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Speaker 2: I'm okay.

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Speaker 3: How are you guys here?

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Speaker 1: She's okay. Well, I can see why you might be

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Speaker 1: okay because you're worried about this guy named Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you think posting you. So we got to hear all

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Speaker 1: the kind of the backstory here. How did you guys meet?

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Speaker 1: How many dates have you been on? How did those go?

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Speaker 1: And then what's going on now? Fell us in, Well,

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Speaker 3: On the apps and we had like a lot of

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Speaker 3: So like we just we went out for dinner, but

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Speaker 3: out not you know, I didn't text like a crazy person,

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Speaker 3: but I just reached out no answer, and so I'm like, well,

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Speaker 3: want to know, Like I want to know what's because

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Speaker 3: I don't get ghosted, Like it just doesn't happen to me.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, what went on?

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Speaker 1: What ne did we? None of us are on here

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Speaker 1: That's annoying. You want to know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, it definitely seemed like we're gonna go on end.

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Speaker 1: So I was just like, yeah, well, let me play

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Speaker 1: one song. We'll come back in like two minutes, and

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Speaker 1: we'll call this guy Steve, see if we can get

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Speaker 1: out and set you guys up on another date and

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Speaker 1: pay for that sound good? Yes, thank you. You've got

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Speaker 1: to hear what happens next. Part two of waiting about

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Speaker 1: the phone After Ariana, it's two minutes away. The Fread

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Speaker 1: Show's on Ariana Grande. It's the Fread Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: thanks for waking up with us. The entertainment report five

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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks. The show vis Shelley. All coming up, Holly,

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Speaker 1: welcome back.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call this guy, Steve. You met on

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Speaker 1: one of the apps. You chatted, you went on a date.

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Speaker 1: You thought the date went great, it was like a

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Speaker 1: to him, everything was flowing. He has not reached out

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely right, let's call him now. Good luck, Holly, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well. Hi, as is Steve, Hey Steve, good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and I

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Speaker 1: second on the air? Uh whoa, yeah, Okay, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: So it kind of is a woe. You know, you

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Speaker 1: But we're calling on behalf of a woman who says

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, So she described to us what she thought was,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, yeah, like you said, mom, the abs

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Speaker 1: Liked that part. Nowt like she didn't INCLI mean that part? Okay,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing that happened before that.

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Speaker 2: So when I after I she didn't get tested herself.

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Speaker 1: I always forget these things. Holly. It is a weird

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't understand my request is weird.

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Speaker 5: Like it's perfectly okay to get to have someone to

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Speaker 2: But like I think.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know we were going to hook up that night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But I if I hooked up with somebody and

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at every crevice every inch. I'm like, what, why? Why? Now? Why?

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Speaker 3: Because I I like haven't hooked up with anybody.

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, if you want that, then you

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Speaker 1: go get it. You both go get If that's what

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Speaker 2: That's amazing. I mean, whatever, why something that happens before normally, No,

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Speaker 2: it's it's through me that you texted me that the

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Speaker 5: That we were going to hook up, Like I didn't

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Speaker 2: Oh, like on the schedule, it wasn't on the Google calendar. No.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean like yeah, I mean, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: that's for sure. No, look, it's a fair request. I

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Speaker 5: Like that's just like a pretty standard thing to do,

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Speaker 1: it's a little late for that. Potentially you already got.

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Speaker 5: It well, but I told him, like, I haven't been

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Speaker 1: Whatever, whatever, Steve, this is not the worst thing we've heard.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like her sort of the process

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Speaker 1: an ice cream or something, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's this, It's it's it's.

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Speaker 2: Still rubbing me the wrong way. I'm I'm I'm backing off, dude.

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Speaker 1: Would you be rubbed?

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't like this conversation anyway, when you

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Speaker 3: Believe what I'm saying, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm giving you the benefit of the doab.

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Speaker 1: I don't know you so whatever, right now, we're not

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Speaker 1: too late, you know. Yeah. So no really like Steve, no,

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Speaker 1: no second shot with this.

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Speaker 3: I'm also now so for the records, I'm there.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she's there. Everybody now so there's no okay, well there,

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Speaker 1: you haven't just go and get tested everybody? Yeah, why not?

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Speaker 1: Why not just go figure out where we're at. But hey, Steve,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time. Holly, I'm sorry talking to

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Speaker 1: work out. Best of luck to you as well.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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