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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from

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Speaker 2: our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your

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Speaker 2: heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many

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Speaker 2: grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures

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Speaker 2: of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if

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Speaker 2: the dying art of romance wasn't dead.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: What did you see that rehashed your belief that love

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Speaker 2: still exists in this world?

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Speaker 1: Where do I even begin? I felt like it was

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Speaker 1: just everywhere, and I loved it. So. I have one

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Speaker 1: friend who's in a new relationship and she wanted to

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Speaker 1: get a note to this guy that she's dating before

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Speaker 1: a big event. She drove to meet up with his

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Speaker 1: father to give the love note so that his father

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Speaker 1: could hand deliver it in another state when he got there.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was so sweet. Another friend wanted to

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Speaker 1: go to the top of the Empire State Building to

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Speaker 1: tell someone that she was and love. They did that.

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Speaker 2: It was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Another friend of mine hike did a little hike

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Speaker 1: for a whole romantic day looking at leaves and trees

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Speaker 1: with a new person. Also, and I was just like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, all I hear all the time is

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Speaker 1: about how the dating pool is full of poop, and

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Speaker 1: I don't believe it. I think that there are still

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Speaker 1: these lovely things and lovely people out there who care

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Speaker 1: about love, who are trying to show people that they

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Speaker 1: love them without just making it all about you know,

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Speaker 1: transactional things. It's an I love you here it is

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Speaker 1: and it was so great to see. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Well, they got me to think it. Oh what about

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Speaker 2: people who are in relationships and they basically are, as

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Speaker 2: they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me

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Speaker 2: out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,

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Speaker 2: it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then

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Speaker 2: you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making videos.

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Speaker 1: And who is it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. So some people

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Speaker 2: are in relationships where they're just making sausage every day.

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Speaker 2: It's the same thing every day. You get into routines

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Speaker 2: with the people that you're with in this relationship. You

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Speaker 2: wake up to the same time every day, you do

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Speaker 2: the same thing every day, and ever you get to

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Speaker 2: get a home from work, you do the same thing

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Speaker 2: and you go to bed. When's the last time he

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Speaker 2: actually looked over at them, He looked them in the

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Speaker 2: eye and went, Oh, my god, I really do I

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Speaker 2: really do love this person I'm with, And I feel

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Speaker 2: like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten about us, the

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Speaker 2: two of us, with this crazy world, this hurricane of

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Speaker 2: a world that's ripping around around us, it's still the

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Speaker 2: two of us in the eye of this hurricane, and

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Speaker 2: we're here for each other. Let's do something for each other.

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Speaker 2: Let's do the top of the Empire State building, like

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Speaker 2: GANI was talking about. Let's go on a hike with

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Speaker 2: just us. It's more than a building that's really tall.

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Speaker 2: It's more than a hike on a trail in the woods.

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Speaker 2: It's about you and me connecting. Let's go do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually,

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Speaker 2: and your relationship to think that through, because you owe

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Speaker 2: it to them, and you owe it to yourself.

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Speaker 1: I think about that all the time, because you hopefully

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Speaker 1: start dating your partner because you think there's something magical

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Speaker 1: about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in

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Speaker 1: the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop

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Speaker 1: putting in that effort, and that magical person who is

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Speaker 1: still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,

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Speaker 1: is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.

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Speaker 1: It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I

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Speaker 1: think that's when it opens up the door for someone

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Speaker 1: else who might treat them like they are magical to

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Speaker 1: slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I think that sort of is what kills a

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Speaker 1: lot of romance and stuff in life.

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Speaker 3: I think people need to realize also that relationships change,

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Speaker 3: that it's never gonna stay exactly the way it was

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Speaker 3: when you guys first met. You have kids or things

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Speaker 3: happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and then

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Speaker 3: you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's not

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Speaker 3: always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,

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Speaker 3: but sitting down at the end of the day and

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Speaker 3: just saying like, gosh, this is the person I want

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Speaker 3: to come home to every and I still do, and

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Speaker 3: let them know that it's very important.

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Speaker 2: You know, there's something I want to say and I

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Speaker 2: want to move it to the next level because you know, us,

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Speaker 2: we just can't. We can't just leave it as simple

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Speaker 2: and move on. Let's say you're in a relationship with

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Speaker 2: someone and it's not going well. You're in the middle

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Speaker 2: of a crazy, awful storm with them, and of course

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Speaker 2: when those things are going on, the positive interaction is depleted,

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Speaker 2: it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about just struggling to

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Speaker 2: get along with them, just live with them whatever. Maybe

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Speaker 2: this is the time, even though it could be over,

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Speaker 2: Actually this is the time to look in the eye

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Speaker 2: and go, oh, look, I know that things aren't great

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Speaker 2: for us, but I do love you, and I just

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Speaker 2: got to tell you I appreciate everything that we've been through.

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Speaker 2: And who knows this to be the end, but you

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Speaker 2: need to know I love you. Something to think about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, definitely is.

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Speaker 2: Because you know what, I always get pissed off when

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Speaker 2: relationships between this bond and and then it is it's gone. Well,

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Speaker 2: does that mean it was it wasn't really worth anything

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Speaker 2: when you were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No,

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know,

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Speaker 2: things change.

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Speaker 3: I get that, and you fell in love with them

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Speaker 3: for some reason. There was something that attracted you to

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Speaker 3: that person in the first place. It always amazes me

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Speaker 3: how quickly people get over. Like, if you're with somebody

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Speaker 3: in this relationship for like ten years, just say, and

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Speaker 3: then all of a sudden things go south, and then

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Speaker 3: five minutes later you're like with this other. It always

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Speaker 3: amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I know, maybe things have been going on that we

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Speaker 3: didn't know about, but it's just like there's some reason

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Speaker 3: you were there, and if you could just find out

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Speaker 3: why and connect back to it, if you can, that's

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Speaker 3: that's incredible.

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Speaker 2: Or your bags could be backed and you're out to

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Speaker 2: forget that is which still but still, my point is this,

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Speaker 2: no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe

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Speaker 2: it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect

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Speaker 2: you have or had for each other and say thank

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Speaker 2: you