1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: Second date, up date. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 2: If you're getting ghosted by a girl, guys are kind 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: of in a tough spot because you want to be 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: respectful to them but also show some initiative to let 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 2: them know that you're interested. 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: Right, And it's a fine line for sure. 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: At least till they filed the restraining her. 8 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 4: I mean, how nice is she going to know that 9 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 4: is a line in her It's an obvious line. 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: I can't restrain you. 11 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: One of our. 12 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: Listeners, John, wasn't getting a text back after his date, 13 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 2: so he got creative with how to get her response, 14 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 2: and he's on the phone with us right now. So John, 15 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: why don't you just give us the text that you 16 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: sent to this girl? I want to hear only the text. 17 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 3: Wait, this is the text you got ghosted from. 18 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: No, the last text that you sent to get creative 19 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: to get a response back. 20 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: What what did you send her? 21 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you're set up. Made me think that he 22 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 4: was going to be outside in a bush somewhere, hiding 23 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 4: outside of her house. Yeah, okay, Sorry? 24 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: What was your last text? 25 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? 26 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 6: I said, I've noticed you're not respect Do you want 27 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 6: to see your family again? You will text me back? 28 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 2: You're joking yeah, telling me you had been joking back 29 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 2: and forth the whole. 30 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: Time, as you already joked about a missing fair. 31 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 2: I personally hope he's serious with it. That would show 32 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: how interested he truly was. 33 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 6: Well, my grocery bills have gone up since her family 34 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 6: has been in my apartment. 35 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 2: But but real kidnapper would not do saying. 36 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: Was it already an inside joke between you two? 37 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: That's a good question. 38 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 6: Uh, not exactly. 39 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 3: How are you not at a police stations? 40 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: Okay, maybe it was wrong for us to start at 41 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: the very end of the story. Let's go back to 42 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: the beginning, and maybe it makes. 43 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 3: Sense when the family still where they're supposed to be. 44 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: Let's start with how you met this girl? What's her name? 45 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 3: By the way, Okay, how'd you meet? 46 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 6: We were on a dating app? Not too unique. 47 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you told her nothing too special about you. I 48 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: guess we should go out. 49 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 4: I mean you sounds funny like, how did you strike 50 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 4: up a conversation with her on Tinder? 51 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 6: Uh? 52 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: You know what? 53 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 6: She had a picture of her skydiving, so I had 54 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 6: done that in the past. 55 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: That's so relatable anytime I've ever met some of that 56 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 2: sky dives. 57 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: And then they meet somebody else. I'm like, oh, yeah, 58 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: it was your jump. It was your jump. How many 59 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: hours have you clocked? Really romantically? 60 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: And I just I would never do that, Jose You 61 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 2: do skydive all the time in your Fortnite video game 62 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: out of the plane to dive in, and this is. 63 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: Different when you jump from the bus. But I close my. 64 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 3: Eyes still Fortnee. 65 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: We all have our interests. You bonded with CC over that. 66 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: What'd you guys do for your date? 67 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 6: We just went off for drinks. I really wanted to 68 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 6: get to know her, so I went to a quiet 69 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 6: spot where I could talk to her a. 70 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 2: Little bit and find out about her family and where 71 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: what their schedule is take. 72 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: Okay, how did drinks go? 73 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 6: I mean it went well. Eventually she needs to go 74 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 6: get a phone charger for the phone is about to die. 75 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 6: So I took her to get the charger, bought one. 76 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well yeah totally. 77 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 4: And what's nice about that is you extend the date, 78 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,839 Speaker 4: right plus you're a hero. 79 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, And so of what happens She went to 80 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 6: go to the drug start and was like sort of 81 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 6: close to my place, So I was like, while we're here, 82 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 6: do you just want to check out my spot and 83 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 6: she agreed. 84 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: So she agreed. 85 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I was driving, so I drove to the 86 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 6: closest one by my house. 87 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 3: You know, I know exactly where to get a charger. 88 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 1: It's weird. 89 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: I have outlets in my home. Strange coincidence. Okay, so 90 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: she went back with you. 91 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 6: Yeah she did. 92 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: What was that like? 93 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 6: So she came over my place and I made a 94 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 6: couple of cocktails, you know, try to impress it with that, 95 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 6: and then I can buy them in I. 96 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: Can make them, dude. 97 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 4: I am always impressed when people can make like a 98 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 4: cocktail at home. 99 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 3: A yeah, that's awesome. 100 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, And then we talked about a bucket list stuff, 101 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 6: you know, just the deeper conversations or like what would 102 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 6: you do. 103 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: If you want the lottery? 104 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 5: Right? Yeah? 105 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 4: Like those are fun coming well, and you guys have 106 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 4: already skydives, so that's offul end. 107 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 2: You know, try to discuss which family member do you 108 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 2: like the least, which family member is worth the most 109 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: money in your humble opinion if one went missing? 110 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that sounds like fun. 111 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 3: Okay, I mean did you yeah? Did she stay the night? 112 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? She did, so it went well and go okay, 113 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 6: you know she just left her charger here. So that's 114 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 6: what I was trying to use to end back into 115 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 6: talking to her, to. 116 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 4: Come back from well, maybe she's not texting back because 117 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 4: the phone's dead. 118 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: She doesn't have the charger, do you see? 119 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 6: You know what, I shouldn't have committed kidnapping. 120 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: So lead us to the point of like, how did 121 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: you send that joke text about her family? 122 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: How'd you get there? Yeah? 123 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I sent her text about the charger and 124 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 6: then he didn't respond, And then I just sent her 125 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 6: another text about like, hey, what's up and no response. 126 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: Huh Yeah, I wouldn't respond to that one either. 127 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 3: That sounds funny. 128 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 6: And so then I sent her the joke one that 129 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 6: you guys know whether. 130 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: Okay? 131 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then an hour later I send another text 132 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 6: to saying I'm joking, and then there was no response 133 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 6: to that either. 134 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: Clarify. 135 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I think she probably knew you were joking. 136 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: But you know, why do you even want to go 137 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 2: out with this girl? She doesn't get your sense of humor. 138 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 6: We just had so much in common, We had a 139 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 6: great time. So I'm like, why did you come over 140 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 6: to my place if you didn't like me? I don't 141 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 6: understand why there's so many mixed signals right now? 142 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, use you just for the electricity in your outlets, 143 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: like that's. 144 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 3: Pretty important. But she left the charger. Yeah, obviously wasn't 145 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 3: that important to her. 146 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: It's almost like she was planning on coming back if anything. 147 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe, I mean we're gonna find out when we 148 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: come back. We'll call CC four you make sure her 149 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 2: family's okay, and then try and get you a second 150 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: date update right after. 151 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 3: This would be important to confirm. 152 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just gonna check hold on second date update 153 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us. 154 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 2: Our listener, John is confused because he went to drinks 155 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: with a woman named Ceci. They picked up a charger 156 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 2: for her dying phone, and after that spent the entire 157 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: evening over at his place till she left the next day. 158 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: But now CEC's not responding and we don't know why. 159 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: And John, in no way do I want you to 160 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: think that this has anything to do with your romantic 161 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 2: skills in the bedroom. 162 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: Okay, even though Brooke wrote. 163 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 2: It down on a piece of paper and passed it 164 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 2: to me while giggling uncontrollably. 165 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that. 166 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: Even though Jose and Alexis both went online and tweeted 167 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 2: that they think it's that. I just don't want you. 168 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: To think it. 169 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 6: I think she enjoyed herself thoroughly, and I think those 170 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 6: are all misconceptions. 171 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: That's the spirit, John, don't let reality ever set in 172 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: on your life. We're just kidding, by the way, just 173 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: like the way you were kidding about the family abduction 174 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: text that she sent her trying to get her to 175 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: respond to you. 176 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: She never even gave you a haha on that line. 177 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: A risky jokes is what we're saying. 178 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I feel like you guys are telling 179 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 6: him be more truthful than I was what your thoughts were. 180 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: Okay, someone's confessing a little bit too much, Okay, Okay. 181 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 4: I mean these are always weird ones because I honestly 182 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 4: don't know what I mean. 183 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 3: We don't know what she's going to say. It could 184 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: be anything. 185 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, they would really defeat the purpose of the call 186 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: if we knew what she was going to say. 187 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes you can tell, like what someone did wrong, like this. 188 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: Could be maybe a text is a start. 189 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 4: Well, she was already not texting him back by the 190 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 4: time he sent that. 191 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: I think that the nail in the coffin has already 192 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 3: been laid. 193 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: More anti climactic. 194 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just like, yeah, I had a fun night 195 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 2: and that's all I wanted. But in our mind, you've 196 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 2: done absolutely nothing wrong. Okay, John's zero zero working against 197 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: you right now. You're the perfect man, and I believe 198 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 2: that firmly. 199 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: While we dial her, not do I need to pass 200 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 3: you another note? 201 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: Keep your notes over there. Let's wait till we get 202 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 2: her on the phone. Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're 203 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 2: looking for CC. 204 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, this is her. 205 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: Hey, you don't have to sound too excited. CC. 206 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: This is a good day for you because you're on 207 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 2: the radio right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 208 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 4: Hey, Hi, oh my god, I kind of like her already. 209 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: Are you in a bad mood because something's going on 210 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: with your family? 211 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 5: You know, I'm radioations a little weirdine. 212 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: But we're doing something maybe the clear things up here 213 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 2: for you. We're doing something called a second Date Update, 214 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: and we're trying to help one of our listeners out 215 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: to get a hold of you. 216 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: It's a guy that you went out on a date 217 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: with recently named John Okay. 218 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: John, who still has your cell phone charger? 219 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 5: John Okay, it's where he's telling you stuff that. 220 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's kind of something that we do here. 221 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 2: And the reason why I brought up the family thing 222 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 2: earlier is because he told us about the text message 223 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 2: that he sent you, the joke about you know, if 224 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: you don't respond, you'll never see your family again, or 225 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 2: something like that. 226 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 5: What did you do? 227 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: Everybody? Brook laughed the hardest in this entire room. 228 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: It was a bold move. We'll say that. What did 229 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 3: you think when you read that, Cec? 230 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 5: I honestly I thought it was hilarious. 231 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 2: Okay, well that's true. Then why didn't you respond? 232 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 5: I honestly just don't want to leave him on. He's 233 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 5: a funny guy. Just texting back, you know, even that 234 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 5: kind of just another opening. You know, well, and that's. 235 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: A funny guy. 236 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: You're doing the right thing, because the second ul O 237 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:51,719 Speaker 2: l back, we're gonna. 238 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 6: Just keep going. It is. 239 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 3: It is exhausting. 240 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 4: Someone else was actually complimented as being funny in Jose 241 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,479 Speaker 4: even use that as an opening. 242 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 2: Well, don't you think that leading him on would ensue? 243 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: Like going back to his place and spending the night. 244 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 2: Isn't that kind of leading him on? 245 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 5: Well? 246 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: Maybe you liked him at that point. 247 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean, honestly, we had a great time. It 248 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 5: was it was super fun. I had a lot of 249 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 5: fun with him. 250 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 6: I just. 251 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 3: What is it? You just want a one night thing? 252 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 5: Honestly. The tough part is I had such a good 253 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 5: time with him. I honestly, I was waking up in 254 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 5: the morning and I saw that's going on some more dates. 255 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 5: It could honestly be something like, oh my gosh, yeah, 256 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 5: leading this guy. I really liked him. 257 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,599 Speaker 1: Are you just like he's also good? I don't I 258 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: don't understand. 259 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 2: Are you nervous because it was too good and you 260 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 2: think you'll never be able to match that level of 261 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: greatness on a date ever? 262 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 1: Again? 263 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I hear that about me all the time 264 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,559 Speaker 2: about other guys. 265 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 1: So what's going on? 266 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 5: I honestly wish that it was something like self involved? 267 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 5: Is that I guess? But it's honestly so it sounds 268 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 5: like he told you that I went to his house, 269 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 5: thought I slept over. Yeah, yeah, And in the morning 270 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 5: I went to the bathroom and he had like one 271 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 5: of those like fancy heated toilets. 272 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 3: Oh god, those are so nice in the morning. 273 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Why is that important that we need to know that. 274 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 5: So go back to the bedroom and like he's already up. 275 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 5: We're about to probably make breakfast or get on oose 276 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 5: our days. I'm getting dressed and I goes like, oh, 277 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 5: like dude, I was like, that toilet is a leap. 278 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 5: I was like, that is so awesome having a heated toilet, okay, 279 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 5: And he said that he doesn't have a heated toilet. 280 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 3: Huh, what do you mean he doesn't. He was just 281 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 3: on it. 282 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 5: So I suppose maybe it was hot from the person 283 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 5: who had used it before me, But it was like 284 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 5: I thought it was technology making it that hot. 285 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 4: Oh, like he had been sitting there for a while 286 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 4: before you went into the bathroom somebody else. 287 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 5: I don't. I can't imagine how hot somebody would have 288 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 5: to be to have this seat be that hot when 289 00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 5: I got to it, I don't know, y'all. I feel like, 290 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 5: honestly awful, but it's like it's an ick. I literally 291 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 5: can't get over it, and I feel so guilty. I'm like, 292 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 5: I just it's not worth like hurting him and being weird. 293 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just spending that long in there. It's like 294 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 3: that's an I feel like a girl in your bedroom. 295 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, but like he didn't. He wasn't even in there long. 296 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: No, not when you have a long He was. 297 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 5: Next to me in bed when I got up to 298 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 5: go to the bathroom, and I hadn't seen him go 299 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:26,599 Speaker 5: to the bathroom. So it's like how long ago for 300 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 5: just will be scolding hot? 301 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 3: Well, it was next to him, be a hot sleeper, 302 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 3: like we have a lot of coul. 303 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 2: Rad I don't know how your ears feel if they're 304 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: feeling a little bit warm right now, because John is 305 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 2: actually on the line too, so maybe you're feeling. 306 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 3: That he's about a button. 307 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, John, horri fine, can I ask you a question? 308 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 6: Yourck is a guy using the bathroom before you? That's 309 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 6: your eck? 310 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 5: Like that's not my sick at all. No, it's how 311 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 5: hot the seat was just so weird. 312 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 3: Are you a sweaty guy? You run hot there? 313 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 5: John? 314 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 6: I mean I do, but like that's my butt with 315 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 6: the assist you have like a nice, warm party. 316 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 5: I'm not saying that's just unsane. I don't want to 317 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 5: hurt your feelings like you're awesome. I don't want to 318 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 5: make you feel weird about it. I'm like, I'm the 319 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 5: one who feels I don't know what it is it. 320 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 5: It's like in my head, I can't like ingrained, like 321 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 5: how hot it was? Like I thought you had had 322 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 5: technology making your seat hot. 323 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it really is a problem for you, John. 324 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 2: Do you ever notice that your underwear is like melting 325 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: down through your pant legs. 326 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 6: He's like, I don't need seat warmers now you teat 327 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 6: me like on the human torch, like I don't know, 328 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 6: just like a normal person using the bathroom here, Like 329 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 6: it's not I know, I just. 330 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 5: Feel this is what I didn't want to do. I 331 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 5: didn't want to have to make you even like question 332 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 5: how hot your butt was? 333 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 4: Like see see there's no way you can work through this, 334 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 4: Like yeah, sure, maybe in that moment it was anck, 335 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 4: but like what about from now on you always get 336 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 4: to use the restroom first, you know, not like. 337 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,599 Speaker 2: A good yeah, something that all relationships have to do, 338 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: like schedule who goes to the bathroom when, or. 339 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 3: Just you know, eventually down the road you just get 340 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 3: someplace with two toils. I don't know you already have 341 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 3: to schedule it if you live with a man. Let's 342 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 3: be honest, Like you guys spend so much time in there. 343 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 2: I mean, it does seem like, Cec, this is a 344 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: lot to leave a guy who he had such a 345 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: great time with, had a huge connection with. You're gonna 346 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 2: give all of that up because the toilet seat was 347 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: a little warm. 348 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 5: Well, now am I the weird now that I had 349 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 5: an ick about the hot seat? Like? 350 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 3: I think you're overthinking this, thinking way too hard about 351 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 3: the ick? Yeah, Like what about the good parts? What's 352 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 3: the opposite of ick? 353 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: Like Brooks trying to solve the issue for you over here, 354 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: of John, do you have any ideas, any solutions in 355 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 2: your mind? 356 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll just buy a toil and you'll never know 357 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 6: when I use. 358 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 2: It, honestly, and now you know, regardless if that's a 359 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 2: real solution. That's funny, Cec. He's a funny guy. He's 360 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 2: a good time Yeah, and he has solutions too to 361 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 2: the problems. I think personally, you should see him for 362 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: another date, a date that we would pay for, if 363 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 2: you're willing to go out with him one more time. 364 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 5: I would very much be willing to go out on 365 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 5: another date. Now that you guys bridge all of this, 366 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 5: I didn't have to hide my shame. 367 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: Congratulations, John. You can release her mother now out of 368 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: your customer. 369 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 6: I'll do it, but I'm keeping her sister. 370 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: We took a little too farther bud. 371 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 3: Looking Jeffrey in the morning. 372 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: It's funny. 373 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 2: I feel like ladies have a lot more random x 374 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 2: when it comes to dating than guys. 375 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: It's actually funny. 376 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: Nowadays we're just in more of a power position where 377 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: I think we can. 378 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, the powers gone to your It can 379 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: always happen, but girls have a word for it now. 380 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: I mean, if that happened to me with a warm 381 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 2: toilet seat, personally, I wouldn't be grossed out by that. 382 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: Alexis said she. 383 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 2: Could understand the ick and that he's probably been on 384 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 2: it for a long time. 385 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 3: Alexis likes to imagine that no one actually goes to 386 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 3: the back. This is my topic. 387 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm just asking all the women out there 388 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: to lower your ick tolerance. Please be a little bit 389 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 2: more understanding of all the things that guys go through, 390 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 2: things that we put up with you guys. 391 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 3: Saying that giving you theck a little bit, it's like 392 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 3: turning me off. Yeah, it's kind of. It feels like. 393 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: You guys are just perfect, aren't you. 394 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 2: I don't know what they're going to call this second 395 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: update if they're going to call this hot Bottom Boys 396 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: or whatever it is. But you go check it out 397 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 2: on our podcast wherever you get yours, unless you don't. 398 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: Want to get the ick. Check it out at Brook 399 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey to 400 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: Wait Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.