Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb
Speaker 2: in the tub, tub tub. I feel like you had
Speaker 2: a really wholesome weekend. I did have a I felt
Speaker 2: very wholesome. Yeah, are you well rested rejuvenated?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say well rested, but yes, I am rested.
Speaker 2: I am rejuvenated. I have a new zest for life.
Speaker 3: Oh I love I love when these like I don't know,
Speaker 3: every month and a half you get zesty like this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm zesty for I'm zesty. I'm in my wedding mode.
Speaker 2: Now what does that mean?
Speaker 1: I'm MIKEL.
Speaker 2: Let's g o give us an update. We have been
Speaker 2: for updates for.
Speaker 1: What Get me to the alter a l T e
Speaker 1: r Ar Altar Get me to the Altar?
Speaker 3: So you got engaged in September. We have been asking
Speaker 3: for updates since then. Essentially, do we finally have.
Speaker 2: Goes by fast? Let me tell you it really does. Actually,
Speaker 2: I feel like you just got engaged. I think so.
Speaker 1: I feel the same way.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Time flies when you're fiance. Yeah, so have we made
Speaker 3: some decisions?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say we've made decisions. But I'm like way
Speaker 1: more proactive than I have been. Like I'm like I
Speaker 1: got the bug in me, and I'm just like ready now,
Speaker 1: Like I am constantly like looking at stuff, comparing, contrasting,
Speaker 1: getting price estimates. Like I am like in the thick
Speaker 1: of it.
Speaker 3: Now, what has what do you feel like has been
Speaker 3: holding you back of like just going for and plant
Speaker 3: being in the bug having the bug.
Speaker 1: I think that it's it's so overwhelming because it's a
Speaker 1: it's a lot of money. B It's like this thing
Speaker 1: I've been waiting for my whole life. So there's this
Speaker 1: pressure that I've put on it. So it's like everything
Speaker 1: has to be perfect, and there obviously nothing's perfect. So
Speaker 1: I've been able to like find the flaw in every
Speaker 1: little thing.
Speaker 2: So I just like keep starting from scratch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I yeah, So I think all that is
Speaker 1: like kind of what just I just felt. And then
Speaker 1: also a lot of people have been telling me, and
Speaker 1: it really is like a full time job. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: so once you start, you can't stop. Once you get
Speaker 1: on the train, the train goes, you know, like once
Speaker 1: you have a date, the date's coming.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I feel like that is I think
Speaker 1: what has held me back?
Speaker 2: But now I'm just like I'm ready.
Speaker 3: That makes so much sense. The perfectionist, the perfectionist aspect
Speaker 3: of it, because you do that so much in.
Speaker 2: Everything everything, Like I remember when you and Rob I
Speaker 2: can't remember, Like there's been so many times when you're
Speaker 2: going through something and you can find just the minute.
Speaker 1: Anything that's not perfect.
Speaker 2: Why are we focusing on that? Yeah, and then I
Speaker 2: scrap it. I didn't even put that together. But that
Speaker 2: is that is you. Yes, it's what you do. It's
Speaker 2: what I dost about every like, think about it.
Speaker 1: With a wedding, there's so many details. It's like the
Speaker 1: one thing I'm like next.
Speaker 3: But also there is a sense because obviously when you're
Speaker 3: in a relationship and there's things that you can pick out,
Speaker 3: it's another person. So it's like, you know, but this
Speaker 3: you kind of have control over. So what almost makes
Speaker 3: it worse because.
Speaker 2: And bless Robbie because he's like, I just want you
Speaker 2: to have the wedding of your dreams. So whatever you want,
Speaker 2: I'm like, but I need your help, like help me
Speaker 2: push me one direction. I know, but I feel like
Speaker 2: if he did, he'd be like, I don't want that. Yeah, lost,
Speaker 2: no matter what, he even knows it. He's a smart man.
Speaker 2: He is a smart man.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like, so we went on a hike this
Speaker 1: weekend and we were with the kids in sunny and
Speaker 1: it was like a beautiful day in la and I
Speaker 1: just like looked over at him and I was like,
Speaker 1: I love our little family and he was like, it's
Speaker 1: not complete yet, and I.
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, maybe, so emotional. Okay, let's get married.
Speaker 2: Let's go. That's what you needed. I needed that, okay, Okay.
Speaker 2: The wedding will be June.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, next week May eighteen.
Speaker 2: That's Ali's so oh right, that's my mom's birthday.
Speaker 3: That's okay, okay, Yeah, I felt like you're a really
Speaker 3: cute weekend y'all did like Chicken Tender?
Speaker 2: Well you did it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Robbie really took the reins on that one.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel sad about not participating in those
Speaker 3: things because of your not all interesting? I was wondering, like,
Speaker 3: do the kids are the kids?
Speaker 1: The kids don't care at all?
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Also, one of the kids didn't even like the Chicken tour,
Speaker 1: so he was like more chicken.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm with you.
Speaker 4: Bud.
Speaker 2: But I tried a piece of chicken on one of
Speaker 2: the stops.
Speaker 1: And I was like, not for me?
Speaker 2: Which one did I tell you?
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you the names of any of them? Wow,
Speaker 1: but it was one that was in Woodland Hills.
Speaker 2: A long trick for Chicken Tender which is squid Games
Speaker 2: RV or are not rv VR?
Speaker 5: Oh? How was that difference or there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we went to Squid Games v R.
Speaker 1: It was actually really really fun.
Speaker 2: Was it scary?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: But like we did the bridge, you know, like the
Speaker 1: classic bridge, and I actually was like scared to step
Speaker 1: on it.
Speaker 2: Like I was like, I was like, I'm not falling anywhere.
Speaker 2: Hailey loved squid Games on a date night, but yeah,
Speaker 2: she would love it, honestly.
Speaker 1: It's like like green light, the bridge, all the like
Speaker 1: fun things.
Speaker 2: Woh okay, okay, that's that's a taking notes?
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah is that what you went? Were? Y?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? So I was like jealous.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is what I want to be
Speaker 3: invited to is a chicken tender tour?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so sorry next time?
Speaker 1: Next time?
Speaker 2: Thinking an invite to the barbecue family time? Either? Interesting?
Speaker 2: How that works? Huh?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know a lot of nose, a lot of no's.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to invite her over today.
Speaker 3: Three what I haven't been invited over for a cookout
Speaker 3: since twenty twenty three?
Speaker 1: True, I haven't done many cookouts this year.
Speaker 2: That's what's the reason. You know you?
Speaker 1: First of all, I asked you to hang out last weekend.
Speaker 1: I went wedding dress shopping and I was going to
Speaker 1: ask you to come, and you said, I have my sisters, yes,
Speaker 1: and so then.
Speaker 2: You couldn't come over to my barbecue.
Speaker 3: It was just the invite you. You know what it's
Speaker 3: like to want to be invited. It's very hypocritical, and
Speaker 3: I'd like someone to be on my side of how
Speaker 3: this dynamic happened.
Speaker 2: Who's say, Mike sam Can Sam Can Sam.
Speaker 1: Off on Sam?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me thank you? Okay.
Speaker 1: I said, hey, Becca, are you free this weekend? I
Speaker 1: really I'm going dress shopping on Saturday, and I want
Speaker 1: to ask you an important question. She said, it's my
Speaker 1: sister's birthday and Haley's moving in on Sunday. I'm not
Speaker 1: available on this weekend, so I know these things. So
Speaker 1: I have a barbecue. I invite two friends over. Would
Speaker 1: I invite Becca? Who told me she cannot hang out
Speaker 1: this weekend because she has said plans. That's tough because
Speaker 1: just an invite would have been nice, but you knew
Speaker 1: that she had plans all day.
Speaker 2: It's hard.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody told you they couldn't hang out this weekend.
Speaker 1: You would not invite.
Speaker 3: Someone told you they did not like country music. Why
Speaker 3: would they be expected to invite them?
Speaker 1: Because I like country.
Speaker 2: Harder for not two months even Beyonce said it's not
Speaker 2: a country album, right.
Speaker 5: Said I'm not available Saturday because I'm in London. That's different,
Speaker 5: but she's around. You could have said like, hey, I
Speaker 5: know you're busy this weekend, but we're doing this.
Speaker 3: Also, it's like, hey, I don't know what time you're
Speaker 3: done Sunday, but we're doing a barbecue if you and
Speaker 3: Haley want to come over.
Speaker 2: She loves Robbie's grilled shrimp.
Speaker 5: You've been moving all day. You're probably exhausted.
Speaker 2: We have so much good food. We actually had a
Speaker 2: lot of leftovers.
Speaker 3: Well, probably wouldn't have if you had sent out some
Speaker 3: extra invites.
Speaker 2: So anyways, everyone's.
Speaker 3: Always deeming me like I can't wait for you to
Speaker 3: call Donya out on her hypocrisy.
Speaker 2: So this is for the scrubbers that are team Becca.
Speaker 1: This is for the scrubbers that are non team Mecca.
Speaker 2: If somebody told.
Speaker 1: You that they could not hang out with you, said
Speaker 1: weekend because it was their sister's birthday and their girlfriends
Speaker 1: moving in, why would you invite said person to come
Speaker 1: to your house when they said they were busy.
Speaker 2: Because you didn't know my hours.
Speaker 3: I couldn't do anything Saturday because I was down in Newport,
Speaker 3: But Sunday it could have been like, hey, not sure
Speaker 3: if what time y'all finish today, but we are having
Speaker 3: people over and grilling. You know, when you know when
Speaker 3: you get the most defensive is when you know other
Speaker 3: person's right.
Speaker 5: You're right about about that. That's when you get most defensive. Yes,
Speaker 5: you know you're in the.
Speaker 2: Tanya gets the most you know I'm right because you
Speaker 2: all know that I am right here.
Speaker 1: You all know that deep down you Oh, you're trying
Speaker 1: to stir the pickle here, you're all trying to stir
Speaker 1: pickles ever, like literally, ever.
Speaker 2: Physically mentally or emotionally.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 3: I had someone in my question box ask like, do
Speaker 3: you ever miss men? I just was like no, like
Speaker 3: that was my answer, and everyone was like, this answer
Speaker 3: is so good.
Speaker 2: It's just matter of fact.
Speaker 1: It's such a random question, Like it's such a weird
Speaker 1: question because it's like, even when you're in any sort
Speaker 1: of relationship, it's like, do you ever miss more men?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? The other?
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like, yeah, you's just with one person.
Speaker 2: That's the whole that's the whole thing about monogamy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you're just like person like, no matter who you're dating,
Speaker 2: you don't miss any other like either sex. Yeah, it
Speaker 2: was funny though.
Speaker 6: I don't think straight women miss men.
Speaker 3: I think so many people will be like, I'm married
Speaker 3: to a man, and I agree with this.
Speaker 5: I don't miss men because my family's all women and
Speaker 5: I work with all women, and I'm delighted. It's fine.
Speaker 6: Yes, it's heaven on earth. It really is utopia.
Speaker 1: Men are talent men What men are great?
Speaker 2: They are great? There are great, There are great.
Speaker 6: Men are reaching high things, lifting heavy objects, stops.
Speaker 3: There are like smoke alone. Our alarm battery is uh
Speaker 3: needs to be replaced, and the one that needs to
Speaker 3: be replaces in my vaulted ceiling, and so my ladder
Speaker 3: isn't tall enough, and so I don't have a big
Speaker 3: giant ladder because I haven't really had use for one.
Speaker 2: I tried to order one on Instagram Christmas lights. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but my I could reach this is like.
Speaker 3: On the tallest part of my ceiling. And so I
Speaker 3: was on the phone with Ali and she heard it
Speaker 3: like beeping in the background. I was like, oh, I'm
Speaker 3: so annoyed. I need a ladder, and her carson her
Speaker 3: pounces like, you need a man, and I was like, no,
Speaker 3: I just.
Speaker 2: Need a ladder. I'm just I don't need a man.
Speaker 2: Or like task rabbit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, taskrab it can do anything.
Speaker 2: From now that Haley's moved in, I'm like, okay, handle it.
Speaker 2: You live here now, so handle the task grabbit. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: that's nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, it's interesting the dividing up of
Speaker 1: the chores.
Speaker 3: Well, she's been like on me, and I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: you can do it.
Speaker 2: It's your house. She's moving in, I know, but still.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but if you have like a landlord, I guess
Speaker 3: I am the landlord.
Speaker 2: I am her landlord. Yeah, that's right. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So it feels really good that we live together because
Speaker 3: it was just time big day, big day chaos, because
Speaker 3: it's a very rush. Situation wasn't what we planned, but
Speaker 3: she had to get out of her place and we
Speaker 3: were like, let's just do it now, and it's so
Speaker 3: it's such a relief to be in one spot. But
Speaker 3: I will say having all of her, like, I felt
Speaker 3: bad because she had to kind of purge a lot
Speaker 3: because she's moving into my place that's already furnished and
Speaker 3: I didn't have time to make the room. So it's
Speaker 3: an absolute disaster.
Speaker 2: In my home right now. But it's okay, Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: just fine. It's all fine. You when you sell like me,
Speaker 2: you just say it's fine, we'll handle it.
Speaker 1: But maybe this is time for you to purge as well.
Speaker 2: I am Thursday, have a professional coming to help me. Nice.
Speaker 3: Nice, But speaking of homes that are not chaos, Easton
Speaker 3: had his historic home tour over the weekend.
Speaker 2: Is that what it is?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we live in a nineteen eleven Craftsman in Minneruvia, California,
Speaker 6: and every year they do this home tour where they
Speaker 6: invite people who have historic homes to like it's like
Speaker 6: an open house, Like you can buy a ticket and
Speaker 6: go through everybody's house.
Speaker 1: Do you get the money?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 6: We don't get the money the game.
Speaker 2: Do you get to say yes or no? Or is
Speaker 2: it like yeah, you know you can Like.
Speaker 6: They just like knock on historic homes and go like, hey,
Speaker 6: do you want to do this and they can say
Speaker 6: no or OK. So like four of their houses on
Speaker 6: our street did it, and it was really fun because
Speaker 6: I like know my neighbors. I'd never been to their
Speaker 6: house before, so that was only fun to like snoop around.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like that.
Speaker 6: We had five hundred people come through our house. Oh
Speaker 6: my god, it was really fun.
Speaker 1: You had out like treats and stuff they did.
Speaker 2: We did.
Speaker 6: We did people usually don't. We had a big bowl
Speaker 6: of Halloween candy, you know, purchased recently, but yeah, we
Speaker 6: want people sign our guest books. We're like, oh, have
Speaker 6: some candy, sign our guest book. And most of the
Speaker 6: comments on the guest book were like, thanks for the candy,
Speaker 6: great bowl that. I thought that was funny. I put
Speaker 6: out my sound effect machine from Dana Station, which has
Speaker 6: tiny saying it's so good.
Speaker 2: Oh nice.
Speaker 6: We had a scrubber come by that I met. Her
Speaker 6: name is Her name is also Tanya. She took a
Speaker 6: picture with the People's Choice of war. That was really fun. Wow,
Speaker 6: and it was a great time. A great time was
Speaker 6: had by all. I didn't feel violated at all. Have
Speaker 6: that many people strangers in my house?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's interesting because I was thinking, I don't know
Speaker 3: that I would ever do this, And then I was like,
Speaker 3: is this mandatory if they move into this neighborhood that they.
Speaker 2: Have to have a tour be a part of it?
Speaker 2: To probably do it? I want it. Yeah you would.
Speaker 2: I don't think I would. It's fun. I'm so paranoy No.
Speaker 6: No, yeah, it was really fun. Something I really liked
Speaker 6: is the other houses on the street were the youngest
Speaker 6: people on the street, like by several decades, and all
Speaker 6: the other houses they dress it up like period appropriate,
Speaker 6: like they have like, you know, a phonograph going and.
Speaker 5: Stuff like that.
Speaker 6: I realized in my office I have a lot of
Speaker 6: EM and M stuff, like Becky got me this like
Speaker 6: Eminem Dispenser of like them sitting in movie theater chairs.
Speaker 6: I have like a picture of doctor phil is.
Speaker 5: An M and M.
Speaker 6: And I'm like, people are going through here going, what's.
Speaker 5: This guy's deal?
Speaker 6: They said he worked at a radio station and he
Speaker 6: just loves EM and ms.
Speaker 2: Fetish.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a deep love, a deep and passionate love.
Speaker 5: It but it was.
Speaker 6: It was a really great time, and I hope we
Speaker 6: get invited to do it again someday.
Speaker 2: I feel like you will.
Speaker 3: It looked it looked really cue and if I loved closer,
Speaker 3: I would have come back.
Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Andy recently purchased.
Speaker 6: Yes, it was easter candy. It was like fun science,
Speaker 6: snickers bars and around.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all year round. I heard you. You mentioned in
Speaker 2: our group chat that you did a speech fast over
Speaker 2: the weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can chat about that, but I feel like
Speaker 1: we should talk about your weekend.
Speaker 2: I had a fun weekend, but it was very busy.
Speaker 5: I think we should all speech fast until we come
Speaker 5: back from this.
Speaker 4: My gosh bad Joe b r B. All right, speech
Speaker 4: fast is over, just like that. Yeah, as I think
Speaker 4: it was just as quick for you over.
Speaker 2: The week much how long it lasted?
Speaker 1: So I read somewhere that's where I don't know KTLA
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, honestly, it was on KTLA and it
Speaker 1: was like speech fasting, and so I was like kind
Speaker 1: of like reading up on the benefits and it was
Speaker 1: like brain fog focus all these things that I want
Speaker 1: more of and so I was like, you want more
Speaker 1: brain fag No, sorry sorry, like more focus less brain
Speaker 1: frogs and all that stuff. And so I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: so you're supposed to not talk till noon, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I can't do that Monday through Friday, but on the
Speaker 1: weekends I can do it. And uh, it's a lot
Speaker 1: harder than I thought. I realized it's like more, I
Speaker 1: can't just do it cold turkey like till noon. I
Speaker 1: have to ease my way in because I made it
Speaker 1: an hour on Saturday and about an hour and forty
Speaker 1: five minutes on Sunday. But I realized that it's hard
Speaker 1: because you can't really make a plan not speaking, so
Speaker 1: like it's like Saturday, we had to like talk about
Speaker 1: our plans for the day, figure out logistics, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm not speaking, I'm like typing everything into the notes page,
Speaker 1: like Robbie's talking back to me.
Speaker 2: But it was like really hard. Why couldn't y'all text?
Speaker 1: Because when I wouldn't, I keep my phone away from
Speaker 1: me when I sleep, so my phone was not near me,
Speaker 1: so it was just his phone, so I'd grab his
Speaker 1: phone type it in his notes page and he would
Speaker 1: just respond to me. So that's how we would communicate
Speaker 1: for the first hour, and it was brutal. He loved
Speaker 1: it and he was like, this is.
Speaker 2: That's an interesting takeaway from the siting test that he
Speaker 2: loved it.
Speaker 1: I know, like I almost like he was like more
Speaker 1: attracted to me.
Speaker 2: I was like, he was like, oh the mystery. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, I went. I wouldn't even say
Speaker 2: it was a date. But Nile DeMarco, he is a model,
Speaker 2: and yeah, he was in.
Speaker 1: No never mind.
Speaker 2: He I think one day Stars.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Anyways, he was on Dancing with the Stars and I
Speaker 3: had met him at a Dodgers game and he invited
Speaker 3: me to sit in his section like with his friends
Speaker 3: and family to watch him perform at Dance with the Stars.
Speaker 3: So I went and then afterwards we went to this
Speaker 3: bar like where everyone went after the filming, and he
Speaker 3: and I were communicating via phone like notes, you know,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I literally downloaded the sign language
Speaker 3: app because I was like, I want I would love
Speaker 3: to learn sign language, like it's on my bucket list.
Speaker 3: I think it would be so cool to learn. But
Speaker 3: it is really hard to communicate.
Speaker 2: I knew for.
Speaker 3: Both of us to do that, so I especially the
Speaker 3: it was like such a complicated thing because I wanted
Speaker 3: to get to know him so badly, and I felt
Speaker 3: bad that he was able to like read my lips
Speaker 3: and understand me, but I couldn't do the same for him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I understand the challenge it was.
Speaker 1: It was a challenge, but it was a choice. Yes,
Speaker 1: it was a choice. And I'm gonna try again next weekend.
Speaker 1: Oh but I'm gonna try and do two hours, so
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna go till noon. I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: try and gradually keep you know. And then I think
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do is the night before I'm gonna
Speaker 1: set the plans for the next day.
Speaker 5: That smart, thank you.
Speaker 1: Just be pro active with the day instead of reactive,
Speaker 1: which is what I want to be in general. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I think next weekend we'll be better. Although it's Mother's
Speaker 1: Day and.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's gonna try Saturday to see what Saturday.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 2: I could do this so easily.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, coup, I don't need to talk to
Speaker 3: anyone for a few hours.
Speaker 2: Twelve would be here before you know, of.
Speaker 1: Course, how are you supposed to say, like how'd you sleep?
Speaker 1: When did you wake up?
Speaker 5: That's urgent?
Speaker 2: When did you get up to go to the bathroom?
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't think I am and like yearning
Speaker 2: for those answers that I wake up.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's all I can think about.
Speaker 6: What's normally the first thing you say, Becca when you
Speaker 6: wake up? Like if you're you're alone, Haley's not there,
Speaker 6: If Haley's there, yeah, Like, what's the like do you
Speaker 6: sing to Phoebe? Like, what's the first thing?
Speaker 2: Good morning chicken.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I couldn't say hello more good morning
Speaker 1: to Sunny. And that broke my heart too, because I
Speaker 1: was like, that was a sad Instagram.
Speaker 6: Sorry I saw you. She was like.
Speaker 2: Nuzzled in there and.
Speaker 6: She has no idea what I want to say morning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was probably so upset it was stressful. Honestly. Well,
Speaker 2: we'll get an update on round two. Yeah next week.
Speaker 1: Next week, stay tuned, stay tunes for the day. Tune. Okay,
Speaker 1: so let's get back to your weekend.
Speaker 3: Okay, So my weekend, so Saturday yesterday on the fifth,
Speaker 3: and go to Maya was my sister Caroline's birthday, and
Speaker 3: then she celebrated on the fourth, and so we drove
Speaker 3: down to Newport.
Speaker 2: The fourth be with You made the fourth be.
Speaker 6: With you and with you, with you.
Speaker 2: And you and you, and so we drove down and
Speaker 2: she wanted everyone to wear wigs, and so I was
Speaker 2: gonna go as Cline.
Speaker 3: But I have to be in a certain like energy
Speaker 3: to be Cline. And I knew that if I came
Speaker 3: down there halfway through the day, I'd start feeling just like, oh,
Speaker 3: I feel so gross, and he doesn't make me feel
Speaker 3: calm by any means, right, And I have to be
Speaker 3: in the spirit of Clein to really commit. So I
Speaker 3: wasn't there, but I had my Daphne wig from a
Speaker 3: couple halloweens ago, so I just put that on with
Speaker 3: a cowboy hat. Well, Haley finds this random wig we
Speaker 3: still don't know where it came from, sick, and she
Speaker 3: put it on, and like halfway through the kickball game
Speaker 3: when we got there, she was like, I need to
Speaker 3: take this off.
Speaker 2: I feel terrible about myself, I don't feel cute, I'm
Speaker 2: getting insecure, and I'm like, take it off. Your fine.
Speaker 3: But the best part is I showed up and they
Speaker 3: were already playing kickball, and I'll be honest, I'm not
Speaker 3: a big kickball person, and so we were a little
Speaker 3: bit late and I thought like, oh, maybe I've missed
Speaker 3: the kickball game. And I get there and they're like,
Speaker 3: you're just in time. We need someone on this team,
Speaker 3: and I was like, all right, here we go. And
Speaker 3: the rule was that you had to be holding a
Speaker 3: drink like it could be water, could be anything, but
Speaker 3: you had to be holding a drink in the field.
Speaker 3: And so they were playing with this extra big kickball,
Speaker 3: like you you.
Speaker 2: Know, the standard sized kickball. It was like that but huge.
Speaker 2: So the first play I get out there, that kick
Speaker 2: it it.
Speaker 7: Comes to me and I'm like I got it and
Speaker 7: I'm holding my drink and it hits me and takes
Speaker 7: off my wing hat and glasses, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 7: that was the most unathletic thing I've ever done.
Speaker 2: Arden happened.
Speaker 3: Someone got a live photo of it, so it was
Speaker 3: a photo, but when they press play, it was the
Speaker 3: whole beginning in the face. So it was a real
Speaker 3: treasure we got. And then we just played games. That
Speaker 3: was so sore the next day, like spike ball, they're
Speaker 3: very active and athletic and their friends are so fun
Speaker 3: but also very active in athletics.
Speaker 2: So they have you youth. Yeah. Shoot, I was like, dang,
Speaker 2: I really feel my age, especially with alcohol. Doing any
Speaker 2: sort of activity drunk is like I didn't really drink
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, it was sober. The hit to the phase,
Speaker 2: I really thought. Yeah, And so that was really fun.
Speaker 2: And then yesterday we moved all the rest.
Speaker 3: Haley had moved a lot of her stuff in with
Speaker 3: me already, but we did like the final the final
Speaker 3: move with like everything.
Speaker 2: So now there's like no time apart. You guys just
Speaker 2: live together.
Speaker 3: Well I mean except for when she leaves me for work,
Speaker 3: but yeah, but we hated that. Anyways, we never didn't
Speaker 3: stay together, so it's just a depending on where we stayed.
Speaker 3: Right now, we don't have to I don't have to
Speaker 3: pack up Phoebe and drive to her place, which I'm
Speaker 3: so excited about.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: No, we're packing up Phoebe's food, Phoebe's dishes, everything's in
Speaker 1: one place.
Speaker 3: She's come when she said I'm coming home, it's to
Speaker 3: one place.
Speaker 1: So coming home I know.
Speaker 5: A major step, I know.
Speaker 3: I guess I've always thought because we have never stayed
Speaker 3: a night apart for as long as I can remember,
Speaker 3: and like we've just coexisted in two different places, like
Speaker 3: we'd stay at her place for a week and then
Speaker 3: be at my place for a week.
Speaker 2: So I've always felt like we lived together. But this
Speaker 2: is like, I guess, the final move of living together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's actually living together versus like living together.
Speaker 1: It's me yeah together, there's a difference.
Speaker 3: There is, and so we have taken that step and
Speaker 3: it's so cool because it's like my parents came out,
Speaker 3: my dad met Haley, and it felt like it was
Speaker 3: like this natural move into like future.
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, yeah, yes, speaking of future, I was
Speaker 2: not looking for the two of you our future looking great.
Speaker 1: Yeah great.
Speaker 5: It's fun if you're both engaged at the same time.
Speaker 5: How fun was that?
Speaker 2: It could happen depending on how long time it takes
Speaker 2: a plan or wedding.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be married within the year okay, year
Speaker 1: from now?
Speaker 2: Okay, so within yeah.
Speaker 5: For sure before May five. You will be married.
Speaker 2: Before June of twenty twenty five, so that's.
Speaker 5: Not within any year by anything.
Speaker 1: Little change here in the little yeah eighteen months, yeah, correct, No,
Speaker 1: twelve thirteen by for June sixth, twenty twenty four.
Speaker 5: You will be married? Correct? All right, you heard it
Speaker 5: your first Scrubbers, you've.
Speaker 2: Heard it here. First.
Speaker 3: You did get a lit anxiety listening to the Vile
Speaker 3: Files recap of Nick and Natalie's wedding, the wedding recap.
Speaker 2: But what stressed you out so much? Her hairdresser situation.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: I for those that don't know, Nick Vial was on
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, he was the Bachelor.
Speaker 2: He was the Bachelor.
Speaker 1: He has a child with Natalie Joy and they just
Speaker 1: got uh, they just got married.
Speaker 5: He was from Wisconsin, yes, and.
Speaker 1: They got married in uh, Savannah, and they do a
Speaker 1: podcast together. And uh, she was telling this story about
Speaker 1: her hairstylist. Basically, I don't even I don't want to
Speaker 1: rehash it. But it was just a nightmare situation with
Speaker 1: her hairstylist.
Speaker 3: Well, he was a friend, so he was like also
Speaker 3: kind of a guest, but she had hired him to
Speaker 3: do her hair and he just was like showed up,
Speaker 3: very unprofessional.
Speaker 1: Try to like make it a business deal, like got
Speaker 1: these like brand deals for the wedding, and that she
Speaker 1: didn't sign off on, which is already like weird and
Speaker 1: shady and then like, yeah, wanted to be a guest
Speaker 1: and ended up like not being there to do her
Speaker 1: hair transition from one look to the other.
Speaker 2: And I was just like, that sucks. But I had
Speaker 2: to give a shot.
Speaker 5: Suck.
Speaker 3: That sucks, and you can't predict it, you can't prepare
Speaker 3: for it. So it's like you're just you just have
Speaker 3: to go with the flow and figure it out. And
Speaker 3: she had Lindsay's avits to her hair, who we love Lindy,
Speaker 3: and if I trust it, Like if I had a
Speaker 3: makeup artist like Lindsay, I would feel like, Okay, we're
Speaker 3: gonna salvage this because she is so like, we'll figure
Speaker 3: it out.
Speaker 1: And her hair looked so great. I don't have Lindsay.
Speaker 2: Girl, you're gonna do my hair out, my makeup next time.
Speaker 2: You got the skills, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So she she did have the perfect makeup artist to
Speaker 3: save the day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she did.
Speaker 1: But it's like all those things.
Speaker 3: It's like again, the control of perfectionism you don't have.
Speaker 1: I would be like, shout out to you, Natalie Joy,
Speaker 1: because I would be on the floor.
Speaker 2: Position. I feel like Tony, let's get up, get it together.
Speaker 1: Well, like I have you because you could do my hair,
Speaker 1: I could.
Speaker 2: Do your hair, yeah, and a pinch and a pinch
Speaker 2: and a pinch.
Speaker 1: You'd be in there with at But also.
Speaker 3: I imagine you would have tawny to your hair and
Speaker 3: she would never do that to you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, could you imagine?
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm just like, you can't hire your friends.
Speaker 1: I think in those situations, I think it's better to.
Speaker 2: Have like No, I think you should be able to
Speaker 2: hire your friends. And according to Natalie Joy, she's got
Speaker 2: me rethinking some things.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I got a really cool offer to do something,
Speaker 3: and I'm it's just timing isn't right with when I'm
Speaker 3: going to be out of town?
Speaker 2: What don't tell me?
Speaker 1: Which I guess Yeah, okay, but I need a little
Speaker 1: more information than I got a really cool offer.
Speaker 2: It's to go out of the country with a brand.
Speaker 2: Mm I guess it's a brand, a network, a television network. Sure,
Speaker 2: a TV show? Sure you got a TV show?
Speaker 5: Wow? Wow?
Speaker 2: Well no, it's hold on.
Speaker 3: It's an offer, so it's it's based around a TV show,
Speaker 3: not me going on a TV show.
Speaker 1: Amazing Race, no Survivor, No Love, Island.
Speaker 5: No Traders.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 3: So I got invited to go to the Trader's mansion
Speaker 3: in Scotland.
Speaker 2: I will not be on it.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I was like, You're gonna turn that down.
Speaker 3: Girl, No, But I was thinking, like me turning this down?
Speaker 3: Is this just like a bad look if I.
Speaker 2: Were what is it on peacock? Did peacock and bite
Speaker 2: you out? Yeah?
Speaker 3: So they were going to fly me out to Scotland,
Speaker 3: go to the mansion, spend days and just be able
Speaker 3: to do like content and stuff from there from the mansion.
Speaker 3: But it would be the day after I get back
Speaker 3: from Ali's wedding in Majorca, and I just that would
Speaker 3: be three weeks away from home.
Speaker 2: They fly you from Majorca.
Speaker 3: To the but then I'd be away from Phoebe for
Speaker 3: it just feels like a lot, I know. But I
Speaker 3: already turned it down.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: I was like, also, I feel like I think if
Speaker 3: I was going with someone like you or like I
Speaker 3: had a friend with me that was like a diehard fan.
Speaker 2: I almost was like, can y'all take Tanya Raud? She
Speaker 2: would in my place. She would thrive. I would thrive.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I just finished New Zealand. Yeah, Traders.
Speaker 1: So now I've watched all of USA, UK, Australia and
Speaker 1: New Zealand.
Speaker 5: Look at that.
Speaker 2: I really committed to the show. I have that I'm in.
Speaker 1: I'm in, and I'm like now that I've watched them
Speaker 1: all like feeding for the next season.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I can't be so like want mot about it,
Speaker 3: never sharing anything with y'all again.
Speaker 1: Well, to get on the show, Well, it was the setup.
Speaker 5: It sounds like you've been offered your own television show,
Speaker 5: and then we went.
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to that. I will.
Speaker 1: On Traders.
Speaker 4: See.
Speaker 6: I thought she was being offered to advertise a peacock app,
Speaker 6: which is what it was. That's what I was expecting.
Speaker 6: I was still disappointed though, Sorry done.
Speaker 2: I can believe that I know. Anyways, I won't be
Speaker 2: sharing big life updates with the all anymore. Definitely not
Speaker 2: telling you if I get an actual offer to reality show,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna ghost you all. No, if you if
Speaker 2: you get asked.
Speaker 1: To go on Traders, you have to be the first
Speaker 1: phone call.
Speaker 2: We'll see. We'll see if I get an invite to
Speaker 2: the next grill.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Okay, the met Gala is happening tonight.
Speaker 5: They're on the red carpet as we speak.
Speaker 1: Have we seen anybody? Okay, anyone else?
Speaker 5: It's just by the way I clicked, I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: what's he? Whereing? I textedo, I'm very excited.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, here's my question.
Speaker 3: You get invited to the met gala, they tell you,
Speaker 3: and I'm sure they tell them when to show up.
Speaker 3: But let's say you have a choice of one to
Speaker 3: show up. Are you going carpet opens, you're on the carpet,
Speaker 3: are you waiting mid or you are you gonna.
Speaker 2: Try and be the finale. I'm gonna try and go first.
Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, I know you're.
Speaker 6: You're going to go first to Yeah, I want to
Speaker 6: hit the snack bar before it starts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my last is also rushed and like stressful.
Speaker 5: If it's me first, but if I'm like if I'm
Speaker 5: bad Bunny laught like, it depends on who I am.
Speaker 2: And know you're Kim Kardashian, You're bad Bunny. Your tailors left?
Speaker 5: Oh, then you go last? You are? I think you're
Speaker 5: in the proper order of your place.
Speaker 2: In the celebrity Yeah. Interesting, I'm going middle, no matter
Speaker 2: who you are, no.
Speaker 3: Matter who I am, I'm requesting mid I don't want
Speaker 3: to be first and I don't want to be last.
Speaker 3: I want to have time to like feel settled once
Speaker 3: I get in there and like figure my see my surroundings,
Speaker 3: and like talk to people in socialize.
Speaker 5: What the whole thing is. You can spend the whole
Speaker 5: night getting.
Speaker 2: Your telling what happens in there.
Speaker 5: I don't know, right, like Easton wants to hit the
Speaker 5: snack bar before what Yeah, the party stand around and
Speaker 5: talk to each other, right, I want?
Speaker 3: But the rumors that Taylor Swift is going tonight, So
Speaker 3: will she be going with Travis Kelsey? Will she be
Speaker 3: going period?
Speaker 1: I don't think they're going either one of them.
Speaker 2: Why because I just have a hunch there's no no the.
Speaker 1: Ground. Yeah no. TMZ reported like back in March that
Speaker 1: they will, that they got invited separately, but they're not
Speaker 1: attending because she's getting ready for her European leg and Travis.
Speaker 2: I don't remember why. Travis's reason was, I'm.
Speaker 5: Going to keep refreshing in my social media and I'll
Speaker 5: let you know if I get anything on.
Speaker 3: Taylor preparing for her European Like she it's a few
Speaker 3: hours out of her day. She goes makes a huge
Speaker 3: splash right before her European leg starts gets people going
Speaker 3: again about I think.
Speaker 1: It's to rest. My gosh, she just shut eye, maybe
Speaker 1: a little eyemask.
Speaker 2: No, she'll rest on the jets. She'll get a little ivy,
Speaker 2: be back to good.
Speaker 1: We'll see I I love the Gala.
Speaker 5: Oh I'm with you by the way, I'm convinced Daddy
Speaker 5: I Love Him and I can do it with a
Speaker 5: broken heart are both going to be monster smash hits.
Speaker 3: Daddy I Love Him is so good, really good, still
Speaker 3: the favorite, so good. I just I really listened to
Speaker 3: the lyrics of Guilty as Sin and wow, that's a
Speaker 3: vulnerable track, vulnerable admissions.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not one of my favorites.
Speaker 5: Oh, you guys got to live with them, though, I
Speaker 5: swear all of these songs. You just live with them
Speaker 5: for a couple of days and they're your favorite song.
Speaker 5: You think so I do.
Speaker 2: I'm still first half of the album though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Tortured post apartment, the title track is slowly
Speaker 1: creeping up to like.
Speaker 2: Top two for me, honestly, whoa wow. Yeah, the Charlie
Speaker 2: Pooth shot out really got me. You know, are you're
Speaker 2: a loyal Charlie poother.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I do agree that I can do with the
Speaker 6: Broken Heart's gonna be huge smash. And I have a
Speaker 6: little piece of data for you. Fortnite had the biggest
Speaker 6: rise on American top forties since twenty seventeen. Wow, it
Speaker 6: leaves twenty spots. Isn't that crazy?
Speaker 5: That's crazy?
Speaker 6: Meanwhile, Selfish by Justin Himber like falls twenty spots.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I seems like that was JT the big comeback.
Speaker 3: Wait, have I told you all my theory that I
Speaker 3: think that post Malone looks like Matty Heally in.
Speaker 2: The video talked about this, No, I have picture proof.
Speaker 3: Just wait, just wait, because him without his tattoos, they
Speaker 3: have the same kind of shaped eyes.
Speaker 2: Okay, so here he is. I can honestly already kind
Speaker 2: of see the comparison. I can post post with you
Speaker 2: and then look at Matt Matty Heally in this.
Speaker 5: I love that you have those ready to black and white.
Speaker 2: Do y'all not see the similarities? Yeah? Sure, because like,
Speaker 2: why else did you remove his tats?
Speaker 1: Why else would she pick post malone.
Speaker 2: Because he kind of looks like because he's amazing.
Speaker 1: But well, I know, yeah, but I mean when you
Speaker 1: have that look alike doppelganger your disposal, Yeah.
Speaker 2: A talented lookalike.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I also had this realization that she probably was really
Speaker 3: upset with the Swifties for sabotaging her relationship with Mattie.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was shocked to learn that they had been
Speaker 2: dating for like ten years. They haven't been dating, but
Speaker 2: she had a relationship.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But before there was Joe, there was Mattie Healy.
Speaker 3: I know, but there was a history years in between them.
Speaker 1: I know, but it's history. There's a ten year history.
Speaker 3: There's probably always been the guy that she was like
Speaker 3: trying to get and it was like the challenge. He
Speaker 3: would like give her hope and then ghost her, and
Speaker 3: then she finally had him, and then all of us
Speaker 3: were like, oh.
Speaker 2: And then she's like a daddy.
Speaker 1: Guys that Swifties, I love him, And we were like, no,
Speaker 1: you can do better. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I had that realization, was like, dang, should
Speaker 2: we go bad about that?
Speaker 1: I think she's good now?
Speaker 3: Okay, speaking of good now, speaking of thinking about past relationships,
Speaker 3: Chris Lane posted.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can sorry. I had a BlackBerry seed in
Speaker 1: my tooth and it was driving me.
Speaker 2: Nuts and I finally got it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, this has been blowing my mind for the
Speaker 1: past however, long set it up for the people. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you don't know the players in the game, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just I'm just gonna give it to you as
Speaker 1: like a Oh, let's use me as an example. I'm
Speaker 1: engaged to be married.
Speaker 5: Yes, nine months.
Speaker 1: Yes, I am engaged. So this is like me and
Speaker 1: my fyance Robbie and Robbie going to an iHeart show.
Speaker 1: Let's say for the very first time, I'm meeting Harry Styles.
Speaker 5: Oh, triggering, this has happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, cut to I end my engagement. This is actually
Speaker 1: really I don't like the way that I'm sayings, but whatever,
Speaker 1: we're here. I end my engagement and I end up
Speaker 1: marrying Harry Styles. Yes, that is what happened in this situation,
Speaker 1: right with Lauren Lane, Chris Lane, her now husband, and
Speaker 1: Ben Higgins who.
Speaker 2: Ben Higgins is now married to somebody else.
Speaker 1: Everybody's fine, everybody's happy, and everybody has moved on. Also
Speaker 1: a right, right, Christina Aguilera. But the whole posting of
Speaker 1: it was so bizarre to me.
Speaker 2: So basically he's through.
Speaker 3: He was like, this was however, many years ago, is
Speaker 3: the night I met my future wife, and he has
Speaker 3: pictures of them all Lauren Chris, Lauren's ex fiance, Ben Higgins,
Speaker 3: and then Tom Pullman, who's from my heart, and so
Speaker 3: he's like, it was so great catching up all these
Speaker 3: years later with now my now wife Lauren, you know whatever,
Speaker 3: and they're picture documentation of them however many years ago
Speaker 3: and they they met and then now yeah, and then
Speaker 3: Ben Higgins commented on it. I had big, big plans
Speaker 3: for the two of you. Life works out exactly as.
Speaker 2: It should, my man, yeah, Ben Higgins, Yeah, And.
Speaker 3: It was just so interesting as I was like, no,
Speaker 3: that's such an unhingedbold.
Speaker 1: So too, because I'm like, even if like I'm not
Speaker 1: saying anything, there was no funny business going on, Like
Speaker 1: they could have obviously met there and didn't have any
Speaker 1: romantic relationships for years, it's still like, no.
Speaker 3: I totally believe that because Lauren dated someone in between them,
Speaker 3: so I don't think there was anything right, okay romantic.
Speaker 1: But like the fact that he fiance is a part
Speaker 1: of that moment just felt so.
Speaker 2: So there's something really kind of funny about it that
Speaker 2: it's been too just like poor Ben right, Like I was.
Speaker 5: Just like, oh, It's like if when Brad Pitt was
Speaker 5: married Angelina and he posted a picture and saying, here's
Speaker 5: the night I met my wife and he was right
Speaker 5: next to Jennifer at the time.
Speaker 2: Much better.
Speaker 5: Robbie and Christina. I mean, I'm kind of sure at
Speaker 5: this point.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was crazy. I was like, this is
Speaker 2: so wild, so wild. I had the same thought.
Speaker 3: But everyone is happy and moved on from that situation.
Speaker 3: It was just an unexpected throwback.
Speaker 2: Yeah, unexpected for sure. Do we want to do an email?
Speaker 5: Oh, we haven't done an email at a bit. I feel
Speaker 5: like we have.
Speaker 2: We haven't not, Okay, it's an email. Should we take
Speaker 2: a break.
Speaker 5: Absolutely, We'll be right asked.
Speaker 2: All right, we are back and we have an email
Speaker 2: from Marisa Mark take it away, all right, Becka, thank
Speaker 2: you very much.
Speaker 5: Scrubbing in squad. Longtime listener. I'll look forward every week
Speaker 5: to catching up with the gang during walks and car
Speaker 5: rides or cleaning the house. Remember that bit we used
Speaker 5: to do and what are you doing while you're listening?
Speaker 5: And I used to read off all that what they're
Speaker 5: doing while they're listening? Yeah, yeah, flash back. Anyway, I
Speaker 5: need some advice. I have a few friends that I
Speaker 5: feel like ghosting, and I feel guilty about it. I
Speaker 5: currently have an almost two year old and I'm due
Speaker 5: any day with my second. Spending time with my kids,
Speaker 5: my family, quality time with my husband, and some me
Speaker 5: time has been enough of a juggle. I don't feel
Speaker 5: like I've got enough energy to check in, hang out,
Speaker 5: keep tabs and all my friends. Even though they'll check
Speaker 5: in on me and bring up hanging out. I usually respond,
Speaker 5: but give a vague response, and I'm never the one
Speaker 5: to text first. But I feel guilty. Do I owe
Speaker 5: these friends? In explanation? If so, how do I frame it?
Speaker 5: No one seems hurt or mad, which is great. I'm
Speaker 5: just a people pleaser, and I feel guilty. How would
Speaker 5: you handle this situation?
Speaker 3: I I think even just to talk because it seems
Speaker 3: like your friends understand where you're at because they're not
Speaker 3: mad or making you feel guilty, So I think you
Speaker 3: that's really great that they're understanding of your situation. But
Speaker 3: I would even just say, like, hey, I know I've
Speaker 3: been kind of distant and vague and not super available,
Speaker 3: you know, as a friend, but just I haven't really
Speaker 3: had the capacity for it. But I really appreciate y'all
Speaker 3: checking in, and I just don't want you to feel
Speaker 3: abandoned by me. I just don't have the bandwidth to
Speaker 3: give a lot right now, but I love you so much,
Speaker 3: and just to let them know that you're thinking about
Speaker 3: them and you don't want to come across like a
Speaker 3: bad friend, but you just don't really have the capacity
Speaker 3: for that right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good idea to be proactive instead of reactive,
Speaker 1: because what I'm seeing here is like you're saying that
Speaker 1: you never initiate text. You are kind of vague when
Speaker 1: they respond, so that's like you reacting to them, whereas
Speaker 1: if you're proactive and you just say up front, hey,
Speaker 1: I feel like i'm you know a little bit. I
Speaker 1: love you, I'm here for you if you anything, but
Speaker 1: like I can't really hang for a bit until I
Speaker 1: get my boots on the ground. I think that they'll
Speaker 1: understand if they're real friends, They're going to understand that's
Speaker 1: the truth.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just and I think they are real friends
Speaker 3: because they haven't made you feel bad for this. And
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes even I don't have the capacity,
Speaker 3: and I don't even have children, I don't have I'm
Speaker 3: not pregnant. So I think you have a very valid reasoning,
Speaker 3: and I think that there's going to be a time
Speaker 3: where you really want your friends to be there and
Speaker 3: you just don't want them to like go away without
Speaker 3: having a conversation, because.
Speaker 2: You know they might if they are, if they're like,
Speaker 2: let's just move on.
Speaker 3: She's not really giving us anything, and you don't give
Speaker 3: an explanation. You don't want to come out of this
Speaker 3: kind of newborn parental haze. And everyone's kind of gone
Speaker 3: because you didn't communicate. So I would say, just communicate
Speaker 3: and be up in front and honest, and you know,
Speaker 3: good friends stick around.
Speaker 2: I agree, this is life.
Speaker 5: This is what happens. And they're going to go through
Speaker 5: this too, where they're going to be up to their
Speaker 5: eyeballs in it and not have time for their friends too.
Speaker 5: It's all this is the circle of life, cyclical and
Speaker 5: sil Everything is great. If you want to address it,
Speaker 5: go ahead. But these sounds like good friends are going
Speaker 5: to be there for you no matter what, So don't
Speaker 5: stress about it.
Speaker 2: Don't stress, don't stress. Stress. That's all we have for today, folks.
Speaker 2: It is. But you know we're going to be back
Speaker 2: on Thursday.
Speaker 1: With the one and only Hannah Brown. Her debut fiction
Speaker 1: novel Mistakes We Never Made, is out tomorrow, so we're
Speaker 1: going to talk all things.
Speaker 2: Romance, novels, her engagement, wedding planning, and of course Tyler Cameron.
Speaker 5: Well done, you too, Thank you. I do want to
Speaker 5: do homework for next week. Rolling Stone and Variety both
Speaker 5: ranked all of Taylor's songs.
Speaker 2: Are we saying albums or songs?
Speaker 5: Songs? And so? Because they have come up. I'm not
Speaker 5: going to make you rank all two hundred and seventy
Speaker 5: four of them, but I think we should rank our
Speaker 5: top five tailor songs of all time.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so hard. What's number one on
Speaker 2: their list?
Speaker 5: I'll tell you. I'll tell you the top five for
Speaker 5: both Variety number five, Getaway Car number four, Cruel Summer
Speaker 5: number three, right where you left me? What number two?
Speaker 5: All to well? Ten minute version number one you belong
Speaker 5: with me?
Speaker 2: To disagree with Variety.
Speaker 3: I don't agree, No, I love Cruel Summer is definitely
Speaker 3: in my top five though.
Speaker 5: All right, let me switch over to Rolling Stone here.
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna too well. Ten minute version also is.
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to agree with Rolling Stone. I
Speaker 1: don't know what they're saying, but I think I'm gonna agree.
Speaker 5: Okay, let me tell you right now. Number five August YEP,
Speaker 5: number four, Delicate, Oh Yes, number three, mirror Ball, number two,
Speaker 5: number two New Romantics.
Speaker 1: The one that does not get the credit.
Speaker 2: It is a Charlie Pooth of Taylor Ships.
Speaker 5: Honestly, the number one, according to Rolling Stone, is all
Speaker 5: too well time in version.
Speaker 2: Here we go. Rolling Stone got it.
Speaker 5: So I think we come up on our own top fives.
Speaker 1: I have to tell you something so funny really quick.
Speaker 1: There's this contestant on Survivor this season that's like obsessed
Speaker 1: with Taylor Swift, like he loves her, and they did
Speaker 1: this because you just you're on the island. You have
Speaker 1: nothing else to do. So he did this game with
Speaker 1: one of the other contestants. The other contestant was a
Speaker 1: fan of like I'm totally gonna miss Van Halen or
Speaker 1: something I don't know, someone that I did not know
Speaker 1: any But they basically sat there and one by one
Speaker 1: they said a title of a song from their said artist.
Speaker 1: So he was doing Taylor Swift and the other person
Speaker 1: had to come up like in tandem. So they're like
Speaker 1: ping pong and back and forth and they were going
Speaker 1: for hours and the Taylor.
Speaker 2: Swift fan one, that's a good game. It was really long.
Speaker 2: We could last naming and there's like a timer for oh,
Speaker 2: you each.
Speaker 5: Have to Taylor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can and you can't double it.
Speaker 2: Have three seconds before you get a buzzer.
Speaker 1: But I was like, what a fun game.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I love this cast of Survivor just coming
Speaker 2: up with games on.
Speaker 5: The island that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good game. Yeah, thank you, thank you,
Speaker 2: thank you Survivor.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be back Thursday and with the Hannah Brown And.
Speaker 2: That's all for now, folks.
Speaker 1: T T Y L.
Speaker 2: I'm just soodful