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Speaker 1: taking a three week hiatus and then I will be back.

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Speaker 1: So this is our last episode of this portion of

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Speaker 1: the podcast, well season. Really it's the end of season

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Speaker 1: one and we'll be back in a few weeks with

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Speaker 1: the beginning of season two. I have to say that

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Speaker 1: I had the absolute best time playing the Santa Barbara Bowl.

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Speaker 1: I want to thank everyone who was there. It was

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Speaker 1: I'm just really excited about my stand up tour. So

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Speaker 1: I wanted to give you guys some more stand up dates.

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Speaker 1: If you live in Cincinnati. September, I'm coming to Cincinnati.

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Speaker 1: If you live there, get your tickets. I'm coming to

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Speaker 1: Detroit on October one. October two, I'm coming to Indianapolis.

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Speaker 1: That's in Indiana, and then October three, I will be

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Speaker 1: in Grand Rapids, Michigan. So I am coming to perform

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Speaker 1: Taft Theater, Filmore Detroit, Detroit, the Murat in Indianapolis, and

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Speaker 1: probably coming to a city near you. I'm coming to Florida.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of action in Florida. I'm coming to Portland, Maine.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Jacksonville, Miami Beach, St. Petersburg, going to Arizona, Reno,

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Speaker 1: all of my places anyway, look for tickets at Chelsea

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Speaker 1: I am coming to you, and I hope that you

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Speaker 1: O g Chelsea. Okay. So we are gonna supplement our

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Speaker 1: in crazy play. So I'm very much looking forward to

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Speaker 1: continuing to do this podcast for all of our loyal listeners,

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Speaker 1: of which we have many, And I want to thank

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Speaker 1: to continuing on Sagimos. As they say, I took Spanish

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Speaker 1: for three years, but I still can only say about

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Speaker 1: reading this book about autism. What is it called a

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Speaker 1: Man's Guide How to Be Human? I'm Man's Guide to

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Speaker 1: Living with Autism? How to be Human? Yeah, Man's Guide

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Speaker 1: to Living with autism. Oh my god. It talks about

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Speaker 1: the brain, and it talks about like how you know,

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Speaker 1: Like this guy sees grew of words like go get

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Speaker 1: But this guy was like, listen, it's so hard to

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Speaker 1: what are we doing today? What's going on? Sweetheart? We

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Speaker 1: are We're talking about something that you have an abundance of. Well,

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Speaker 1: like that is powerful for people to see. And we've

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Speaker 1: And I hope that's what she did, or maybe somebody

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Speaker 1: beat up, but you did it anyway. That was my confidence.

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Speaker 1: I don't really think that applies to what we're talking about,

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Speaker 1: into You know, well, I would argue that it does

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Speaker 1: align with it because it's we've talked about this as well,

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Speaker 1: I think my confidence bank is pretty full, So let's

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Speaker 1: fill some other people's confidence banks. All right, Well, let's

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Speaker 1: start with Meg. She is thirty years old. She writes,

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Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea, one of the things I love about you

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Speaker 1: is how confident you come across. This is something i've

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Speaker 1: you just kind of have to reassess that and compartmentalize

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00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 1: it into what you're doing now. So you know that

428
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 1: you have that confidence within you, you you just need to

429
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 1: apply it as you move forward professionally. Like it's still there,

430
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: It's still in you, it's inherent. So don't let it

431
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 1: fall to the waistide just because you're going into something

432
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 1: a little bit unknown, like, if anything, let it give

433
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 1: you the extra boosts that you need. M Yeah, you

434
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,439
Speaker 1: just need to calibrate our previous confidence, which is more

435
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: of a naive confidence, right, your previous confidence with all

436
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: the skills that you're learning and the education that you've gotten,

437
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: and combine those two things and then you have all

438
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 1: the tools that you need to power through this and

439
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 1: to you know, emerge victorious and to set a great

440
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 1: example along the way like, it's so much to look

441
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:23,640
Speaker 1: forward to. I'm excited for you. Thank you. Please keep

442
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 1: us posted, let us know how it goes. Yeah for sure,

443
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,159
Speaker 1: I'll be starting in the fall. So so where are

444
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 1: you starting? Do you know what? Like? Well, grad school

445
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 1: you're starting? Yeah, yeah, okay, Well that's gonna be fun too,

446
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 1: grad school. Good for you. Congratulations, thank you, thank you, Brittany,

447
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:44,439
Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. Brittany. Oh god, I look

448
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:49,679
Speaker 1: like Nicknolty again. Um yes, actually, oh my god, it's

449
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: so funny you say that because I was driving this

450
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 1: morning and I was like, God, I'd like to go

451
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: take some classes at college. You should find out. But

452
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: I would actually ever go. But why not? Because I

453
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 1: don't want to be in a classroom with a bunch

454
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: of people. I don't know why. You love people, I know,

455
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 1: but I just don't. I don't want that kind of attention.

456
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: I think you should have that sort of life experience.

457
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 1: I think that it would mean a lot to you

458
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 1: want to send me away to college, Sweeter. I just

459
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 1: think it would mean a lot to you to be

460
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Speaker 1: able to go and get an education, because you are.

461
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 1: You are so self educated that I really do think

462
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: that even if you do it later in life. Like

463
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: there was this woman. I think she went to a

464
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Speaker 1: s U I can't remember, but she was one and

465
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 1: she graduated with her granddaughter. Maybe we could go back

466
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,360
Speaker 1: to school together. Maybe I should grit well, I first

467
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 1: of all, if I'm going to have a granddaughter, I

468
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:40,959
Speaker 1: need to have a daughter first. And if I'm going

469
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Speaker 1: to graduate from college with my granddaughter, I think it's

470
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,199
Speaker 1: a little light. Well, no, we still have time. Okay, listen,

471
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: the doctor said, my eggs are really strong or whatever

472
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: they are. I don't know how many eggs I have,

473
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: but apparently they're swimming fast or is that sperm that spermops?

474
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 1: So if I have baby now forty six, okay, forty

475
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: I would have to get pregnant, and then the pregnancy

476
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: would have to take, which it will because it's so

477
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 1: fucking fertile. Okay, so then I have a baby plus

478
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: eighteen equals sixty six. If I have a baby and

479
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: I can engineer it to be a girl, forced her

480
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Speaker 1: to have another baby by the time I'm sixty five,

481
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: I can have a granddaughter and then another eighteen years. Okay,

482
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to have my daughter have a baby

483
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: earlier than well. I think that you we could skip

484
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: a few of these steps. You adopt like a latent

485
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 1: life foster, like Britney spears. Yes, perfect. She already has kids,

486
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: so you congraduate with one of her kids, with Preston.

487
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Speaker 1: She has one named Preston. I know that for say,

488
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: great problem solved. Okay, I've called into the podcast. You

489
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: still can. Our next mission comes from Melissa. She's forty

490
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Speaker 1: six out of Toronto. She is a travel radio host.

491
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Speaker 1: A travel radio host, I wonder if that means that

492
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: she traveled or her radio shows about travel. We'll find out.

493
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: Her question is, Dear Chelsea, I was caught between the

494
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 1: working world and all of its perks and saying scrutous

495
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,360
Speaker 1: city life and living closer to the outdoors, making less

496
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 1: money and throwing caution to the wind. We are the

497
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: same age. I'm ready for a change. I love to travel,

498
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: I love adventures. I have multiple talents that I use

499
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Speaker 1: in my non financial passion projects as a writer, podcaster,

500
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: and interviewer. But I haven't figured out my entrepreneurial angle

501
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: that will enable me to give the big middle finger

502
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: to corporate life. What do I do? Do we have

503
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: Melissa yeah, Hi, Hi, how's it going. It's going. How's

504
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: it going with you? I am not too bad? That

505
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: is always a good sign, right. So are you in Canada? Yes,

506
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm in Toronto, Okay. And you have a traveling radio show?

507
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: What does that mean? So about five years ago I

508
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 1: started a show called Fly Travel Radio. So it's on

509
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 1: a community radio station, but it's also a podcast. So

510
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Speaker 1: I'm basically a un woman operation. I created it. I'm

511
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: the host, interviewer, editor, all the above, all of it.

512
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: So that's my passion project. On the side, though in

513
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: my nine to five I work at a university, so

514
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: I'm in like project event program management and like the

515
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: golden handcuff job. Right, So you have good pay, good benefits,

516
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: good perks, but it's not fulfilling your soul or your

517
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: destiny or anything like that. So it gets to be

518
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: a hard time, right when you're like, do you stay

519
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: for the security or do you create your own path

520
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 1: and bolt and just like find your own freedom. And

521
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: I talk a lot in my show. I meet all

522
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 1: these people who have done that, Right, They've left like

523
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: traditional nine to fives and they have location independent businesses.

524
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: So if you wanted to go and live in Costa

525
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: Rica for three months. You can go and do that

526
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: if your laptop is with you, or live in a

527
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: ski town for a winter. Right. It's like that freedom

528
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: and that ability to control your own life. Right. So

529
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: a couple of questions, Are you in a relationship? Yes?

530
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: I am, okay, So what does that mean to you?

531
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: Does that something you're willing to give up and leave

532
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: or are you willing are is that person coming with you? No,

533
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: he would come with me. He's also pursuing voice work

534
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: and he's a huge traveler as well, so that we

535
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: share together. Oh well, that's even better. That's a fun

536
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: time for an adventure. You have a couple, like somebody

537
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: you want to do it with that feels like yeah.

538
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm all about taking a leap of faith.

539
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: So I would encourage anyone to just, you know, be

540
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: able to go out and see the world. You could

541
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: do your one man operation, your one woman operation from wherever, right,

542
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: you can do your podcast and radio show from wherever

543
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: you are in the world. Absolutely, it's just it's an

544
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: all volunteer, right. So it's more that I have to

545
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,479
Speaker 1: create a business that's uh lucrative where there's some cash

546
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: because you know, right, so you have to go somewhere

547
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 1: and find another job and you don't really know what

548
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: you want to do, right, Actually, you know what I'm

549
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: I have a lot of things, like I'm I can write,

550
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: like an interview, I am good at people manage, minute,

551
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: project management. There's a lot of things in my wheelhouse.

552
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: I just have to figure out how to monetize it.

553
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: And uh, yeah, like when you're forty six, right, you

554
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: have this it's a dividing line where you're like, do

555
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: you bolt or do you just suck it up for

556
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: a few more years? But I'm pretty sure it's you know,

557
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: life is short and there's always a chapter for new

558
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: a new way to live. So that's where we're at. Yeah,

559
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: that's the right attitude. I think that's my attitude. I

560
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: don't want to suck anything up, you know what I mean?

561
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,719
Speaker 1: I really just don't. I don't want to. And if

562
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: you have the ability to not do it, you have

563
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: money saved where you could go somewhere and like, like,

564
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: could you bounce around the world for three or six

565
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 1: months and find a place that you really like and

566
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 1: then worry about getting a job. Do you have that

567
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: that kind of savings or no, yeah, yeah, I do yeah, yeah, son,

568
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: I think you have your answer. I mean you need

569
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: to get after it. It's true, it's true. What do

570
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: you think. I think you need to embrace the unknown.

571
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: I think that this last year has really shown a

572
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: lot of people that time is of the essence, Like

573
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: you have to get out and do the things you

574
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: want to do now because we don't know what's coming.

575
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: And there are a lot of options for online work

576
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: right now that you can just contract in for. Like

577
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: there's I keep seeing this website for people to type

578
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: out closed captioning because everyone is in need of close

579
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: captioning now for inclusivity. And you get paid by the words.

580
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: So some people are making like fi per post that

581
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 1: they close caption so there, yeah, there. They will send you,

582
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: they will send you the video and you have to

583
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: transcribe it. So I just think that there are a

584
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: lot of ways now to make money remotely. You can

585
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 1: work for Apple remotely. You can do the Apple care services.

586
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: I used to work for Apple, so I know that,

587
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: and they pay great and you can kind of set

588
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: your hours for that. So again, if it's just about

589
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: getting out and having your own schedule and being on

590
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: your own time. There are a lot of ways to

591
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: do that now. Yeah, yeah, I would agree. I think

592
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: quarantine and COVID have have Broughten all Broughten I just said,

593
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: I said, Broughten, don't do the transcribing. Yeah, maybe I

594
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: won't do the transcribing. I mean here I am a

595
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: regular words smith, constantly sucking up my words. Yeah, I

596
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: mean there are that it's been brought to light that

597
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: you can now pretty much do almost everything from home,

598
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: you know. I mean so many more places and companies

599
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: that are opening up to this, and there are so

600
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: many little loopholes. For example, in Costa Rica, they just

601
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: passed legislation to attract more digital nomads. They change the

602
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: law so you wouldn't have to renew your tourist visa

603
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: for your year, with the option of renewing for a

604
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: second year versus every three months. So now you'll also

605
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: be able to legally drive using your driver's license from

606
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: your own country and open a bank account in Costa Rica,

607
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: which is pretty great. So there's no shortage of opportunities.

608
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: It's just about finding the right opportunities. It's kind of

609
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: analogous to getting scholarships at schools, like there's all these

610
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: ins and outs for every university to get funding or

611
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: to get help with scholarships or housing money like you know,

612
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: and there are people who specialize in telling students, oh,

613
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,959
Speaker 1: this is how you can save money. Here, you can

614
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: get this loan. People just don't know how to use

615
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: lies all those services. I was just having a conversation

616
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: with somebody yesterday and she's like, oh my god, you

617
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: can almost get everything paid for. You just have to

618
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: have somebody who knows their way around it. But I

619
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: think that applies to so many things in life. There

620
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: are so many avenues to get revenue and ways to

621
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: accrue revenue that you don't even know about just yet.

622
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: So if you did spend some time researching that, I'm

623
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: sure you'd come up with something that kind of fits

624
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: your skill set well. It's also it's also not permanent,

625
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: so like just as if you wanted to go away

626
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: for three or six months, even a year, if you

627
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: have the means to do that, you can always go back.

628
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: Like you're obviously articulate and skilled in your field, so

629
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Speaker 1: I don't think you have a problem getting a job back.

630
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: But if you don't ever take the step to kind

631
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: of put yourself out of your comfort zone. You're gonna wonder.

632
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: So absolutely totally. The other thing that goes with this

633
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: is that you're pregnant. Yeah, totally forty six loving it. No,

634
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm trying to get pregnant right now. It's

635
00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: not easy my thoughts. Yeah, I have organize this year

636
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: off with my employer. Right, But if you do that,

637
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: it's like I get out of jail free card for

638
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: a year because you can go, but you have to

639
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: come back to like this job. So this is like

640
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: also part of the dilemma where I'm just like, yeah,

641
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm done. Yeah, well I think that's your answer. You're done, right,

642
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: you know your answer? I do. Yeah. Well, it seems

643
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: like you solved your own issue. Well it was really helpful.

644
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Okay, thanks talking to you. Yeah

645
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: you too. Take care. Another problem solved, sweetheart. People just

646
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: want to be transients. That's what I've realized. Everyone is

647
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: searching for a way to not have a normal job.

648
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's just so nice to have freedom,

649
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: you know, to have be free. Like even my sister

650
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: she works all day long on zooms one zoom and

651
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: then another's room, and it's all about healthcare and like biotech,

652
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: and I mean, I don't know how she does it,

653
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: and you know she takes her job seriously. Obviously I don't,

654
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: but you know, she could basically do it from anywhere.

655
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: But now they're talking about everyone going back into the office,

656
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: so now she's like, I've got to go everywhere I

657
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: could go now before they're requiring us to be back,

658
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: so she can do it from wherever. I don't know.

659
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why people are doing that, but I

660
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: guess there is something to be said, obviously for socializing

661
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: and having a network of people in an office working

662
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: towards the same goal or a common goal. And you know,

663
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: there is a camaraderie in that. You can't deny that,

664
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: but it should be up to the individual if they

665
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,719
Speaker 1: want to be involved in that kind of chicanery, because

666
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't want to be around other people.

667
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: I wonder how that will work with television is the

668
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: way of the future. I mean, I feel like they

669
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: got so good at producing things remotely that there's not

670
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: really Like Drew Barrymore her show, they basically teleport guests

671
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: in so people don't you have to show up anywhere,

672
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: and it looks great. Yeah, it looks like you're sitting

673
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: right next to her. I think I did it, didn't

674
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: I it was zoom yours was a zoom but you

675
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: had the option. It didn't work out. But yeah, it

676
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: seems like there are going to be a lot of

677
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: ways to get people so working together remotely. There is

678
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 1: a platform where they set up an artificial office space

679
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: and you can click on people's rooms like you're walking

680
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: into their office and it will start their camera. Like

681
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: you have to allow for that to happen, but you

682
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: set certain office hours so you know people are there

683
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: working as a team. And you can use this online

684
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: grid too immediately contact people like as if you were

685
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: just walking right through the door. Oh that's so cool,

686
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: they're there. Do that with my bell at the house

687
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: so that you don't have to see her, No, so

688
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: that she doesn't have to see me. Well, she would

689
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: love that, I know. That's what I'm trying to do

690
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: is help her enjoy herself more without me there. She

691
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: sees me and she's just like fuck. So what do

692
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: you think about Ellen showing? Do you think it's time

693
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: just as just as a creative person that like you

694
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 1: hit your mark with Chelsea lately and then you could

695
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 1: not do it anymore. No, no, but I have a

696
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: short I have a very short tolerance attention doing it

697
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: almost twenty years. Yeah, yeah, no, it's time. I mean,

698
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: anytime you end something, then that's the time it should

699
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 1: end well. And you said recently that you would possibly

700
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: be interested in going back into interviewing people. You want

701
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: me to be Ellen's replacement, I would love if you.

702
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: I think that should go to a woman of color,

703
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: quite honestly. Well, I love your interview style and I

704
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: think a lot of people do and miss it. Sweetheart,

705
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 1: you're all over me today. Oh my god, you forget.

706
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: I was a fan first, and sometimes that comes out.

707
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: But now you think that you could do it again,

708
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: you could stumps And I don't know. I don't know.

709
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: I say things and I don't know, and necessarily if

710
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: I've thought things through, I mean, yeah, I would be

711
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: open to a conversation about hosting a TV show again.

712
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: But I know what my limits are, and I know

713
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: what my attention span is, and I'm not going to

714
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: be tied to onto a short, yes short, and I'm

715
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 1: not gonna be tied down to being in a studio

716
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: five days a week like that wouldn't be my cup

717
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: of tea. I don't want to go to through that again.

718
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,280
Speaker 1: And I don't like having a staff of a hundred people.

719
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: So like when I hosted Ellen's show, which it was

720
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: a great time, but that's because it was I walking

721
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: into a well oiled machine. Everything was set up for you.

722
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: It's not building the show. There's no sense of responsibility

723
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: other than the episodes im on, you know, like it

724
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,760
Speaker 1: comes with a whole package, so it is a deeper,

725
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: more thoughtful I would have to really think about that.

726
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: But anyway, that show, specifically, if they're going to keep it,

727
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: should go to a black or Asian or Latino woman.

728
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: You heard it here first, you guys. That out of

729
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: the way, Okay, So we are going to take a

730
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: break right now and gather our emotions and you come

731
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 1: back and we're gonna be fresher, fresh as a daisy.

732
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: That's me. Bye. Today's episode I think is about confidence, right,

733
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: It's it's about keeping confidence, keeping someone's confidence, or it's

734
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: about having confidence. So it's kind of like a twofold episode.

735
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: Well twofold meaning I should say it's not a twofold episode.

736
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I'm talking about, but keeping

737
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: someone's confidence and having someone's confidence, those even are nuanced,

738
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: and then also being confident. And I like the subject

739
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: of discussion because I think it's really contagious when people

740
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 1: understand how to instill their own self confidence and keeping

741
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: someone's confidence. I don't know how I would rate my

742
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: performance on that. I try and keep secrets. I mean,

743
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good about it. I try not to tell

744
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: secrets other people's secrets. Confidence is a subject matter that

745
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: I always love to talk about because I just think

746
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: it's so important and obviously it makes a difference in

747
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: your life because when you are confident, people respect that

748
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: and they understand that, and like, you know, you set

749
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: a different set of parameters for people to deal with you.

750
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: So it's in everybody's best interest to figure out ways

751
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,240
Speaker 1: to kind of, you know, talk yourself up to yourself,

752
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: all right. Our final submission comes oh to Double Duo.

753
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: It is Ashley and Courtney. They write they are not

754
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: on the phone, Dear Chelsea, My girlfriend and I are

755
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: trying to resolve the sexual tension between one of our

756
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,959
Speaker 1: best friends and one of our new friends who also

757
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: happens to be her roommate. Okay, so this is gonna

758
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: be some We're going to pieces together. Maybe I'm going

759
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: to start drawing a picture. Our best friend is afraid

760
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: to tell her of her deep love because she doesn't

761
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: want to ruin their friendship, but we secretly want them

762
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: to be together and truly cannot stand the tension. It's

763
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: slightly complicated because the new friend slash roommate is casually

764
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: sleeping with someone but has been clear that they aren't exclusive,

765
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: and also keeps trying to hold onto our best friend's hand.

766
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: Should we spill the secret during a drunken night to

767
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: get it over with? We need help? Yeah, I totally

768
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: get it out. You guys have to go tell that girl,

769
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: the one that she has a crush on. You have

770
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: to find out is she into it, is she down

771
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: with her? Is she interested in her? And if she is, like,

772
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: let's get a move on. So, as friends, go help

773
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: your one friend out, go to the other girl, the roommate,

774
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: and figure it out. And if she's down, then don't

775
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: get it twisted. So that was easy. That that was

776
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: really in your wheelhouse today. Set hurt sometimes people. I

777
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: think this is how I feel about friendship. I feel like,

778
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: you want to take the liberty to go out of

779
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: your way to help your friends succeed. So all friends

780
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: should be that kind of friend. I know some people

781
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: aren't like that. They're like, oh, I don't want to overstep.

782
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: It's like no, no, no, there's no such thing when

783
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: you're trying to help somebody achieve something like my friend

784
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: and Whistler worked very, very very hard to get me penetrated.

785
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 1: She was like, you will not leave Whistler this winter

786
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: until you get penetrated. And I was like, thank you.

787
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, I really appreciate your efforts on my behalf.

788
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: You know. She she would just to take no for

789
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: an answer, and every guy that she presented, if I

790
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: didn't like him, She's like, Okay, no problem, I'll find

791
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: someone else. I'll find someone else. And then finally she

792
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: did find somebody that I was able to be penetrated

793
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 1: by a few times. So that to me was such

794
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: a display. Talk about the marble jar, right, talk about

795
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 1: putting marbles in the marble jar and saying, oh wow,

796
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: that friend went out of her way for me to

797
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: a degree that I haven't had a friend do that

798
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: for me in a really long time. And I was

799
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: really appreciative of that. So we've talked about the marble

800
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,720
Speaker 1: jar before, but I love it. It's burn A Brown

801
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: wrote about it or spoke about it first. How friendship

802
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: is a marble jar and how people add to the

803
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: marble jar with every act of kindness or love or

804
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: reliability or whatever you know you value in your friendships.

805
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: Every time they do something or you have a great time,

806
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: there's more marbles. And anytime they do something that you

807
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 1: don't like, a marble gets taken out. But if you

808
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: have a great friendship, there are so many marbles in

809
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: the jar that nothing can break that you're never going

810
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: to be low marble's it's like laying a foundation, basically,

811
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 1: And I love it because it's so true and so

812
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: many of my relationships, Like you don't leave a relationship

813
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: when the marble jar is full anyway, that's the marble jar.

814
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: So you know that makes me also want to go

815
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: out of my way for her. But I think she

816
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: has a husband, so it probably won't be penetration, right,

817
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: but I can go out of my way for her

818
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: in other ways. And but that to me is a real,

819
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: real true friend. People like to make things way more

820
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: complicated than they need to be I've realized through some

821
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,720
Speaker 1: of these emissions like that to me seemed very simple.

822
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: You go to and you don't have to be drunk.

823
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: You go to your friends, say this is what's going on,

824
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: just like full transparency, so you can set reasonable expectations

825
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: for yourself. Don't let her go into these things unknowingly,

826
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: you know, interacting when you're aware of a circumstance. And

827
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: also even if it turns into a messy situation. It

828
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: sounds like they're younger, right, probably, Yeah, even if it

829
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: turns into a messier situation like okay, so they hook

830
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: up and then it ends badly, that's what your twenties are.

831
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,720
Speaker 1: Four fucked living arrangements. I mean, I've supped with roommates

832
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: before and it hasn't ended well, Like it's all kind

833
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 1: of part of it. So it's not like there's huge steaks.

834
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: I guess apartments do sound like the huge steaks. But

835
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: I would say that's no fun. It's fun to you know, experiment,

836
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: especially with your roommates, and yeah, go for it. Well

837
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: that's convenience right there. Yeah, that is convenience because you

838
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: imagine in a success story like the Good if it

839
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,439
Speaker 1: doesn't work out, that sucks. But if it does work out,

840
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Yeah, you can send them back to their

841
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: room after getting penetrated. That seems nice. The moral of

842
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: the episode is that everybody needs to tell themselves something

843
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: good about yourselves every fucking morning when you wake up,

844
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: and then keep repeating that. If you like your eyelashes,

845
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: start there. If you like your hair, your ears, your

846
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: boobs or your arm, whatever it is, your personality. I said,

847
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: all physical things, that's terrible. I mean, if you like

848
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: your ability to remember name, that's a good one. Things

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Speaker 1: that people like, If you have an ability to make

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Speaker 1: people laugh, right, or if you are somebody who is

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Speaker 1: really really loyal, you know, focus on that. Just everybody

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Speaker 1: needs to remember that they're valuable and that they're unique,

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Speaker 1: and that there is no one else on this earth

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Speaker 1: that is exactly like you. So bring it. And that's

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Speaker 1: all I have to say about that. Okay, I've made

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Speaker 1: my opinions and declarations loud clear, and I'm sick of them.

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Speaker 1: As our season finale wraps up today, in this episode,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling large amounts of gratitude for this unexpected podcast

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Speaker 1: for me, because I didn't really set out for it

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Speaker 1: to be serious. As serious as it is, I hope

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Speaker 1: that it's funny to all of you people as well,

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Speaker 1: because I do want to make you laugh. But I

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00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: thought it would be more funny and less serious, and

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Speaker 1: it's become more serious. So I am really like pleasantly

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Speaker 1: surprised by that and not disappointed at all. It's like

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Speaker 1: totally unexpected for me to go in that direction. And

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Speaker 1: I just love the challenge and I love really having

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Speaker 1: this connection with people because I really have seen so

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Speaker 1: many people just kind of trust me, and I want

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Speaker 1: you to know, like I do have your back, That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm doing I And I'm so grateful that people

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Speaker 1: are taking our advice and also doubling back with us

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Speaker 1: to recheck in is so meaningful because we have a

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Speaker 1: measurable stick of progress. And also for all of our callers,

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Speaker 1: I just want to remind you that if you've called

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Speaker 1: in and we've helped you, please follow up with us.

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Speaker 1: I love to hear follow up calls. I love to

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Speaker 1: hear progress reports, see how you're doing. If you guys

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Speaker 1: don't remember, Shane was one of our follow up callers

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Speaker 1: who called back who had taken a week off of

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Speaker 1: smoking or a month off of smoking pot with me.

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Speaker 1: We both did it together, and then he came out

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Speaker 1: to his family as trans and his whole life is

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Speaker 1: different now. So we want to hear from you about

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Speaker 1: the progress that you've made. And when I said keep

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Speaker 1: in touch, I mean in it. So we will be

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Speaker 1: coming right back with season two. We will not leave

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Speaker 1: you hanging. We will be dropping little nuggets for you,

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Speaker 1: so look out for them please. And Brandon is moving

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Speaker 1: on to a new job and so he will no

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Speaker 1: longer be with us, but I want to thank him

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Speaker 1: very much for helping to get this podcast off the

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Speaker 1: ground and starting it with such a bang. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to have a variety of different co hosts come in,

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Speaker 1: people who are experts in certain fields and friends of mine,

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Speaker 1: and I look forward to keeping this podcast going. Um

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Speaker 1: loving it you guys, So thank you so much to

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Speaker 1: all of our listeners. And I hope you keep listening

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Speaker 1: and that you spread the word and you spread the

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Speaker 1: good vibes and that we all know that everybody's always

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Speaker 1: dealing with something, so just try not to be an asshole. Goodbye,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. If you want any assistance with

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Speaker 1: your partner, your best friend, really anything you can write into.

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Speaker 1: Dear a Chelsea Project at gmail dot com. Dear Chelsea

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Speaker 1: Project at gmail dot com. Also, I am on tour.

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Speaker 1: You can buy tickets a ticket Master for my shows

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Speaker 1: and I can't fucking wait. It's called vaccinated and a horny,

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Speaker 1: So make sure that you bring your vaccinations and your

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Speaker 1: horny nows and then keep them to yourself, please,