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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just fall ay

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Speaker 2: and Cat got you covin locking, No, brother, ladies and felts,

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Speaker 2: do you just follow an the spirit where it's on

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Speaker 2: the front and real stuff to the chill stuff and

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Speaker 2: the him. But Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can

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Speaker 2: do it just stop you feel. This is feeling things

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Speaker 2: with Amy.

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Speaker 3: And Cat Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things.

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Speaker 1: I'm Amy and I'm Cat and I have the feeling

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Speaker 1: of the day today. But first you look very tan today.

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Speaker 1: It's tanna feeling. We could make it into it. I

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you know how you feel before a

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Speaker 3: spray TND and then after a spray TN do.

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Speaker 1: You feel sad and then you feel happy?

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Speaker 3: Yes, there's memes or videos people make their like I

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Speaker 3: thought I was depressed and then I got a spray

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Speaker 3: spraytand this my actual tan tan because yeah, we went

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Speaker 3: on a trip and I slowly built up to a

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Speaker 3: tan And what do you mean, I was prepping for

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Speaker 3: my trip, Oh to try pre tann for my trip,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't get too much sun exposure. At all,

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Speaker 3: But it just feels good to actually have some color

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Speaker 3: on my skin. And tan is a feeling feels good.

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Speaker 1: I'm adding it to the wheel. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: now that you're saying this, I don't know that I've

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Speaker 1: ever seen you with a real tan from the sun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but my son damage is also coming out. So

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Speaker 3: then I'm reminded, Oh, this is why I don't like

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Speaker 3: to be in the sun.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean sun?

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Speaker 3: Well, I have all these little white spots that start

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Speaker 3: to pop up, and I have them on my back

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Speaker 3: and my kids were like, what is this splashing noise

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Speaker 3: on your back? I'm like, sun damaged kids, stay out

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Speaker 3: of the tanning beds because I, oh, yeah, my kids.

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Speaker 3: My kidseration, so there already tanned, right, they're very, very tanned.

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Speaker 3: But other kids listening. I had a tanning bed membership

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Speaker 3: in high school and college.

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Speaker 1: That is well, and they're still that idea, but there's

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Speaker 1: still people still have those.

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Speaker 3: Yes, my daughter's friend goes to a tanning bed and

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Speaker 3: I get this. I learn about this because my daughter said,

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Speaker 3: I tried out a tanning bed today again my daughter's station.

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Speaker 3: She did, and I said what why? And she said, well,

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Speaker 3: I wanted to see what it was all about. And

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Speaker 3: I said, well, first of all, you don't need to

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Speaker 3: do that. She's like, well again, I want to just

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Speaker 3: experience it, like laying in the bed with the lights, and.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's just a nice experience, though I will say

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Speaker 1: it's very warm. I've been to a tanning bed probably

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Speaker 1: ten times in my life. I splurged on a ten

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Speaker 1: pack in college, and I think for like a formal

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Speaker 1: or something, but I'm also thinking I could have gotten

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Speaker 3: Why did they They weren't popular then, at least for

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Speaker 3: me when I was in high school, spray tanning and

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Speaker 3: self tanning was not a thing. Tanning beds you put

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Speaker 3: the little sticker on your.

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Speaker 1: Hip, but it's like a kind of feels like a sauna,

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Speaker 1: don't you think, Yeah, it's one. So maybe your daughter

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Speaker 3: Right, She just wanted to experience it one time. It's

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Speaker 3: not like she's gonna be going back. But I was

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Speaker 3: because yeah, I don't know if the mom knows about it.

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Speaker 3: I almost felt like this felt like a situation where

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Speaker 1: To a danning fan and she's like, yeah, we go together.

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Speaker 3: And then I was like, hey, this is none of

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Speaker 1: Like, wait, honestly, it could be just as damaging.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So therefore I tried to sun responsibly and prepare

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I do have some natural color. Shout out,

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Speaker 1: Do you have a couple questions for you to follow

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Speaker 1: up about your tan One as a child well as

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Speaker 1: get sucked into buying the like expensive lotion that they

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Speaker 1: us Did you put the sticker on?

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Speaker 1: What kind of sticker did you have, like the Playboy

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Speaker 3: Because I know I'm sure I did that at one point,

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Speaker 1: I didn't afford the sticker.

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Speaker 3: I went many, many times, oh for the stickers, stickers,

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Speaker 1: But I was just joking.

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Speaker 3: No, I definitely had the special lotions. I did all

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Speaker 3: the things. And then probably in my thirties is when

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Speaker 3: I just that's like stock girl back in the day. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: going to the tanny bed with my I got my lotion,

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Speaker 3: I got my sticker.

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Speaker 3: When I was little, I would go out in the

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Speaker 3: put sun in in my hair for natural highlights. You

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Speaker 1: And you said, I'm so pretty, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This looks good, But I wasn't really tan. I was

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Speaker 3: more like red with my son and hair burnt, and

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Speaker 3: then you had to orange hair. So that those are

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Speaker 3: I got it highlighted. Can you see my money pieces?

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Speaker 3: Is it called many pieces or money piece?

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Speaker 1: Money pieces would be the plural of piece, and if

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Speaker 1: you have two of them, that'll be pieces.

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Speaker 3: Okay, then I have money pieces, souse.

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Speaker 1: I guess you could just get one.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't ask for them. I guess she just

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Speaker 3: did it because that's what's on trend right now. And

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Speaker 3: I asked for highlights.

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Speaker 1: That's that's not what you I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't even know that's what they were called. And then

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Speaker 3: I went to work in Morgan on the Bobby Bone Show.

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Speaker 1: But she wasn't like, I'm gonna give you what do

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Speaker 3: No, wasn't disgusted my hair.

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Speaker 1: Girl will be like, okay, do you want it lighter

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Speaker 3: She won't just like, yeah, this was the first time

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Speaker 3: the rest of the highlights are great. I just am

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm forty four, Like, I don't need money pieces

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Speaker 1: So okay, here's a question about that. Then she dries

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Speaker 1: as she's drying it, you're starting to see it come

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Speaker 3: No? I didn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 3: I did like the color. I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it looks so good. And it wasn't really untill I

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh wow, okay, these front pieces are

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Speaker 3: It wasn't important enough to me to go back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just let it grow out.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever gone back to get something fixed?

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Speaker 1: Yes? What was it like for you to do that?

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Speaker 3: but I know that I have gone back like, oh,

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Speaker 3: A recent example that I do know of, and this

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Speaker 1: It was the wrong tone, wasn't it was warm or cool? Right?

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Speaker 3: So then I went back and she goes, oh, that's

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Speaker 3: So she put the toner on washing the blue drummer hair,

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Speaker 1: I just I'm curious. I always like to know how

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Speaker 1: I don't. I would never imagine you'd be some.

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Speaker 1: I'm really nice. But I've never had a real well

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Speaker 1: I've had one really bad haircut. I didn't have a

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Speaker 1: she said, I want to go to this party. I

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Speaker 1: to this party. I'll put on Facebook. I'll trade a

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Speaker 3: Oh for a haircut.

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Speaker 1: That's also the best part. When I was like twenty one,

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Speaker 1: so I like go to my mom's room and I'm like, mom,

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Speaker 3: But you like knew her kind of I was.

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Speaker 1: Like adjacently friends with her in high school. I've known

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Speaker 1: It'll be cute. And then I was like, she'll be

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Speaker 1: only time I've had to get a haircut fixed. And

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Speaker 3: Metta, so meta, Our new one's gonna beat Metta.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need a running tab of the words sick, meta,

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Speaker 3: Take a flight that reminds me of this morning. You're

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Speaker 1: You've turned me onto voice messages.

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Speaker 3: Because you're seeing a text, you mean, oh that's voice

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Speaker 1: That's voice to text. That's a voice text. Oh it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to know what Apple officially says about

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Speaker 1: Voice text typically refers to an audio message. Dang it,

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Speaker 3: So I'm just sharing that, like you're saying you wanted

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Speaker 3: Oh, uncle Laddie, Yeah, Uncle Laddie.

438
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 1: Okay, do you want to accept where you are? Do

439
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: you want to work towards pulling that out of you more?

440
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 3: I guess I would like to work on pulling it

441
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,639
Speaker 3: out of me more, because that's when I was driving.

442
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 3: It was like I wanted to say hi to Shannon

443
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:08,360
Speaker 3: in a louder way and compliment her hair, and then yeah,

444
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 3: I was just driving, like why didn't I do that?

445
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 3: And then now I do know I was on the

446
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 3: phone with my boyfriend's but I should have been like,

447
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 3: hold please, Shan this your hair looks so good. But

448
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 3: that's like and then I'm driving and I'm irritated, like

449
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 3: why am I not this way? Like I want to,

450
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 3: you know, I want to be the part Like at work.

451
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: I also think that we judge ourselves sometimes we give

452
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 1: ourselves too much grace. But also sometimes we judge ourselves

453
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 1: very harshly, and we perceive ourselves coming off differently than

454
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: we are, like because because in our head we want

455
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 1: that like perfect, we have this ideal image of ourselves

456
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 1: how we want to show up like you're talking about.

457
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: But other people that care about you don't usually judge

458
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 1: you as harshly, so they judge the whole of you

459
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 1: versus that one time you didn't say shannim, I.

460
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 3: Know, but I don't. I don't ever do it. I

461
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 3: want to do it like I don't. It's more of

462
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 3: like I'm in like a go mode at times.

463
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 1: I make you a sticker chart, so.

464
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 3: I have to like slow down and be intentional, sort

465
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 3: of like slowing down and being intentional, like I should

466
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 3: send this gratitude message, I should send my friend this

467
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 3: note because I had this one thought of this, this happened,

468
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 3: and then it could bring you gratitude, and then you

469
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 3: have gratitude for the gratitude and so metap.

470
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 1: So I said this a second ago as a joke

471
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: with a sticker chart. But if you do want to

472
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: start to form a habit and it start to feel

473
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: like that's what I do, how are you going to

474
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 1: remember to do that. Like for me, one time, I

475
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 1: wanted to show more gratitude and I was like, Oh,

476
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy a box of letters and I'm going

477
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 1: to write letters to people and that's going to help

478
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: remind me to do it, to be intentional. It backfired

479
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: because I don't enjoy writing letters. I feel like that's

480
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 1: a job more for cry. Okay, she would probably do

481
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: that more than I would.

482
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 3: She likes cards cards, well, yeah, greeting cards.

483
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So if you did have a chart on your

484
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:10,719
Speaker 1: fridge that said say hi to Shannon loudly or people,

485
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: then you can put everybody do it. You had to

486
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 1: put a sticker on there, and that feels how do

487
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 1: you had an adult sticker chart? No, they're awesome.

488
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 3: Do you have one?

489
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: I had one for a goal that I had a

490
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 1: couple of years ago.

491
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 3: Okay, did you get to the goal?

492
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: Yes? And it was me and we were training for

493
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: something and me and my two roommates we were all

494
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: doing it. So we was like every night we got

495
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 1: to go put our stickers up together, like could you

496
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: have you got your sticker?

497
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 3: So I need to do an adult sticker chart. I

498
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 3: think that could be fair I practice on my animals.

499
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 3: If I'm home alone, Maggie, my cat's right here.

500
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: If nobody comes to your house that day, you can

501
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: definitely practice with your animals.

502
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm thinking Maggie's right here, which I've been so

503
00:23:55,840 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: angry at Maggie, Like angry, yeah, feeling feelings of anger.

504
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 3: Do you want to talk about it towards my cat?

505
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 3: Like she really pissed me off. You don't even like

506
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,479
Speaker 3: that word, and I hate that word, but okay, I

507
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 3: used it because multiple times. No, just now, okay, Like

508
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 3: I didn't know, but she peed in my daughter's luggage

509
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 3: right before we're about to leave for our trip, and

510
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 3: so share came downstairs. We're flying out in less than

511
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 3: like twelve hours, and I'm like, oh great, well, now

512
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 3: we need to look what we need to do with

513
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,159
Speaker 3: your clothes because cat pee is the next level pe.

514
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 3: So it says, you know, soak the clothes and vinegar,

515
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 3: then wash it twice. Don't put it in the dryer

516
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: because the dryer could the heat could lock in the

517
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 3: cat's piece smell. So then I have to go to

518
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 3: my boyfriend's house pick up box fans. I'm trying to

519
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:52,919
Speaker 3: figure out this whole plan on how to get everything

520
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 3: washed and dried and then put into another piece of

521
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 3: luggage in time for us to get to the airport

522
00:24:58,600 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: because we don't have a lot of time.

523
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: And what do you do with that luggage?

524
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 3: Luggage basically done? I don't know because everyone was like, oh,

525
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 3: take the liner out and wash it. Well, the liner

526
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 3: doesn't remove from this luggage, so I'm not sure if

527
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 3: it's ruined, but I'll have to. I'm just dealing with

528
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: that later, which is a Way luggage, so it's like nice,

529
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 3: that's I know.

530
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: So way that luggage should. I feel like they should

531
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: make the liners come out.

532
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 3: I don't think I haven't figured out away.

533
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: If anybody that works for a Way is listening, that

534
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: would be some feedback. But they probably don't want to

535
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: do that because then you had to buy new luggage.

536
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 3: Right because I went to the Away store in my

537
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,479
Speaker 3: twelve hour window. Because what happened was then I'm like, well,

538
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 3: I better go check my luggage because I packed early

539
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 3: and I never packed early, and Share always packed early.

540
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 3: Her luggage was open, Maggie peed in it. Well, then I,

541
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 3: while I'm taking care of Stasha's situation, go to my

542
00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 3: room and I'm like, oh my gosh, Maggie pea in

543
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 3: my luggage too, all my clothes everything. So I couldn't

544
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 3: believe it because I'm done packing. I never packed early,

545
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 3: and I packed early days early, so I just had

546
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 3: to like breathe and think, Okay, this is a lot

547
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 3: worse things in the world, which there are. I totally

548
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 3: get it. But we're just gonna We're about to leave,

549
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 3: and these are the outfits, and now I need to

550
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 3: wash them, and now they smell like catpie, and now

551
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 3: my luggage has cat py in it. We're out of

552
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 3: luggage at this point, so there's no way to even

553
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 3: wash the luggage and dry the luggage. And then what

554
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 3: you put your clothes back in the cat pee luggage?

555
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 3: And then when you get there and it's hot and

556
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 3: humid where we were going, and no, so I had

557
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 3: to go. The luggage door was about to close. Luckily

558
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 3: it's right down the street from my house. I go

559
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 3: to Away, I buy another bag, and I was like, yeah,

560
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 3: make cat piede. No, I didn't have to. We had

561
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 3: another luggage, Crystal Share that we could use. But after

562
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 3: that we were out of luggage. So then I had

563
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 3: to go get another, and I got my other piece

564
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 3: of luggage. So what does this make possible new luggage?

565
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 3: I got olive green.

566
00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: Oh that was fine.

567
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it looks good. It's very meda.

568
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: It was sick so mad at what was your old one? Black?

569
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 3: It was navy?

570
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: Okay, olive green so much better.

571
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, so figure that out if your cat ever peasing

572
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 3: your luggage. The thirty minute vinegar soak worked, the double

573
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 3: wash in, the washing machine worked, and then drying my

574
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 3: clothes everything. Yeah, but Alex had two box hands, so

575
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 3: I went barred those and then just had the clothes

576
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 3: blowing overnight. And then we had to leave for the

577
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: airport like at four forty five in the morning or something,

578
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 3: and I had everything drying, and then at like four am,

579
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 3: I just packed everything up.

580
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: Was it all dry yet or is it still a

581
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: little damp.

582
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 3: One of my like swimsuits, it was really thick, which

583
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've ever have you ever had

584
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 3: the Hunga z swimsuit? Hungsa, Hungsa Hungsa?

585
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: How do you spell that?

586
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: Oh, Hansa, I don't even know how to say it.

587
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: You put a G in there, oh.

588
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: Hans of g oh is the brand?

589
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: Uh? Huh?

590
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: Okay, it's a little price here, but you get the

591
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 3: top and the bottom. It's it's not like you're buying

592
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 3: the top and it's it's one size fits all, one size.

593
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 1: What was it that stretchy?

594
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, stretchy. And I got this hot pink one

595
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 3: like I bought it and then Cat, Cat's like five

596
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: ten are you? I don't know if people heard that, Kat,

597
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 3: why don't you tell them what she said?

598
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: She said, yeah with a thick ass.

599
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 3: So yes, Cat's body is banging and we were able

600
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 3: to the same one fit us this.

601
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: I was thinking, I like buying separates because I am

602
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: smaller on the top than what I need from your bottom.

603
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: But this is it works for everybody.

604
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 3: It's like molds to your body, whatever you need. I

605
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 3: read some reviews. Some people weren't very happy with that.

606
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 3: I was. I believe Cat was.

607
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, only one size fits all for a certain range

608
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: of sizes. Sure, yeah, which there's no way to make that. Yeah, sure, it's.

609
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: Not across the board. But what always trips me up

610
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 3: is I don't know this size on the top and

611
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: this size on the bottom, and then I get annoyed

612
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: and then I just end up not ordering a swimsuit. Well,

613
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 3: I had seen multiple people post about this swimsuit, so

614
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: I finally decided to give it a go, and I

615
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: ordered it on Revolve or something, and I thought, okay, well,

616
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 3: and again this wasn't like this amount for the top

617
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 3: and this mount for the bottom.

618
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: It was.

619
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 3: I got both pieces, and it's my favorite swimsuit.

620
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: It's my favorite your cat piece.

621
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 3: And I got it in bubble gum pink or something

622
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 3: like that, and I love it. But that one took

623
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 3: a little while longer to dry, but it never material.

624
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: But it was saved.

625
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: It was saved.

626
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: Also, Maggie left when she heard.

627
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 3: I was talking about her. I bought a new sun hat.

628
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 3: She peed on that and I was like, I can't

629
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 3: return this. How do I wash it? So I sprayed

630
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: it down with vinegar and then I wore the sun

631
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 3: hat on the plane and my boyfriend was like, you

632
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 3: smell like vinegar. You smell like vinegar, And I was like,

633
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 3: it's fine. When we get to the beach, I'll put

634
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 3: it in the ocean. The saltwater will kill everything. The

635
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 3: sun will clean it right up. And then when we left,

636
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: when we were on the flight home, he was next

637
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 3: to me and I had on the same hat and

638
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: I said, you smell that and he was like no,

639
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 3: and I said, exactly, vinegar smell is gone. So that

640
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 3: was my My anger towards Maggie actually dissipated, so I

641
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 3: was really annoyed and angry. But then you told me

642
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: that your aunt said her cats did that. They're angry

643
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 3: because you're leaving, or they have anxiety about you traveling.

644
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 3: So then I feel like, well, that's kind of sweet.

645
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was her neighbors cats did that. Oh she's

646
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: not a cat person. But when I was with her

647
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: when I heard that that happened, and she said, oh,

648
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: that's what cats do. They're mad that you're leaving, because

649
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: I think her being mad has also been sad, like, oh,

650
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: you're leaving me and you're not togeing me with you.

651
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pee in your luggage. However, that is a

652
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: bummer because I was so proud of you for backing

653
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,479
Speaker 1: early the last time you went on a trip. I

654
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: was so stressed.

655
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 3: Out for you because I've packed so late.

656
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: You should have been at the airport and your suitcase

657
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: was not packed.

658
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 3: It's normally me, I know, but I was I told

659
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 3: you I was actually legit super excited for this trip. Yeah,

660
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 3: and I am practicing my skills to not be ad

661
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: HD whatever it is. I'm aware of some of my

662
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: behaviors that don't end up serving me well, Like, yeah,

663
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: what do you say about therapy? The awareness is.

664
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: Well, the booby trap of therapy.

665
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,959
Speaker 3: The booby trap of therapy, well, the booby trap of

666
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 3: knowing that you have ADHD, at least for me, is

667
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 3: some of my behaviors that I have done forever that

668
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: come from me having ADHD. Well, now that I'm aware

669
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 3: of them and I know that I can try to

670
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 3: work on them. I don't want to just do that

671
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,959
Speaker 3: because that's how I've always done it and that's how

672
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 3: I am. I have to be proactive about packing.

673
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: So what's the solution. You put your you pack and

674
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: then you put the suitcase in the closet.

675
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 3: Well, now what I'm going to do is I'm I did.

676
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 3: I did like the feeling of being packed early. It

677
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 3: did feel good, which I know you have ADHD two,

678
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: but we're different because you have some anxiety, like you

679
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: just want to get it done, Like I don't have that.

680
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, eh, we'll get to the airport when we

681
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: get there. It's fine.

682
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm at the airport with a snack and a drink

683
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: and you haven't packed yet.

684
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: Right, So I'm just missing that anxiety piece that then

685
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: drives me towards getting that done. Now I just have awareness,

686
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 3: which is going to drive me towards wanting to get

687
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 3: it done because now I'm aware of like the piece

688
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 3: that I felt because even though I'm not super stressed,

689
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 3: I guess there is this internal struggle. But I've always

690
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 3: felt like I performed better under pressure and I can

691
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 3: finally make decisions because I don't have a choice, Like

692
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 3: it's hard for me to make a decision. If I

693
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 3: have hours to decide, I'm like, well, I don't know,

694
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 3: But then it's down to the wire.

695
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: It's like you know, Yeah, there's the same idea of

696
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: like you have to be it somewhere and you have

697
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: to get dressed. If I have three hours, I'll change

698
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: my outfit fifteen times, versus if I have five minutes,

699
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: I've gotten ready so fast before it to Patrick, I'm like,

700
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: don't remember that, because I can do it if I

701
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: don't have a choice. But if I have time and

702
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: can be late, I'll take all that time up.

703
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 3: I did something for this trip too that I haven't

704
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 3: ever done before. I had all my outfits for each

705
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: night planned out, and before I packed, I try them on.

706
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: Do that, No, I did this trip.

707
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: What do you normally do? Just throw a bunch of

708
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: clothes in the suit?

709
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't have them assigned to Like, I

710
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 3: don't know for sure what shoes are gonna go with all.

711
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, these shoes will probably go with this, this

712
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: and this, and then maybe I'll wear this, but this.

713
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 3: I had my designated outfits and I went ahead and

714
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 3: I took a picture. So that way, when I was

715
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 3: down there on the trip getting ready, I got ready

716
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: with such ease because I didn't even have to think.

717
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 3: I just went and looked back at the picture and

718
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm doing this, this and this

719
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 3: K Kardashian level, I felt, well, my outfits were simple.

720
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: That's what she does what her I think that's what

721
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: her team does for her, is they like, take the picture,

722
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: they put a pooloid on.

723
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 3: The Oh I should do that.

724
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: Well, there's no need if you have it in your.

725
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 3: I know, but that'd be kind of fun. It's a

726
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 3: little thing that I was proud of myself, like little

727
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 3: steps that then made my life easier down there. It's

728
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 3: like being proactive and taking that time ahead of time

729
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 3: to then put yourself at ease when you're on the vacation.

730
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: But don't you think you did all that because you

731
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: were really excited.

732
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because my boyfriend's going. Yeah, if my refriend and

733
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 3: his family, like if they were gonna be on the trip,

734
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 3: if it was just a girl's trip, I don't know

735
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: that I would do that.

736
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't care.

737
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,439
Speaker 3: Well, no, I think I still would have cared.

738
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: I think my point in saying that is it is

739
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: nice to see how much effort. I think a lot

740
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: of that effort was excitement, just pure excitement. You were

741
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: excited about your outfits because you were excited to go

742
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: on this trip with your boyfriend. Like you were excited,

743
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: you know what.

744
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 3: The gift of excitement on me my cat panum, my luggage.

745
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 1: But then it got you knew luggage. Yeah, so you're welcome.

746
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: I will say that in the moment, that was a

747
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:04,479
Speaker 3: very stressful time, but stressful, like I have perspective on life.

748
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 3: It's not the end of the world, but we do

749
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 3: have this trip planned. We are trying to get out

750
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 3: the door soon, and now we're faced with this like

751
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 3: cat piece situation. And I also was proud of myself

752
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 3: for just doing the next thing that I needed to do,

753
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 3: like handling it, getting the vinegar, getting the like tub,

754
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 3: filling it up because I had to get this big

755
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 3: clear like basket bucket thing. And what is that called

756
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 3: a bin? A clear A bin, a bin a bucket.

757
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: Cat just said toe, it's not a toad.

758
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 3: It's not a toe.

759
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: No, it's not a tag. Have we ever told the

760
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: story of us being in a lawyer's office and yelling no.

761
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 3: Piper, No, I don't think so. Well.

762
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: We were in a we were trying to be in

763
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: a professional meeting and something what happened that you said

764
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,240
Speaker 1: that he made some common about something we probably wouldn't

765
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: want to do, So you just you just out of nowhere,

766
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: go no, pap, And no, we did not get it

767
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: at all.

768
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 3: And so I was like, you're not watching like White Lotus,

769
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 3: because I feel like that was a couple of months ago,

770
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 3: and so I feel like at the time that we

771
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: were saying that, like everyone was talking like her.

772
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't watch White Lotus, and I knew.

773
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 3: What it was because you saw it on TikTok.

774
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: Well, my friend started doing it when we went on vacation.

775
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: No soon nam.

776
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, her character is amazing.

777
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: So it's not you don't call it a toe, No.

778
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 3: It's a big classic swords band. So that's what I'll say.

779
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 3: I filled that up because you had to have vinegar

780
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 3: and enough water, and I didn't have, Like where are

781
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: we going? We have all all of Stashira's clothes and

782
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 3: all of my clothes, and I just wanted to soak

783
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 3: everything at once. So I did that, and I was like, Okay,

784
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 3: what's the next thing that I need to?

785
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: Go?

786
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 3: Get the box fans, what's the next thing I need

787
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 3: to do?

788
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: Go get the look and people help you. Yes.

789
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 3: Then I needed to pick up alterations, so cry Okat

790
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 3: went to go pick those up for me, and her

791
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 3: attitude about it was so great. Kav was like, I'll

792
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 3: go I love a task. I love checking things off

793
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: my list.

794
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: So literally what she said, I honestly, I was in

795
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: Franklin at my family, so sorry I couldn't tap in there,

796
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: but it was so cool for you to send that text.

797
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: And then immediately Kat was like, what do you need

798
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: I'll do it. I love a task. I'm like, what

799
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: a good friend?

800
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I didn't need I was I was just saying, no, well,

801
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: I was saying, I can't remember where she was, Like

802
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 3: maybe she was somewhere because where the Alterations places. First

803
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 3: of all, it's her Alterations person. She introduced me to her.

804
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: She's awesome, so I knew the Alterations person would love

805
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 3: to see Cat if she popped by. But it's also

806
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 3: right off the highway, and if Kat happened to be driving,

807
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: I was like, if you're in the area and you're

808
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 3: driving by there, could you possibly do this. I'm in

809
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 3: cat Pee Cristis situation, and if not, no worries. I'll

810
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: figure it out. But that just definitely would help. And

811
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 3: she was like, I love a good task. Check and

812
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 3: I was like, bam baller, which I need to get

813
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 3: to see her because when she came to drop it off,

814
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 3: I was getting box fans or I was at the

815
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 3: luggage doore. Anyway, we got it all figured out and

816
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 3: it was great, and I also pause pause, pause, pause,

817
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 3: congratulated myself. Pause. This is me saying pause to myself, like,

818
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 3: thank you to myself for just handling it even though

819
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 3: I wanted to just curl up in a ball and.

820
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: Cry with as much easy as you could.

821
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 3: Have, with as much ease as I could have, and

822
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 3: with good support, and you know, so to Sharon Stevenson

823
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 3: helped too, and it was great. We got it all done.

824
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:39,879
Speaker 3: So cat pe.

825
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy story, now you know, and now you might

826
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: have saved other people from that. Now they got a

827
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: new cat and they're going on a trip, and now

828
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 1: they know, zip it up, up.

829
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 3: Pack ely, but zip it up, put in the closet.

830
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 3: And then vinegar is your best friend, except for you

831
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 3: might smell like vinegar, and then your boyfriend's gonna be like,

832
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 3: what's that smell? And then you're gonna be like, don't

833
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 3: let it ruin our first family vacation together.

834
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 1: Vinegar is not a great smell.

835
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: I know.

836
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: So he's a trooper. Speaking of your luggage, you packed

837
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: something special? What's your luggage? I did you packed something

838
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 1: that to take with you on vacation?

839
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 3: What you're talking about with my boyfriend?

840
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I was what, oh the something really special?

841
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 3: Vinegar? Yes, I took a great American cookie cake. I

842
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 3: smuggled it into so another country. What my first Jill.

843
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 3: So we were meeting my friend Jill down there and

844
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: I met her to spin class in our twenties. So

845
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 3: that's fun, you know, like say hi to be people.

846
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 3: I had a workout class.

847
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: Friends had a spin well kind of a spin class

848
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 1: we were teaching there.

849
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just never know, like friendships are fun like that,

850
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 3: how they're going to evolve and then we've maintained our

851
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 3: friendship all these years.

852
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: You don't even like spin.

853
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 3: This is when I did like spin. I didn't like it.

854
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 3: I thought I liked it. I was a cyclist.

855
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: Oh you were like a road biker.

856
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I had a road bike. We would spin

857
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,760
Speaker 3: when we were training indoors because I did triathlons. Okay,

858
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 3: So I went to this gym in Austin that was

859
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 3: very you know like Lance ARMSTRONGI lived strong. He was

860
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 3: popular at the time. Have you watched his thirty for

861
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 3: thirty Yeah it's not great, bad vibes.

862
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, this.

863
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 3: Was before those vibes. But everybody at this gym, they

864
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 3: all swim, bike, run, didn't eat cereal stuff like that.

865
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 3: I remember one of my trainers was like, so what

866
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 3: did you eat for breakfast today? And I was like

867
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 3: cereal and she goes, you eat cereal, and I remember

868
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 3: being like, yeah, I was like, okay, I guess I

869
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 3: don't eat cereal anymore? What did she have to eat

870
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: cereal now? But I definitely didn't eat cereal after that.

871
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: How many years ago was that?

872
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 3: I was twenty three or twenty four.

873
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: I think that speaks to like, hopefully people aren't saying

874
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: that these days, Like the culture was so like the

875
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: things people thought they could say.

876
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she was a trainer, so like trying.

877
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: She was helping like people live their best life, and like, yeah,

878
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 3: I don't think I don't know. She might Okay, she

879
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 3: might be the type to say.

880
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: That one you weren't asking for her.

881
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 3: No, I think it was I was, but I was

882
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 3: training though I was training for a train better, eat better.

883
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 3: She was my triathlon trainer at the gym. Okay, so

884
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 3: she was teaching me how to swim, bike and run.

885
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 3: Because I didn't know how to do the swimming or

886
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 3: the biking. I took adult swim lessons because I didn't.

887
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I knew how like a fast swimmer.

888
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 3: If you're swimming a mile, you have to swim a

889
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 3: certain ways. You don't exhaust yourself.

890
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: You know that I had to quit the swim team

891
00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: because I can't dive.

892
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 3: I can't really either, Like you struggle like going in?

893
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 3: Me too.

894
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: I get in the position, but then I just jumped it.

895
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 3: Like it really freaks me out to like go, I

896
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: don't go straight in.

897
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: It's like set and you get in a position.

898
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 3: Guess I really struggle with that too.

899
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: My mom took me to swim meets for I was

900
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: on the indoor swim team, and I'm like, Mom, what

901
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: would you do when your kid would just can't and

902
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: ball into the water.

903
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, that's my girl.

904
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: Wait to this day, you can't do it.

905
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: No, I don't.

906
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: I should do all, but like do I want to learn?

907
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 1: I think at this point it's more of a fun

908
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: fact than anything that we can't dive. But it hasn't

909
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: affected my life other than I had to quit the

910
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: swim team.

911
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 3: Other than like, you know some people that dive and

912
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 3: it's like really pretty.

913
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: But I can do a flip into the water. That's

914
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: what's crazy. I can run and flip into the water,

915
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 1: but I can't dive. You would think the flip would

916
00:42:59,400 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: be scarier.

917
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wonder what that's about another thing we have

918
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:04,720
Speaker 3: in common.

919
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: Okay, side from the cookie cake.

920
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so Jill she loves butter cream, icing and

921
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 3: cookie cakes, but specifically vanilla butter cream from anywhere. Well,

922
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 3: a great American cookie company. You can get a wide

923
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 3: out cookie cake, the big birthday ones, and they will

924
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 3: cover the thing, white it out in icing. Not just

925
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 3: look little white dots. They will wipe it out and

926
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 3: it is glorious, especially for someone.

927
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: That loves that.

928
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 3: So got a white out cookie cake, Happy Birthday Jill

929
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 3: written on it. Was it a circle, a big circle

930
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 3: and so big. How am I going to get this

931
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 3: into the luggage? Well, so I cut it up and

932
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 3: I preserved the happy and the birthday and the Jill.

933
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 3: And then I got parchment paper, and I got a

934
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 3: tupperware thing. And then Stevens impact the least of all

935
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 3: of us, so he had room in his luggage. Plus

936
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 3: if he got caught with it, be like Svenson Stevens,

937
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 3: and you know you can't bring cake.

938
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: Like you can't bring cakes a chilly boy.

939
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 3: He didn't even know it was in there, because trust me,

940
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 3: if that boy got asked, did did you bring any

941
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,439
Speaker 3: food into the country he'd be like, just the whole cake.

942
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 3: It's in my bag, which I know it's not fruit,

943
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 3: but I don't know if they would freak out. I

944
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 3: know you don't want to.

945
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: Take fruit, fruit.

946
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 3: Fruit and vegetables across the borders or whatever. But like,

947
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 3: even we were coming back into America, the guy's like,

948
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 3: do you have any food? And we don't even have

949
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 3: the cake at this point. We have a cake, no,

950
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 3: but well he had granola, and I was like, I say,

951
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 3: he said, do you have any food to claim?

952
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: No?

953
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 3: And then Stevens goes mom the granola, and then the

954
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 3: officer's like, thank you for being honest, son, And I

955
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 3: was like, you know, you didn't need to know about

956
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 3: the granola. We got it at the airport.

957
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: Wait did you say this to him?

958
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 3: No, I'm very respectful. Yeah, I'm like, yes, sir, yes

959
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 3: we have the granola.

960
00:44:59,320 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm silling.

961
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,760
Speaker 3: I forgot about yeah, sorry, granola.

962
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: Yes.

963
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 3: I thought we only needed to claim like linons or something.

964
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 3: But I cut it up. And then one night after dinner,

965
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 3: we all gathered together and Jill's parents were there, and

966
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: her mom had a candle and I piled all the

967
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 3: pieces that we cut up and put it into like

968
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 3: a layered cake because it was all smushed, kind of smushed,

969
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 3: but the name Jill was preserved. Happy Birthday was a

970
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 3: little alone, but I just stacked it all on top

971
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 3: of each other. We stuck the candle on the top

972
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 3: and it made this like, I mean, it was really yummy. Actually,

973
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 3: and she did that or you surprised her. She knew

974
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 3: I brought it because I think I said something about

975
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 3: how we don't don't get dessert tonight because we but she.

976
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: Didn't know you were packing it.

977
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 3: Yes, she did. She knew because I sent her a

978
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 3: video of what it looked like before and I'm like hey,

979
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 3: and she was like shut up, But she didn't know

980
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 3: how I was getting it there, yeah, and what it

981
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 3: was going to look like. And it looked interesting for sure,

982
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 3: And then put the candle in and then we all

983
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 3: sang Happy Birthday, and then she enjoyed her mound of

984
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: butter cream because that's basically what it was, with like

985
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 3: little layers of cookie in it, and.

986
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,720
Speaker 1: It was legit.

987
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 3: And so I just thought, well, yay for friendships that

988
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 3: are long like ours and we don't have to talk

989
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 3: all the time. But it's just funny that we met

990
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 3: in a spin class and then yay for butter cream

991
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 3: because that's something that she's loved for so long and

992
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 3: it was such a simple gesture. It wasn't a lot

993
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 3: of money, it wasn't hard.

994
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: Well, you put some heffort into that well.

995
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 3: But relatively speaking, it wasn't anything difficult and it brought

996
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 3: her so much joy.

997
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to say that. That would bring me

998
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: so much joy. One because if I love that, I

999
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:43,399
Speaker 1: will say they're cookie cakes the.

1000
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 3: Best ten out of ten.

1001
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: I don't love icing on my cookie cake. Meta. I

1002
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: think icing on the cookie cake is anti meta.

1003
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 3: So you just want a cookiki, Okay.

1004
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: I'm weirried about things that are white, you know that,

1005
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 1: h so, but I won't like any of the color

1006
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 1: of icing. But would mean more to me that you

1007
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: went through the effort of figuring out how to do that,

1008
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: you know, like, that's I'm like, oh my gosh, you

1009
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: did not have to. Some people were just like, oh,

1010
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: it's hard. I don't think you can do that. You're like, no,

1011
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this work. So going back to you

1012
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 1: wanting to be this hello Shannon person. Oh sorry, that's

1013
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: hello Jillie Billy. But that you do stuff like that,

1014
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: like and I don't know if you recognize that a

1015
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: lot of people wouldn't do that.

1016
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well that helps I guess in me how

1017
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 3: I want to.

1018
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 1: Show you were so excited to do that.

1019
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, like that was fun to take the cake

1020
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 3: and then maybe have to believe it on Stevenson, But

1021
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 3: it is possible to take cake to the Caymans and

1022
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 3: then overall a successful trip with the boyfriend, his family,

1023
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: my kids. We had so much fun that loved it.

1024
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 3: We already want to plan another trip with everybody. M yeah,

1025
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 3: but it's gonna it's just hard, Like all of our

1026
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 3: schedules are a little crazy, so I don't know how

1027
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 3: it's going to happen. But it is exciting. I see

1028
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 3: why you want to travel with Big Peace so much,

1029
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 3: as like you enjoy being with him and the traveling

1030
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 3: is like fun. And Ben and I when we were married,

1031
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 3: we enjoyed doing stuff like that together too. Unfortunately our

1032
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 3: relationship didn't work out, but I remember that feeling. So

1033
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 3: it's just fun to have that feeling again and to

1034
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 3: find somebody that it's like, oh, you want to like

1035
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 3: get out of the house and do something with there's.

1036
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: Like a giddiness to it.

1037
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:30,720
Speaker 3: Giddy.

1038
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1039
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 3: The gift of giddy is vacations experiences or even just

1040
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 3: vacationis Oh, Shannon's still laughing about for the doc that

1041
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 3: Maggie walked out during her story about her cats are

1042
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 3: a vibe. Let me tell you, I guess we can

1043
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 3: close with a little call out, a little shout out

1044
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 3: to a listener named Cindy. She left us a voicemail

1045
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 3: and it's not one to play or anything, but she

1046
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 3: just said that she added us to her phone like

1047
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 3: in her contacts, and it's she put our phone number

1048
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 3: and put dealing things with Aamy and Cat so that

1049
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 3: she can call us anytime she has.

1050
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: Thoughts, which we said, you guys should do that. Yeah,

1051
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: so be like her, be like Cindy.

1052
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 3: And save eight seven seven two o seven two oh

1053
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 3: seven seven.

1054
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: You got it down? Okay?

1055
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:21,800
Speaker 3: Do you have it saved?

1056
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: I don't know that I'm ever gonna call. Maybe I will,

1057
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: maybe you call. You know what, it was a long

1058
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: We had a couple of days where we didn't talk

1059
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: right now.

1060
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was really trying to like detach.

1061
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe next time you do that instead of me.

1062
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: At one point I felt like I tent you a

1063
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: lot of texts in a row, and I felt like

1064
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 1: a stalker.

1065
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 3: Oh. I think I also only had my phone when

1066
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 3: I like, I had my phone on airplane mode, so

1067
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 3: I only had communication if I was somewhere that had WiFi.

1068
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: Well, I also think maybe I, now that I'm telling

1069
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: this again, I think you had voice memos in there

1070
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: and those deleted, so then it just looked like I

1071
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 1: was texting.

1072
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 3: Oh so you look like a psycho.

1073
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well, next time you're on vacation, I'll just

1074
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: call the voicemail.

1075
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 3: And leave all your thoughts here, save it in your phone.

1076
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 3: Feeling Things with Me and Amy, Yeah, mean put that

1077
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 3: Amy and me, Amy and Me. Yeah, and then of

1078
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 3: course we want to hear from you for couch shocks.

1079
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 3: You can send us either a voicemail or an email. Hey,

1080
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: they're at Feeling Things podcast dot com. And do you

1081
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 3: think it's like next Feeling Things episode we have a surprise. Yeah, okay, yeah,

1082
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 3: all right, it is. And surprises are fun. Yeah, the

1083
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 3: gifts of surprises.

1084
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: You're going to want to watch on YouTube.

1085
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: Probably for sure, props or make sure us on socials.

1086
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: No, we want them on YouTube.

1087
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 3: Okay, but they can also follow on Instagram.

1088
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: Get some YouTube subscribers. We're at seven hundred.

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Speaker 3: I think we're climbing. Yeah, I mean it's better to

1090
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Speaker 3: go up than so.

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Speaker 1: If you want to say, did you.

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Speaker 3: Know people buy YouTube followers?

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Speaker 1: People buy followers everywhere? You're surprised me.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it shouldn't surprise me, but it just does.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. Is it weird to you that people buy

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Speaker 1: Instagram followers?

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Speaker 3: I guess I've heard of that before. I didn't know

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Speaker 3: they did it on YouTube. I guess I just know

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Speaker 3: they did it on YouTube. We're organic here.

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Speaker 1: We don't buy people.

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Speaker 3: We have bought a dang thing, and we will continue

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Speaker 3: to grow. And yeah, some of it's just people don't know.

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Speaker 3: We haven't been on YouTube, and then on Instagram people

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Speaker 3: that one's growing too. So I love our community, and

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Speaker 3: we have a surprise next Tuesday. Thursday, we'll have couch

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00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 3: Talks coming up and then Tuesday fun, yeah, fun, exciting cool.

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Speaker 1: Meta's sick. It is sick. It is sick. Well, we

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Speaker 1: help you have the day you need to have.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye,