Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. It's time for to catch
Speaker 2: a cheater. And Noah is on the phone today. He's
Speaker 2: been dating his girlfriend Evelyn for six months, but now
Speaker 2: he thinks something might be going on, So see if
Speaker 2: we can help him out.
Speaker 3: No what's up man? What's going on with you in Evelyn?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know something.
Speaker 5: I our relationships kind of hit hit a wall if
Speaker 5: you will.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 5: Everything was good for the whole six months and there's
Speaker 5: not been a ton of snags, but as of late,
Speaker 5: she's been different. She's going out, she's texting people that
Speaker 5: she won't tell me in the yard, but I can
Speaker 5: tell looking at her phone that it's the guy, and
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, is that.
Speaker 3: Just a friend?
Speaker 1: I don't know who that that is.
Speaker 5: She'll go out with a group of friends and like
Speaker 5: I can see, you know, she'll post pictures and she
Speaker 5: and then I'll ask her about like what she did,
Speaker 5: and she won't tell me every when she was out
Speaker 5: with I don't know. Things have gotten quiet in the
Speaker 5: bedroom and I don't know I did something. But yeah,
Speaker 5: it just seems like she's not as committed to doing this.
Speaker 5: I don't know any things just took off, you know, right,
Speaker 5: like kind of like where we met. You know, we
Speaker 5: met this at a bar hanging out, and we have
Speaker 5: the same kind of sense of humor. Everything was going
Speaker 5: pretty well, we'd go out on dates all the time,
Speaker 5: and things have just sort of slowed down.
Speaker 2: I don't know, do you feel like there's really a
Speaker 2: problem or is that part of like the natural progression
Speaker 2: of a relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I can't tell.
Speaker 5: I mean, I haven't noticed. There hasn't been anything on
Speaker 5: my end that made me feel any differently or anything
Speaker 5: that I can think that caused it. But there just
Speaker 5: seems to be like a switch flips and all of
Speaker 5: a sudden it's like, oh, she's going out and I'm
Speaker 5: just I don't know, there's like I'm less a part
Speaker 5: of us than it.
Speaker 3: Used to be.
Speaker 2: Why are you thinking specifically she might be cheating? Though
Speaker 2: if she could be kind of like not in the
Speaker 2: not really into it.
Speaker 6: Anymore, She'll she'll put her phone away a lot when
Speaker 6: I'm like trying to ask her questions about like oh,
Speaker 6: are you going out with friends or like she seems
Speaker 6: just very evasive when I ask about like what she's
Speaker 6: been doing or like who she's going out with.
Speaker 5: You know, I'll try to do stuff to like create
Speaker 5: a mood or like get her in the mood for
Speaker 5: you know, especially in the you know, in the bedroom, like.
Speaker 1: It just there just seems to be less of, like.
Speaker 3: Less into anything I try to do.
Speaker 5: I don't know, it just seems like the things that
Speaker 5: I'm trying to do, she seems not just not into
Speaker 5: in a way that's like I'd I'd rather be elsewhere,
Speaker 5: or she just seems outside of it.
Speaker 4: That is.
Speaker 3: Crushing feeling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And when someone starts to change their phone behavior
Speaker 2: that is usually a kind of a red flag something's
Speaker 2: going on, whether it's cheating or not.
Speaker 5: She puts it away really fast, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 5: a little suspicious.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, all right, Well we'll see if we can
Speaker 3: figure it out for you. You already told.
Speaker 2: Us what grocery store she's a rewards card member at,
Speaker 2: So we'll call pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 2: and tell her that she's the lucky winner. Every month,
Speaker 2: we choose one random rewards card member who gets free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our full department we'll see if she
Speaker 2: sends that to you or to someone else. Is there
Speaker 2: anybody that you suspect at all?
Speaker 1: It could be this guy writer.
Speaker 3: She's always hanging out with this guy, right, and I
Speaker 3: don't really trust this guy. Okay, was writer in the
Speaker 3: picture before you.
Speaker 5: He's been friends with her longer, and like, I just
Speaker 5: don't get a good vibe from him when a few
Speaker 5: times that we've all.
Speaker 3: Hung out together. Is he in a relationship?
Speaker 1: He is not a relationship?
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, yeah, that's all right. Well man, well hopefully
Speaker 3: she's not. But we'll try and figure it out for you. Okay,
Speaker 3: we'll play a.
Speaker 2: Song come back and get you to Catch a Cheater
Speaker 2: next if you're just joining us for Today's to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater. Noah is on the phone and he thinks
Speaker 2: that his girlfriend of six months might be cheating. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call her and pretend to be from
Speaker 2: the grocery store that she shops at and say that
Speaker 2: every month, we choose one random Rewards card member who
Speaker 2: gets three flowers delivered from our Florida department, and we'll
Speaker 2: see if she sends those to Noah or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, noa, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So we've been going out. Evelyn and I have
Speaker 5: been going up for about six months. Things have been
Speaker 5: great for the most part, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 5: she's been kind of weird with it who she's going
Speaker 5: out with, and being evasive about like answering me and
Speaker 5: kind of not wanting me to see what's on her
Speaker 5: phone all the time. And I just I'm getting a
Speaker 5: live that she's kind of on the way out of.
Speaker 3: This and there is somebody we're suspicious of. Right, what
Speaker 3: was his name again?
Speaker 7: His name's writer?
Speaker 3: All right, man, Well, are you ready for us to
Speaker 3: try to call her?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Gorbyn calling from I was looking for
Speaker 2: a Rewards Card member named Evelyn.
Speaker 1: Oh Hi, this is she.
Speaker 2: Hi Evelyn, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.
Speaker 2: Here this month's winner.
Speaker 1: Well that's awesome. Thank What did I win? Oh?
Speaker 2: Well, every single month we choose one lucky Rewards Card
Speaker 2: member to say thank you very much for being such
Speaker 2: a loyal customer by giving you free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy, your chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 1: Ooh, okay, that's awesome.
Speaker 2: Here's how we do it so I can take the
Speaker 2: information over the phone in a matter of minutes. If
Speaker 2: you know who you want to send them to right now.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm tempted to just send it to myself, but
Speaker 1: I'm going to send it to my friend Macey.
Speaker 3: Would you like to put anything on a card with that?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Love you girl?
Speaker 3: He ain't it.
Speaker 1: You don't need a man who's treats you like that?
Speaker 2: Oh boy, Yeah, I'm so sorry she's going through that. Well, Evelyn,
Speaker 2: it's at this point I'm just gonna let you know
Speaker 2: this is not the grocery store.
Speaker 3: This is actually Jewbel. I host the radio show. It's
Speaker 3: called The Jubil Show. Hi, Evelyn, I'm Nina also on
Speaker 3: the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Okay, your boyfriend Noah
Speaker 3: is on the phone. Actually.
Speaker 2: Oh, and we do a segment on the show.
Speaker 3: It's called to catch a Cheaters.
Speaker 2: If you think somebody might be messing around, we see
Speaker 2: if they send flowers to somebody other than their significant other.
Speaker 3: And that's what this is.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, wow, you called a radio you had a
Speaker 4: radio station call me?
Speaker 1: I yeah, what do you think I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 1: Whin i'ming on you?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: You've not been super upfront with me about like some
Speaker 5: of the people that you are hanging out with. I mean,
Speaker 5: you were gonna send the flowers to Macie, and you
Speaker 5: know how I feel about her, right, that's kind of weird.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 3: She's not the best like influence on you.
Speaker 1: I think when you guys hang out, I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's why I sometimes I don't tell you who I'm
Speaker 1: hanging out with. You you don't seem to like my friends.
Speaker 3: I just wish you could talk to me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just you know, I just want what's best for you.
Speaker 5: And like when you don't talk to me about stuff
Speaker 5: and make some kind of like question stuff I don't know.
Speaker 5: And like, also, you know, you'll be on your phone
Speaker 5: a lot and I'll ask you, like, oh, who you're
Speaker 5: talking to her? Like what's who you hang and she'll
Speaker 5: you'll put your phone on way really cool fast. And
Speaker 5: I'm I just even acting kind of weird when I
Speaker 5: talk about your friends and like not giving me like
Speaker 5: all the information.
Speaker 1: So are you cheating on Oh No, I'm not cheating
Speaker 1: on you at all. I just I've been hanging.
Speaker 4: Out with my friend lately who's been going through a lot,
Speaker 4: and I know that you don't like.
Speaker 1: Her, and I feel like there's it just seems to
Speaker 1: upset you or you get anxious when I hang out
Speaker 1: with her and or when I hang out with certain people.
Speaker 1: So I just kind of I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: want to stop hanging out with them, they're my friends.
Speaker 1: But I guess I just thought if I don't, if
Speaker 1: I like keep it.
Speaker 4: From you, then I just want to upset you, and
Speaker 4: I can kind of keep those things separate.
Speaker 1: It just seems like, well, it's upsetting you, So I
Speaker 1: don't really know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just kind of feel like you
Speaker 4: don't trust me, and obviously you don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you don't.
Speaker 4: Trust me to the point where you're trying to get
Speaker 4: people to find out if I'm cheating and that I'm not.
Speaker 1: It's a little bit like it's a lot for me
Speaker 1: to it's kind of overwhelming for me.
Speaker 5: That's why that's why I try, you know, sometimes you know,
Speaker 5: we're just in bed together, I'll try to start something
Speaker 5: or I'll try to, you know, do stuff to show
Speaker 5: you that I'm still in this and I'm trying to
Speaker 5: bring some you know, a different food or you know,
Speaker 5: create a moment, and you just like kind of aren't
Speaker 5: receptive to some of the stuff I do.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess the insecurities that I seem
Speaker 1: for you, it kind of is a turn off for me,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of I guess made me dist it.
Speaker 4: And I like you and everything. It's just the constant
Speaker 4: worrying about me going out with my friends, and it's
Speaker 4: just not a turn on for me that you don't
Speaker 4: really seem to have confidence in us or yourself.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I can see that now. Honestly, I might have
Speaker 8: overreacted in this moment. It feels like I'm doing too
Speaker 8: much and I kind of see that. So this this
Speaker 8: is a lot to put on you and I. I
Speaker 8: guess I could have just been more openly communicative instead of.
Speaker 1: Maybe I know, you know, we're we're not getting.
Speaker 4: Married and we aren't like you know, in that's like
Speaker 4: toxic dark hole.
Speaker 1: But maybe we should get counseling together.
Speaker 7: If you, you know, be for that, well, I guess
Speaker 7: I can take the ring I got you. I guess
Speaker 7: I could take back to the ring and use that
Speaker 7: towards therapy.
Speaker 1: I was just it was a joke. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: bad with jokes. I'm just.
Speaker 5: Yeah, But yeah, I do think that's a good idea.
Speaker 5: I think we should do that, because you know, I do.
Speaker 5: I want to stay with you and I don't want
Speaker 5: to mess this up, so I think that would be
Speaker 5: really a good idea.
Speaker 1: I want to see it you too, and I don't
Speaker 1: want to mess it up.
Speaker 2: Well, sweet hey, at least Noah, you know, she's not
Speaker 2: cheating and not down for that. And I think it's
Speaker 2: great if you guys go counting together. You don't have
Speaker 2: to be having like big problems to start counting together.
Speaker 2: I think it's great. I think everybody should just help
Speaker 2: the conversation. And also maybe Noah can hang out with
Speaker 2: you sometimes.
Speaker 4: Evelyn the Jewel shows to catch a cheeter