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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Jewils, Dirty Little Secrets, The

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Speaker 1: Jewel Show. Yes, Hi, Hi, Hi. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: ask what your name is because you have a dirty

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Speaker 1: little secret to tell us, right I do. Yes, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's nice to meet you, whatever your name is. Nice

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Speaker 1: to meet you. Negotiating. Yes, I'm ready to say it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: whenever you're ready. Okay, so ready. I mocked into my

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Speaker 1: husband's Facebook account and Messenger account and he has no idea.

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Speaker 1: Oh so he has this thing where he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: me to see his phone. He's always bent that way

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Speaker 1: before we got married and even afterwards. That's shady me,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of suspicious. Did you find anything, well,

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Speaker 1: kind of what is the kind of There's some I

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Speaker 1: guess dirty messages with growth. I have no idea. Oh

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Speaker 1: hell no they are. Are these just like random girls

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Speaker 1: that he's met like on the like online or in person. No,

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Speaker 1: so I've actually stocked them, right, So we're actually from

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Speaker 1: the same place where he's from the same count O. Um,

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Speaker 1: I guess they're friends. He's never talked about them, he's

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Speaker 1: never mentioned them, but um, there are messages like around

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Speaker 1: like eleven o'clock, maybe midnight yeah, no matter what though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he has this scene where he says, you know, something

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Speaker 1: has to be private in the marriage. That's actually one

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Speaker 1: that you shouldn't be open about in your marriage. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, and you should be cool with it

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Speaker 1: so that you don't feel like you have to check it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, is this somebody that you see yourself most

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Speaker 1: likely that you want to be with forever? Or because

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Speaker 1: I've been in a situation like this and I knew that,

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Speaker 1: I knew that it wouldn't be forever, right, and he

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Speaker 1: was shady with his phone, and like I didn't check

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Speaker 1: because I just knew, right, I just didn't care. But

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Speaker 1: if you care, if you want to be with them,

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Speaker 1: that's a different story. Yeah, I guess that makes sense. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is a different story right now. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if he's just you know, like, what are his intentions, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not really weird to be trying something, or if

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Speaker 1: he's just being friendly. Well, if I have any advice

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Speaker 1: for you at all, even though you didn't ask, just

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Speaker 1: keep checking, keep checking, keep I'm hoping for the best,

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Speaker 1: but I'm going to be prepared for the words. Can

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Speaker 1: I ask you a question we should do more the

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Speaker 1: roses we should who we could. Here's my question to you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: because ultimately I believe everybody knows everything that's going on

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Speaker 1: in their life if they truly pay attention. Okay, are

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Speaker 1: you looking for proof or are you keeping tabs? Just

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Speaker 1: be honest? Both both? Okay, so you're looking for proof? Okay? Um,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to, you know, accuse him anything

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Speaker 1: like that at yet have the same time, I want

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Speaker 1: to be one step ahead of him, right. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: might not be cheating, but he still should not be

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Speaker 1: messaging those girls. Yeah, he's walking the line. That's my

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Speaker 1: other question. Is it cool with you that he messages

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Speaker 1: girls at eleven o'clock at night? None? Yeah? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean most people probably would not be cool with it, right. Yes.

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to be that crazy one. But

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel crazy. That is so stressful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is super stressful, and that will make you go crazy.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I would you if you want some other

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Speaker 1: advice they didn't ask for. Log out of it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: log out of it. Don't forget about it. Log out

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Speaker 1: so you don't have to keep feeling like a crazy person,

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Speaker 1: checking and checking and checking and checking and checking, waiting

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Speaker 1: until you find the proof. Just log out except the

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Speaker 1: fact that you saw something you're not cool with, and

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Speaker 1: then figure out how you're going to bring it up.

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Speaker 1: Because you should. You absolutely should. Whether you need to

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Speaker 1: find proof, yes, because it's not cool with you, right

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Speaker 1: not on Your needs are important, just like his needs

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Speaker 1: are important. But your needs are important. And if you're

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Speaker 1: his wife and you're not cool with that, which I

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Speaker 1: don't think a lot of wives would be cool, right, Alex,

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Speaker 1: with that? That's correct? Yeah, then you should definitely log

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Speaker 1: out of it. You got the proof you need and

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Speaker 1: and do something about it, you know, I think, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you have to just get it together and confront them

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Speaker 1: about this. Yeah, yeah, you'd feel better. Yeah, but if

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Speaker 1: you want to do it in a ward of the

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Speaker 1: roses to catch a cheater, we can let us know. Hey,

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Speaker 1: well yeah, definitely think about it. Okay, Okay, Well, good

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Speaker 1: luck with everything. Yeah. Well, thank you for telling us

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Speaker 1: your dirty little secret and good luck, thank you for listening,

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