1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: Well, Steve, this one is from Mildred Mildred in Lexington. Okay. 2 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Mildred says, my grandson is eighteen years old and he 3 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: has a key to my house. I came home Friday 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: afternoon and he had a girl on my living room 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: couch and they were half naked. I called his mama 6 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: and told her what he did, and she was very upset. 7 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: My grandson had the audacity to tell me that he's grown, 8 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: and I was wrong to call his mama on him. 9 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm so upset with him right now that I want 10 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: to take his key to my house back. How should 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: I handle him disrespecting me and my house? 12 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 2: Number one, take your keyback from his house because he 13 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: disrespects the house roofs. That's number one. He grown. You 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: shouldn't have called his mom. Well, if you grown, get 15 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: your grown as a hotel room. You bought a key 16 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: and came over to your grandmother's house. And then that 17 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: sense of entitlement that I'm grown. See, you know what 18 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: killed me bout young people. They do stupid stuff and 19 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: then want to label it I'm grown. Well, just because 20 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: you've grown don't mean you free to do what you 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 2: want to do. I'm grown, but I can't drive ninety 22 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: you know it's seventy mile POWs on without getting a ticket. 23 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm grown, but if I don't come to work, the 24 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 2: ass ain't gonna pay me pay. I'm grown, but I can't. 25 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: I can't take no girl over to my house and 26 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 2: be on no couch with him and somebody walk in 27 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: half nicked. And then my statement is I'm grown. Right, Well, 28 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm not only grown, but I'm gone to see all right, 29 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 2: I lose a lot. So you know, the eighteen year 30 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: old boy, that has to be consequences for it. Take 31 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: your keyback from him. It'll never happen again. Tell him 32 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: he owes you an apology. See, young boys is stupid. 33 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: They think the best defense is an offense. So now 34 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: he done threw it on you. You shouldn't have called 35 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: my mama. You shouldn't have been half naked over my 36 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: house without my permission with a girl out right now, boy, 37 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: miss me, with all that illogical logic. 38 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: You use it right? 39 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: If you've grown, where your place at? 40 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: See? 41 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: Grown people have places? Yeah, yeah, grown people have their 42 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: own key. Children, children stay with other people. 43 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: Yes, all right, enough said on that one, Steve. We 44 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: have time for another one from Brooke in Miami. Brooke says, 45 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old woman with four children. 46 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: I might as well say i'm single because I've been 47 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: engaged for six years. My boyfriend wants a big family, 48 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: and he said we can get married later. I told 49 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: him I will have one more child if he agrees, 50 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: just set a wedding date. He said, At this point, 51 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 1: do we even need a piece of paper? Is he right? 52 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: Is it just a piece of paper? Or do I 53 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: need to keep pressing him to be his wife? Wow, 54 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: listen to me. 55 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 2: You have control of his situation if you quit giving 56 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: away your control. No, you're not having another baby if 57 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: he says a wedding day. No, after you're married, you 58 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: can have another baby. That's what you're going to do. 59 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: But all of these proposals because you can have a 60 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 2: baby and he can cancel the date. Yeah, Now, all 61 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: of this is just a piece of paper. Well, it 62 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 2: just happens to be a piece of paper that you want, 63 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: and you have every right to get it. But let 64 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: me ask you something. Why won't he marry you? It's 65 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: the question, yes, and why do you keep having these 66 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: babies with no husband when that's what you want now. 67 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: Because you have babies without a husband doesn't make you 68 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: any less of a person in any way. But if 69 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: you want to be a wife and he is the 70 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: one that wants another baby, then we can have another baby. 71 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 2: If I'm your wife. 72 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: About that's just a symbol. 73 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: A requirement, man, Yeah, just just have some standards. Make it, 74 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: make him live up to something. Listen to me. If 75 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: a man asks you to have a baby, that's the 76 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: biggest request you can make up another human being. Yeah, 77 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: that is not a bigger request in this world than 78 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: to get another human being, a woman to make another light. 79 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: I can't get a piece of paper. But you want 80 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: a baby, boy. 81 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: Boy boy? 82 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: Yes? 83 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, good invite Steve of course, coming up 84 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after we'll have more of the Steve 85 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey 86 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: Morning Show.