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Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want another child? Am I the a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do it? No throw away revenge twelve Days. I

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Speaker 1: twenty nine female had no interest in getting married after

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Speaker 3: Or just finish the story.

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Speaker 4: Let's finish the story.

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Speaker 1: The idea of permanently tying myself to someone sounded like

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Speaker 1: a terrifying idea. My husband, forty male, however, convinced me otherwise. Admittedly,

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Speaker 1: we got married for insurance reasons. He is a child

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Speaker 1: order to provide insurance for the child. Well. He wanted

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Speaker 1: to be supportive of his new life. Change. We had

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Speaker 1: discussed marriage in the past on many occasions, mostly as

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Speaker 2: We thought it would be so funny we got married,

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Speaker 1: Mostly as a joke, but we would refer to each

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Speaker 4: Wanted a baby, So they're gonna have a baby together.

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Speaker 1: They could have a baby. Your hair is inside, looks

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Speaker 1: This had been brought up many times by me and

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Speaker 1: get up a baby. Oh my god, there was proof. Ope,

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Speaker 2: Like they got it on camera. Yeah, that's kind of wild.

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Speaker 1: me if I gave him the ultimatum of divorce, but

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Speaker 1: I would never want to do it to an ultimatums.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, but that's such a I feel like

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Speaker 2: that will make it so you are Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: I'm reading my story. I have been dethroned, continuity, Riley,

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Speaker 3: You did this. I want you to know that I.

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Speaker 1: Did nothing, but I feel tricked. I'm gone. I'm lost.

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Speaker 2: Then don't do it ultimate him to have a kid.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have said, They're never gonna do that. They

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. They haven't done that.

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Speaker 1: They have not done that.

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Speaker 4: So basically she wants a that's happening, so basically there

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Speaker 4: What it is you are a parent, but you could

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that's what she wants to do.

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Speaker 1: if you managed to read that the whole way through.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, I know, I think it's easy.

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Speaker 4: I think it's easy.

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Speaker 2: It's literally do you love your husband more? Or do

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Speaker 1: That she wants to have a child? Like, uh wait,

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Speaker 2: With too bad?

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Speaker 1: I think I think I think they're both. I don't

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Speaker 2: Wrong for that. But she shouldn't she should It's a

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Speaker 2: hard decision. I feel like she hasn't pressured him, she

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Speaker 2: want to pressure him like some rap boy. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I know, she said, like, oh, I feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean I think it. I think it

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Speaker 2: it's like, hey, like I really do want like this

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Speaker 2: like it's just like, will that feeling of wanting a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm also kind of curious on his end, Like

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Speaker 4: but it already has one.

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Speaker 1: He has one child.

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Speaker 4: It's interesting. I mean maybe it's like the load. He

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Speaker 2: To that again again.

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Speaker 4: But like I don't know. I just I would be

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Speaker 4: like curious to have a conversation with him about like, well, I.

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Speaker 1: Think that's what she's trying to do. I think she'd

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Speaker 1: bring that. Like my interpretation is less, come on, have

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Speaker 1: why would you have a kid. It's more like like what,

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Speaker 1: let's talk about the reasons why you're not down for

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Speaker 1: But I don't think there are any ables.

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Speaker 2: Here, And she says she will resent him if he stays.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we're kind of getting that here, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like we're getting we're getting to the

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Speaker 4: The thing that's hard is like what if.

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Speaker 2: She says, like, Hey, I've realized that having a child

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Speaker 2: it sounds like this is something that you're not ready

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Speaker 2: to do. So I feel like, if this is not

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Speaker 2: something that you want, I have to leave. It's not

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Speaker 2: whatever ultimatum, but it kind of is.

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Speaker 1: However, she said before that if she says she wants

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Speaker 1: that either. Does she has a Yeah, she said, if

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Speaker 1: I bring up divorce, he'll say that he'll have a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like she said, she said that she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: Doesn't want to force him she wants a kid.

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Speaker 4: If he wants to yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, who would

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Speaker 4: want who what sane person would want to force their

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is like should she should she give

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Speaker 2: should she just divorce him then in that case? Or

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Speaker 2: should she give him the chance to be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna leave if.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well you know what, here we go. She says

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Speaker 4: exactly that. She's like, I want to have a I

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Speaker 4: want to have a kid with you, but I would

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Speaker 4: never want you to have a kid just so.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't the relationship. Yeah, that's not what I want

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Speaker 2: at all, So please don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but really hard, Like I know it sounds weird

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Speaker 4: make a lot of sense. Like, don't do it just

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Speaker 4: because like I'm like there's like a quote unquote threat

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Speaker 4: of divorce, but like sit with yourself, like and ask yourself, like, hey,

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Speaker 4: could I be open to going through this experience again,

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Speaker 4: especially with the woman I love having another kid for

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Speaker 4: my child, Like, sit down and see if that's something

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Speaker 4: that you could, you know, be good with and maybe brome,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Yeah right, I feel like I feel

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Speaker 4: like that makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Bethany says, it feels like a bait and switch, and

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Speaker 2: I and what I believe you're referring to, and Bethany

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Speaker 2: correct me if I'm wrong here, But it's like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm down to have kids with you, and then once

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Speaker 2: you're into relationship being like, oh, I'm not actually down anymore. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like like if he were to do that, it's kind

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Speaker 2: of what op he did because Opie's husband suggested that

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Speaker 2: he would be down to have a kid with her,

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Speaker 2: and then now he's like, not as down, he's taking it,

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Speaker 2: he's taking it back. Is that a Is that a

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Speaker 2: real thing? Like a bait and switch where people are

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Speaker 2: like pretend they want to have kids and then they don't.

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Speaker 4: I mean, sure it's happened.

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Speaker 5: Someone has like priorities in relationship and they're like, I

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Speaker 5: really want you, want to be with you. They'll probably

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Speaker 5: lie until they get it, and then they'll be like, hey,

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Speaker 5: I actually never wanted to have kids.

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Speaker 4: They're so short sighted and like blinded by their want

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Speaker 4: to be with that person, like oh, yeah, I want kids,

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Speaker 4: and then they're like yeah, they don't think. They're not

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Speaker 4: thinking about the that's all. It's a future me problem.

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Speaker 4: I don't want kids.

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Speaker 5: Like if I didn't want to have kids, but I

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Speaker 5: really wanted to be with you, Sam, and you wanted

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Speaker 5: to have ten kids, I would be like, yeah, I

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Speaker 5: want ten kids, but when it's time to be baby making,

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Speaker 5: I'd be like kids.

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Speaker 2: When the rubber meets the road, they'll choose rubber.

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Speaker 4: Stop it. Thank you for the assist there, mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: But that's the end of that story.

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Speaker 2: That's it. That's all she wrote.

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Speaker 1: And I will give John.

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Speaker 4: Sam all right, I get it. You know you want

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Speaker 4: to you want to hit me with a little little sippy,

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Speaker 4: A little sippy lie a drink has been good, the drink,

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Speaker 4: the drink.

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Speaker 1: Stores near you.

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Speaker 2: The bait and switch happens a lot. I imagine it

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Speaker 2: happens more with like men saying that than women want

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Speaker 2: to I want to have kids.

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Speaker 4: Or even or even like like you can talk about

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Speaker 4: like oh yeah, kids are amazing.

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Speaker 2: I love hanging with kids.

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Speaker 4: Like you give off the impression of your like like

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Speaker 4: you know, it's kind of like being like the good guy.

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Speaker 4: And then you're like, oh I don't want kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bo, are you getting the light?

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Speaker 4: I was, Yeah, are you how you I just feel

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Speaker 4: like I'm like illuminated. Right, it is pretty bright. It's

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Speaker 4: the floor right there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are getting illuminated.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it's pretty strong actually.

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Speaker 2: But you do like you do, look Majestic Sophia that

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Speaker 2: he did actually help Majestic.

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Speaker 4: Use the bag over that, and then it'll be yeah,

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Speaker 4: there you go.

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Speaker 2: But no, no, no, no no, put it literally right

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Speaker 2: where it was, right on the on the light spot

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Speaker 2: on the spot of light.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: He's doing this on purpose. There we go, Yeah, are

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Speaker 4: we not? Yeah, that stops the light.

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Speaker 2: Right, you can actually move it over, says I want

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Speaker 2: three kids, but I will only have two because my

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Speaker 2: future step daughter will be that.

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Speaker 4: Actually it reflects the light back on her now because

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Speaker 4: it's a shiny object.

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Speaker 2: There we go. There, Probably.

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Speaker 4: There was like a light bouncing off the hardwood floor.

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Speaker 4: So then we put like the cloth that like dissipated it.

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Speaker 4: But then he put his shiny plastic laptop shined back again. Uh, guys,

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Speaker 4: do we have a certain real thing we need to spin?

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Speaker 1: Right, that's what we're waiting for. I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: It puts the memes one means all the wheels spins

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Speaker 2: double Jeopardy, but I don't have any double jeopardies.

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Speaker 1: Double jeopardy is fun because double jeopardy is questions about.

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Speaker 2: You about us? What's that?

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Speaker 4: Wasn't the Google or something? No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's like so this I've made up

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Speaker 1: this idea where originally it was for Riley and I

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Speaker 1: if we were producing. Oh god, you guys have to

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Speaker 1: So Sam would answer questions about Riley, John, you would

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Speaker 1: answer questions about me. Uh and you know, if, however,

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Speaker 1: money you get right?

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Speaker 2: Oh, so it would be like Riley would be like Sam,

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Speaker 2: what's my favorite color?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Sam, what's my birthday?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So about questions about me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, great?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All right, sweet, all right we do we buzz.

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Speaker 1: Buzz, buzz buzz.

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, hello everyone, welcome to Double Jeopardy

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Speaker 5: about questions about your own producer big protein.

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Speaker 3: No, everyone, what is the name of the first girl

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Speaker 3: I kissed?

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Speaker 2: Buzz? I don't know Elena?

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Speaker 4: No Charlotte? No?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, we cand.

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Speaker 5: Docs they don't know him. But John, you have a

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Speaker 5: family member that is related has the same name as

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Speaker 5: this question?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Lauren, Yeah, I hesitated. I should have buzz board for Okay,

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Speaker 4: all right, we got one together. How many brothers do

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Speaker 4: I have?

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Speaker 2: But three?

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Speaker 3: Yes, that is correct.

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Speaker 2: I only know name, though I don't. You have never

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Speaker 2: talked about you talk about the younger extra points. We

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Speaker 2: get all the one of these there are, writer and

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Speaker 2: say I stop.

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Speaker 1: I literally said one of the sits an R.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was Riley. Congratulations, All right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, come back whenever. What is the name of the

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Speaker 3: tool when you chomp would.

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Speaker 2: Buzz saw mill?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Uh, acts close, buzz wait, I said, buzz battle, buzz

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Speaker 2: hatchet close.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's there's a it's a technical name

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Speaker 3: of the acts.

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Speaker 2: Uh buzz woodsaw No that like whenever.

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Speaker 3: Upwould like that?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 3: Anyone else know close not acts.

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Speaker 2: Buzz hatchets ing, No, it's not a blade. Oh man,

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Speaker 2: bit that is closed.

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Speaker 4: Hatchet split, not a hatchet split, buzz split split splitters

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Speaker 4: tell us split someone else knows in the in the chat,

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Speaker 4: hey sleep plus, that's it going going to go devil.

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Speaker 4: That's one of those Southern names. That's what it's like,

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Speaker 4: the legal name for it. That's like that's like when

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Speaker 4: it's raining, the devil's beating his wife or something. That's

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Speaker 4: like one of those Southern phrases where it's like, oh, yeah, yeah,

447
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 4: that hatch over there, the gold devil.

448
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 2: We use it to say, go devil, get away.

449
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 4: That does sound like that.

450
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: Of it, like something like that.

451
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 3: All right, all right, I'm trying to think of like, yeah,

452
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:17,199
Speaker 3: where are we at right now?

453
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 2: Two? You have? You got three?

454
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: What did you get? Three?

455
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 2: Four? I definitely have two?

456
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 3: You got two? John has three because he got my

457
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 3: brother's names, right.

458
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 1: Oh you got extra ones?

459
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 2: That was the devil jeopardy.

460
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, the three two zero zero? You have no idea?

461
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 2: Who I am?

462
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 5: I'm just buzzing it later, Oh, Sophia, here we go.

463
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 5: H what play have I been in within the last

464
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 5: five years?

465
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 2: Oh?

466
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 4: Dog, go for it, go for it.

467
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: You don't know, all right, John? Oh my gosh, you've

468
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: definitely told us.

469
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 1: You definitely told us. Is so bad?

470
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: I do know.

471
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 1: I just can't remember.

472
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 2: Macbeth, nozz Greece.

473
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: No musical.

474
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: It was not a musical, but people do have musicals

475
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 3: of it.

476
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 4: She sh.

477
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 2: Buzz The Book of Mormon, No, Captain Hook, you're a crook.

478
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 2: It has women in it. I was little woman.

479
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 1: No, that's my bad.

480
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: Light is working for you.

481
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 3: Okay, one more question? Wait, what do you have Sam,

482
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 3: I don't know anything.

483
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 2: I have three.

484
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 6: I'm tied with John three yea three three? All right,

485
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 6: the last one, the last one. Oh what was my job?

486
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 5: My not my freelancing. It was the job I had

487
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 5: before whenever I met you guys. Uh, social he's doing it?

488
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 5: Uh oh yeah, well go ahead, no, no, say social.

489
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 4: Media like editing in turn for a conspiracy theorist person

490
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 4: and a gun company.

491
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 2: Yeah that's right, that's right. Yeah, that was a lot

492
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 2: of information. I wouldn't have got the gun company. Yeah,

493
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 2: you get that one.

494
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: In general. Riley is one of my best friends. I

495
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: just don't know.

496
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 2: John wins Congress John?

497
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: Wow?

498
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 2: But who wins Riley?

499
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 4: Jeopardy? You have zero?

500
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, do be fair. I did buzz in

501
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: on most of them. I just didn't get to answer that.

502
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: Anyone.

503
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 4: Something means answers, you did answer buzz means nothing.

504
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: And some of them I didn't know the answers. I

505
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: just didn't buzz in as quick.

506
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: Like a story like I don't no, I don't know

507
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: about that. I don't know about that. But you know

508
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 2: what I do know?

509
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 7: What?

510
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 2: Oh? Wait, is it a package? We open up a package?

511
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: In between, we should open a package.

512
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 5: In between the next door someone opening a package and

513
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 5: someone read these vine Graffo.

514
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 2: Thanks to the five bucks super chat greetings when Queen

515
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: team on what's ftwu were the wind? Oh for the

516
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: wind of my immager of will understand? Check your WiFi.

517
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 2: Also protagonist is Jean Luis Scout Fitch. So Scout is

518
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 2: a nickname.

519
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 4: Let's go who cares?

520
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: Video graffo, Why are you so? Are you so obsessed

521
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 2: with because it's a nickname. You guys were like, you're

522
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 2: shoots a full name. It's a nickname. It's a full name. Anyway,

523
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 2: Roxy Rhapsody, thanks for the two bucks to celebrate finally

524
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 2: seeing your faces after a year of only listening to Spotify.

525
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 2: Hail the Worm, Queen.

526
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 4: Welcome to stream from the audio. That's gonna be wild.

527
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 2: It would be crazy to go from YouTube the audio

528
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 2: and Bethany Sam's spirit animal is a pigeon. Yeah it

529
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: is Bethany, dude.

530
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 5: Whenever I listen to you guys just on audio, I

531
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 5: thought your face was John's and his face was Sam's.

532
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 2: Oh based off your voices? Oh why, I don't know.

533
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 5: I just thought that the guy with the long hair

534
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 5: has a voice like yours, and the guy with the

535
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 5: short hair is a voice like John's.

536
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: Yes, that makes sense. And then Eric, thanks for the

537
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 2: hoigbook tip. I am the total opposite. When I was younger,

538
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 2: I said I didn't want kids, and my wife also

539
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: said she never wanted kids. But since we've been there,

540
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: k one, I wanted to have kids with more than her. Okay,

541
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 2: what do we got here? All right?

542
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 4: So we have character journal. Okay, we have character journal

543
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 4: to Return of the Dragon. We have pop culture word search,

544
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 4: and we have portraits, the coloring book.

545
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: And we got these are D and D books.

546
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: Amazing, that makes sense. And we do have a little

547
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 4: note here for the worm queen long may she rain.

548
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 4: Love your segment. Sophia and Riley, thanks for all the laughs.

549
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 4: I designed books for Amazon kop and one of them

550
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 4: is a character journal for D n D.

551
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 2: There we go.

552
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 4: I included two one for you and Riley. Maybe you

553
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 4: can teach him how to play cheers.

554
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. These are the character journals. They're

555
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: very cool. This one has like the character sheets, like

556
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: the name, race, special abilities, and then there's spell sheets,

557
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: which is amazing because I always have like so many spells.

558
00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: Do you invent spells? Okay, we haven't done a game

559
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: so via.

560
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 7: No.

561
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: Every time I bring up, You're like, we're doing that

562
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: in the summer. When did I say that I've been

563
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: planning it?

564
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 2: Wow?

565
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 5: I And that's another one, Well, yeah, you can just

566
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 5: want to play. My girlfriend likes characters D and D.

567
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: You're thank you so much. I love these.

568
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: Shout out to you.

569
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 4: And shadow bubbles for the five bucks. Scout law Willis

570
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 4: is a thing Bruce Willis.

571
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 2: Oh. Oh, Bruce Willis's daughter is named Scout.

572
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 4: Oh that's boom. Oh. People would actually love a D

573
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 4: and D stream.

574
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: That's true, baby, it's a it's a pop culture word search.

575
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: And I opened up. The first one I opened up

576
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: to was was Shadow, Shadow and Bone, which is a

577
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 1: Netflix sery that I love.

578
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 3: That's awesome, we love that.

579
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 4: I've watched Shadow and Bone.

580
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is actually watched.

581
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 4: I did Netflix?

582
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 3: Focus on the next story?

583
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: Sing appreciate also new like goal eleven, like let's go,

584
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: let's go, let's go. Are we gonna get to three hours?

585
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 4: We're going to see maybe.

586
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: Can you stow up on the chat? Oh? Brilliant, very

587
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: good idea?

588
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 3: All right, let's go. Let's hear what who's reading? Sofia?

589
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: That's you?

590
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: I just read?

591
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: Who did just read?

592
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 2: I think it was so?

593
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 4: It's probably me?

594
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,959
Speaker 2: Right you John that it's probably What do we got,

595
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: big boy?

596
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: What are we reading?

597
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 4: Four ninety s four?

598
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 2: Do you want more? Yes? I do? So here's the story?

599
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 2: Ai yo? Yeah? Yeah, yoh, okay, there we go.

600
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: Reacting?

601
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 4: Okay, maybe we can pull that out for the people.

602
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 4: Am I overreacting? Yeah? Actually, could you throw that in

603
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 4: there real quick? My guy, I've never seen that before.

604
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 2: Is that a and somewhat? Yeah? Okay, well, there you go.

605
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 4: I'm educated?

606
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: Now?

607
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 2: Am I overreacting? If I refuse to let my husband

608
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 2: drive anymore? Well?

609
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 4: This comes from a stage of time sixty four, who says, I,

610
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 4: thirty three female, have been teaching my husband, thirty five male,

611
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 4: how to drive. I know it sounds a bit odd,

612
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 4: but he just never had anyone in his life teach him,

613
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 4: and he's never had a license. He does have his permit.

614
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 4: We work nice together. We've been following the routine of

615
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 4: me driving us to work and him driving us home.

616
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 4: It's been a good way for him to learn, and

617
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 4: I thought he was improving until yesterday.

618
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: He was driving us home.

619
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 4: There was some emergency services with police on our roots.

620
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 4: A policeman stepped into the road to stop us. My

621
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 4: husband slowed down but showed no signs of stopping. I

622
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 4: had to yell stop stop at him before he finally

623
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 4: came to a stop. That would be terrifying. You're literally

624
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 4: like bolting towards like a fucking policeman and he's just like, halt, sir,

625
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 4: and then your partner's just like the do the dude, Okay.

626
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, one hundred percent. However, this is peak dad

627
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: teaching their kid how to drive. That is no, yeah,

628
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: this is this is this is peak my dad teaching

629
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: me how to drive and being like there's red Lyon's

630
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: yelling at me. That's what this is. And I feel

631
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: like she's like, he's an adult man, but he's never

632
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: learned that a drive.

633
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's never had the moment of just your stream dad, Yeah,

634
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 2: while driving.

635
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: To like switch seats and being like silent for the

636
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: rest of the drive.

637
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 4: The question is, though, how far, because it's how close

638
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 4: was he to the policeman, Because if he's twenty feet

639
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 4: away going like fifty miles an hour, you should definitely scream.

640
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: No, I'm not saying that she's not right to scream.

641
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that this is how teaching someone how

642
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: to drive goes.

643
00:31:59,200 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: This is true.

644
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: There is screaming.

645
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 4: There is the unfortunate nature of the beast. It is

646
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 4: the nature of the beast. At home, we were talking

647
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 4: about these events. When I brought up the policeman in

648
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 4: the road. He sounded so nonchalant and said he couldn't

649
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 4: see that guy. He couldn't see what that guy was doing,

650
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 4: or even if he was a copper not he does

651
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 4: wear glasses and is long overdue for a new prescription.

652
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 4: I replied that it doesn't matter who it was or

653
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 4: what they were doing. If you could see a person

654
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 4: in the road, he needs to stop.

655
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: That is true.

656
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: Guys, take heed, nah, I say, you keep going, you

657
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: know what.

658
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 4: Paters will always try to stop you, but you know

659
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 4: you do you put the pedal to the metal and

660
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 4: go right through.

661
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 2: Guys, Sam, don't take Sam's advice. Guy, that is not

662
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 2: a golden rule. Slam into that truck in front of you.

663
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: You know what, the truck.

664
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 4: Truck is your goal, right, and don't would stop, especially

665
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 4: trucks or humans.

666
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: Standing on the road. He said, she heard a horrific

667
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: story about a truck.

668
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 4: That does not sound fun.

669
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, the truck is the goals and you need to

670
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 2: achieve them.

671
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 4: It's a good metaphor. It's a good metaphor. He my

672
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 4: husband needs to react better. It really hit me later

673
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 4: that if I hadn't screamed, something far worse could have happened.

674
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 4: I felt so sick and horrified with him and just

675
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 4: how nonchalant he was. I told him later I refuse

676
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 4: to let him drive anymore. I don't feel like I

677
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 4: can teach him anymore, and he needs to find himself

678
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 4: a driving teacher or enroll in driver's education. But part

679
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 4: of me is wondering if maybe I am overreacting. What

680
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 4: do you think?

681
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: Credit?

682
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 4: And there is an edit with a bunch of stuff

683
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 4: beneath it. But we have to answer Opie's question and

684
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 4: see if Opie is overreacting. Stam Sophia, everyone in the chat.

685
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 4: I want to see what you guys think.

686
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: But where did our chat go? Chutt? Where are you?

687
00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 4: But yeah, what do you guys think?

688
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 2: Well? I mean, I don't know. I think I think, Oh,

689
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 2: whoa geez, Chad just came on I think how many

690
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: we should be we should be patient with this this this.

691
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I I don't think she has to teach

692
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: him how to drive. She could be like, maybe I'm

693
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: not equipped. However, I I don't think. I think he's learning.

694
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: He's currently a really bad driver, but he is learning

695
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: how to drive. Yeah, you are not the a hole

696
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: for uh screaming at him to stop. Sometimes you need

697
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,720
Speaker 1: to scream at someone to stop when they're barreling towards

698
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: a person. Yeah, but I think he's learning how to drive.

699
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 2: Riley once screamed at me to stop. Yep, I didn't

700
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 2: and we didn't hit.

701
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 4: A car, but a car hit us.

702
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 3: It's true.

703
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: That is true.

704
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 4: This is when we got hit twice going to Burbank.

705
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 4: That's right.

706
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: I am.

707
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 4: Maybe it's he's or maybe op is not the a

708
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 4: hole for suggesting it, but like the way it suggested,

709
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 4: like maybe say, like if was like, hey, honestly, this

710
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 4: might be like putting some stressors on our relationship that

711
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 4: like don't need to be there. Maybe it would be

712
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 4: best to have like a professional like driving instructor come in.

713
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: And also it's like I feel like the professional like

714
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: better to kill the professional driving instructor than Neil facts Bro. Yeah, yeah, I.

715
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: Think honestly, I think it's totally fair if if she's like,

716
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: I can't teach him, because some people just can't teach

717
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: people to drive.

718
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 2: It's also the professional driving instructor has pedals.

719
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, pedals.

720
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they pedals.

721
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: One time when I yeah, when I had my driving

722
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: instructor teach me, he has this little pedals and I

723
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: almost turned into oncoming.

724
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: Driving You get to use the pedals, Yeah, only I'm like.

725
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: The first time. That's what I'm saying. I don't think.

726
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 1: I don't think he's like an idiot for you know,

727
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 1: not stopping. I think he's just a really bad driver.

728
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: Obviously stop. But like when you are learning at a drive,

729
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: you're not as aware as longtime drivers. This is true,

730
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: and I think people are not giving him as much

731
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: credit for being a new driver because he's Yeah.

732
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 2: But you don't have to, like it's an it's a

733
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 2: nice thing to do to teach your Yeah, but don't

734
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 2: you don't have to. But to stop teaching maybe would

735
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: be a little hurtful. But it's not like her. It's

736
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: not shelys an a hole. But I just can imagine

737
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 2: it being hurtful to the.

738
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 4: Husband, insummation, sacrifice, the driving instructory sacrifice, driving and sacrifice,

739
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 4: the driving instructor.

740
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: Every Yeah, I think getting a driving instructor is good

741
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 1: idea anyway, Yeah, like get.

742
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 2: More professional like they are. They are literally professional help. Yeah,

743
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and blonde is brunette. Thanks for the ten

744
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: bucks super chat. Maybe I broke the chat by coming back.

745
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: We're glad you're back.

746
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 4: We're glad, and guys, you're gonna be really glad. You

747
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 4: want to know why there's something Wow, Sophia, Sophia, that

748
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 4: was rude, Sophia, that.

749
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: There's an edit? I know, right, Yeah, yes, I'm excited.

750
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 4: No, there's been a lot of comments, more than what

751
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 4: I was expecting. I'll address a lot of the most

752
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 4: common questions, the thoughts.

753
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 2: One.

754
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 4: My husband wears glasses and was diagnosed with diabetes this year.

755
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 4: His last I check up was in twenty eighteen. We

756
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 4: we both diabetes affect your eyesight?

757
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it can actually is it can it can

758
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: cause blindness?

759
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

760
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: Yes, family, he is blind.

761
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 4: Yeah that's true.

762
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: He is blind.

763
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 4: Yeah. We both promise ourselves we were going to get

764
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: our eyes checked this year. He has a tendency to

765
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 4: keep what bothers him hidden, which includes body pain or

766
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 4: body issues. I had absolutely no idea his eyesight was

767
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 4: getting blurry, as he never communicated that. If I had known,

768
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 4: I never would have let him drive in the first place.

769
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 4: That actually is kind of another good point. Like if

770
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 4: his vision, even with glasses is not great where it needs.

771
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: To be, well, that's just like a thing. Yeah, that's

772
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: like a you have to have correctively.

773
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: Broa Yeah, man's driving blind.

774
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: Yeah he's like, Yeah, I'm for sure saw the person

775
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: you're talking about.

776
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm just feeling it out that big fuzzy thing.

777
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: We both know that.

778
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, of course I see that. One blind guy

779
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: that echo locates he can like ride his bike.

780
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 4: That's fire.

781
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, he goes and he can like and he can

782
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: see everything around him.

783
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like there's a good amount

784
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 4: of people who echo locate. What one person that you

785
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 4: know the blind community? They blind people don't echo locate,

786
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 4: Like I accept a few of them. I'm not like

787
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 4: all of them, but like, how many blind people do

788
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 4: you know that echo located? I know you're a blind Wow,

789
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 4: says a lot. I'm able to bro What can I

790
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 4: say now? He has an eye exam next month. My

791
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 4: husband could see that a person was in the road.

792
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 4: He admitted that he admitted it. Or hey, I totally

793
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 4: saw that person. Yeaheah, I totally saw it, saw it.

794
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 4: Saw Challengers to love that movie. His whole defense was

795
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 4: he couldn't tell if the person was a cop or not,

796
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 4: or even what they were doing.

797
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 2: It's still a person in the road.

798
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 1: He's like, if they were a cop, I definitely would.

799
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's freaky go. I told him it doesn't matter

800
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 2: if a person is on the road, you stop. Yes.

801
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 4: He must have finally come to a stop about six

802
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 4: feet away from the cop. Ooh, that's pretty close, which

803
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 4: felt pretty close to me. That that's closed, that's that's clothes.

804
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 4: My husband has held his permit for a couple of

805
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 4: years now, more than that, as it's been an on

806
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 4: and off issue where he lets where, he lets it

807
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 4: expire and then has to do the written test again.

808
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 4: I've been showing him how to drive since at least

809
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 4: twenty nineteen. It has been a struggle with working through

810
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 4: his personal fears and anxiety about driving. It's all purely

811
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 4: inexperienced driver fears and not due to something heavier, which

812
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 4: I think is again another point in the like take

813
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 4: a driving course column, many of you commented that I'm

814
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 4: not fit to be a teacher.

815
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,280
Speaker 2: I agree, damn dang.

816
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 4: But when we first started living together, we didn't have

817
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 4: a lot of income. We could barely make rent and eat.

818
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 4: Driver's education was not something we had money for. This

819
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 4: is a fair point, so I started showing him some

820
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:15,919
Speaker 4: basic driving lessons. However, our financial situation changed over the years.

821
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 4: After he failed his last driving test, I tried to

822
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 4: encourage him to enroll in driver's education that he could

823
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 4: learn from someone who can teach and get a cut

824
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 4: off of our and get a cut on our insurance premium.

825
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 4: He refused. After yesterday's events, I told him point blank,

826
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 4: I am not teaching him anymore and he needs to

827
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 4: find himself a private teacher.

828
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,240
Speaker 2: There actually was a program in Florida.

829
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 4: This might be just for like students and kids, but

830
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 4: there was free Driver's ED through the school if you

831
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 4: signed up like it's like.

832
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 2: First come for service. That's pretty nice type situation.

833
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 4: So I got free Driver's ED and I got to

834
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 4: take my driver's license test. In the course, while driving

835
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 4: to Duncan Donuts, I got my license by driving to Duncan.

836
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: Dut Get Donuts too.

837
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 4: That's right.

838
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: I did add one little thing that I just thought

839
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: of in my noggin. A couple of comments were saying

840
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: it's common sense to stop, which I think it's true. However, again,

841
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: as new drivers, you do not have that common sense.

842
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: You do not have the knowledge of how fast you

843
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: need to stop and how how much distance.

844
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true.

845
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: Stop. I think he is a horrible driver, but he

846
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: is new. That's my only I don't think anyone's a

847
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: hill here.

848
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 4: Personally, I don't think anyone's yah. I think you're right.

849
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 4: I think you're right unless the unless the husband is like,

850
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 4: unless the.

851
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: Husband's like I hate people and.

852
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 4: I want to run the moment, I was gonna say,

853
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 4: unless the husband is like, no, you have to teach me.

854
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would also Yet no one's yet.

855
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 4: Yes, but hey, story is always developed.

856
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 2: Yes, we got more story to go. That's true.

857
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 4: Speaking of which, another point, me laying into him, as

858
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,879
Speaker 4: I put it in a comment, was telling me him.

859
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 4: He really was telling him. He really scared me, and

860
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 4: my trust in him behind the wheel is gone. The

861
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: way he acted like he just didn't care, unnerved me.

862
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 4: I got my feelings out, which included frustration I've spent

863
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 4: years trying to help him drive and him not adhering

864
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 4: to some basic common sense did anger me. I'll admit

865
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 4: I get my frustration out in an aggressive way with

866
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 4: whips and handcuffs. Oh mommy, drive mommy. Contrary to one comment,

867
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 4: my husband is not in an abusive marriage. Another point

868
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 4: my question was am I overreacting by refusing to let

869
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 4: my husband drive anymore? Not? Did I overreact when I

870
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 4: yelled at him to stop before he hit a cop?

871
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 4: A lot of you are hung up on that detail.

872
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: And then finally, this happened in the early morning when

873
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 4: the sun was it wasn't dark, It wasn't dark. That

874
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 4: is a good context.

875
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: Of people in the chat to put their worst experiences

876
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 1: teaching someone to drive.

877
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 2: Or worst experience is learning how to drive. But I

878
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 2: would love to hear.

879
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: Both because I feel like I'm right.

880
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 2: Do you feel that you are right?

881
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm right.

882
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 2: I feel like driving experiences will We're pretty good.

883
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: I think mine were pretty good. I think I just

884
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: had a couple of moments in the very car I've

885
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: never had. I've never hit any.

886
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 2: Literally, are okay, you've hit a tree?

887
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: I hit? Okay, I didn't know. I did not hit

888
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: the tree I hit. I didn't hit the tree. The

889
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: curb was like raised because it.

890
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: Was not dude, you hit it. You hit a tree.

891
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: I looked at the I literally got out of the

892
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: car to check and it was the tree.

893
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: So okay, you're saying the curb is that high.

894
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: Yes, the curb is not that I explain really, thank you.

895
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: I got out of the car because I heard I

896
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: heard me hit something. The way that the sidewalk was positioned.

897
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: The tree the roots have like gone under the sidewalk

898
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: and lifted it, so the sidewalk was broken and had

899
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 1: raised up, and that's what I hit.

900
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 2: Riley, you were in the car. Was it the was it?

901
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: This?

902
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: Was it? Was it the curb or was it the tree?

903
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 5: What?

904
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: When was this?

905
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: When we were getting my gummies when someone's yelling me

906
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 2: and I was like, Sophia, pull over and was like

907
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: I don't know what to pull over. That was the curb.

908
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: That was the curb, That was the curve.

909
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, fine. Anyway, Christie Babe or Kirsty Babe

910
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: twenty three, thanks for the sixty six. Sid heyo, we

911
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: appreciate you, and maybe we'll get another hour.

912
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:43,439
Speaker 3: But you know, I am read this next one and John,

913
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: can you get another package?

914
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 4: Oh my goal?

915
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 2: Yeah I will. What are we got to read? What

916
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 2: are we reading?

917
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: We gonna read?

918
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 4: That's five?

919
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 2: Oh wow, this is a long one. Oh this is

920
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 2: this is the cockroach? Are we opening this baggage?

921
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: Now?

922
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: Are we sorry? Where do we right now?

923
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

924
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 4: It was it was in between stories, right it was.

925
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: I thought it was in between episodes. Oh well we're

926
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 2: already here.

927
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 4: My bad.

928
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 2: Oh another worm? Oh wow, it's the same worm.

929
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: I need to go grab it. It's in my room

930
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: right now. We are later.

931
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 4: We are single handedly, uh lifting the worm company economy.

932
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: You have economy.

933
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 2: These companies are like our worm products are flying off

934
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 2: the shelves. What could it be?

935
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: Okay, this is good because now I can keep that

936
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: worm and I can keep bones in my room.

937
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we can keep boner.

938
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 4: In this room.

939
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 2: There you go. They can't both have the same name.

940
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 2: All right, I'm not gonna Jennifer Tars is my worst

941
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 2: driving experience with my dad. We were on our very

942
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 2: long drive, me and he hit the brake, so I

943
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: hit the brakes, but nothing happened to the car kept

944
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: going and he kept yelling at me to hit the brakes.

945
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 4: Rough but that is rough.

946
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't sound like a great driving story. And

947
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 2: also it's not that I don't listen to Sophia's recollection events.

948
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 2: It's now just two against one, and.

949
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 4: They always disagree on anything that there's a memory involved.

950
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: They literally always disagree.

951
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: My memory is always better. Though.

952
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 2: That's not right, just literally, mom, What did I just say?

953
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: I called mom and dad and they agreed with me

954
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: about the chicken story.

955
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: I won't deign to respond and just prove my points,

956
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:45,720
Speaker 1: so perfect says, this is literally the oops. All gifts

957
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: are for Sophia history. I've gotten worms, I've gotten D

958
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:50,799
Speaker 1: and D books.

959
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 4: That's true.

960
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 5: I don't care all of Sam's friends disagree with him.

961
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 5: I really want to tell the Christian one which one

962
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 5: would the banana?

963
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, we don't we should, Okay.

964
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 3: All of Damn's friends disagree with them for no reason really,

965
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 3: and I don't know.

966
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,720
Speaker 2: Why I have contrarian friends, but that one was wild.

967
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 1: I know, thank you you the five buck tip in Florida.

968
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: I didn't have to leave the parking lot to get

969
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: my driver's license. Instructor just made me drive around the

970
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: lot park and do three point terms. That's it. I

971
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: didn't have to parallel park on my driver's test, which

972
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: is usually that's like a thing you're supposed to do,

973
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: and they did not make me do it. That I

974
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: do know how to parallel park, but I didn't have

975
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: to do it on my test.

976
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 2: I really want to pose the hypothetical why not?

977
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 4: Why not?

978
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm kat, Thank you for the five buck tip. Another hour,

979
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 1: another hour, another hour. I'm not finished working.

980
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 3: We should probably just read the story.

981
00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 2: We should, we should if you had a banana up no, no, no, no, no,

982
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 2: the story and.

983
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 3: If we remember that, if you had.

984
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: Today By admitting to my girlfriend that I pretend she's

985
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 2: a giant cockroach when we have sex. Ouch.

986
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's not fun.

987
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 2: This comes from I love roach, and they say, ever

988
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 2: since I was a teenager, I have had a very

989
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 2: intense fantasy about having sex with a giant cockroach. It

990
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 2: started in ninth or tenth grade when we read The

991
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 2: Metamorphosis by friends.

992
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: Cough, you know what, this guy would really love to fly?

993
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably probably. As I started to think more and

994
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 2: more about the roach creature that the character had become,

995
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: starting to imagine what would be like if a woman

996
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 2: turned into a roach instead. I found this idea arousing,

997
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: suggested I think this was someone in the chat.

998
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 4: They kept commenting it, yeah, some of the chat. I

999
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 4: would not be repulsed or frightened of her, as the

1000
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 4: characters in the story are. I would take care of her.

1001
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 4: Then my thoughts started to get sexual with the character.

1002
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 4: Oh no, Eventually I sort of dropped a bit about

1003
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 4: her having been a human woman first, and I kind

1004
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 4: of just imagine this fictionalized roast roach species. They are

1005
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 4: giant roaches the size of the person and have complete intelligence.

1006
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 2: This is weird. I kind of overtime conjured up an

1007
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 2: imaginary friend of sorts. She was one of these roaches,

1008
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,760
Speaker 2: and her name was Agatha.

1009
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 4: I mean sounds accurate enough, said would be named that.

1010
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 2: I would fantasize about her often. Oh man, whenever I masturbate,

1011
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 2: I'd be imagining elaborate scenarios of me and Agtha making love.

1012
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 4: Oh my, how.

1013
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 2: Oh okay? Well, you know how when I started to

1014
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 2: have actual sex, I found I could not perform if

1015
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking about Ogtha. So basically, now, anytime I

1016
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 2: have sex with a woman, I am pretending that she's

1017
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 2: actually Agtha, not just thinking about Ogda. I concentrate intensely

1018
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 2: on visualizing what I'm actually doing with Agtha. An emotional

1019
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to think about a girl at all.

1020
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 4: There is only.

1021
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 2: Agtha, like's the only one for me. How is this happening?

1022
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,919
Speaker 2: And Shana? Thanks to the two bucks, I didn't even

1023
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 2: drive on the main road for my license.

1024
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 4: I breeze by.

1025
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: Honestly, mine was pretty easy.

1026
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:38,720
Speaker 2: Waits, wait really quick? How is this possible? This the story?

1027
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 7: No?

1028
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 2: Just like how what parts are fitting with? What parts?

1029
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: Amber Rosa is no king shaming? Everyone's into different things tentacles, furries,

1030
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: and apparently concroaches.

1031
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess people would dream about hooking up with

1032
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 2: with freaking octopuses.

1033
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 4: Who said, get this man, Jesus.

1034
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: Octopi ad thanks to the five bucks. I'm an ophthalmic

1035
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 2: technician and I work with a retina certain specialist, and

1036
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: I need to make sure everyone is blind so they

1037
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 2: can't read the story. Now people can become blind with

1038
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: chronic diabetes after like three years. Yeah, there, we got

1039
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 2: all right, Let's keep going I guess, of course, this

1040
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 2: sex can never be as exciting as my full imaginary

1041
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: sessions with Agtha. There are things that her multiple appendages

1042
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 2: and antenna I allow for that a human woman can

1043
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 2: never match. So anyways, I've been in a relationship with

1044
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 2: my girlfriend for about a year.

1045
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 1: Oh, we're good.

1046
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 2: Three or four times I have tried to have sex

1047
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 2: with her and not pretend she is Agtha, but I

1048
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 2: just can't do it. Wow, So essentially every time we

1049
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 2: have sex, I'm imagining she is Agtha. I finally confided

1050
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: this to her the other day, and I was blown

1051
00:51:55,160 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: away by her reaction. What is it gonna be good?

1052
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 2: Or is it gonna be because if it's bad, no,

1053
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 2: I feel like and she's like, and she's like, don't worry.

1054
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 2: I've been thinking that you're a cockroach too. That would

1055
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: be cute for each other. It's got to be a

1056
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 2: positive reaction. Also, editors, make sure you bleep out all

1057
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 2: of these Oh yeah, yeah, anyway, Uh, I was blown

1058
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 2: away by her reaction. I thought she might take it

1059
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 2: a bit badly at first, but that she get used

1060
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 2: to it. How does one get used to Okay? I

1061
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 2: thought she might get used to it. No, I have

1062
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: never seen such a look of disgust before. Outraged is

1063
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 2: not an understatement. She is not even returning my text

1064
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 2: now yeah, oh craps.

1065
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: Then he said Jesus didn't die for this.

1066
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 2: I am afraid he's actually going to break out with

1067
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 2: me and also is going to tell people about Agatha.

1068
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 2: Oh not, way to beat them to the punjo pe

1069
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 2: by telling all of Reddit about I don't know how

1070
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 2: I will face anyone. This is going to sound silly,

1071
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 2: but I also feel guilty about feeling shame as if

1072
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: Agatha will be saddened by this.

1073
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 4: Even though I know she will be. She is imaginary.

1074
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do at this point. There

1075
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 4: there is there is a thick.

1076
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: Update like maybe therapy.

1077
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

1078
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 1: At this point, it's no longer a kink. It's like

1079
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,720
Speaker 1: it's like you're imagining someone who is not real well.

1080
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,439
Speaker 4: And it's like, uh, he literally cannot have a sex

1081
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,800
Speaker 4: life without Yeah, this thing. So to me, it's like

1082
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 4: the the interruption of the life.

1083
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is.

1084
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of an emotional affair when you

1085
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: are thinking about another cockroach instead of your.

1086
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 2: Your man cockroach, your main bug, you love bug. When

1087
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 2: you think about a cockroach instead of your love bug.

1088
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: There is an update for this cursed curse story. I

1089
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 2: think this might be what we close out the stream with.

1090
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 2: It could be, it could it could be. You're welcome

1091
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 2: for that. You're welcome for that. I'm also a grozy

1092
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 2: all right. Update five years ago? I submitted oh five

1093
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 2: years ago? Whoa, Oh my goodness, Oh wow, wait wait wait,

1094
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 2: so we are getting a five year update, Vanessa, thanks

1095
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 2: for the five dollars tip. You guys help me stay

1096
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 2: no contact with my ex.

1097
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 4: Let's go.

1098
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: This show has helped me stay strong. Let's freaking go.

1099
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 2: Thank you. John. When you get a moment, please say

1100
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 2: oh God, oh God, John's my favorite. Sorry worm. Army

1101
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 2: in Pigeon Soldiers hashtag orange Army, Vanessa Camero keep it

1102
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 2: the stream going for the rest of them.

1103
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: Andy also said, what a terrible day to have.

1104
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 2: Let's get into the update. The gist of the backstories

1105
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 2: that ever since I was a teenager, I have fantasized

1106
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 2: in my head about making love to a giant roach,

1107
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 2: a roach the size of the person. Eventually I concocted

1108
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: an entire backstory and the personality for this imaginary roach

1109
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 2: who I named Agda. Whenever I would give in private

1110
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: pleasurable deeds, you know what I mean, I would imagine

1111
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 2: in my head vivid, elaborate scenarios at Agda. It got

1112
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 2: to be so I could not perform with an actual

1113
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 2: partner unless I pretended they were Agtha. You might think

1114
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 2: of a scene in Blade Runner twenty forty nine, what

1115
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 2: which my original tf tfu TIFU predates, by the way,

1116
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 2: where the main character makes love to a prostitute, but

1117
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 2: his hologram girlfriend is kind of holograms over the body

1118
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 2: of the actual person, so he can pretend he's making

1119
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 2: love to his hologram. Remember that. Thank you. I know

1120
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: he's talking about and you're talking about it. And Andy,

1121
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 2: thanks for the two bucks to read on a wiki

1122
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 2: created Agatha merch for this story. Shout out to alread

1123
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: it on wikis All right, um, that's great. Oh I

1124
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 2: think I read it on a wickiy March Yeah, shouted

1125
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 2: to read on wiky We love you guys. Um yeah,

1126
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 2: so wickedness. Uh. In the five years that have passed

1127
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: since this topic was supposed to, I decided to stop

1128
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 2: fooling myself and I just committed to the love of Agtha.

1129
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 2: So o p doubled down. I know she's not real

1130
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: per se, but in my head she's an actual person,

1131
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 2: and I am in love with that personality. I don't

1132
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 2: care if she's a roach or if she's imaginary. The

1133
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 2: love is real. Call me diluted, but it's harmless. It

1134
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 2: makes me happy. I have not had a real girlfriend

1135
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 2: again since the incident five years ago, but occasionally I've

1136
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 2: had one night stands via online apps, with the understanding

1137
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 2: of it being one night in advance and maybe wearing

1138
00:56:55,640 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 2: a little little Ogtha mask. Oh my, and all these

1139
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 2: times I always envisioned the woman is Agda, my sensual

1140
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 2: roach queen, not worm queen, roach queen. Oh God, very different,

1141
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 2: We're very different, very different. Christy steelings to the two bucks.

1142
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 2: Someone get that girl a roach costume.

1143
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 4: Lord, oh lord, oh with the three hundred dollar tip.

1144
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 4: Almost keeping the stream running and rolling, we'll see thirty left.

1145
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 4: Blonde is brunette, coming in fat.

1146
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 2: Going crazy.

1147
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 3: Almost made plans. We still have a chance. Though we

1148
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 3: still have chances for plans.

1149
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 2: We still have a chance, a chance. We'll see. But

1150
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 2: blonde is brunette. Shout out to you anyway, Let's get

1151
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 2: back to Agda. So I just envisioned they are Agda

1152
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 2: and know hah. I've never confided them about it. I

1153
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: learned my lesson. The thing about it is, though, that

1154
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 2: I'm came so in love with Augusta that I married her.

1155
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: I even did a little ceremony in my living room.

1156
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 2: I recited my own vows and she recited hers. I

1157
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 2: even went on a honeymoon, which technically you could say

1158
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: was a solo vacation to New Orleans for a week.

1159
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 2: But in my mind Ogda was there with me the

1160
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 2: entire time.

1161
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry, New Orleans, New Orleans, Orleans, New Orleans.

1162
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 2: That's where a lot of cockroach people are.

1163
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 3: Well people go to honeymoon's there.

1164
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be that's actually a lip.

1165
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: I would love to go to New Orleans. I've never

1166
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: been that.

1167
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,439
Speaker 2: But in my mind Ogda was with me the entire time.

1168
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 2: In my mind, I think of her as my wife.

1169
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 2: But here is where I aft up. Not all that

1170
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 2: in the past. Here, here here is where I left up,

1171
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 2: all right, And no one yuck is young.

1172
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 1: Oh.

1173
00:58:54,160 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 2: Chris with the twenty Gifted Membership, Straw with the sixty

1174
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: one eleven Next Emotions with the twenty gifted memberships, Emma

1175
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 2: with the one more hour, Natalia, come on, guys, I

1176
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: need one more hour. The ten bucks y'all came in

1177
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: with a flurry that's right in the row with the

1178
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 2: twenty dollars super Chap so grossed out. I hate roaches

1179
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 2: yetaches here you are here, here, you are keeping this

1180
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 2: stream going. But we still have more. Yeah, we read

1181
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 2: mixed emotions. We read tinfoil Chris, tinfoil hot with the

1182
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 2: twenty gifted memberships, Mixed emotions with the twenty gifted memberships.

1183
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 2: Crazy shout out to y'all, woo given one more hour?

1184
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: You you got it? You the last ten seconds that

1185
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 2: was crazy. Yeah, that was wild. That might have been

1186
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 2: the closest one of all.

1187
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: Oh, well, we've had ones where it's been zero.

1188
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've had ones where it's been zero. It's true.

1189
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 2: Finishing up a story, yeah, well, finishing up a story,

1190
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: but your face getting back to the story. Shout at

1191
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 2: all of you for having this stream.

1192
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: Going an hour. Also shout out Riley for being.

1193
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 2: That whoa wait, wait happened? Hold on what happened? Scroll

1194
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 2: up on the on the dons, Scroll up on the donations.

1195
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 2: Oh Kelly three with the eighty dollars tip one more

1196
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 2: hours freaking go. We're almost at another hour, guys going,

1197
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 2: that was crazy. That happens so fast.

1198
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 3: There's more than the donation, Yeah, happening.

1199
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: I wonder if there's one that his best. Yeah, do

1200
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: we the tip link? If it's a big one. It

1201
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 2: takes a little bit for it to go, we'll get

1202
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 2: Maybe it was the gifted memberships and twenty Yeah, I

1203
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 2: think that was it.

1204
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 4: That might have like little did we.

1205
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 3: Get this one? Oh shoot, we didn't, we didn't. We

1206
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 3: did this one too.

1207
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 4: Oh Oh my gosh, the hooko ninety I'm I need

1208
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 4: another hour. Oh my gosh, eighty eighty bucks on.

1209
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 2: The donors on the dona.

1210
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 4: Then everyone's telling you don't like by the way, amazing,

1211
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 4: thank you for that.

1212
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 3: And then this one.

1213
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Christy Steele read that one. Someone gets everyone.

1214
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, we must say, wow, we got everyone.

1215
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 2: We all came through. This is gonna be a long stream.

1216
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: Another hour, girls say sorry boys is going to be

1217
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 2: my tagline. Should have said it again, boys for another hour?

1218
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 2: All right, let's get back to the roach man. All right,

1219
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 2: So now here's where I fed up again. Op said

1220
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: they're not They didn't up all in the past.

1221
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 4: That was all that.

1222
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 2: That was just a regular, regular, old, little little little

1223
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 2: thing that he had going. This is this is where

1224
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 2: the f happened. So I got so used to thinking

1225
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 2: of her as my wife in my head. What do

1226
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: we get? Wait?

1227
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 4: All right?

1228
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 2: Up, got confused too, I got confused to lurking Poppy,

1229
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. Was having anxiety talk. But

1230
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 2: seeing Sam's reaction to the story, it made me feel

1231
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 2: a little better. Lurking Puppy, I'm thank I am thankful

1232
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 2: that my horror of this cockroach queen helped your anxiety

1233
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 2: feel a little bit better.

1234
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 4: Let's go.

1235
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 2: I maybe maybe I like horrified you out of anxiety.

1236
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: I feel like it's funny. Humor can help.

1237
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 2: If you were can help? Yeah? Good, Well maybe you

1238
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 2: just need a roach queen to to help you out

1239
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 2: everyone anyway, So.

1240
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: I wonder if she can break up with them.

1241
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 2: Let's see. So I got so used to thinking of

1242
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 2: her as my wife in my head that a few

1243
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 2: months ago at work, I nonchalantly said my wife in

1244
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 2: some innocuous sentence. I think it was something like, oh yeah,

1245
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,960
Speaker 2: I me and my wife loved that show in regards

1246
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 2: to Chopped, So now everyone was asking about my wife

1247
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 2: because they had never heard I was married or even

1248
01:02:54,400 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 2: dating anyone. Everyone kept pestering me. Signal of smagin Nation

1249
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 2: with the ninety nine ninety nine tip signal says one

1250
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: more hour. I had my second job being for today

1251
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 2: and was told I will find out if I'm hired

1252
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 2: in about two weeks.

1253
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 4: Wish me luck, let's go. Luck is given. Melitia MoU,

1254
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 4: Thanks for the ten dollars tip. Yo, we have a

1255
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 4: whole hour hour, whole hour to hit the next level.

1256
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 2: What is going on?

1257
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: They're never going to see challengers.

1258
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 2: Asian persuasion Oga Saga is greater than Twilight Saga. I

1259
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 2: drew Ogda in February. You drew all. Pick a pick,

1260
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 2: send a pick.

1261
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: It is five dollars Tuesday.

1262
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: A Bob Catrad thanks for the five book tips. So

1263
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 2: glad we're not ending this nightmare Pool Stanley Costa. It's

1264
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 2: the blow up doll guy, the ghost girl and car.

1265
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 2: And that's another hour, and that's another another hour. Two dollars,

1266
01:03:55,600 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 2: super chap. There you go. Wait, oh my quick question.

1267
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 5: Do you guys remember this? This is one of my

1268
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 5: favorite stories whenever I listen to you guys back in

1269
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 5: the day. But the guy that bought a sex doll

1270
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 5: and you try to keep it under his bed to

1271
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 5: keep away from his parents.

1272
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like like like in high school or something.

1273
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do remember. Yeah, rough break, my guy.

1274
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 4: Tough stuff.

1275
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 2: Anyway, let's get back into this story.

1276
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: At one point is this do you want me to

1277
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: read this?

1278
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 2: I want to get through this? What?

1279
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 4: What? What's so important?

1280
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: At what point does this become like a mental break?

1281
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 2: What we're past that point?

1282
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

1283
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 4: Man has an imaginary relationship with the cockroach and you're like, what.

1284
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 2: Break? What are you talking? What are you talking about?

1285
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 4: Yes?

1286
01:04:54,400 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: Yes, this is crazy fixing this Layers is five years Yeah, fine,

1287
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 2: exactly five years ago. What point is a mental break?

1288
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 2: Cardi Ge says we can't end on that story at

1289
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 2: two bugs. Thanks for two bugs cursed? All right, let

1290
01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: us wait, Susan Martin, thanks for the one eighty five tip,

1291
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 2: like the stream, do you even want to get to

1292
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 2: eleven hundred likes so we can spin that wheel? Come on,

1293
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 2: do it?

1294
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 3: We're reading this time for ue.

1295
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, all.

1296
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 2: Right, let's let's let's I guess in Sofia's words, let's

1297
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 2: find out if this guy eventually has a mental break.

1298
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 4: Or if he's just a normal dude, a normal person.

1299
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 4: All right, let's get through this. So yeah, so I

1300
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 4: was asking about my wife. Actually, that would be funny if.

1301
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 2: He's like I have the stage.

1302
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: One year later, divorced, I.

1303
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 2: Became full of panic. I did one thing I swore

1304
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 2: I would never do again. I talked to other people

1305
01:05:57,840 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 2: about auga in real life. We were at a tea

1306
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 2: lunch and it just let it all spelled out. No,

1307
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 2: and I just let it all spell out what daff

1308
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 2: I told him, how how I became enamored as a

1309
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 2: teenager with the Franz Kafka story, how my fantasy evolved

1310
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 2: into an actual imaginary entity with a personality, and how

1311
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 2: I slowly began to grow in love with her. What

1312
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 2: started as a mere sexual attraction to a giant roach

1313
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 2: blossomed and to a whirlwind romance, and that she became

1314
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 2: the love of my life, even though her existence was

1315
01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:33,919
Speaker 2: in my own mind.

1316
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: What daf imagine? Imagine if Riley one day he does

1317
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: and he just like starts mentioning his wife, just starts

1318
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: mentioning it. Yo, he has a wife and as a

1319
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: giant cockroach knowing the one day, like months later, after

1320
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: he's mentioned having a wife, and he comes forward and

1321
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, I have to tell you guys.

1322
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 4: Fire I've been I would support I would be I

1323
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 4: would be supportive than you. John, You're right, you're welcome.

1324
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 3: I just want to know what line of work this

1325
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 3: guy is.

1326
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like imagine he's like terminator that he has a

1327
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 2: real trauma.

1328
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 1: You can't kill my wife, you know all.

1329
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 2: My life Roes Asian Persuasion posted her a discord. She's

1330
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 2: a little N s f W hashtag roches. Please show

1331
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 2: us thought picture that Asian Persuasion put into discord. If

1332
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 2: you have it, join the discord. You're missing out on

1333
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 2: some roach.

1334
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 4: Literally you could be this right now.

1335
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 1: Don't show is the story.

1336
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 4: Don't show us yet. Please show us the roche after

1337
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 4: the stream at so that we're done, after the story,

1338
01:07:58,440 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 4: after the story ends.

1339
01:07:59,440 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: Agreed?

1340
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 2: All right? So wow? Even though her existence in my

1341
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 2: own mind, at first, I thought I was doing a

1342
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 2: creepy joke, but I convinced them I was telling the truth.

1343
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 2: Why why would you do that? Well? They were afraid

1344
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 2: and disgusted. I've been a pariah at work ever since.

1345
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 2: Everybody steers clear of me. We used to have good

1346
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 2: social lifes. Now people only speak to me for work

1347
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 2: related reasons. Even working virtually. Now nobody sends me a

1348
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 2: slack message unless it is about work. I even heard

1349
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 2: a rumor that people went to a HR but they were,

1350
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 2: of course told nothing could be done. I've lost my

1351
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 2: good work friends because of this, and.

1352
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 4: It is indeed jeopardizing my career because my boss is

1353
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 4: think I am insane.

1354
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 1: We can't fire him, but being in love with an

1355
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: imaginary roach.

1356
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 2: But it is pretty darn weird. It's not illegal, but

1357
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 2: but should be. I ruined my friendships and future career

1358
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 2: prospects due to my honesty. I'm of starting to look

1359
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 2: for a new job, although it is difficult in the

1360
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 2: current environment. Why did you have to convince them that

1361
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 2: this was real? You literally had it out. You had

1362
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 2: it out. They were like, oh dude.

1363
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 4: They all started laughing, like, oh man, dude, this wild. No, no, no,

1364
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 4: I'm being serious.

1365
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 1: So with the tentacles, I imagine Agada at night.

1366
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,560
Speaker 2: I can start fresh elsewhere, though no matter what, I

1367
01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 2: will be staying with my wife Agatha. For me, it

1368
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 2: is Agatha forever. If you must know, I do hope

1369
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 2: that even if I am an old man, that one

1370
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 2: day the technology is invented to extract the Agda personality

1371
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 2: from my mind and implanted her into a real external body,

1372
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 2: either of a genetically engineered or mechanical nature, and me

1373
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:48,599
Speaker 2: and Agda can then experience genuine physical connection. But if

1374
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 2: she must remain within me, that is fine. Our love

1375
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 2: keeps me warm on the coldness of nights. Thank you, TILDR.

1376
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: I foolishly told my coworkers that my wife is an

1377
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: imaginary giant cockroach, and now they don't like me anymore.

1378
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:04,919
Speaker 2: In my career is in shambles.

1379
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 4: Oh chi.

1380
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:16,640
Speaker 2: Show I still drew a roach ussy and put it

1381
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 2: in the discord. It's there, which if you have not

1382
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 2: joined the discord, you're missing out on great content.

1383
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 4: Like is it? What is it?

1384
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 2: Show me? Did I show everyone? Show us first? Show us?

1385
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 4: Not everyone?

1386
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 2: Wow, that doesn't look like I mean, it almost doesn't

1387
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 2: even look like a cockroach.

1388
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 4: I mean it has four I mean it looks like

1389
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 4: it's like a person with four arms and like six arms,

1390
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 4: and like.

1391
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 2: Uh, imagine what those arms could do though, and the

1392
01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:54,680
Speaker 2: antennas make a heart. It's cute, yeah, kind of into it.

1393
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:56,240
Speaker 1: You don't say that.

1394
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 2: I see, I see. I mean, if that's if that's imagining,

1395
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 2: that's man, Yeah, what the mouth?

1396
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

1397
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 2: Phil?

1398
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 1: What's the next story? Are we supposed to be reading it?

1399
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 2: Should we show the people?

1400
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,480
Speaker 4: I mean, they're probably dying of curiosity.

1401
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 2: If you want to see, join the discord, go into

1402
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,400
Speaker 2: the art channel, the art channel, go to the art

1403
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 2: channel and uh yeah, it's in the art channel on

1404
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 2: our discord. And if you want to join the discord,

1405
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 2: it's in the description or mods.

1406
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:31,320
Speaker 3: Could you please?

1407
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, share, don't share the picture, share the discord. That's right,

1408
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 2: Lucille Fox says, is this the reason I joined the discord? Yes? Yes, yes,

1409
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 2: If you want to see.

1410
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna be like, why did I join the discord?

1411
01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:48,479
Speaker 2: Again? Honestly, I was just thinking it would be more graphic.

1412
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 2: It was a little graphic, but but not really.

1413
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 4: It was more slightly slightly less graphic.

1414
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:58,759
Speaker 2: It was just more of a turn on, if anything else.

1415
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: Why did you say that? It was like it was

1416
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 1: like I've been looking for wife.

1417
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 2: A five year journey to find my though.

1418
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 1: Oh man, yeah, you can't find girl. Make her up?

1419
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:13,639
Speaker 2: Make her up? Yeah?

1420
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 3: Wow, but that's that's that story.

1421
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:21,719
Speaker 2: There we go. That is a story. That is a story.

1422
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: But ask for the captain. Thanks for the one dollar

1423
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 2: super chat. We appreciate you.

1424
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:29,680
Speaker 1: I think I need to go to the back.

1425
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 2: But you know what John needs to do.

1426
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 4: What do I need to do?

1427
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 2: You need to read that next story with your little

1428
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:37,719
Speaker 2: sweet mouth of yours.

1429
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 4: For eighty three, I like the empty Uh.

1430
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 3: Open a package for us?

1431
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Sophia can't miss the package opening?

1432
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 2: N you grab them?

1433
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 3: You have the thing for him to open it? Did

1434
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 3: you figure out how to close it?

1435
01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 4: Oh?

1436
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 6: Wait?

1437
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 2: Should I open this package though?

1438
01:12:58,240 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 4: Right here?

1439
01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:04,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, I'm gonna open. My mom made

1440
01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 2: these also, everyone gets one, so this one's mine.

1441
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 1: This is tell it's special.

1442
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 2: My mom wrote this open on your live stream, Sam's

1443
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 2: mom and Sophia's mom's mom first on oh if Riley.

1444
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 2: So my mom made this because there is we've been

1445
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:44,480
Speaker 2: hinting at this. There's some there's some news coming. We're

1446
01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,360
Speaker 2: gonna we're gonna drip drop it. We're gonna trickle truth,

1447
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 2: you guys. But there's there's some there's some there's some

1448
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 2: cool stuff coming. Show we can show it.

1449
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:56,799
Speaker 4: I think we're gonna a little teased.

1450
01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 2: What's to come? Let me get it on us, but

1451
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 2: we we don't want to show it for too long. Okay,

1452
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,559
Speaker 2: but my mom made these cups for us because we're

1453
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 2: doing that. What's big? Oh wow?

1454
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 3: Way do we show the whole thing?

1455
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 2: I think we can show both what No way, but.

1456
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:22,600
Speaker 1: You can still see it.

1457
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,599
Speaker 2: It's enough, all right, that's enough. That's enough.

1458
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:29,679
Speaker 1: I can't put enough frame.

1459
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:32,360
Speaker 2: That's enough. That's enough. But yeah, mom, thank you for

1460
01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:33,759
Speaker 2: making these. These are really cute.

1461
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 4: These are amazing.

1462
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,640
Speaker 2: These are amazing. Yeah, she's made she's made muggs for

1463
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 2: us before with the O G. Yeah, it's been on

1464
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 2: the stream before. It's been on the stream before. This

1465
01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 2: is really cute there Yeah, yeah, true.

1466
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 4: Are there?

1467
01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:49,800
Speaker 1: Thank you?

1468
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:53,640
Speaker 2: That's all. That's all you guys get. Thanks mom, We

1469
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 2: appreciate you. Yeah, that's a super secret thing that's going

1470
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 2: be coming this week or next, so get get ready.

1471
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 2: Should we read this next story? It bum bum bum

1472
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 2: bomb bomb bomb S two S one or S two

1473
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 2: for forty three S two let's go all right? So

1474
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 2: am I a whole four?

1475
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 4: Ghosting my boyfriend after he said this seems like the

1476
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 4: wrong story. Am I the whole so forty three, S two.

1477
01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 2: One, S one.

1478
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 4: Okay, there we go it S two.

1479
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:41,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, w's in the chat for my mom?

1480
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1481
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 2: WU was in the chat for my mom. Put it

1482
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 2: put mama, mam and daughter in the in the chat.

1483
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 2: That's right. And also, Peacha Brains, thanks for the twenty

1484
01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 2: dollars tip. I was trying to go to tip less

1485
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 2: but more often, but then my phone failed me. I

1486
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 2: had to go to the phone store. No free sponsors.

1487
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 2: Now I'm back and ready to tip. Peach Brains, thanks

1488
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 2: for helping us and giving that a little tip and

1489
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 2: making us sit in these chairs longer, yep, straining us

1490
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:14,600
Speaker 2: to God stop doing that.

1491
01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 3: I think we can show that. Sam.

1492
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, all right, No we ready, boys and girls, I'm

1493
01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 2: not showing you. Yeah, we have a story. Here we go.

1494
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 4: My boyfriend of sixty years disappeared while I was out

1495
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:27,479
Speaker 4: of town and I don't know what to do. This

1496
01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 4: comes from Throwaway thirty two fifty eight, who says last

1497
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 4: Tuesday evening, I thirty two female, came home from being

1498
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:35,919
Speaker 4: out of town for two weeks for work. My boyfriend

1499
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,680
Speaker 4: thirty five mail Nate was supposed to pick me up

1500
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 4: from the airport, but once I got in, I wasn't

1501
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 4: able to get a hold of him, and he never

1502
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 4: showed up. I was a little annoyed, but not too

1503
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:47,720
Speaker 4: worried because I figured he had fallen asleep. When I

1504
01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:49,800
Speaker 4: talked to him earlier that morning, he said he didn't

1505
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 4: sleep very well the night before and was going to

1506
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 4: lay down before he had to come get me. So

1507
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 4: I called my sister to come get me. All right,

1508
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 4: I called my sister or ride home. When I got home,

1509
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,599
Speaker 4: Nate was nowhere to be found. I checked the garage,

1510
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 4: as his car was gone, so I sent him a

1511
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 4: text asking where he was and headed upstairs to unpack.

1512
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:16,400
Speaker 4: When I opened the closet to put my things away,

1513
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 4: I saw that almost all of his clothes were gone.

1514
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 2: So Nate skidaddled it looking like Nate or is going

1515
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 2: on like a big trip of some sort, a big

1516
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 2: trip far away without any warning. Yeah, John, I think.

1517
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: You're really right there, hit us with the three deep

1518
01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 1: person view early. Yeah, I think John's really right over there.

1519
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 2: And yeah, you're the best.

1520
01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1521
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 3: That was a completed thought, so proud.

1522
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 4: At this point, I'm confused, so I just started calling

1523
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:56,879
Speaker 4: him and it just keeps ringing and then going to voicemail.

1524
01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 4: I check his office and everything is still there. Every

1525
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:02,759
Speaker 4: thing in the house is still there and in place,

1526
01:18:03,040 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 4: except his clothes in his car. I'm really starting to

1527
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 4: freak out at this point, so I called my sister

1528
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 4: and she comes over and we both try calling and

1529
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:13,639
Speaker 4: messaging him, calling and messaging him and still get no answer.

1530
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:16,599
Speaker 4: His computer and his laptop are both still in his office.

1531
01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 2: So he has another family, another.

1532
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 4: Family, yep, other family.

1533
01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:22,640
Speaker 3: He has the right to that, though, doesn't he.

1534
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,880
Speaker 2: Sam. You get one practice family, one practice family, practice family,

1535
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 2: and it sounds like this was his practice family. Shut

1536
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 2: out Sam.

1537
01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,639
Speaker 4: I logged onto his computer, and my and my sister

1538
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 4: I logged onto his computer and my sister had his laptop.

1539
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 4: I know all his passwords, but we didn't find anything

1540
01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 4: out of the ordinary. So I started searching his desk

1541
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 4: and I found his iPad in the top drawer. I

1542
01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 4: logged into it and checked everything I could think of

1543
01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 4: and found nothing out of the ordinary. My sister suggested

1544
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,719
Speaker 4: checking the fine to my iPhone app on his iPad

1545
01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:02,320
Speaker 4: to see where his phone was. Oh smart, that is

1546
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 4: super smart. That is super smart. We logged onto the

1547
01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:08,560
Speaker 4: app and see that his phone was pinging in the

1548
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 4: next state over. I start calling him again, but still

1549
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 4: got no answers to my call. Practice family in another state. Smart,

1550
01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 4: you gotta have it in another state so they don't

1551
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 4: find each other. And he's like abandon He's like abandoning

1552
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 4: right now to go to the other family.

1553
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 2: Yep, that's disgusting.

1554
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 4: Agreed. I really start to lose it here. My mind

1555
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 4: starts going all over the place, trying to figure out

1556
01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 4: what could be going on.

1557
01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 2: Can someone make puppets of all four of us?

1558
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 4: That would be great, Honestly, if we were able to

1559
01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:44,760
Speaker 4: do like a mupp like higher like professional puppeteers and

1560
01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 4: have like muppet versions.

1561
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 2: Of us, that would be awesome.

1562
01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 4: Or actually, I guess we could just like operate.

1563
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we could operate the mouth. We can operate it.

1564
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 2: Someone make muppets of us and we will use it

1565
01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 2: for sure.

1566
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 4: Actually, yes, please do that. We would love to see

1567
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 4: that and use them. I called the police because I

1568
01:19:59,600 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 4: think someone has to have done something to him. The

1569
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:05,720
Speaker 4: police come out, but they said there wasn't much they

1570
01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 4: could do because he hasn't been gone long and his

1571
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 4: clothes missing was a sign that he left on his

1572
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:12,839
Speaker 4: own volition.

1573
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:17,920
Speaker 2: Wish now that I know that if I was abducting someone,

1574
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 2: I would totally just take their clothes too, That is true, yeah,

1575
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 2: or it's just like I feel like it's a dumb reason.

1576
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:27,560
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, yeah, you know, we can't really do

1577
01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 2: anything because he probably took all of his belongings. But

1578
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 2: could you just be like, yeah, he also someone could

1579
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 2: have broken in, stolen all of his stuff.

1580
01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 4: And framed kidnapped him a professional kidnapper. Yeah, but like,

1581
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 4: if he did really take all.

1582
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 2: Of his own stuff, he's probably probably has a family

1583
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 2: somewhere else. Brow has probably ski daddled. He is ski daddle.

1584
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 4: Over the last few days, I've done everything I can

1585
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:55,439
Speaker 4: to contact him. He doesn't have any family except for

1586
01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:57,599
Speaker 4: a brother that he cut ties with before I met him.

1587
01:20:57,800 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 4: I found him online and sent him a message, but

1588
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:03,040
Speaker 4: he said he hasn't seen or heard from Nate in years.

1589
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:06,320
Speaker 4: I keep checking his phone's location, and since Saturday morning,

1590
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:09,720
Speaker 4: it has been pinging in the same location in the

1591
01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 4: PMW the Pacific, in the Pacific Northwest. I took off

1592
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:15,360
Speaker 4: work for the rest of the week, and my sister

1593
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 4: and I are flying up there to go to the

1594
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 4: location his phone is pinging WHOA. That's kind of I

1595
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:26,680
Speaker 4: mean smart, but also like a wild goose chase to

1596
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 4: go on winning fun. Yeah, it's like tragic, but like

1597
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:35,040
Speaker 4: it's kind of like a like a like a choose

1598
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 4: not to choose your own adventure, like a treasure hunt.

1599
01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:39,960
Speaker 4: That would be a great YouTube video playing like uh,

1600
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:44,040
Speaker 4: find my friend's tag, where literally someone goes to a

1601
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 4: different place like and then you get their location.

1602
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,600
Speaker 2: My friend's tag is a great idea, Right, that's so

1603
01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:53,519
Speaker 2: fun and you just like run around trying to get

1604
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 2: fined the person. You could view it anywhere in the world,

1605
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 2: anywhere in the world and you have to go to

1606
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,760
Speaker 2: that location. That's kind of sick, kind of cool, right,

1607
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:05,640
Speaker 2: has anyone ever dealt with something like this before? How

1608
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 2: do I even confront him? What if he is with

1609
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:09,720
Speaker 2: another woman? What?

1610
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 1: Whoa?

1611
01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:17,320
Speaker 2: Also, Socrates? Literally their thing is a sock puppet. I

1612
01:22:17,400 --> 01:22:19,519
Speaker 2: actually am making puppets for you guys right now. Oh

1613
01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:24,760
Speaker 2: that's awesome, Socrates, please send it to our po box.

1614
01:22:24,960 --> 01:22:29,240
Speaker 4: I am excited to see that. How do I even

1615
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,560
Speaker 4: confront him? What if he is with another woman? What

1616
01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:32,519
Speaker 4: if he isn't there?

1617
01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 2: Or worse? I am so lost and hurt right now.

1618
01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:38,040
Speaker 2: My mind is all over the place. I can't think straight.

1619
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 2: I am just so lost right now.

1620
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 4: And TiO dr my boyfriend of six years, disappeared while

1621
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 4: I was out of town. Haven't been able to contact him,

1622
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 4: but his phone is pinging in the Pacific Northwest and

1623
01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 4: I'm going to confront him tomorrow. There is an edit.

1624
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:57,719
Speaker 4: There is relevant comments. There is more to the story, guys,

1625
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:05,599
Speaker 4: but real quick, let's let's check in here. I'm low key,

1626
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:08,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, what do we even? What's the real question here?

1627
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:11,759
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like, should you go to this random

1628
01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:14,679
Speaker 2: place to see if he's actually like there?

1629
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 4: Let me let me maybe maybe sounds though, Yeah, go

1630
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:20,920
Speaker 4: to the I mean it's pretty terrible circuit. I feel

1631
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:23,240
Speaker 4: like if it was a game, it would be super fun. Yeah,

1632
01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 4: lovely font says, But why would he leave the computers behind?

1633
01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1634
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 4: I can't, Okay, let me ask his phone. Let me

1635
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:32,760
Speaker 4: ask you this. What if he just like did it

1636
01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:36,640
Speaker 4: to run away and was like, hey, sorry I did that.

1637
01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:39,640
Speaker 4: I was just like overwhelmed, like it was like a

1638
01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:45,479
Speaker 4: little too much. Would you forgive them and be like

1639
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 4: I did?

1640
01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:49,880
Speaker 2: To communicate? I feel like if he's not communicating, that's

1641
01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 2: a red flag in the relationship. Right, So, even even

1642
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 2: if even if it's even if it was just a

1643
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:59,160
Speaker 2: lapse in communication, I still think that that is a

1644
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:01,720
Speaker 2: pretty big thing to not communicate about, you.

1645
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:03,680
Speaker 1: Know what's him? I actually I actually agree with you

1646
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:05,760
Speaker 1: on that one. Exically, did you really communicate?

1647
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1648
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 4: I agree.

1649
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sophie, that was a really good point.

1650
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:11,280
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

1651
01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:15,679
Speaker 2: You're the best brother ever. Oh thanks fora you realco

1652
01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:18,280
Speaker 2: But is there an update?

1653
01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:22,679
Speaker 4: Oh there's more onto this edit. Yes, I have called

1654
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:25,160
Speaker 4: our message all of his friends. None of them have

1655
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 4: seen or heard from him. I do have access to

1656
01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:29,560
Speaker 4: a bank account, as we have a joint account, but

1657
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:32,920
Speaker 4: not his business account. He last used his debit card

1658
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:36,800
Speaker 4: Friday night in the town west of Seattle, Washington. He

1659
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 4: owns his own business, but has taken a step back

1660
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 4: over to last year, so he doesn't regularly. He doesn't

1661
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 4: communicate with them regularly. They haven't heard from him since.

1662
01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 2: The last month. I am five months pregnant. Oh whoa,

1663
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:55,800
Speaker 2: that is a very very big detail and we've known

1664
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 2: about that for three months.

1665
01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:59,200
Speaker 4: So he definitely knows both of them though. Oh no,

1666
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:02,600
Speaker 4: he did become a bit reserved and withdrawn since we

1667
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,040
Speaker 4: found out, But it's not uncommon for him to do

1668
01:25:05,200 --> 01:25:07,840
Speaker 4: that every so often, especially around this time of year.

1669
01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:11,560
Speaker 4: I don't truly believe that he would abandon me and

1670
01:25:11,720 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 4: his child. That's not the type of man he is.

1671
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:16,719
Speaker 4: But I don't know what to think anymore.

1672
01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:19,759
Speaker 2: You don't even know what kind of man he is, honestly,

1673
01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:22,240
Speaker 2: that it could be.

1674
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:25,760
Speaker 4: Silver Clover says, this is so bizarre. Lovely font says,

1675
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:28,720
Speaker 4: red flags all over the place. Yeah, I'm getting I'm

1676
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 4: definitely getting some red flag fat It's it's getting dicey,

1677
01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 4: but we have some relevant comments here. Big Fat Happy

1678
01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:39,240
Speaker 4: Baby says, this situation is weird as f Be careful

1679
01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:41,559
Speaker 4: out there, use common sense if you can get law

1680
01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:47,599
Speaker 4: enforcement involved in your destination, if only for your protection. Honestly, yeah,

1681
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:49,680
Speaker 4: some sort of like at least tell people or like

1682
01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 4: make it be known. I feel like that's not a

1683
01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:55,200
Speaker 4: bad IDEA User name.

1684
01:25:55,080 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 2: Forty four says OPI buried the lead, letty elid lead

1685
01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 2: the lead or the lead? What's the lead? The like

1686
01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: the thing that you should lead with like a like

1687
01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 2: a lead in a like a like a clue. But

1688
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:17,560
Speaker 2: he spelled it led right spell, she's pregnant and boyfriend

1689
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 2: is lost or is a stranger from his family. Dude

1690
01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:22,559
Speaker 2: is freaking the f out and needs therapy.

1691
01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:25,840
Speaker 4: Mole says, has he ever dealt with mental health or

1692
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:26,960
Speaker 4: serious medical issues?

1693
01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:29,639
Speaker 2: Could he be depressed or in a fog state?

1694
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:32,639
Speaker 4: This is so strange. I hope you find answer soon.

1695
01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 4: OPI replies to that fuge state.

1696
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:39,240
Speaker 2: Could it be? Could he be depressed or in a

1697
01:26:39,360 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 2: fugue state?

1698
01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,639
Speaker 4: This is so strange. I hope you find answers soon,

1699
01:26:43,080 --> 01:26:45,800
Speaker 4: to which OPI replies, nothing like that. I know when

1700
01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:47,879
Speaker 4: he was a young boy, he had something really traumatic

1701
01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:50,080
Speaker 4: happened to him. He is missing a finger and has

1702
01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 4: scars all down his leg and torso, but refuses to

1703
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:54,680
Speaker 4: talk about it, so I don't press him on it.

1704
01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:57,680
Speaker 4: That is a backstory. Yeah, that's insane. He is very

1705
01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:01,679
Speaker 4: laid back in stoic, nothing ever or upsets him. However,

1706
01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 4: we did find out I was pregnant a couple months back,

1707
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:06,439
Speaker 4: and since then I have noticed he seems a little

1708
01:27:06,479 --> 01:27:09,799
Speaker 4: more withdrawn and reserved. But he gets like that sometimes,

1709
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 4: Korb says. Curio says, good, op, you deserve answers. One

1710
01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 4: hundred percent is his iPad link to any of the

1711
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:24,639
Speaker 4: messaging apps. I'm guessing not, since you've already tried looking

1712
01:27:24,680 --> 01:27:27,439
Speaker 4: through it. I know I would be going absolutely crazy,

1713
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:30,519
Speaker 4: and that's easier said than done. But try to keep

1714
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 4: as calm as possible and know you will get answers

1715
01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:36,280
Speaker 4: in a few short days. This is absolutely unfair, selfish,

1716
01:27:36,320 --> 01:27:39,040
Speaker 4: and crazy. So sorry you are going through it. There's

1717
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:41,880
Speaker 4: obviously something very wrong if you ran away from home

1718
01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:45,960
Speaker 4: and typically a caring and it is typically a caring

1719
01:27:46,040 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 4: and thoughtful kind person. Also about the childhood trauma thing,

1720
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 4: I'm sure you asked about it about it upon first.

1721
01:27:52,479 --> 01:27:54,760
Speaker 2: Meeting him, since the finger thing was apparent. Did he

1722
01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:56,439
Speaker 2: just say I don't like to talk about that.

1723
01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 4: I find it absolutely nuts that he has not opened

1724
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 4: up to you once about it after all this time.

1725
01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 4: What has he said to your family and friends, which

1726
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:07,479
Speaker 4: I'm sure have asked about it, if they've noticed his

1727
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 4: hand or seen him in a swimsuit. What's he planning

1728
01:28:10,520 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 4: to tell his child when they inevitably ask about it.

1729
01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:17,639
Speaker 4: Keeping it an angry secret doesn't seem sustainable, to which

1730
01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:21,920
Speaker 4: op he replies, Yeah, the first time I asked about

1731
01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:24,040
Speaker 4: the finger he said something happened when he was younger,

1732
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:28,880
Speaker 4: and he doesn't has never and will never talk about it.

1733
01:28:28,960 --> 01:28:32,679
Speaker 2: So op, he just like shut it down completely. Wow.

1734
01:28:32,960 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 2: I obviously found it odd, but figured he would in

1735
01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:39,160
Speaker 2: time tell me. I've brought it up a couple of

1736
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 2: times over the relationship and he always just shuts it down.

1737
01:28:42,080 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 2: And the last time I brought it up was the

1738
01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 2: only time. Who age.

1739
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 4: Me?

1740
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1741
01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:52,439
Speaker 4: Am I good?

1742
01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:57,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good, I'm tired. I'm maybe you see a

1743
01:28:57,439 --> 01:29:02,559
Speaker 2: little tired. You see him tired, maybe a little bit? Okay,

1744
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,160
Speaker 2: I had some I had to.

1745
01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:07,760
Speaker 4: I obviously found it odd, but figured he would have

1746
01:29:08,320 --> 01:29:10,080
Speaker 4: figured in time that he would tell me. I brought

1747
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 4: it up a couple of times over the relationship, and

1748
01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 4: he always just shuts it down. And the last time

1749
01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:16,599
Speaker 4: I brought it up was the only time he has

1750
01:29:16,680 --> 01:29:19,559
Speaker 4: ever raised his voice at me. So I just left

1751
01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:22,040
Speaker 4: it alone after that. That was almost two years ago.

1752
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 2: Now. My brother in law asked him about his scars

1753
01:29:24,600 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 2: and he said it was from an accident he had

1754
01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:29,600
Speaker 2: when he was younger. He talks to me, how he

1755
01:29:29,840 --> 01:29:31,679
Speaker 2: talks to me about how he There's.

1756
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 4: No way that's like the full story though.

1757
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:36,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way, that's the full story, like if if,

1758
01:29:36,880 --> 01:29:39,520
Speaker 2: if it's not just an accident.

1759
01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:44,439
Speaker 4: I I yeah, I think there's like a big a

1760
01:29:46,160 --> 01:29:50,479
Speaker 4: something very big. App I mean losing a finger. Yeah,

1761
01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:53,559
Speaker 4: that's I talked to a guy who lost a finger recently,

1762
01:29:53,880 --> 01:30:00,320
Speaker 4: all his fingers and uh aw accident, aw accident, accident, Okay,

1763
01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:02,240
Speaker 4: story time it saw accidents.

1764
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:06,160
Speaker 2: Claire cray won six one six oh, says Sam looks

1765
01:30:06,200 --> 01:30:08,599
Speaker 2: super tired and Dine, you know what I've done with Claire.

1766
01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:13,559
Speaker 2: You're comment about my tiredness. Oh snap, I'm not tired.

1767
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm excited. Well, we have more, give me more.

1768
01:30:19,520 --> 01:30:21,519
Speaker 4: He talks to me about how he is feeling all

1769
01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:25,160
Speaker 4: the time. He is actually really good at communicating his

1770
01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 4: thoughts and feelings. He talks to me about his life

1771
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:30,320
Speaker 4: before he met me, but only goes back to when

1772
01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 4: he was around twenty one. He rarely mentions anything from

1773
01:30:33,360 --> 01:30:35,920
Speaker 4: childhood or teen years. I know he is in some

1774
01:30:36,360 --> 01:30:38,200
Speaker 4: I know he was in some trouble with a law

1775
01:30:38,360 --> 01:30:42,000
Speaker 4: because he was because he had a Devil's lettuce charge

1776
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:44,639
Speaker 4: on his record from two thousand and seven. And when

1777
01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:47,040
Speaker 4: I went through the case notes, he actually he was

1778
01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:49,880
Speaker 4: already on probation when he got that charge, but I

1779
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:52,680
Speaker 4: had no idea what for. I found that out this

1780
01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:56,360
Speaker 4: past week as well. Wow, obviously I am missing something,

1781
01:30:56,439 --> 01:30:58,760
Speaker 4: but I just don't know what. I never thought he

1782
01:30:58,880 --> 01:31:01,080
Speaker 4: was lying to me, or that he would lie to me,

1783
01:31:01,600 --> 01:31:04,959
Speaker 4: but now I am questioning if I ever knew.

1784
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:09,280
Speaker 2: Who he is and we so basically, OPI is questioning

1785
01:31:09,439 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 2: because one doesn't know about these scars and the lost

1786
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:18,240
Speaker 2: finger and also childhood, yes, and then two, where the

1787
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:18,760
Speaker 2: f is he?

1788
01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:23,679
Speaker 4: Do you think all of these things are connected?

1789
01:31:26,240 --> 01:31:28,519
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Well I don't know. I feel like.

1790
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:34,040
Speaker 4: I feel like there's a high chance that they might

1791
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:34,839
Speaker 4: be connected.

1792
01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:47,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. I think there's no way that this backstory

1793
01:31:48,040 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 2: isn't affecting him a little bit. And I feel like

1794
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:57,599
Speaker 2: if he's leaving suddenly, it is either because of something

1795
01:31:57,640 --> 01:32:01,880
Speaker 2: to do with his backstory or it because practice family.

1796
01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 4: Man, You're you're really bullish on practice family.

1797
01:32:06,520 --> 01:32:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I love a good practice fa.

1798
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:08,560
Speaker 1: It could be.

1799
01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:09,200
Speaker 2: It could be.

1800
01:32:09,680 --> 01:32:13,000
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe, I mean, maybe all of this

1801
01:32:13,080 --> 01:32:15,439
Speaker 4: stuff is one of the reasons why he like keeps

1802
01:32:15,680 --> 01:32:17,960
Speaker 4: certain you have certain things that he just like doesn't

1803
01:32:17,960 --> 01:32:18,360
Speaker 4: talk about.

1804
01:32:18,560 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, And Daniel Papercrane says that sounds painful for him. Yeah,

1805
01:32:21,600 --> 01:32:23,880
Speaker 2: I mean it could have been painful. Irish Gig says

1806
01:32:23,960 --> 01:32:25,840
Speaker 2: kid may have been in a gang, like there's there's

1807
01:32:26,120 --> 01:32:29,320
Speaker 2: there's some styleing that we don't necessarily want to like

1808
01:32:29,640 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 2: always talk about, right, So I don't know. I think

1809
01:32:38,600 --> 01:32:40,479
Speaker 2: I think it could have something to do. But I

1810
01:32:40,560 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 2: want to know about this update. Well, let's get into it.

1811
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:44,880
Speaker 2: Onto the update.

1812
01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:46,920
Speaker 4: So first, I want to say thank you to everyone

1813
01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:50,280
Speaker 4: who suggested the welfare check, especially muppet John bon Jovi.

1814
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:53,160
Speaker 4: We call the department where his phone is pinging, and

1815
01:32:53,360 --> 01:32:55,160
Speaker 4: they have sent someone over to see if they can

1816
01:32:55,200 --> 01:32:59,400
Speaker 4: make contact with them. That that seems like a pretty

1817
01:32:59,400 --> 01:32:59,760
Speaker 4: good idea.

1818
01:32:59,800 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 2: Good.

1819
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:04,200
Speaker 4: I'm confused why the brother has not been they were,

1820
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:07,360
Speaker 4: they had gone no contacts before.

1821
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:08,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but why.

1822
01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:11,680
Speaker 4: Maybe that has nothing to do with this? Yeah, good point,

1823
01:33:11,720 --> 01:33:14,400
Speaker 4: good point, good question. It's been over an hour and

1824
01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:16,960
Speaker 4: we still are waiting to hear back. I'm hopeful, but

1825
01:33:17,080 --> 01:33:20,000
Speaker 4: still have an overbearing sense of dread. All I want

1826
01:33:20,080 --> 01:33:22,200
Speaker 4: to know right now is that he is okay, and

1827
01:33:22,320 --> 01:33:24,880
Speaker 4: I can figure out everything and I can figure everything.

1828
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:25,280
Speaker 2: Else out later.

1829
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:29,240
Speaker 4: I just need to know that he is okay. And guys,

1830
01:33:29,760 --> 01:33:30,920
Speaker 4: we have another update.

1831
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:37,240
Speaker 2: Let's go love freaking updates. We love I love up

1832
01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:38,519
Speaker 2: I love a good update.

1833
01:33:38,760 --> 01:33:42,920
Speaker 4: Updates make me so happy, That's right. I kind of

1834
01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:45,160
Speaker 4: just wish we could just like peer in on people's

1835
01:33:45,200 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 4: lives and the like whenever we wanted it would.

1836
01:33:48,680 --> 01:33:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, even for the ones that don't have an update,

1837
01:33:51,080 --> 01:33:54,280
Speaker 2: just like, whoop, what's going on? Pop in? Just pop in?

1838
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:55,280
Speaker 2: Live their life.

1839
01:33:55,760 --> 01:33:57,479
Speaker 4: I guess we could kind of do that with Okay fam,

1840
01:33:58,439 --> 01:34:01,040
Speaker 4: get updates from them through twenty for our live stream

1841
01:34:01,680 --> 01:34:04,400
Speaker 4: of people's living the stories that they're telling.

1842
01:34:04,600 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a movie, like a movie, but live streamed.

1843
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 4: But from the perspective of their eyeballs.

1844
01:34:11,080 --> 01:34:13,560
Speaker 2: Anyway, what's just update, Let's dive in.

1845
01:34:13,880 --> 01:34:16,080
Speaker 4: The police were able to do a welfare check and

1846
01:34:16,400 --> 01:34:18,840
Speaker 4: although they were unable to make direct contact with them,

1847
01:34:19,200 --> 01:34:21,400
Speaker 4: they spoke to the couple who lives at the house

1848
01:34:21,800 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 4: and they said they were old family friends and that

1849
01:34:24,280 --> 01:34:26,680
Speaker 4: he was there on Friday and Saturday, but he went

1850
01:34:26,720 --> 01:34:29,560
Speaker 4: to the Olympics Sunday morning to go hiking for a

1851
01:34:29,600 --> 01:34:33,120
Speaker 4: couple of days. The officers informed them of what was

1852
01:34:33,200 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 4: going on and told them they believed he was okay,

1853
01:34:36,600 --> 01:34:39,320
Speaker 4: that they would that they would contact me tonight to

1854
01:34:39,479 --> 01:34:42,439
Speaker 4: try and help explain the situation. What does that mean?

1855
01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:43,959
Speaker 2: I'm even more confused.

1856
01:34:45,040 --> 01:34:47,880
Speaker 4: Our flight to Seattle is at nine forty five am tomorrow,

1857
01:34:48,240 --> 01:34:51,000
Speaker 4: and at this point we are still going. I hope

1858
01:34:51,040 --> 01:34:53,599
Speaker 4: these people do call. But it's been a while now

1859
01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:58,679
Speaker 4: and I haven't heard anything. And there is another new update. Yeah,

1860
01:35:01,240 --> 01:35:03,400
Speaker 4: and I think this will be my final update. Cool,

1861
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 4: we think we don't know. I have to get ready

1862
01:35:05,960 --> 01:35:07,920
Speaker 4: and get my stuff packed for the flight this morning.

1863
01:35:08,360 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 4: I have just spent the last hour speaking to the

1864
01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:15,920
Speaker 4: couple whose house he was at, and and they said

1865
01:35:15,960 --> 01:35:17,879
Speaker 4: against his and they against his wishes.

1866
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:21,960
Speaker 2: Told me what is going on? Oh, so they're giving

1867
01:35:22,479 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 2: like why, Like why are they going against the wishes? Well,

1868
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:28,759
Speaker 2: they have known my boyfriend Nate since he was twelve

1869
01:35:28,920 --> 01:35:33,200
Speaker 2: years old. He started dating their daughter, Ashley when they

1870
01:35:33,240 --> 01:35:34,160
Speaker 2: were in the sixth grade.

1871
01:35:34,200 --> 01:35:36,840
Speaker 4: Okay, no, sorry, not a secret farmently sorry, he.

1872
01:35:36,960 --> 01:35:38,280
Speaker 1: Was sinking lower level.

1873
01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 2: That is true. We're we're just gonna lose.

1874
01:35:40,840 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 4: We're gonna lose, Sam to the horizon of the of

1875
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:51,559
Speaker 4: the dream is going to be gone. He started dating

1876
01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:54,120
Speaker 4: their daughter Ashley when they were sixth grade, and they

1877
01:35:55,040 --> 01:35:59,080
Speaker 4: continued dating all through middle school and high school, Ashley

1878
01:35:59,320 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 4: got pregnant.

1879
01:36:01,680 --> 01:36:06,720
Speaker 2: Yep, practice family, who got it? Who got it? I

1880
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 2: got it?

1881
01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:10,320
Speaker 4: Secret family, We'll say, you know I got it. We'll

1882
01:36:10,360 --> 01:36:14,920
Speaker 4: say secret family. Exclamation point, question mark.

1883
01:36:15,040 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 2: We're not that show. We're not there yet.

1884
01:36:17,479 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 4: Actually got pregnant towards the end of their senior year,

1885
01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:23,719
Speaker 4: and they got engaged. I don't know how to even

1886
01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:30,120
Speaker 4: write this next part. When when their son was one

1887
01:36:30,160 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 4: and a half years old, they were involved in an

1888
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:36,040
Speaker 4: accident with a drunk driver and Nate was ejected from

1889
01:36:36,160 --> 01:36:40,240
Speaker 4: the car and Ashley and his son passed away in

1890
01:36:40,439 --> 01:36:44,120
Speaker 4: the accident. She said that he blames himself for it

1891
01:36:44,439 --> 01:36:47,200
Speaker 4: because according to him, they were never supposed.

1892
01:36:46,760 --> 01:36:49,280
Speaker 2: To be out that night and it was his fault

1893
01:36:49,439 --> 01:36:49,880
Speaker 2: they were.

1894
01:36:50,479 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 4: She said he withdrew from them and everyone else, and

1895
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 4: that up until last Friday they hadn't heard from him.

1896
01:36:57,200 --> 01:37:00,519
Speaker 4: Since he left. She is offered to come get my

1897
01:37:00,680 --> 01:37:03,040
Speaker 4: sister and I from the airport, and in the morning

1898
01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:06,479
Speaker 4: she began to try to answer any questions I have

1899
01:37:06,880 --> 01:37:10,000
Speaker 4: while we wait for him to return. She said, they

1900
01:37:10,080 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 4: know where he is. He is at the spot they

1901
01:37:12,439 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 4: spread their ashes. She said he told her that he

1902
01:37:16,960 --> 01:37:19,840
Speaker 4: She said he told her that he needs to be

1903
01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:23,960
Speaker 4: with his son one more time before he let him go.

1904
01:37:24,880 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 4: I'm honestly.

1905
01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:33,519
Speaker 2: Say, all the practice fas we see, see, we never know.

1906
01:37:34,240 --> 01:37:35,520
Speaker 2: I'm so heartbreaking.

1907
01:37:36,960 --> 01:37:39,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's get back to reality. Thanks for mister Sophia.

1908
01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:43,400
Speaker 4: I'm honestly in a total state of shock right now.

1909
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:45,960
Speaker 4: I don't know what to think, but I know he

1910
01:37:46,120 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 4: is in pain and I need to get him and

1911
01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:50,439
Speaker 4: I can figure out everything else out that that's how

1912
01:37:50,479 --> 01:37:53,760
Speaker 4: he lost the fingers the accident. It seems like that

1913
01:37:54,520 --> 01:37:55,560
Speaker 4: is probably what it is.

1914
01:37:55,960 --> 01:37:57,360
Speaker 2: This son was ejected.

1915
01:37:58,479 --> 01:38:00,920
Speaker 6: Uh, I.

1916
01:38:03,280 --> 01:38:04,320
Speaker 2: I heard ejected.

1917
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:14,280
Speaker 4: Yes, there was okay, Nate was ejected from the car. Yes, Opie,

1918
01:38:14,320 --> 01:38:16,600
Speaker 4: Opie's boyfriend was ejected. So he probably wasn't wearing a

1919
01:38:16,640 --> 01:38:17,120
Speaker 4: seat belt.

1920
01:38:17,439 --> 01:38:20,800
Speaker 2: Yes, but actually in the sun passed away, Nate survived.

1921
01:38:21,320 --> 01:38:23,880
Speaker 4: Oh basically, so you shouldn't wear a seat belt.

1922
01:38:24,760 --> 01:38:25,600
Speaker 2: No, we're not saying that.

1923
01:38:25,720 --> 01:38:30,080
Speaker 4: We're not saying that. Uh. Thank you to all the

1924
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:32,680
Speaker 4: kind people who reached out and offered your suggestions. I

1925
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:35,640
Speaker 4: honestly don't think I would have this information right now

1926
01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:38,280
Speaker 4: if it wasn't for you all, So thank you.

1927
01:38:38,520 --> 01:38:41,640
Speaker 2: We have two relevant comments to close this out. Here

1928
01:38:41,760 --> 01:38:45,960
Speaker 2: wait really quick. Sam Hyatt had a pretty good comment.

1929
01:38:46,040 --> 01:38:50,759
Speaker 2: Can you can you go scroll up? So Sam Hyatt

1930
01:38:50,760 --> 01:38:53,120
Speaker 2: says this is sad, which I think we can all

1931
01:38:53,120 --> 01:38:56,439
Speaker 2: agree with. But none of this absolves the husband keeping

1932
01:38:56,479 --> 01:39:00,400
Speaker 2: all this a secret from his wife and disappear without

1933
01:39:00,400 --> 01:39:04,040
Speaker 2: a word, which I think is Yeah. Kate Ellie says, well,

1934
01:39:04,240 --> 01:39:06,800
Speaker 2: that's a huge thing to never talk about.

1935
01:39:07,960 --> 01:39:12,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, oh so amber Rose survivor's guilt. Maybe

1936
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:17,040
Speaker 4: finding out she's pregnant garant him because he's now thinking, like,

1937
01:39:17,560 --> 01:39:22,240
Speaker 4: look what happened to my I while I, you know,

1938
01:39:22,439 --> 01:39:26,360
Speaker 4: don't think it's good that uh Nate kept it in

1939
01:39:26,479 --> 01:39:29,800
Speaker 4: because then he can like get help. I I just

1940
01:39:30,080 --> 01:39:31,479
Speaker 4: I just really feel for the guy.

1941
01:39:31,600 --> 01:39:35,600
Speaker 2: I understand not wanting to talk about that. Yeah, but

1942
01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:43,280
Speaker 2: also like I again, parenting, what what would one of

1943
01:39:43,360 --> 01:39:47,160
Speaker 2: y'all sit in the comment like that is a huge

1944
01:39:47,200 --> 01:39:50,519
Speaker 2: thing to not keep from or to keep from a partner. Yeah,

1945
01:39:51,040 --> 01:39:53,719
Speaker 2: like not just a partner, not a girlfriend or whatever,

1946
01:39:54,080 --> 01:39:54,719
Speaker 2: a wife.

1947
01:39:55,320 --> 01:40:03,599
Speaker 4: They're not married, but they are, but but but they're

1948
01:40:03,640 --> 01:40:06,000
Speaker 4: deep boyfriend of sixty years, so I mean.

1949
01:40:06,200 --> 01:40:09,320
Speaker 2: Not not not Mary, but like but still a deep relationship,

1950
01:40:09,680 --> 01:40:13,880
Speaker 2: deep relationship. Yeah, yeah, thanks for getting one hundred percent

1951
01:40:13,920 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 2: of that reading comprehension. I was about to have a slip,

1952
01:40:16,920 --> 01:40:19,160
Speaker 2: breaking on have a slip, I'm on a baby. Yeah,

1953
01:40:19,360 --> 01:40:25,080
Speaker 2: I I think it's very sad, but it does not

1954
01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:28,960
Speaker 2: excuse not saying anything. Yeah, it's that.

1955
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:31,920
Speaker 4: It's that thing of like just because you've had a

1956
01:40:32,040 --> 01:40:34,360
Speaker 4: trauma does not mean that it's okay for you to

1957
01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:36,639
Speaker 4: hurt or flick trauma upon.

1958
01:40:36,960 --> 01:40:42,160
Speaker 2: Like we under the person, we understand why it's happening. Yeah,

1959
01:40:42,439 --> 01:40:43,560
Speaker 2: but we don't condone it.

1960
01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:46,960
Speaker 4: Yes, it's true we have some closing out. That was

1961
01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:52,240
Speaker 4: a great comment. Who's that again, Foxy Foxy Brown shout

1962
01:40:52,280 --> 01:40:53,559
Speaker 4: out to you who just made that comment.

1963
01:40:55,080 --> 01:40:57,760
Speaker 2: Also, tld R, my boyfriend of six years disappeared while

1964
01:40:57,760 --> 01:40:59,200
Speaker 2: I was out of town and I don't.

1965
01:40:59,040 --> 01:41:02,400
Speaker 4: Know what to do. Yes, and we found out that

1966
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:05,400
Speaker 4: it was he lost his family in an accident.

1967
01:41:05,560 --> 01:41:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's kind of like he was remembering them

1968
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:10,439
Speaker 2: by going to the grave. That is so?

1969
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:11,559
Speaker 4: Is that indeed?

1970
01:41:12,560 --> 01:41:14,080
Speaker 2: So closing it out with s F food.

1971
01:41:14,880 --> 01:41:16,840
Speaker 4: Best I can make of this is that to become

1972
01:41:16,880 --> 01:41:19,320
Speaker 4: a father again, he needed to have closure with the

1973
01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:21,920
Speaker 4: child he had before. I have no idea how to

1974
01:41:22,080 --> 01:41:25,240
Speaker 4: excuse his just taking off on his pregnant girlfriend to

1975
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:28,559
Speaker 4: do it. She was pregnant as well, so pregnant six years.

1976
01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 4: I mean, this is a deep, deep relationship. It's not

1977
01:41:31,120 --> 01:41:34,479
Speaker 4: like they just started dating two weeks ago. I have

1978
01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:36,560
Speaker 4: no idea how to excuse him taking off of his

1979
01:41:36,600 --> 01:41:39,040
Speaker 4: pregnant girlfriend to do it, abandoning her at the airport

1980
01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:42,680
Speaker 4: and going no contact. That's pretty despicable. And taking all

1981
01:41:42,720 --> 01:41:45,040
Speaker 4: of his clothes and taking all of his clothes like

1982
01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:49,000
Speaker 4: he's like, legit, legit leaving, you know, and not something

1983
01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:51,400
Speaker 4: I'd forgive easily. I mean, he's put you guys to

1984
01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:54,160
Speaker 4: hell because he couldn't even bother to answer his phone.

1985
01:41:54,360 --> 01:41:57,400
Speaker 4: Another point, and what is with him taking all of

1986
01:41:57,479 --> 01:42:00,560
Speaker 4: his clothes? Just weird and sorry, I guess says. It

1987
01:42:00,720 --> 01:42:03,040
Speaker 4: sounds like he may have had a bit of a breakdown,

1988
01:42:03,240 --> 01:42:06,639
Speaker 4: not excusing it, but this definitely doesn't sound premeditated. More

1989
01:42:06,800 --> 01:42:08,800
Speaker 4: like he had a breakdown over the thought of becoming

1990
01:42:08,840 --> 01:42:11,840
Speaker 4: a father again and felt he needed closure with the past,

1991
01:42:12,200 --> 01:42:15,280
Speaker 4: and he just sort of a bit that he had

1992
01:42:15,520 --> 01:42:19,080
Speaker 4: just sort of abandoned up until now and that is

1993
01:42:19,600 --> 01:42:23,639
Speaker 4: the end of the story. My goodness.

1994
01:42:23,720 --> 01:42:28,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think like I'm I'm thinking, like, how

1995
01:42:28,479 --> 01:42:32,639
Speaker 2: do we how do we navigate this situation? As op

1996
01:42:32,880 --> 01:42:36,519
Speaker 2: so Op been in this relationship for six years, is

1997
01:42:36,680 --> 01:42:40,840
Speaker 2: pregnant with this guy's child yep, doesn't really know much

1998
01:42:40,840 --> 01:42:45,240
Speaker 2: about his early life and didn't know at all about

1999
01:42:46,200 --> 01:42:52,800
Speaker 2: her boyfriend's family that he had beforehand. Yeah, I think

2000
01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:57,840
Speaker 2: if you are to get back with this person, you

2001
01:42:58,040 --> 01:42:59,839
Speaker 2: can't be with the person that's going to be flighty

2002
01:43:00,600 --> 01:43:05,360
Speaker 2: and also someone who hasn't processed all the trauma exactly

2003
01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:10,000
Speaker 2: that they've been through, which obviously Opie's boyfriend has not.

2004
01:43:10,840 --> 01:43:15,400
Speaker 2: So I feel like like a stipulation of being in

2005
01:43:17,000 --> 01:43:20,080
Speaker 2: that this guy being in your life might be like

2006
01:43:20,760 --> 01:43:23,560
Speaker 2: you need to do some serious work on yourself. You

2007
01:43:23,680 --> 01:43:28,280
Speaker 2: need to go to some therapy, because like I can't

2008
01:43:28,320 --> 01:43:33,280
Speaker 2: imagine this relationship working long term if he doesn't, like

2009
01:43:33,360 --> 01:43:37,680
Speaker 2: it's the relationship's gonna fail. Yeah, right, like like the

2010
01:43:37,760 --> 01:43:40,080
Speaker 2: relationship for so short, Like like this needs like this

2011
01:43:40,240 --> 01:43:41,800
Speaker 2: needs to be talked about. The fact that it was

2012
01:43:42,120 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 2: this was such a big thing and it was not

2013
01:43:44,320 --> 01:43:50,040
Speaker 2: even talked about probably with anyone include you know, maybe

2014
01:43:50,760 --> 01:43:56,080
Speaker 2: maybe conspiracy theory. Op's boyfriend went no contact with the

2015
01:43:56,080 --> 01:43:57,720
Speaker 2: brother because the brothers, like, we need to talk about this,

2016
01:43:57,800 --> 01:43:58,160
Speaker 2: and he's like.

2017
01:43:58,200 --> 01:44:02,600
Speaker 4: Nah, that is a pretty good theory. Yeah, No, I

2018
01:44:02,600 --> 01:44:04,559
Speaker 4: think I think you're right. And like, at the end

2019
01:44:04,560 --> 01:44:06,920
Speaker 4: of the day, like when you're in a relationship with

2020
01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:10,559
Speaker 4: another person, like you can't just do stuff that will

2021
01:44:11,320 --> 01:44:15,400
Speaker 4: cause this person pain with no explanation, no communication, Like

2022
01:44:15,880 --> 01:44:18,200
Speaker 4: you can't do that, Like.

2023
01:44:18,920 --> 01:44:21,040
Speaker 2: Well, Blake, I think it's you know, yes, you need

2024
01:44:21,080 --> 01:44:23,120
Speaker 2: to take care of yourself. But when you're in a relationship,

2025
01:44:23,200 --> 01:44:27,400
Speaker 2: there's this, there's this, Uh, it was a contract that

2026
01:44:27,479 --> 01:44:32,000
Speaker 2: you enter in and the contract says I am thinking

2027
01:44:32,040 --> 01:44:34,479
Speaker 2: about you as well, yes, and your emotions not just

2028
01:44:34,600 --> 01:44:36,840
Speaker 2: me right, and like I think we have that with

2029
01:44:36,960 --> 01:44:41,400
Speaker 2: our friends and such too, But like with a romantic relationship,

2030
01:44:41,600 --> 01:44:44,599
Speaker 2: especially a romantic relationship with six years and a child

2031
01:44:44,680 --> 01:44:47,880
Speaker 2: on the way, yes, that expectation is even larger that

2032
01:44:48,840 --> 01:44:53,519
Speaker 2: you need to communicate how you're feeling and your past

2033
01:44:53,840 --> 01:44:57,240
Speaker 2: and your trauma, especially anything that could you know, anything

2034
01:44:57,280 --> 01:45:00,760
Speaker 2: that's gonna come up like this because it's like like this,

2035
01:45:01,000 --> 01:45:04,640
Speaker 2: but the Opie's boyfriend could basically say, hey, like this

2036
01:45:04,800 --> 01:45:07,519
Speaker 2: happened in the past, it's not relevant to our relationship now.

2037
01:45:07,840 --> 01:45:11,040
Speaker 2: But that's not true because it's affecting it. Because it's

2038
01:45:11,040 --> 01:45:14,760
Speaker 2: affecting it. And like the thing about trauma is it

2039
01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:19,880
Speaker 2: it bubbles up in weird and and and sometimes icky ways.

2040
01:45:19,960 --> 01:45:23,519
Speaker 2: And if you don't like, uh, there's this uh uh,

2041
01:45:23,880 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 2: I think it's like the Wall Street Journal or something

2042
01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:28,519
Speaker 2: has a the Washington Post. I forget which one has

2043
01:45:28,560 --> 01:45:32,479
Speaker 2: a Their tagline is democracy dies in the dark. And

2044
01:45:32,720 --> 01:45:36,400
Speaker 2: like I think, like so do relationships. Like, like when

2045
01:45:36,439 --> 01:45:40,120
Speaker 2: there's trauma in the dark and it's not there's no

2046
01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:45,040
Speaker 2: light shot like shined on it, it festers. And so

2047
01:45:45,280 --> 01:45:48,400
Speaker 2: like when you start shining a light on your trauma

2048
01:45:48,520 --> 01:45:51,680
Speaker 2: your insecurities, then they can be addressed. But if you

2049
01:45:51,880 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 2: just leave them in the dark, it is it is

2050
01:45:54,280 --> 01:45:55,160
Speaker 2: a relationship ender.

2051
01:45:55,640 --> 01:46:00,960
Speaker 4: And I like, I I really do feel for Opie's

2052
01:46:01,439 --> 01:46:03,680
Speaker 4: boyfriend Nate, like that is a lot to go through.

2053
01:46:03,760 --> 01:46:07,240
Speaker 4: It's probably just very hard for him to bring it up.

2054
01:46:07,240 --> 01:46:09,640
Speaker 4: But it's kind of one of those things that like

2055
01:46:10,479 --> 01:46:12,760
Speaker 4: it is what it is when you enter a relationship

2056
01:46:12,800 --> 01:46:16,840
Speaker 4: where you can't just like do actions that will hurt

2057
01:46:17,600 --> 01:46:18,320
Speaker 4: the other person.

2058
01:46:18,479 --> 01:46:21,360
Speaker 2: Again, like we're we are not saying like like we feel,

2059
01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:24,840
Speaker 2: oh yeah for Opie's boyfriend. Yeah, that terrible thing to

2060
01:46:24,920 --> 01:46:28,760
Speaker 2: go through. But just because we feel and understand why

2061
01:46:28,880 --> 01:46:31,640
Speaker 2: someone does something doesn't mean we need to condone the

2062
01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:32,800
Speaker 2: action itself.

2063
01:46:32,479 --> 01:46:36,320
Speaker 4: A million percent and ultimately, like or for him, for

2064
01:46:36,479 --> 01:46:42,439
Speaker 4: the boyfriend, Nate like he is better off by diving

2065
01:46:42,520 --> 01:46:44,120
Speaker 4: in and dealing with this trauma.

2066
01:46:44,640 --> 01:46:48,400
Speaker 2: Everyone is better off for addressing this trauma. Yes, yes,

2067
01:46:49,120 --> 01:46:52,360
Speaker 2: we had some great comments come in in the donation

2068
01:46:52,520 --> 01:46:59,479
Speaker 2: links that I saw in a suck. But Sam Hyatt responds,

2069
01:46:59,600 --> 01:47:02,080
Speaker 2: reminds me read a story with op is pregnant, married

2070
01:47:02,120 --> 01:47:04,479
Speaker 2: to a husband for ten plus years, He's still obsessed

2071
01:47:04,520 --> 01:47:06,760
Speaker 2: over his dead wife and eventually left OPI over it.

2072
01:47:06,960 --> 01:47:10,839
Speaker 2: Men really need to get their shit together before knocking

2073
01:47:11,040 --> 01:47:13,320
Speaker 2: women up. Which is true.

2074
01:47:13,439 --> 01:47:14,559
Speaker 4: That is true, which is true.

2075
01:47:14,720 --> 01:47:17,240
Speaker 2: He's true. Raz Candy Puppy, thanks for the five buck tip.

2076
01:47:17,320 --> 01:47:20,000
Speaker 2: I need to save for the convention in less than

2077
01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:23,280
Speaker 2: two weeks, but let's go. He appreciate you a RAS

2078
01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:26,240
Speaker 2: Candy Puppy, thanks for the one month of membership. Let's go.

2079
01:47:28,320 --> 01:47:31,920
Speaker 2: Asian Persuasion, thanks for the five bucks. I tried to

2080
01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:35,400
Speaker 2: make her more human. This is the cock o see

2081
01:47:35,760 --> 01:47:39,519
Speaker 2: the roach DOSSI because I can't draw bugs had to

2082
01:47:39,600 --> 01:47:41,920
Speaker 2: make the cockroach sexy. Yes, I know she has too

2083
01:47:41,960 --> 01:47:43,920
Speaker 2: many arms. I'm just too lazy to fix it. I

2084
01:47:44,080 --> 01:47:47,639
Speaker 2: like that many arms. Persuasion Roach ogthas love OCAs life

2085
01:47:47,640 --> 01:47:51,599
Speaker 2: Asian persuasion. Thanks for the two bucks, so show people.

2086
01:47:51,680 --> 01:47:53,280
Speaker 2: I want to make her into a sticker. If you

2087
01:47:53,360 --> 01:47:58,120
Speaker 2: want to see Asian persuasions. Agatha beautiful rendition of a

2088
01:47:58,200 --> 01:48:00,719
Speaker 2: sexy cockroach. Go the discord.

2089
01:48:00,840 --> 01:48:03,439
Speaker 4: It's in a discord there, it's in the our channel.

2090
01:48:04,280 --> 01:48:06,960
Speaker 2: Just feed with Dolo Burkeust. Thanks for the two fifty tip.

2091
01:48:07,080 --> 01:48:09,080
Speaker 2: It's past four. I am here, got to sleep. Thanks

2092
01:48:09,080 --> 01:48:11,280
Speaker 2: for the fun stream well, thanks for joining. Is there

2093
01:48:11,360 --> 01:48:16,639
Speaker 2: more wuls? I could have sworn there was more.

2094
01:48:17,040 --> 01:48:20,320
Speaker 4: I thought I thought there was more too wash down there.

2095
01:48:21,360 --> 01:48:24,240
Speaker 4: I could well persuasion.

2096
01:48:24,760 --> 01:48:27,000
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I could have sworn there was more if.

2097
01:48:26,880 --> 01:48:29,960
Speaker 4: We missed any let us know, as it sometimes glitches,

2098
01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:31,599
Speaker 4: But it seems like we're up today.

2099
01:48:31,760 --> 01:48:33,760
Speaker 2: I think we think we read everything we can see.

2100
01:48:34,600 --> 01:48:38,320
Speaker 2: Socrates says this has go to therapy written all over it. Yeah,

2101
01:48:38,479 --> 01:48:43,639
Speaker 2: I completely agree. Is that where it ends over? Wow? Wow?

2102
01:48:43,760 --> 01:48:44,960
Speaker 4: Let me triple check myself.

2103
01:48:45,000 --> 01:48:48,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, dang, yeah, I wish we had more context

2104
01:48:48,760 --> 01:48:51,360
Speaker 2: of like, like, you know, I want these stories to

2105
01:48:51,479 --> 01:48:55,880
Speaker 2: be like and we all worked it out right, But uh,

2106
01:48:56,160 --> 01:48:58,960
Speaker 2: I don't think that is gonna happen. I don't think

2107
01:48:58,960 --> 01:49:01,000
Speaker 2: it's gonna happen. It all worked out is a great

2108
01:49:01,120 --> 01:49:07,479
Speaker 2: themet says, you miss mine? Where is it you miss? Yeah?

2109
01:49:08,080 --> 01:49:10,000
Speaker 2: Lord Milky came in too. I feel like the new

2110
01:49:10,040 --> 01:49:14,639
Speaker 2: ones aren't hey, y'all. I think they might be taking

2111
01:49:14,760 --> 01:49:18,880
Speaker 2: a sec to come in because I did see I

2112
01:49:19,000 --> 01:49:24,080
Speaker 2: did see Lord Milky come in. Is it maybe we

2113
01:49:24,160 --> 01:49:27,400
Speaker 2: scroll in the in the comments? Yeah, let's see. You

2114
01:49:27,640 --> 01:49:33,080
Speaker 2: have to scroll fast people, because I I all right, Yeah,

2115
01:49:33,439 --> 01:49:41,439
Speaker 2: we saw Josephine, We saw Yoko Bell. Yeah, became a member. Yeah,

2116
01:49:41,960 --> 01:49:44,160
Speaker 2: Giant's milk, thanks for five bucks. Not to get dark,

2117
01:49:44,200 --> 01:49:46,120
Speaker 2: but I feel for the guy. I sadly have a

2118
01:49:46,160 --> 01:49:49,440
Speaker 2: deceased child that I have never mentioned to any significant

2119
01:49:49,439 --> 01:49:53,520
Speaker 2: other since. So Lord Milky really yeah understands.

2120
01:49:53,320 --> 01:49:54,160
Speaker 4: Relate to that story.

2121
01:49:54,320 --> 01:49:56,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean again, it can be hard to talk

2122
01:49:56,439 --> 01:50:03,000
Speaker 2: about that that trauma blondest brunette tipped ten bucks?

2123
01:50:03,080 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 4: Was that?

2124
01:50:03,320 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 2: Did we read that already?

2125
01:50:04,360 --> 01:50:04,479
Speaker 4: Is that?

2126
01:50:04,880 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 2: How long ago?

2127
01:50:05,520 --> 01:50:05,640
Speaker 7: Was that?

2128
01:50:05,800 --> 01:50:07,200
Speaker 2: Nineteen oh seven? Yeah?

2129
01:50:08,000 --> 01:50:08,320
Speaker 4: That was?

2130
01:50:08,560 --> 01:50:10,479
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think I think there's there's some that are

2131
01:50:11,520 --> 01:50:15,960
Speaker 2: coming in later, so we'll probably leave them in a second.

2132
01:50:18,040 --> 01:50:23,840
Speaker 2: But bron Brunette, thank you for your donation. Yes, we're

2133
01:50:23,880 --> 01:50:26,920
Speaker 2: going to get into this next story. Let's do Wait

2134
01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:29,640
Speaker 2: what did what episode? Did you just we are on?

2135
01:50:32,320 --> 01:50:36,760
Speaker 4: Or? Uh eighty threeest that's right?

2136
01:50:37,000 --> 01:50:43,880
Speaker 2: Or eighty three S two? Yes, we're okay? Are you

2137
01:50:44,000 --> 01:50:50,080
Speaker 2: ready kids, I'm ready. Alright, let's get into it. So

2138
01:50:51,479 --> 01:50:53,880
Speaker 2: am I the a hole for ghosting my boyfriend after

2139
01:50:53,960 --> 01:50:56,679
Speaker 2: he said we were not a couple? And this comes

2140
01:50:56,680 --> 01:51:00,120
Speaker 2: from fancy statement four seven eight eight. They say, I,

2141
01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:05,040
Speaker 2: twenty five male met this guy Jay twenty five mail

2142
01:51:05,479 --> 01:51:07,600
Speaker 2: through my roommate. We hit it off and after a

2143
01:51:07,640 --> 01:51:09,400
Speaker 2: couple of weeks, asked him out. We started going on

2144
01:51:09,560 --> 01:51:13,000
Speaker 2: dates and eventually began dating gos Ford five months He

2145
01:51:13,120 --> 01:51:15,120
Speaker 2: was going to visit his parents and invited me along.

2146
01:51:15,640 --> 01:51:19,600
Speaker 2: When we arrived, his mom asked if I was his boyfriend.

2147
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:22,519
Speaker 2: He cut her off and referred to me as his friend.

2148
01:51:23,200 --> 01:51:25,680
Speaker 2: I was confused and greeted her anyway. He did the

2149
01:51:25,760 --> 01:51:28,280
Speaker 2: same thing with his dad and sister.

2150
01:51:29,479 --> 01:51:35,840
Speaker 4: I have an ICU in the comments, guys, I think, yeah,

2151
01:51:36,560 --> 01:51:38,960
Speaker 4: when you start, I mean it could just be it

2152
01:51:39,040 --> 01:51:40,640
Speaker 4: can be awkward and you're when you're in the in

2153
01:51:40,760 --> 01:51:44,160
Speaker 4: between phase? Do you introduce as friend to it? You

2154
01:51:44,280 --> 01:51:46,000
Speaker 4: introduces girlfriend?

2155
01:51:47,120 --> 01:51:50,040
Speaker 2: You know here we know? Oh, Carmel, just stop by

2156
01:51:50,120 --> 01:51:51,639
Speaker 2: to like the stream. I hope you are well. Thanks

2157
01:51:51,720 --> 01:51:53,880
Speaker 2: for coming on and liking the stream. We appreciate you

2158
01:51:54,160 --> 01:51:56,639
Speaker 2: as I think we did a little call on Carmel

2159
01:51:56,760 --> 01:51:57,280
Speaker 2: not too long ago.

2160
01:51:57,439 --> 01:51:57,960
Speaker 4: Yes, you're right.

2161
01:52:01,280 --> 01:52:06,680
Speaker 2: During the ride back, our conversation went approximately like this, Me,

2162
01:52:07,400 --> 01:52:09,720
Speaker 2: are we just friends with benefits to you? Jay?

2163
01:52:09,880 --> 01:52:09,920
Speaker 4: No?

2164
01:52:10,439 --> 01:52:13,200
Speaker 2: Me, then why did you tell your family I'm just

2165
01:52:13,280 --> 01:52:16,280
Speaker 2: a friend today because we are not a couple?

2166
01:52:16,840 --> 01:52:16,880
Speaker 4: Me?

2167
01:52:17,560 --> 01:52:18,840
Speaker 2: Then what are we?

2168
01:52:19,600 --> 01:52:20,000
Speaker 4: What are we?

2169
01:52:20,760 --> 01:52:24,360
Speaker 2: The what are we? Conversation? It's always what are we?

2170
01:52:24,400 --> 01:52:24,639
Speaker 4: Sam?

2171
01:52:25,640 --> 01:52:26,160
Speaker 2: What are we?

2172
01:52:26,400 --> 01:52:27,080
Speaker 4: We're just friends?

2173
01:52:30,680 --> 01:52:35,400
Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like I feel like I'm I feel

2174
01:52:35,400 --> 01:52:38,360
Speaker 2: like I am there's a I feel.

2175
01:52:38,200 --> 01:52:40,559
Speaker 4: Like I'm edging on a what are we conversation? Myself?

2176
01:52:46,400 --> 01:52:51,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, Anyway, he remained silent for the rest of the ride.

2177
01:52:51,800 --> 01:52:54,400
Speaker 2: The next day, acted like nothing had happened. I tried

2178
01:52:54,400 --> 01:52:57,160
Speaker 2: to discuss it with him multiple times, but he brushed

2179
01:52:57,200 --> 01:52:59,799
Speaker 2: it off. I had to move out of my apartment

2180
01:53:00,160 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 2: unrelated reasons. It didn't tell Jay or my ex roommate

2181
01:53:03,040 --> 01:53:05,479
Speaker 2: my new address. I stopped talking to him and replying

2182
01:53:05,520 --> 01:53:08,559
Speaker 2: to his messages. Now, three weeks later he showed up

2183
01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:12,000
Speaker 2: at my door. Oh wait, wait wait, Opie stopped talking

2184
01:53:12,080 --> 01:53:16,080
Speaker 2: to him and replying to his messages. That's crazy because

2185
01:53:16,240 --> 01:53:18,360
Speaker 2: basically he remained silent for the rest of the ride,

2186
01:53:19,760 --> 01:53:22,000
Speaker 2: and the next day he acted like nothing happened, and

2187
01:53:22,120 --> 01:53:25,439
Speaker 2: he and Op tried to discuss it multiple times. So

2188
01:53:26,760 --> 01:53:32,680
Speaker 2: but Op didn't officially break off their OP basically like

2189
01:53:33,080 --> 01:53:36,400
Speaker 2: like the the friend was like, Hey, what are we

2190
01:53:36,880 --> 01:53:39,639
Speaker 2: and then Ope did not say anything.

2191
01:53:39,920 --> 01:53:41,519
Speaker 1: What was it the way around?

2192
01:53:42,320 --> 01:53:42,519
Speaker 3: Op?

2193
01:53:43,040 --> 01:53:43,519
Speaker 2: Sorry? Sorry?

2194
01:53:43,600 --> 01:53:44,600
Speaker 4: Op asked what are we?

2195
01:53:45,240 --> 01:53:48,280
Speaker 2: And then and then Ope, yeah, and then uh, Jay

2196
01:53:48,320 --> 01:53:51,160
Speaker 2: didn't say anything, right, And so OP is just.

2197
01:53:51,200 --> 01:53:53,599
Speaker 4: Like I'm just gonna back up, I'm gonna go I'm

2198
01:53:53,600 --> 01:53:55,800
Speaker 4: gonna be essentially ghost and.

2199
01:53:56,040 --> 01:53:59,800
Speaker 2: And move yeah, which I feel like is a little immature,

2200
01:54:00,120 --> 01:54:03,680
Speaker 2: or to yeah, like maybe just communicate that you're like hey,

2201
01:54:03,720 --> 01:54:06,519
Speaker 2: if you can't if if like like I think it's like,

2202
01:54:06,840 --> 01:54:09,800
Speaker 2: I think it's fine to be like hey, like I

2203
01:54:09,880 --> 01:54:13,120
Speaker 2: don't feel that I'm at the same place as you are,

2204
01:54:13,200 --> 01:54:15,160
Speaker 2: and this is like where I'm at. I think that's fine.

2205
01:54:15,439 --> 01:54:17,559
Speaker 2: But to like, not say anything is kind of whack

2206
01:54:17,600 --> 01:54:19,479
Speaker 2: on Jay's part. Yeah. And then also I think it's

2207
01:54:19,520 --> 01:54:24,360
Speaker 2: whack on Ope's part to also not communicate. Yeah, so

2208
01:54:24,479 --> 01:54:28,200
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like both people are not communicating.

2209
01:54:28,439 --> 01:54:31,760
Speaker 2: Yeah too, well a little bit. Is everyone the a

2210
01:54:31,880 --> 01:54:34,000
Speaker 2: hole here? By a little bit, That's what I'm feeling.

2211
01:54:34,160 --> 01:54:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm feeling. But if I had to choose one a hole,

2212
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:38,240
Speaker 2: it would be Jay. Yeah yeah, yeah, but I think

2213
01:54:38,280 --> 01:54:39,640
Speaker 2: everyone's a little bit of the a hole here.

2214
01:54:39,760 --> 01:54:40,400
Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know.

2215
01:54:40,440 --> 01:54:41,880
Speaker 2: What do you guys think? Put your answers in the

2216
01:54:42,240 --> 01:54:47,920
Speaker 2: chat below. Sophia just speaking over like God.

2217
01:54:49,160 --> 01:54:54,240
Speaker 4: Speak, Sophia, this is God speaking. Are you asmr ing

2218
01:54:54,280 --> 01:54:55,040
Speaker 4: to the audiences?

2219
01:54:57,400 --> 01:54:59,800
Speaker 2: Darlean says, why would you take a non significant relationship

2220
01:54:59,840 --> 01:55:02,600
Speaker 2: to me? Parents? I actually had a friend. Have this

2221
01:55:02,720 --> 01:55:05,840
Speaker 2: happened too recently? Yeah?

2222
01:55:06,480 --> 01:55:11,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, actually, and uh and it's just mixed messages. This

2223
01:55:11,280 --> 01:55:13,600
Speaker 4: is a little mixed messages. But I know some people

2224
01:55:13,640 --> 01:55:17,640
Speaker 4: are more afraid of commitment. I don't know anyway, So

2225
01:55:17,800 --> 01:55:20,360
Speaker 4: I move out a department. Now, three weeks later, he

2226
01:55:20,440 --> 01:55:23,280
Speaker 4: shut up at my door. He told me he contacted

2227
01:55:23,320 --> 01:55:25,000
Speaker 4: my brother to get my addressed. He called me an

2228
01:55:25,040 --> 01:55:28,040
Speaker 4: a hole for ghosting him, accused me of cheating on him.

2229
01:55:28,120 --> 01:55:30,000
Speaker 4: He saw me hanging out with a girl he doesn't like.

2230
01:55:30,920 --> 01:55:32,680
Speaker 4: I told him I can hang out with whoever I want,

2231
01:55:33,000 --> 01:55:36,040
Speaker 4: especially since he said we're not a couple. He cursed

2232
01:55:36,040 --> 01:55:38,160
Speaker 4: at me a bit before saying I should have just

2233
01:55:38,320 --> 01:55:41,000
Speaker 4: broken up with him again, I thought we weren't a couple.

2234
01:55:41,240 --> 01:55:45,400
Speaker 4: He ended up leaving and crying. Yeah, when you're like,

2235
01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:47,760
Speaker 4: why didn't you just break up with me? But it's

2236
01:55:47,840 --> 01:55:50,560
Speaker 4: like you literally told us we were not a friend,

2237
01:55:50,680 --> 01:55:52,240
Speaker 4: that's come on, buddy.

2238
01:55:52,400 --> 01:55:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I feel again, like.

2239
01:55:54,200 --> 01:55:54,800
Speaker 4: Back to reality.

2240
01:55:55,000 --> 01:56:02,120
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, hey, I mean okay, yes, Opie should

2241
01:56:02,120 --> 01:56:05,880
Speaker 2: have communicated it definitely what like it that Jay made

2242
01:56:05,880 --> 01:56:07,760
Speaker 2: it very clear that they weren't in a relationship. But

2243
01:56:07,800 --> 01:56:10,480
Speaker 2: I still think OPI's a little a holy for not

2244
01:56:10,840 --> 01:56:11,800
Speaker 2: absolutely anything.

2245
01:56:11,840 --> 01:56:14,000
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, op should have been like, hey, listen,

2246
01:56:14,160 --> 01:56:17,160
Speaker 4: you like have said that we're like not in a relationship.

2247
01:56:17,320 --> 01:56:20,240
Speaker 4: I don't want to keep engaging with you, yeah, because this,

2248
01:56:20,760 --> 01:56:22,520
Speaker 4: like this is confusing, This is not what I want.

2249
01:56:22,640 --> 01:56:25,200
Speaker 2: So I'm going to all right back out. There is

2250
01:56:25,400 --> 01:56:29,240
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with any like any kind of relationship as

2251
01:56:29,320 --> 01:56:34,560
Speaker 2: long as both parties are consensually agreed to it and

2252
01:56:34,680 --> 01:56:35,480
Speaker 2: are on the same page.

2253
01:56:35,600 --> 01:56:37,840
Speaker 4: I think here's what it was. My problem is that

2254
01:56:38,080 --> 01:56:41,000
Speaker 4: Jay said, why didn't you just break up with me?

2255
01:56:41,920 --> 01:56:44,880
Speaker 4: Instead of saying why didn't you communicate? Let mean, yeah,

2256
01:56:44,960 --> 01:56:48,760
Speaker 4: communicate our status or how he felt.

2257
01:56:49,040 --> 01:56:51,080
Speaker 2: Dear just says, can't break up with someone you're not dating?

2258
01:56:51,280 --> 01:56:53,600
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I agree, it just pisses me off, like

2259
01:56:53,680 --> 01:56:55,720
Speaker 4: the breakup with me, but you said we're not a couple.

2260
01:56:55,800 --> 01:56:57,480
Speaker 4: But he should have communicated. Yeah, I don't think it's

2261
01:56:57,600 --> 01:56:59,560
Speaker 4: I don't think it's cheating, for sure, not cheating. I

2262
01:56:59,600 --> 01:57:01,400
Speaker 4: don't think like, why do you just break up with him?

2263
01:57:01,400 --> 01:57:02,000
Speaker 4: Makes any sense?

2264
01:57:02,320 --> 01:57:05,200
Speaker 2: But have to community if you like, if you think

2265
01:57:05,320 --> 01:57:09,200
Speaker 2: that OP is communicating, you are you are wrong? Yeah?

2266
01:57:09,320 --> 01:57:11,800
Speaker 2: Okay is not community? Okay, OP is not communicating? So

2267
01:57:12,800 --> 01:57:16,720
Speaker 2: uh justice forcels is you don't owe people an explanation. Sure,

2268
01:57:16,760 --> 01:57:18,240
Speaker 2: if you want to be an a whole, What do

2269
01:57:18,320 --> 01:57:22,520
Speaker 2: you mean you don't owe people an explanation? I mean, yeah,

2270
01:57:22,560 --> 01:57:23,280
Speaker 2: I think, yes, you do.

2271
01:57:23,640 --> 01:57:28,720
Speaker 4: I think in this scenario it would have been I

2272
01:57:28,840 --> 01:57:31,880
Speaker 4: think it was apt and definitely called for to communicate,

2273
01:57:31,960 --> 01:57:37,560
Speaker 4: and in the vast majority of scenarios, communication is necessary.

2274
01:57:37,680 --> 01:57:40,600
Speaker 4: I don't think in a hundred percent of scenarios, but

2275
01:57:41,120 --> 01:57:44,200
Speaker 4: the vast, vast majority, I think in this situation and

2276
01:57:44,280 --> 01:57:47,400
Speaker 4: in this situation. Yeah, I agree, I think in this situation.

2277
01:57:48,120 --> 01:57:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. So Kaizoku Mugiwara says they aren't in relationship, they're

2278
01:57:53,120 --> 01:57:55,320
Speaker 2: not owe to breakup, they're not together, nothing to break. Yeah,

2279
01:57:55,320 --> 01:57:57,680
Speaker 2: I agree with that, nothing to break. But I do

2280
01:57:57,880 --> 01:58:01,400
Speaker 2: think they like you are. I think when you engage someone,

2281
01:58:01,440 --> 01:58:02,360
Speaker 2: even a friend, like.

2282
01:58:02,680 --> 01:58:05,560
Speaker 4: It's like yeah, because there was this there's this like

2283
01:58:05,720 --> 01:58:08,160
Speaker 4: implicit expectation of like, oh, we like see each other,

2284
01:58:08,280 --> 01:58:11,520
Speaker 4: we're hanging out, Like for someone to just like disappear,

2285
01:58:12,200 --> 01:58:13,280
Speaker 4: it does kind of like.

2286
01:58:15,040 --> 01:58:19,040
Speaker 2: Dark. So Darling said, OP, try to communicate so that

2287
01:58:19,160 --> 01:58:23,840
Speaker 2: I hear here's here's here's where I think there's a miscommunication.

2288
01:58:24,000 --> 01:58:27,480
Speaker 2: So OP did try to communicate. OPI is like, hey,

2289
01:58:28,240 --> 01:58:28,720
Speaker 2: what are we?

2290
01:58:28,800 --> 01:58:29,200
Speaker 1: What are we?

2291
01:58:29,480 --> 01:58:33,840
Speaker 2: Are we right? And there was no communication from Jay

2292
01:58:33,920 --> 01:58:37,200
Speaker 2: on it. But what when OPI saw there's no communication,

2293
01:58:38,280 --> 01:58:42,320
Speaker 2: OP should what they should have said is, hey, if

2294
01:58:42,360 --> 01:58:44,520
Speaker 2: we can't define what we are, I really don't think

2295
01:58:44,560 --> 01:58:46,800
Speaker 2: this relationship is good and I'm gonna have to take

2296
01:58:46,880 --> 01:58:50,160
Speaker 2: like a step back. That would have if you want

2297
01:58:50,200 --> 01:58:53,720
Speaker 2: to know a holary, That's what would have done. Instead,

2298
01:58:54,200 --> 01:58:59,000
Speaker 2: OP did the like a pretty a holy move, and

2299
01:58:59,080 --> 01:59:04,000
Speaker 2: I think immature moved and was basically like ghosting. I

2300
01:59:04,040 --> 01:59:08,640
Speaker 2: don't think ghosting is every ever a mature move unless

2301
01:59:08,800 --> 01:59:11,880
Speaker 2: it's like, unless it's there's like a situation yeah, less safety,

2302
01:59:12,040 --> 01:59:13,160
Speaker 2: but that's not the situation here.

2303
01:59:13,240 --> 01:59:15,800
Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, no, yeah no, I I agree with you. Yeah,

2304
01:59:15,840 --> 01:59:19,240
Speaker 4: I think I think Op should have communicated and said, hey,

2305
01:59:20,000 --> 01:59:22,400
Speaker 4: I'm going to bow out because like I've tried to

2306
01:59:22,440 --> 01:59:24,200
Speaker 4: communicate with you on this and like figure out what

2307
01:59:24,480 --> 01:59:27,480
Speaker 4: we are and like I just like I this isn't

2308
01:59:27,520 --> 01:59:30,200
Speaker 4: the type of relationship that I want to be in.

2309
01:59:30,560 --> 01:59:32,560
Speaker 2: Coral Barl says, what did Jay expect when he stayed

2310
01:59:32,640 --> 01:59:34,840
Speaker 2: silent no response to a serious question.

2311
01:59:35,080 --> 01:59:38,080
Speaker 4: I think I think the thing is like j can't

2312
01:59:38,360 --> 01:59:42,720
Speaker 4: act so flabbergasted that like, you know.

2313
01:59:43,360 --> 01:59:46,880
Speaker 2: No, agreed, But I again, I really think both people

2314
01:59:47,400 --> 01:59:50,960
Speaker 2: are a holes Darle and says not the a hole,

2315
01:59:51,000 --> 01:59:52,600
Speaker 2: but Petty, what do you say both are a holes?

2316
01:59:52,800 --> 01:59:55,520
Speaker 4: I think I was flip flopping like back and forth,

2317
01:59:55,600 --> 02:00:00,440
Speaker 4: but I do think yeah, to stay out of like yeah,

2318
02:00:01,040 --> 02:00:03,240
Speaker 4: the a holary area, and both.

2319
02:00:03,080 --> 02:00:05,560
Speaker 2: Are twenty five level says how old is Opie? But yeah,

2320
02:00:05,560 --> 02:00:10,920
Speaker 2: I agree with you. Okay, So getting into the rest

2321
02:00:10,920 --> 02:00:13,920
Speaker 2: of the stories. Even though I believe I did the

2322
02:00:13,960 --> 02:00:15,440
Speaker 2: right thing, my friends told me I might have been

2323
02:00:15,440 --> 02:00:17,400
Speaker 2: a little harsh on him. I agree. So to prove

2324
02:00:17,440 --> 02:00:20,000
Speaker 2: a point, I'm writing this and letting the internet judge.

2325
02:00:20,040 --> 02:00:22,400
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for ghosting my boyfriend after

2326
02:00:22,480 --> 02:00:24,480
Speaker 2: he said we weren't a couple?

2327
02:00:25,160 --> 02:00:25,280
Speaker 4: Edit?

2328
02:00:25,360 --> 02:00:27,200
Speaker 2: Yes, he is out. His family knows. During dinner, they

2329
02:00:27,240 --> 02:00:29,600
Speaker 2: even asked if he had any news about his ex boyfriend.

2330
02:00:29,960 --> 02:00:31,840
Speaker 2: I am bye, he is gay. I know that his

2331
02:00:32,400 --> 02:00:35,600
Speaker 2: his ex by cheated on him, and that's that too.

2332
02:00:35,640 --> 02:00:37,440
Speaker 2: I looked at the comments my friends and I understand

2333
02:00:37,800 --> 02:00:39,880
Speaker 2: what I did was childish, but I stick to it.

2334
02:00:40,040 --> 02:00:41,800
Speaker 2: My main problem was that he did not give me

2335
02:00:41,840 --> 02:00:44,520
Speaker 2: an answer. Not friends with benefits, not a couple. I

2336
02:00:44,640 --> 02:00:45,480
Speaker 2: was his friend. I guess.

2337
02:00:45,920 --> 02:00:48,600
Speaker 4: Let the internet judge, and there is an update.

2338
02:00:49,120 --> 02:00:54,400
Speaker 2: So we're saying everyone's the a hole here? Yes? Yeah,

2339
02:00:54,640 --> 02:00:57,080
Speaker 2: that's why I agree. Do we do a poll?

2340
02:00:59,000 --> 02:00:59,120
Speaker 4: Oh?

2341
02:00:59,240 --> 02:01:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? So like J J a hole and everyone a hole? Yeah?

2342
02:01:04,080 --> 02:01:04,320
Speaker 4: Is it?

2343
02:01:04,400 --> 02:01:07,080
Speaker 2: Because I think I think we agree that everyone agrees

2344
02:01:07,120 --> 02:01:11,200
Speaker 2: that J is the a hole. Yeah, and I think

2345
02:01:12,720 --> 02:01:16,400
Speaker 2: I think yeah, I think it's either j A hole

2346
02:01:16,520 --> 02:01:20,760
Speaker 2: or everyone's the A hole to be Can you do it? So?

2347
02:01:20,960 --> 02:01:25,560
Speaker 4: Calsava says, I support petty people supporting the petty.

2348
02:01:25,880 --> 02:01:29,480
Speaker 2: Night Mary says, everyone's the a hole. Christy Steele says,

2349
02:01:29,840 --> 02:01:34,360
Speaker 2: still don't think he's an A hole. Sam Hyatt if

2350
02:01:34,440 --> 02:01:36,560
Speaker 2: it was an honest mistake, Oh, he's not the A hole,

2351
02:01:36,600 --> 02:01:39,760
Speaker 2: but it feels like it was a form of revenge. Agreed, Yeah,

2352
02:01:41,880 --> 02:01:43,800
Speaker 2: Jennifer tar not the A hole, dear, just state and

2353
02:01:43,880 --> 02:01:47,840
Speaker 2: not the airhole. Okay, So one J A hole. Two

2354
02:01:48,720 --> 02:01:53,560
Speaker 2: everyone's the a hole, the one or two though basically

2355
02:01:53,680 --> 02:01:55,040
Speaker 2: one is a not the A hole.

2356
02:01:56,640 --> 02:01:57,320
Speaker 4: Is e s h.

2357
02:01:57,640 --> 02:01:58,480
Speaker 1: Everyone sucks here.

2358
02:01:58,600 --> 02:02:01,880
Speaker 2: Everyone sucks here. Yeah, but in your ones are two's

2359
02:02:02,400 --> 02:02:07,880
Speaker 2: the vote, but in your ones are too vote. We're

2360
02:02:07,880 --> 02:02:11,920
Speaker 2: get to votes. Oh man, wait a minute.

2361
02:02:12,200 --> 02:02:13,280
Speaker 1: Start Sometimes it doesn't work.

2362
02:02:14,160 --> 02:02:16,000
Speaker 4: Ah, it looks like it's going now.

2363
02:02:16,080 --> 02:02:16,920
Speaker 1: Oh no, you can see it.

2364
02:02:17,040 --> 02:02:20,760
Speaker 2: Okay, we're fine, all right, We're getting five votes for

2365
02:02:21,000 --> 02:02:23,960
Speaker 2: jay Z a hole, five votes for everyone's.

2366
02:02:24,160 --> 02:02:24,720
Speaker 1: Oh uh. Oh.

2367
02:02:26,840 --> 02:02:30,520
Speaker 2: I think people are saying the jay Z. I don't

2368
02:02:30,560 --> 02:02:34,000
Speaker 2: agree with you. I think I also disagree. I disagree

2369
02:02:34,280 --> 02:02:41,280
Speaker 2: but the the Okay chat is in massive favor of

2370
02:02:43,040 --> 02:02:46,400
Speaker 2: of j being the A whole. I completely don't agree.

2371
02:02:47,840 --> 02:02:48,320
Speaker 2: You're wrong.

2372
02:02:48,480 --> 02:02:49,720
Speaker 4: I love seeing the votes come in.

2373
02:02:49,920 --> 02:02:54,879
Speaker 2: You're wrong. Look at this go Yeah overwhelming were whelming

2374
02:02:55,080 --> 02:03:00,640
Speaker 2: majority says op is not the a whole and only

2375
02:03:00,760 --> 02:03:03,560
Speaker 2: Jay is the A hole. Yeah.

2376
02:03:03,600 --> 02:03:06,600
Speaker 4: I don't know if I agree, but you are entitled

2377
02:03:06,680 --> 02:03:07,400
Speaker 4: to your opinion.

2378
02:03:08,320 --> 02:03:11,960
Speaker 2: That's why we have the shows to see where people stand.

2379
02:03:12,040 --> 02:03:14,480
Speaker 2: There's sas I would have ghosted like a petty bitch

2380
02:03:15,400 --> 02:03:19,440
Speaker 2: or a petty b slivy or wait it's slye toes

2381
02:03:20,080 --> 02:03:24,320
Speaker 2: sly toes. Opie doesn't owe an explanation to someone that

2382
02:03:24,440 --> 02:03:26,840
Speaker 2: doesn't care about their well being. Opie tried and hit

2383
02:03:26,880 --> 02:03:29,680
Speaker 2: a wall and then decided to move on with his life.

2384
02:03:32,080 --> 02:03:35,320
Speaker 4: If they had said something and then gone no contact,

2385
02:03:36,240 --> 02:03:37,120
Speaker 4: I think you're in the clear.

2386
02:03:37,280 --> 02:03:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know. I think like I think,

2387
02:03:42,040 --> 02:03:47,040
Speaker 2: just honestly, just for your own uh sanity, Like I

2388
02:03:47,160 --> 02:03:52,480
Speaker 2: think giving a explanation of how you're feeling and what

2389
02:03:52,600 --> 02:03:57,240
Speaker 2: you're feeling is actually better long term because you're you're

2390
02:03:57,480 --> 02:04:01,680
Speaker 2: you know where people is, you know where people stand. Yeah.

2391
02:04:05,920 --> 02:04:09,080
Speaker 2: Uh Anyway, So Opie tried to hit a wall and

2392
02:04:09,160 --> 02:04:10,920
Speaker 2: then decide to move on with his life. But there

2393
02:04:11,120 --> 02:04:14,840
Speaker 2: is an update. Oh, there's an update.

2394
02:04:14,880 --> 02:04:16,919
Speaker 4: There's more, there's more.

2395
02:04:16,880 --> 02:04:21,160
Speaker 2: There's more. You ready, let's go. Update. Two days after

2396
02:04:21,320 --> 02:04:23,520
Speaker 2: Jay showed up at my apartment, I was playing video

2397
02:04:23,560 --> 02:04:26,080
Speaker 2: games at my friend's house when I heard my phone ringing.

2398
02:04:26,480 --> 02:04:28,320
Speaker 2: I picked up without looking at the number. It was

2399
02:04:28,360 --> 02:04:30,560
Speaker 2: one of Jay's friends. He told me that for the

2400
02:04:30,600 --> 02:04:36,040
Speaker 2: past two days, Jay has been drinking on stop Oh,

2401
02:04:36,320 --> 02:04:41,400
Speaker 2: saying that he is going to He then asked me

2402
02:04:41,480 --> 02:04:43,480
Speaker 2: if I could meet with him to cool him down,

2403
02:04:43,520 --> 02:04:46,040
Speaker 2: because he was not listening to any of his family

2404
02:04:46,240 --> 02:04:49,600
Speaker 2: or friends. I honestly did not want to see nor

2405
02:04:49,760 --> 02:04:52,440
Speaker 2: talk to him, but I did not want this situation

2406
02:04:52,600 --> 02:04:55,760
Speaker 2: to go that far, so I agreed meet with him.

2407
02:04:58,080 --> 02:05:00,600
Speaker 4: Far out, sh.

2408
02:05:01,960 --> 02:05:02,560
Speaker 2: Would you meet?

2409
02:05:04,360 --> 02:05:07,200
Speaker 4: I I feel like I probably would out of like

2410
02:05:07,520 --> 02:05:11,080
Speaker 4: panic and not knowing what to do, and but I

2411
02:05:11,080 --> 02:05:14,120
Speaker 4: would probably start I don't know what the exact steps are,

2412
02:05:14,160 --> 02:05:16,840
Speaker 4: but I would probably start like researching and like maybe

2413
02:05:16,880 --> 02:05:19,240
Speaker 4: calling like a like a hotline center and like asking

2414
02:05:19,400 --> 02:05:23,880
Speaker 4: like what what is one that's wild?

2415
02:05:24,440 --> 02:05:26,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? I guess, yeah, I mean meeting in a public

2416
02:05:27,080 --> 02:05:33,000
Speaker 2: place or whatever. Far out Yeah, yeah, Kursty says, that's

2417
02:05:33,080 --> 02:05:42,560
Speaker 2: manipulation and emotional abuse. Oh man, Yeah, Darling says, no, no, no,

2418
02:05:42,800 --> 02:05:45,400
Speaker 2: call nine one one. I don't know, like it feels

2419
02:05:45,480 --> 02:05:49,000
Speaker 2: like it feels dangerous. Yeah, I honestly I would.

2420
02:05:50,480 --> 02:05:53,920
Speaker 4: I would go just out of like at that point,

2421
02:05:54,000 --> 02:05:56,880
Speaker 4: I'm kind of like I would, uh play it safe,

2422
02:05:56,920 --> 02:05:58,840
Speaker 4: I guess for lack of a better way of describing it,

2423
02:05:58,920 --> 02:06:02,600
Speaker 4: and like go initially. But yeah, I would definitely call

2424
02:06:02,720 --> 02:06:05,000
Speaker 4: and try and figure out O talk talk to basically

2425
02:06:05,120 --> 02:06:06,080
Speaker 4: talk to a professional.

2426
02:06:06,280 --> 02:06:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I would. I would. I would

2427
02:06:08,360 --> 02:06:09,960
Speaker 2: talk to a professional and see what I would do.

2428
02:06:10,080 --> 02:06:13,640
Speaker 2: But man, like the Jelly bassays, i'd feel responsible. I

2429
02:06:13,680 --> 02:06:16,280
Speaker 2: feel like I would too, even if it's like even

2430
02:06:16,400 --> 02:06:19,200
Speaker 2: it's a you know, if it is a manipulation, manifulation

2431
02:06:19,640 --> 02:06:21,160
Speaker 2: like a cried wolf thing.

2432
02:06:21,280 --> 02:06:21,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2433
02:06:24,800 --> 02:06:27,360
Speaker 2: I met Jay this morning in a public place. He

2434
02:06:27,520 --> 02:06:30,880
Speaker 2: was already there when I arrived. We walked and talked.

2435
02:06:30,920 --> 02:06:33,160
Speaker 2: We talked for about an hour and a half. He

2436
02:06:33,240 --> 02:06:36,120
Speaker 2: told me about his relationship with his ex. It's a

2437
02:06:36,160 --> 02:06:38,400
Speaker 2: long story, but to make a short story, sweet the

2438
02:06:38,440 --> 02:06:40,440
Speaker 2: guy would be sweet then mocking him in front of

2439
02:06:40,480 --> 02:06:43,080
Speaker 2: his friends, cheating on him with a girl, and then

2440
02:06:43,120 --> 02:06:46,480
Speaker 2: begging for his forgiveness. The cycle repeats went on for

2441
02:06:46,600 --> 02:06:50,560
Speaker 2: four years. He also confessed lying to me about how

2442
02:06:50,600 --> 02:06:53,080
Speaker 2: long they were separated when we met. He had told

2443
02:06:53,160 --> 02:06:55,520
Speaker 2: me they broke up a year ago. They broke up

2444
02:06:55,600 --> 02:06:58,200
Speaker 2: three months before we met. He told me he was

2445
02:06:58,320 --> 02:07:00,480
Speaker 2: that way with me because I apparently have the same

2446
02:07:00,520 --> 02:07:04,160
Speaker 2: profile as X white, tall and by, and because he

2447
02:07:04,240 --> 02:07:07,800
Speaker 2: could never make him feel like he did, and because

2448
02:07:07,880 --> 02:07:10,800
Speaker 2: he could never make him feel like he did to him,

2449
02:07:11,720 --> 02:07:15,440
Speaker 2: he got it on me instead, saying that he wanted

2450
02:07:15,480 --> 02:07:17,880
Speaker 2: to feel powerful for once in a relationship, so like

2451
02:07:18,160 --> 02:07:19,680
Speaker 2: basically he wanted to flip the script.

2452
02:07:19,880 --> 02:07:22,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like he was like, Hey, let me like basically

2453
02:07:22,760 --> 02:07:26,040
Speaker 4: toy around with this person who has these similar.

2454
02:07:25,760 --> 02:07:28,400
Speaker 2: Attributes as you go, which almost like a voodoo doll.

2455
02:07:29,000 --> 02:07:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, come on.

2456
02:07:30,680 --> 02:07:33,200
Speaker 2: I asked about the cheating. He started crying and said

2457
02:07:33,240 --> 02:07:35,640
Speaker 2: that he that even though he never slept with anyone,

2458
02:07:35,760 --> 02:07:39,240
Speaker 2: he did some stuff with one of his friends twice,

2459
02:07:39,760 --> 02:07:42,200
Speaker 2: the one that called me. Jay then told me that

2460
02:07:42,280 --> 02:07:45,240
Speaker 2: he is thinking about getting therapy, that we can start

2461
02:07:45,320 --> 02:07:50,040
Speaker 2: over on a healthy base because he loves me. Therapy,

2462
02:07:50,240 --> 02:07:53,320
Speaker 2: great idea. Yes, I don't know. I don't know if

2463
02:07:53,360 --> 02:07:54,520
Speaker 2: you're starting over here, though.

2464
02:07:54,520 --> 02:07:58,560
Speaker 4: Hopefully the therapist would be like, no, yeah, you know,

2465
02:07:59,120 --> 02:08:01,520
Speaker 4: focus on yourself. To be honest, I didn't feel sorry

2466
02:08:01,600 --> 02:08:03,640
Speaker 4: for him about how hiss X treated him, but I

2467
02:08:03,800 --> 02:08:07,000
Speaker 4: love you thing made me feel weird and uncomfortable. Yeah,

2468
02:08:07,040 --> 02:08:09,240
Speaker 4: a weird thing to drop. After this, I told him

2469
02:08:09,240 --> 02:08:11,160
Speaker 4: that I did not want any kind of relationship with him,

2470
02:08:11,480 --> 02:08:14,800
Speaker 4: but that regardless, he should still go to therapy. Agreed,

2471
02:08:16,600 --> 02:08:19,320
Speaker 4: Jay started crying again and asked me if I was

2472
02:08:19,400 --> 02:08:21,480
Speaker 4: dating someone else and if it was a woman. I

2473
02:08:21,520 --> 02:08:24,640
Speaker 4: said that it was not his business. He apologized multiple times.

2474
02:08:24,760 --> 02:08:26,920
Speaker 4: I paid the bill and left. I blocked the number

2475
02:08:27,000 --> 02:08:30,000
Speaker 4: of his friends in social media. He was already blocked,

2476
02:08:30,200 --> 02:08:33,800
Speaker 4: but they were unfollowed. I don't know how to feel

2477
02:08:33,920 --> 02:08:36,920
Speaker 4: about that. I just feel weird and there are some

2478
02:08:37,120 --> 02:08:43,880
Speaker 4: relevant comments. Yeah, I mean, this guy definitely needs to

2479
02:08:43,960 --> 02:08:48,200
Speaker 4: go to therapy. I mean think God is of his

2480
02:08:48,360 --> 02:08:52,280
Speaker 4: own volition saying that, and he's not like doubling down, like,

2481
02:08:52,320 --> 02:08:54,040
Speaker 4: oh no, just be with me, da da da da da.

2482
02:08:54,200 --> 02:08:57,920
Speaker 4: Like I feel like we've seen maybe similar stories like

2483
02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:00,480
Speaker 4: that in the past. It seems like he has some

2484
02:09:00,760 --> 02:09:03,600
Speaker 4: wherewithal to be like, Okay, I do need to go

2485
02:09:03,680 --> 02:09:08,240
Speaker 4: to therapy and yeah, op just needs to be like, hey,

2486
02:09:08,680 --> 02:09:10,600
Speaker 4: I'm not trying to get in a relationship with you.

2487
02:09:10,960 --> 02:09:14,680
Speaker 4: I support you when going to therapy and even that, right,

2488
02:09:14,840 --> 02:09:17,280
Speaker 4: would you would you do anything? Do you think op

2489
02:09:17,360 --> 02:09:18,680
Speaker 4: should do anything? Differently?

2490
02:09:19,000 --> 02:09:22,040
Speaker 2: I think Opie should basically be here saying hey, I

2491
02:09:22,160 --> 02:09:25,960
Speaker 2: really don't think a relationship is healthy. I think really

2492
02:09:26,040 --> 02:09:28,919
Speaker 2: we shouldn't be talking to each other and basically establish

2493
02:09:29,000 --> 02:09:35,120
Speaker 2: going no contact there. Yeah, because like I don't know this,

2494
02:09:35,400 --> 02:09:37,080
Speaker 2: this is going to get out of I feel like

2495
02:09:37,160 --> 02:09:40,880
Speaker 2: this is getting out of hand. Yeah, but good for

2496
02:09:41,080 --> 02:09:44,320
Speaker 2: Jay maybe getting some therapy that's going to be good.

2497
02:09:44,840 --> 02:09:50,120
Speaker 2: But this is this is gil ol spooky. But what

2498
02:09:50,200 --> 02:09:52,760
Speaker 2: do you all think? Amber Roe says, I'd call someone

2499
02:09:52,800 --> 02:09:54,160
Speaker 2: and let them know about his mental state and what

2500
02:09:54,240 --> 02:09:56,280
Speaker 2: he said. It's no longer Opie's problem, but I'd like

2501
02:09:56,360 --> 02:10:01,880
Speaker 2: him to see let a professional know, which I completely Yeah,

2502
02:10:01,880 --> 02:10:05,680
Speaker 2: I completely again agree with Yes, Kurtz, He says, so

2503
02:10:05,800 --> 02:10:09,160
Speaker 2: again the threat to end things with the tactic to

2504
02:10:09,160 --> 02:10:11,600
Speaker 2: get a hold of op Yeah, this guy is super manipulative,

2505
02:10:12,240 --> 02:10:16,560
Speaker 2: super manipultive. Also the whole like like I wanted to

2506
02:10:16,680 --> 02:10:18,840
Speaker 2: inflict pain on you, because you fit the profile of

2507
02:10:18,920 --> 02:10:24,560
Speaker 2: my partner. Like psychopathic. Yeah, like psychopathic. I'm sorry, No,

2508
02:10:25,080 --> 02:10:31,400
Speaker 2: that is insanity. Yeah, really really whack. But there are

2509
02:10:31,440 --> 02:10:35,120
Speaker 2: some relevant comments from a fellow editors, so Strong Opinion

2510
02:10:35,160 --> 02:10:37,160
Speaker 2: for Life says, Wow, he was doing the same thing

2511
02:10:37,200 --> 02:10:39,520
Speaker 2: as exit to him, to you, that's fed up. Honestly,

2512
02:10:39,680 --> 02:10:41,800
Speaker 2: he is just as bad as ex and I hope

2513
02:10:41,840 --> 02:10:43,960
Speaker 2: he goes to therapy. At least he didn't cheat on you.

2514
02:10:44,120 --> 02:10:48,560
Speaker 2: After all, the guys weren't a couple. And that's sarcasm

2515
02:10:48,760 --> 02:10:51,520
Speaker 2: exactly exactly. You can't. I don't get why people do

2516
02:10:51,600 --> 02:10:54,280
Speaker 2: the same bad things happened to them with others knowing

2517
02:10:54,360 --> 02:10:57,960
Speaker 2: how they felt. Hurt people hurt people. Jordi with the

2518
02:10:58,320 --> 02:11:00,960
Speaker 2: forty says the simplest ants is hurt people.

2519
02:11:01,040 --> 02:11:01,200
Speaker 4: Hurt?

2520
02:11:01,840 --> 02:11:04,320
Speaker 2: Did I not just say that? Hurt people? Hurt people?

2521
02:11:04,600 --> 02:11:06,440
Speaker 2: It changes the way you think. If you're a victim

2522
02:11:06,480 --> 02:11:11,080
Speaker 2: of abuse or certain circumstances, it changes. It changes how

2523
02:11:11,120 --> 02:11:14,400
Speaker 2: you think completely. It can misconstrue how you love, or

2524
02:11:14,480 --> 02:11:16,320
Speaker 2: how you think you're supposed to love, or what love

2525
02:11:16,440 --> 02:11:18,840
Speaker 2: even is. That's why some people run back to their

2526
02:11:18,880 --> 02:11:21,880
Speaker 2: abusers or pick up qualities that people who wrong them

2527
02:11:22,520 --> 02:11:25,440
Speaker 2: have had. When people feel weak, quite often they'll go

2528
02:11:25,520 --> 02:11:28,040
Speaker 2: great lengths to feel powerful again, to whatever it takes.

2529
02:11:28,360 --> 02:11:30,400
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to validate the behavior or anything. I'm

2530
02:11:30,480 --> 02:11:35,080
Speaker 2: just trying to give reasoning slash understanding. And that is

2531
02:11:35,200 --> 02:11:41,920
Speaker 2: where we end things on the story. Yeah, Jelia says

2532
02:11:41,920 --> 02:11:44,440
Speaker 2: they on that person spat fax. Yeah, I feel like

2533
02:11:46,280 --> 02:11:49,400
Speaker 2: and everyone TLDR is on top of the dono. So

2534
02:11:49,600 --> 02:11:54,120
Speaker 2: don't know link If you don't know, now you know,

2535
02:11:54,400 --> 02:11:54,800
Speaker 2: now you know?

2536
02:11:55,000 --> 02:11:55,240
Speaker 4: Ha ha.

2537
02:11:56,520 --> 02:11:59,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, that went super wild. I feel like ope

2538
02:12:01,320 --> 02:12:06,880
Speaker 2: Opie is doing all the right things now I agree,

2539
02:12:07,200 --> 02:12:10,080
Speaker 2: and is not the a hole for sure. Definitely in

2540
02:12:10,120 --> 02:12:11,640
Speaker 2: the second part of the story when we know more

2541
02:12:11,680 --> 02:12:12,640
Speaker 2: of this context.

2542
02:12:13,680 --> 02:12:15,640
Speaker 4: After hearing the end of the story, should Opie have

2543
02:12:15,720 --> 02:12:18,160
Speaker 4: still gone to the meetup or would you have still

2544
02:12:18,160 --> 02:12:20,840
Speaker 4: gone to the meetup? I mean, I think I would

2545
02:12:20,840 --> 02:12:21,680
Speaker 4: have gone to the meetup.

2546
02:12:21,880 --> 02:12:28,200
Speaker 2: I think the I feel like the outcome was better

2547
02:12:28,320 --> 02:12:30,480
Speaker 2: for having gone to the meetup, But it definitely was

2548
02:12:30,520 --> 02:12:31,800
Speaker 2: a manipulation tactic. I don't know.

2549
02:12:32,560 --> 02:12:34,760
Speaker 4: I I agree, I feel like it was a manipulation.

2550
02:12:35,280 --> 02:12:40,200
Speaker 4: It definitely was, But like I think I still would

2551
02:12:40,240 --> 02:12:42,840
Speaker 4: have gone just to be safe, just to like see

2552
02:12:43,040 --> 02:12:45,240
Speaker 4: what the situation is. That doesn't mean you need to

2553
02:12:45,280 --> 02:12:47,960
Speaker 4: get sucked in, go again or anything else like that.

2554
02:12:49,000 --> 02:12:53,400
Speaker 4: So that's just me personally. Yeah, I'm curious what everyone else. Yeah,

2555
02:12:54,200 --> 02:12:56,160
Speaker 4: put your thoughts in the chat, like what what do

2556
02:12:56,200 --> 02:12:57,760
Speaker 4: you think you would do? What would you do differently?

2557
02:12:57,800 --> 02:12:59,600
Speaker 4: What would you do differently than what we said? We

2558
02:12:59,680 --> 02:13:02,480
Speaker 4: want to know all sides of it, but we also

2559
02:13:02,960 --> 02:13:07,040
Speaker 4: want to know all sides of Agatha. Apparently there are

2560
02:13:07,240 --> 02:13:14,000
Speaker 4: some steamy pics of our cockroach mistress our wife in

2561
02:13:15,320 --> 02:13:15,919
Speaker 4: the discord.

2562
02:13:16,080 --> 02:13:21,600
Speaker 2: Is that true? Is this true? Yeah? The discord cockroach.

2563
02:13:23,040 --> 02:13:30,080
Speaker 2: Is there more? Someone said there's more, there's more, there's more.

2564
02:13:32,120 --> 02:13:35,880
Speaker 2: I need to go to bathroom by wait, I want

2565
02:13:35,920 --> 02:13:47,640
Speaker 2: to see this. What damn she thick though? Oh my gosh,

2566
02:13:48,240 --> 02:13:51,080
Speaker 2: If y'all haven't joint wait wait wait click click, click clicking,

2567
02:13:51,840 --> 02:13:59,000
Speaker 2: If y'all haven't joined the discord, the roach batties. It

2568
02:13:59,040 --> 02:14:01,840
Speaker 2: looks like a person, Yeah, but it has multiple A

2569
02:14:01,880 --> 02:14:03,440
Speaker 2: lot of those, a lot of those. Look just look,

2570
02:14:03,560 --> 02:14:06,880
Speaker 2: there's multiple arms. Go to the thicky, to the thicky.

2571
02:14:07,560 --> 02:14:09,080
Speaker 2: I go to the thickey. I want to see the thicky.

2572
02:14:09,240 --> 02:14:11,440
Speaker 2: Up up up, scroll up, scroll up, scrow up scrow up,

2573
02:14:12,800 --> 02:14:19,000
Speaker 2: groll up, scroll up. That one's pretty good. Is this

2574
02:14:19,120 --> 02:14:22,720
Speaker 2: like a oh yeah, yea, yeah wow. If you haven't

2575
02:14:22,800 --> 02:14:27,280
Speaker 2: seen the roach diussies in the discord doing the discord

2576
02:14:27,360 --> 02:14:30,240
Speaker 2: right to have your ag thea eyes.

2577
02:14:30,160 --> 02:14:32,400
Speaker 4: Burned, go to the art channel. It's all in there,

2578
02:14:32,720 --> 02:14:35,480
Speaker 4: Kelly says Agatha.

2579
02:14:36,240 --> 02:14:38,080
Speaker 2: Man. People are really passionate about this. Yeah, if you're

2580
02:14:38,080 --> 02:14:41,600
Speaker 2: an OGA fan, you know, come out here.

2581
02:14:42,080 --> 02:14:45,560
Speaker 4: Let us let let it be known. I guess also,

2582
02:14:46,000 --> 02:14:48,480
Speaker 4: I gotta let it be known that Foxy Cat donating

2583
02:14:48,640 --> 02:14:51,360
Speaker 4: five bucks. Shout out to you while you guys are

2584
02:14:51,480 --> 02:14:54,280
Speaker 4: still going by the way, the minis are done, just

2585
02:14:54,360 --> 02:14:57,640
Speaker 4: waiting for my stationary to come in the mail so

2586
02:14:57,760 --> 02:15:01,200
Speaker 4: I can write each of you a letter. PLDR. We

2587
02:15:01,280 --> 02:15:03,720
Speaker 4: just read the TLDR. Am I the a hole for

2588
02:15:03,920 --> 02:15:05,960
Speaker 4: ghosting my boyfriend after he said we're not a couple

2589
02:15:06,800 --> 02:15:08,840
Speaker 4: and we just finished that, stored it out there.

2590
02:15:09,360 --> 02:15:13,640
Speaker 2: And Humanoid Dragon thanks for the five bucks. I'm calling

2591
02:15:13,840 --> 02:15:16,520
Speaker 2: bs and Jay being cheated on.

2592
02:15:16,880 --> 02:15:20,920
Speaker 4: If he accused someone he wasn't in a relationship with cheating,

2593
02:15:21,400 --> 02:15:29,720
Speaker 4: that is actually a good point. If Jay wasn't in

2594
02:15:29,800 --> 02:15:31,920
Speaker 4: a relationship with Op and then it was like, hey,

2595
02:15:32,720 --> 02:15:34,440
Speaker 4: why were you cheating? When he was like you literally

2596
02:15:34,440 --> 02:15:37,920
Speaker 4: said we're not in a relationship, that kind of makes

2597
02:15:38,000 --> 02:15:41,600
Speaker 4: it more confusing with his prior situation. I don't know,

2598
02:15:42,600 --> 02:15:44,600
Speaker 4: I don't know, but shout out to Foxy Catting Humani

2599
02:15:44,720 --> 02:15:49,720
Speaker 4: Dragon for the two donations. Sophia, how you doing no good?

2600
02:15:49,880 --> 02:15:50,480
Speaker 4: How you doing you?

2601
02:15:50,920 --> 02:15:51,400
Speaker 2: You crushed?

2602
02:15:52,960 --> 02:15:57,040
Speaker 4: You were crushing the producing thanks. I was like Riley, Sophia,

2603
02:15:57,120 --> 02:15:58,960
Speaker 4: who is it? It's both so great. I can't even

2604
02:15:59,080 --> 02:15:59,920
Speaker 4: tell who's there?

2605
02:16:00,360 --> 02:16:00,920
Speaker 2: Who's there?

2606
02:16:01,440 --> 02:16:01,720
Speaker 1: Hello?

2607
02:16:03,760 --> 02:16:06,680
Speaker 4: Also Shautu Blanas Brunette for the ten buck tip on

2608
02:16:06,760 --> 02:16:09,720
Speaker 4: the donoink. Do you guys love Christmas? I sent pictures

2609
02:16:09,800 --> 02:16:13,520
Speaker 4: of my handmade ornaments on Discord in the Hobbies a

2610
02:16:13,600 --> 02:16:16,240
Speaker 4: few minutes ago. That's freaking awesome. I will send some

2611
02:16:16,400 --> 02:16:19,080
Speaker 4: to you. I think I remember Sophia loving Christmas in

2612
02:16:19,120 --> 02:16:19,800
Speaker 4: a past episode.

2613
02:16:20,320 --> 02:16:20,640
Speaker 1: Christmas.

2614
02:16:20,760 --> 02:16:25,320
Speaker 4: I think Christmas is fire. Two things. There are only

2615
02:16:25,400 --> 02:16:29,040
Speaker 4: two things in this world that white people did right.

2616
02:16:29,680 --> 02:16:33,200
Speaker 4: Pumpkin spice Christmas the end. Yeah, that's the end of

2617
02:16:33,240 --> 02:16:33,560
Speaker 4: the list.

2618
02:16:33,920 --> 02:16:36,279
Speaker 1: And the Catholic stole Christmas from the Pagans.

2619
02:16:36,720 --> 02:16:37,760
Speaker 2: Bro what's good?

2620
02:16:39,160 --> 02:16:41,760
Speaker 4: But what are they doing? What are they doing? Lily

2621
02:16:41,879 --> 02:16:44,000
Speaker 4: Philly shout out to you for the five buck donation

2622
02:16:44,120 --> 02:16:47,160
Speaker 4: on the dono. Lik do I go to the pub

2623
02:16:47,400 --> 02:16:48,880
Speaker 4: by myself or not?

2624
02:16:49,240 --> 02:16:51,440
Speaker 2: Lily Pilly it do it? Do it?

2625
02:16:51,560 --> 02:16:53,039
Speaker 1: But like go there and make a friend.

2626
02:16:55,120 --> 02:16:55,560
Speaker 2: I love that.

2627
02:16:55,840 --> 02:16:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Like just go up to someone and be like,

2628
02:16:57,520 --> 02:16:58,560
Speaker 1: hey can I can I say here?

2629
02:16:59,400 --> 02:17:02,039
Speaker 2: I love that I or for me sometimes.

2630
02:17:02,080 --> 02:17:03,960
Speaker 4: I actually heard a great tip recently, which is like

2631
02:17:04,560 --> 02:17:08,160
Speaker 4: give someone like a compliment, like just as an excse.

2632
02:17:08,400 --> 02:17:11,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm wait wait hold on.

2633
02:17:12,000 --> 02:17:15,480
Speaker 4: Yep, you're you're the yp Oh hey you know what

2634
02:17:15,959 --> 02:17:18,560
Speaker 4: that is? Like a really dope mug. Where'd you where

2635
02:17:18,600 --> 02:17:20,200
Speaker 4: you get that from? My mom?

2636
02:17:20,640 --> 02:17:21,040
Speaker 2: Your mom?

2637
02:17:21,640 --> 02:17:23,760
Speaker 4: Does your mom like make mugs or something?

2638
02:17:24,040 --> 02:17:24,080
Speaker 7: No?

2639
02:17:24,920 --> 02:17:27,840
Speaker 4: Oh no really, but she made that mug. Yeah, so

2640
02:17:28,160 --> 02:17:30,959
Speaker 4: it's interesting. So she doesn't make mugs, but she made

2641
02:17:31,040 --> 02:17:31,520
Speaker 4: that mug.

2642
02:17:31,720 --> 02:17:33,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of a one time thing.

2643
02:17:33,680 --> 02:17:34,960
Speaker 2: Why are you lying to me?

2644
02:17:35,720 --> 02:17:36,400
Speaker 1: You don't know me?

2645
02:17:40,120 --> 02:17:42,520
Speaker 2: And scene see it's gonna work out perfectly.

2646
02:17:42,760 --> 02:17:45,960
Speaker 4: But in actuality, yes, Lily Pilly definitely go to the

2647
02:17:46,000 --> 02:17:48,199
Speaker 4: pub and definitely make some friends.

2648
02:17:48,240 --> 02:17:50,000
Speaker 2: Heck, cause some friends compliment their mug.

2649
02:17:50,360 --> 02:17:56,320
Speaker 4: Compliment their mugs. Uh Sylphie toad Slyvey too slightly Toes,

2650
02:17:56,320 --> 02:17:58,280
Speaker 4: Thank you slyly Toes, thanks for a tub buck donation.

2651
02:17:58,920 --> 02:18:04,080
Speaker 4: Can Bones New Worm, New Worm bro be called joinoints?

2652
02:18:04,400 --> 02:18:08,959
Speaker 1: I like joints. Why the other name, Well, joints still implies.

2653
02:18:09,720 --> 02:18:11,400
Speaker 1: I feel like we have a lot of people who

2654
02:18:11,560 --> 02:18:12,720
Speaker 1: like joints on this stream.

2655
02:18:12,879 --> 02:18:17,160
Speaker 3: Joints are the other name. Here's joints.

2656
02:18:17,160 --> 02:18:18,920
Speaker 2: Sorry for Can we open up another package?

2657
02:18:18,920 --> 02:18:24,320
Speaker 1: I would love to joy Yeah, joint joint Sydney's Brothers.

2658
02:18:24,600 --> 02:18:28,280
Speaker 4: Mega just uh mega ep No, not the end of

2659
02:18:28,320 --> 02:18:30,400
Speaker 4: the maybe in the next one. The next one's probably

2660
02:18:30,400 --> 02:18:35,680
Speaker 4: the end of this. Right, do you want it? Oh?

2661
02:18:35,760 --> 02:18:36,040
Speaker 2: Probably?

2662
02:18:36,040 --> 02:18:37,640
Speaker 4: Do you want it? Now?

2663
02:18:37,680 --> 02:18:40,320
Speaker 3: We got another? Oh this is the last one.

2664
02:18:41,360 --> 02:18:46,800
Speaker 4: Also, big big shout out to Yoko Bell for the

2665
02:18:47,560 --> 02:18:52,120
Speaker 4: fifty dollar donation on the donal link. Heck yeah, love

2666
02:18:52,200 --> 02:18:56,640
Speaker 4: the show and the many perspectives. It brings heart heart

2667
02:18:56,760 --> 02:19:02,680
Speaker 4: to your frickin' self, Yoko Bell, because rock, Okay, you

2668
02:19:02,920 --> 02:19:12,199
Speaker 4: freaking rock. Also, guys, we are seventy three likes away,

2669
02:19:13,280 --> 02:19:17,800
Speaker 4: seventy three likes, seven likes away from the eleven hundred

2670
02:19:18,520 --> 02:19:19,080
Speaker 4: like goal.

2671
02:19:19,879 --> 02:19:21,760
Speaker 2: Guys. We have the power.

2672
02:19:22,160 --> 02:19:23,200
Speaker 1: We got the power.

2673
02:19:23,560 --> 02:19:25,199
Speaker 2: We have the technology.

2674
02:19:25,320 --> 02:19:26,680
Speaker 1: We've got the technology.

2675
02:19:26,920 --> 02:19:27,840
Speaker 2: We have got the.

2676
02:19:27,959 --> 02:19:33,000
Speaker 4: Means to hit this eleven hundred likes on the streams

2677
02:19:33,200 --> 02:19:36,960
Speaker 4: to spin the mother freaking wheel. So what are we

2678
02:19:37,080 --> 02:19:37,760
Speaker 4: doing here? Really?

2679
02:19:38,320 --> 02:19:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2680
02:19:39,040 --> 02:19:42,240
Speaker 4: I just found out I have a very small splinter

2681
02:19:42,480 --> 02:19:46,840
Speaker 4: in my hand. Oh really, that's right? Very small, very small?

2682
02:19:47,160 --> 02:19:49,200
Speaker 1: Well can we make it worse and open up a package?

2683
02:19:50,080 --> 02:19:52,480
Speaker 2: No? No, we got to restore it. Yes, we're almost there,

2684
02:19:52,600 --> 02:19:57,800
Speaker 2: but shout out to lay it's not Labia.

2685
02:19:59,160 --> 02:20:04,320
Speaker 1: Bent smown Laila Leah Libbit Mona.

2686
02:20:04,360 --> 02:20:07,320
Speaker 4: Laila Libby's momenta for the five Gifted memberships.

2687
02:20:08,160 --> 02:20:09,520
Speaker 2: Let's go. We love to see it.

2688
02:20:10,520 --> 02:20:14,119
Speaker 4: But also let's get into this next story.

2689
02:20:14,280 --> 02:20:16,240
Speaker 1: Am I reading it? Or are you reading it?

2690
02:20:17,240 --> 02:20:19,960
Speaker 4: I think you are the one.

2691
02:20:20,080 --> 02:20:22,760
Speaker 1: I already I already know what we're on? You wor?

2692
02:20:23,120 --> 02:20:23,360
Speaker 2: WHOA?

2693
02:20:24,040 --> 02:20:24,480
Speaker 1: You ready?

2694
02:20:25,320 --> 02:20:26,440
Speaker 2: I'm ready? Are you ready?

2695
02:20:26,520 --> 02:20:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm ready?

2696
02:20:27,240 --> 02:20:28,360
Speaker 2: Let's freaking go.

2697
02:20:30,920 --> 02:20:33,000
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not going to another

2698
02:20:33,120 --> 02:20:37,120
Speaker 1: restaurant after my boyfriend refused to order from where I

2699
02:20:37,240 --> 02:20:43,480
Speaker 1: stopped question? So Row of Paradise says earlier today, I

2700
02:20:43,600 --> 02:20:46,119
Speaker 1: asked my boyfriend to go with me to run some errands.

2701
02:20:46,640 --> 02:20:49,160
Speaker 1: When we finished, I was hungry and picked a Mexican

2702
02:20:49,240 --> 02:20:52,520
Speaker 1: restaurant for lunch. It was more of an authentic place,

2703
02:20:52,600 --> 02:20:56,680
Speaker 1: which I absolutely loved, but my boyfriend said nothing looked appealing.

2704
02:20:58,560 --> 02:21:00,600
Speaker 1: He gave my money. He gave me money for my

2705
02:21:00,720 --> 02:21:02,360
Speaker 1: meal and said he was going to go to a

2706
02:21:02,400 --> 02:21:05,280
Speaker 1: place down the street. Ten minutes later, he's back because

2707
02:21:05,280 --> 02:21:08,040
Speaker 1: the place said a really long wait time. I made

2708
02:21:08,080 --> 02:21:10,960
Speaker 1: some suggestions from the menu he would probably like to try,

2709
02:21:11,080 --> 02:21:13,199
Speaker 1: but he said no. He said he told me last

2710
02:21:13,240 --> 02:21:15,440
Speaker 1: week he was burned out on Mexican food when we

2711
02:21:15,520 --> 02:21:18,279
Speaker 1: went out for dinner with my parents because we always

2712
02:21:18,360 --> 02:21:21,240
Speaker 1: eat it. He didn't order anything that night either, which

2713
02:21:21,360 --> 02:21:23,920
Speaker 1: was really embarrassing to have someone at the table not

2714
02:21:24,200 --> 02:21:27,400
Speaker 1: eating the entire time, and trying to explain to my

2715
02:21:27,480 --> 02:21:30,640
Speaker 1: mother and stepdad in a way that didn't sound disrespectful.

2716
02:21:32,440 --> 02:21:34,960
Speaker 1: Service at this place was rather slow, so I wound

2717
02:21:35,080 --> 02:21:37,720
Speaker 1: up taking most of my meal with me. He said

2718
02:21:37,760 --> 02:21:39,600
Speaker 1: to stop along the way to my place so he

2719
02:21:39,680 --> 02:21:42,320
Speaker 1: can get something to eat. I said no, because he

2720
02:21:42,400 --> 02:21:44,320
Speaker 1: knew I had to be home by a certain time

2721
02:21:44,440 --> 02:21:47,040
Speaker 1: for a maintenance person, and everything he wanted was in

2722
02:21:47,080 --> 02:21:50,040
Speaker 1: the opposite direction. We got back to my place and

2723
02:21:50,120 --> 02:21:51,920
Speaker 1: he said he was going to go home because he

2724
02:21:52,120 --> 02:21:55,000
Speaker 1: was starving. I said he could stay and cook something here,

2725
02:21:55,160 --> 02:21:58,000
Speaker 1: but he said no and that he needed space after

2726
02:21:58,240 --> 02:22:01,360
Speaker 1: I made him starve. I told him he wouldn't be

2727
02:22:01,400 --> 02:22:04,560
Speaker 1: starving if he hadn't been picky, and he left and

2728
02:22:04,720 --> 02:22:07,800
Speaker 1: he's still mad at me. So I am I the

2729
02:22:07,920 --> 02:22:12,760
Speaker 1: able here and there is a little edits and some

2730
02:22:12,959 --> 02:22:14,400
Speaker 1: relevant comments.

2731
02:22:14,800 --> 02:22:18,760
Speaker 4: But I have a question for you. You're so basically uh,

2732
02:22:19,200 --> 02:22:21,120
Speaker 4: Opie went to the boyfriend with.

2733
02:22:23,680 --> 02:22:28,800
Speaker 2: Guys. Pull it together, John, I'm trying.

2734
02:22:28,760 --> 02:22:31,959
Speaker 4: Okay, So Opie went to this Mexican spot with their

2735
02:22:32,360 --> 02:22:36,320
Speaker 4: partner boyfriend girlfriend do we know boyfriend boyfriend with her

2736
02:22:36,360 --> 02:22:38,800
Speaker 4: boyfriend and their family?

2737
02:22:39,080 --> 02:22:39,400
Speaker 1: Correct?

2738
02:22:39,680 --> 02:22:43,160
Speaker 4: And then Opie didn't Opie go to the restaurant and

2739
02:22:43,280 --> 02:22:45,520
Speaker 4: then come back with their own food or sorry not

2740
02:22:45,600 --> 02:22:46,680
Speaker 4: op the boyfriend So.

2741
02:22:46,800 --> 02:22:51,880
Speaker 1: Okay, TLDR Yes, Oh a lot like a hot second ago.

2742
02:22:52,080 --> 02:22:55,400
Speaker 1: Opie and her boyfriend, I guess like last week went

2743
02:22:55,520 --> 02:23:00,000
Speaker 1: to a Mexican restaurant with her parents and Opie's boyfrien

2744
02:23:00,080 --> 02:23:03,200
Speaker 1: and said, did not get anything to eat at the restaurant.

2745
02:23:03,959 --> 02:23:07,840
Speaker 1: We ate nothing wow, and said that the reason was

2746
02:23:07,879 --> 02:23:10,720
Speaker 1: because he they always ate Mexican food and he was like,

2747
02:23:10,760 --> 02:23:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm burned out, so he just didn't get anything at

2748
02:23:12,640 --> 02:23:17,400
Speaker 1: the restaurant and then like cut to this week, Opie.

2749
02:23:17,560 --> 02:23:20,440
Speaker 1: It was like, I'm going to this Mexican restaurant. Uh,

2750
02:23:20,760 --> 02:23:22,360
Speaker 1: do you want to come with me? And he's like, no,

2751
02:23:22,560 --> 02:23:25,720
Speaker 1: I'm burned out, so I'm gonna go to another place,

2752
02:23:25,879 --> 02:23:28,360
Speaker 1: And so he goes to another place it is too busy,

2753
02:23:28,600 --> 02:23:31,280
Speaker 1: but it comes back texts op and says, hey, can

2754
02:23:31,360 --> 02:23:33,000
Speaker 1: you pick up something else for me? On the way?

2755
02:23:33,320 --> 02:23:36,520
Speaker 1: Opie says no, I'm not gonna have any chap and

2756
02:23:36,600 --> 02:23:40,039
Speaker 1: then he was like, you made me starve, and that's

2757
02:23:40,040 --> 02:23:40,560
Speaker 1: where we're at.

2758
02:23:40,760 --> 02:23:44,320
Speaker 3: I just think Bro's hungry and that's why eat.

2759
02:23:45,360 --> 02:23:47,080
Speaker 1: But I do, I do, I don't know. What do

2760
02:23:47,160 --> 02:23:47,440
Speaker 1: you think?

2761
02:23:47,840 --> 02:23:51,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? This, Yeah, this one's a little a little tricky,

2762
02:23:51,240 --> 02:23:52,440
Speaker 2: so just hungry.

2763
02:23:53,040 --> 02:23:55,160
Speaker 4: I think, like I think it is. I think it

2764
02:23:55,280 --> 02:24:00,280
Speaker 4: is kind of whack that there's just like I feel

2765
02:24:00,360 --> 02:24:02,840
Speaker 4: like in like we should be able to if someone

2766
02:24:02,959 --> 02:24:06,400
Speaker 4: just like doesn't feel like eating at a set.

2767
02:24:06,240 --> 02:24:08,119
Speaker 1: I don't think he should be expected.

2768
02:24:08,520 --> 02:24:11,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I feel like, although I will say that

2769
02:24:11,200 --> 02:24:14,880
Speaker 4: like if you go out and like hang out with someone,

2770
02:24:14,959 --> 02:24:16,720
Speaker 4: it does like feel weird if someone's not eating, But

2771
02:24:16,800 --> 02:24:18,760
Speaker 4: I feel like it shouldn't be you know what I mean,

2772
02:24:19,040 --> 02:24:25,640
Speaker 4: I don't know, so I do I feel for Yeah,

2773
02:24:28,560 --> 02:24:28,920
Speaker 4: I don't know.

2774
02:24:29,440 --> 02:24:33,000
Speaker 2: I'm really conflicted. Can we can we put up a pole? Yeah?

2775
02:24:34,000 --> 02:24:35,880
Speaker 4: Is the boyfriend the A hole?

2776
02:24:36,160 --> 02:24:39,440
Speaker 2: A hole or not? On the boyfriend? Or should we

2777
02:24:39,480 --> 02:24:39,840
Speaker 2: do OP?

2778
02:24:40,120 --> 02:24:40,600
Speaker 1: Love bubbles?

2779
02:24:42,080 --> 02:24:44,000
Speaker 4: Let's start with you, thank you, love bubbles. Let's actually

2780
02:24:44,040 --> 02:24:45,760
Speaker 4: start with OP A hole or not?

2781
02:24:46,400 --> 02:24:47,120
Speaker 2: On OP?

2782
02:24:49,400 --> 02:24:51,280
Speaker 3: Is if OP a hole or BF?

2783
02:24:52,360 --> 02:24:55,640
Speaker 2: Just first, I'm thinking, well, yeah, you could do OPS

2784
02:24:55,720 --> 02:24:56,760
Speaker 2: ahole or BF. Yeah?

2785
02:24:56,760 --> 02:24:58,760
Speaker 4: Fair enough? Yeah, OP a hole or BF a hole?

2786
02:24:58,879 --> 02:25:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah enough?

2787
02:25:00,320 --> 02:25:03,680
Speaker 4: Fair enough? Also, what was it wandering worm? I figured

2788
02:25:03,680 --> 02:25:06,400
Speaker 4: out why John couldn't hear. It's not because he's old.

2789
02:25:06,480 --> 02:25:09,720
Speaker 4: Is because the hair is covering his ears. There you go.

2790
02:25:10,800 --> 02:25:12,760
Speaker 1: If that were the case, I would not be able

2791
02:25:12,800 --> 02:25:13,000
Speaker 1: to hear.

2792
02:25:13,480 --> 02:25:17,480
Speaker 2: That is true. Wow, my hair is my.

2793
02:25:17,560 --> 02:25:19,560
Speaker 4: Ears are a little bit more exposed through my hair

2794
02:25:19,680 --> 02:25:24,960
Speaker 4: than Sophia's. Guys, put your votes in one, OPI is

2795
02:25:25,000 --> 02:25:27,680
Speaker 4: the A hole? Two the boyfriend is the A hole? Uh,

2796
02:25:29,240 --> 02:25:32,040
Speaker 4: maybe it's maybe there's a little bit of both, a

2797
02:25:32,120 --> 02:25:32,800
Speaker 4: little bit of both.

2798
02:25:32,879 --> 02:25:34,480
Speaker 2: There might be a little bit of both, because like.

2799
02:25:36,480 --> 02:25:38,360
Speaker 4: I think it kind of and like, honestly, I don't

2800
02:25:38,360 --> 02:25:42,680
Speaker 4: know if my if my girlfriend didn't want to eat something,

2801
02:25:42,720 --> 02:25:45,360
Speaker 4: I wouldn't make her do that. And then in the

2802
02:25:45,440 --> 02:25:49,080
Speaker 4: second scenario, if if I was going to the restaurant

2803
02:25:49,120 --> 02:25:50,520
Speaker 4: and then she's like, oh, I don't want something there,

2804
02:25:50,560 --> 02:25:53,280
Speaker 4: could you pick something up for me on the way home,

2805
02:25:53,520 --> 02:25:55,240
Speaker 4: I would pick something up on the way home.

2806
02:25:55,320 --> 02:25:58,199
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it's not that big of a deal.

2807
02:25:58,600 --> 02:26:03,640
Speaker 5: Like if Sophia's significant other was at a steak house

2808
02:26:04,320 --> 02:26:06,320
Speaker 5: and she was there and she's like, I can't.

2809
02:26:06,160 --> 02:26:08,400
Speaker 2: Eat anything here, can you pick me something all the

2810
02:26:08,440 --> 02:26:08,800
Speaker 2: way back?

2811
02:26:08,840 --> 02:26:11,120
Speaker 5: That would be pretty yeah, And he doesn't because he

2812
02:26:11,200 --> 02:26:15,760
Speaker 5: has to be somewhere on time. Would you be mad, Sophia, Yeah,

2813
02:26:15,840 --> 02:26:17,600
Speaker 5: it might be a little, and you're angry and you're

2814
02:26:17,640 --> 02:26:19,080
Speaker 5: just hungry, and you're like, I don't need to be

2815
02:26:19,200 --> 02:26:19,360
Speaker 5: with you.

2816
02:26:19,480 --> 02:26:22,000
Speaker 3: I need to go cook me some peas and corn

2817
02:26:22,080 --> 02:26:24,400
Speaker 3: real quick. Good.

2818
02:26:24,920 --> 02:26:28,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm definitely leaning. And the votes are coming

2819
02:26:28,360 --> 02:26:31,080
Speaker 4: in as boyfriend, yeah little.

2820
02:26:31,160 --> 02:26:33,960
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are saying everyone sucks here,

2821
02:26:34,120 --> 02:26:35,920
Speaker 1: like they're making their boat, and then they're saying everyone

2822
02:26:36,000 --> 02:26:36,920
Speaker 1: sucks here right.

2823
02:26:37,040 --> 02:26:37,760
Speaker 4: Right right, trites?

2824
02:26:37,879 --> 02:26:38,560
Speaker 2: But who's.

2825
02:26:39,800 --> 02:26:40,880
Speaker 3: He's sucking harder?

2826
02:26:41,120 --> 02:26:45,440
Speaker 2: Who sucking harder? Yep? Stop yep? Yeap.

2827
02:26:45,640 --> 02:26:47,760
Speaker 3: Just saying the truth hurts.

2828
02:26:47,840 --> 02:26:53,039
Speaker 2: Sometimes don't say but there's more to the story. Oh well,

2829
02:26:53,120 --> 02:26:54,560
Speaker 2: let's get into it. Let's keep the pole run and

2830
02:26:54,600 --> 02:26:55,280
Speaker 2: see if it changes.

2831
02:26:56,720 --> 02:26:59,160
Speaker 1: No. I am not Mexican, but my stepdad is, so

2832
02:26:59,280 --> 02:27:01,280
Speaker 1: I grew up eating at most of my life. My

2833
02:27:01,360 --> 02:27:03,600
Speaker 1: stepdad picks where we choose to eat each week, or

2834
02:27:03,680 --> 02:27:06,160
Speaker 1: he won't go and they want all of us there

2835
02:27:06,440 --> 02:27:09,200
Speaker 1: each week, or it's a whole drama. I do cook

2836
02:27:09,280 --> 02:27:11,879
Speaker 1: other kinds of food. Sometimes I do eat different food

2837
02:27:11,879 --> 02:27:14,720
Speaker 1: when I go to his home. But when when my

2838
02:27:14,800 --> 02:27:17,680
Speaker 1: boyfriend eats with me, including our weekly meal with my parents,

2839
02:27:17,760 --> 02:27:20,000
Speaker 1: it's only three to four days eating some kind of

2840
02:27:20,080 --> 02:27:23,920
Speaker 1: Mexican cuisine, I'll start asking him where he'd like to

2841
02:27:23,959 --> 02:27:26,400
Speaker 1: go when I drive. The place he walked to was

2842
02:27:26,480 --> 02:27:28,440
Speaker 1: like five minutes away, but he thought he wouldn't have

2843
02:27:28,520 --> 02:27:30,720
Speaker 1: time to wait for takeouts, since takeout was a thirty

2844
02:27:30,720 --> 02:27:33,640
Speaker 1: five minute wait. Usually the sit down places I go

2845
02:27:33,760 --> 02:27:35,560
Speaker 1: to are pretty quick, like get your food ten to

2846
02:27:35,640 --> 02:27:38,800
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes after ordering. When we realized the place I

2847
02:27:38,959 --> 02:27:41,200
Speaker 1: chose was slow, he didn't have time to go back

2848
02:27:41,360 --> 02:27:44,680
Speaker 1: or place an order online. I acknowledge that just picking

2849
02:27:44,720 --> 02:27:47,360
Speaker 1: the restaurant on a whim driving by it instead of

2850
02:27:47,480 --> 02:27:49,680
Speaker 1: asking if he wanted to stop for food. Was wrong

2851
02:27:49,760 --> 02:27:52,119
Speaker 1: of me. I'll pick up something I know he likes

2852
02:27:52,200 --> 02:27:54,240
Speaker 1: and take it to him at work for life. Yeah,

2853
02:27:55,120 --> 02:27:56,520
Speaker 1: and there are some relevant comments.

2854
02:27:56,840 --> 02:27:57,280
Speaker 3: That's good.

2855
02:27:57,720 --> 02:28:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they've kind of solved it. But Reddit

2856
02:28:00,959 --> 02:28:02,360
Speaker 1: doesn't feel like it's solved yet.

2857
02:28:02,480 --> 02:28:06,000
Speaker 4: Mmm, there's more to be uncovered.

2858
02:28:06,200 --> 02:28:09,280
Speaker 1: M Lulu says, he told you he was burned out

2859
02:28:09,320 --> 02:28:13,440
Speaker 1: on Mexican food, and yet Civil Butterfly says this, It's

2860
02:28:13,520 --> 02:28:15,360
Speaker 1: not like it was news to her. She watched him

2861
02:28:15,440 --> 02:28:17,600
Speaker 1: just sit and not eat a week ago rather than

2862
02:28:17,640 --> 02:28:20,240
Speaker 1: have Mexican food. Then she wouldn't let him go somewhere

2863
02:28:20,240 --> 02:28:22,280
Speaker 1: else to get food because she had to be somewhere.

2864
02:28:22,440 --> 02:28:24,879
Speaker 1: Then she's mad he wanted to just go home to eat.

2865
02:28:25,840 --> 02:28:28,440
Speaker 1: Long Jumping Pick says, did you skip where? She said?

2866
02:28:28,480 --> 02:28:30,760
Speaker 1: He went to go get something for himself, but he

2867
02:28:30,959 --> 02:28:33,480
Speaker 1: did not want to wait. Instead, he came back and

2868
02:28:33,560 --> 02:28:35,480
Speaker 1: demanded she go out of her way when she needed

2869
02:28:35,520 --> 02:28:37,840
Speaker 1: to be home. He had the chance to get something,

2870
02:28:38,040 --> 02:28:43,360
Speaker 1: he decided to wait online. That's on him. Reclusive Giraffe says, tbh,

2871
02:28:43,520 --> 02:28:46,320
Speaker 1: I think they both suck unfair Finger says this is

2872
02:28:46,360 --> 02:28:49,279
Speaker 1: the only correct answer. They both acted like a holes.

2873
02:28:49,840 --> 02:28:53,320
Speaker 1: Alien Scrubs says not even a holes. They acted like children.

2874
02:28:53,920 --> 02:28:56,000
Speaker 1: Unfairfinger says, a whole children.

2875
02:28:56,560 --> 02:28:56,680
Speaker 4: Uh.

2876
02:28:56,800 --> 02:29:01,080
Speaker 5: I disagree with Lulu's comment. You can never he burnt

2877
02:29:01,160 --> 02:29:02,160
Speaker 5: out on Mexican food.

2878
02:29:02,360 --> 02:29:03,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no way.

2879
02:29:03,320 --> 02:29:06,640
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm a bad of Mexican food. That is, that's

2880
02:29:06,760 --> 02:29:07,640
Speaker 2: kind of freaking true.

2881
02:29:07,800 --> 02:29:10,760
Speaker 1: There's so many options, dude, I can never be burnt

2882
02:29:10,760 --> 02:29:11,840
Speaker 1: out on Indian food.

2883
02:29:14,000 --> 02:29:17,040
Speaker 3: You can go to Samosa House like I I can.

2884
02:29:17,240 --> 02:29:20,720
Speaker 4: I can get yeah, I have, and then I you

2885
02:29:20,800 --> 02:29:22,760
Speaker 4: just switch up the meal. Well you switch up for

2886
02:29:22,879 --> 02:29:25,560
Speaker 4: like a hot minute and then you switch back.

2887
02:29:25,879 --> 02:29:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. Right, So technically I.

2888
02:29:27,920 --> 02:29:31,320
Speaker 1: Ate so much Indian food when I was traveling, Like

2889
02:29:31,520 --> 02:29:33,440
Speaker 1: every place I went to we got Indian food.

2890
02:29:34,000 --> 02:29:36,280
Speaker 4: But did you and you were like you just kept going.

2891
02:29:36,440 --> 02:29:38,320
Speaker 1: Well, it was because we were burnt out on all

2892
02:29:38,360 --> 02:29:40,280
Speaker 1: the other foods were like Indian food.

2893
02:29:40,560 --> 02:29:43,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I feel like it's real. Me

2894
02:29:43,160 --> 02:29:45,280
Speaker 4: and my girlfriend all the time will like eat like

2895
02:29:45,400 --> 02:29:47,440
Speaker 4: one type of food and then yeah we're like okay,

2896
02:29:47,440 --> 02:29:48,879
Speaker 4: we're like tired of this. We got to switch it up.

2897
02:29:49,360 --> 02:29:53,240
Speaker 1: That's I understand. I guess I I'll switch up on

2898
02:29:53,360 --> 02:29:54,280
Speaker 1: the occasion, But on.

2899
02:29:54,320 --> 02:29:58,920
Speaker 4: The occasion, I forgot about the part where he was

2900
02:29:59,000 --> 02:30:00,880
Speaker 4: waiting in line for ten minutes and then left.

2901
02:30:01,200 --> 02:30:04,360
Speaker 1: I love, Oh that's my favorite meal.

2902
02:30:04,840 --> 02:30:08,680
Speaker 4: That is true. I forgot about that part where he

2903
02:30:08,920 --> 02:30:13,280
Speaker 4: was in line somewhere and then he left. Yeah, that's honestly,

2904
02:30:15,120 --> 02:30:20,920
Speaker 4: that might make him definitely more. Yeah.

2905
02:30:21,080 --> 02:30:23,600
Speaker 1: No, I think it's just a little silly that he

2906
02:30:24,120 --> 02:30:28,000
Speaker 1: went and then wouldn't wait and he came back and

2907
02:30:28,360 --> 02:30:30,000
Speaker 1: he got mad at his you know.

2908
02:30:30,120 --> 02:30:33,440
Speaker 4: Partner, unless you had some reason, like I was like

2909
02:30:33,560 --> 02:30:35,720
Speaker 4: making this big presentation at work and it was like

2910
02:30:36,400 --> 02:30:38,320
Speaker 4: I had to get back to like make his presentation

2911
02:30:38,520 --> 02:30:39,440
Speaker 4: to like get my promotion.

2912
02:30:39,959 --> 02:30:42,240
Speaker 2: Hey, would you mind like swinging by?

2913
02:30:42,680 --> 02:30:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I think I think maybe just

2914
02:30:44,680 --> 02:30:46,800
Speaker 1: a little lack of communication. But it seems like they've

2915
02:30:46,879 --> 02:30:50,160
Speaker 1: figured it out, have they. Yeah. She was like, yeah,

2916
02:30:50,440 --> 02:30:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go pick him up some food.

2917
02:30:52,480 --> 02:30:54,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, like the next day she's picking up the food

2918
02:30:54,600 --> 02:30:56,560
Speaker 3: now for lunch, for lunch to make.

2919
02:30:56,640 --> 02:30:58,840
Speaker 1: For so as like a like she was like, yeah,

2920
02:30:58,840 --> 02:30:59,960
Speaker 1: I probably could have done better.

2921
02:31:00,240 --> 02:31:00,560
Speaker 4: That's good.

2922
02:31:00,640 --> 02:31:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me ask this, who do we think was

2923
02:31:02,720 --> 02:31:03,840
Speaker 2: more the ahle.

2924
02:31:05,400 --> 02:31:05,640
Speaker 1: Hmm.

2925
02:31:07,920 --> 02:31:10,240
Speaker 5: I think neither of them are the a hole. It

2926
02:31:10,400 --> 02:31:14,360
Speaker 5: was just whenever, whenever food is involved and people get angry,

2927
02:31:15,080 --> 02:31:18,840
Speaker 5: No one's that fault their instinct. Their primal instinct is

2928
02:31:18,840 --> 02:31:22,000
Speaker 5: to get food in their system. And whatever happens by

2929
02:31:22,080 --> 02:31:24,800
Speaker 5: any means to make that happen in modern day society,

2930
02:31:25,640 --> 02:31:28,520
Speaker 5: no one's I've been said some pretty nasty things by

2931
02:31:28,840 --> 02:31:31,480
Speaker 5: people because they were hungry, and I don't hold that

2932
02:31:31,600 --> 02:31:37,840
Speaker 5: to them. True fair enough, That's what that's my thoughts.

2933
02:31:38,640 --> 02:31:41,240
Speaker 1: Also, Unicorn Love, I'd love to come to India and

2934
02:31:41,280 --> 02:31:42,040
Speaker 1: the Indian food.

2935
02:31:42,240 --> 02:31:44,080
Speaker 2: Oh that would be fire. That would be fire.

2936
02:31:44,120 --> 02:31:47,240
Speaker 4: You know what else is fire? The people donating to

2937
02:31:47,400 --> 02:31:51,640
Speaker 4: this fricking stream? Okay uh, Stars Falls Up. The first

2938
02:31:51,800 --> 02:31:59,760
Speaker 4: person in the list Foxy Cat. Maybe oh my, but

2939
02:32:00,280 --> 02:32:02,440
Speaker 4: Foxy Cat, thank you for the five bucks. Thank you

2940
02:32:02,520 --> 02:32:05,119
Speaker 4: Worm Queen for giving me the motivation to get back

2941
02:32:05,320 --> 02:32:08,199
Speaker 4: into miniature painting. Love you, sweetye.

2942
02:32:09,640 --> 02:32:09,960
Speaker 2: There you go.

2943
02:32:10,320 --> 02:32:12,760
Speaker 4: We'd love to see it. Stars Fall Up, thanks for

2944
02:32:12,840 --> 02:32:15,320
Speaker 4: the one buck on the dono link. I can't believe

2945
02:32:15,360 --> 02:32:16,360
Speaker 4: the live is still going.

2946
02:32:16,440 --> 02:32:17,160
Speaker 2: Kudos to you all.

2947
02:32:17,200 --> 02:32:20,280
Speaker 4: Will this be another ten hour stream? Stars Fall Up

2948
02:32:20,320 --> 02:32:23,240
Speaker 4: and everyone watching that's up to you. That's all I

2949
02:32:23,280 --> 02:32:29,600
Speaker 4: can say. Jessemon is thanks, but it's twenty five bucks.

2950
02:32:29,760 --> 02:32:33,920
Speaker 4: Where is the pigeon versus worm war? Where is it

2951
02:32:34,000 --> 02:32:36,280
Speaker 4: not a war? It kind of sounds like war to me.

2952
02:32:38,320 --> 02:32:39,320
Speaker 2: It's a clean sweep.

2953
02:32:39,920 --> 02:32:43,400
Speaker 4: Stan Lee Costa, thanks for the five bucks. I'm autistic.

2954
02:32:43,480 --> 02:32:46,480
Speaker 4: I eat the same meal every day for months. Honestly,

2955
02:32:46,760 --> 02:32:49,760
Speaker 4: I am known. Riley has seen this. I will eat

2956
02:32:49,800 --> 02:32:50,640
Speaker 4: the same meal.

2957
02:32:52,160 --> 02:32:54,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. He does sometimes for two to three years.

2958
02:32:55,720 --> 02:32:56,160
Speaker 4: Basically.

2959
02:32:56,320 --> 02:33:01,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, he literally ate chicken nuggets for years straight and

2960
02:33:01,440 --> 02:33:03,680
Speaker 5: is part of ways from that I did. We switched

2961
02:33:03,720 --> 02:33:05,840
Speaker 5: it out and dish it up whenever I was here.

2962
02:33:05,879 --> 02:33:07,760
Speaker 5: He'll go like two or three weeks on the same

2963
02:33:07,879 --> 02:33:09,480
Speaker 5: breakfast and then the same thing.

2964
02:33:09,640 --> 02:33:09,920
Speaker 4: Easy.

2965
02:33:10,959 --> 02:33:11,520
Speaker 3: Is it simple?

2966
02:33:11,959 --> 02:33:13,600
Speaker 4: I can't I stay on the same thing.

2967
02:33:13,840 --> 02:33:16,720
Speaker 1: I will switch it up. But however, I do have

2968
02:33:16,800 --> 02:33:18,960
Speaker 1: go to meals. Like if I'm feeling lazy and I

2969
02:33:19,000 --> 02:33:20,720
Speaker 1: don't want to think, I'll make a go to meal.

2970
02:33:21,080 --> 02:33:23,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is nice to have like a core rotation

2971
02:33:23,920 --> 02:33:27,040
Speaker 4: of like, Okay, the have a couple go to meal.

2972
02:33:27,320 --> 02:33:29,480
Speaker 4: That's true. I need to I need to up my game.

2973
02:33:31,400 --> 02:33:32,720
Speaker 4: All right, that's a good one.

2974
02:33:33,000 --> 02:33:35,760
Speaker 5: Can we open a package, and I really want to

2975
02:33:35,800 --> 02:33:37,720
Speaker 5: get into this next story because I read a little

2976
02:33:37,720 --> 02:33:40,040
Speaker 5: tibit of it and this is when I found the

2977
02:33:40,240 --> 02:33:43,039
Speaker 5: r V one. Yeah, we gotta, we gotta get into

2978
02:33:43,080 --> 02:33:50,640
Speaker 5: this all right, well we're going to God, Yeah.

2979
02:33:52,800 --> 02:33:53,240
Speaker 4: I found it.

2980
02:33:54,320 --> 02:34:01,200
Speaker 1: Oh uh dutchess. Cassanda says, whether you're part of the

2981
02:34:01,280 --> 02:34:04,520
Speaker 1: worm army or pigeon army like the stream Lily Peli says,

2982
02:34:04,560 --> 02:34:08,040
Speaker 1: say foods Southern Zen says, I'm grabbing an ice cream sandwich,

2983
02:34:08,320 --> 02:34:10,400
Speaker 1: damage sandwich, you'all want one?

2984
02:34:10,480 --> 02:34:13,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, give me the cookie one with like cookie cookie

2985
02:34:13,280 --> 02:34:14,320
Speaker 5: and then ice cream in the middle.

2986
02:34:14,320 --> 02:34:14,560
Speaker 3: Please.

2987
02:34:14,720 --> 02:34:16,480
Speaker 2: That would be sick. Love that.

2988
02:34:16,920 --> 02:34:22,000
Speaker 1: That sounds a yummy. Parlbar says, raised on Mexican food,

2989
02:34:22,000 --> 02:34:24,680
Speaker 1: and there's a huge variety. But one thing I would always.

2990
02:34:24,400 --> 02:34:26,080
Speaker 4: Eat is really.

2991
02:34:27,520 --> 02:34:30,080
Speaker 1: I would love like a like like a good ramen.

2992
02:34:30,200 --> 02:34:34,800
Speaker 2: Right now, you know, we got the box is open?

2993
02:34:35,560 --> 02:34:37,160
Speaker 4: What is it? I can see what's in it?

2994
02:34:37,280 --> 02:34:37,600
Speaker 1: What is that?

2995
02:34:37,800 --> 02:34:38,160
Speaker 4: What is it?

2996
02:34:40,840 --> 02:34:50,800
Speaker 2: One's that is so cute, That is so cute.

2997
02:34:51,000 --> 02:34:54,160
Speaker 3: It's the Chinese dream that is so cute.

2998
02:34:54,240 --> 02:34:54,720
Speaker 1: And then.

2999
02:34:57,040 --> 02:35:06,000
Speaker 4: That and then oh I believe this is for me.

3000
02:35:06,280 --> 02:35:09,119
Speaker 3: Oh you don't have a long neck.

3001
02:35:11,080 --> 02:35:15,720
Speaker 2: I asked for it. Oh yeah, god damn, let me live.

3002
02:35:16,520 --> 02:35:18,600
Speaker 4: Sorry for streamings, and.

3003
02:35:18,640 --> 02:35:24,520
Speaker 3: Then what do we get for Sam? Oh that is adorable.

3004
02:35:25,600 --> 02:35:26,200
Speaker 1: So cute.

3005
02:35:28,160 --> 02:35:34,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, by the way, this is so cute, Rachel.

3006
02:35:35,080 --> 02:35:37,520
Speaker 4: Shout out to Rachel, Rachel, what you're watching.

3007
02:35:39,560 --> 02:35:41,080
Speaker 1: I love how big his head is.

3008
02:35:43,480 --> 02:35:45,959
Speaker 3: Rachel c Thank you so much, Rachel.

3009
02:35:48,080 --> 02:35:50,840
Speaker 4: I am so I appreciate you. Kelly G three it

3010
02:35:51,240 --> 02:35:56,160
Speaker 4: is cuteness overload. I literally Greg right and shout out

3011
02:35:56,200 --> 02:35:58,160
Speaker 4: to Jasmine Lee for the five bucks tip. Good morning

3012
02:35:58,200 --> 02:36:00,680
Speaker 4: from Germany. I'm always happy to wake up to one

3013
02:36:00,720 --> 02:36:05,360
Speaker 4: of your streams, Jasmine. I'm so glad we could be here.

3014
02:36:05,600 --> 02:36:07,560
Speaker 1: I love a little so many stuff he's be go on.

3015
02:36:08,000 --> 02:36:08,560
Speaker 2: This is yeah?

3016
02:36:08,600 --> 02:36:09,080
Speaker 4: Today is this?

3017
02:36:09,800 --> 02:36:11,959
Speaker 2: I think it's I got so many good stuff.

3018
02:36:12,120 --> 02:36:14,720
Speaker 1: You're I'm really I mean, I mine's the best, but

3019
02:36:14,840 --> 02:36:16,199
Speaker 1: I love your Chinese dragon.

3020
02:36:16,840 --> 02:36:18,000
Speaker 4: It's kind of fun, so cool.

3021
02:36:18,040 --> 02:36:18,920
Speaker 1: The colors are very.

3022
02:36:18,840 --> 02:36:23,160
Speaker 4: Cool, I said, I said giraffe in like just it

3023
02:36:23,320 --> 02:36:25,400
Speaker 4: was just at the top of my head. But actually

3024
02:36:25,560 --> 02:36:26,760
Speaker 4: I'm really rocking with it now.

3025
02:36:27,160 --> 02:36:29,960
Speaker 1: Cute it is.

3026
02:36:30,680 --> 02:36:33,959
Speaker 4: Yes, let me live, roses of all kinds. I agree,

3027
02:36:34,440 --> 02:36:35,080
Speaker 4: let me live.

3028
02:36:35,200 --> 02:36:36,520
Speaker 1: I'm literally obsessed with this.

3029
02:36:36,920 --> 02:36:38,279
Speaker 2: But guys, there's.

3030
02:36:38,120 --> 02:36:41,480
Speaker 4: Something we need to do more than just living, more

3031
02:36:41,560 --> 02:36:42,520
Speaker 4: than just existing.

3032
02:36:42,680 --> 02:36:43,320
Speaker 2: What you know what?

3033
02:36:43,440 --> 02:36:43,760
Speaker 4: That is?

3034
02:36:44,120 --> 02:36:51,000
Speaker 2: What eating this next story? So wait a second, we're

3035
02:36:51,040 --> 02:36:51,920
Speaker 2: not guys.

3036
02:36:52,040 --> 02:36:53,680
Speaker 1: We are, but we are reading.

3037
02:36:55,000 --> 02:36:59,400
Speaker 4: Also cute Asian persuasion. Thank you good Just Red Jasmine,

3038
02:37:00,000 --> 02:37:01,039
Speaker 4: I literally just read.

3039
02:37:01,080 --> 02:37:03,560
Speaker 1: Sorry I was crying over getting into We can read it.

3040
02:37:03,600 --> 02:37:04,120
Speaker 1: We can read it.

3041
02:37:04,760 --> 02:37:07,120
Speaker 2: I can read it. Who just read you? Right?

3042
02:37:07,200 --> 02:37:07,800
Speaker 1: I just read it?

3043
02:37:08,000 --> 02:37:08,360
Speaker 2: Is me?

3044
02:37:08,520 --> 02:37:09,119
Speaker 4: Where am I going?

3045
02:37:10,600 --> 02:37:12,040
Speaker 1: We really need to get a shelf for all of

3046
02:37:12,080 --> 02:37:12,760
Speaker 1: our little guys.

3047
02:37:12,920 --> 02:37:17,160
Speaker 4: This is true. They are coming for eighty seven. Thank

3048
02:37:17,200 --> 02:37:21,720
Speaker 4: you saw for eighty seven eighty seven? Do you guys

3049
02:37:21,879 --> 02:37:23,280
Speaker 4: like it when we read out the numbers? I hope

3050
02:37:23,280 --> 02:37:23,440
Speaker 4: you do.

3051
02:37:24,160 --> 02:37:24,520
Speaker 2: All right?

3052
02:37:26,160 --> 02:37:26,760
Speaker 4: Are you ready?

3053
02:37:28,520 --> 02:37:29,360
Speaker 2: Let's go a year?

3054
02:37:30,040 --> 02:37:32,480
Speaker 4: Am I the a hole for ruining my husband's trip

3055
02:37:32,760 --> 02:37:36,240
Speaker 4: even though he took my RV? We'll throw away fifty

3056
02:37:36,280 --> 02:37:38,959
Speaker 4: four US six sixty six says This might be confusing,

3057
02:37:39,040 --> 02:37:41,160
Speaker 4: but I'll try my best to be clear. I'm typing

3058
02:37:41,200 --> 02:37:43,640
Speaker 4: on my tablet, so forgive me Freddy Grammar just to

3059
02:37:43,760 --> 02:37:45,920
Speaker 4: note this is the first time and then an issue

3060
02:37:46,000 --> 02:37:47,640
Speaker 4: like this has come up in our marriage, and I

3061
02:37:47,800 --> 02:37:48,320
Speaker 4: do not know.

3062
02:37:48,400 --> 02:37:48,840
Speaker 2: What to do.

3063
02:37:49,120 --> 02:37:51,840
Speaker 4: I have been writing romance novels since I was in college.

3064
02:37:52,200 --> 02:37:54,920
Speaker 4: I was a relatively successful author, and I have made

3065
02:37:54,959 --> 02:37:59,320
Speaker 4: a living off selling my novels. Ever since, I do

3066
02:37:59,560 --> 02:38:03,160
Speaker 4: not make a lot of money. I do not make

3067
02:38:03,160 --> 02:38:03,800
Speaker 4: a lot of money.

3068
02:38:04,040 --> 02:38:04,560
Speaker 2: Where was I?

3069
02:38:05,920 --> 02:38:07,240
Speaker 4: I do not make a lot of money, but I

3070
02:38:07,280 --> 02:38:09,640
Speaker 4: do bring home around forty thousand dollars a year in

3071
02:38:09,680 --> 02:38:12,959
Speaker 4: book sales. That's awesome. So I can write and also

3072
02:38:13,080 --> 02:38:15,840
Speaker 4: make crafts to sell on my Etsy shop. Hey, not

3073
02:38:15,959 --> 02:38:20,000
Speaker 4: a bad way to make a buck. A few years

3074
02:38:20,080 --> 02:38:22,959
Speaker 4: after college, I met Tim and we instantly hit it off.

3075
02:38:23,200 --> 02:38:25,320
Speaker 4: We dated for three years before tying the na, and

3076
02:38:25,400 --> 02:38:28,680
Speaker 4: we bought a house together. Surely after, Tim makes his

3077
02:38:28,800 --> 02:38:31,440
Speaker 4: living off of investment in stocks. However, we keep our

3078
02:38:31,480 --> 02:38:35,560
Speaker 4: finances steparate. This has become Tim. This is because Tim

3079
02:38:35,640 --> 02:38:38,720
Speaker 4: inherited a vast amount of money from his family. Before

3080
02:38:38,800 --> 02:38:41,959
Speaker 4: we were married, I signed a pre and up agreement

3081
02:38:42,080 --> 02:38:45,240
Speaker 4: in order to ease his mind. We both contribute an

3082
02:38:45,320 --> 02:38:48,360
Speaker 4: equal share to the joint bank account for bills. Then

3083
02:38:48,440 --> 02:38:52,400
Speaker 4: we use the remainder of our money for ourselves.

3084
02:38:54,120 --> 02:38:58,880
Speaker 2: Quick poll. Just because I'm curious, split inheritance or nah,

3085
02:39:00,200 --> 02:39:03,120
Speaker 2: Split inheritance or not, I'm curious the OP came into

3086
02:39:03,160 --> 02:39:04,959
Speaker 2: this money from the inheritance.

3087
02:39:05,720 --> 02:39:09,800
Speaker 4: Do you think that? Sorry, I'm not I'm sorry not op, Tim,

3088
02:39:10,520 --> 02:39:15,280
Speaker 4: Tim got the inheritance. Should Tim split the inheritance? They

3089
02:39:15,360 --> 02:39:18,760
Speaker 4: do split all their bills. They put equal money into

3090
02:39:18,800 --> 02:39:21,800
Speaker 4: the joint bank account for paying bills. But should he

3091
02:39:22,400 --> 02:39:25,520
Speaker 4: put the inheritance? Please let me know. Riley's about to

3092
02:39:25,520 --> 02:39:30,160
Speaker 4: put up the poll, and there it is, split or not? Dude?

3093
02:39:30,320 --> 02:39:32,240
Speaker 4: That was so clean, so simple, right job, Riley?

3094
02:39:33,600 --> 02:39:34,400
Speaker 2: Put in your votes.

3095
02:39:34,800 --> 02:39:37,920
Speaker 4: Let's get back to it. About a year ago I

3096
02:39:38,120 --> 02:39:41,160
Speaker 4: landed a contract to write a part of a romance series.

3097
02:39:41,920 --> 02:39:42,840
Speaker 2: The contract was.

3098
02:39:43,200 --> 02:39:46,160
Speaker 4: Huge and the payout was over one hundred and twenty

3099
02:39:46,320 --> 02:39:51,040
Speaker 4: grand for a few months work. Now that's a come

3100
02:39:51,120 --> 02:39:55,240
Speaker 4: up hitting the lick. Maybe I contributed my share to

3101
02:39:55,320 --> 02:39:57,560
Speaker 4: the joint account and then put the rest of the

3102
02:39:57,600 --> 02:39:59,600
Speaker 4: money into my into my bank so.

3103
02:39:59,640 --> 02:40:00,800
Speaker 2: I could by an r V.

3104
02:40:02,360 --> 02:40:08,320
Speaker 4: What do you think about that, Sophia? What does your

3105
02:40:08,360 --> 02:40:09,120
Speaker 4: friend think about it?

3106
02:40:10,720 --> 02:40:12,680
Speaker 1: I need the d L d R.

3107
02:40:14,600 --> 02:40:14,840
Speaker 5: Were you?

3108
02:40:16,440 --> 02:40:19,480
Speaker 4: Were you by chance playing with.

3109
02:40:21,360 --> 02:40:24,880
Speaker 2: The doll? Not the doll? The two can and uh

3110
02:40:25,120 --> 02:40:27,160
Speaker 2: not absorbing all of the information.

3111
02:40:27,440 --> 02:40:29,840
Speaker 1: Okay, So from when I'm gathering give me.

3112
02:40:29,879 --> 02:40:32,039
Speaker 4: Your I can I can correct?

3113
02:40:32,720 --> 02:40:39,400
Speaker 1: Opie's husband has comes from a wealthy family and just

3114
02:40:39,440 --> 02:40:43,320
Speaker 1: got inheritance and they split all of their their current

3115
02:40:43,440 --> 02:40:46,800
Speaker 1: like financial stuff. And now the question is do they

3116
02:40:46,920 --> 02:40:50,560
Speaker 1: split the inheritance? Did I miss them?

3117
02:40:50,800 --> 02:40:53,480
Speaker 4: Yes, I I asked that question. That is not the

3118
02:40:53,600 --> 02:41:00,320
Speaker 4: question in the story yet. But uh oh, he just

3119
02:41:00,360 --> 02:41:03,200
Speaker 4: got one hundred twenty thousand dollars gig for a few

3120
02:41:03,240 --> 02:41:06,119
Speaker 4: months when she usually earns like like around forty k years.

3121
02:41:06,160 --> 02:41:09,160
Speaker 1: Okay, so is it like did she and him both

3122
02:41:09,440 --> 02:41:09,920
Speaker 1: split that?

3123
02:41:10,200 --> 02:41:13,040
Speaker 2: There's no question yet? There's no question.

3124
02:41:13,320 --> 02:41:14,480
Speaker 1: How did you bring up a question?

3125
02:41:15,000 --> 02:41:16,960
Speaker 2: I just wanted to see if you've been paying attention

3126
02:41:17,040 --> 02:41:17,640
Speaker 2: to the story.

3127
02:41:18,040 --> 02:41:19,360
Speaker 1: I clearly was it.

3128
02:41:20,720 --> 02:41:21,560
Speaker 2: I had to expose you.

3129
02:41:21,680 --> 02:41:24,600
Speaker 4: But let's get back to it. So I've always wanted

3130
02:41:24,600 --> 02:41:26,280
Speaker 4: to buy an RV because I love to travel and

3131
02:41:26,320 --> 02:41:28,400
Speaker 4: nothing would make me happier than being able to write

3132
02:41:28,400 --> 02:41:31,760
Speaker 4: while on the road. Tim is often away on business

3133
02:41:31,800 --> 02:41:33,880
Speaker 4: for days at a time, so the RV would give

3134
02:41:33,920 --> 02:41:35,920
Speaker 4: me an opportunity to get out of the house while

3135
02:41:35,959 --> 02:41:38,440
Speaker 4: he is away. After six months of the siding, I

3136
02:41:38,640 --> 02:41:41,040
Speaker 4: chose a lightly used RV and purchased it from the

3137
02:41:41,120 --> 02:41:43,880
Speaker 4: owners for a great price. When Tim found out I

3138
02:41:44,000 --> 02:41:44,680
Speaker 4: purchased the RV.

3139
02:41:44,920 --> 02:41:45,640
Speaker 2: He was excited.

3140
02:41:46,040 --> 02:41:48,520
Speaker 4: He has a travel trailer, but it's not the same

3141
02:41:48,640 --> 02:41:51,240
Speaker 4: as an all in one RV. He loves RVs and

3142
02:41:51,320 --> 02:41:53,520
Speaker 4: he wanted to immediately take it out for a trip

3143
02:41:53,600 --> 02:41:56,760
Speaker 4: across the state. We took our trip and Tim couldn't

3144
02:41:56,760 --> 02:41:59,200
Speaker 4: stop talking about how much he enjoyed the experience, and

3145
02:41:59,320 --> 02:42:03,440
Speaker 4: he started talking about taking more trips together. I gently

3146
02:42:03,520 --> 02:42:05,840
Speaker 4: reminded him that the RV is a fun thing for

3147
02:42:06,040 --> 02:42:08,680
Speaker 4: us to have vac I generally reminded him that even

3148
02:42:08,760 --> 02:42:11,440
Speaker 4: though the RV is fun thing for us to have

3149
02:42:11,560 --> 02:42:14,400
Speaker 4: a to have vacations on, that its main purpose is

3150
02:42:14,480 --> 02:42:16,320
Speaker 4: for me to have something to do while he is

3151
02:42:16,360 --> 02:42:19,960
Speaker 4: away on business, but that we would be taking plenty

3152
02:42:20,000 --> 02:42:22,400
Speaker 4: of vacations together. Tim agreed with me, and he let

3153
02:42:22,480 --> 02:42:26,960
Speaker 4: it go for a while. The thing is the thing is.

3154
02:42:27,680 --> 02:42:30,640
Speaker 2: In the past few weeks, Tim has been badgering me

3155
02:42:30,879 --> 02:42:34,520
Speaker 2: about taking the RV with him on his business trips.

3156
02:42:36,040 --> 02:42:38,160
Speaker 2: He usually flies where he goes.

3157
02:42:38,040 --> 02:42:40,800
Speaker 4: To his rental properties to visit family, and he has

3158
02:42:40,840 --> 02:42:43,040
Speaker 4: normally gone four to five days at a time. We

3159
02:42:43,160 --> 02:42:46,200
Speaker 4: got into an argument because he had to evict a

3160
02:42:46,320 --> 02:42:49,800
Speaker 4: tenant and he wanted to drive the RV across the

3161
02:42:49,840 --> 02:42:51,200
Speaker 4: state in order to do so.

3162
02:42:52,600 --> 02:42:56,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so Op saying, when you were on those trips,

3163
02:42:56,320 --> 02:42:58,360
Speaker 1: I bought this RV so that I had something to do.

3164
02:42:58,560 --> 02:43:00,720
Speaker 1: And he's saying, well, now I want to take it

3165
02:43:01,200 --> 02:43:01,959
Speaker 1: on those trips.

3166
02:43:02,120 --> 02:43:04,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing to do. She's like, I literally bought this

3167
02:43:04,959 --> 02:43:07,480
Speaker 2: RV for while you're away on trips, and now you

3168
02:43:07,520 --> 02:43:09,240
Speaker 2: want to take it while you're away on trips.

3169
02:43:09,400 --> 02:43:12,360
Speaker 4: This makes no sense. And and and he has a

3170
02:43:12,440 --> 02:43:14,720
Speaker 4: lot of money from the inheritance that OP can't touch.

3171
02:43:15,720 --> 02:43:18,680
Speaker 4: And OP paid for this from this big one hundred

3172
02:43:18,680 --> 02:43:19,879
Speaker 4: and twenty k contract that was.

3173
02:43:19,920 --> 02:43:20,960
Speaker 2: Like a rare windfall.

3174
02:43:21,120 --> 02:43:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, her husband a hole?

3175
02:43:24,800 --> 02:43:28,720
Speaker 4: Whoa Yeah, Blaine laye it down, ladies and gentlemen.

3176
02:43:28,560 --> 02:43:32,480
Speaker 2: Lane law the law. I asked.

3177
02:43:32,920 --> 02:43:35,680
Speaker 4: I asked him if I could come along, and Tim

3178
02:43:35,720 --> 02:43:37,720
Speaker 4: said he would prefer if I didn't.

3179
02:43:38,560 --> 02:43:43,520
Speaker 1: Whoa what I'd prefer if you didn't take her freaking RV.

3180
02:43:44,879 --> 02:43:47,800
Speaker 4: Uh, Christy, we need to find our hats, but quick

3181
02:43:47,800 --> 02:43:51,279
Speaker 4: conspiracy theory, our hats are gone somewhere.

3182
02:43:52,959 --> 02:43:55,920
Speaker 2: Cheating christ said that.

3183
02:43:56,120 --> 02:43:57,680
Speaker 1: You get a hook up with someone in the r V.

3184
02:43:58,280 --> 02:44:04,640
Speaker 4: Yep, yep, disgusting. That's what stinky. That's what stinky, stinky

3185
02:44:04,920 --> 02:44:14,000
Speaker 4: men thinky men, doom, that's what they do. They think

3186
02:44:14,040 --> 02:44:17,720
Speaker 4: he stinky men. Anyway, we're getting back to reality, so

3187
02:44:17,760 --> 02:44:21,120
Speaker 4: if we don't really, but there you go, please, gentlemen.

3188
02:44:21,320 --> 02:44:26,040
Speaker 4: We got it back, all right. So I then said

3189
02:44:26,200 --> 02:44:28,240
Speaker 4: that if I couldn't come with him, that he couldn't

3190
02:44:28,280 --> 02:44:31,160
Speaker 4: take my RV. Yeah, which is completely fair. I suggested

3191
02:44:31,200 --> 02:44:33,440
Speaker 4: that he take his travel trailer instead, and he got

3192
02:44:33,600 --> 02:44:36,920
Speaker 4: mad it stormed out of the house. About an hour later,

3193
02:44:37,000 --> 02:44:39,200
Speaker 4: he started texting me like nothing had happened, and then

3194
02:44:39,280 --> 02:44:42,640
Speaker 4: he said he was taking the RV as if our

3195
02:44:42,720 --> 02:44:44,720
Speaker 4: previous conversation had never happened.

3196
02:44:45,360 --> 02:44:45,720
Speaker 1: Baby.

3197
02:44:46,040 --> 02:44:48,360
Speaker 4: I called him and tried to explain that he had

3198
02:44:48,520 --> 02:44:51,840
Speaker 4: just purchased a brand new pickup and that if I

3199
02:44:52,080 --> 02:44:54,760
Speaker 4: didn't get to drive his new truck in his absence,

3200
02:44:55,080 --> 02:44:57,440
Speaker 4: why should he get to take my r V when

3201
02:44:57,520 --> 02:44:59,560
Speaker 4: I am not coming on the trip. Tim and I

3202
02:44:59,640 --> 02:45:01,880
Speaker 4: went back and forth, and eventually he said I could

3203
02:45:01,920 --> 02:45:04,480
Speaker 4: come along if it meant that much to me. I

3204
02:45:04,640 --> 02:45:07,920
Speaker 4: said it would, And now I am regretting everything. I

3205
02:45:08,000 --> 02:45:09,840
Speaker 4: am sitting in the back of my own RV with

3206
02:45:09,920 --> 02:45:12,560
Speaker 4: a man who won't let me touch the wheel. It

3207
02:45:12,640 --> 02:45:14,879
Speaker 4: has been three days since this trip started, and all

3208
02:45:15,000 --> 02:45:17,520
Speaker 4: Tim has done is rant about how awesome the RV

3209
02:45:17,680 --> 02:45:21,440
Speaker 4: trip would have been if I weren't with him.

3210
02:45:21,920 --> 02:45:24,800
Speaker 1: Well, if she wasn't around, there would be no RV.

3211
02:45:26,040 --> 02:45:29,360
Speaker 4: Wait in case, buddy, he freak, But also like, what

3212
02:45:29,560 --> 02:45:31,000
Speaker 4: a thing to say to your wife.

3213
02:45:31,920 --> 02:45:33,760
Speaker 1: No, it's incredibly rude.

3214
02:45:34,040 --> 02:45:39,360
Speaker 4: My god, it has made me question everything in our marriage,

3215
02:45:39,800 --> 02:45:42,440
Speaker 4: from how we split our finances to how we argue

3216
02:45:42,480 --> 02:45:44,959
Speaker 4: and function together. This is the first time that anything

3217
02:45:45,040 --> 02:45:46,600
Speaker 4: like this has ever happened, and I don't know what

3218
02:45:46,680 --> 02:45:49,000
Speaker 4: to do in the situation. He is still ranting as

3219
02:45:49,080 --> 02:45:53,200
Speaker 4: I type this, and he's never done that before. Quick edit,

3220
02:45:53,360 --> 02:45:55,640
Speaker 4: Hey guys, I've read all of your comments and advice.

3221
02:45:55,760 --> 02:45:57,560
Speaker 4: I don't know what I'll do yet, but i'll update

3222
02:45:57,560 --> 02:45:59,879
Speaker 4: you later. Second quick at it. Hey, guys, I've read

3223
02:45:59,879 --> 02:46:02,200
Speaker 4: all of your messages and I've got limited internet right now.

3224
02:46:02,600 --> 02:46:04,840
Speaker 4: A few of you were concerned for my safety and

3225
02:46:04,920 --> 02:46:06,240
Speaker 4: I just wanted to let you know that I am

3226
02:46:06,320 --> 02:46:09,920
Speaker 4: fine and I plan on confronting him later Today, ladies

3227
02:46:09,959 --> 02:46:14,720
Speaker 4: and gentlemen, we have a big, fat, juicy update, but

3228
02:46:14,959 --> 02:46:17,160
Speaker 4: let's just super quick take a pit stop on our

3229
02:46:17,879 --> 02:46:18,320
Speaker 4: road trip.

3230
02:46:22,840 --> 02:46:23,640
Speaker 2: Tim is a hole?

3231
02:46:24,480 --> 02:46:28,440
Speaker 4: Yes, what do we what do we do? What do

3232
02:46:28,520 --> 02:46:33,280
Speaker 4: we do with the Kick him to the streets on

3233
02:46:33,480 --> 02:46:36,400
Speaker 4: his own, open the door in a ravine, push him out,

3234
02:46:37,040 --> 02:46:40,640
Speaker 4: watch him fly because he has a paraglider the safety

3235
02:46:40,760 --> 02:46:42,360
Speaker 4: and then ring him out from the other side of

3236
02:46:42,360 --> 02:46:42,720
Speaker 4: the mountain.

3237
02:46:42,800 --> 02:46:47,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I go you suck Hey dude, on what are

3238
02:46:47,520 --> 02:46:48,360
Speaker 1: you here either?

3239
02:46:49,959 --> 02:46:50,160
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3240
02:46:50,520 --> 02:46:52,199
Speaker 2: I think cool.

3241
02:46:53,959 --> 02:46:57,760
Speaker 4: In actuality? Do you think I feel like after the

3242
02:46:57,840 --> 02:47:01,200
Speaker 4: trip is over, like just because they're both in the RV,

3243
02:47:01,600 --> 02:47:03,680
Speaker 4: like it kind of sucks, but maybe like you finish

3244
02:47:03,760 --> 02:47:06,600
Speaker 4: out and you're like, you're never getting to use my V.

3245
02:47:06,720 --> 02:47:08,440
Speaker 1: You never got to use it again because of how

3246
02:47:08,520 --> 02:47:12,360
Speaker 1: you hurt me. Honestly, Like, I think that's totally fair.

3247
02:47:12,600 --> 02:47:15,600
Speaker 1: If you do not think that you can have a

3248
02:47:15,640 --> 02:47:17,440
Speaker 1: good time with me and my RB, then you can't

3249
02:47:17,520 --> 02:47:18,000
Speaker 1: use my RV.

3250
02:47:18,480 --> 02:47:19,000
Speaker 4: Is this a.

3251
02:47:21,320 --> 02:47:21,720
Speaker 2: Wars?

3252
02:47:22,800 --> 02:47:24,520
Speaker 1: I think they need to have a convo about it.

3253
02:47:24,879 --> 02:47:27,440
Speaker 1: But I think this was his unacceptable behavior and if

3254
02:47:27,480 --> 02:47:30,360
Speaker 1: he does not apologize for this, it would be on.

3255
02:47:30,360 --> 02:47:32,680
Speaker 4: The route Riley. If you could, we're gonna hop right

3256
02:47:32,680 --> 02:47:34,160
Speaker 4: into this update. If you could put up a poll

3257
02:47:34,400 --> 02:47:37,440
Speaker 4: divorce or not. I'm very curious to see how this

3258
02:47:37,600 --> 02:47:40,279
Speaker 4: vote happens and how it changes through this next update.

3259
02:47:40,800 --> 02:47:42,120
Speaker 2: But let's let's get into it.

3260
02:47:43,080 --> 02:47:45,680
Speaker 4: So I promised I would update, but things got very hectic,

3261
02:47:45,760 --> 02:47:48,000
Speaker 4: and this is the first chance I've gotten. The whole

3262
02:47:48,080 --> 02:47:50,720
Speaker 4: situation makes me very emotional, so please forgive me if

3263
02:47:50,760 --> 02:47:52,800
Speaker 4: this post is not coherent as I would like it

3264
02:47:52,879 --> 02:47:56,039
Speaker 4: to be. When I posted my first post, we were

3265
02:47:56,080 --> 02:47:58,080
Speaker 4: on the road in the RV and my husband was

3266
02:47:58,080 --> 02:48:00,840
Speaker 4: giving me the cold shoulder when he complained at me

3267
02:48:00,920 --> 02:48:03,360
Speaker 4: from the driver's seats. You all had some great advice

3268
02:48:03,400 --> 02:48:05,280
Speaker 4: for me about what I should do, and I listened

3269
02:48:05,320 --> 02:48:09,000
Speaker 4: to a few people who suggested that he might be

3270
02:48:09,800 --> 02:48:13,120
Speaker 4: cheating on me. He might be cheating on me.

3271
02:48:14,040 --> 02:48:15,760
Speaker 2: Tim had left his iPad in the back of the

3272
02:48:15,920 --> 02:48:17,960
Speaker 2: RV no a charge while he drove.

3273
02:48:18,720 --> 02:48:20,760
Speaker 4: He was charged in Sofia. I'm not proud of this,

3274
02:48:21,200 --> 02:48:23,280
Speaker 4: but I was able to sneak his iPad into the

3275
02:48:23,320 --> 02:48:28,120
Speaker 4: bedroom when he was distracted by the road. He was

3276
02:48:28,200 --> 02:48:30,680
Speaker 4: logged into his email account and I quickly skimmed over

3277
02:48:30,760 --> 02:48:34,200
Speaker 4: his inbox but didn't find anything suspicious. I then had

3278
02:48:34,240 --> 02:48:37,240
Speaker 4: the idea to check his sent folder and found out

3279
02:48:37,280 --> 02:48:40,439
Speaker 4: that he had been chatting up his ex from college.

3280
02:48:40,600 --> 02:48:42,840
Speaker 2: Oh, chatting up your ex.

3281
02:48:42,959 --> 02:48:46,160
Speaker 1: Hubby freaking roadship to go see his ex.

3282
02:48:46,440 --> 02:48:51,800
Speaker 4: Dude, and we are literally over ninety percent divorce, already

3283
02:48:52,920 --> 02:48:53,800
Speaker 4: over ninety percent.

3284
02:48:54,280 --> 02:49:01,800
Speaker 2: My god, do this.

3285
02:49:06,879 --> 02:49:08,840
Speaker 4: I'm not proud of this, but I already read that,

3286
02:49:09,000 --> 02:49:10,720
Speaker 4: so I have to skip to the next part. I'm

3287
02:49:10,760 --> 02:49:14,200
Speaker 4: not I'm not proud of reading it twice should be

3288
02:49:14,240 --> 02:49:17,000
Speaker 4: to Bodo. It made me sick to my stomach to

3289
02:49:17,080 --> 02:49:19,480
Speaker 4: read the messages with his X, but luckily they had

3290
02:49:19,600 --> 02:49:23,800
Speaker 4: not yet been physical translated from chat speaks. The message

3291
02:49:23,879 --> 02:49:26,240
Speaker 4: he sent to his ex was basically, I can't wait

3292
02:49:26,320 --> 02:49:29,080
Speaker 4: to get my hands on you. It's been years since

3293
02:49:29,120 --> 02:49:36,320
Speaker 4: I felt that mouth. Whoa hold on, I'm excited, sir

3294
02:49:37,640 --> 02:49:41,199
Speaker 4: piped down. I was disgusted, but I tried to keep calm.

3295
02:49:41,600 --> 02:49:43,560
Speaker 4: We were on the road, headed to another state, and

3296
02:49:43,640 --> 02:49:46,360
Speaker 4: we planned on stopping at his mother's house. I knew

3297
02:49:46,400 --> 02:49:48,720
Speaker 4: that if his messages were in the scent folder, that

3298
02:49:49,000 --> 02:49:52,280
Speaker 4: meant he had deleted them. Tim was not planning on

3299
02:49:52,400 --> 02:49:55,560
Speaker 4: being caught and was trying to cover his filthy, stinky

3300
02:49:55,640 --> 02:49:58,920
Speaker 4: man tracks. He wanted my RV so that he could

3301
02:49:59,000 --> 02:50:02,160
Speaker 4: take his exa around the state and have fun without

3302
02:50:02,360 --> 02:50:03,959
Speaker 4: leaving a credit card trace.

3303
02:50:04,720 --> 02:50:05,160
Speaker 2: My god.

3304
02:50:05,400 --> 02:50:08,280
Speaker 4: I took photos of the emails and I sent them

3305
02:50:08,320 --> 02:50:09,119
Speaker 4: to myself.

3306
02:50:08,840 --> 02:50:11,280
Speaker 2: In order to preserve the ed In order to preserve the.

3307
02:50:11,280 --> 02:50:13,200
Speaker 4: Evidence, I then went back to the front of the

3308
02:50:13,320 --> 02:50:16,640
Speaker 4: RV and act as if everything was fine. I apologized,

3309
02:50:16,760 --> 02:50:19,480
Speaker 4: don't worry, I lied for how I had acted, and

3310
02:50:19,600 --> 02:50:22,119
Speaker 4: suggested that we ask his mom to help us work

3311
02:50:22,200 --> 02:50:22,480
Speaker 4: through this.

3312
02:50:23,360 --> 02:50:24,280
Speaker 2: Oh we are, we are.

3313
02:50:24,480 --> 02:50:27,840
Speaker 1: He's crossing their fingers like I'm sorry.

3314
02:50:28,360 --> 02:50:31,360
Speaker 4: I also love how we're literally ninety nine percent divorce.

3315
02:50:32,080 --> 02:50:33,840
Speaker 2: No now, oh, I don't think.

3316
02:50:33,760 --> 02:50:38,200
Speaker 4: I've ever had that close of a or like like that.

3317
02:50:38,520 --> 02:50:40,920
Speaker 4: That like basically what unanimous vote. I don't think we've

3318
02:50:40,920 --> 02:50:43,240
Speaker 4: ever had a unanimous vote like that. And the reason, honestly,

3319
02:50:43,280 --> 02:50:45,440
Speaker 4: the reason why there's the one percent is because we

3320
02:50:45,600 --> 02:50:47,880
Speaker 4: started before we found out about the cheating, because I

3321
02:50:47,879 --> 02:50:50,640
Speaker 4: wanted to see how it progressless we got as we went.

3322
02:50:51,200 --> 02:50:52,760
Speaker 4: But I mean, there we go.

3323
02:50:52,920 --> 02:50:55,960
Speaker 2: The people have spoken people, Okay, shout out to you

3324
02:50:56,160 --> 02:50:57,360
Speaker 2: one percent over.

3325
02:50:57,320 --> 02:50:59,760
Speaker 4: There, the one percent, the one percenters eat the rich

3326
02:51:00,120 --> 02:51:02,119
Speaker 4: out the rich. There you go, hashtaggy out the rich,

3327
02:51:02,440 --> 02:51:06,760
Speaker 4: never let it die. Hashaggy at the rich in the comments, Yeah,

3328
02:51:07,600 --> 02:51:07,960
Speaker 4: there we go.

3329
02:51:08,959 --> 02:51:11,280
Speaker 2: Tim said that he was sorry and that he accepted

3330
02:51:11,280 --> 02:51:11,840
Speaker 2: my apology.

3331
02:51:12,560 --> 02:51:13,000
Speaker 1: What a hero.

3332
02:51:14,400 --> 02:51:16,240
Speaker 4: He said he was looking forward to using the RV

3333
02:51:16,400 --> 02:51:19,920
Speaker 4: in the future. I'm sure he is, and that he

3334
02:51:20,120 --> 02:51:22,160
Speaker 4: was glad that I had come to see reason.

3335
02:51:22,640 --> 02:51:23,160
Speaker 2: Whoa buddy.

3336
02:51:23,440 --> 02:51:25,680
Speaker 4: I smiled and nodded, but on the inside I was

3337
02:51:25,840 --> 02:51:27,160
Speaker 4: cursing his existence.

3338
02:51:27,280 --> 02:51:30,760
Speaker 1: Smiling, we made it to his.

3339
02:51:30,840 --> 02:51:33,520
Speaker 4: Mom's house and I made up an excuse about having

3340
02:51:33,640 --> 02:51:36,600
Speaker 4: to change because my clothes are wrinkled. Tim went inside

3341
02:51:36,640 --> 02:51:40,040
Speaker 4: without me, and I started throwing out all of his

3342
02:51:40,160 --> 02:51:44,240
Speaker 4: clothes and belongings into a trash bag. I then went

3343
02:51:44,360 --> 02:51:47,520
Speaker 4: inside the house and Tim was sitting with his mom

3344
02:51:47,720 --> 02:51:50,000
Speaker 4: in the kitchen. He asked me what I was doing

3345
02:51:50,080 --> 02:51:52,040
Speaker 4: with the bag, and I told him that I was

3346
02:51:52,120 --> 02:51:54,920
Speaker 4: giving him his clothes back so that I could leave.

3347
02:51:55,600 --> 02:51:58,000
Speaker 4: Tim then got angry and asked me what the f

3348
02:51:58,160 --> 02:52:00,320
Speaker 4: was I doing? And his mom was simply confus used.

3349
02:52:00,879 --> 02:52:02,880
Speaker 4: She asked me what was going on, and I told

3350
02:52:02,920 --> 02:52:06,280
Speaker 4: her I'm not sure myself. I'm waiting for Tim to

3351
02:52:06,440 --> 02:52:09,560
Speaker 4: explain why he was planning to cheat on me with

3352
02:52:09,800 --> 02:52:16,879
Speaker 4: his ex. Oh drop that, Mike, Mike freaking dropped, Go ahead,

3353
02:52:17,840 --> 02:52:21,600
Speaker 4: go ahead, drop it. Boom, you just dropped it. You

3354
02:52:21,720 --> 02:52:26,640
Speaker 4: just dropped it again. No one can see it, guys. Boom,

3355
02:52:27,200 --> 02:52:32,760
Speaker 4: big boom. All right, so let's get back into it.

3356
02:52:33,440 --> 02:52:36,480
Speaker 4: Tim's mom then started to cry and yell at him

3357
02:52:36,560 --> 02:52:41,000
Speaker 4: while he tried to calm her down. Honestly, fire shout

3358
02:52:41,040 --> 02:52:44,480
Speaker 4: out Tim's mom, and also like fireway to explode. I

3359
02:52:45,160 --> 02:52:46,920
Speaker 4: low key love this a little bit. I know it's petty,

3360
02:52:46,959 --> 02:52:50,080
Speaker 4: but I love it. I know Reddit does not have

3361
02:52:50,120 --> 02:52:52,400
Speaker 4: a lot of love for religion, but Tim's mother is

3362
02:52:52,440 --> 02:52:56,000
Speaker 4: a fundamentalist. She loved me from the minute Tim introduced

3363
02:52:56,040 --> 02:52:58,160
Speaker 4: me to her, and it would be an understatement to

3364
02:52:58,240 --> 02:52:58,879
Speaker 4: say that she was.

3365
02:52:59,120 --> 02:53:02,119
Speaker 2: Very upset at her adulterous son.

3366
02:53:02,680 --> 02:53:07,720
Speaker 1: O you adulterous boy, Tim you.

3367
02:53:08,720 --> 02:53:12,520
Speaker 4: Tim never tried to apologize. Instead, he chased after his mother,

3368
02:53:12,680 --> 02:53:16,800
Speaker 4: saying he was sorry to her. This made her cry

3369
02:53:17,000 --> 02:53:19,720
Speaker 4: harder because she knew that he wasn't even trying to

3370
02:53:19,760 --> 02:53:22,960
Speaker 4: make amends with me. He was just apologizing to her. Yeah, actually,

3371
02:53:22,959 --> 02:53:24,440
Speaker 4: shout out to the mom. I think the mom is

3372
02:53:24,520 --> 02:53:28,120
Speaker 4: like seeing through the bs through this. I thanked her

3373
02:53:28,240 --> 02:53:30,720
Speaker 4: and took the rvkeys from Tim. This ended up being

3374
02:53:30,800 --> 02:53:33,640
Speaker 4: a minor wrestling match this guy, what is wrong with

3375
02:53:33,680 --> 02:53:33,960
Speaker 4: this guy?

3376
02:53:34,840 --> 02:53:37,840
Speaker 2: And left. I drove home crying, But at least I

3377
02:53:37,959 --> 02:53:41,120
Speaker 2: got rid of my ahole x husband.

3378
02:53:42,120 --> 02:53:43,840
Speaker 4: There we go. Tim called me the next day and

3379
02:53:43,959 --> 02:53:46,760
Speaker 4: begged me to come back to him. He said it

3380
02:53:46,879 --> 02:53:48,640
Speaker 4: was all a mistake and that he was sorry. I

3381
02:53:48,720 --> 02:53:51,120
Speaker 4: asked him why he didn't apologize at his mother's house,

3382
02:53:51,360 --> 02:53:53,600
Speaker 4: Why he didn't say he was sorry when I handed

3383
02:53:53,800 --> 02:53:56,240
Speaker 4: When I was handing him his back, I told him

3384
02:53:56,280 --> 02:53:58,440
Speaker 4: that he didn't care about cheating on me, that all

3385
02:53:58,520 --> 02:54:00,840
Speaker 4: he cared about was how bad it made him look

3386
02:54:00,959 --> 02:54:03,840
Speaker 4: to his family. This is this is true. He tried

3387
02:54:03,879 --> 02:54:05,840
Speaker 4: to explain himself, but I cut him off and I

3388
02:54:05,959 --> 02:54:08,040
Speaker 4: hung up. I blocked him on all social media and

3389
02:54:08,120 --> 02:54:11,800
Speaker 4: haven't heard anything since. I've gotten a lawyer and already

3390
02:54:11,920 --> 02:54:17,600
Speaker 4: started the divorce process. And we do have a few

3391
02:54:18,520 --> 02:54:22,040
Speaker 4: relevant comments. But Gabby be says, love the pettiness. So

3392
02:54:22,120 --> 02:54:27,199
Speaker 4: proud of Op for exposing his rs. Yeah, real quick, Sophia,

3393
02:54:27,640 --> 02:54:30,800
Speaker 4: what do we think of the of the expert? This

3394
02:54:31,000 --> 02:54:31,280
Speaker 4: was great?

3395
02:54:31,920 --> 02:54:37,280
Speaker 1: The expos was a stunning piece about empowerment. Yeah, and

3396
02:54:37,520 --> 02:54:41,199
Speaker 1: dropping and dropping people who are toxic.

3397
02:54:40,840 --> 02:54:42,760
Speaker 4: In Yes, I think like.

3398
02:54:44,680 --> 02:54:46,560
Speaker 3: I feel like you need a pipe for the way you.

3399
02:54:46,680 --> 02:54:50,080
Speaker 1: Said that he's a stunning expersade.

3400
02:54:50,360 --> 02:54:52,840
Speaker 7: It really speaks to the world that we live in,

3401
02:54:53,720 --> 02:54:56,480
Speaker 7: where a man can take a woman's vy that she

3402
02:54:56,640 --> 02:55:00,520
Speaker 7: paid for by her own means, ah and and things

3403
02:55:00,600 --> 02:55:01,039
Speaker 7: that you can.

3404
02:55:00,959 --> 02:55:03,800
Speaker 1: Get away with it. What do you think, John, Well.

3405
02:55:04,560 --> 02:55:08,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that it's really a simple thing when

3406
02:55:08,440 --> 02:55:12,360
Speaker 4: you think about it one time and tried to show

3407
02:55:12,400 --> 02:55:12,720
Speaker 4: it off me.

3408
02:55:13,760 --> 02:55:16,000
Speaker 2: Okay, No, I quite.

3409
02:55:15,840 --> 02:55:19,959
Speaker 7: Agree, John, It's just it's absolutely hysterics.

3410
02:55:20,320 --> 02:55:21,680
Speaker 2: Sophia. I agree with you.

3411
02:55:22,120 --> 02:55:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree with you. It seems really both

3412
02:55:26,480 --> 02:55:29,240
Speaker 1: in agreements, you could say, would.

3413
02:55:29,360 --> 02:55:36,360
Speaker 2: Show he is. Yes, yeah, I kind of like how

3414
02:55:37,760 --> 02:55:39,080
Speaker 2: this from Zam.

3415
02:55:39,680 --> 02:55:41,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I kind of like how it was like it

3416
02:55:42,000 --> 02:55:44,840
Speaker 4: was still an expose a but she didn't do anything

3417
02:55:45,080 --> 02:55:48,800
Speaker 4: she didn't like attacking. It's like, hey, look here's your stuff.

3418
02:55:50,640 --> 02:55:52,680
Speaker 4: I'm telling I'm telling you and your mom. I'm just

3419
02:55:52,840 --> 02:55:55,160
Speaker 4: simply telling them what you did and I'm leaving.

3420
02:55:56,320 --> 02:56:01,200
Speaker 2: Yes, just desserts, Just desserts. You can't do something bad

3421
02:56:01,280 --> 02:56:02,439
Speaker 2: and not expect.

3422
02:56:02,640 --> 02:56:05,320
Speaker 1: Revenge is a dish best served.

3423
02:56:08,040 --> 02:56:11,440
Speaker 2: Gold Well, ladies and gentlemen, this story is almost over.

3424
02:56:11,600 --> 02:56:15,760
Speaker 4: We have rub the sleep. I think, Sofia is gonna

3425
02:56:15,760 --> 02:56:18,120
Speaker 4: lose your voice, and Johnsound is drunk. I am very

3426
02:56:18,240 --> 02:56:21,000
Speaker 4: lucid rub the sleep, and I'm so lucid in fact,

3427
02:56:21,040 --> 02:56:24,280
Speaker 4: that I'm gonna close up the story with these relevance comments.

3428
02:56:24,760 --> 02:56:28,280
Speaker 4: So hi there, I'm the op from the story. Oh

3429
02:56:28,720 --> 02:56:32,080
Speaker 4: OPI uh did drop in the previous best of veditor

3430
02:56:32,120 --> 02:56:35,680
Speaker 4: updates and updated the situation seven years later.

3431
02:56:35,879 --> 02:56:37,520
Speaker 2: Oh wow, seven years later?

3432
02:56:37,920 --> 02:56:40,480
Speaker 4: My god, Hi there, I'm the OPI from a story.

3433
02:56:40,560 --> 02:56:42,720
Speaker 4: A friend told me that at reef surface on this Subreddit.

3434
02:56:42,840 --> 02:56:46,320
Speaker 4: Long story short, the prenup was not even considered during

3435
02:56:46,360 --> 02:56:48,840
Speaker 4: the divorce. Our lawyers worked up in agreement to split

3436
02:56:48,920 --> 02:56:53,240
Speaker 4: all assets acquired during marriage fifty to fifty to avoid

3437
02:56:53,360 --> 02:56:54,600
Speaker 4: a drawn out legal battle.

3438
02:56:55,040 --> 02:56:57,320
Speaker 2: I did end up getting slightly more than I put

3439
02:56:57,440 --> 02:56:58,600
Speaker 2: in the marriage, but.

3440
02:56:58,760 --> 02:57:00,680
Speaker 4: Not by much. So Op came out ahead, but not

3441
02:57:00,840 --> 02:57:03,000
Speaker 4: by a lot. Didn't get the inheritance we talked about earlier.

3442
02:57:03,240 --> 02:57:05,400
Speaker 4: In the end, I was happier just to get rid

3443
02:57:05,440 --> 02:57:08,640
Speaker 4: of him quickly. Comment to goodness, I was not expecting

3444
02:57:08,680 --> 02:57:10,640
Speaker 4: to hear anything about my story on Reddit after so

3445
02:57:10,720 --> 02:57:12,879
Speaker 4: many years, but a friend linked me to this post.

3446
02:57:12,920 --> 02:57:14,480
Speaker 4: I'm a bit late to read through it, though I'm

3447
02:57:14,520 --> 02:57:17,280
Speaker 4: typing this on a phone, so please forgive any spelling

3448
02:57:17,320 --> 02:57:20,680
Speaker 4: a grammar. For a small update, our divorce was finalized

3449
02:57:20,680 --> 02:57:23,320
Speaker 4: and settled a long time ago. Our lawyers worked out

3450
02:57:23,320 --> 02:57:26,160
Speaker 4: an agreement outside of court and we split assets acquired

3451
02:57:26,240 --> 02:57:29,640
Speaker 4: during the acquired during the marriage fifty to fifty, which

3452
02:57:29,720 --> 02:57:32,040
Speaker 4: meant I ended up slightly ahead with my of my

3453
02:57:32,160 --> 02:57:35,080
Speaker 4: personal contributions. I didn't want the mental stress of having

3454
02:57:35,120 --> 02:57:37,040
Speaker 4: to fight my ex and court and simply wanted to

3455
02:57:37,080 --> 02:57:37,640
Speaker 4: get rid of him.

3456
02:57:37,640 --> 02:57:41,800
Speaker 2: And yes, I kept the RV after the divorce centiment. Huzzah.

3457
02:57:42,920 --> 02:57:45,320
Speaker 4: Mother in law and I stayed in touch until her

3458
02:57:45,400 --> 02:57:48,960
Speaker 4: passing last year. She was someone who loved God and

3459
02:57:49,200 --> 02:57:52,600
Speaker 4: she never truly forgave her son for committing the sin

3460
02:57:52,760 --> 02:57:53,480
Speaker 4: of adultery.

3461
02:57:53,720 --> 02:57:53,959
Speaker 2: Wow.

3462
02:57:55,200 --> 02:57:58,000
Speaker 4: Her own husband father in law, had left her for

3463
02:57:58,200 --> 02:58:02,000
Speaker 4: another woman decades ago, and she had never moved past.

3464
02:58:03,600 --> 02:58:06,640
Speaker 4: Seeing her son commit the same sin almost broke her,

3465
02:58:06,879 --> 02:58:10,000
Speaker 4: especially since I had fulfilled what she considered to be

3466
02:58:10,480 --> 02:58:14,040
Speaker 4: my wifely obligations. As for me, I am happily single

3467
02:58:14,160 --> 02:58:18,040
Speaker 4: to this day and I'm still a writer. Big slay

3468
02:58:18,240 --> 02:58:22,720
Speaker 4: Opie answers her current relationship status. Wahaha, this is why

3469
02:58:22,840 --> 02:58:25,280
Speaker 4: I am still single. I haven't been in a relationship

3470
02:58:25,360 --> 02:58:29,160
Speaker 4: since the divorce, unless you count I cat and this

3471
02:58:29,360 --> 02:58:33,480
Speaker 4: exchange about her books shadow at X thirty one says,

3472
02:58:33,680 --> 02:58:35,960
Speaker 4: based on the timing of details, I think I might

3473
02:58:36,080 --> 02:58:36,880
Speaker 4: know who the author is.

3474
02:58:37,720 --> 02:58:38,800
Speaker 2: This is one hotel.

3475
02:58:39,080 --> 02:58:41,480
Speaker 4: There is one book she writes that's the story of

3476
02:58:41,520 --> 02:58:45,080
Speaker 4: an author who finds love after divorcing her abusive, a

3477
02:58:45,200 --> 02:58:48,360
Speaker 4: whole husband. The book talks about how she started writing

3478
02:58:48,440 --> 02:58:51,760
Speaker 4: while younger and doesn't pull much for a while until

3479
02:58:51,800 --> 02:58:54,200
Speaker 4: hitting it big. There's just a lot of similarities in

3480
02:58:54,280 --> 02:58:57,279
Speaker 4: the story and the author's writing style. Opie, that's definitely

3481
02:58:57,320 --> 02:58:58,120
Speaker 4: not me, but nice.

3482
02:58:58,160 --> 02:59:01,080
Speaker 1: Try you, guys, what you would say if it was you.

3483
02:59:01,680 --> 02:59:05,880
Speaker 4: That is true. My work is more pulp fiction, harlequin romance,

3484
02:59:06,000 --> 02:59:10,680
Speaker 4: and borderline mut I try to avoid topics from real life,

3485
02:59:10,959 --> 02:59:13,440
Speaker 4: like divorce, because people read my work to escape from

3486
02:59:13,440 --> 02:59:19,040
Speaker 4: the harsh reality of the world. Only happy romance in

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02:59:19,160 --> 02:59:20,120
Speaker 4: her books, and that's the end.