WEBVTT - Got Milk? 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.160 This is Suckers. 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:05.600 I'm cal Bell, I'm Dean Bell, and I'm Jared. 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:07.280 Haven at iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:10.040 What's going on? Everybody? 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:14.640 Welcome to an all new episode of Suckers podcast featuring Dean. 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:15.520 Caitlin and Jared. 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:20.239 Come on down today, Come on down, You're next on 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:21.320 the Suckers podcast. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.520 Next on this Suckers is right. Welcome to the episode, 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.920 Ladies and gentlemen. I listened to last week's episode as 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:32.520 I do most weeks, and I've realized I talk too fast, 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.280 and so I'm going to slow it down today. 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:36.320 It's funny. I thought the same thing about myself. 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:37.519 That's just so funny. 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.479 Maybe we were accidentally listen listening to the podcast and 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:44.120 one point five x speed. Maybe I want to talk 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:46.320 so slow that people have to listen to this at 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:48.440 one point five x speed just to be able to 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:49.319 get through the whole sea. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:51.080 Jared, how are you? 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:54.640 I'm wonderful. I don't listen back. Somebody asked me that 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:58.320 at Audrey's and I said I should because it's probably 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.920 like an athlete watching film on themselves. But I can't 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:03.640 listen to my own voice, so sorry. I listened to 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:06.280 two minutes in I've already listened to the conversation because 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:08.399 we had the conversation, and then I can't stand the 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:09.320 sound of my own voice. 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.240 Oh, totally agree. For me, it's like watching a horror movie. 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:14.480 I watched between my fingers, like under the covers a 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:17.039 little bit. It's like I'm a cringe listening to myself, 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:19.360 but it is. It's like an athlete watching film. You know, 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:20.679 you got to learn from your. 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:22.360 Mistakes, figure out how you get better every day. 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:23.240 I have a question for you. 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:28.560 I saw on Ben and Ashley's so stories on Instagram 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:31.000 that Ashley found out that I muted her, and I 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:32.200 just wanted to check in with you. 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:33.560 How she's doing. Is she okay? 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:35.200 Is that why you guys are at the hospital in 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:36.000 Virginia this week? 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:37.319 You're well. 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:38.960 She had a panic attack after she found out that 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:43.240 you muted her, but she honestly did not care. She 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:45.919 was We were talking about it yesterday we brought Dawson 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.360 to the playground and on the way back. Forget how 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.240 it got brought up, but she was talking about how 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:55.240 she read the article that said Dean blocks. I think 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:57.200 it was like Nick viol Maybe was the headline. I 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.240 can't remember, Yeah, but Kaelin Bristow in the article that 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.400 you also blocked Ashley, And at first she was like, 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:06.040 what the hell he blocks me? And then she was like, honestly, 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.760 that's so Dean, That's fine. I don't care, Like I 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.600 get if he doesn't want to see me talk about motherhood. 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:13.840 I'm like, yeah, you're on the sign mindset is me 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:15.760 For the record, though she. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:17.400 Does, I didn't block her though, right, I just just 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:19.960 muted her. I still he muted whatever. I still looked 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:21.480 at her. I still responded to her store the other 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:22.799 day after I found out that she found out that 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:24.079 I muted her, and I was like, I just want 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:25.400 you to know I'm still here checking in. 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:28.760 Sometimes I think that that article was so funny. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.079 I'm kind of past the point of like getting mad 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:35.440 at ridiculous articles being written just because they are so 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.720 like ironic and humorous to me, like that does not 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.400 that it was zero percent deserving of an article, you 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.519 know what I mean? And all it's doing is now 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:45.280 just kind of making me feel even worse. But at 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:46.960 the end of the day, it's it is what it is. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:50.320 I accept it, and I kind of appreciate that these 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.120 silly little articles maybe are leading to a couple more 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:54.200 listeners in the podcast. 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:56.359 Has Caitlin Bristow talked about. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.200 It, I've probably not. I don't think it's beneath her. 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:04.400 I mean not to my knowledge. I doubt she cares either, 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.560 Like I'm sure she's in the same boat as you would. 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:08.400 Address on her podcast. 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:10.680 Yeah, I just feel like I mentioned it, she's probably 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:11.919 got a lot more going on than I do. That's 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:14.320 why I actually grasp it straws and she's talking about 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:15.959 way more interesting things than I am. 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.639 But yeah, it only helps us if Kaitlyn talks about it. Well, 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:20.160 that's talk. 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:21.800 About it like I don't. I don't really care as 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:23.760 much about Like I don't. I really don't care, like 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:25.840 it's not gonna affect my day to day basis. But 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.800 but now because that article was written, it almost feels 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:30.680 like Kate like I don't want Caitlyn to think I 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:32.480 have a vendetta against her or anything like that, which 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.200 it kind of does feel like that way once an 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.240 article gets written about it, which is not true at all. 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:39.240 I just, you know, don't I think anyone. 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:40.880 Who knows you knows that you don't really care about 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.520 a lot like a lot of like dumb things like. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.560 This, Okay, but I still care about some things. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:47.640 Let me ask you something. What's the difference between someone 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:51.040 like me and you where you actively block someone because 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.520 you're just like, well, I don't want to see their 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:56.200 content versus someone like me who literally just flies right 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.600 past their content. Is there any difference? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.640 Yeah, maybe it's probably better for their numbers. I used 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:04.280 to get somewhat offended when people like unfollow me or 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.640 what have it, But I mean I still do. I 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:09.240 mean I used to be at one point four million 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:10.960 Instagram followers. Now I'm at one point one. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:11.560 That hurts. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:14.000 It doesn't sting me as much anymore. I mean, it 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:16.880 definitely did, just because there's a competitiveness, you know, where 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:18.920 you see somebody else on the show get x amount 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.520 of followers and you're like, oh God, like I I 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:24.159 can compete with them. It's more of a competitiveness with 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:28.400 me more than anything. But the only time I guess 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.520 it would ever bother me is if someone I consider 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.400 a friend, yeah, doesn't follow me, I'm like, what the 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.560 hell you don't follow me? 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:35.840 That's weird. 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.400 Do you have any examples of people from the show 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:39.839 that you've considered friends that don't follow you. 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:42.159 I'd have to think about it. 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:42.679 Give me a minute. 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:46.400 Besides me, Uh, you don't follow do you know? If 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.279 you didn't follow me, I'll be like, bro, what you 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:50.960 could block me? But you gotta follow me. 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:52.200 I follow Jared, I Followaired. 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.240 I actually send Jared a lot of Instagram posts and 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.600 stuff and he never sends me back. It's always the 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.880 one way street with us on Instagram. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.559 Oh, I said nobody. I'm like, oh, superhero stuff. Jared 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:02.760 like this. 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:05.880 Oh, a kid likes dinosaurs is probably going to be 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:07.320 smarter than a kid that doesn't like dinosaurs. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:10.560 Sending to Jared, Dean sent me a nice video of 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:16.479 a particular you know, let's just call it a dance video. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:19.000 You know, it's like a tutorial. Let's just say that. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:24.120 And uh I watched and uh it was entertaining, to say, 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.240 the least best seconds of your days. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:28.560 The memes and the gifts. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:32.080 Yeah, thanks, but yeah, that's good that she Uh, she 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.920 didn't take offense to it, but she knows I love her. 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:40.760 Yeah, who doesn't like Yeah? Actually, who would be? Now? 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.159 I want to know? I also would be someone. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:43.760 Hm. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.200 I'm also just really bad at following people on Instagram. 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.720 Like I just forget. I don't know, like a lot 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.800 of your friends, I don't follow, and when they bring 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.880 it up to me, it's really awkward. I'm like, okay, sorry. 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:55.680 My big thing is like a lot of times, when 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.359 you meet someone in today's day and age, you like 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:00.680 your instinct after you leave that eating with them is 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:02.280 to go and follow them on Instagram. I don't really 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.760 have that inkling anymore, like either, I don't really think 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:06.960 too oh I met this person, I'll go follow them 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:09.240 on Instagram. Now it's kind of like if I hang out, 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:12.479 I kind of have like a this is like totally 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:15.440 not real, but just kind of like a mental thing 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.000 that probably happens. Like I need to probably hang out 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:20.960 with this person multiple times or at least exchange fun 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:24.000 numbers and text privately before I can like consider myself 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:26.160 good enough friends to be interested in following. 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:26.440 You, you know what I mean? 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:27.960 Like that, I think I've got it. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.480 The way NFL player you were ghosting, we won't say 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:36.120 his name. That former NFL player you were ghosting. He 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.920 texted you so many times and you don't need to 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:39.440 say his name. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:43.680 Yeah, but it's like that, yeah, yeah, super ghosted an 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:45.600 NFL player. 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.400 Has been hit Yeah, well it's funny because Jered know 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:52.000 exactly who it is. Super Bowl winning running back has 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:53.919 been hitting me up, like just via text message, and 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:57.480 his it says maybe this name and it's not his name, 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:58.760 it's like his nickname. And I was like, who the 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:00.680 heck is this person? Why does he keep hitting me up? 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:03.640 And then like finally hit me one like a couple 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.160 of days ago, and I like texted him back and 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:06.640 I was like, I'm so sorry for ignoring you. I 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:09.360 had no idea that this was you. That's kind of 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.160 what I'm saying. I don't follow him on Instagram. You 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:12.720 need to follow or hang out with him some more 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:14.600 before I get to that point. It's just such a 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.120 silly it's such a silly like social dilemma that people 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:20.440 are faced with where following people on social media like 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:23.720 has a bearing in your relationship with them, where it's 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.720 just like such a silly little thing to take into consideration. 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:28.280 But it's true, we do. Like I'm not I'm not 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.280 saying I don't do that at all. I am also 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:30.960 guilty of that. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.560 You know, I have one and it's a little bit 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:38.040 juicier and it does not offend me, but there was 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:42.800 a part of me that wishes he followed me. Si, huh, 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:47.080 Paul Simon, No, no, no, he's Bachelor Bachelor Universe. I don't 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:48.800 know if you should I give you guys. Yeah, I'll 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.160 give you guys some guesses. So he's someone that I'm 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:55.640 definitely friendly with. I'm friends with but not super close with. Okay, 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:03.240 I've been to his wedding. Okay, nope, No, Joe follows me. 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:05.880 Joe and I send Seinfeld clips back and forth. It's fantastic. 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.200 You've been to his wedding. Jerry, yup? 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:12.640 And it wasn't it. I follow him. I wasn't expecting 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:14.800 him to follow me, but there was a sliver of hope. 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:19.520 Because he follows, he falls Ashley, he falls Ben, he follows, 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.400 but he falls you, Dean, I just looked. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:23.960 Did you know that? 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:24.840 Who is this person? 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:29.440 It's not Jerry Gary Gary? Oh, it's not Gary. It's 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:33.559 not Gary. No, No, sorry, I could. I mean love 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:35.240 Gary so much, but there's there. 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:40.000 Really haven't been that many bachelor weddings, right, Oh? 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:42.240 Oh, I know who it is. Chris Harrison. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:46.079 Chris Harrison is correct. The ladies and gentlemen for the wind. Oh, 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:47.600 he doesn't follow me, that's okay. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:50.240 He only he only just started following me after we 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:54.720 spent some time together in Pebble recently. Oh nice, and 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.760 you weren't there, So maybe that's why he takes me. 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.360 Maybe that was that was the kicker right there, and 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.600 not that I have would expect obviously. 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:02.480 Uh. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:05.280 And I know it's nothing personal, so it doesn't really 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:06.760 bother me that much. But when I was looking, I 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.480 was like, I wonder if Harrison follows me because he 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.320 came up on my Instagram story. And then I was like, 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.839 oh he doesn't. That's sad. Oh well, because he follows 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:15.920 like Tanner and stuff like that. 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:16.800 It does. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:18.680 It does sting a little bit, right, Do you have 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.200 any any types of h No, it doesn't sting. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.079 Do you have anything No, I don't want him to 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:26.240 think that like it actually does sting. I've perfectly followed 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:27.960 him not following me. I know it's not personal. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.040 The sun will still rise in the morning. Absolutely. Do 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:30.720 you have any of these? 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:33.840 There's people that like, you know, when you're unreels and 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:35.680 then I'm looking for sounds and then I find people. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:37.080 I'm like, oh, I want to follow them, and they 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:39.679 follow like every Bachelor person except for me. I'm like, well, 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:42.319 that that hurts. I know, random things. 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.400 Like that, but no one hurts more like Bachelor franchise 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.760 or anything that don't follow you that you I don't. 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:50.760 Think so, No, I don't really I would agree with 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:52.240 I think it's more of some people. 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.680 Yeah, I think it's the person that I want to follow, 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.800 that follow that's not a part of Bachelor, that follows 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:58.920 so many people from the Bachelor. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.640 I'm like, well, yeah, I can't follow them, and. 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:02.439 It's so stupid. 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:05.680 But I'm like, they follow everyone everyone know. It bugs 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.720 me too when people follow Dean and they don't follow 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.559 like women, sorry women, specifically, when hot women follow Dean 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:13.160 and they don't follow me. I'm like, I'm his wife, 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:14.160 you should follow me. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:17.959 That must make Dean feel pretty good. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:21.120 I'm gone, it does. 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:25.400 But I'm sure more people follow you than they follow me, Kalen, 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.920 so there's more of that than there is for me. 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:31.240 There's one person in particular that I'm thinking of that 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:34.720 I won't name, but she follows every Bachelor person Dean included. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.360 And I was gonna invite her to like my Dillard's 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.920 launch in Denver, and then I was like I don't know. 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:45.840 Maybe so does she live in Denver, Colorado area? 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:46.680 Interesting? 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:49.680 Hmmm, not a Bachelor person, just random? 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:51.240 Oh no, I know that's one. 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.040 There is a There is definitely something to be said 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:58.200 when someone that you admire like their life or whatever 0:10:58.200 --> 0:10:59.440 it is, and you got to see who they follow 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.240 and you're the only actually personally follow it. That's happened 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:02.559 to me a few times, and I'm like, yes, part 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:04.080 of me just gets really happy inside. 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.199 Well, what's cool too. I was thinking about this in 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:10.840 the airport. Dean has a lot of young fans, like 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.360 male fans, and he had two men come up to him. 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.240 One of them was like, I love your photography, like 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:19.040 you're crushing it. And then this other, like little boy 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.240 he was probably in college, was like do you need babies? 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.240 And it's cool that you've created something outside of the Bachelor, 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.559 Like people are huge fans of your photography, which I 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:27.120 think is cool. 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:28.520 It turns out one of those guys This's has been 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:30.840 like hitting up for a while and I have messaged 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:32.440 him back a little bit on Instagram and he's like, 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.120 it was so funny bumping into you and Charlotte, and 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:35.200 I was like, oh my god, what are the odds 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:36.160 that we ran into each other. 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:39.440 Oh wow, but yeah, that's. 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:39.920 But it's cool. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:41.079 It's cool that you've created that. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:42.840 You get that a lot more from young girls, though, 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:43.600 I think, well. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.880 They just watch a show. I haven't done anything cool, 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:46.120 you know. 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:47.079 Yeah, you have. 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:51.480 You hiked Nepoli Coast, you hike to have a supie. 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.320 You've been to Guatemal, You've been to swaant Lucia, you've 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:54.000 been to Aruba. 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:55.840 Yeah, I guess so. 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.280 So that's pretty cool. That's pretty cool. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:01.560 One of my favorite things is when people cut like actually, 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.000 my favorite thing is when people come up to me 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:07.120 and they're like Brady and I'm like, uh, yes, like yes, 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:21.679 love it, Thank you so much, Jared. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:23.400 What did you guys do for Ashley's birthday? 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.400 We went out to dinner, so I got her flowers 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:30.200 and a card in the morning, and I didn't know 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.199 what to get for her because we're at that stage 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.080 in our relationship right now. I'm not going to get 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:39.360 her anything of material because there's just nothing. You know, 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:41.880 We're very lucky, as you guys are in the same 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:45.080 boat where we are able to have a lot of 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.720 things that we've wanted in terms of like you know 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:54.199 rooms or you know baby stuff, and and so it's like, well, 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.560 we're trying to declutter the house and not clutter it. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:57.840 So I'm not gonna get her anything, just like she 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:00.440 doesn't get me anything, like we didn't exchange gifts for Christmas, 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.080 even though I did get her something for Christmas, but 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:04.480 she didn't get me anything. But so I was like, 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.760 I'm not gonna get her anything because like I remember 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:08.960 last birthday, I got her like a shirt. It's a 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:12.320 cute little shirt with had like Mark Wahlberg and Leonardo 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:14.319 DiCaprio when there were kids on there, because like that's 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:17.600 her two crushes. And I'm like that's stupid though, like 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.280 she never wears the shirts. It's such a waste. So 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.440 I told her that she what I said, because we 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.880 were coming here the next week for a doctor's appointment. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:29.120 I said, you should, let's schedule a day where you 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:31.400 and Lauren just hang out, like you guys go to 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.400 the spa, you go do whatever you want, and then 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.480 I'll take care of Dawson. That'll be my birthday gift. 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.360 And then she was like, well, all I want to 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:40.080 do with my sister is hang on on the couch. 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:44.000 Kind of in with Dawson, and I'm like, all right, well, okay, 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:47.840 I guess that's fine too. But we did have a 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:51.080 nice meal out. We went to the White Horse Tavern, 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.280 which is in Newport's the oldest tavern in the United States. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.480 It was opened in sixteen ninety two and it still 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:58.320 has a very colonial feel to it. Like you walk 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:01.240 in and it's like like the bars separate room, the 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.080 hallway is a separate room, the dining room is everything separate. 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:06.960 So it is really cool. It feels very historic in there, 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.000 and it was fun. So we had a really nice 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:13.480 evening out. She can't drink, obviously because she's pregoes. So 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.120 I had a glass of wine and we had some 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:19.320 good food and it was just nice of us. No, 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:20.360 she just gets coke. 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:23.800 I love that. You're like, she can't drink, obviously, so 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:27.760 I got wasted. I know, I know, I'm just kidding. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:29.160 I know, obviously I'll drink. 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:29.720 She can drive it. 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:32.640 No. I mean I do like having a glass of 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.640 wine with dinner though, And she doesn't care. She's not 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.320 like the type of person who's like, please don't drink 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:37.120 because I can't drink. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:38.160 She doesn't care. 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:39.560 I think I would be that way. I think I 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:42.160 would say, you don't drink in solidarity with me. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:43.960 You you think you will be that way? 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:44.600 Huh, I don't know. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:45.160 I would. 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.400 I would probably take nine months off without question to 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:48.640 what about coffee? 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:53.120 Oh, no way, there is no way in hell you're 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:54.200 not drinking coffee. 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.440 For that's that's that's a big question mark. 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.440 I could just sneak it and like drink it other room. 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:01.640 Yeah, it's like an addict. 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:05.600 No, that's me being that's me being cognizan a year. 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:07.680 I wouldn't ask you to give up coffee, but. 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:09.360 You would ask me to give up boost for nine months. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.600 Maybe if you're with me, we don't really like drink 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.720 together anyway, it doesn't matter. I'm way more into mocktails, 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:16.600 So I think I'll be fine. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:19.840 And then Kaitlin, you might have like I think it's 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.800 called an adversion to some of these things. For example, 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:26.840 Ashley doesn't even enjoy the smell of coffee right now. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:30.280 It's like it's just not not appealing to her one bit. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.760 She doesn't want it, So me drinking in front of her, 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.560 She's like, that's fine, Like I could care less. I 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.600 wonder if there's something though that I do drink or 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.440 eat in front of her, that she's like this mother. 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.920 Like hard boiled eggs in the office. 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.040 Yeah, she can't have like sliced Deli meat right now. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:47.960 So I'm sure if I had a nice big turkey 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:49.680 and cheese, she would not be happy with me. 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.080 Is she? What is her thoughts on people having alcohol? 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.680 Because I've seen a few people do this, like later 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.040 on in you're pregnant, so you can have a glass 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:00.440 of wine or something. Is that true or is that yeah? 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:04.520 I mean I feel I know that there's that you 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.680 can or there's I don't there's certain studies or people do, 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.760 especially in Europe. I'm sure she would be fine if 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:12.440 she had a glass of wine, but again, she has 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:15.080 no desires for it right now. 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:15.520 Yeah. 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.440 You know, we're the type of people like if we 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.920 were out and we were having fun with people and 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:22.040 it's like, yeah, let's have a drink. But Ashley and 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.000 I are never the type of people. I wish we 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:25.960 were a little bit more where it's like we're sitting 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:28.520 on the counch watching TV. It's like, oh, let's have 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:32.040 a glass of wine. Yeah, Like we're way more cookies 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:33.440 ice cream type people. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.360 I mean, that's kind of how we are too. We 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:37.560