WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: 1st Impression Means Everything + Dino Drunkfest 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:02.920 Hey, it's freaking Jeffrey in the morning, and welcome to it. 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:06.640 You're back to back classics if you haven't figured it out. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:09.280 And one of the people that are going to comment repeat, 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:17.640 ye us, that's your voice. Yeah, anytime we say classics, 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.400 it's just one from back in the vault that we're 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.599 bringing back out. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:23.760 Not everyone scrolls to the very. 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:27.319 Beginning of this podcast, because we have a thousands of episodes. Yeah, 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:29.560 just you know, give you something to listen to on 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:31.159 a Saturday, and we've got two of them back to 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:31.960 back right now. 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He doesn't need it, but 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:47.240 I'll tell you he's never seen what happened in today's 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:51.000 second date update, where a guy was invited back to 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:55.000 hang out at his dates place. They spent hours there 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:59.280 and what happened the entire room is still trying to 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:03.360 process in total disbelief. You have to hear it in 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:04.560 your second date update. 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:07.640 Feel so much like Bagel right now? Honestly, Oh confused? 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.800 You enjoy right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.600 morning second date updates. 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.359 First impressions are everything. 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:17.680 They're pretty important. 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.160 Like Brook, what did you think when you first met 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.560 me that very first day? I mean, I remember you 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:26.480 trying to put your hands all over me. But what 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.560 thoughts you were dancing around in your mind? 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.800 I think you were a promotion kid. I don't know 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:36.240 that you left a huge mark on me, Jeff, I. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:41.280 Don't She was leading the claw marks onto me. That's 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:44.320 what's the main thing. Yeah, I don't think so she's 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:45.760 been cruel for self preservation. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:48.040 I guess. Well. 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.800 What I do know is first impressions can make or 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.520 break a romantic connection. 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:55.200 You were scared, That's what I remember. 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.320 That's just the look in Brook's eyes when she was 0:02:58.400 --> 0:02:59.920 eyeing my entire body. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:03.040 It was scared. 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:03.600 I was. 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:07.600 But with first impressions, sometimes it could be the smile 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.440 that stands out. It could be the outfit. It could 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:13.640 be something you didn't even expect. Like what's happening below 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:15.200 the ankles? 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:16.280 Wait below the ankles? 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.359 Some action you got, some planner fascy iteis going. 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:20.720 On down there? 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.440 Girl, it's working for me. And I'll just say our listener, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:27.160 Derek had a very interesting first impression with his date. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.800 So let's find out about it. Derek, welcome to the show. 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:31.639 Hey, thanks for having me on. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:36.240 Please tell me it's above the ankles. 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:39.480 We'll find out what's this girl's name that you met recently. 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:40.280 Yeah. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.440 I recently met Julia on a dating app. 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.320 Okay, is that where you're talking about the first impression 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:47.360 or the first impression when you met in person. 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:50.400 No, it was when we met in person. And I 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.680 know this is going to sound kind of weird, but 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:58.760 she was not quite as cute as her pictures. Okay, well, well, 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.640 but here's the weird part until later on in. 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.160 The date, were you drinking? 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:10.520 No, not exactly. The impression I got is that she 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.360 kind of forgot about the date and she came in 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:14.880 right from a workout. 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.800 Oh that makes sense, so she wasn't all done up. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.400 I see, right, right? 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:19.320 Right? 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:21.160 Did she get cuter? 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:22.680 Like the more you got to know her, because I 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.000 know some people that. Yeah, Like after you know him, 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:26.520 you're like, oh my god, I could see why they're 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:27.200 so attractive. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:31.920 Just talking about me again, here we're talking to Derek 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:33.320 about him and Julia. 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:35.440 That was definitely part of it. 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:37.919 But there were also like some circumstances like as the 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.839 date progressed, oh. 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:43.159 It started raining, and so then she was twirling in 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.480 the rain. Now again. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:50.640 That would be interesting. Basically, the best part was is 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:53.520 that even though she looked a little like frazzled. I 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:55.200 could tell that she had like a cool vibe. I 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.160 could tell she was really stylish. I could tell she 0:04:57.240 --> 0:05:00.960 was confident and like the conversation was really flowing. We 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:03.560 were talking about like travel. I had just gone to 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:06.240 London last year and she went to Paris two years ago. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:08.039 We were sharing stories about that. 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:10.560 Can I ask, do we know where you are? Like 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:11.320 what did you guys do? 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:12.760 Oh yeah, yeah yeah. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.200 We met at this like rooftop bar. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.320 It was great. We met for drinks and we were 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:19.440 like we got a little food and we were like 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:25.080 eating off each other's plate. Whoa yeah, And honestly, you 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.560 kind of got like messy would be the way I 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:29.000 would describe it, like, yes. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:31.440 Let's talk about this, let's get into the message stuff 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:34.400 mess on a rooftop or how messy did we get? 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:36.520 I would say it was like a date brought to 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:37.320 you by ty Tugo. 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:41.240 Someone spilled, Oh yeah, I did. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:43.680 I did a couple things. She made a mess on 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.680 the cloth napkins and she like spilled salsa, but it 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.599 made it look like they were like bloody napkins and. 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:51.320 We were laughing about it. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:53.720 It was like part of the fun of the day, 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:56.160 and I like, that's something that ran through my mind, 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:57.800 is like, I hope she doesn't just think I'm this 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:59.960 like slob of a guy. But she was just as 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.000 messy is me, So I don't think that was it. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.320 Yeah, I mean, who cares if you inconvenienced everybody in 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.440 the bar and all the employees there. As long as 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.960 the two of you were vibing. Really, that's all that 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:11.280 matters in this scenario. 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.200 And fair, fair, fair. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:15.800 That's good. So how did that night end? 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:18.719 Well, so this is where I'm like pretty sure that 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.560 I didn't read the vibes wrong. Right, So at the end, 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:25.159 she was like, I'm sorry, you know what, I feel 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:27.960 really gross, Like I didn't get a chance to like 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.240 clean up, and she was like, do you want to 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:33.360 come over and I'll like clean up. And I don't 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.480 think she would have like asked me over if she 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:37.600 wasn't into the date and wasn't feeling it. 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:40.840 No, I had this guy texting her friends, I'm just 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.800 gonna bite him over for a couple hours. Yeah, show. 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:45.440 What. 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.000 Well, maybe she wanted him to clean her up, like 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.240 she needed an assistant to help they do it. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.560 Just like a pair of monkeys picking bugs out of 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:54.279 each other's hair. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:55.560 The Brooks done it before. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:56.120 She knows. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.280 No, that is definitely a green flag. I don't know 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.200 if it's a green flag that she wants a relationship 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:03.920 with you, but it definitely means that she likes you. 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:06.400 Yeah, I mean, did you say yes to that invite? 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:09.920 Oh yeah? We hung out for like several hours and 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:14.679 it was getting late. We were in bed. We didn't 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:16.920 like go all the way. I'm not gonna really get 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:20.520 into the details of that, but okay, I didn't say 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.440 the whole night because I was like, I actually do 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:24.560 have to work the next day, so I needed to 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.640 be in my space, you know. And I left really 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.400 late and we had like been in bed together, and 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.960 I just hope, I don't know, I hope I didn't 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:36.080 make her feel bad about leaving. 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:37.560 It's possible. 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.160 Yeah, maybe do you believe a guy who says I 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:42.000 have work in the morning and I have to Doday. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.200 Yeah, people work on the weekends too. 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.840 I mean, I could just see where she may be like, 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:50.360 oh man, he didn't like me. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.600 I think I was like a question though, did you 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:55.120 tell her that? Like, did you explain anything the next day? 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.760 Or oh? Yeah, The first text that I sent to 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:00.480 her was on my way to work. That was, I 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.680 hope you slept well and last night was great and 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:03.440 we'll talk soon. 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.240 Did she respond to that text? 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:06.720 So that's just it. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:08.160 It's been seven or eight days. 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:11.600 I have texted her a few times to like check in. 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.600 I haven't been completely ghosted, but I just the not 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.240 getting back a lot. Like in the beginning, I got 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.960 like one word answers and now it's kind of like trailed. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:20.960 Off and. 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.320 She's like, K, yeah, well, hopefully we get more than 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.600 one word answers. We have to leave a good first 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.560 impression with her. Ye old things about first impression we have. 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:32.800 Her first impression was she wasn't that cute? So we're 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:33.200 good at that. 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.199 Yeah, we'll just try and do it the normal way. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:40.280 When we come back, call Julia and get you your 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.240 second date update. Right after this. 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:45.920 Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date update. 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.319 I'm going to do a quick recap here on this 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:53.199 second date update if you're just joining us. Listener, Derek 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:57.840 met Julia at a rooftop bar for drinks and super 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:02.559 messy food. She had apparently comes straight from a workout, 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:05.920 so at the end of the date, she invited Derek 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:08.840 to come back to her place because she wanted to 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.520 freshen up and something more comfortable. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.280 I mean, honestly, is there a better question? 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:18.880 Yeah, I ask we know what that usually means. 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.280 Yeah, that felt good, and it did lead to them 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:22.200 in bed. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.600 They did lie in the same bed at some point 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.719 because Derek stayed he said, half the night or a 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:29.960 quarter the night. Yeah, I'm not really sure how to 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.800 explain it, but yeah, didn't stay the whole night. But 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:36.640 now he is not getting a callback and isn't sure why. 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:40.120 And that brings us to this moment right here. And 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:43.120 remember he said he's not fully being ghosted. But it's 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:44.520 like little short answers. 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:45.160 Something's off. 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:48.280 It's weird that there's such a turn, such a turn 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:49.600 in that energy from her. 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.959 Derek, did we miss anything that you did wrong or 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:52.679 that you could have done? 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:56.280 Yeah, I don't think so. Like I said, I just 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.600 I don't know what's going on. I really like this girl. 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.800 I've heard you guys help people before. I've heard people 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:04.559 like try to help people. Yeah, but like you get 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.880 to the bottom of a misunderstanding, and like I've heard 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:09.920 people have a second date and get past the problem. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.560 So I'd like to just know what the problem is 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:13.520 so I can fix it. 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:16.160 Hey, look at that. That's emotional maturity. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.960 Will Yeah, we don't normally like that here, but that's fine. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.200 We'll work with it. Let's call Julia. We'll see if 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.319 she picks up and get those answers you want. Here 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:23.600 we go. 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:24.520 I appreciate that. 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.080 Thank you, really, stop being so nice. It's your dating 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:39.400 where we go. She's obviously the problem. Yeah, hello, Hi, 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:41.559 we're going to speak with Julia. 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:42.520 This is shit. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:47.680 Hey, Julia, thanks for picking up Julia, I said, we 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:49.920 because you're on a radio show right now called Brook 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:50.920 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:54.640 Good morning, Oh. 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:58.520 Oh oh for Yeah, it doesn't happen often, I'm sure, 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:00.880 mostly because there's not very many radio shows left. 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:05.200 Yeah, that's part of it. And this is a segment 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.679 that we do on our show called a second date update. 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:12.160 Oh gosh, okay, okay, I. 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:14.439 Think I think this one's gonna be good. Honestly, I 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:15.760 think you're going to be excited about that. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:17.600 Yeah, I got a good guy. Yeah, and I hope 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:19.840 this doesn't sound weird, but we heard you went out 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:21.679 with a guy named Derek recently. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:29.960 Oh no, what No, it sounded like you were into Derek. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:32.120 Maybe it could just be that she's like nervous on 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:36.840 the radio. Tell her again and you can react again. Yeah, 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:37.280 here we go. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:40.360 No, I've definitely not been on the radio. But I 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.800 don't really want to talk about Derek either. 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:48.520 Well, Derek told us about the hangout you two had 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.800 the other night, and it sounded really fun the way 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.640 he described it. 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.640 It was fun good. 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.640 I mean, you got to understand how he's confused. You 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.040 invited him to like hang out at your place and 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:01.960 now nothing. 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:06.319 Yeah. Well so I did invite him over and we 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:11.360 were having a great time. But he was over for 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:15.160 quite a while and he never took his shoes off 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:17.640 in your house. 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:19.280 Or in your apartment is a rule that you have, 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:21.000 like you take your shoes off when you come in. 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:23.160 I mean there's always two types of places, right, the 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:24.400 shoes on or shoes off. 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:26.840 My plaes are encouraged. 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:28.720 Get everything out of with then I have friends who 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:29.960 even for parties shoes off. 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:33.480 Did you tell him that? 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:37.600 Well, so, yes, I definitely I am a shoe kind 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.199 of off person. But it was our first date. But 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:42.320 we're just sitting on the couch. It's okay, it wasn't 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:44.640 completely walking around my apartment. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:46.920 And and it can really ruin your outfit, like you're 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.880 on a first date. You play on the look like 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:50.640 who knows what kind of socks he had on? 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:51.559 Maybe that was the issue. 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.760 Yeah, yeah, if you think about that, take him off, 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:55.560 skirt and you. 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:01.199 Guys know exactly how men think. Discussed so true. 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:04.240 They meant there's a lot of shoeheads out there that 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:05.160 love their shoes. 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:06.720 How did you go together? 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:09.480 Okay, yeah, did you consider that? Julia? 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.439 Sure? And I didn't want to be rude either, and 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:16.360 so that's why later when we were watching TV and 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.080 getting kind of comfortable with each other and everything, I 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:22.000 was like, do you want to get comfortable and take 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.320 your shoes off? And he was like no, oh, And 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:25.400 that was part of weird. 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.440 That's really funny because it's hard to snuggle with shoes on. 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.680 It means it right, it means that your feet are 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:31.560 always on the ground. 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.720 But it gets worse, you guys, it gets worse. 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:35.720 How does it get worse? 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.000 Well, I don't I. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.000 Mean maybe he didn't tell you, but we did end 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:40.800 up in my bed. 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:46.400 Yeah, weird with his shoes still on what Okay, he 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.559 got me he got into your bed with his shoes on. 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.520 Ew would be uncomfortable and disgusting. 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.000 Yeah, how did you react when he did that? 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:57.760 I was appalled and I'm like, what are you doing? 0:13:58.000 --> 0:13:59.480 Get your shoes. 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.520 Off of my bed? And he's like, this is my thing. 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.880 I don't take my shoes off, And I'm like, am 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.439 I in the twilight zone? Are you insane? 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:08.720 You know? 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.440 I didn't say anything. I think I just kind of 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:16.000 freaked out, and thankfully he left, like twenty thirty minutes later. 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.600 I think that, like the clothes that you wore for 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.520 the day are gross in your bed, like things you 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.520 sit on and touch and move around, like the bottom 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.000 of your shoes are all over everything. 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.000 That's because, yeah, I'm not sorry. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:30.800 I did not expect it to be an issue that 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:31.800 I keep my shoes on. 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:36.440 That's really shoe boys on the phone, Yeah, Julia, that's Derek. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.000 He's been listening this entire time on the other line. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.720 Really, it's not really Derek, is it. 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:47.600 Yes, it's me. How's it going? Yeah, yeah, I can't 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.200 really believe that that's the reason you're not like returning 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:50.720 my text. 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:53.840 Well, what you've never heard that complaint before. 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:57.440 You don't know anything. Do you know anyone else who 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.440 wears their shoes as much as you do? 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.600 I've been doing this like a really long time. This 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:04.840 has been kind of my thing for like fifteen years. 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:06.920 I wear shoes twenty three and a half hours a day. 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:10.960 Maybe wow, what's break for like a shower? Hopefully? 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:11.360 Yeah? 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.120 Basically when I shower. 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.720 I take the shoes like a comfort, like a security 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:16.840 blanket type of thing. 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.720 Do you have weird feet or is it the fashion 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:20.000 thing that the girls were saying? 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:21.800 I don't know. I mean the best thing I can 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:24.920 describe it. Like, I am definitely as a person an extrovert, 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:29.520 but my feet are introverted feet. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:30.640 Oh yeah. 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.480 And plus, if you think about it, it is a 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.160 lot more efficient. It saves me like two to three 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:37.040 minutes in the morning. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:38.760 That really adds up. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.400 That's a couple extra hours a month. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:43.280 I don't right. 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:46.520 You have to tink your shoes off to put your 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:47.880 pants on and then put. 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:50.560 Them back on. Who's taking their pants off? I'm not 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:51.520 taking my pants off. 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.640 You guys with her both women to take your pants 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:56.840 off kind of skills. 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:59.080 Actually, wait, wait, wait, if you have tear away pants 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.360 then you don't have to take them off over your shoes. 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:03.440 They're very useful. 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:05.680 I actually think there could be a solution to all 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:05.960 of this. 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:09.120 Like I hear you you got your shoe saying, whatever 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.400 that's you man? Is there a way you could get 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.280 like house slippers where you could like at least switch 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:15.600 from no. 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:21.280 Definitely not. Look, I live a no barefoot decisions lifestyle. 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:23.680 If I want to be ready, I want to stay 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.320 ready right now. 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.040 That's it's not a good point, Jeff. 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.560 It is if there's a fire, he is going to 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:33.600 be the first one out. 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:37.760 You can run out barefoot, but not as quickly. 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:39.880 I think you would run equally as fast as. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.600 It's like you with your glasses. If you take your 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.320 glasses off, you're lost in this year your hand. You 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:46.200 can't get out the door. 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:48.240 That's because I can't see it, Jeff. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:52.560 It's because your glasses are introverts. Yeah, they're shy. They 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:54.280 need to be on your face. I feel comfortable. 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:57.040 It would make my eyes introverts, not my glasses. 0:16:57.080 --> 0:17:00.280 Your whole body's weird, weird. You have no confidence. I 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.200 feel like we'll come into common ground here. 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:05.480 So literally he said no toe slippers. 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.640 Well, yeah, ground that the shoes stand on. So let's 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:10.119 offer to send you guys out on another date. We 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:13.400 would pay for it. Julia, what do you think give 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:14.240 him one more chance? 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:19.560 I honestly can't. It's so strange. Oh no, I don't 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:23.000 think I can adapt. Oh he's not willing to adapt. 0:17:23.080 --> 0:17:24.320 Why should I? 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.320 I think that this is I know you said that 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:28.439 you've never heard this as a problem before, but this 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.080 has got to be part of an issue with every 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:34.800