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Speaker 3: Like I said earlier, sometimes you need a very difficult

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't, I don't. I think that's what.

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Speaker 6: The doubt.

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Speaker 4: I think is what he thinks, though, guys, I think

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Speaker 7: Okay, even still though, there is a barrier between us,

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously, you guys are you guys are exits. The

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Speaker 7: Is that it?

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Speaker 1: In the meantime?

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Speaker 1: And that is it?

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Speaker 3: Just sounded like she needed to find a job in

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Speaker 3: I just think she needed a job. That's my hot

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Speaker 3: Please don't.

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Speaker 1: Please don't like, use what you learned for the next relationship.

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Speaker 1: Don't use it for this one. Please, you're actually doing better.

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Speaker 8: Boy, please leave.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Man, a couple of updates, oh boy, you might have

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Speaker 3: But goodness gracious, what a tale?

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Speaker 1: What a tale?

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Speaker 6: A tall tale?

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Speaker 5: And I'm curious because I don't care if he has cancer.

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Speaker 5: I'm kidding him.

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Speaker 5: Here's why. I've learned on this for a while, and

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't begun, Oh no, not one thing.

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Speaker 12: You know, our elderly neighbor would sit on his patio

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Speaker 5: The smell was so strong we could smell it inside

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Speaker 13: I think he's just scenting the place, you know what

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Speaker 5: Also, it is possible, but that's medical Arelhona, highly possible.

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Speaker 5: I have cancer. I mean, yo, if I walked her

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know that you have a stage four cancer,

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Speaker 10: Maybe a few hours later I get a super loud

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Speaker 11: Father trying to medicate himself since he has internal bone cancer.

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Speaker 14: I mean, I call it, we called it, dude. Let

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Speaker 5: I know can't be easy, so I don't worry about it,

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Speaker 11: Day or too later, my wife comes in and tells

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Speaker 10: He's going to spend his remaining time trying to enjoy

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Speaker 5: I was security swampers.

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Speaker 10: I talked to a few of my neighbors and they

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's kind of kind of bro and it's

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Speaker 5: it's like when you say smoking wheed on your balcony

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Speaker 5: The dad was five yes slur. Oh boy, we're going

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Speaker 5: to have it. Hey, I already could smoke wheed held

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Speaker 5: so yeah, the fire just yes, easy. You had sympathy

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Speaker 11: I was on my way to the leasing office to

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Speaker 10: He broke down, telling me that since his diagnosis, he

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Speaker 5: Not complaining since he only has a few months left

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Speaker 10: She added that she had basically drained all of her

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Speaker 11: Would essentially I told her I would get it one

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Speaker 5: This, even if it means even if it means having

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Speaker 6: Reddit would I be be able?

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Speaker 5: I mean so so right, there have been some rongs

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Speaker 13: Number one is op tattling all this guy for just

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Speaker 5: God oh baby. But still the dude you're dying of cancer.

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Speaker 5: Doesn't give you all the license to god man. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so you can like swear at this dude, you know,

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Speaker 5: Going side going on? You where's I feel bad?

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Speaker 6: Telephony stories on the Internet. That's a theme song right there.

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Speaker 6: Baby did you know like the baby has Yeah, so

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Speaker 13: don't know. I don't really listen to Little Debaby's catalog

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Speaker 6: So the baby you gotta learn, man, gotta learn. Also,

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Speaker 6: I found uh it says ten hours of the baby

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Speaker 6: saying let's go. So uh I I want to Oh

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Speaker 6: now I know what they're saying, let's go, come on,

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Speaker 6: come on, I don't I don't want ads.

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Speaker 13: No, he can't claim that, all right, Yeah I didn't.

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Speaker 13: I didn't understand what they were saying. But like, yeah,

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Speaker 13: that's like Travis Scott saying like yeah, like he has

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Speaker 13: he has a very distinct like way he does it.

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Speaker 13: So I think that, like the sound of it, I

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Speaker 13: would give him, but like Scott doesn't own yeah you know.

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Speaker 6: What I mean, the baby doesn't all let's go. Okay,

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Speaker 6: all right, So speaking of let's go, let's go on

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Speaker 6: a vacation because I got a travel story for you.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, all right. Entitled mother demands my window seat

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Speaker 6: for her daughter on a ten hour flight. I refuse,

462
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Speaker 6: but then she has a meltdown and tells the flight attendant,

463
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Speaker 6: I stole her seat.

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Speaker 13: Don't you love it when you know you're literally doing

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Speaker 13: absolutely nothing and someone's like over there, she's doing wrong.

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Speaker 6: She took for me, and it's like it's it's basically

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Speaker 6: like when someone says like, hey, you did something wrong,

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Speaker 6: and it's like, uh, I know I did something wrong,

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Speaker 6: but I'm just gonna tell on you, like you did something.

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Speaker 13: Wrong exactly exactly, flip it her backoth? Is that what

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Speaker 13: gaslighting is? I actually don't know what the definition of

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Speaker 13: gas All I know is.

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Speaker 6: Kind of like when your girlfriend, Like when you're mad

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Speaker 6: at your girlfriend for something and then your girlfriend gets

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Speaker 6: mad at you for being mad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you

476
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Speaker 6: can't win.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: It's kind of like Will Smith and Jada.

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Speaker 13: The Infinite the Infinite Loop. Yeah, I mean, dude, that

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Speaker 13: was a whole whole moments.

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Speaker 6: Well, she's dude. Abuse is never right. No, So anyways,

482
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Speaker 6: seamless transition, seamless transition. I was flying from La Los

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Speaker 6: Angeles to the UK United Kingdom. Oh look at that,

484
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Speaker 6: look at that insider knowledge. There were a crumpets and uh, cheerio.

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Speaker 6: I'm not even trying to do an accent right now,

486
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Speaker 6: top pats and freaking wigs on judges. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 6: order in the court useless.

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Speaker 8: Uh.

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Speaker 6: The flight was about ten hours long and I had

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Speaker 6: booked my flight while in advance so I could have

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Speaker 6: my choice of seats because you know, you gotta get

492
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Speaker 6: your choice of seats, like that's what you do, you

493
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Speaker 6: deserve it.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I chose the window seat on the exit row, and

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Speaker 6: as I was waiting in the airport, I was excited

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Speaker 6: knowing my seat was going to be perfect and little

498
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Speaker 6: key like window seat on the exit row is basically

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Speaker 6: like it's essentially first class, but not first class, you know.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, it's literally like, are you willing to die to

501
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Speaker 13: have the nicest seat on the airplane? And my answer

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Speaker 13: is yes, you got the extra leg room, dude. The

503
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Speaker 13: leg room alone is absolute games. The power of like

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Speaker 13: controlling the emergency and you hold everyone's destinies.

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Speaker 6: We start boarding and I'm one of the first groups

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Speaker 6: to board, so I make sure I have everything I

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Speaker 6: need from my bag. I put my headphones on and

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Speaker 6: I start my Netflix binge right because you gotta get

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Speaker 6: all your shows and you gotta you know, I don't

510
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Speaker 6: know what British show you're watching. You're watching Sherlock or

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Speaker 6: Bridgerton Bridgerton, or maybe you're watching your favorite American show.

512
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Speaker 6: Maybe you're watching freaking what's the most American show?

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Speaker 13: The Office is pretty well, Office is pretty America because

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Speaker 13: it also ripped off a UK show as well, so

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Speaker 13: it's like double a double sting.

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Speaker 6: Double sting to UK stole your and made it way

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Speaker 6: more popular.

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Speaker 13: Roger Gervais, whatever your name is, I won't even that's

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Speaker 13: a correct I refuse to you, sir.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, expectfully.

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Speaker 6: I've been seeing like Tinder things pop up where it's

522
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Speaker 6: like some guy like like doing like a creepy pickup

523
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Speaker 6: line right under girl, and this girl is like wearing

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Speaker 6: a cow patterned bikini and he sends her a picture

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Speaker 6: of him milking a cow and just says, respectfully.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you you got to give him that one, just

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Speaker 2: on pure like hilarity like that.

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Speaker 6: Oh let him slide one.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 6: After about ten minutes and to be watching my favorite

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Speaker 6: show with Netflix, the woman next to me taps me

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Speaker 6: on the shoulder. U oh entitled grandma, Hi Brady, I'm

533
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Speaker 6: plying with my family and my granddaughter would like to

534
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Speaker 6: meet in the window shade. It's a grandma, grandma for

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Speaker 6: you right there. I should explain the layout of the plane,

536
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Speaker 6: because y'all have never been on the plane. Yes, there's

537
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Speaker 6: three seats on the left and right side and four

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Speaker 6: seats in the middle. Entitle grandma and her husband were

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Speaker 6: sitting in the seats next to me on my side,

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Speaker 6: and the rest of her family and titled mother and

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Speaker 6: her three kids, all between two and eight years old,

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Speaker 6: were sitting in the middle row.

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Speaker 10: Me.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I chose a seat because I know how

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Speaker 6: long of a fight it's going to be. I would

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Speaker 6: offer to let her sit here during takeoff and then switch,

547
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Speaker 6: but she looks really young, and I don't think they

548
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Speaker 6: allow children to sit in the exit row.

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Speaker 2: That's a decent compromise, I think, yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's really nice. And I don't know, I actually

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Speaker 6: I think that's true. I don't think children can sit

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Speaker 6: in the exit row.

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Speaker 2: Oh, definitely not.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they can't handle the responsibility of the exit row.

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Speaker 13: Your tiny hand, You can't. I can't put my life

556
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Speaker 13: in your tiny little hands.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you think you can move that little the bar

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Speaker 6: thing to you.

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Speaker 13: You can barely put a square into a round hole,

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Speaker 13: let alone to hold my life in your hands.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, please, entitled mother overhearing our conversation. So God, you

562
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Speaker 6: just go into it so quickly.

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Speaker 8: Uh God, God, So you're just going to be a

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Speaker 8: heart with bots and deny my daughter windows sets.

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Speaker 6: Spoil Brat, Mom, you told me I can have it.

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Speaker 4: Tell her it's mine.

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Speaker 6: She starts having a temper transtrum and screaming while sitting

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Speaker 6: in the aisle, holding up the entire line of people

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Speaker 6: trying to get to their seats. Entitle, Grandma, you did

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Speaker 6: you broke what was my grandma voice? You look what

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Speaker 6: you did? You broke that little girl's heart. I hope

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Speaker 6: heard the girls tantrum at this point and started to

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Speaker 6: come over. Flight attendant what seemed what se British? Yeah,

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Speaker 6: what seems what seems to be? What seems to be

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Speaker 6: the issue?

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Speaker 2: Harry?

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Speaker 6: What seems HARMANI? What seems to be the issue?

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Speaker 9: Me?

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Speaker 6: These people ask me to switch? Entitled mother this girl,

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Speaker 6: This girl stole my daughter's seat. She shoved her way

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Speaker 6: in as I was helping my daughter with her bag,

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Speaker 6: and now she run fuses to give us the feed.

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Speaker 2: Bag God the audacity?

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Speaker 6: Uh me, I have my ticket that shows that this

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Speaker 6: is in fact my seat.

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Speaker 2: Because she bought it.

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Speaker 6: Because she bought it, she planned this out, she wanted

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Speaker 6: to watch her show's at beats Entitled Grandma.

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Speaker 4: Hey, no't my ticket from my grandbaby? I shaw get it.

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Speaker 6: She stole the ticket me extremely frustrated at this point

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Speaker 6: it has my name on it and I have my

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Speaker 6: license to prove it's my name. Flight attendant looks over everything.

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Speaker 6: This is her seat. Also, your daughter is way too

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Speaker 6: young to be in an exit row. Please don't disturb

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Speaker 6: this young lady again or suffer the consequences. Where the

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Speaker 6: rest of the flight, I endured dirty looks from the

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Speaker 6: rest of the family, and at one point entitle grandma

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Speaker 6: tried to spill a drink on me as the flight

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Speaker 6: attendant was handing it to be Hopefully this next flight,

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Speaker 13: who has receipts.

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, have they got and they got the things

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Speaker 6: to back it up. You better back up.

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Speaker 13: She stole my seat when she literally when you know,

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