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Speaker 1: We said earlier that Steve is on a vacation day,

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Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew, all right. Subject he's leaving a lasting

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Speaker 1: and all he could do was say he is sorry.

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Speaker 1: Presently he is living with one of the ladies he

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Speaker 1: cheated on me with. She's my sorority sister and I

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Speaker 1: Before we get into that, I got to ask you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why do you care? You and this man are divorced. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you are divorced, point blank period, And let's talk about

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Speaker 1: He gave you herpies that, like you said in your letter,

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Speaker 1: He is currently living with one of the women he

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Speaker 1: You said you know her, well, well, guess what she

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Speaker 1: You guys are in the same sorority. Well, you're you're

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Speaker 1: You're trifling husband, and you're trifling sorority sister. They're no good.

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Speaker 1: But we also have to hear from Tommy and Junior.

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Speaker 1: And of course Tommy, m all right. Mine would just

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Jay, you got you know, Charlotte, you like

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Speaker 1: And that's difficult. Make his life a living hell, is

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Speaker 1: what you know, wherever he go. You go there too.

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Speaker 1: He had a restaurant. Don't get on the microphone herping here.

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Speaker 1: good ass whooping is necessary. Let's just be let's just

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