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Speaker 2: So we met on Hinge. Aaron was really beautiful, was

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Speaker 2: Bit and we went out on this date and in

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Speaker 2: She literally just ditched me by going to the bathroom

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Speaker 1: If I can just get an answer some accountability. You

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Speaker 1: hear that, Kiky, because he definitely did something. Wow, So

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Speaker 1: But I mean I've had people get up and go

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Speaker 1: I've thought about how would I get out of that?

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Speaker 2: I said, I'll take the check please, and that's it. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: So this woman left you sitting not even waiting by

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Speaker 1: there waiting and you don't want to. You have no

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Speaker 1: another day that we pay for. Okay, you have to

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Speaker 1: hear what happens next in part two of Waiting, got

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Speaker 1: a phone right after the songs that bring a carpenter

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes. It's the friend Show. We'll commercial

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Speaker 1: free for the next forty minutes. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: go anywhere. Hey Tom, Yes, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call Aaron. You met on one of the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: You planned a date, you went on this date, and

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Speaker 3: Honestly, like I truly regret letting you know where I live.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel safe. Change your number. We're changing ours

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Speaker 2: Well, I hope you, I hope you'd accept that I

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Speaker 1: all right, buddy. You know what's all. I can't help you.

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Speaker 1: You're right?

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Speaker 2: Now, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, would you.

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Speaker 1: How about that? So hey, I just asked her. The answers, No, Tom.

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you. Are a great man, you drive

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Speaker 2: Aaron.

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Speaker 1: Good luck to you, Tom Man, chill out. Please. I

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Speaker 1: wish you the best, but you take a deep breath.

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Speaker 1: Got it. Thanks. Caitlin has the Entertainment Report. Next, Big

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Speaker 1: Money with Shelby is Shelley. That's coming up too. Fred

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Speaker 1: Show's on