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Speaker 1: stephan ever told your protection of iHeart Radio, and welcome

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Speaker 1: to another edition of We're gonna watch Sex in the

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Speaker 1: on this journey because we are on season two, episode three.

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Speaker 1: We're making some progress of these episodes and multiple movies

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Speaker 1: three and we are slowly trekking through. Annie, can you

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Speaker 1: give us a rundown of the last episode? Okay, the

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Speaker 1: last episode was all about breakups and bad relationships and

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Speaker 1: Dirty talk, lots of dirty talk. Some therapy that involves

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Speaker 1: Samantha admitting she needs you know, Big Dick, I thought

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Speaker 1: excuse me, Well, I don't know about that. As Charlotte

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Speaker 1: and in just like that. Yeah, I totally forgot about that,

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Speaker 1: all right, So this episode is called the Freak Show.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So what do you think that's about?

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Speaker 1: I feel like anything I can say would be offensive,

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Speaker 1: that here. Please excuse us as we're talking about it

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Speaker 1: in reference to the show, and then know that this

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Speaker 1: So I will say that, Um, we haven't put any

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Speaker 1: our Bloody Mary's, so we're going to We're going strong.

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Speaker 1: So if you're wondering, we do marathon some of these

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Speaker 1: It's starwinn in. They're being weeded out from propagating the species. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Mitch Sailor, Yeah, do you know what, Oh honey, I

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Speaker 1: Forget it. I'm not dating anyone who's known as Mr Pussy.

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Speaker 1: Why not? Maybe I won't, sweetly like, why wouldn't wouldn't

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