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Speaker 1: get it up, chess bro. No, I'm not. I'm blessed.

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Speaker 1: want my girl for ten years. Allow me just like you?

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Speaker 1: my brother? Absolutely big things? Are there? Something from a

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Speaker 1: But I've been knowing like all y'all for like years,

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Speaker 1: What have you been studying? What is it like? What

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Speaker 1: Thank you. It's a pleasure to be Here's a new

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Speaker 1: was saying, my parents never really instilled that in me.

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Speaker 1: And so fortunately for you you were kind of raised

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Speaker 1: with that mindset, and for your brothers and sisters. It

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Speaker 1: makes a big difference if you come up in an

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Speaker 1: environment where people are talking business all the time. And

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Speaker 1: I mean this was low impact business. My father started

427
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: a business with the mumpet a bucket, that's it, and

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00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 1: ended up with fifty two employees and ten trucks back

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Speaker 1: in the sixties. But I grew up in the house

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Speaker 1: of good days of bad days. I know what it's

431
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Speaker 1: like when it's going good and then it's going bad.

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Speaker 1: Most people get out of business because they hit a

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Speaker 1: bad spot. But it's like turbulence on a plane. If

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Speaker 1: you just stay seated, everything's gonna be all right. Things

435
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 1: laying on their feet again, and you have to withstand

436
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 1: those struggles, those hard times, and you have to be

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Speaker 1: on top of your business. You have to focus, you

438
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Speaker 1: have to do what you have to do. In the book,

439
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Speaker 1: the book was written based on the Right Brothers because

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Speaker 1: these guys built a airplane that nobody had ever heard,

441
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: didn't even know what to call it, and they built

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Speaker 1: it in a bicycle shop. And I wrote it to say,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to have everything that you need to

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Speaker 1: build your dream. Take what you got, use what you

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00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 1: got to start where you are and build from there.

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Speaker 1: And it's amazing what you can accomplish with your life. Now,

447
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Speaker 1: let's go back a little bit, if you don't mind,

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Speaker 1: let's start. How did you get into the church? What

449
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Speaker 1: got you in a church so heavy? It's kind of

450
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: hard to remember a time that I wasn't. I grew

451
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Speaker 1: up in that environment. I grew up around it, so

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Speaker 1: I was exposed to it. So on one hand, I

453
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 1: grew up playing the pan on the church. In the

454
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Speaker 1: other hand, I ended up helping my father run a

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Speaker 1: buffer at night. So I had a work ethic of

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Speaker 1: a spiritual life almost all of my life, and it's

457
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: always been a part of my life. You gotta like

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Speaker 1: a little nose garden. I know, I know, but it's

459
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: fake news, bro, It's fake news. I inherited these shoulders.

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Speaker 1: I didn't learn my daddy gave me. Thank you, daddy.

461
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: But the reality is I didn't do that. I really

462
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: grew up in that kind of environment. And that's not

463
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Speaker 1: to say it was any goody two shoes. Don't think

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Speaker 1: that by any stretch of the imagination. But I did

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Speaker 1: grow up in that environment where there was faith on

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Speaker 1: one hand, there was work on the other, and that's

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Speaker 1: kind of who I became. Well made you take it

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Speaker 1: so serious because you know every black family, most black

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Speaker 1: families put their children in church, and it's they get

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Speaker 1: to a certain age and then they just kind of

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Speaker 1: wheeze aloud. Everybody on our name. Not everybody stays for

472
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Speaker 1: that's a great question. Nobody ever asked me that. That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Nobody ever asked me. I think what made me take

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Speaker 1: it so seriously, it's my father got sick when I

475
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Speaker 1: was ten. I grew up in a house with dialysis.

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Speaker 1: I grew up in a house where we were juggling

477
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Speaker 1: between life and death on a day. Early basis, dialysis

478
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Speaker 1: was nearly as as advanced as it is today. He

479
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Speaker 1: died when I was sixteen, and I think it was

480
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: a choice between blowing my brains out and coming to God.

481
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Speaker 1: And that was kind of where my head was at

482
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Speaker 1: at that time, in a really, really bad spot. And

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Speaker 1: I knew that there was something missing out of my

484
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Speaker 1: life for it related to fathering that I desperately needed,

485
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Speaker 1: and I was trying to fill that hole in my life.

486
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Speaker 1: And I think that has all the world to do

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Speaker 1: with how I became who I am. And it's interesting

488
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Speaker 1: because you do talk about your father with his business.

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Speaker 1: Even though he did grow his business to have fifty

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Speaker 1: two employees, you always felt like he could have really

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Speaker 1: taken it to the next level if he would have

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Speaker 1: had that mindset. Yeah. Well, the thing I noticed about

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Speaker 1: my dad, my dad, my dad was hard to describe

494
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Speaker 1: because he did everything he saw fish, He did everything imaginable.

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Speaker 1: He was like the ultimate hustler. And then he got

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Speaker 1: this business going and he was doing a good but

497
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Speaker 1: he brought a hustling attitude into a business opportunity. And

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Speaker 1: I noticed something that he was so busy doing it

499
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Speaker 1: he didn't have time to grow it. And so in

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Speaker 1: the book, I talk about the danger of keeping your

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Speaker 1: hands on things so long that it deteriorates from what

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Speaker 1: it could have been. Because You can hire somebody to

503
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Speaker 1: do it, but you can't hire anybody to think it.

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00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: You have to be able to market that, you have

505
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Speaker 1: to be able to manage it. It's just because you

506
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Speaker 1: have a talent that means you need to go into

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Speaker 1: business doing that thing. Because business is not about doing it,

508
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Speaker 1: it's about thinking it. How did you have the mindset

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Speaker 1: to be in the church and have all these other

510
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Speaker 1: businesses that you do, because I'm sure the congregation looks

511
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Speaker 1: at you, and you know it's always been looking at you,

512
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 1: say well, when is he getting that money from? How's

513
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: he making is? How is that like? It's almost ridicule

514
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Speaker 1: of what they do. So how did you have that

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Speaker 1: mind for him to continue to go and still do

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Speaker 1: those business The funny thing about that is I had

517
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Speaker 1: my business before I had my church. Tdj's Enterprises existed

518
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: before I had the publish house, so the church didn't

519
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: have to get used to it. I came with it.

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00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 1: Like Margaret Winners can sing and he brings a gift

521
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Speaker 1: in the presence wore. Also, being a preacher, all you

522
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Speaker 1: can give is who you are. It's not because I'm

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Speaker 1: a preacher that I'm successful. I'm successful if I didn't preach.

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00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,239
Speaker 1: I've done enough movies. I've done enough films that if

525
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Speaker 1: I didn't preach at all, which puts me in a

526
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Speaker 1: position where I don't have to do it for the money.

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00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: I can do it because I love it. So being

528
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Speaker 1: by vocational is a blessing. I mean, Jesus was a carpenter,

529
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Speaker 1: Paul was a tentmaker, and I've been bussed to make

530
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: films and started out doing plays, got a door and

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Speaker 1: an opportunity to do something with Sony Pictures. I wasn't

532
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: gonna give up the ministry because I became more successful,

533
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: and I wasn't gonna give up the opportunity because I

534
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: was a preacher. What do you think? What do you

535
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: say to people who call gods like yourself pulpit pimps

536
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: because they feel like y'all have turned church into a business. Well,

537
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: most of guys who say that are standing outside, and

538
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: it's like standing outside of your business calling you names.

539
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: People who stand outside of something never really understand it.

540
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: They make assumptions about things they make they don't understand.

541
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Speaker 1: And every ministry is different. I'm not vouching for everybody.

542
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: We're not monolithic, We're not all alike, but in our

543
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: particular case, people who know our ministry know that rehabilitate

544
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: ten thousand inmates and help them to reduce ray to

545
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: ASTI visible. We have a year long program that we

546
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: take them through to get them back out in life.

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00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: People who know our ministry know that we were boots

548
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,679
Speaker 1: on the ground in Katrina. We were there when they

549
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: were snatching bodies out of there. We were there for

550
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: the current hurricanes that we have all the way to

551
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 1: Puerto Rico. People who know our ministry know the work

552
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 1: that we do all over the world digging wells and whatnot.

553
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: And then we have three hundred people on staff. It's

554
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: not just me. But when you come on TV, they

555
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: see you. They see you, and they see money, and

556
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: they don't see three hundred other families who eat every

557
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: day because of what we do. So if you're sitting

558
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: around the barbershop and you're making assumptions, assumptions have a

559
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: root word as Bishop TD Jakes that said, how are

560
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: you gonna hit from the outside of the church. You

561
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: can't even We got more with TD Jakes when we

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00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,160
Speaker 1: come back, So don't move. It's a breakfast club. Good morning,

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00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: the breakfast club Morning everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: the God, we all the breakfast club. We have the

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Speaker 1: Bishop TD Jakes in the building. Charlomagne. You relate all

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Speaker 1: entrepreneurship to flying in this book. You mentioned the Right

567
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: Brothers White flying well, because it is a bit like

568
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: being suspended to start a business. You don't feel like

569
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: you have anything under you. It is a scary situation.

570
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 1: You're starting out on the ground, you end up in

571
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: the air. And what I'm really saying about a business,

572
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: the Right Brothers looked up in the air and thought

573
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: the audacious thought, I belong up there at a time

574
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: when that was totally ridiculous. They built something to take

575
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 1: them there. People who build businesses must build the business

576
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: to take them toward your dream. The business is not

577
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: the dream, It is the transportation to the dream. If

578
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: you don't get that straight in the embryotic stages of

579
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: building a business, you won't succeed. And the reason it's

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00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: important that we have this conversation right now is women

581
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: of color are going into business more readily than any

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00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: other people group in the country. They are going into

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00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: business that fast. Bad news is they're not standing in

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00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 1: the business because they doesn't like access to capital and

585
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: they don't have anybody to mentor them. And what I'm

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00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: saying in the book, I don't care how talented you are,

587
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: how gifted you are, You're better if you have a

588
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: coach right. And you talk about the research of where

589
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: the Right Brothers went, they said, Okay, this is where

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00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: the wind is going to be right for us to

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00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: be able to take off, and then once you do

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00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 1: take off, having the wind beneath you so that you

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00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: can That's one of my favorite points. I'm glad you

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00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: brought that up. My experiences. I've done a lot of things.

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00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: I've done talk shows, I've done various types of businesses.

596
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: No matter how good you build, whatever it is you're building,

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00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: if you don't get it in the right wind at

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00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: the right time, then you won't accelerate the way you

599
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: need to. The Right Brothers built the first plane in Dayton,

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00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: but they launched it in Kitty Hawk, North Carolina. And

601
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: the main reason they went to Kitty Hawk is because

602
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: the wind is right. And in the book, I use

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00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: that as a metaphor to say you might be doing

604
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: the right thing in the wrong place or at the

605
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: wrong time. If you get the right winds up under you,

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00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: you've become a lot more successful. Colonel Sanders built his

607
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: business at a time that women had gone the work

608
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: and families were used to home cooked meals. The timing

609
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: was right, the wind was right, and in spite of

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00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: the fact that he was sixty some years old, he

611
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: launched a business that I lived him out, grew him,

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00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: and became a brand that's still here today. And money

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00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: is a motivation too. We discussed that because a lot

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Speaker 1: of people who are motivated to be successful being finance

615
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: is but define success. But that can't be the only

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Speaker 1: thing that you're aiming for. Well, it doesn't work. In fact,

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00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: stats say that people who go into business because they

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00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 1: need money are more apt to go out of business

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Speaker 1: than anybody else. To success rate is deplorable. However, people

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00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: who start a business to meet other people's needs are

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00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: much more successful. You don't have to market as hard.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to talk me into supplying something that

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Speaker 1: I haven't need for so so it's really about purpose driven,

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00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: not profit driven. If you are purpose driven, the profits

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00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: will follow you. If your profit driven, you're always going

626
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: to be hustling before the church. I've always been involved

627
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: in the church, but I managed clothing. I was a

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00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: buyer for a clothing store, for men's fashion. I worked

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Speaker 1: for Union curvebad Processing gases and the Sutherlines, and just

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00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: for a number of year. I've done just about everything else.

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Speaker 1: And my mother ran I was a little boy. My

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00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 1: mother later I was a little boy helping her said,

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00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: I was hustling all of my life. All of my life,

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Speaker 1: I've always been doing something productive. I was actually a

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Speaker 1: short order cooking later a chef for a restaurant. So

636
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Speaker 1: I've done just I can throw down, I can hurt

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Speaker 1: you real bad. You won't be able to wear nothing.

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Speaker 1: That A lot of people always talk about. You know,

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Speaker 1: I have money or I have an idea, I want

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Speaker 1: to start a business. What should I do? There's a

641
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Speaker 1: lot of listeners that have money to hit me and

642
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Speaker 1: you all the time about what should I do? What?

643
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Speaker 1: What would you tell somebody that that wants to create

644
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Speaker 1: a business, to start a business that have no idea,

645
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: don't know where to start, or just clueless. Study everything

646
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: you can about the business, Get every kind of magazine,

647
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: get around anybody who's doing what you want to do,

648
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Speaker 1: any kind of way before you start the business, not

649
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: after before you start, because in every the fact that

650
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Speaker 1: you want to start a business in an era, every

651
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Speaker 1: business has a culture, unspoken rules, and so in order

652
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Speaker 1: to really find out how to do that, you have

653
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Speaker 1: to get around people who are doing that. Don't be

654
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Speaker 1: afraid to enter in at ground level zero to get

655
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Speaker 1: the information. Once you've gathered all the information, to second step,

656
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Speaker 1: put your team together. You can do it without the

657
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: right team. It's very important that you get the right team.

658
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Speaker 1: If you're going to build a team, don't build a

659
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Speaker 1: team which is submits to take. Most people make associating

660
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Speaker 1: with people who do what you do, because if you

661
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Speaker 1: surround yourself with people who do what you do, they're

662
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: gonna compete with you. You want people who are good

663
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Speaker 1: at what you're not good at, so they complete you.

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Speaker 1: Once you have your team together, and they should be

665
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Speaker 1: completing you in that they accessorize your limitations. So you

666
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Speaker 1: have to be good enough at what you do to

667
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Speaker 1: know what you're not good at. Most people are too

668
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Speaker 1: egotistical to admit they're not good at anything, so they

669
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Speaker 1: don't build the right team. Because you want to be

670
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Speaker 1: the master of everything, you want to come up with

671
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Speaker 1: the concept, develop the concept, share it with people, get

672
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Speaker 1: a nondisclosure agreement before you do so, put together your team,

673
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: and from your team you launch your dream. Another good

674
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Speaker 1: piece of advice you're given the book, SOISO is waiting patients,

675
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: waiting patients and wanting it now. And you touch on

676
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Speaker 1: how these millennials don't really realize success as a process.

677
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: It is definitely a process. And I do training camps

678
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Speaker 1: for millennials. I'm passionate about them. I love them. When

679
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Speaker 1: I'm standing over the corner looking at me, who is

680
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Speaker 1: my son? So when I see millennials, I see my sons.

681
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Speaker 1: I want them to win, but I also want them

682
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Speaker 1: to understand the amount of people who are gonna put

683
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Speaker 1: something on YouTube and make them rich is minuscule. And

684
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Speaker 1: so you can't wait thirty years to luck about something

685
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Speaker 1: because you saw a few people get in that door,

686
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: you missed a huge opportunity. Number two, if you saw

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Speaker 1: somebody older than you that you admired and saw them

688
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: doing something that you want to do, you didn't see

689
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Speaker 1: the struggle they went through before they got to the success.

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Speaker 1: We tend to advertise our advertise our success, but not

691
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Speaker 1: our struggle. So millennials have bought Some of them have

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Speaker 1: bought into the notion. That's easy. I can do that many,

693
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Speaker 1: many times. The worst thing anybody, any age can do

694
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Speaker 1: is to underestimate your opponent. And when you get into business,

695
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Speaker 1: and when you get into life, and when you get

696
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Speaker 1: into marriage, or when you get into church, or when

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Speaker 1: you get into a club, or when you get into anything,

698
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: you have an opponent to fight. Never underestimate your opponent. Hi,

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Speaker 1: we got more with Bishop td Jakes. When we come

700
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Speaker 1: back on, everybody is dj envi Angela yee Schalomine to God.

701
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Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. Bishop td Jakes is here, Chaloman.

702
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Speaker 1: What about the people who come to you and say, Bishop,

703
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Speaker 1: I've been praying, and I've been praying for a blessing,

704
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Speaker 1: and I've been praying for something to break through. I'm

705
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 1: praying with his job, but nothing, nothing's falling through. What

706
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: do you say to those things? That's one of them.

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00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: That's really my audience, that's really my And that's primarily

708
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Speaker 1: why I wrote the book, because faith without works is dead,

709
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Speaker 1: and I spent a lot of times talking about faith.

710
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: I wrote this book because now I want to talk

711
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Speaker 1: about work. Because if you have all of that faith.

712
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: You're asking God to do stuff that you gotta do,

713
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: you know, and if you don't do what you have

714
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: to do, he can't do what he's going to do.

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Speaker 1: And somebody's gonna say, how can you say God can?

716
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Speaker 1: The Bible said that whatsoever he doth, whatsoever you do,

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Speaker 1: God will prosper. If you don't do anything, he doesn't

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Speaker 1: have anything to prosper. And so I'm not one of

719
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: these guys. You know, it's magic. It's quick as easy,

720
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Speaker 1: giving offer and spend around, shout three times and you

721
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: got it. It's not like that. If that would have worked,

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00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: I would have done it. There's a lot of work

723
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Speaker 1: that goes into doing anything that becomes successful. And anybody

724
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: who stands outside of it and says that it's a

725
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 1: scam or it's a game, they only do that because

726
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: they don't understand the work ethic that it takes to

727
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: build buildings, hire people, do what you do. There's a

728
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: lot of work in being successful in any industry. It

729
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is. Now. Also, you know, you

730
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: talk about praying, and you know, when we had these

731
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Speaker 1: cantastrophes and you say, pray for Houston or pray for Vegas.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times under the comments you'll say, see

733
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: people to say, you know, why would I pray to

734
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Speaker 1: the same person that is destroying us or hurting us,

735
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: or causing these hurricanes or causing these shootings. What do

736
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Speaker 1: you say to some of those people that don't believe. Well,

737
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, first of all, thankfully we live in a

738
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Speaker 1: country that you can believe whatever you want to believe

739
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: without affecting the way I believe. I am resoluted in

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Speaker 1: the fact that God is not nature. Yes, he could

741
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: control nature, he could let us live forever. But God

742
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: is not nature. He stands outside of nature. And when

743
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Speaker 1: I say pray for Houston, or pray for Florida, or

744
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: pray for so and so, I have the same mindset

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00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: that I do about this book. We're gonna pray. On

746
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: one hand, we're gonna load up them trucks and get

747
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: some help down there. On the other we need to

748
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Speaker 1: do both. Amen. So when you start talking about prayer,

749
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Speaker 1: I leave in prayer, but I also believe in work.

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Speaker 1: As to trying to explain God, that's not my job. Well,

751
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: people who get Satan got a kingdom too, like these

752
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: people are still has a kingdom. There's that role to

753
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: play in it. But here's the reality. If my grandmama's

754
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 1: up on the roof, I don't have time to discern

755
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 1: whether this is a God or the devil. I want

756
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: to get her off of the rule. You understand what

757
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying, just straightforward and simple. Yet I believe in prayer.

758
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: I believe in the power of prayer. But if I'm

759
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: hanging on the roof, I appreciate your prayer, But would

760
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: you hand me a rope? You know I'm just being real,

761
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: You know, pray? Why you told me the rope? Okay,

762
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 1: I'm a very practical guy. I want you to pray,

763
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: but I want you to throw a brother a rope

764
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Speaker 1: and a good heavy road because I'm a pretty big guy. Okay.

765
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: So that my mom told and my frame set in

766
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: ministry is we pray with one hand, we work with

767
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: the other. We have an organization called Megacare that has

768
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: been renowned around the world for its ability to be

769
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: first responders in times of crisis. So just because you

770
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: see a logo that says pray doesn't mean that there's

771
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,320
Speaker 1: not activity going on. Sometimes that activity is going on

772
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: without anything being said, and other times we're very public

773
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: about it. But again, faith without works is dead. And

774
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: so you got some lines I love you say you

775
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: have to look ahead to your ultimate destination with one

776
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 1: eye and keep the other focused on your next step.

777
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: And remember that graduation is rooted in the word gradual,

778
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: and you explain that a little. You know. The thing

779
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: that gets me about that is that so many people

780
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: have respect for the future and no respect for the present.

781
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: They've got the eye on the prize, but they don't

782
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,439
Speaker 1: have their eyes on the next step. If you don't

783
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: honor the next step, you won't make it to the prize.

784
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 1: And this is important for people to understand. They are

785
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: so excited about where they're going that they don't have

786
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: respect for where they are. If you don't have respect

787
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: for where you are, you don't get to where you're going.

788
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 1: And that's something we don't tell people about. We tell me,

789
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: you don't believe in your dream and vision where you're

790
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: going to get around people who are don't want you to.

791
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: All that's good, but only with one eye, because if

792
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: you don't respect where you are, you won't live to

793
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: play on the field of where you want to go. Now,

794
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,399
Speaker 1: as people who are gonna read sore and they're gonna

795
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I want to be an entrepreneur. How

796
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna quit my job? How do you

797
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: know when to leave a certain job that doesn't fulfill you?

798
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: In learning to head in the direction that God maybe

799
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: want you in common sense goes a long ways, and

800
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: the process or understanding the material that you're exposed to.

801
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: There are people who leap off a job and land

802
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: on a career and it explodes, But more times than not,

803
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: it's a gradual process. You know, if you're if you're

804
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: out there in the ocean, you're holding onto a raft

805
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: and I reach out my hand to get you, You're

806
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: not gonna grab my hand all at once. You're gonna

807
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: grab my hand gradually as you let go of the raft,

808
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: because you can't afford to let go of both things

809
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: at the same time. And that's same thing true with

810
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: most people in a job. There are some rare cases

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Speaker 1: that you have enough funding behind you and you've built

812
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: enough team behind you that you can walk straight away

813
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: into your dream. But never step off of something that's

814
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: substantive for nothing but hope. That's what I tell these

815
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: kids who in the pursuit of your dreams, there reality man. Absolutely,

816
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: it's critical. And the reason that I think it's important,

817
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: we as a people can't lose another fight. We cannot

818
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: lose another fight. We cannot afford to be fighting with

819
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: each other, castigating, destroying each other. We have so many

820
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: enemies coming against us like I have not seen since

821
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: I was a child. This community has to learn how

822
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: to rally. We have to learn how to rally. We

823
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: have to get away from destroying each other and being

824
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: cannibals eating each other because we already got people hunting us.

825
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: And if we don't use all of our information to

826
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: come together, everything you know and everything I know, and

827
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: everything Sean Combs knows, and everything Hellocool Jay knows, and

828
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: everything President Obama notes, we need everybody because if we don't,

829
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: we're not going to survive. That's a great point you

830
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: bringing about. Often wonder what role does the church play

831
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Speaker 1: in this current climate that we're in right now. The

832
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: church plays and can play a tremendous role. But when

833
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: you say the church, it's like saying hip hop. It's

834
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: not all monolithic, it's not all the same. There is

835
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: no headquarters that controls the church. Okay, so where do

836
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: we sit in a letter to the church. The church

837
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: is made of the people. So we are the church, okay,

838
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: And the church is us and you have to understand that.

839
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: And the church has a unique role. Many of them

840
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: are playing it in different ways. In the civil rights movement,

841
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: the church was oppressed. It was where we disseminated information.

842
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: It was where we let people know where the march

843
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: was going to be. It was where you galvanize support,

844
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: you put your little nickels in, We fought together. It

845
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: was the first schools we had when we weren't allowed

846
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: in public school and we weren't taught how to read.

847
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: So the church has to be ampidextrious enough to morph

848
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: into what the times need. We don't necessarily need to

849
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 1: be a school right now. We don't necessarily need to

850
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: be the press right now. We don't necessarily need to

851
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: do what we did in the sixties. We got congressmen

852
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: and senators and legislation and things we didn't have back then.

853
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: But we still have a significant role to be And

854
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: that role depends on whether the church is in South

855
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: Chicago or Beverly Hills. They're not the same thing. It

856
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: depends on who the congregation is. The church should meet

857
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: the needs first of its parishioners. You have a responsibility

858
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: to make sure the people who gave the money got

859
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: something back. You cannot reach to the community and not

860
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: take care of the people who gave the resources, because

861
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 1: you're accountable to those people. Once you have taken care

862
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: of their needs, their facilities, their funerals, their weddings, their emergencies,

863
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: their crisis is being their facility buildings big enough to

864
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: handle them, then you reach to the community. I think

865
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: that one of the greatest things that the church can

866
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: be right now is a voice for those who cannot

867
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: be heard to use our platform to speak out when

868
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: there's time to speak to an issue. Whether it's speaking

869
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: out is in a march, or it's a an our

870
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: paid letter like I recently wrote, or whether it's going

871
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: to Washington or speaking in Washington. I think that's a

872
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: tremendous role to play. All right, keep a lock We

873
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: have more with Bishop td Jakes. I know usually most

874
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: people have to leave by now, but we're getting a

875
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: good words this morning to keep a lock. More with

876
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: Bishop td Jakes is the breakfast Club. Good morning, the

877
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: breakfast club. We are the breakfast club. We have Bishop

878
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: td Jakes in the building. Now. Recently, you know, Jerry

879
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: Jones said that if any none of his players will

880
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: kneel for the national anthem, that's not something he has

881
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: to work with it. I'm sure a bunch of cowboys

882
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: probably go to your church. What do you think about that.

883
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: I would have to sit down with Jerry and talk

884
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 1: to him about the parts of this that you don't see,

885
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: to understand why he made that move, which it was

886
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: a ricocheted move from where he started from he was

887
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: with the players, then he kind of switched in his perspective.

888
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: If I were gonna end investigate it, apart from talking

889
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 1: to him, I would follow the money because it's always

890
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: got something to do with the choices. From a moral perspective,

891
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: I would prefer that he support the players in their decision.

892
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: And I think it is far more constitutional to allow

893
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: me to express myself. You didn't hire me to salute

894
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: or not salute the flag. You hired me to play

895
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: the game, And as long as I play the game,

896
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: I think I'm living up to the contract. For us.

897
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: To allow sports to become embargoed by politics, I think

898
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: it's detrimental to both issues because what we are really

899
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: dealing with is far more important than touchdowns and passes

900
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 1: and games and tickets, because he's doing tweeting about the

901
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: NFL and damselves to ANSP. I am worried about North Korea.

902
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: I am worried about job opportunities. I am worried about

903
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 1: equal access to healthcare. That's a simple question. If Donald

904
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: Trump to antichrists, you would have more insight than us.

905
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. I don't

906
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: think so. Over the years, not just with the Trump administration,

907
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 1: back to the Obama administration, all the way back to

908
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: the Clinton administration, there's been a deterioration of the office

909
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: and the respect for the office. And I think that

910
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: when we lose respect for the office, we think anybody

911
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: can do it, and then when we think anybody can

912
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 1: do it, we elected anybody to have it. It used

913
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: to be that it meant something to be the president

914
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: of the United States. It meant something, right, But the

915
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: dumbing down of America has been gradual, but continual, and

916
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: we are paying a price for that. It's safe to

917
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: say not a Trump supporter, No, I'm not. But the

918
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 1: greater issue is this, he is now ourn't president. It's

919
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 1: being a Trump supporter means that I vote for him.

920
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: I did not, But he is our president, and no

921
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 1: matter what you think about him, he's got his hands

922
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: on the switch. He's got his hands on your grandmama's healthcare,

923
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: he's got his hands on your kids' education. And we

924
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: got to work with who's there, and we gotta find

925
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: a way to make this work, because four years is

926
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 1: a long time to just be mad. I guess my

927
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: final questions. You know, you look around at the climate

928
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: of the world, and you see the natural disasters and

929
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: everything that's going on. Do you think we're in our

930
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: last days? Because everybody likes to say, look at the

931
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: Book of Revelations, we're living through it right now. I'm

932
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: not sure. It certainly has some similarities. I laughed, but

933
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: because not over what you said. I laughed over what

934
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: I thought. When you said, do you think we're in

935
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 1: our last days? I thought, I think I'm in mind.

936
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: So you gotta figure you out for yourself. I landed

937
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: him on here. But whether we're in our last days

938
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 1: collectively or individually, we headed to World War three, that's scary,

939
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 1: and that's possible. I don't think you understand. Nine eleven

940
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: was horrible. I mean it touched every human being that

941
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: had any sense. But nine eleven is a walk in

942
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: the park compared to what a nuclear bomb would be

943
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 1: on in this country. And I'm telling you right now,

944
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: you have never this country has never seen the devastation

945
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: a one bomb that got through nuclear attack on this

946
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: country is going to change everything. Damage is what we're

947
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 1: talking about in a flippant way. It's so serious. The

948
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: meshing of these different machines between politics and television and

949
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:07,919
Speaker 1: social media have created a mushrooming of some distorted, mutated thing.

950
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: Donald Trump is the executive producer of America right now.

951
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: If we don't if we don't redignify the office and

952
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: understand what's at stake that this is not about ratings

953
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: for Fox or seeing the end. But if these bombs

954
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: start dropping, nobody's gonna be able to bury them as

955
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: fast as they're gonna fall, and we don't know whose

956
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 1: bodies they're gonna be. So this is a serious office.

957
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: This is a time that we really need to be

958
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: having relationships with each other. This is a time that

959
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: we need to have relationships with our elected officials, no

960
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: matter who they are, because one wrong move in the

961
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: under bed rustling that I'm seeing globally, the world that

962
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: we know it could not be, the country that we

963
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 1: know could not be. That's pretty serious for me. I

964
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 1: have grandkids. I kind of like to grow up and

965
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: and live and laugh and and see things that are

966
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: important grandkids. I kind of like that's true to Sometimes

967
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: it depends on what I stepped on in the middle

968
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: of the night when I'm trying to get to the bathroom.

969
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 1: That's true. But the reality do you hear? Do you hear?

970
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is And I don't want to leave

971
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: on a sour note, but but I am telling you

972
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: the things we fight about, and you're talking about this

973
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,479
Speaker 1: and that and other than the Democratic Republicans and Trump

974
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: and Trump's in Trump's had no bombs, enough bombs out,

975
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: what you think the church had to do, what we

976
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: think black last night to do? All of those are

977
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 1: luxury items to debate because we have not been bombed.

978
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: If we are bombed, you don't care whose political party,

979
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 1: who's who's the pastor, and whatever you think about that

980
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: those are the first world problems. We get bombed, we're

981
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: gonna have third world problems. That's what I'm trying to

982
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: speak to you. And we're not that far from it.

983
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: So whether it is uh askeatology, the theological understanding of

984
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: the end of the world, or the end of the

985
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: world as we knew it because of evil men, uh,

986
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: I don't know. But I do know that what is

987
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: being discussed is something that all of us need to

988
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: be paying attention to at all ages and stages, because

989
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: if you value life at all, is none but your

990
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: own we should be paying close attention. Please gotta leave

991
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:34,240
Speaker 1: it a prayer. Lord, I thank you for the privilege

992
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:38,360
Speaker 1: of being in this place, in this moment, with this people,

993
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: at this time. This is a gift from you. For

994
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: whatever reason, you allowed my voice to be heard through

995
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,919
Speaker 1: this vehicle. And I pray for every person listening, every

996
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: person in this room. I pray for our country. I

997
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: pray for our president. I pray for our nation. I

998
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 1: pray for the nations of the world. I don't just

999
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: want America to do well. I want the world to

1000
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: do well, because when the world does well, and when

1001
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 1: there is no injustice, and when there is no poverty

1002
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 1: and no wickedness and debauchery, then people can walk the

1003
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 1: streets of Vegas and be safe, and then people can

1004
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: move about their lives and be free. I pray for

1005
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 1: those that mourn. I pray for all of those kids

1006
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: whose daddy's didn't come home. Daddy and mamma went away

1007
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: to Vegas and what didn't come back. I pray for

1008
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: families who are clutching the scarfs of their daughters who

1009
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: will never come back again. I pray for all of

1010
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: the chaos in Puerto Rico, and all of the families

1011
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: who are still displaced in Houston, and all throughout the

1012
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: lower parts of Texas and all throughout Florida, and all

1013
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: of the tragedies all over the world. We need your grace,

1014
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:52,360
Speaker 1: your love, your peace, your power, and above all, because

1015
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: we are flawed and human and vulnerable and sometimes wicked,

1016
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: we need your mercy in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Alright,

1017
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: T J you have a Bishop T. D. Jakes. It's

1018
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Charla Mayne say the game.

1019
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: Don't get shape man. You are donkey today. Just not discriminate.

1020
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: I might not have the song of today, but I

1021
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: got to Donkey that if you ever feel I need

1022
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: to be a donkey man, hit it with the Breakfast

1023
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: Club bitches. He just don't give today Today donkey today

1024
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: goes to John Robert Hill. I guess what John Robert

1025
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: Hill is from, Ladies and gentlemen, Where did your uncle

1026
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 1: Charlot tell you that all the craziest people in America

1027
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: exists South Carolina. Man, shut up the bronx and all

1028
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: of Florida. Okay, and John Robert Hill is from South Florida.

1029
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,359
Speaker 1: Now you may know John Robert Hill by his ig

1030
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: name bunk Ig. All right. He's twenty years old, and

1031
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: you may have seen him doing social media stunts like

1032
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: well can get the fast food restaurants and helping himself.

1033
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: I've seen him walking to a gas station and take

1034
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 1: all the solda. I've seen him walking the little seasons

1035
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: and just take a picture. I've seen him walking the

1036
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: subway and take all the cookies. I've seen him get

1037
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: tattoos and places and didn't run out on the tattoo artists.

1038
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: I've seen him try on the watches and run out

1039
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: on the jeweler. I've seen him crash your funeral, okay,

1040
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 1: our church service or something. I don't know what it was.

1041
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: I've seen him smoke a blunt in the library, and

1042
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: I honestly thought a lot of this was fake okay,

1043
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 1: stage just another clown who didn't get enough attention from

1044
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 1: his parents, so he tries to supplement it with attention

1045
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: from social media. Well, it turns out it wasn't fake,

1046
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: because John Robert Hill was arrested and charged with burglary

1047
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: and petty theft after he jumped the counter at a

1048
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: Dunkin Donuts into an employee area and grab thirty eight

1049
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 1: dollars worth of doughnuts. Now he's done this a couple

1050
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: of times. Let's hear it. Remember that I watch you

1051
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: with doughnuts. I like first, I take as they didn't

1052
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: even know I was coming. I take an. He actually

1053
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: got arrested for that. He went back to dunkin Donuts

1054
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 1: and did it again. Let's listen. They damned me from

1055
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: dunkin Donuts, but I wouldn't give up. You know what

1056
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying that I'm a lot of money. I don't

1057
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: worry about. Oh all right, why it got a little

1058
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:21,800
Speaker 1: Frinch Montana Jungle rules longing for the donuts. Can't damn it,

1059
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Did he say download French Montana Jungle Rules?

1060
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: So this guy was already banned from Dunkin Donuts, all right.

1061
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: He was arrested for stealing from Dunkin Donuts, but he

1062
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: decided to go back and still steal the donuts again.

1063
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: So he is making a conscious decision to go to

1064
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: jail for lights and RTIs young people listen, man, I

1065
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: like young guys like this. Confused the hell out of

1066
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,959
Speaker 1: me because when I was twenty, it was all about

1067
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: the money. I ran cash rules everything around me. When

1068
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: I was growing up, it was about less attention, more cash,

1069
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: and the whole point of doing the crime was to

1070
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: not get caught. Nowadays, these dudes get on social media

1071
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: and shining a big ass bat signal in the sky

1072
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: to alert the authorities to the bus they're doing. Now

1073
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 1: he got charged with stealing from dunkin Donuts. Was herem

1074
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: in court, Good morning, mister Hill requested for burglary to

1075
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: an occupied structure and petty theft. I will appoint the

1076
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: public defendive service for you. How long have you lived

1077
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: here for? Says august I Bucus. Are you in school? No,

1078
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 1: I'm not in school. What do you do all day?

1079
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 1: I just kind of stopped to take a break on

1080
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,720
Speaker 1: my lad job. I was working out my downtown Miami

1081
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 1: and at the airport. This is, so he jumped the

1082
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: counter the Dunkin Donuts to the employee only area. I

1083
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: guess that's the burglary, and he stole the entire portrayal

1084
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: donuts and then gave them back the employee asked for them,

1085
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: and then apparently he gave them back, and the entire

1086
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: time the coldefendants filming it. So it sounds like this

1087
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: is one of those like do it for the vine exactly,

1088
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: inter that type of like funny, It's not that funny,

1089
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: not that smart. But ultimately he did give him back

1090
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 1: to his stare and the Dunkin Donuts at one eight

1091
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 1: eight o one Northwest Second Avenue in Miami Gardens, Tampa.

1092
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 1: Alternip on Count one is a thousand in count two

1093
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 1: will be fine fund All right, let's break this down.

1094
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: John Robert Hill, boom Gang, whatever you call him, was

1095
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: referred to a court program with an alternate bond of

1096
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars in the Dunkin Donuts case. He played

1097
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: not guilty and was sentenced to sixty days of probation.

1098
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now that's not enough. I

1099
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: would like to see authorities go to every video he's

1100
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: ever posted on his Instagram when he has committed a

1101
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: crime from smoking weed in the library, that's stealing from

1102
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 1: little seasons and running out on tattoos. I would like

1103
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,720
Speaker 1: for the police to go back watch all those videos

1104
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: and charge him for every same gold crime. All right,

1105
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: This little slap on the wrist this boy got not

1106
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: gonna help him change his life. He lives for the attention,

1107
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 1: so he's probably just eating it up. And more importantly,

1108
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: other kids won't learn from his mistakes because they're like, oh,

1109
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: that's all he got. There's some of these digital d

1110
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: heads to retweets and lights from social media far outweigh

1111
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: the consequences of these crimes, especially when it's just sixty

1112
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: days probation and a court order program. He has to

1113
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: a ten. Okay. Sometimes someone must die in order for

1114
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: others to live, all right, Sometimes literally, they have to die,

1115
00:56:56,120 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 1: sometimes figuratively, and John Robert Hill needs to die figuratively. Okay.

1116
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: He needs to get the book thrown at him. Law

1117
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: enforcement needs to make an example out of him so

1118
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 1: these kids can learn that this is not the way

1119
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: I write. The judge asked a very important question to

1120
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: this young man. Can you play that little question? She asked,

1121
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: are you in school. Answer is nothing, all right, and

1122
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: that's the problem. These kids have nothing to do. I

1123
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: don't mind. Is the devil's playground. Instead of boot Gang,

1124
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: it should be book gang. Read a book. I don't

1125
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: just go to the library and smoke. We go to

1126
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: the library and actually read something in there. Go learn

1127
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: a trade or something. Make yourself smarter, Stop looking for

1128
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: love from social media and start loving yourself. Please give

1129
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: John Robert hill A ka boot Gang the biggest he hall.

1130
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm telling you what's gonna happen if they don't throw

1131
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: the book at him and you know, make him change

1132
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: his ways. That way, somebody's gonna shoot that litle boy.

1133
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: All right. I'm waiting on him to get shot, and

1134
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: I hope they do it live on I The Breakfast Club,

1135
00:57:53,040 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,

1136
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: Scharlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time

1137
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: to ask ye eight hundred five A five one oh

1138
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: five one. If you got a question for you, you

1139
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: could call her at any time. Hello, who's that Hello?

1140
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: Calling on my name? Mark? Mark? What's your question for you? Okay, listen,

1141
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 1: all right, it's just the relationships question. To setting the third.

1142
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: I just want to know, all right, I have When

1143
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 1: I was twenty years old, I was dating our girl

1144
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: who I met at the club, who I thought it

1145
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: was eighteen to set the third. She was sixteen. We

1146
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: had a child together. He'm mobled. She had fig ideas.

1147
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't you know what I mean. It wasn't like

1148
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 1: I was dropping off at the school to set the third.

1149
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: But I got a charge with sexual assault. I got

1150
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: locked up. Wait, so how did you end up getting

1151
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: charged at all? Like? Who? Well? Because when when her

1152
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: brother came home, I decided not to be with her anymore,

1153
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: so I left her and she wasn't having us, so

1154
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: she called the police and she lied. She's made a

1155
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 1: whole rape story up. They dropped the rage for the

1156
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: actual rape charge because she was from the age that

1157
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: I had a child. Was it that's how I got charged? Yeah?

1158
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: For real? But you know what, I ain't want to

1159
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: say her first chalk. She did the twenty three or

1160
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: four other guys, one guy doing ten years for her

1161
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: crazy y better lawyers or something, But go ahead, but

1162
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,919
Speaker 1: now you know I'm you know, with my present girl.

1163
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,919
Speaker 1: Now you know we're telling we just sat in the third,

1164
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: I want to tell her, but I don't know. You

1165
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: better tell that, just like you told us. That sounds crazy.

1166
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie, bro No, I mean, listen, you

1167
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: have to tell her something like that. First of all,

1168
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: the girl was sixteen, you were twenty. Y'all have a

1169
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 1: child together. She knows you have a child, right yeah.

1170
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: Now does she know you don't get along with the mother.

1171
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but she doesn't know why. Well, you know what,

1172
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: You better go on ahead and tell her. I don't

1173
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: think that's any reason if somebody told me that and

1174
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 1: explained to me what happened. I didn't know her age,

1175
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,959
Speaker 1: dada dada, day, she had me arrested, and I would

1176
00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: I don't think it would make me not want to

1177
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: be with them. But what make you not want to

1178
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: be with you is that you knew and didn't tell me.

1179
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: Oh boy, she said she no, no, no, no, no,

1180
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 1: hell no. The girls are don't win. She and she

1181
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: she's like very like opinionated. That's great. Were having a

1182
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: conversation one time. She was very opinied about people with

1183
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 1: sex charges. Okay, but listen, this is a little bit different.

1184
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: It's not like you really sexually assaulted someone. She had

1185
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: a relationship with you that was consensual. She lied to

1186
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: you about her age. She got upset that you left her,

1187
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 1: and she had you sent to jail. Whose fust is that? Oh?

1188
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: Of course it's her, But I was just nervous. I mean,

1189
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: I'll do it, I'll do it. I'll you would have

1190
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: to tell her. I would be more mad that you

1191
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: didn't tell me this if I was her than what

1192
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: actually happened. So gotta tell Yeah, good luck, bro. Let

1193
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: us know how that conversation goes. Ask eight hundred five

1194
01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you got a question,

1195
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: you could call it right now. It's the Breakfast Club.

1196
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne

1197
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Asked c any

1198
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: you got a question? You need some advice? Eight hundred

1199
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 1: five eighty five one, call your uncle Sharlo and your

1200
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: cousin Envy and Hello, what's happening? Hey? What's your name? Mama? Nicole?

1201
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: What's your problem? So I'm living with my parents, that

1202
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:24,479
Speaker 1: I'm living with my man? How old are you? Twenty six? Parents?

1203
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: And you man? Yeah, but the situation is that I

1204
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: pay the bills. In the house, right, That's what everybody

1205
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: who's look at their parents says. I'm curious, go ahead, yeah,

1206
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: all right. So um, I've been with my man for

1207
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: like seven years, and now he moved out out of nowhere.

1208
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: That's not out of nowhere. You don't want to live

1209
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: with your parents no more. I congratulate him for being

1210
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: a grown ass man who don't want to live with

1211
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: somebody's parents. Girl, you need to get your own apartment

1212
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: and pay your own bills. Why did he say he lay?

1213
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: He left because he say he's tired of this. He

1214
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: live with your parents. Yeah, he can't knock you off

1215
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: like he wants to, because you can't scream. He doesn't

1216
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: want to live with your parents, Mama, I want to

1217
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: feel like a man. I can't feel like a man

1218
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: living with your parents and you're paying all the bills.

1219
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: But what is my family gonna do? You mean, what

1220
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 1: is your family gonna do? Won't you both move out

1221
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 1: and get your own place? But I'm the one that

1222
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: supports my family. Lord, have mercy. You Mexican? What are

1223
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: you Spanish? You're Spanish? Right? Why is always a Mexican thing?

1224
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: Would you Latino? Right? Yes? All right? Listen, man, it

1225
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: comes to point in time with Latino families got to

1226
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 1: stop depending on one paycheck. All right. That's just all

1227
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: the balls down to trying to get into an apartment

1228
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 1: with him. And I mean, he just doesn't want to

1229
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: be an under your parents. You can't be mad at

1230
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: that man. If you want to be a man, I

1231
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: don't want to live with your parents while you paying

1232
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: all the bills. Hello, who's this? Hey? Sh what's your question? Mama?

1233
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: So my question is all right, I'm not a football

1234
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: a friend though, so if your friend, if you're man right,

1235
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:53,360
Speaker 1: he wanted to crush his nipples like you don't mind that?

1236
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: But you don't really like that? Going on extra It

1237
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: is because I feel like I'm treating my mother. You

1238
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: know that man want his nipples, carress, caress his nipples

1239
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: with a little caressing the nipples, and you should lick

1240
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: it too, will you listen? When you want your butt eating?

1241
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: Does he complain? Does he eat the butt? All right?

1242
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: You right? All right? What's wrong with you? Grey? And

1243
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: you might want your eating his butt? You might like that.

1244
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: You how old are you? Oh? Come on now, y'all

1245
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,439
Speaker 1: way past the stage and learning now, y'all should be grown.

1246
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 1: Carress that man nipples everything. Now, come on, you are

1247
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: you're right, but you should lick his nipples, caress his

1248
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: nipples and lick his butt. I wish it would. I

1249
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: wish a woman would complain about me wanting my nipples

1250
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:35,919
Speaker 1: carrest when I'm eating her butt. I want you Hello,

1251
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: who's this lick out of Florida? You may turn your

1252
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: radio down? Man, what's your question for Charlotte? And so

1253
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 1: my girl has a man best friend. But I don't

1254
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: know how I sells? Is he? Yay? No? Alright, then

1255
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 1: now you should shut that down. She shut that down immediately.

1256
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: Unless all y'all friends are all of your friends. I

1257
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: mean we all went to school together. I ain't ask

1258
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: you that. I said, all of y'all friends, y'all head

1259
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: hang out, do y'all kick it? Huh? Hello? He hung out?

1260
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: Oh he wanted to go get his gun. Yeah, I

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01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: ain't wanted to go that phone. He's definitely hating on

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01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: him on the low, so you should definitely give it

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01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: to that situation. Unless he's gay. No, you can't have

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01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: any male friends. There's no such thing. Listen, the only

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01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 1: when you got friends of the opposite sex. All of

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01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: y'all got to be friends. All my close female friends

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01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: my wife is close with do they call all cool together? Right?

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01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 1: All right, that's that's the way it works. Hello, who's this?

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01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: Good morning? This is Marie has Charlomagne had good morning.

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Speaker 1: What's your question, mamma? So basically, I know everyone does music,

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01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 1: everybody in a great art. Job. I do have a job. Job?

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01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: Are you a rapper? Um? I do everything? God? Okay,

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01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: get a job? No, let her explain? Go ahead, mama.

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01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: How old are you on Starlomene? I love you for that,

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01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: for being yourself like. But you know, my question is

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01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: just like, how do I market myself? Like? I understand

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01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: everybody out there does it. I'm twenty one, she got

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01:04:58,160 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: a little time. I think you should get a job

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01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: and you should pass out mixtapes at your job. I

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01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: do I have a job. I'm a college student, so

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01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: definitely being on campus help. But it's just what's your major? Um,

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01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: it's human services. I graduate in May and I'm transferring

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01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 1: to do my backtors and social work. So I'm doing

1284
01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 1: things to make sure if certain things don't work out,

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01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I can fall back on

1286
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 1: human services. But like what do you rap the smoth?

1287
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: Let me hear something right fast. Here's something right now? Okay, Um,

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01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 1: so they want me to keep it PG. They want

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01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 1: me to keep it PC policitally correct. They probably want

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01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: to try to control about this Plan A. Right about

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01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 1: this plan are you're in school? Plan all? Right? You're

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01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: in school, you got a job? No, keep playing A.

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01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: Don't worry about playing BC. This is the thing that

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01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: Plan A was her rap career. No. Plan A is

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01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: not your rap career, is it. No? It isn't. Okay, good,

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01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 1: So about this Plan A. Listen, stick to your Plan A. Yes,

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01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 1: your Plan B is not going to really work out.

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01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: It's good that you're in school. It's good that you

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01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 1: have a job. Now you can do all of that

1300
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 1: rap stuff as a hobby. Maybe you know what I'm saying,

1301
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: because in the pursuit of your dreams, you have to

1302
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 1: deal with your reality. You're dealing with your reality about

1303
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: going to school, and you know you'll eventually have a job.

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01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 1: But you know, if I was you, I wouldn't focus

1305
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: on that plan being. Let's it's appeal that you pop

1306
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 1: because somebody then you at school one D there you go, go, okay,

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01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 1: thank you I think it's pretty honest with him. The

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01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: breakfast club. All right, we are doing asking and we

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01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,959
Speaker 1: have Odario on the line. What's up, Odario? Good morning,

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01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: how you're doing? Good morning? How are you? I had

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01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: a question for you. Okay. So I've been doting this

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01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 1: NFL player since high school before I even got to

1313
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 1: the NFL. And then we went to college together and everything.

1314
01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: But then I had to leave to go to Harvard

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01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: because I got accepted ato Harvard. So I graduated from

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01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: Harvard high school, law school, and then I called, I

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01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: came back, so we was together all this time. BECAUU,

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01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: we'll go back and forth or whatever. Right, it's been long,

1319
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: so for like twelve thirteen years, you've been dating this

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01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 1: NFL player for twelve or thirteen years? Okay? Yeah. So

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01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 1: I got our job offer in Washington last year to

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01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: work at the prosecutor was out there, and he made

1323
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: me turn the offer down because he was like, okay,

1324
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: So we got engaged. So basically we got engage, I'll

1325
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: say that. So he took a week ago, I'm sorry,

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01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 1: he took a knee. Never mind, bad jokes, go ahead,

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01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks ago, I wouldn't everybody stops

1328
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: to get his um clothes, takes to quinns. I always

1329
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 1: do and this, but this girl was in the house.

1330
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: I paid it because we always say that, you know,

1331
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: we're best friends. We never put up. He wasn't he

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01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: wasn't openly gay, he wasn't out. No, still not out

1333
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 1: to that. I would never, you know, put him my

1334
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: own blast like that. Right, he takes two knees, but

1335
01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: he doesn't want anyone to know exactly. So I said,

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01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: that's cool. So I go here and then she tells

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01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: me that, you know, they just got engaged, and this

1338
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: pregned it and she pregged it. Well, he's playing both sides,

1339
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: so he's engaged to you and he's engaged to her. Yeah,

1340
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: so I said, I said, you know, I'm nosy. So

1341
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, how long, um, you know you've been engaged.

1342
01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: She said it's been like five months. I say five

1343
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 1: so so um. So I called him up because he

1344
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: had he had the road for this game our return,

1345
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: so I said, I called him. I was like, come

1346
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 1: over to my house when you get Homestley came over

1347
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 1: like two o'clock in the morning. So I said, it's

1348
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 1: something that you um need to tell me or whatever

1349
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 1: men have you And he was like no, so of

1350
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 1: course I lost my tip room lights. Well I met.

1351
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:22,639
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say her name. I'll just call it Kelly.

1352
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 1: I look Kelly over your house a couple of weeks ago,

1353
01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 1: and she told me that you got engaged and she pregnant.

1354
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:32,720
Speaker 1: So then the dock. You want to tell the truth now,

1355
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 1: he said, He say he loves me, but so she's pregnant,

1356
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 1: he has to marry. So this whole time he's been

1357
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 1: cheating on you and having sex with this woman exactly.

1358
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 1: So I got another job offer out of state in

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01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 1: New York, actually at a propercunity office, and I said

1360
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: the job so talking about so this is where I

1361
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: just sound a tricky right. So a few days a well, yeah,

1362
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 1: a few days ago he came over with this like

1363
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 1: bad attitude and I will say, yeah, g grayed by

1364
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 1: myself and pick me up, get up? Not really does

1365
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,720
Speaker 1: he play for the giants and Jets? I can't say.

1366
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: I won't say, but what I will say is that

1367
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,680
Speaker 1: you know he bought this house granted, which IRON really

1368
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: needed to because I work, can I make money? So um,

1369
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 1: I call like the movers or whatever may have you.

1370
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 1: And I got all my stuff up out of there,

1371
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: as you should, because he put his hands on you, exactly.

1372
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 1: So he filed and tracked me down at my mother's house,

1373
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 1: right and then he's sitting here begging and pleading and

1374
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: telling me not to leave and not to go because

1375
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 1: we're gonna get married. And I don't believe nothing he said.

1376
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: He's getting married to somebody else? Has he gonna marry you? Exactly?

1377
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: So what should I do? Should I just believe here?

1378
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: Because I'm Dario as smart as you are. You went

1379
01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: to Harvard. This man lied to you all this time,

1380
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: lie to this woman. He's having a baby with someone,

1381
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: and he put his hands on you from Harvard get

1382
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: turned out by the D two and you don't know

1383
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,800
Speaker 1: what to do. It's just, oh, Daryo, come on, I

1384
01:09:57,120 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 1: know this man. Don't know what position you want to

1385
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:00,760
Speaker 1: play on this? I oh, you know what to do?

1386
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: You cannot rate that you are way too First of all,

1387
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: he's not even openly gay. Yeah, he's not even letting

1388
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 1: people know about your relationship. It's been thirteen years. Will

1389
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: you tell me who he is? Off the air? No?

1390
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 1: I can't tell you because I wouldn't never put him

1391
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: off life there because it's not right. It's not my place. Well,

1392
01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: it looks like he has no intention of and you're

1393
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: openly gay, right, No, I'm not. Neither one of you are. No. Well,

1394
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 1: how do you guys intend to get married at all?

1395
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 1: That's what I said, And he told me, he was like, well,

1396
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 1: you know what we're doing now, we've been together since

1397
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 1: high school. We should go ahead. And do you know

1398
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: dar yah, I don't want you to marry somebody that

1399
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,559
Speaker 1: choked you, threw you up against the wall by your throat,

1400
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 1: and lie to you when it's having a baby with

1401
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: somebody else. That's what I said, because I mean it

1402
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: was the first time it happened. But I but you

1403
01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: need to figure out what you need to do because

1404
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:48,719
Speaker 1: it seems like maybe you haven't come at the closet

1405
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: because he hasn't. Ye, don't live your life according to

1406
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: what this man is doing. Live your life for you.

1407
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: Then when see you in New York, are you moving

1408
01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:01,080
Speaker 1: in New yor have to be close to him because

1409
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 1: that's what he plays. Now he's leaving, leaving to New York,

1410
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 1: leaving you will say this, he plays for the Lions.

1411
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: I will say that, but that's all shout out to

1412
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:14,439
Speaker 1: the d the Lions and lying about the whole day too.

1413
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: All right, well, darry'all hear us up. When you come

1414
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,400
Speaker 1: out here, we're gonna party. We're gonna party, I mean

1415
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 1: the party. Okay. I appreciate you so much as you guys,

1416
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: y'all have a great day. Thank clear my mind. All right,

1417
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that. Sometimes it's hard, even as

1418
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: smart as you are, to make the right decision. When

1419
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: you're in love, you get clouded. Yeah you're doing fortunately. Oh,

1420
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Thank you, miss you have a day,

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01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 1: you guys to the breakfast Club.