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Speaker 1: Time out.

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Speaker 2: We're ask the CLO.

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Speaker 1: Listen if you need advice from the CLO or the Cloe,

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Speaker 1: as Tommy calls him, the Chief Love Officer. Yeah, submit

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Speaker 1: your questions to Steve Harvey FM dot com.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey in the building. Are you ready, sir?

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Speaker 3: Stay ready?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: This one is from Kendrick in Atlanta. No, not Kendrick

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Speaker 1: lamar Well. Kendrick says, I've been in a great relationship

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Speaker 1: for three years with my girl. She's got a great body,

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Speaker 1: mind and spirit, and we have great sex life. We

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Speaker 1: have a great sex life. Her twenty six year old

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Speaker 1: daughter is the spitting image of her, but a lot

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Speaker 1: more freaky. I've never seen anything like it, and she

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Speaker 1: got me caught up in a situation that I.

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Speaker 2: Want to stop, but I can't.

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Speaker 1: We've been having wild and crazy sex in her mama's house.

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Speaker 2: Whenever we can.

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Speaker 1: It was fun at first, but it's exhausting now and

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get caught. I had a talk

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Speaker 1: with the daughter and it ended up in an oral exchange.

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Speaker 2: We needed to avoid her altogether. What can I do? Great?

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Speaker 3: And then you can do? Dog?

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Speaker 4: This old will figure if you don't end this immediately.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna come to the light. It's probably gonna come

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Speaker 4: to the light anyway, somebody gonna.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: This, this is a.

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Speaker 4: No win situation, so especially if you're crazy about the mama.

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Speaker 4: But if you was crazy about the mama, you wouldn't

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Speaker 4: be doing it with her daughter somehow, And do it

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Speaker 4: all the way out, you know, just do it, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: go go ahead, follow Tommy's dumb ass advice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and just going to ride it all the way

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Speaker 3: out and then pay.

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Speaker 4: It literally, ride it sexual way out of it, right,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 3: Or sexual way further, and somebody gonna end up pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, I hope not for mama.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Kendall and omaha, uh wow, omaha, that's the first.

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Speaker 2: Kendall says.

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty five years and I think my best friend

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Speaker 1: may be a racist. We've been friends since seventh grade

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Speaker 1: and we are roommates. Her twenty seven year old brother

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Speaker 1: is so fine and he's always been flirty with me.

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Speaker 1: So we finally hooked up. The sex was amazing, and

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Speaker 1: he told me I should break the news to his sister.

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Speaker 2: I told her that her brother and I hooked up.

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Speaker 2: She told me.

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Speaker 1: There's just no way her brother would date me and

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Speaker 1: he could do much better. She stopped talking to me

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Speaker 1: after that. Is she grossed out because I hooked up

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Speaker 1: with her brother? Or is she mad because I'm black

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Speaker 1: and he's white?

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Speaker 3: Wow? Both of them.

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Speaker 4: Either way, she don't think much of you.

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Speaker 3: She said he could do better.

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Speaker 4: Now you can relate that to your color or your

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Speaker 4: character as a person.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Either way, it's the same if a person don't like

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Speaker 4: you to character your person, or don't like you because

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Speaker 4: of color of your skin.

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Speaker 3: Either way, she threw with you because you just slept with.

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Speaker 2: Her brother and their roommates.

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Speaker 3: She threw with you. She don't see you as right

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Speaker 3: for her brother. Is she a racist? Possible?

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Speaker 4: Very possible, But you know she don't want you with

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Speaker 4: a brother regardless. Now you can also look at it

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Speaker 4: like this. Most women who have a brother don't thank

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Speaker 4: nobody good enough for their brother, really right, right? They

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Speaker 4: get real protective. So it could be just that you know,

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Speaker 4: and so now you know he say break the news

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Speaker 4: to a gold teller.

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Speaker 2: You told her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, now you find out how she feel about you. Now,

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Speaker 4: if that stop you from seeing him, that's up to you.

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Speaker 4: Might run into something else when you go over there

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Speaker 4: and tell her daddy that though.

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Speaker 2: And their roommates Steve, don't forget that part.

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Speaker 4: If she is racist, she didn't get it by herself. Hello,

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Speaker 4: see you at the dinner Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Guess who's coming to dinner?

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Speaker 2: RIGHTLF? All right, Chief Love Officer, We're moving on, Jayde.

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Speaker 3: We're not on your head.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 3: Don't don't go in the house with nothing known your head.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean like what.

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Speaker 3: Reg nothing like that? You know? Oh up in the

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Speaker 3: front you're telling me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right after dinner the hand you were dead, I

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Speaker 4: didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: All right, Uh, we're moving me real you help? Uh?

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Speaker 2: JD is an iHeartRadio app listener. J D says, back in.

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Speaker 1: August of twenty fifteen, I met a young lady on

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Speaker 1: a dating app. After going to dinner and hitting it off,

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Speaker 1: she asked me how I felt about children. In turn,

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Speaker 1: she told me she was four months pregnant. I didn't care,

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Speaker 1: and we dated for almost two years. I helped her

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Speaker 1: take care of the child that I have no biological

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Speaker 1: ties to. The first chance she got, she went right

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Speaker 1: back to her child's father. It's been years and I

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Speaker 1: would still take her back if she came back to me.

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Speaker 1: I dreamed of marrying her and having a family. I

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Speaker 1: feel used and confused. How did I mess this up?

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Speaker 1: Where did I go wrong?

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Speaker 2: You fell?

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Speaker 3: She did what she wanted to do. This ain't your fault.

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Speaker 4: You can't blame yourself for this woman going back to

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Speaker 4: her ex and all like this here. You can't blame

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Speaker 4: yourself for that. It's just like women who always want

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Speaker 4: to find something wrong with them when they do go

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Speaker 4: off and do something stupid.

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Speaker 3: It ain't your fault. She did this. This ain't you you.

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Speaker 4: And don't take her back because she can have another episode.

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Speaker 3: Just going about your business.

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Speaker 4: Man, you can meet anybody, have family with that's what

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Speaker 4: you want, not just you can find somebody to treat

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Speaker 4: you right, love you and all this and let her go.

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Speaker 2: Man advice, that's the best advice you could give her.

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Speaker 4: The hell of a conversation you had at four months

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Speaker 4: pregnant too, So yeah, I don't know how you work

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Speaker 4: your way through that, but wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he was the baby's father for two years,

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Speaker 2: not no more? All right, Well, why we have a

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Speaker 2: little time.

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Speaker 3: Likes you was the baby's daddy for two years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, he's not five?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, while we have a little more time, Steve, if

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Speaker 1: you and Junior want to get back into your music.

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Speaker 3: Junior name named the coldest artist you can and our topic.

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Speaker 2: You already know. I'm going, Joe, Why why would you.

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Speaker 3: That win the fire?

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Speaker 2: You see, that's a band right now, Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 2: whole what we was too.

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Speaker 3: That was your best group. That's my group. You gotta

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Speaker 3: know we had Tony Tony Tony. Yeah, Common Doors.

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Speaker 2: Shut that down.

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Speaker 3: You know I was playing with you. Come on, come on.

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Speaker 2: All right, Uh, let me go Kidred Family, So I

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Speaker 2: love it. That ain't even the same

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