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Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. My name is Rose, and I'm a huge

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Speaker 2: fan of Gears and I met you when you came

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Speaker 2: to Arizona for your concert. But I soot really stuck

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Speaker 2: and lost. I've been with my husband for nine years

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Speaker 2: catching him liking other girls pictures that are showing revealing photos,

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Speaker 2: and he's going out of his way to like these photos.

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Speaker 2: And they're not famous people, the people that we went

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Speaker 2: that they're just girls, and that he's known in the past,

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Speaker 2: and he'll like a girl's picture because he thinks that

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Speaker 2: she's attractive. He messages them all cute, pretty, And I'm

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Speaker 2: had multiple conversations with him that this isn't okay and

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Speaker 2: But he deleted his Instagram. He says he's never going

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Speaker 2: to do it again. He says that he's dumb and

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Speaker 2: But thank you, Chiekis, I love you.

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Speaker 1: I'm rose okay. I'm gonna take a deep breath. I'm

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Speaker 1: taking a deep breath because what I don't like is

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Speaker 1: the fact that he's doing these things and trying to

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Speaker 1: to you and it has and hasn't for a long time,

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Speaker 1: and that the relationship is in rocky Well, those are

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Speaker 1: all things that you talk to your partner about before

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Speaker 1: doing something dumb. Because he's right, it was a dumb decision.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad he raised his Instagram. Let's just hope and

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Speaker 1: pray that he keeps this promise. And you're expecting your

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Speaker 1: understand that you are very vulnerable. Your body is changing.

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Speaker 1: A woman goes through a lot when she's pregnant. We

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Speaker 1: him this because he probably has a beautiful family with you,

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Speaker 1: the ass. And if this continues again, Rose, he raised

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Speaker 1: We're good, Rose. I'm wishing you the best. Please keep

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Speaker 3: Hichi Ky's. I hope you're having the best day ever.

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Speaker 3: I just want to start off by saying, I really

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Speaker 3: feel that you are able to access your mother spiritually?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what episode, but you said that now

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Speaker 3: But it was like a reading from somebody called AJ.

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Speaker 1: All Ari, look at you being connected in every way.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for the podcast. I'm always listening to you. Cheeky's.

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Speaker 5: Much love from Saffernando Valley. Love you, girl, and I yes,

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