we were looking 308 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 2: at it of I've seen you as a kid, as 309 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: a girl, as a woman, now a wife and a mother, 310 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 2: and I will be there for whatever comes next. And 311 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: your friends are the only ones that have that ability 312 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 2: besides your siblings and your family, but as a human 313 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 2: that is not blood related, that will be like potentially 314 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: the only person who has seen you in all facets 315 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 2: of life. And that's crazy to think about. Special Yeah, 316 00:14:56,040 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: yeah different now And Carla is my fellow single girl 317 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: in the group. Ali and Julie really love hearing our 318 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: crazy dating story. 319 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: They're quite entertaining. 320 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: We could really share some Yeah, we do. 321 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 2: We can get into that. We can get into that. 322 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 2: I want to know when you're dating and stuff, do 323 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 2: you make sure you're looking for someone who is seeing 324 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: the priority for you in friendships? Yes? 325 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: Yes? 326 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 2: What does that look like when you're dating? What are 327 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: you paying attention to be? Like? How is he going 328 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: to handle me having all of these friends and these 329 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: being close in the time? 330 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 3: What is that like if his close friends are important 331 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 3: to him? And like family time? Like who wow? Does 332 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 3: he do his meat time? Kind of like that? 333 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 2: And then evaluate and be like are we on some 334 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 2: more pages? Exactly what does this look like? 335 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 336 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 2: This is crazy and we are like in full transparency, 337 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 2: like we had this girl's weekend because it was important 338 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: and necessary and we always plan a trip. Yes, once 339 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: a year, that's like a priority. We've all made it 340 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 2: very important that we see each other at least once 341 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 2: a year, being in different cities, having multiple different styles 342 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 2: of life. But more important than that, we were in 343 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: a time that Carla really needed us. Yes, and that 344 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: was what this weekend was for Yeah, like we've always 345 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: shown up. I remember, like when I went through my 346 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 2: breakup last year, all three of you girls had sent 347 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 2: me like this box of all these goodies. I still 348 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: have the little pickle, the emotional support pickle. It's my 349 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: favorite thing. Like everything else in there was amazing, but 350 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: the emotional support pickle was all that I needed. You did, 351 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 2: You did, like you guys always find ways to show up. 352 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: I'm trying to get into your guys' brains a little 353 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 2: bit because being a empathetic and compassionate friend isn't easy 354 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: for everybody, but you guys always do it. Yeah, you 355 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 2: guys always show up in that way, especially like when 356 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 2: we are all struggling and going through really hard things, 357 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: Like when I went through my breakup. What was that 358 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 2: process like for you guys, where you're like, okay, Morgan 359 00:16:58,160 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: needs us. 360 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 3: Just trying to be there the best we could for you, 361 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: even though we were afar, whether checking in on you, 362 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 3: sending you goodies to bring you smile to your face, 363 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 3: face time calls. 364 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: Knock on the door. 365 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 3: Yeah too, surprised you. 366 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you ended up doing and you weren't far 367 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: behind that you ended up coming in October you for sure, 368 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 2: that is your one of your strongest quality traits. And 369 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: you're like, I'm just gonna make the time. I don't 370 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 2: care what is going on, I'll be there, And that's 371 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 2: it's such a huge trait and it's also a testament. 372 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 2: Like Ali talked to how Carla is and a really 373 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 2: good aunt to your kiddo's. I'm also an aunt, but 374 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: like Carla, Carla is above and beyond. 375 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: Always sending the packages, calling, facetiming them like she is 376 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: truly like an aunt to them. Yeah, people know growing 377 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: up forever. 378 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 2: That Carl I know. And it's so fun to watch, right, 379 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: Like I think it's so cool to watch you have 380 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: become a mom, Julie become a mom, and watch that 381 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 2: process and then also get to be a part of 382 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 2: like your little one's life that's half you know, and 383 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: see that transition. Yeah, but also just in this situation itself, 384 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 2: like Carla could have easily been like you had kids. 385 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: This is a different time of our lives. And I 386 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 2: love you, I support you, but we're distancing ourselves. But 387 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: you chose not to. Why did you choose not to? 388 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: Like? 389 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 2: Why was that important for you? Even though she was 390 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 2: transitioning to a new part of her life. 391 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,199 Speaker 3: I feel like I already love kiddos in general, So 392 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 3: I feel like when your best friend has kids, it's 393 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 3: like their little best you but also the best friends 394 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 3: it is, and seeing them like as a mom, like 395 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 3: all my friends are such wonderful moms. It's just like 396 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 3: a different version of them you're seeing. 397 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: And you can't what an Ali for you? Were you 398 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 2: like when you started having kids? Were you worried? And 399 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to lose all my friends? This is about to. 400 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: Change, yeah for sure, because I'm like, you know what 401 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: it is busy, Yeah, we're going to have We're going 402 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 1: to be at a different in our life. What does 403 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 1: that look like? But really it didn't change at all. 404 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: Our friend should be a lot better after kids. 405 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, I feel like I agree. And 406 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 2: I have so much to do with priority, like making 407 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 2: the time and always it doesn't have to be anything big, 408 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 2: Like Carl and I will randomly be like, we should 409 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 2: say a FaceTime, it's been a few weeks. We should 410 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 2: find days go by? Yeah yeah, We're like, okay, we 411 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: need about that on the calendar, or Ali and I 412 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 2: will randomly message each other on Instagram about everything. That's 413 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 2: how we stay up to day all the time. We're like, 414 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: this is what's happening in our lives. Yes, Like I'm like, Okay, 415 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 2: the kids happened today because Ali posts just about as 416 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 2: much as I do love her kiddos, and it's so 417 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: much fun for me to watch life through that way 418 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 2: for you. So it's just fun. And I love our 419 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: friendship so much on so many different levels. And it's impressive. Guys, 420 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,199 Speaker 2: we've been friends for over a decade. We're gonna be 421 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 2: going on to you guys are past two days. You 422 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 2: guys are going on your third decade, Like, don't remind you. 423 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 3: It's pretty crazy to think about it. 424 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 1: It's crazy to think about it's so special. I don't 425 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people can say they've had 426 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: a friend. 427 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 3: How long you make time, things you want to do, 428 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 3: and the people you want to be with or around. 429 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 2: And we have all tried to get Karlat to move 430 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 2: to our respective cities. All of us are trying one day. 431 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: No. 432 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 2: But you know what I do like about us all 433 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 2: living in different cities is we always have fun places 434 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 2: to go visit. Like you guys came here this weekend 435 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 2: we've gone to Denver, like I've been to Fort Worth 436 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 2: with you in Wichita is home, so we always have 437 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 2: a reason to go home. There's just so much a 438 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: part of the traveling experience. Dukes. We all are little 439 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: travelers too. What's there like similarities? Look at our friendships. 440 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 2: What do you think draw us to each other despite 441 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 2: the start of what happened with ours? Why do we 442 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 2: feel like we all gravitated toward each other and it worked. 443 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think we're all so similar, like 444 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: we enjoy doing the same thing. Yes, we're kind people. 445 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 2: I think the kindness is a huge, yeah, huge factor, 446 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 2: all super kind. I think we also one of the 447 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 2: biggest things I noticed about all of us is we 448 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: have similar personalities and that we're always up for anything 449 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 2: and we were willing to go and try everything once. Yes, 450 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 2: all of us have that on different levels in different ways, 451 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 2: but that's the base is we all just have this 452 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 2: very easy going life, will work itself out kind of 453 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 2: nature on top of also being kind, and we were 454 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: always super friendly and just heartfelt. 455 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 1: With each other. 456 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 3: It's a good way to put it. 457 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like those were important. I'm looking at Carl's. 458 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: Like at me. 459 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 2: She's like, or what have you done? 460 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 3: Nor happening? 461 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 2: We do have to a funny story. Okay, gosh, like 462 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 2: I'm telling you guys when I love at Facebook, I 463 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 2: have the silliest Facebook albums. 464 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to delete. 465 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 2: I don't want to delete. Those are great memory, great memories. 466 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 3: You can put them in a photo album. 467 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,239 Speaker 2: They're private, nobody else can see them. 468 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 3: But that's true. 469 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 2: But guys are so funny. There was times where we 470 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 2: took pictures on back roads with random and that I 471 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 2: could not tell you their names today. Yeah, I know 472 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 2: we knew them. They were our friends at one point, 473 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 2: but like beyond that moment in time. 474 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 3: No idea makes for a good memory now. 475 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, we were jumping in fields. I have jumping 476 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 2: pictures of us in fields. 477 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 3: At the time I thought it was cool. Now maybe 478 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: not not so much. 479 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: Or the Walmart photo shoots, Yes, there's. 480 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 3: A lot of those, Like I feel like that was 481 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 3: like the fun thing to do, or the sonic meet 482 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 3: your friends, get a slushy tree line made. 483 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 2: That was another one. We did. Also all attend prom together. 484 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 2: I came to your guys as prom so we got 485 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 2: a those pictures. I know, I started dating a guy 486 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 2: by way of you guys. You guys have been in 487 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: a lot of weird circumstances, and then that I date. 488 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: Also we have to talk about the curse here in 489 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 2: a second, but that's an important detail. But I had 490 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 2: started dating a guy that went to you guys as 491 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 2: high school, and I think that was such a formative 492 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 2: time in my life. And I spent so much of 493 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: it out there with you guys, because you guys know, 494 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 2: I had gone through that really horrible stuff that was 495 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: happening in high school, and I spent most of my 496 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 2: time out there with you guys. Like I really wasn't 497 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 2: around my high school. I was with you in hand, yeah, 498 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: in a way, And my first really like official boyfriend 499 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: was out there, and so we got to go to 500 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,679 Speaker 2: proms and stuff together. He's not in the picture at 501 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 2: all anymore, but that was a fun part of it. Yeah. 502 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: It allowed me to go to prom and do things 503 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 2: with you guys. So if that was all he was 504 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: supposed to serve as a purpose for was for me 505 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 2: to be able to go to all of your guys events. 506 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 2: Like I was an andel student. 507 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 1: That was good friends, friendship. 508 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: It was okay. The curse Carla, that's the curse. Remember 509 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 2: we were talking about the curse the other night. Yeah, 510 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 2: our ex that we mutually date that started our friendship. Guys, 511 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 2: this man was it's the work. 512 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 1: He was not good a toothpick. 513 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, uh huh. If the ick was a thing, him 514 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: chewing on the toothpick would have been the I don't 515 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 2: I still I don't think he ever actually used it 516 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 2: to use on his teeth. He simply chewed on it 517 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: like it was bubblegum. 518 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 3: It was the look. 519 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 2: It was sick if it was a thing back then. 520 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 2: He was just not great partner. Who knows where how 521 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: what he is in his life now, but at the time, 522 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 2: not a great partner. And you're not a great person. 523 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 2: But Carla and I have had a series of unfortunate relationships, 524 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 2: this man events literally both of us. Have you also 525 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 2: been cheated on in all of yours? Yeah, for the 526 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 2: most part. Yeah, both of us have been cheated on 527 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: in every relationship since besides my last current one. And 528 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 2: I think we decided as we were sitting over a 529 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 2: couple of glasses deep of alcohol that we he cursed us. 530 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 2: How do you feel about our curse? 531 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 3: Not well, but it can only go up, you break 532 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 3: it and change it. Yes, maybe try to see the 533 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 3: positives over. 534 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 2: Alie seems to think that the curse is broken because 535 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 2: we finally recognized it. But I don't think that's how 536 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 2: curses work. 537 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 3: I don't know curse are the right person. 538 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 2: I'm hoping, so. 539 00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, in life's timing, whatever that looks like. 540 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: But just to say, if you've ever known us or 541 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 2: heard either of our dating stories, just know that we 542 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 2: have found the source. And the source was absolutely a curse. Unfortunately, 543 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 2: have a man named Baltimore who should never be named. 544 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 2: And here's the reason for our bad luck. We are 545 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 2: the reverse of good luck. Chuck. We got bad luck chucked, 546 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: and that's a bit we can change you, right. I 547 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: haven't had good luck so far, but is definitely coming. 548 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 2: It is coming. We were out the other night, and 549 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 2: first of all, I would like you guys to share 550 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 2: your Thursday night outing. So here's the deal. These girls 551 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 2: came up to Nashville. I was exhausted that at a 552 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 2: long day of work. We went and had some dinner. 553 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 2: It was great. They're like, no, we're going to continue 554 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 2: on the evening. I said, that's amazing. You guys, go 555 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: have fun y Yeah, talk to me about. 556 00:26:58,960 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 3: Why are we going to bed now? 557 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 2: Honestly, it happens every It was the first on the vacation. 558 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to be together. 559 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 3: So we're like, let's continuing for almost twenty four hours. 560 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: We only let you leave because you had to work 561 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 1: the next morning. 562 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 2: That's true. I don't think I would have been able to. Yeah, 563 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: so you guys bopped around in all of Nashville. Where 564 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 2: did where'd you guys go? Started it? 565 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 3: Jason Aldan's. Yep, it's been good dancing, great music, yes, 566 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 3: great drinks. 567 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 2: Okay, dance on the bar. You dance on the bar 568 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 2: at All Dunes, Yeah, just for a little bit. Was 569 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 2: it the bar or was it the stage little thing? 570 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 3: Stage? 571 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 572 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 2: Dang. If you guys got on the bar, I would 573 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 2: have been impressed, because you get kicked out if you 574 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 2: dance on the bar. 575 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 576 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 2: True, but you're on the stage. Do you guys meet 577 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 2: any men at Jasonlethan's. Did you get hit on at us? 578 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh? 579 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 3: Definitely got hit on tis Yeah, no one worthy of 580 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 3: chatting any younger. 581 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: But it was fun, just fun, little confidence boost exactly. Nice. 582 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 3: They were nice. 583 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,360 Speaker 1: And then we went to Chief yep. 584 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 3: That was fun. 585 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: We wanted to go get the little chair drink for 586 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: the members. I'm going to give my daughter in the 587 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 1: chair so she can play with it with her barbie. 588 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: It came with a little chair and it's called the chair. 589 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 2: I had seen them post about the chair. But was 590 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 2: it a good drink? 591 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 1: Oh? We didn't get the drink we got. We ordered 592 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 1: our own drink and I said, I want to pay 593 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: extra for the chair, please, I just want the chair. 594 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 2: Stop. 595 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 3: So we got the cup in the chair in a 596 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 3: different drink. 597 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, only you. Ali is a massive country music fan. 598 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 2: Carlos too, but Ali is like probably the most fan 599 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 2: of all of us. I would say all of us. 600 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 2: Maybe a tie? 601 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you love you? 602 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 2: Do her? I think hers is more specific? Maybe that's 603 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 2: more what it is. 604 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 3: That's true. 605 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 2: She had the request of us going to morganwall In's bar. 606 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 2: That was like her only request for the weekend. And 607 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: she's wearing her Morgan wall and hat right now? Yes, 608 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 2: where do we go after that? 609 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: Then we went to Losers Oh, yes, we tried to 610 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: go to Riley Greens Bar. It was close. We were 611 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: just walking up the rampo a little. 612 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 3: Dark, so that our first clue and then. 613 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 2: You both rolled into the house clad again, and hilariously, 614 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 2: these two walk in. It's three o'clock in the morning. 615 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: The dogs are barking. Both Julie and I, who stayed behind, 616 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 2: were awake because the dogs were obviously barking, they knew 617 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 2: somebody was home. These two little yahoos. I would go 618 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 2: downstairs the next line and they are asleep in their 619 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 2: full outfits and decided to sleep on the couch even 620 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: though there were perfectly available beds upstairs. 621 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 1: Pick you guys up even though you are. 622 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 3: Awake, but ind you were really like playing the. 623 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 2: And at the same time, they also left out chips 624 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: and cazo to which my cat ate, Yeah, she didn't, 625 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 2: but she definitely had herself a time. She had her 626 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: time as much as you probably guys did Thursday night, 627 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 2: and then we had two really fun nights at Skinny Dinners, 628 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 2: which is like a new bar in Nashville, and you 629 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 2: guys promptly embarrassed me all the time. 630 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: Yes, we do, gladly. That's what friends are for. 631 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: It makes for a great story, right, yeah, oh yeah, 632 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 2: I have lots of stories after this weekend. But you guys, 633 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 2: I think it is part of your especially Carla and 634 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 2: I still get embarrassed from things, yeah, because of certain things, 635 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 2: not being married, and there's still a lot of shame 636 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 2: associated with us. I feel like when you get married 637 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: and you start to have kids, there's nothing that faces 638 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 2: you anymore. 639 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: Not as much some stuff does some stuff. 640 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 2: Because you guys had no shame. You and Julie were like, no, 641 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 2: it's fine, we'll go talk to him, and they kept 642 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 2: making me talk to man and Carlot talk to men. 643 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: I find you, guys a man, okay, real man, a 644 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: real man, good quality man. 645 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 3: See the diamond in the rough I think these days? 646 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 2: Right, it is, and this is the married women help 647 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 2: us be the wingwoman or the best they are. There's 648 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: no because they can just be like, yeah, no, I 649 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: don't like a mean, they know what you like. They 650 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 2: do too, they see a different side spot on you guys. 651 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: I had the best we can have ever had because 652 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 2: of you guys. You guys like pushed them some things 653 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 2: to happen in due time. If anything ever transpires, then 654 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 2: that'll be talked about. 655 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 3: For the matchmakers. 656 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 2: But for this, yeah, you guys really were. Isn't it 657 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 2: crazy how much your friends played that role for you. 658 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 2: It's so much more fun than me being on hinge 659 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 2: and having to date people that way. 660 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and meeting them out naturally, yes, and whatever you're 661 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 3: doing because they like doing that as well. 662 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 2: And you guys, just being in town brings out a 663 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 2: different side of me. I just am on a different vibe, 664 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 2: confidence level, high energy levels, typically high becaudes last night 665 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 2: when I fell asleep in the bar because I was 666 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 2: so tired. But you guys make me feel this is 667 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 2: what's so crazy about such great friendships. You guys make 668 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 2: me feel like the best version of myself. So when 669 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: I'm out, I do feel like I meet more people 670 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 2: with you guys, because I am just in such a 671 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 2: different state of mind than when I'm just like by 672 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: myself or with friends that we go out all the time, 673 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 2: where you're at dinner, Like when I'm with you guys, 674 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 2: it is a I truly experience a different level of consciousness. 675 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 2: I think because of how close a friends we are. 676 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 3: Yes, it's just different, Yeah, different. 677 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: Vibe it is. There's something that's happening and I just like, 678 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm like two sheets still win and 679 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 2: I'm like whatever, life's good, We'll get home safe. 680 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 3: And it's like when we're together, we're all like the 681 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 3: same vibe we are. We're wanting to have a good time, 682 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 3: just be together, make memories. 683 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 2: It is so you feel it too, Oh yeah that one, Ali, 684 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 2: Do you feel it? 685 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: I feel it too. 686 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 2: It's a vibe. There's a certain level of that. 687 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: Okay. 688 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 2: As we wrap up our episode, I would like to 689 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 2: know from you girlies advice for other women out there 690 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 2: in making friendships and sustaining friendships. What are your thoughts 691 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 2: on that. I feel like it's. 692 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 1: Hard as you get older, Toris. 693 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 3: We didn't go to school together or grew up together. 694 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you just have to be yourself. So you 695 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 1: just have to find people that like completely, like they. 696 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 3: Bring you up or do an activity that you like 697 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 3: to do, and usually you'll meet other people in that way, 698 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 3: whether it be friends or a guy or yeah, either way. 699 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 2: And you are really good at that. Girl, you go 700 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,959 Speaker 2: out and you make new friends anywhere you go. 701 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely make friends anywhere. 702 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 3: Even if you're like shy or nervous. I feel like 703 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 3: just being yourself and doing your activities. 704 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 4: Usually you'll tract someone that likes to do so, see, 705 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 4: you're really take a friend that way or Finally, for 706 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 4: the fellow mamas out there who are trying to keep 707 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 4: and sustaining their friendships, any thoughts, advice. 708 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: You just gotta check in. And I don't know you, 709 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: that's very true. 710 00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 2: You guys are so sweet, innocent, and you really both. 711 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 2: I can see it in your eyes. But if you're 712 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 2: just looking at me like what has she gotten us 713 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 2: into for you? 714 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I says, we love you. 715 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 2: You guys did great and it was good talking to you. Guys. 716 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: Thanks for coming to visit me, of course, thanks for 717 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 2: having soon always we'll be We're already on our plan 718 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: to plan our next trip, our yearly trip together. Yes, 719 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,760 Speaker 2: and also if anybody out there has a good idea. 720 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out our sisterhood of the traveling 721 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,280 Speaker 2: pants thing. We decided that we need to have something 722 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 2: that we can send to each other. Not jeans, because 723 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 2: I don't think that actually exists. Something different, Yeah, something 724 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 2: that we can send to each other and pass around 725 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 2: because we all are in different cities as a little 726 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: snail mail. I feel like people have to be doing 727 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 2: something out there that we could by steal their idea 728 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 2: and continue or I don't know, Yeah, some cute memory 729 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,399 Speaker 2: there's something. So if you're out there and you have one, 730 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 2: cheated our way, because we need one. We're trying to 731 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 2: come up with one, the way, the one. All right, friends, 732 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 2: thanks for being here, Thanks for visiting. I love you 733 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: both so much. You guys are incredible friends, incredible humans, 734 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 2: and you are both of you guys deserve the world 735 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 2: and all the happiness too. No, I love you, I 736 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 2: love you. 737 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 1: Thanks for having us. 738 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 2: Maybe this episode reminded you of your friends or pushed 739 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 2: you to show up for your friends in a new way. 740 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 2: To me, friendships don't get enough credit for how much 741 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 2: they impact and play a role in our lives. That's 742 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 2: why I will continue to highlight friendships and just how 743 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 2: special they are. I have so many new episodes ready 744 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: and waiting for you, guys, and I really can't wait 745 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 2: for you to hear. We're going to talk to some 746 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 2: change makers the next few weeks. And one of them 747 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 2: is one of my favorite follows on Instagram. His name's 748 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 2: Nile and he saves street dogs in Thailand and he 749 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 2: has a new book out and I just think you 750 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 2: guys are going to love him and so many of 751 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 2: the other ones coming up, So get subscribed. Follow on 752 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 2: Instagram at take this personally so you don't miss a 753 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 2: single thing. Thanks for being here as always. I love you. Bye.