1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Second date of date, Brook, how many horrible dates did 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: you have to go on before you finally found your husband? 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: And actually, don't answer that because I don't want to 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 1: hear about the threeenty twenty four of them, all the fails. 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: I was on some good ones too. 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: Actually, we just got ten texts into seventy five nine 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: to two saying the same thing. Please don't ask Brook 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 1: about her horrible dating it so I'm glad that we 9 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: have someone else on the phone right now to share 10 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: their bad dating stories with us. His name is James, 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: and in his email he said he's been on so 12 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: many awful dates it was just refreshing to finally meet 13 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: a woman who he described as somewhat normal. Oh so, James, 14 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: welcome to the show man. 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for having me appreciate it. 16 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: Everyone's thinking, where did you find someone somewhat normal? Yeah? 17 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: Now, James, a lot of people when they write to us, 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: they focus on the date that they just had. 19 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 20 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: But I thought it was kind of funny that you 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: mentioned a few of the bad experiences that you had 22 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: before this. 23 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: Oh, he went into detas about it. 24 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: One that you said was you got invited by a 25 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: girl to her church picnic. 26 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 3: That is correct. She originally told me was if I 27 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 3: wanted to see an outdoor play, and I thought, you know, 28 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: like Shakespeare in the Park kind of deal or something 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: like that. Yeah, And that wasn't the case at all, 30 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: because I get there and she dressed like the devil 31 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 3: who her face is painted red. 32 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 2: No, so not like a sexy devil like you were 33 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 2: hoping for. 34 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 3: Not at all. She is screaming fire and brimstone. Everyone's 35 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 3: going to hell. 36 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: It's kind of hot. 37 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 2: So that's a look. 38 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: I can use that. 39 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: Okay. 40 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: What was the other one that you mentioned? Something about 41 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:48,279 Speaker 1: mini Golf. 42 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I went on on a date with a girl 43 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 3: with Mini golf. I don't know if she had like 44 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: a medical problem or what, but she couldn't stop party. 45 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: Sweet girl and mini golf can like if there's not 46 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: a lot of people, can be really quiet. 47 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, the windmill isn't that loud though she was trying 48 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 3: to tie it with the putter. 49 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: She's screaming for I feel so. 50 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: There was a lot of room for improvement. 51 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: Tell us about the good date that you finally had. 52 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: Who was that with? 53 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 3: Her name is Vicky and I met her online. Her 54 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 3: profile picture was pretty I mean I don't want to 55 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 3: sound shallow. 56 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: Here, but that's what dating online is set up for, right, Yeah, exactly, 57 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: And she totally looks like her picture. 58 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: We just clicked and we sent multiple messages back and forth. 59 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: I mean, with your history, were you thinking like, oh 60 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: my god, there's no way this sounds too good to 61 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: be true. 62 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: Are you a double fart mom? 63 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, you've got to put yourself out there. 64 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, So what did you and Vicky do for your date? 65 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 3: We ended up going to a barcade. I don't know 66 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 3: if you guys are familiar that. It's kind of like, oh, yeah. 67 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: I always wanted to go on these. 68 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 3: No, it's really fun. They have like old school atari 69 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 3: games or any old arcade game or anything like that. 70 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: So how was the arcade with Vicky? Do you guys 71 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: have a good time? 72 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, there's like this super awesome nostalgia factor going on. 73 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 3: And this was when going over the date. The only 74 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 3: like hiccup is I came across my all time favorite 75 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 3: video game, which is the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. 76 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 77 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: I found I found a place like that by my 78 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 2: house and my son is obsessed with it now. 79 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: It is such a good game. 80 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I kill it, Raphael, I mean with. 81 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: The interesting choice. 82 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: Why is that a bad moment in your date? 83 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 4: Though? 84 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: Because the problem is, once I found it, I wanted 85 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 3: to play it. But I saw it across the room 86 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: and as we were getting closer to it, and I'm 87 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: hyping it up and I'm like, you're gonna love playing the game. 88 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 3: A group of tweeen agers they slepped in and started 89 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: playing it before I could get to it. 90 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: This is an old ages arcade, okay. 91 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's one of those places where I like, 92 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 3: I guess kids and gay in there are staying there 93 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 3: until nine pm or something. 94 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: Okay, So again, why did that rooster date you didn't 95 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 2: get to play the game? 96 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 3: Well, I did this thing where I stood awkwardly behind him, thinking. 97 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: That was like weird, super passive aggressive. 98 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. 99 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 2: You guys didn't go off and play something else. You're 100 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: just standing there with your date as these teenagers. 101 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 3: With stepping beers and we're talking. But then the one 102 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: kid just like looked over his shoulder and it's like, 103 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 3: shut up. 104 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: That's probably not a great look in front of your date. 105 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: That's what you get, old man. 106 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: I'm not going to back off and let these kids win, 107 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: because this is my game. 108 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: I mean, like, show off, okay with Dame, this is 109 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: the hill that you're choosing to die out the teenage 110 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: Mutant Ninja Turtles Mountain exactly. 111 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 3: And it was like, you know what, let's drift on. 112 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 3: So we then we left the barcade and we're on 113 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 3: just down the street to another bar, and she's like, 114 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 3: I gotta wrap it up, and I'm like, dude, it's 115 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: only eight thirty. And she was like, I gotta get 116 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 3: up early in the morning and. 117 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: Okay, And it felt like an excuse to. 118 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 3: You a little thing. 119 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: You think she really wanted to play teenage and she's like, 120 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: dad said, if we're not gonna play, I'm going home exactly. 121 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 3: I mean, she could have been turned off a little 122 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 3: bit because I was being very forceful and very adamant 123 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 3: about like, let's play this specific game, and then the 124 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 3: kids being jerk maybe killed the vibe. 125 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 2: Kids always killed the vibe. I'm just gonna let you know, 126 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 2: yeah next time. 127 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I just need to know if that was it, 128 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 3: Just say that was it, and then like I will 129 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 3: definitely make sure date number two will have no children 130 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 3: at all. 131 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Well, let's call her and ask. We'll see 132 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: if that's the reason. We'll play a song. Come back, 133 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: call Vicky for you and try and get your second 134 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: date update. Okay, that'd be awesome, all right, hold on 135 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: second A great show, great theme song, and an even 136 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: better arcade game for sure, And our guy James just 137 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: wanted to show his date how Rafael could do some 138 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: serious damage with his front flips. But he never got 139 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: that chance. And even worse than losing the chance to 140 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: play the game, is he actually lost his date VICKI. 141 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: Now it seems like she may have used an excuse 142 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: to get out of there a little bit early, but 143 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: we're not sure. And James thinks it might have been 144 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: because he got into a verbal spat with some unruly 145 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: tweens who were hogging the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle machine. 146 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: And I just have to ask you, James, what's the 147 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: worst thing that you said to them when you were 148 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: in an argument? 149 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 3: It was it was something really generic, because you're arguing 150 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 3: with kids that you don't want to say something like 151 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 3: I tagged your mom and your dad was watching. 152 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: It's like you've been playing this fight over and over 153 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: in your head. 154 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: Exactly so it was something like, I think I hear 155 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 3: your mom call. 156 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: Okay, probably should have gone with that first diss. 157 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: I mean, that would be a turn off for me. 158 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 3: I never should have gotten into it with him at all. 159 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 3: It's at least you know that. 160 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 2: I mean, it's that, and that you pick Raphael out 161 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: of all of them. Maybe anybody else was guy, but 162 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: I'm all Michael Angelo. 163 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I don't even know. I don't feel like 164 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: we should discuss anymore Ninja Turtle character preferences. 165 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: Next your personality. 166 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: I just think we should call Vicky and see what 167 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: she has to say. Maybe she's really picky about the 168 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: characters too, Maybe maybe she's a Maybe that's exactly Zaddy 169 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: masters and asked, So let's just do this. Here we go. 170 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm in a dollar number right now. 171 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 3: Hello, is this Vicky? 172 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: Vicky? My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke 173 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 174 00:07:55,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: Okay, Hi, I think he whole show is here. 175 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: How you doing? 176 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 4: I'm good. Is there a reason you're calling so funny? 177 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 2: You should have? 178 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? Are you familiar with our show at all? 179 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? I definitely listen. Cool. I'm just a little nervous 180 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 4: right now. 181 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Well then you might be familiar with the second 182 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: date updates. 183 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, okay. 184 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 2: Your nervous laugh is really cute though. Good jump. 185 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 4: Oh thanks, it's cute. 186 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: Well we're calling obviously because one of our listeners went 187 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: out with you recently and he's been having a hard 188 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: time reaching you over the past week. 189 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 4: Remember James, Oh yeah, oh gosh, Okay. 190 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 2: It wasn't as fun for you as it was for James. 191 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: It sounds like, I. 192 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 4: Mean, I don't know how much you've told you, so 193 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 4: I don't want to like, Okay. 194 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: Well, what we do know is you guys went to 195 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: a barcade, had some drinks. 196 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 4: We did. 197 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 2: We know that he was really interested in you. He 198 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: thought you were cute, had great hair, fun personality. 199 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. I mean, did you think he was cute? 200 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 201 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 4: I definitely thought he was cute. We were having a 202 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 4: fun time. There was this kind of like a moment 203 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 4: that was a little bit of a turning point for me. 204 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: Is that anything to do with a group of superheroes? 205 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 2: Maybe turtles? 206 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 4: All right, so you know a little bit about it. 207 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: But what he told us is that there were some 208 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: kids hogging the teenage meeting Ninja turtle machine, and so 209 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: it kind of exchanged words, but you guys passed and 210 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: just went somewhere else. 211 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 2: But I mean, to be fair, we told him that 212 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 2: that's like, I mean, for Alexis and I anyway, it'd 213 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: be a pretty big red flag if he was arguing 214 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:53,239 Speaker 2: with teenagers. 215 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 3: Look, yeah, not a good look. 216 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: There was a little bit more to the story. 217 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 2: What do you mean, like he did more than exchange 218 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: words with him. 219 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I think he thinks I don't know about 220 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 4: this part, but yeah, like he so he went to 221 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 4: the bathroom before we were going to leave, and he 222 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 4: came out and like had a cut on his lips. 223 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 4: He looks kind of like bruised up and stuff like 224 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 4: he had something had happened, and. 225 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,599 Speaker 2: He something it happened in the bathroom. 226 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh god, dude. 227 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes all those those paper talenta spensers, I get in 228 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: fight them out real quick. 229 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean that's what he said. He said, 230 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 4: he like flipped and accidentally bumped his face on the stall, 231 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 4: and I was like, are you that drunk? 232 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 2: For all, I mean, they don't I will say a 233 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: lot of arcades and not very clean bathrooms, so maybe 234 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 2: it was a slippery s. 235 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 4: Well, what he doesn't know is uh, Like right before that, 236 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: a few minutes before he came out, some of the 237 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 4: middle schoolers came up to me who were playing the 238 00:10:56,240 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 4: Ninja game, and they, uh, they said, hey, tell your boyfriend. 239 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 4: If he mouths off again, we're going to beat itath 240 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 4: worse than we just did. 241 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 2: Why they beat him up in the bathroom. 242 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 4: I think so because like in the moment, I was like, 243 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 4: all right, whatever, and then when I saw him, I 244 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, he just got beat up 245 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 4: by a kid. 246 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 247 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: You can't blame her for that, Like, what is he 248 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 2: supposed to do? Hit him back? 249 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: You can beat the crap out of those kids. 250 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: Like, did you. 251 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: Bring it up to him? 252 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 2: No? 253 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 4: I was just like I'm done. This is definitely a 254 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 4: red flag. 255 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Are you more turned off that he fought 256 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: or that he lost? 257 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 3: I mean, just the fact that the whole thing happened. 258 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 4: Just he's the adult in the situation. Then you're gonna 259 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 4: like fight with some middle schoolers in the bathroom and 260 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 4: then you're gonna lie about it. 261 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 2: Well that's pretty embarrassing to admit. 262 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: I mean all right, so look, here's what we know. 263 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: We know that there was obviously some verbal stuff with 264 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: the kids at the arcade, but you're saying you didn't 265 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: actually see anything yourself, Vicky. So we need to go 266 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: right to the source here and just ask James, you 267 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:15,599 Speaker 1: throw hands with some middle schoolers. 268 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: Or one normal questions? 269 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:22,599 Speaker 4: Ye oh no, oh yeah, James, Well I didn't know 270 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 4: they talked to you, Vicky. 271 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh god, it actually happened. 272 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, first off, there were like seven of them. 273 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 4: Okay, no, well okay there listen, listen. There were three 274 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 4: of them, and one of them was Onarn't crutches, so 275 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 4: don't that's why. 276 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a mainland weapon. He would swim with them kids. 277 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,959 Speaker 2: How did that happen? How did that happen in the bathroom? 278 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 3: I mean, they have horrible mouths, That's what happened. So 279 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: I had friend myself. 280 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: Wait did you you ask them to fight you in 281 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: the bathroom? 282 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 3: No. I went into the restroom to do the normal things, 283 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 3: just leave myself, and then all of a sudden, I 284 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 3: get sucker punch from behind with a clutch. That's when 285 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: they start running their mouths and I square up and 286 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 3: it was a fight or flight moment, and here's the 287 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: problem is I swung on one of them, and I'm. 288 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: Miss okay, So you tried to throw a punch at 289 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: one of these kids. 290 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 4: This is not making it better like you're telling it and. 291 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 3: More details makes it better. They were attacking me. I 292 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: was defending myself. 293 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,679 Speaker 1: And I was defending you. 294 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 4: You were You were not defending me. 295 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 3: I was defending your honor. I was defending your honor 296 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 3: because these kids were saying you had small boobs. I 297 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 3: was like, you don't want. 298 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: God? 299 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 2: What's wrong with small boobs? 300 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 4: There? 301 00:13:59,160 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: Thank you everyone. 302 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 3: You guys are laughing and thinking this isn't serious, but 303 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 3: it was. It was really serious. In a headlock, I 304 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 3: was losing consciousness and he was like, just about to go. 305 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 2: Headlock. They're shorter than you. Parents. 306 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: Stop putting their kids in taekwondo, it happens. 307 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: Are you exaggerating, James? Like it feels like this story 308 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: just keeps getting more out of control. 309 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 3: You have been there like I was. It was a 310 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 3: desperate situation. I was in a point where I was 311 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 3: willing to do anything I could to get out of it. 312 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 2: It could be scary to be provoked. 313 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: I just say, you have seven kids running around you 314 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: no matter how big they are. 315 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 2: I think there were only numbers. There was only three. 316 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm just hoping now that we've heard the 317 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: full story, can you hear where he's coming from. He 318 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: was defending your honor, defending himself, and maybe he deserves 319 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: a second chance. We'd like to pay for another date 320 00:14:55,920 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: with James. He never connected any punches. And for the record, 321 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: for the record, nobody here thinks that you have small boobs. 322 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: We think they are. 323 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 2: We think small is fine, just the right size. 324 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 4: Yes, no, I'm not interested. This thing is even worse 325 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 4: than it was when I heard from the kids. 326 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 3: This is ridiculous. Man, I get beat up by a 327 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 3: mob of bug and I'm not getting a secondary out 328 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 3: of it. 329 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: James. The story just one of the kids was like crutches. 330 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 3: Have you not seen like Return of the Jedi? Like 331 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: you could spend that thing around and around. 332 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: You should have gone rap, we go. 333 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 334 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: I think we all can agree violence is never the answer, 335 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: unless the question is who's hogging the teenage mutant ninja 336 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: turtle arcades. No, the unwritten rule is you have free 337 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: reign to swing on children. No, no, don't is it Okay, 338 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: you tell me the rules. I don't know them. 339 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: Listen, I will give it can be scary to be you. 340 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: Know, jumped. 341 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, one time in the park I had I 342 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 2: stopped a group of eighth graders from fighting. Okay, so 343 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: you were able to stop them with a baby on 344 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 2: my hip? Okay, So I don't know. I mean there's 345 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: probably easier ways that he could have de escalated the issue, 346 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: but okay, they were kind of frightening. 347 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: Okay, the things that you know that there's some woman 348 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: out there listening who really feels bad for James. 349 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 2: It's the mother of the children. 350 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: No, I guarantee that we're going to get text into 351 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: seventy five ninety two from some women saying he was 352 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: the victim and he was fully in his right to 353 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: defend himself and he's actually a hero. 354 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: The kids were just trying to play their video game. Yeah, 355 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 2: he have not, like I know, but if he wouldn't 356 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 2: have started the whole thing to begin with. 357 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: Oh, he started it. 358 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 2: Like who's the kid now name? 359 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: It's a good reminder to so all of our listeners. Hey, 360 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: if you're going out on a date tonight, don't beat 361 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: up any kids. No, your instincts might tell you to 362 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: do it, but you have to resist anyway. I remember, 363 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: if you want to get a second date, update, or 364 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: other awesome dating advice, you can always email the show. 365 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. 366 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.