WEBVTT - LivingEEE Together

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in with and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb

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<v Speaker 2>in the tub, tub tub. I feel like you had

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<v Speaker 2>a really wholesome weekend. I did have a I felt

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<v Speaker 2>very wholesome. Yeah, are you well rested rejuvenated?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say well rested, but yes, I am rested.

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<v Speaker 2>I am rejuvenated. I have a new zest for life.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I love I love when these like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>every month and a half you get zesty like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm zesty for I'm zesty. I'm in my wedding mode.

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<v Speaker 2>Now what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm MIKEL.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's g o give us an update. We have been

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<v Speaker 2>for updates for.

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<v Speaker 1>What Get me to the alter a l T e

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<v Speaker 1>r Ar Altar Get me to the Altar?

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<v Speaker 3>So you got engaged in September. We have been asking

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<v Speaker 3>for updates since then. Essentially, do we finally have.

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<v Speaker 2>Goes by fast? Let me tell you it really does. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you just got engaged. I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Time flies when you're fiance. Yeah, so have we made

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<v Speaker 3>some decisions?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say we've made decisions. But I'm like way

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<v Speaker 1>more proactive than I have been. Like I'm like I

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<v Speaker 1>got the bug in me, and I'm just like ready now,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I am constantly like looking at stuff, comparing, contrasting,

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<v Speaker 1>getting price estimates. Like I am like in the thick

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<v Speaker 1>of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, what has what do you feel like has been

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<v Speaker 3>holding you back of like just going for and plant

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<v Speaker 3>being in the bug having the bug.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's it's so overwhelming because it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of money. B It's like this thing

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<v Speaker 1>I've been waiting for my whole life. So there's this

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<v Speaker 1>pressure that I've put on it. So it's like everything

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<v Speaker 1>has to be perfect, and there obviously nothing's perfect. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've been able to like find the flaw in every

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<v Speaker 1>little thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just like keep starting from scratch.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I yeah, So I think all that is

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of what just I just felt. And then

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<v Speaker 1>also a lot of people have been telling me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it really is like a full time job. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>so once you start, you can't stop. Once you get

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<v Speaker 1>on the train, the train goes, you know, like once

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<v Speaker 1>you have a date, the date's coming.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And so I feel like that is I think

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<v Speaker 1>what has held me back?

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<v Speaker 2>But now I'm just like I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes so much sense. The perfectionist, the perfectionist aspect

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<v Speaker 3>of it, because you do that so much in.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything everything, Like I remember when you and Rob I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember, Like there's been so many times when you're

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<v Speaker 2>going through something and you can find just the minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything that's not perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are we focusing on that? Yeah, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>scrap it. I didn't even put that together. But that

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<v Speaker 2>is that is you. Yes, it's what you do. It's

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<v Speaker 2>what I dost about every like, think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>With a wedding, there's so many details. It's like the

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<v Speaker 1>one thing I'm like next.

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<v Speaker 3>But also there is a sense because obviously when you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a relationship and there's things that you can pick out,

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<v Speaker 3>it's another person. So it's like, you know, but this

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<v Speaker 3>you kind of have control over. So what almost makes

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<v Speaker 3>it worse because.

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<v Speaker 2>And bless Robbie because he's like, I just want you

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<v Speaker 2>to have the wedding of your dreams. So whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, but I need your help, like help me

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<v Speaker 2>push me one direction. I know, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>if he did, he'd be like, I don't want that. Yeah, lost,

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<v Speaker 2>no matter what, he even knows it. He's a smart man.

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<v Speaker 2>He is a smart man.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, like, so we went on a hike this

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<v Speaker 1>weekend and we were with the kids in sunny and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a beautiful day in la and I

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<v Speaker 1>just like looked over at him and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I love our little family and he was like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not complete yet, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, oh, maybe, so emotional. Okay, let's get married.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go. That's what you needed. I needed that, okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The wedding will be June.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, next week May eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Ali's so oh right, that's my mom's birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay, okay, Yeah, I felt like you're a really

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<v Speaker 3>cute weekend y'all did like Chicken Tender?

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<v Speaker 2>Well you did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Robbie really took the reins on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you ever feel sad about not participating in those

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<v Speaker 3>things because of your not all interesting? I was wondering, like,

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<v Speaker 3>do the kids are the kids?

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<v Speaker 1>The kids don't care at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, one of the kids didn't even like the Chicken tour,

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<v Speaker 1>so he was like more chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Bud.

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<v Speaker 2>But I tried a piece of chicken on one of

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<v Speaker 2>the stops.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, not for me?

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<v Speaker 2>Which one did I tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't tell you the names of any of them? Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was one that was in Woodland Hills.

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<v Speaker 2>A long trick for Chicken Tender which is squid Games

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<v Speaker 2>RV or are not rv VR?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? How was that difference or there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we went to Squid Games v R.

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<v Speaker 1>It was actually really really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it scary?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>But like we did the bridge, you know, like the

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<v Speaker 1>classic bridge, and I actually was like scared to step

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<v Speaker 1>on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was like, I was like, I'm not falling anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Hailey loved squid Games on a date night, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she would love it, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like like green light, the bridge, all the like

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<v Speaker 1>fun things.

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<v Speaker 2>Woh okay, okay, that's that's a taking notes?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah is that what you went? Were? Y?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah? So I was like jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, this is what I want to be

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<v Speaker 3>invited to is a chicken tender tour?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, so sorry next time?

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<v Speaker 1>Next time?

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<v Speaker 2>Thinking an invite to the barbecue family time? Either? Interesting?

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<v Speaker 2>How that works? Huh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You know a lot of nose, a lot of no's.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to invite her over today.

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<v Speaker 3>Three what I haven't been invited over for a cookout

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<v Speaker 3>since twenty twenty three?

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<v Speaker 1>True, I haven't done many cookouts this year.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's the reason. You know you?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I asked you to hang out last weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I went wedding dress shopping and I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you to come, and you said, I have my sisters, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so then.

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't come over to my barbecue.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just the invite you. You know what it's

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<v Speaker 3>like to want to be invited. It's very hypocritical, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like someone to be on my side of how

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<v Speaker 3>this dynamic happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's say, Mike sam Can Sam Can Sam.

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<v Speaker 1>Off on Sam?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let me thank you? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, Becca, are you free this weekend? I

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<v Speaker 1>really I'm going dress shopping on Saturday, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you an important question. She said, it's my

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<v Speaker 1>sister's birthday and Haley's moving in on Sunday. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>available on this weekend, so I know these things. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have a barbecue. I invite two friends over. Would

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<v Speaker 1>I invite Becca? Who told me she cannot hang out

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend because she has said plans. That's tough because

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<v Speaker 1>just an invite would have been nice, but you knew

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<v Speaker 1>that she had plans all day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, somebody told you they couldn't hang out this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>You would not invite.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone told you they did not like country music. Why

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<v Speaker 3>would they be expected to invite them?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I like country.

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<v Speaker 2>Harder for not two months even Beyonce said it's not

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<v Speaker 2>a country album, right.

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<v Speaker 5>Said I'm not available Saturday because I'm in London. That's different,

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<v Speaker 5>but she's around. You could have said like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 5>know you're busy this weekend, but we're doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, it's like, hey, I don't know what time you're

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<v Speaker 3>done Sunday, but we're doing a barbecue if you and

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<v Speaker 3>Haley want to come over.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves Robbie's grilled shrimp.

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<v Speaker 5>You've been moving all day. You're probably exhausted.

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<v Speaker 2>We have so much good food. We actually had a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of leftovers.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, probably wouldn't have if you had sent out some

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<v Speaker 3>extra invites.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, everyone's.

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<v Speaker 3>Always deeming me like I can't wait for you to

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<v Speaker 3>call Donya out on her hypocrisy.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is for the scrubbers that are team Becca.

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<v Speaker 1>This is for the scrubbers that are non team Mecca.

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<v Speaker 2>If somebody told.

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<v Speaker 1>You that they could not hang out with you, said

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<v Speaker 1>weekend because it was their sister's birthday and their girlfriends

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<v Speaker 1>moving in, why would you invite said person to come

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<v Speaker 1>to your house when they said they were busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you didn't know my hours.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't do anything Saturday because I was down in Newport,

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<v Speaker 3>But Sunday it could have been like, hey, not sure

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<v Speaker 3>if what time y'all finish today, but we are having

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<v Speaker 3>people over and grilling. You know, when you know when

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<v Speaker 3>you get the most defensive is when you know other

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<v Speaker 3>person's right.

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<v Speaker 5>You're right about about that. That's when you get most defensive. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>you know you're in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Tanya gets the most you know I'm right because you

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<v Speaker 2>all know that I am right here.

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<v Speaker 1>You all know that deep down you Oh, you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to stir the pickle here, you're all trying to stir

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<v Speaker 1>pickles ever, like literally, ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Physically mentally or emotionally.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I had someone in my question box ask like, do

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<v Speaker 3>you ever miss men? I just was like no, like

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<v Speaker 3>that was my answer, and everyone was like, this answer

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<v Speaker 3>is so good.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just matter of fact.

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<v Speaker 1>It's such a random question, Like it's such a weird

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<v Speaker 1>question because it's like, even when you're in any sort

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<v Speaker 1>of relationship, it's like, do you ever miss more men?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean? The other?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, it's like, yeah, you's just with one person.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the whole that's the whole thing about monogamy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're just like person like, no matter who you're dating,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't miss any other like either sex. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was funny though.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think straight women miss men.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so many people will be like, I'm married

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<v Speaker 3>to a man, and I agree with this.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't miss men because my family's all women and

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<v Speaker 5>I work with all women, and I'm delighted. It's fine.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it's heaven on earth. It really is utopia.

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<v Speaker 1>Men are talent men What men are great?

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<v Speaker 2>They are great? There are great, There are great.

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<v Speaker 6>Men are reaching high things, lifting heavy objects, stops.

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<v Speaker 3>There are like smoke alone. Our alarm battery is uh

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<v Speaker 3>needs to be replaced, and the one that needs to

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<v Speaker 3>be replaces in my vaulted ceiling, and so my ladder

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<v Speaker 3>isn't tall enough, and so I don't have a big

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<v Speaker 3>giant ladder because I haven't really had use for one.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to order one on Instagram Christmas lights. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but my I could reach this is like.

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<v Speaker 3>On the tallest part of my ceiling. And so I

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<v Speaker 3>was on the phone with Ali and she heard it

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<v Speaker 3>like beeping in the background. I was like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so annoyed. I need a ladder, and her carson her

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<v Speaker 3>pounces like, you need a man, and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Need a ladder. I'm just I don't need a man.

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<v Speaker 2>Or like task rabbit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, taskrab it can do anything.

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<v Speaker 2>From now that Haley's moved in, I'm like, okay, handle it.

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<v Speaker 2>You live here now, so handle the task grabbit. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you know, it's interesting the dividing up of

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<v Speaker 1>the chores.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's been like on me, and I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you can do it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your house. She's moving in, I know, but still.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but if you have like a landlord, I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I am the landlord.

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<v Speaker 2>I am her landlord. Yeah, that's right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So it feels really good that we live together because

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<v Speaker 3>it was just time big day, big day chaos, because

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<v Speaker 3>it's a very rush. Situation wasn't what we planned, but

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<v Speaker 3>she had to get out of her place and we

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<v Speaker 3>were like, let's just do it now, and it's so

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<v Speaker 3>it's such a relief to be in one spot. But

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<v Speaker 3>I will say having all of her, like, I felt

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<v Speaker 3>bad because she had to kind of purge a lot

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<v Speaker 3>because she's moving into my place that's already furnished and

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have time to make the room. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>an absolute disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>In my home right now. But it's okay, Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just fine. It's all fine. You when you sell like me,

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<v Speaker 2>you just say it's fine, we'll handle it.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe this is time for you to purge as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I am Thursday, have a professional coming to help me. Nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice, But speaking of homes that are not chaos, Easton

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<v Speaker 3>had his historic home tour over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we live in a nineteen eleven Craftsman in Minneruvia, California,

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<v Speaker 6>and every year they do this home tour where they

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<v Speaker 6>invite people who have historic homes to like it's like

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<v Speaker 6>an open house, Like you can buy a ticket and

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<v Speaker 6>go through everybody's house.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get the money?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 6>We don't get the money the game.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you get to say yes or no? Or is

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<v Speaker 2>it like yeah, you know you can Like.

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<v Speaker 6>They just like knock on historic homes and go like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>do you want to do this and they can say

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<v Speaker 6>no or OK. So like four of their houses on

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<v Speaker 6>our street did it, and it was really fun because

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<v Speaker 6>I like know my neighbors. I'd never been to their

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<v Speaker 6>house before, so that was only fun to like snoop around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would like that.

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<v Speaker 6>We had five hundred people come through our house. Oh

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<v Speaker 6>my god, it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You had out like treats and stuff they did.

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<v Speaker 2>We did.

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<v Speaker 6>We did people usually don't. We had a big bowl

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<v Speaker 6>of Halloween candy, you know, purchased recently, but yeah, we

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<v Speaker 6>want people sign our guest books. We're like, oh, have

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<v Speaker 6>some candy, sign our guest book. And most of the

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<v Speaker 6>comments on the guest book were like, thanks for the candy,

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<v Speaker 6>great bowl that. I thought that was funny. I put

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<v Speaker 6>out my sound effect machine from Dana Station, which has

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<v Speaker 6>tiny saying it's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh nice.

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<v Speaker 6>We had a scrubber come by that I met. Her

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<v Speaker 6>name is Her name is also Tanya. She took a

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<v Speaker 6>picture with the People's Choice of war. That was really fun. Wow,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was a great time. A great time was

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<v Speaker 6>had by all. I didn't feel violated at all. Have

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<v Speaker 6>that many people strangers in my house?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's interesting because I was thinking, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>that I would ever do this, And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>is this mandatory if they move into this neighborhood that they.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to have a tour be a part of it?

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<v Speaker 2>To probably do it? I want it. Yeah you would.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I would. It's fun. I'm so paranoy No.

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<v Speaker 6>No, yeah, it was really fun. Something I really liked

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<v Speaker 6>is the other houses on the street were the youngest

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<v Speaker 6>people on the street, like by several decades, and all

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<v Speaker 6>the other houses they dress it up like period appropriate,

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<v Speaker 6>like they have like, you know, a phonograph going and.

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<v Speaker 5>Stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 6>I realized in my office I have a lot of

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<v Speaker 6>EM and M stuff, like Becky got me this like

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<v Speaker 6>Eminem Dispenser of like them sitting in movie theater chairs.

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<v Speaker 6>I have like a picture of doctor phil is.

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<v Speaker 5>An M and M.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm like, people are going through here going, what's.

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<v Speaker 5>This guy's deal?

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<v Speaker 6>They said he worked at a radio station and he

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<v Speaker 6>just loves EM and ms.

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<v Speaker 2>Fetish.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's a deep love, a deep and passionate love.

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<v Speaker 5>It but it was.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a really great time, and I hope we

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<v Speaker 6>get invited to do it again someday.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you will.

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<v Speaker 3>It looked it looked really cue and if I loved closer,

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<v Speaker 3>I would have come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you very much, Andy recently purchased.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it was easter candy. It was like fun science,

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<v Speaker 6>snickers bars and around.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all year round. I heard you. You mentioned in

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<v Speaker 2>our group chat that you did a speech fast over

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<v Speaker 2>the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we can chat about that, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we should talk about your weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a fun weekend, but it was very busy.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we should all speech fast until we come

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<v Speaker 5>back from this.

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<v Speaker 4>My gosh bad Joe b r B. All right, speech

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<v Speaker 4>fast is over, just like that. Yeah, as I think

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<v Speaker 4>it was just as quick for you over.

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<v Speaker 2>The week much how long it lasted?

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<v Speaker 1>So I read somewhere that's where I don't know KTLA

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, honestly, it was on KTLA and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like speech fasting, and so I was like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like reading up on the benefits and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like brain fog focus all these things that I want

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<v Speaker 1>more of and so I was like, you want more

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<v Speaker 1>brain fag No, sorry sorry, like more focus less brain

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<v Speaker 1>frogs and all that stuff. And so I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're supposed to not talk till noon, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do that Monday through Friday, but on the

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<v Speaker 1>weekends I can do it. And uh, it's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>harder than I thought. I realized it's like more, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't just do it cold turkey like till noon. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to ease my way in because I made it

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<v Speaker 1>an hour on Saturday and about an hour and forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes on Sunday. But I realized that it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>because you can't really make a plan not speaking, so

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<v Speaker 1>like it's like Saturday, we had to like talk about

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<v Speaker 1>our plans for the day, figure out logistics, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not speaking, I'm like typing everything into the notes page,

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<v Speaker 1>like Robbie's talking back to me.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was like really hard. Why couldn't y'all text?

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<v Speaker 1>Because when I wouldn't, I keep my phone away from

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<v Speaker 1>me when I sleep, so my phone was not near me,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was just his phone, so I'd grab his

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<v Speaker 1>phone type it in his notes page and he would

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<v Speaker 1>just respond to me. So that's how we would communicate

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<v Speaker 1>for the first hour, and it was brutal. He loved

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<v Speaker 1>it and he was like, this is.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an interesting takeaway from the siting test that he

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<v Speaker 2>loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, like I almost like he was like more

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, he was like, oh the mystery. Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, I went. I wouldn't even say

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<v Speaker 2>it was a date. But Nile DeMarco, he is a model,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, he was in.

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<v Speaker 1>No never mind.

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<v Speaker 2>He I think one day Stars.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways, he was on Dancing with the Stars and I

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<v Speaker 3>had met him at a Dodgers game and he invited

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<v Speaker 3>me to sit in his section like with his friends

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<v Speaker 3>and family to watch him perform at Dance with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went and then afterwards we went to this

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<v Speaker 3>bar like where everyone went after the filming, and he

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<v Speaker 3>and I were communicating via phone like notes, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I literally downloaded the sign language

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<v Speaker 3>app because I was like, I want I would love

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<v Speaker 3>to learn sign language, like it's on my bucket list.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it would be so cool to learn. But

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<v Speaker 3>it is really hard to communicate.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew for.

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<v Speaker 3>Both of us to do that, so I especially the

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<v Speaker 3>it was like such a complicated thing because I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to get to know him so badly, and I felt

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<v Speaker 3>bad that he was able to like read my lips

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<v Speaker 3>and understand me, but I couldn't do the same for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I understand the challenge it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a challenge, but it was a choice. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a choice. And I'm gonna try again next weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but I'm gonna try and do two hours, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not just gonna go till noon. I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try and gradually keep you know. And then I think

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna do is the night before I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>set the plans for the next day.

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<v Speaker 5>That smart, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just be pro active with the day instead of reactive,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what I want to be in general. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think next weekend we'll be better. Although it's Mother's

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<v Speaker 1>Day and.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's gonna try Saturday to see what Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I could do this so easily.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, no, coup, I don't need to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>anyone for a few hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Twelve would be here before you know, of.

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<v Speaker 1>Course, how are you supposed to say, like how'd you sleep?

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<v Speaker 1>When did you wake up?

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<v Speaker 5>That's urgent?

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<v Speaker 2>When did you get up to go to the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, I don't think I am and like yearning

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<v Speaker 2>for those answers that I wake up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that's all I can think about.

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<v Speaker 6>What's normally the first thing you say, Becca when you

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<v Speaker 6>wake up? Like if you're you're alone, Haley's not there,

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<v Speaker 6>If Haley's there, yeah, Like, what's the like do you

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<v Speaker 6>sing to Phoebe? Like, what's the first thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. I couldn't say hello more good morning

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<v Speaker 1>to Sunny. And that broke my heart too, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that was a sad Instagram.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry I saw you. She was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Nuzzled in there and.

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<v Speaker 6>She has no idea what I want to say morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was probably so upset it was stressful. Honestly. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get an update on round two. Yeah next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Next week, stay tuned, stay tunes for the day. Tune. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's get back to your weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So my weekend, so Saturday yesterday on the fifth,

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<v Speaker 3>and go to Maya was my sister Caroline's birthday, and

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<v Speaker 3>then she celebrated on the fourth, and so we drove

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<v Speaker 3>down to Newport.

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<v Speaker 2>The fourth be with You made the fourth be.

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<v Speaker 6>With you and with you, with you.

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<v Speaker 2>And you and you, and so we drove down and

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted everyone to wear wigs, and so I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go as Cline.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have to be in a certain like energy

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<v Speaker 3>to be Cline. And I knew that if I came

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<v Speaker 3>down there halfway through the day, I'd start feeling just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel so gross, and he doesn't make me feel

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<v Speaker 3>calm by any means, right, And I have to be

0:21:01.920 --> 0:21:04.399
<v Speaker 3>in the spirit of Clein to really commit. So I

0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:06.919
<v Speaker 3>wasn't there, but I had my Daphne wig from a

0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:08.879
<v Speaker 3>couple halloweens ago, so I just put that on with

0:21:08.920 --> 0:21:11.760
<v Speaker 3>a cowboy hat. Well, Haley finds this random wig we

0:21:11.840 --> 0:21:14.480
<v Speaker 3>still don't know where it came from, sick, and she

0:21:14.600 --> 0:21:17.760
<v Speaker 3>put it on, and like halfway through the kickball game

0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:20.000
<v Speaker 3>when we got there, she was like, I need to

0:21:20.000 --> 0:21:20.480
<v Speaker 3>take this off.

0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I feel terrible about myself, I don't feel cute, I'm

0:21:24.080 --> 0:21:26.879
<v Speaker 2>getting insecure, and I'm like, take it off. Your fine.

0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:29.560
<v Speaker 3>But the best part is I showed up and they

0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:32.240
<v Speaker 3>were already playing kickball, and I'll be honest, I'm not

0:21:32.280 --> 0:21:35.040
<v Speaker 3>a big kickball person, and so we were a little

0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:37.080
<v Speaker 3>bit late and I thought like, oh, maybe I've missed

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:38.760
<v Speaker 3>the kickball game. And I get there and they're like,

0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:41.119
<v Speaker 3>you're just in time. We need someone on this team,

0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:43.520
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, all right, here we go. And

0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:45.200
<v Speaker 3>the rule was that you had to be holding a

0:21:45.280 --> 0:21:46.960
<v Speaker 3>drink like it could be water, could be anything, but

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.040
<v Speaker 3>you had to be holding a drink in the field.

0:21:49.640 --> 0:21:52.639
<v Speaker 3>And so they were playing with this extra big kickball,

0:21:52.680 --> 0:21:53.600
<v Speaker 3>like you you.

0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:56.359
<v Speaker 2>Know, the standard sized kickball. It was like that but huge.

0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:59.800
<v Speaker 2>So the first play I get out there, that kick

0:21:59.840 --> 0:22:00.240
<v Speaker 2>it it.

0:22:00.200 --> 0:22:02.040
<v Speaker 7>Comes to me and I'm like I got it and

0:22:02.080 --> 0:22:06.119
<v Speaker 7>I'm holding my drink and it hits me and takes

0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:11.159
<v Speaker 7>off my wing hat and glasses, and I was like, damn,

0:22:13.040 --> 0:22:15.400
<v Speaker 7>that was the most unathletic thing I've ever done.

0:22:16.200 --> 0:22:17.080
<v Speaker 2>Arden happened.

0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:20.119
<v Speaker 3>Someone got a live photo of it, so it was

0:22:20.160 --> 0:22:22.240
<v Speaker 3>a photo, but when they press play, it was the

0:22:22.280 --> 0:22:24.800
<v Speaker 3>whole beginning in the face. So it was a real

0:22:24.840 --> 0:22:28.040
<v Speaker 3>treasure we got. And then we just played games. That

0:22:28.119 --> 0:22:30.240
<v Speaker 3>was so sore the next day, like spike ball, they're

0:22:30.400 --> 0:22:33.720
<v Speaker 3>very active and athletic and their friends are so fun

0:22:33.880 --> 0:22:36.120
<v Speaker 3>but also very active in athletics.

0:22:36.119 --> 0:22:40.120
<v Speaker 2>So they have you youth. Yeah. Shoot, I was like, dang,

0:22:40.200 --> 0:22:44.160
<v Speaker 2>I really feel my age, especially with alcohol. Doing any

0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:47.160
<v Speaker 2>sort of activity drunk is like I didn't really drink

0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:50.200
<v Speaker 2>a lot. Yeah, it was sober. The hit to the phase,

0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:54.159
<v Speaker 2>I really thought. Yeah, And so that was really fun.

0:22:54.280 --> 0:22:57.640
<v Speaker 2>And then yesterday we moved all the rest.

0:22:57.720 --> 0:22:59.240
<v Speaker 3>Haley had moved a lot of her stuff in with

0:22:59.280 --> 0:23:01.879
<v Speaker 3>me already, but we did like the final the final

0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 3>move with like everything.

0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:05.760
<v Speaker 2>So now there's like no time apart. You guys just

0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:06.359
<v Speaker 2>live together.

0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:08.639
<v Speaker 3>Well I mean except for when she leaves me for work,

0:23:08.680 --> 0:23:13.119
<v Speaker 3>but yeah, but we hated that. Anyways, we never didn't

0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:15.720
<v Speaker 3>stay together, so it's just a depending on where we stayed.

0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:17.879
<v Speaker 3>Right now, we don't have to I don't have to

0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:19.960
<v Speaker 3>pack up Phoebe and drive to her place, which I'm

0:23:20.040 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 3>so excited about.

0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:21.159
<v Speaker 4>I know.

0:23:21.200 --> 0:23:24.879
<v Speaker 1>No, we're packing up Phoebe's food, Phoebe's dishes, everything's in

0:23:25.080 --> 0:23:26.000
<v Speaker 1>one place.

0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 3>She's come when she said I'm coming home, it's to

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:30.000
<v Speaker 3>one place.

0:23:30.400 --> 0:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>So coming home I know.

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:35.720
<v Speaker 5>A major step, I know.

0:23:35.760 --> 0:23:38.760
<v Speaker 3>I guess I've always thought because we have never stayed

0:23:38.800 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 3>a night apart for as long as I can remember,

0:23:41.359 --> 0:23:44.800
<v Speaker 3>and like we've just coexisted in two different places, like

0:23:44.840 --> 0:23:46.479
<v Speaker 3>we'd stay at her place for a week and then

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:47.440
<v Speaker 3>be at my place for a week.

0:23:47.440 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 2>So I've always felt like we lived together. But this

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:53.679
<v Speaker 2>is like, I guess, the final move of living together.

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's it's actually living together versus like living together.

0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:03.880
<v Speaker 1>It's me yeah together, there's a difference.

0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:06.600
<v Speaker 3>There is, and so we have taken that step and

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:09.080
<v Speaker 3>it's so cool because it's like my parents came out,

0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 3>my dad met Haley, and it felt like it was

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 3>like this natural move into like future.

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:20.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you know, yeah, yes, speaking of future, I was

0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 2>not looking for the two of you our future looking great.

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:24.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah great.

0:24:24.720 --> 0:24:26.640
<v Speaker 5>It's fun if you're both engaged at the same time.

0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:27.520
<v Speaker 5>How fun was that?

0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:30.240
<v Speaker 2>It could happen depending on how long time it takes

0:24:30.240 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 2>a plan or wedding.

0:24:32.320 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be married within the year okay, year

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:35.840
<v Speaker 1>from now?

0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:37.359
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so within yeah.

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:40.600
<v Speaker 5>For sure before May five. You will be married.

0:24:40.400 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Before June of twenty twenty five, so that's.

0:24:43.200 --> 0:24:44.840
<v Speaker 5>Not within any year by anything.

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:50.639
<v Speaker 1>Little change here in the little yeah eighteen months, yeah, correct, No,

0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:54.840
<v Speaker 1>twelve thirteen by for June sixth, twenty twenty four.

0:24:54.880 --> 0:24:56.679
<v Speaker 5>You will be married? Correct? All right, you heard it

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:58.320
<v Speaker 5>your first Scrubbers, you've.

0:24:58.119 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 2>Heard it here. First.

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 3>You did get a lit anxiety listening to the Vile

0:25:02.880 --> 0:25:06.760
<v Speaker 3>Files recap of Nick and Natalie's wedding, the wedding recap.

0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 2>But what stressed you out so much? Her hairdresser situation.

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:11.560
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:25:13.240 --> 0:25:16.800
<v Speaker 1>I for those that don't know, Nick Vial was on

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:19.440
<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor, he was the Bachelor.

0:25:19.520 --> 0:25:20.400
<v Speaker 2>He was the Bachelor.

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:24.000
<v Speaker 1>He has a child with Natalie Joy and they just

0:25:24.000 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 1>got uh, they just got married.

0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:27.640
<v Speaker 5>He was from Wisconsin, yes, and.

0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 1>They got married in uh, Savannah, and they do a

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 1>podcast together. And uh, she was telling this story about

0:25:35.560 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>her hairstylist. Basically, I don't even I don't want to

0:25:38.880 --> 0:25:41.040
<v Speaker 1>rehash it. But it was just a nightmare situation with

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:41.880
<v Speaker 1>her hairstylist.

0:25:41.920 --> 0:25:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Well, he was a friend, so he was like also

0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:45.480
<v Speaker 3>kind of a guest, but she had hired him to

0:25:45.480 --> 0:25:48.479
<v Speaker 3>do her hair and he just was like showed up,

0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 3>very unprofessional.

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:51.680
<v Speaker 1>Try to like make it a business deal, like got

0:25:51.680 --> 0:25:54.879
<v Speaker 1>these like brand deals for the wedding, and that she

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.479
<v Speaker 1>didn't sign off on, which is already like weird and

0:25:57.560 --> 0:26:00.920
<v Speaker 1>shady and then like, yeah, wanted to be a guest

0:26:00.960 --> 0:26:03.359
<v Speaker 1>and ended up like not being there to do her

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:05.600
<v Speaker 1>hair transition from one look to the other.

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:10.359
<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, that sucks. But I had

0:26:10.480 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 2>to give a shot.

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:11.280
<v Speaker 5>Suck.

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 3>That sucks, and you can't predict it, you can't prepare

0:26:13.560 --> 0:26:15.320
<v Speaker 3>for it. So it's like you're just you just have

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:17.879
<v Speaker 3>to go with the flow and figure it out. And

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:22.679
<v Speaker 3>she had Lindsay's avits to her hair, who we love Lindy,

0:26:23.680 --> 0:26:27.119
<v Speaker 3>and if I trust it, Like if I had a

0:26:27.119 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 3>makeup artist like Lindsay, I would feel like, Okay, we're

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:32.400
<v Speaker 3>gonna salvage this because she is so like, we'll figure

0:26:32.400 --> 0:26:32.760
<v Speaker 3>it out.

0:26:32.640 --> 0:26:34.560
<v Speaker 1>And her hair looked so great. I don't have Lindsay.

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Girl, you're gonna do my hair out, my makeup next time.

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 2>You got the skills, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:42.480
<v Speaker 3>So she she did have the perfect makeup artist to

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 3>save the day.

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:44.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she did.

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:45.240
<v Speaker 1>But it's like all those things.

0:26:45.240 --> 0:26:48.639
<v Speaker 3>It's like again, the control of perfectionism you don't have.

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I would be like, shout out to you, Natalie Joy,

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:54.000
<v Speaker 1>because I would be on the floor.

0:26:55.960 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 2>Position. I feel like Tony, let's get up, get it together.

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Well, like I have you because you could do my hair,

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I could.

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Do your hair, yeah, and a pinch and a pinch

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:06.000
<v Speaker 2>and a pinch.

0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:08.000
<v Speaker 1>You'd be in there with at But also.

0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I imagine you would have tawny to your hair and

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:11.400
<v Speaker 3>she would never do that to you.

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, could you imagine?

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm just like, you can't hire your friends.

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I think in those situations, I think it's better to.

0:27:18.240 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 2>Have like No, I think you should be able to

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:23.440
<v Speaker 2>hire your friends. And according to Natalie Joy, she's got

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 2>me rethinking some things.

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:30.720
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I got a really cool offer to do something,

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 3>and I'm it's just timing isn't right with when I'm

0:27:33.880 --> 0:27:34.680
<v Speaker 3>going to be out of town?

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:36.520
<v Speaker 2>What don't tell me?

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Which I guess Yeah, okay, but I need a little

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 1>more information than I got a really cool offer.

0:27:42.880 --> 0:27:46.280
<v Speaker 2>It's to go out of the country with a brand.

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Mm I guess it's a brand, a network, a television network. Sure,

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 2>a TV show? Sure you got a TV show?

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 5>Wow? Wow?

0:27:56.800 --> 0:27:58.159
<v Speaker 2>Well no, it's hold on.

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 3>It's an offer, so it's it's based around a TV show,

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:04.400
<v Speaker 3>not me going on a TV show.

0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Amazing Race, no Survivor, No Love, Island.

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:08.960
<v Speaker 5>No Traders.

0:28:09.280 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:28:09.840 --> 0:28:10.320
<v Speaker 5>Wow.

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.479
<v Speaker 3>So I got invited to go to the Trader's mansion

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 3>in Scotland.

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 2>I will not be on it.

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:21.880
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:28:24.800 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 2>I was like, You're gonna turn that down.

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:30.440
<v Speaker 3>Girl, No, But I was thinking, like me turning this down?

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:32.920
<v Speaker 3>Is this just like a bad look if I.

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 2>Were what is it on peacock? Did peacock and bite

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 2>you out? Yeah?

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 3>So they were going to fly me out to Scotland,

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 3>go to the mansion, spend days and just be able

0:28:41.640 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 3>to do like content and stuff from there from the mansion.

0:28:44.520 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 3>But it would be the day after I get back

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 3>from Ali's wedding in Majorca, and I just that would

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 3>be three weeks away from home.

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 2>They fly you from Majorca.

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 3>To the but then I'd be away from Phoebe for

0:28:56.640 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 3>it just feels like a lot, I know. But I

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 3>already turned it down.

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:04.640
<v Speaker 3>I was like, also, I feel like I think if

0:29:04.680 --> 0:29:06.280
<v Speaker 3>I was going with someone like you or like I

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 3>had a friend with me that was like a diehard fan.

0:29:10.160 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 2>I almost was like, can y'all take Tanya Raud? She

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 2>would in my place. She would thrive. I would thrive.

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I just finished New Zealand. Yeah, Traders.

0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 1>So now I've watched all of USA, UK, Australia and

0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 1>New Zealand.

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 5>Look at that.

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 2>I really committed to the show. I have that I'm in.

0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm in, and I'm like now that I've watched them

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>all like feeding for the next season.

0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I can't be so like want mot about it,

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:46.240
<v Speaker 3>never sharing anything with y'all again.

0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:50.479
<v Speaker 1>Well, to get on the show, Well, it was the setup.

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 5>It sounds like you've been offered your own television show,

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:53.400
<v Speaker 5>and then we went.

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't going to that. I will.

0:29:58.120 --> 0:29:59.120
<v Speaker 1>On Traders.

0:29:59.520 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 4>See.

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 6>I thought she was being offered to advertise a peacock app,

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 6>which is what it was. That's what I was expecting.

0:30:06.320 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 6>I was still disappointed though, Sorry done.

0:30:10.480 --> 0:30:17.480
<v Speaker 2>I can believe that I know. Anyways, I won't be

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:20.600
<v Speaker 2>sharing big life updates with the all anymore. Definitely not

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 2>telling you if I get an actual offer to reality show,

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna ghost you all. No, if you if

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:26.800
<v Speaker 2>you get asked.

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>To go on Traders, you have to be the first

0:30:28.520 --> 0:30:28.960
<v Speaker 1>phone call.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 2>We'll see. We'll see if I get an invite to

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 2>the next grill.

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:40.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, the met Gala is happening tonight.

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.560
<v Speaker 5>They're on the red carpet as we speak.

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Have we seen anybody? Okay, anyone else?

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 5>It's just by the way I clicked, I was like, oh,

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 5>what's he? Whereing? I textedo, I'm very excited.

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, here's my question.

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 3>You get invited to the met gala, they tell you,

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:57.640
<v Speaker 3>and I'm sure they tell them when to show up.

0:30:57.640 --> 0:30:59.240
<v Speaker 3>But let's say you have a choice of one to

0:30:59.240 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 3>show up. Are you going carpet opens, you're on the carpet,

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:05.200
<v Speaker 3>are you waiting mid or you are you gonna.

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Try and be the finale. I'm gonna try and go first.

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 2>I know, Yeah, I know you're.

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 6>You're going to go first to Yeah, I want to

0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 6>hit the snack bar before it starts.

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my last is also rushed and like stressful.

0:31:16.120 --> 0:31:18.920
<v Speaker 5>If it's me first, but if I'm like if I'm

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 5>bad Bunny laught like, it depends on who I am.

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 2>And know you're Kim Kardashian, You're bad Bunny. Your tailors left?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, then you go last? You are? I think you're

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 5>in the proper order of your place.

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<v Speaker 2>In the celebrity Yeah. Interesting, I'm going middle, no matter

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<v Speaker 2>who you are, no.

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<v Speaker 3>Matter who I am, I'm requesting mid I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to be first and I don't want to be last.

0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:43.760
<v Speaker 3>I want to have time to like feel settled once

0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:47.040
<v Speaker 3>I get in there and like figure my see my surroundings,

0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:49.000
<v Speaker 3>and like talk to people in socialize.

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:49.960
<v Speaker 5>What the whole thing is. You can spend the whole

0:31:50.000 --> 0:31:50.600
<v Speaker 5>night getting.

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 2>Your telling what happens in there.

0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:54.600
<v Speaker 5>I don't know, right, like Easton wants to hit the

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 5>snack bar before what Yeah, the party stand around and

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 5>talk to each other, right, I want?

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<v Speaker 3>But the rumors that Taylor Swift is going tonight, So

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 3>will she be going with Travis Kelsey? Will she be

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<v Speaker 3>going period?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they're going either one of them.

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 2>Why because I just have a hunch there's no no the.

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<v Speaker 1>Ground. Yeah no. TMZ reported like back in March that

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>they will, that they got invited separately, but they're not

0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 1>attending because she's getting ready for her European leg and Travis.

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember why. Travis's reason was, I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Going to keep refreshing in my social media and I'll

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 5>let you know if I get anything on.

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 3>Taylor preparing for her European Like she it's a few

0:32:40.160 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 3>hours out of her day. She goes makes a huge

0:32:42.760 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 3>splash right before her European leg starts gets people going

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:47.960
<v Speaker 3>again about I think.

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 1>It's to rest. My gosh, she just shut eye, maybe

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:54.520
<v Speaker 1>a little eyemask.

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:57.160
<v Speaker 2>No, she'll rest on the jets. She'll get a little ivy,

0:32:57.720 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 2>be back to good.

0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 1>We'll see I I love the Gala.

0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 5>Oh I'm with you by the way, I'm convinced Daddy

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 5>I Love Him and I can do it with a

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 5>broken heart are both going to be monster smash hits.

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:16.280
<v Speaker 3>Daddy I Love Him is so good, really good, still

0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 3>the favorite, so good. I just I really listened to

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.920
<v Speaker 3>the lyrics of Guilty as Sin and wow, that's a

0:33:23.000 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 3>vulnerable track, vulnerable admissions.

0:33:26.200 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not one of my favorites.

0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:30.320
<v Speaker 5>Oh, you guys got to live with them, though, I

0:33:30.440 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 5>swear all of these songs. You just live with them

0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 5>for a couple of days and they're your favorite song.

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:34.920
<v Speaker 5>You think so I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still first half of the album though.

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the Tortured post apartment, the title track is slowly

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>creeping up to like.

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 2>Top two for me, honestly, whoa wow. Yeah, the Charlie

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Pooth shot out really got me. You know, are you're

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 2>a loyal Charlie poother.

0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I do agree that I can do with the

0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 6>Broken Heart's gonna be huge smash. And I have a

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:53.880
<v Speaker 6>little piece of data for you. Fortnite had the biggest

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 6>rise on American top forties since twenty seventeen. Wow, it

0:33:57.560 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 6>leaves twenty spots. Isn't that crazy?

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:01.160
<v Speaker 5>That's crazy?

0:34:01.400 --> 0:34:04.480
<v Speaker 6>Meanwhile, Selfish by Justin Himber like falls twenty spots.

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I seems like that was JT the big comeback.

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Wait, have I told you all my theory that I

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:14.839
<v Speaker 3>think that post Malone looks like Matty Heally in.

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 2>The video talked about this, No, I have picture proof.

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 3>Just wait, just wait, because him without his tattoos, they

0:34:22.920 --> 0:34:24.799
<v Speaker 3>have the same kind of shaped eyes.

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so here he is. I can honestly already kind

0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:32.719
<v Speaker 2>of see the comparison. I can post post with you

0:34:33.719 --> 0:34:36.520
<v Speaker 2>and then look at Matt Matty Heally in this.

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 5>I love that you have those ready to black and white.

0:34:41.320 --> 0:34:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Do y'all not see the similarities? Yeah? Sure, because like,

0:34:44.880 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 2>why else did you remove his tats?

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Why else would she pick post malone.

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 2>Because he kind of looks like because he's amazing.

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:56.000
<v Speaker 1>But well, I know, yeah, but I mean when you

0:34:56.080 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 1>have that look alike doppelganger your disposal, Yeah.

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:04.040
<v Speaker 2>A talented lookalike.

0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:04.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:05.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:09.439
<v Speaker 3>I also had this realization that she probably was really

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 3>upset with the Swifties for sabotaging her relationship with Mattie.

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I was shocked to learn that they had been

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:19.759
<v Speaker 2>dating for like ten years. They haven't been dating, but

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 2>she had a relationship.

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:23.760
<v Speaker 1>But before there was Joe, there was Mattie Healy.

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 3>I know, but there was a history years in between them.

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's history. There's a ten year history.

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:34.000
<v Speaker 3>There's probably always been the guy that she was like

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:36.719
<v Speaker 3>trying to get and it was like the challenge. He

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:40.759
<v Speaker 3>would like give her hope and then ghost her, and

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:42.759
<v Speaker 3>then she finally had him, and then all of us

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:46.879
<v Speaker 3>were like, oh.

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 2>And then she's like a daddy.

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Guys that Swifties, I love him, And we were like, no,

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>you can do better. Yeah.

0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I had that realization, was like, dang, should

0:35:54.520 --> 0:35:55.279
<v Speaker 2>we go bad about that?

0:35:56.360 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 1>I think she's good now?

0:35:57.320 --> 0:36:02.879
<v Speaker 3>Okay, speaking of good now, speaking of thinking about past relationships,

0:36:03.960 --> 0:36:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Chris Lane posted.

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:10.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I can sorry. I had a BlackBerry seed in

0:36:10.480 --> 0:36:12.160
<v Speaker 1>my tooth and it was driving me.

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:13.959
<v Speaker 2>Nuts and I finally got it.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Uh, this has been blowing my mind for the

0:36:19.600 --> 0:36:23.920
<v Speaker 1>past however, long set it up for the people. Okay,

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:27.839
<v Speaker 1>if you don't know the players in the game, I'm

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna just I'm just gonna give it to you as

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:36.839
<v Speaker 1>like a Oh, let's use me as an example. I'm

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:37.760
<v Speaker 1>engaged to be married.

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 5>Yes, nine months.

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I am engaged. So this is like me and

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>my fyance Robbie and Robbie going to an iHeart show.

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Let's say for the very first time, I'm meeting Harry Styles.

0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:57.720
<v Speaker 5>Oh, triggering, this has happened.

0:36:57.960 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cut to I end my engagement. This is actually

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 1>really I don't like the way that I'm sayings, but whatever,

0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:08.680
<v Speaker 1>we're here. I end my engagement and I end up

0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 1>marrying Harry Styles. Yes, that is what happened in this situation,

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>right with Lauren Lane, Chris Lane, her now husband, and

0:37:18.040 --> 0:37:19.399
<v Speaker 1>Ben Higgins who.

0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:21.479
<v Speaker 2>Ben Higgins is now married to somebody else.

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's fine, everybody's happy, and everybody has moved on. Also

0:37:27.360 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>a right, right, Christina Aguilera. But the whole posting of

0:37:35.520 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 1>it was so bizarre to me.

0:37:38.080 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 2>So basically he's through.

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:42.440
<v Speaker 3>He was like, this was however, many years ago, is

0:37:42.480 --> 0:37:44.960
<v Speaker 3>the night I met my future wife, and he has

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 3>pictures of them all Lauren Chris, Lauren's ex fiance, Ben Higgins,

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:52.799
<v Speaker 3>and then Tom Pullman, who's from my heart, and so

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 3>he's like, it was so great catching up all these

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:58.760
<v Speaker 3>years later with now my now wife Lauren, you know whatever,

0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:03.120
<v Speaker 3>and they're picture documentation of them however many years ago

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:07.080
<v Speaker 3>and they they met and then now yeah, and then

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:10.600
<v Speaker 3>Ben Higgins commented on it. I had big, big plans

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:13.120
<v Speaker 3>for the two of you. Life works out exactly as.

0:38:12.960 --> 0:38:21.920
<v Speaker 2>It should, my man, yeah, Ben Higgins, Yeah, And.

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:24.279
<v Speaker 3>It was just so interesting as I was like, no,

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:27.480
<v Speaker 3>that's such an unhingedbold.

0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 1>So too, because I'm like, even if like I'm not

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:33.840
<v Speaker 1>saying anything, there was no funny business going on, Like

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:37.440
<v Speaker 1>they could have obviously met there and didn't have any

0:38:37.560 --> 0:38:40.280
<v Speaker 1>romantic relationships for years, it's still like, no.

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:42.799
<v Speaker 3>I totally believe that because Lauren dated someone in between them,

0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:45.880
<v Speaker 3>so I don't think there was anything right, okay romantic.

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:49.319
<v Speaker 1>But like the fact that he fiance is a part

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>of that moment just felt so.

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:54.319
<v Speaker 2>So there's something really kind of funny about it that

0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 2>it's been too just like poor Ben right, Like I was.

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:01.279
<v Speaker 5>Just like, oh, It's like if when Brad Pitt was

0:39:01.320 --> 0:39:03.479
<v Speaker 5>married Angelina and he posted a picture and saying, here's

0:39:03.480 --> 0:39:04.960
<v Speaker 5>the night I met my wife and he was right

0:39:05.080 --> 0:39:06.200
<v Speaker 5>next to Jennifer at the time.

0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 2>Much better.

0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 5>Robbie and Christina. I mean, I'm kind of sure at

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 5>this point.

0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:20.480
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it was crazy. I was like, this is

0:39:20.600 --> 0:39:24.800
<v Speaker 2>so wild, so wild. I had the same thought.

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:29.000
<v Speaker 3>But everyone is happy and moved on from that situation.

0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 3>It was just an unexpected throwback.

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unexpected for sure. Do we want to do an email?

0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:37.319
<v Speaker 5>Oh, we haven't done an email at a bit. I feel

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 5>like we have.

0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 2>We haven't not, Okay, it's an email. Should we take

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:41.919
<v Speaker 2>a break.

0:39:42.239 --> 0:39:44.080
<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, We'll be right asked.

0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 2>All right, we are back and we have an email

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:08.359
<v Speaker 2>from Marisa Mark take it away, all right, Becka, thank

0:40:08.400 --> 0:40:09.120
<v Speaker 2>you very much.

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:12.359
<v Speaker 5>Scrubbing in squad. Longtime listener. I'll look forward every week

0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 5>to catching up with the gang during walks and car

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:16.799
<v Speaker 5>rides or cleaning the house. Remember that bit we used

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:18.279
<v Speaker 5>to do and what are you doing while you're listening?

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 5>And I used to read off all that what they're

0:40:19.640 --> 0:40:24.840
<v Speaker 5>doing while they're listening? Yeah, yeah, flash back. Anyway, I

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:26.520
<v Speaker 5>need some advice. I have a few friends that I

0:40:26.560 --> 0:40:29.080
<v Speaker 5>feel like ghosting, and I feel guilty about it. I

0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:31.359
<v Speaker 5>currently have an almost two year old and I'm due

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:34.320
<v Speaker 5>any day with my second. Spending time with my kids,

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:36.520
<v Speaker 5>my family, quality time with my husband, and some me

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:39.439
<v Speaker 5>time has been enough of a juggle. I don't feel

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 5>like I've got enough energy to check in, hang out,

0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 5>keep tabs and all my friends. Even though they'll check

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 5>in on me and bring up hanging out. I usually respond,

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:48.640
<v Speaker 5>but give a vague response, and I'm never the one

0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:51.200
<v Speaker 5>to text first. But I feel guilty. Do I owe

0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:53.719
<v Speaker 5>these friends? In explanation? If so, how do I frame it?

0:40:53.960 --> 0:40:56.600
<v Speaker 5>No one seems hurt or mad, which is great. I'm

0:40:56.640 --> 0:40:59.600
<v Speaker 5>just a people pleaser, and I feel guilty. How would

0:40:59.600 --> 0:41:00.760
<v Speaker 5>you handle this situation?

0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:03.160
<v Speaker 3>I I think even just to talk because it seems

0:41:03.200 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 3>like your friends understand where you're at because they're not

0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:08.799
<v Speaker 3>mad or making you feel guilty, So I think you

0:41:09.160 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 3>that's really great that they're understanding of your situation. But

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:15.879
<v Speaker 3>I would even just say, like, hey, I know I've

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:20.200
<v Speaker 3>been kind of distant and vague and not super available,

0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:23.839
<v Speaker 3>you know, as a friend, but just I haven't really

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:26.319
<v Speaker 3>had the capacity for it. But I really appreciate y'all

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:28.080
<v Speaker 3>checking in, and I just don't want you to feel

0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 3>abandoned by me. I just don't have the bandwidth to

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 3>give a lot right now, but I love you so much,

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 3>and just to let them know that you're thinking about

0:41:36.120 --> 0:41:38.960
<v Speaker 3>them and you don't want to come across like a

0:41:39.000 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 3>bad friend, but you just don't really have the capacity

0:41:41.560 --> 0:41:42.120
<v Speaker 3>for that right now.

0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a good idea to be proactive instead of reactive,

0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:47.520
<v Speaker 1>because what I'm seeing here is like you're saying that

0:41:47.600 --> 0:41:50.000
<v Speaker 1>you never initiate text. You are kind of vague when

0:41:50.000 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>they respond, so that's like you reacting to them, whereas

0:41:53.640 --> 0:41:58.480
<v Speaker 1>if you're proactive and you just say up front, hey,

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like i'm you know a little bit. I

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:02.759
<v Speaker 1>love you, I'm here for you if you anything, but

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:05.840
<v Speaker 1>like I can't really hang for a bit until I

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:09.959
<v Speaker 1>get my boots on the ground. I think that they'll

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 1>understand if they're real friends, They're going to understand that's

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:13.800
<v Speaker 1>the truth.

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's just and I think they are real friends

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 3>because they haven't made you feel bad for this. And

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:20.920
<v Speaker 3>I feel like sometimes even I don't have the capacity,

0:42:20.960 --> 0:42:22.920
<v Speaker 3>and I don't even have children, I don't have I'm

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:26.920
<v Speaker 3>not pregnant. So I think you have a very valid reasoning,

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:28.879
<v Speaker 3>and I think that there's going to be a time

0:42:28.920 --> 0:42:30.560
<v Speaker 3>where you really want your friends to be there and

0:42:30.600 --> 0:42:32.919
<v Speaker 3>you just don't want them to like go away without

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.520
<v Speaker 3>having a conversation, because.

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:37.560
<v Speaker 2>You know they might if they are, if they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just move on.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not really giving us anything, and you don't give

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<v Speaker 3>an explanation. You don't want to come out of this

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<v Speaker 3>kind of newborn parental haze. And everyone's kind of gone

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<v Speaker 3>because you didn't communicate. So I would say, just communicate

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<v Speaker 3>and be up in front and honest, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>good friends stick around.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, this is life.

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<v Speaker 5>This is what happens. And they're going to go through

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<v Speaker 5>this too, where they're going to be up to their

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<v Speaker 5>eyeballs in it and not have time for their friends too.

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<v Speaker 5>It's all this is the circle of life, cyclical and

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<v Speaker 5>sil Everything is great. If you want to address it,

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<v Speaker 5>go ahead. But these sounds like good friends are going

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<v Speaker 5>to be there for you no matter what, So don't

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<v Speaker 5>stress about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't stress, don't stress. Stress. That's all we have for today, folks.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. But you know we're going to be back

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<v Speaker 2>on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>With the one and only Hannah Brown. Her debut fiction

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<v Speaker 1>novel Mistakes We Never Made, is out tomorrow, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk all things.

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<v Speaker 2>Romance, novels, her engagement, wedding planning, and of course Tyler Cameron.

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<v Speaker 5>Well done, you too, Thank you. I do want to

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<v Speaker 5>do homework for next week. Rolling Stone and Variety both

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<v Speaker 5>ranked all of Taylor's songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we saying albums or songs?

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<v Speaker 5>Songs? And so? Because they have come up. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>going to make you rank all two hundred and seventy

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<v Speaker 5>four of them, but I think we should rank our

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<v Speaker 5>top five tailor songs of all time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's so hard. What's number one on

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<v Speaker 2>their list?

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<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you. I'll tell you the top five for

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<v Speaker 5>both Variety number five, Getaway Car number four, Cruel Summer

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<v Speaker 5>number three, right where you left me? What number two?

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<v Speaker 5>All to well? Ten minute version number one you belong

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<v Speaker 5>with me?

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<v Speaker 2>To disagree with Variety.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't agree, No, I love Cruel Summer is definitely

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<v Speaker 3>in my top five though.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, let me switch over to Rolling Stone here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna too well. Ten minute version also is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm going to agree with Rolling Stone. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what they're saying, but I think I'm gonna agree.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, let me tell you right now. Number five August YEP,

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<v Speaker 5>number four, Delicate, Oh Yes, number three, mirror Ball, number two,

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<v Speaker 5>number two New Romantics.

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<v Speaker 1>The one that does not get the credit.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a Charlie Pooth of Taylor Ships.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, the number one, according to Rolling Stone, is all

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<v Speaker 5>too well time in version.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. Rolling Stone got it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think we come up on our own top fives.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to tell you something so funny really quick.

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<v Speaker 1>There's this contestant on Survivor this season that's like obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with Taylor Swift, like he loves her, and they did

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<v Speaker 1>this because you just you're on the island. You have

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<v Speaker 1>nothing else to do. So he did this game with

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<v Speaker 1>one of the other contestants. The other contestant was a

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<v Speaker 1>fan of like I'm totally gonna miss Van Halen or

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<v Speaker 1>something I don't know, someone that I did not know

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<v Speaker 1>any But they basically sat there and one by one

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<v Speaker 1>they said a title of a song from their said artist.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was doing Taylor Swift and the other person

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<v Speaker 1>had to come up like in tandem. So they're like

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<v Speaker 1>ping pong and back and forth and they were going

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<v Speaker 1>for hours and the Taylor.

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<v Speaker 2>Swift fan one, that's a good game. It was really long.

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<v Speaker 2>We could last naming and there's like a timer for oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you each.

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<v Speaker 5>Have to Taylor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you can and you can't double it.

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<v Speaker 2>Have three seconds before you get a buzzer.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, what a fun game.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I love this cast of Survivor just coming

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<v Speaker 2>up with games on.

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<v Speaker 5>The island that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good game. Yeah, thank you, thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you Survivor.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we'll be back Thursday and with the Hannah Brown And.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all for now, folks.

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<v Speaker 1>T T Y L.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just soodful