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Speaker 4: My dog Bagel loves it when I bring people home
Speaker 4: on the first date does He gets all excited, His
Speaker 4: tail sticks straight up and he runs into the other
Speaker 4: room so we can watch us through the one way mirror.
Speaker 5: That we put in.
Speaker 4: You have a mirror just for your dog. So Bagel
Speaker 4: has seen things that he will never forget.
Speaker 1: Wow, he's just trained to go to the room and watchable.
Speaker 4: I have so many questions. He doesn't need it, but
Speaker 4: I'll tell you he's never seen what happened in today's
Speaker 4: second date update, where a guy was invited back to
Speaker 4: hang out at his dates place. They spent hours there
Speaker 4: and what happened the entire room is still trying to
Speaker 4: process in total disbelief. You have to hear it in
Speaker 4: your second date update.
Speaker 2: Feel so much like Bagel right now? Honestly, Oh confused?
Speaker 6: You enjoy right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 6: morning second date updates.
Speaker 4: First impressions are everything.
Speaker 2: They're pretty important.
Speaker 4: Like Brook, what did you think when you first met
Speaker 4: me that very first day? I mean, I remember you
Speaker 4: trying to put your hands all over me. But what
Speaker 4: thoughts you were dancing around in your mind?
Speaker 1: I think you were a promotion kid. I don't know
Speaker 1: that you left a huge mark on me, Jeff, I.
Speaker 4: Don't She was leading the claw marks onto me. That's
Speaker 4: what's the main thing. Yeah, I don't think so she's
Speaker 4: been cruel for self preservation.
Speaker 5: I guess. Well.
Speaker 4: What I do know is first impressions can make or
Speaker 4: break a romantic connection.
Speaker 2: You were scared, That's what I remember.
Speaker 4: That's just the look in Brook's eyes when she was
Speaker 4: eyeing my entire body.
Speaker 2: It was scared.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 4: But with first impressions, sometimes it could be the smile
Speaker 4: that stands out. It could be the outfit. It could
Speaker 4: be something you didn't even expect. Like what's happening below
Speaker 4: the ankles?
Speaker 2: Wait below the ankles?
Speaker 4: Some action you got, some planner fascy iteis going.
Speaker 2: On down there?
Speaker 4: Girl, it's working for me. And I'll just say our listener,
Speaker 4: Derek had a very interesting first impression with his date.
Speaker 4: So let's find out about it. Derek, welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me on.
Speaker 2: Please tell me it's above the ankles.
Speaker 4: We'll find out what's this girl's name that you met recently.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I recently met Julia on a dating app.
Speaker 1: Okay, is that where you're talking about the first impression
Speaker 1: or the first impression when you met in person.
Speaker 5: No, it was when we met in person. And I
Speaker 5: know this is going to sound kind of weird, but
Speaker 5: she was not quite as cute as her pictures. Okay, well, well,
Speaker 5: but here's the weird part until later on in.
Speaker 2: The date, were you drinking?
Speaker 5: No, not exactly. The impression I got is that she
Speaker 5: kind of forgot about the date and she came in
Speaker 5: right from a workout.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense, so she wasn't all done up.
Speaker 2: I see, right, right?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 2: Did she get cuter?
Speaker 1: Like the more you got to know her, because I
Speaker 1: know some people that. Yeah, Like after you know him,
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, I could see why they're
Speaker 1: so attractive.
Speaker 4: Just talking about me again, here we're talking to Derek
Speaker 4: about him and Julia.
Speaker 7: That was definitely part of it.
Speaker 5: But there were also like some circumstances like as the
Speaker 5: date progressed, oh.
Speaker 4: It started raining, and so then she was twirling in
Speaker 4: the rain. Now again.
Speaker 5: That would be interesting. Basically, the best part was is
Speaker 5: that even though she looked a little like frazzled. I
Speaker 5: could tell that she had like a cool vibe. I
Speaker 5: could tell she was really stylish. I could tell she
Speaker 5: was confident and like the conversation was really flowing. We
Speaker 5: were talking about like travel. I had just gone to
Speaker 5: London last year and she went to Paris two years ago.
Speaker 7: We were sharing stories about that.
Speaker 2: Can I ask, do we know where you are? Like
Speaker 2: what did you guys do?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 7: We met at this like rooftop bar.
Speaker 5: It was great. We met for drinks and we were
Speaker 5: like we got a little food and we were like
Speaker 5: eating off each other's plate. Whoa yeah, And honestly, you
Speaker 5: kind of got like messy would be the way I
Speaker 5: would describe it, like, yes.
Speaker 4: Let's talk about this, let's get into the message stuff
Speaker 4: mess on a rooftop or how messy did we get?
Speaker 5: I would say it was like a date brought to
Speaker 5: you by ty Tugo.
Speaker 7: Someone spilled, Oh yeah, I did.
Speaker 5: I did a couple things. She made a mess on
Speaker 5: the cloth napkins and she like spilled salsa, but it
Speaker 5: made it look like they were like bloody napkins and.
Speaker 7: We were laughing about it.
Speaker 5: It was like part of the fun of the day,
Speaker 5: and I like, that's something that ran through my mind,
Speaker 5: is like, I hope she doesn't just think I'm this
Speaker 5: like slob of a guy. But she was just as
Speaker 5: messy is me, So I don't think that was it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, who cares if you inconvenienced everybody in
Speaker 4: the bar and all the employees there. As long as
Speaker 4: the two of you were vibing. Really, that's all that
Speaker 4: matters in this scenario.
Speaker 5: And fair, fair, fair.
Speaker 4: That's good. So how did that night end?
Speaker 5: Well, so this is where I'm like pretty sure that
Speaker 5: I didn't read the vibes wrong. Right, So at the end,
Speaker 5: she was like, I'm sorry, you know what, I feel
Speaker 5: really gross, Like I didn't get a chance to like
Speaker 5: clean up, and she was like, do you want to
Speaker 5: come over and I'll like clean up. And I don't
Speaker 5: think she would have like asked me over if she
Speaker 5: wasn't into the date and wasn't feeling it.
Speaker 4: No, I had this guy texting her friends, I'm just
Speaker 4: gonna bite him over for a couple hours. Yeah, show.
Speaker 5: What.
Speaker 4: Well, maybe she wanted him to clean her up, like
Speaker 4: she needed an assistant to help they do it.
Speaker 1: Just like a pair of monkeys picking bugs out of
Speaker 1: each other's hair.
Speaker 4: The Brooks done it before.
Speaker 2: She knows.
Speaker 1: No, that is definitely a green flag. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's a green flag that she wants a relationship
Speaker 1: with you, but it definitely means that she likes you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, did you say yes to that invite?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah? We hung out for like several hours and
Speaker 5: it was getting late. We were in bed. We didn't
Speaker 5: like go all the way. I'm not gonna really get
Speaker 5: into the details of that, but okay, I didn't say
Speaker 5: the whole night because I was like, I actually do
Speaker 5: have to work the next day, so I needed to
Speaker 5: be in my space, you know. And I left really
Speaker 5: late and we had like been in bed together, and
Speaker 5: I just hope, I don't know, I hope I didn't
Speaker 5: make her feel bad about leaving.
Speaker 4: It's possible.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe do you believe a guy who says I
Speaker 1: have work in the morning and I have to Doday.
Speaker 4: Yeah, people work on the weekends too.
Speaker 1: I mean, I could just see where she may be like,
Speaker 1: oh man, he didn't like me.
Speaker 4: I think I was like a question though, did you
Speaker 4: tell her that? Like, did you explain anything the next day?
Speaker 5: Or oh? Yeah, The first text that I sent to
Speaker 5: her was on my way to work. That was, I
Speaker 5: hope you slept well and last night was great and
Speaker 5: we'll talk soon.
Speaker 2: Did she respond to that text?
Speaker 5: So that's just it.
Speaker 7: It's been seven or eight days.
Speaker 5: I have texted her a few times to like check in.
Speaker 5: I haven't been completely ghosted, but I just the not
Speaker 5: getting back a lot. Like in the beginning, I got
Speaker 5: like one word answers and now it's kind of like trailed.
Speaker 2: Off and.
Speaker 4: She's like, K, yeah, well, hopefully we get more than
Speaker 4: one word answers. We have to leave a good first
Speaker 4: impression with her. Ye old things about first impression we have.
Speaker 2: Her first impression was she wasn't that cute? So we're
Speaker 2: good at that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll just try and do it the normal way.
Speaker 4: When we come back, call Julia and get you your
Speaker 4: second date update. Right after this.
Speaker 6: Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date update.
Speaker 4: I'm going to do a quick recap here on this
Speaker 4: second date update if you're just joining us. Listener, Derek
Speaker 4: met Julia at a rooftop bar for drinks and super
Speaker 4: messy food. She had apparently comes straight from a workout,
Speaker 4: so at the end of the date, she invited Derek
Speaker 4: to come back to her place because she wanted to
Speaker 4: freshen up and something more comfortable.
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, is there a better question?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I ask we know what that usually means.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that felt good, and it did lead to them
Speaker 1: in bed.
Speaker 4: They did lie in the same bed at some point
Speaker 4: because Derek stayed he said, half the night or a
Speaker 4: quarter the night. Yeah, I'm not really sure how to
Speaker 4: explain it, but yeah, didn't stay the whole night. But
Speaker 4: now he is not getting a callback and isn't sure why.
Speaker 4: And that brings us to this moment right here. And
Speaker 4: remember he said he's not fully being ghosted. But it's
Speaker 4: like little short answers.
Speaker 8: Something's off.
Speaker 1: It's weird that there's such a turn, such a turn
Speaker 1: in that energy from her.
Speaker 4: Derek, did we miss anything that you did wrong or
Speaker 4: that you could have done?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think so. Like I said, I just
Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on. I really like this girl.
Speaker 5: I've heard you guys help people before. I've heard people
Speaker 5: like try to help people. Yeah, but like you get
Speaker 5: to the bottom of a misunderstanding, and like I've heard
Speaker 5: people have a second date and get past the problem.
Speaker 5: So I'd like to just know what the problem is
Speaker 5: so I can fix it.
Speaker 2: Hey, look at that. That's emotional maturity.
Speaker 4: Will Yeah, we don't normally like that here, but that's fine.
Speaker 4: We'll work with it. Let's call Julia. We'll see if
Speaker 4: she picks up and get those answers you want. Here
Speaker 4: we go.
Speaker 5: I appreciate that.
Speaker 4: Thank you, really, stop being so nice. It's your dating
Speaker 4: where we go. She's obviously the problem. Yeah, hello, Hi,
Speaker 4: we're going to speak with Julia.
Speaker 5: This is shit.
Speaker 4: Hey, Julia, thanks for picking up Julia, I said, we
Speaker 4: because you're on a radio show right now called Brook
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 8: Good morning, Oh.
Speaker 1: Oh oh for Yeah, it doesn't happen often, I'm sure,
Speaker 1: mostly because there's not very many radio shows left.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's part of it. And this is a segment
Speaker 4: that we do on our show called a second date update.
Speaker 9: Oh gosh, okay, okay, I.
Speaker 1: Think I think this one's gonna be good. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: think you're going to be excited about that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got a good guy. Yeah, and I hope
Speaker 4: this doesn't sound weird, but we heard you went out
Speaker 4: with a guy named Derek recently.
Speaker 1: Oh no, what No, it sounded like you were into Derek.
Speaker 4: Maybe it could just be that she's like nervous on
Speaker 4: the radio. Tell her again and you can react again. Yeah,
Speaker 4: here we go.
Speaker 6: No, I've definitely not been on the radio. But I
Speaker 6: don't really want to talk about Derek either.
Speaker 4: Well, Derek told us about the hangout you two had
Speaker 4: the other night, and it sounded really fun the way
Speaker 4: he described it.
Speaker 6: It was fun good.
Speaker 1: I mean, you got to understand how he's confused. You
Speaker 1: invited him to like hang out at your place and
Speaker 1: now nothing.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well so I did invite him over and we
Speaker 6: were having a great time. But he was over for
Speaker 6: quite a while and he never took his shoes off
Speaker 6: in your house.
Speaker 4: Or in your apartment is a rule that you have,
Speaker 4: like you take your shoes off when you come in.
Speaker 1: I mean there's always two types of places, right, the
Speaker 1: shoes on or shoes off.
Speaker 4: My plaes are encouraged.
Speaker 3: Get everything out of with then I have friends who
Speaker 3: even for parties shoes off.
Speaker 4: Did you tell him that?
Speaker 6: Well, so, yes, I definitely I am a shoe kind
Speaker 6: of off person. But it was our first date. But
Speaker 6: we're just sitting on the couch. It's okay, it wasn't
Speaker 6: completely walking around my apartment.
Speaker 1: And and it can really ruin your outfit, like you're
Speaker 1: on a first date. You play on the look like
Speaker 1: who knows what kind of socks he had on?
Speaker 2: Maybe that was the issue.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, if you think about that, take him off,
Speaker 5: skirt and you.
Speaker 4: Guys know exactly how men think. Discussed so true.
Speaker 1: They meant there's a lot of shoeheads out there that
Speaker 1: love their shoes.
Speaker 2: How did you go together?
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, did you consider that? Julia?
Speaker 6: Sure? And I didn't want to be rude either, and
Speaker 6: so that's why later when we were watching TV and
Speaker 6: getting kind of comfortable with each other and everything, I
Speaker 6: was like, do you want to get comfortable and take
Speaker 6: your shoes off? And he was like no, oh, And
Speaker 6: that was part of weird.
Speaker 2: That's really funny because it's hard to snuggle with shoes on.
Speaker 2: It means it right, it means that your feet are
Speaker 2: always on the ground.
Speaker 6: But it gets worse, you guys, it gets worse.
Speaker 4: How does it get worse?
Speaker 9: Well, I don't I.
Speaker 6: Mean maybe he didn't tell you, but we did end
Speaker 6: up in my bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, weird with his shoes still on what Okay, he
Speaker 1: got me he got into your bed with his shoes on.
Speaker 2: Ew would be uncomfortable and disgusting.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how did you react when he did that?
Speaker 6: I was appalled and I'm like, what are you doing?
Speaker 9: Get your shoes.
Speaker 6: Off of my bed? And he's like, this is my thing.
Speaker 6: I don't take my shoes off, And I'm like, am
Speaker 6: I in the twilight zone? Are you insane?
Speaker 8: You know?
Speaker 6: I didn't say anything. I think I just kind of
Speaker 6: freaked out, and thankfully he left, like twenty thirty minutes later.
Speaker 1: I think that, like the clothes that you wore for
Speaker 1: the day are gross in your bed, like things you
Speaker 1: sit on and touch and move around, like the bottom
Speaker 1: of your shoes are all over everything.
Speaker 4: That's because, yeah, I'm not sorry.
Speaker 5: I did not expect it to be an issue that
Speaker 5: I keep my shoes on.
Speaker 4: That's really shoe boys on the phone, Yeah, Julia, that's Derek.
Speaker 4: He's been listening this entire time on the other line.
Speaker 6: Really, it's not really Derek, is it.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's me. How's it going? Yeah, yeah, I can't
Speaker 5: really believe that that's the reason you're not like returning
Speaker 5: my text.
Speaker 2: Well, what you've never heard that complaint before.
Speaker 6: You don't know anything. Do you know anyone else who
Speaker 6: wears their shoes as much as you do?
Speaker 5: I've been doing this like a really long time. This
Speaker 5: has been kind of my thing for like fifteen years.
Speaker 5: I wear shoes twenty three and a half hours a day.
Speaker 4: Maybe wow, what's break for like a shower? Hopefully?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Basically when I shower.
Speaker 1: I take the shoes like a comfort, like a security
Speaker 1: blanket type of thing.
Speaker 4: Do you have weird feet or is it the fashion
Speaker 4: thing that the girls were saying?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean the best thing I can
Speaker 5: describe it. Like, I am definitely as a person an extrovert,
Speaker 5: but my feet are introverted feet.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
Speaker 5: And plus, if you think about it, it is a
Speaker 5: lot more efficient. It saves me like two to three
Speaker 5: minutes in the morning.
Speaker 7: That really adds up.
Speaker 5: That's a couple extra hours a month.
Speaker 4: I don't right.
Speaker 6: You have to tink your shoes off to put your
Speaker 6: pants on and then put.
Speaker 5: Them back on. Who's taking their pants off? I'm not
Speaker 5: taking my pants off.
Speaker 1: You guys with her both women to take your pants
Speaker 1: off kind of skills.
Speaker 4: Actually, wait, wait, wait, if you have tear away pants
Speaker 4: then you don't have to take them off over your shoes.
Speaker 4: They're very useful.
Speaker 2: I actually think there could be a solution to all
Speaker 2: of this.
Speaker 1: Like I hear you you got your shoe saying, whatever
Speaker 1: that's you man? Is there a way you could get
Speaker 1: like house slippers where you could like at least switch
Speaker 1: from no.
Speaker 5: Definitely not. Look, I live a no barefoot decisions lifestyle.
Speaker 5: If I want to be ready, I want to stay
Speaker 5: ready right now.
Speaker 2: That's it's not a good point, Jeff.
Speaker 4: It is if there's a fire, he is going to
Speaker 4: be the first one out.
Speaker 3: You can run out barefoot, but not as quickly.
Speaker 2: I think you would run equally as fast as.
Speaker 4: It's like you with your glasses. If you take your
Speaker 4: glasses off, you're lost in this year your hand. You
Speaker 4: can't get out the door.
Speaker 2: That's because I can't see it, Jeff.
Speaker 4: It's because your glasses are introverts. Yeah, they're shy. They
Speaker 4: need to be on your face. I feel comfortable.
Speaker 2: It would make my eyes introverts, not my glasses.
Speaker 4: Your whole body's weird, weird. You have no confidence. I
Speaker 4: feel like we'll come into common ground here.
Speaker 2: So literally he said no toe slippers.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, ground that the shoes stand on. So let's
Speaker 4: offer to send you guys out on another date. We
Speaker 4: would pay for it. Julia, what do you think give
Speaker 4: him one more chance?
Speaker 6: I honestly can't. It's so strange. Oh no, I don't
Speaker 6: think I can adapt. Oh he's not willing to adapt.
Speaker 9: Why should I?
Speaker 1: I think that this is I know you said that
Speaker 1: you've never heard this as a problem before, but this
Speaker 1: has got to be part of an issue with every
Speaker 1: woman you've ever been with. Yeah, there's like even socks
Speaker 1: on in bed are an issue for most women.
Speaker 9: That's true.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's never really come up.
Speaker 5: But also I haven't been like actively dating. Like seriously, I.
Speaker 4: Think that, Julie, you've heard of.
Speaker 6: A farmer's can I can't imagine his shoe tan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just say you need to work through it.
Speaker 5: I mean, to me, it's not a problem. It's a strength.
Speaker 9: Okay, I'll be mature.
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 6: So you deserve to be with someone who agrees with you,
Speaker 6: maybe kind of a twenty three hour wearing girl, and you'll.
Speaker 4: There is a woman out there who has her shoes
Speaker 4: on all the time, and she's going to be appreciative
Speaker 4: when she finally walks into the room and sees you
Speaker 4: how much you want to bet his soul may works
Speaker 4: at a shoe storey, dere I'm sorry, man, you tried.
Speaker 5: What can I say in general? We're sorry.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but we'll be here for you if you ever
Speaker 4: need our support in the future. Okay, some arch support,
Speaker 4: of course, is what I mean.
Speaker 6: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: You know, it's funny. We've had a lot of guys
Speaker 4: come through the show in the last man years, not
Speaker 4: a lot of shoe guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was so weird. Yeah, I was trying to
Speaker 2: be open.
Speaker 1: He's got his shoe anxiety or something like feed anxiety.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 4: I was trying to think what would be if he
Speaker 4: never took shoes off, or if he never puts shoes on.
Speaker 2: I would take no shoes yet somehow more normal, Like
Speaker 2: when you go.
Speaker 1: To a wedding, he's gonna be shoeless. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: but I would take that over the sea.
Speaker 4: I mean, I am kind of surprised that nobody in
Speaker 4: his life has brought this up to him in the
Speaker 4: last like fifteen years. That seems pretty unlikely. It's weird,
Speaker 4: but I guess some people get confidence from like a
Speaker 4: nice haircut, some people get it from a nice dress.
Speaker 2: Some people just get it from being single for a
Speaker 2: long time.
Speaker 4: Then because they keep their shoes on for twenty three
Speaker 4: and a half hours every day. I notice you have
Speaker 4: a lot of shoes. Are just one pair always?
Speaker 1: I mean there were so many more questions that I
Speaker 1: had as Yeah, I try not to make it about me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. Well, we'll definitely have him back on
Speaker 4: for like a full interview.
Speaker 2: Yeah shoes, Yeah, we'll just we'll.
Speaker 4: Get the exclusive. But if you want help with your
Speaker 4: dating life, we can help you with that. Email the show.
Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and
Speaker 4: go check out all of our second date updates. They're
Speaker 4: available online wherever you get your podcasts at brookn.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: In the movie Jurassic Park, jeff Goldsbloom famously says life
Speaker 4: finds a way. Yeah, and he lips off his shirt
Speaker 4: and smolders for that camera.
Speaker 2: And ladies still love that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, still works today. But today we're going to
Speaker 4: try to make love find a way. After we heard
Speaker 4: about a very very unique first date that combined the
Speaker 4: three big d's, dinosaurs, drinking, and diamonds. Je It's never
Speaker 4: what you're thinking, bro, How did all three of those
Speaker 4: mesh together into one wild night? You're gonna hear it
Speaker 4: in a second date update next.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date Updates.
Speaker 4: Are you guys up to mission impossible? With me and
Speaker 4: a listener today? I'm gonna say no immediately.
Speaker 2: I don't know I'm into it. What are you gonna do?
Speaker 2: Are you gonna hang from a ceiling? Or are you
Speaker 2: gonna jump out of a play?
Speaker 4: Her name is Sasha and if this call doesn't go well,
Speaker 4: we might have to wear dark outfits and black hats. Yes, Brook,
Speaker 4: do you have any peanut butter you want to smear
Speaker 4: all over your face?
Speaker 1: I always got I probably have some on my face
Speaker 1: for my breakfast still this.
Speaker 2: Morning, I usually do a peanut butter and.
Speaker 4: Still care because we do. We might need a camo
Speaker 4: and go covert here, but you need yes because we
Speaker 4: could be on a reconnaissance mission today. That all started
Speaker 4: with a first date which ended up at a guy's place.
Speaker 2: Would you leave their girl?
Speaker 4: So we're gonna find out first. Let's welcome Sasha. To
Speaker 4: the show. Sasha, how you doing.
Speaker 10: Hey, I'm better now that I'm talking to somebody about this,
Speaker 10: so oh good.
Speaker 2: I imagine you were like hiding somewhere in his house
Speaker 2: like I.
Speaker 5: Need you, but.
Speaker 2: I have my jars. Keep you ready, let's go.
Speaker 4: We're ready for action. So start at the beginning, Sasha,
Speaker 4: tell us what happened with this guy?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 9: I met this guy named Marcus online.
Speaker 10: Okay, and aside from like me and is super attractive
Speaker 10: like Paul, and like balled all the stuff that I like,
Speaker 10: I'm really into tennis and he's really into tennis. So
Speaker 10: that was the one thing that I was like, Okay,
Speaker 10: So we started talking or whatever, and he was like
Speaker 10: thinking of stuff that was kind of out the box.
Speaker 9: And so there was like a local festival. I don't
Speaker 9: know how, I'm sure I heard of the dinal drunk Fest, right?
Speaker 7: What drunk fest?
Speaker 2: I want to go? Do you get drunk and roar
Speaker 2: like a segatory?
Speaker 10: You get drunk, but I'm like the drunk fest, but
Speaker 10: it's the drink fest where you get drunk.
Speaker 8: You feel me? You got it.
Speaker 4: This morning? Because I know I'm following.
Speaker 2: Where are the dinosaurs coming to play?
Speaker 9: I'm a little hungover. I can't even lie a little
Speaker 9: hungover because I did I did go out last night.
Speaker 10: Oh anyway, it's like this festival where everybody wears like
Speaker 10: these inflatable t Rex costumes.
Speaker 9: Okay, I thought it was a little weird, but I
Speaker 9: was just like, you know what really attracted to him
Speaker 9: and let's do something.
Speaker 1: But you still attracted to a guy who shows up
Speaker 1: to your dating an inflatable t Rex costume.
Speaker 4: She fun She's also supposed to be in the t
Speaker 4: Rex costume too, so it's.
Speaker 2: Could you share one so that it's like you're hanging
Speaker 2: out still.
Speaker 4: Idea, this is some hot Jurassic action that we're about
Speaker 4: to get into. So how did it go?
Speaker 9: So we're going drinking in the outfits and then like.
Speaker 5: For some reason, they had a.
Speaker 10: Rock wall Now imagine like the whole costume is classic
Speaker 10: and you have.
Speaker 9: Like kind of like climb a wall like falling.
Speaker 2: It was when you land.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it depends on how much you've drunk too.
Speaker 2: Did you do the rock waller? Is this just something
Speaker 2: he did?
Speaker 5: He said?
Speaker 10: Okay, And I was like, you know what, I've had
Speaker 10: enough of dinal world, Like, now let's go.
Speaker 4: But good for you. You went on your comfort zone
Speaker 4: for a whole.
Speaker 2: Hour, hour and a half and it sounds like you
Speaker 2: had fun and you had a good time.
Speaker 9: I don't know if I had a good time, but
Speaker 9: I did it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm still proud of you, and you still liked him
Speaker 1: because you guys left together.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 9: He was like, well, do you want to go back
Speaker 9: to my place? And I'm like yeah. Then he mentioned
Speaker 9: like having some more drinks and movies, like I needed
Speaker 9: more to drink, but whatever, how I won't.
Speaker 4: Let's just get out of here and like, yo, get
Speaker 4: drunk at your house.
Speaker 1: Usually that's like decisions like this is why the dinosaurs
Speaker 1: don't roam in the earth anymore.
Speaker 4: Okay, so that's how you end up back at Marcus's Apartay.
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, So we go back, We're chilling more drinks
Speaker 9: and end up watching movie t like eventually after a while,
Speaker 9: I'm like, I didn't realize. It was like three o'clock
Speaker 9: in the morning. I get up at six to go
Speaker 9: to work.
Speaker 2: Oh day, don't sleep at that point. No, you're not
Speaker 2: sober at work the next day. I can tell you that.
Speaker 4: So what do you do?
Speaker 9: So I ordered uber, I rushed out.
Speaker 10: So then the next day get to work, realize, oh
Speaker 10: my god, I left my earrings and they were like
Speaker 10: not just some ordinary earrings.
Speaker 9: They're like my diamond stud earring.
Speaker 4: I mean you were on a date, so you probably
Speaker 4: wore the good stuff.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't even have any good stuff,
Speaker 2: so good for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 9: So I reached out to him and like, no reply.
Speaker 1: Oh god, it's the worst two because you leave it
Speaker 1: actually on accident, and everyone assumes you're doing it so
Speaker 1: that the guy calls you again and you're like, no, honestly,
Speaker 1: she made honestly told his friends, like, guys, she purposely
Speaker 1: left her stuff here red flag.
Speaker 4: They're all probably telling him, dude, that's not a good.
Speaker 2: You guys talk to their friends about that.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 8: No.
Speaker 4: It's more like, dude, she took my hoodie. This is working.
Speaker 4: So where are you at with Marcus?
Speaker 5: Now?
Speaker 10: Well, after a while I was like, okay, no, LOLd
Speaker 10: of my earrings I need though, So he didn't. He
Speaker 10: never replied back, and I just went back to his
Speaker 10: house and I rang the doorbell, and like and what
Speaker 10: I ring the doorbell and somebody else door gy or girl.
Speaker 9: It was a guy all right, And I was like,
Speaker 9: because the one was.
Speaker 10: There the night before and he never said any thinking
Speaker 10: about a roommate, And I said, hey, you know I'm
Speaker 10: looking for Marcus.
Speaker 5: I was here last night.
Speaker 9: I left my earrings and he hadn't taken me back.
Speaker 10: And they were like, I don't know what you talk about, Marcus.
Speaker 2: What were they were playing dumb? Was it a joke?
Speaker 9: I mean, if they were playing dumb, they were a
Speaker 9: really good actor, because he was just like, I don't
Speaker 9: know what you talk about.
Speaker 4: Well, you have been drinking for like many many hours
Speaker 4: in a dinosaur costume and after that too, so.
Speaker 2: What are you thinking? Like wrong door? Is that what
Speaker 2: you mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Probably wrong with city even so, But so okay,
Speaker 4: now we're going to call Marcus for you and try
Speaker 4: and help you get your earrings back. Do you want
Speaker 4: to date too?
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm open to it. I just kind of
Speaker 9: really want to know why did he like hurt me
Speaker 9: like that?
Speaker 1: Like why does no one else want to know who
Speaker 1: the random guy in his house was.
Speaker 4: Don't even know if that was I think we all
Speaker 4: assume it's the wrong house, right, I don't know. We
Speaker 4: have a lot of questions to ask this guy. Once
Speaker 4: we get him on the phone, we're gonna come back
Speaker 4: and try and get you your second date update right
Speaker 4: after this.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date update.
Speaker 4: If you're just joining us for the second date update,
Speaker 4: we have two objectives today. The main objective recovering some
Speaker 4: precious belongings. Yes, we're putting love on the back seat
Speaker 4: just for the beginning, because we need to help Sasha
Speaker 4: get her earrings back.
Speaker 2: Her diamonds. It's more than just ear rings, Seriously, it's important.
Speaker 4: I didn't realize, but she left them at a guy
Speaker 4: named Marcus's apartment after they hung out all night. And
Speaker 4: the weird part was she texted him to get them back.
Speaker 4: He didn't respond to her, so she actually physically went
Speaker 4: to his place the next day and a different guy
Speaker 4: answered his door and said, I don't know Marcus, Marcus
Speaker 4: doesn't live here.
Speaker 2: Do think he moved moved out in the middle of
Speaker 2: the night.
Speaker 4: Is it possible you scared him completely out of his
Speaker 4: own building?
Speaker 10: Sasha, I doubt that, Like, we had a really good night,
Speaker 10: and I don't know why he wouldn't like text me back.
Speaker 9: I'm like, did he sell them?
Speaker 8: Like?
Speaker 4: I don't know it's we're the guys like I have
Speaker 4: no idea what you're talking about too. She had said
Speaker 4: she was drinking a lot, so we don't even know
Speaker 4: if it was the right place that she went back to.
Speaker 4: Sons a lot of things to answer, So let's just
Speaker 4: call Marcus if this actually is Marcus's number, and see
Speaker 4: what he has to say.
Speaker 5: But here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, we're looking for Marcus. We're a radio show.
Speaker 4: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Pretty fun, good morning.
Speaker 4: You could tell by the tone of my co host
Speaker 4: voice how fun we are. I'm the fun one.
Speaker 2: What's up, Mark, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: We're so true I did.
Speaker 2: Sound like you or when I said that. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: Marcus are you there?
Speaker 8: Yeah, good morning everyone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry to like barge in on your life like this,
Speaker 4: but we're doing something called the Second Date Update, and
Speaker 4: we're trying to help you.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, we're we're called.
Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're trying to
Speaker 4: help out one of our listeners named Sasha that you
Speaker 4: actually went on a date with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, drink it with Dino's right.
Speaker 8: Yeah, that was crazy crazy.
Speaker 4: We heard it was kind of a crazy night.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we also heard you went up a
Speaker 1: rock wall in a t re costume, so I think
Speaker 1: crazy suits the event.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I was. I was messed up that night.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we heard. We heard. There was some positives and
Speaker 4: some also negatives from the date because Sasha said that
Speaker 4: she left her ear rings at your apartment and texted
Speaker 4: you about it, and you never respect.
Speaker 8: She tried to pull on those Cinderella acts on me.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, Marcus, it was not a move.
Speaker 1: It was not like a ploy to get you to
Speaker 1: call her back. She honestly forgot them.
Speaker 4: But what did you what did you call it a
Speaker 4: Cinderella act?
Speaker 8: Yeah? I'm sorry, were you there.
Speaker 2: B But I talked to her.
Speaker 1: I talked to her, and I can tell that, like, okay, listen,
Speaker 1: if if a woman leaves something at your house and
Speaker 1: it's all an act, it's not going to be her
Speaker 1: diamond ear rings about it's something that she could totally toss.
Speaker 4: We don't know if they're real diamonds, so right.
Speaker 8: Exactly, Wait, I don't have a diamond I don't have
Speaker 8: a diamond detector. I don't know if they are real
Speaker 8: diamonds or not. Nevertheless, I know she left them intentionally
Speaker 8: at my house. I know this.
Speaker 2: Why why would you know that?
Speaker 4: Do you know that?
Speaker 8: How do I know that?
Speaker 9: I can tell?
Speaker 8: Like it happened to me before.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's happened to all of us dudes. But
Speaker 4: imagine if it really is an accident.
Speaker 8: Bro Listen, she can have her ear rings back. I
Speaker 8: don't want them. What the heck I need them for? Then?
Speaker 1: Why aren't you texting her backvisa?
Speaker 8: Why I haven't touched the back because I don't want
Speaker 8: her to showing up at my house that she did
Speaker 8: the other day.
Speaker 4: We okay, she told us that she actually went back
Speaker 4: to get the earrings that but somebody else answered the
Speaker 4: door that you didn't live there.
Speaker 8: No even know you exactly. That's my little younger brother.
Speaker 8: I gave him instructions, well what to say, what to
Speaker 8: do when I'm not wrong?
Speaker 2: Now, just give her the earing Yes.
Speaker 8: True, Listen, she just popped over my house on some
Speaker 8: shady like it was just listen, you didn't even get
Speaker 8: the text messages.
Speaker 4: You know that she's doing it on purpose, just to
Speaker 4: try and like get back into your life and trying
Speaker 4: to get another date with you.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, and she would have gotten another date if
Speaker 8: she did not pull this stunt.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not a stunt.
Speaker 4: We don't look, we don't really know what the intentions
Speaker 4: were behind it. The only thing we can do at
Speaker 4: this point is bring Sasha on the phone right now.
Speaker 4: I mean, I know it's not a great look, but
Speaker 4: the truth is she's been secretly listening on the other
Speaker 4: line waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 2: You got to use the word secret.
Speaker 4: Well, it wasn't open, So what else do you call it? Sasure?
Speaker 5: You there, hey, Marcus?
Speaker 8: Oh man, what are you pulling this now?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 9: Do you know I would have really.
Speaker 10: Appreciated if you didn't have your little brother answer the door,
Speaker 10: and if you could have come to the door and
Speaker 10: given my ear rings yourself.
Speaker 4: Well, I think he would have appreciated if you had
Speaker 4: warned him that you were going to show up to
Speaker 4: his apartment. I'm invited, you know what, your bad?
Speaker 2: He's gonna warn him. But there's no response.
Speaker 4: Clearly Marcus was scared of her.
Speaker 1: Oh god, this is hes out with her until three
Speaker 1: in the morning.
Speaker 8: You weren't that scared, Marcus, Come on, dunk stupid the
Speaker 8: whole time she was, so were you?
Speaker 4: You're the one that fell off the rock wall. Marcus.
Speaker 9: Okay, Adinal drink fest is where you take me on
Speaker 9: a first date. You have the nervous me right now, Really.
Speaker 5: I.
Speaker 8: Got you. I will give you your ear rings back, but
Speaker 8: what i'll send it to you? I need the address
Speaker 8: to send these earrings to you.
Speaker 2: Are you trying to show up at her house? Marcus?
Speaker 2: Is that what you try?
Speaker 8: I'm not trying to show up at the house. No,
Speaker 8: I'm not trying to show up at the house either.
Speaker 4: Wait, before we started like exchanging addresses with each other, Sasha,
Speaker 4: Marcus is accusing you of leaving the ear rings there
Speaker 4: on purpose, trying to Cinderella him to meet like trying
Speaker 4: to make sure you meet up with him again.
Speaker 9: Right, that's say that's not what happens.
Speaker 7: You're saying, No, no, I didn't leave on purpose.
Speaker 9: But I have done that before, like five other time.
Speaker 2: Marcus, you weren't even worth but you don't.
Speaker 9: You wrong ear rings that night?
Speaker 4: So okay, can you see like her perspective? I mean
Speaker 4: it sounds like, Marcus, maybe you have a little bit
Speaker 4: of bad experiences in the past.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I say trust issues.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Okay, sure, Listen, she just admitted it. She left
Speaker 8: the ear rings that other places like at least about
Speaker 8: five different times.
Speaker 1: Marcus, don't be so righteous, all right, you've done shady
Speaker 1: stuff before too.
Speaker 2: We all have the data.
Speaker 8: Leave her ear rings and you know she's gonna leave
Speaker 8: her children, how do we make that jump? Honestly, girl
Speaker 8: did that to me before she left the kids. Here. Wait,
Speaker 8: really she gus. We did it because she wanted to
Speaker 8: come back the next day to see me, because not.
Speaker 4: To see her children, to see Marcia's.
Speaker 2: Actually that's a pretty genius move.
Speaker 4: There's no children, all right. Well, Marcus, you clearly got
Speaker 4: a little bit of PSD from your past experiences with women.
Speaker 4: So to those children, it sounds like Sasha did not
Speaker 4: do this on purpose, and you yourself said that you
Speaker 4: would have gone out with her had it not been
Speaker 4: for the text and the showing up to the apartment craziness.
Speaker 4: So what we would like to do before we start
Speaker 4: exchanging addresses, is offered to send you guys out on
Speaker 4: a date that we would pay for, and then you
Speaker 4: can bring the ear rings and give them back to
Speaker 4: her in.
Speaker 2: Person, and we're paying for it.
Speaker 4: Clean slate, no Dino outfits.
Speaker 2: Or I think it's for you too. Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 2: think I think she said no.
Speaker 4: Well, your little brother can come along with.
Speaker 9: I don't want a second date with him.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.
Speaker 10: I just want my ear ring.
Speaker 4: Okay, you please give her her earrings.
Speaker 2: Bro, I think you're gonna have to show up to
Speaker 2: his house and get them.
Speaker 5: She can have them.
Speaker 8: They're not even real diamonds.
Speaker 2: That was below the belt market.
Speaker 4: Okay, we will pay to have them diamond tested for validity,
Speaker 4: and then we'll send them back over to Sasha's place.
Speaker 5: Maybe that could be our date.
Speaker 8: We all get together and we can check to see.
Speaker 4: Romantic.
Speaker 9: I won't even waste my time with that.
Speaker 10: You you get the ear ring because I don't want
Speaker 10: to see that o bro anymore.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Well, no love connection, but at least sounds
Speaker 4: like we recovered the jewelry that she wanted.
Speaker 2: We're almost like a pawnshop at this point.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Well, we just heard our own weird second date version
Speaker 4: of Cinderella there, but instead of a glass slippers, they
Speaker 4: were diamond earrings.
Speaker 1: Okay, she did not do it on PERP, neither did Cinderella,
Speaker 1: and instead of ugly stepsisters.
Speaker 4: It was Marcus's ugly little brother. Oh yeah, I don't
Speaker 4: I don't know if he was ugly, but he was
Speaker 4: willing to lie to Sasha and tell her Marcus didn't
Speaker 4: live there. And lies make you ugly on the inside.
Speaker 2: Man, that's just a loyal little brother. Move jeff You.
Speaker 1: Know, little mice and birds like knitting in the middle
Speaker 1: of this second.
Speaker 4: It wasn't quite as romantic as the fairy tales ever were.
Speaker 2: I just want to call that lady who left her
Speaker 2: kids still.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was the craziest part of the story. You
Speaker 4: want to know how it works, don't you, Brook, So
Speaker 4: then you can drive us out on somebody. But look,
Speaker 4: just for the record, we are getting Sasha her earrings
Speaker 4: back to her, so that's been handled. No second date
Speaker 4: will be happening now, but we can make it happen
Speaker 4: for you. Maybe make your fairy tale come true. Go
Speaker 4: email the show. We'll call that person who isn't calling
Speaker 4: you back. And check out our podcast. Listen to all
Speaker 4: our second dates wherever you get yours at Broke and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey