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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dumb

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Speaker 2: in the tub, tub tub. I feel like you had

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Speaker 2: a really wholesome weekend. I did have a I felt

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Speaker 2: very wholesome. Yeah, are you well rested rejuvenated?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say well rested, but yes, I am rested.

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Speaker 2: I am rejuvenated. I have a new zest for life.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love I love when these like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: every month and a half you get zesty like this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm zesty for I'm zesty. I'm in my wedding mode.

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Speaker 2: Now what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I'm MIKEL.

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Speaker 2: Let's g o give us an update. We have been

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Speaker 2: for updates for.

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Speaker 1: What Get me to the alter a l T e

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Speaker 1: r Ar Altar Get me to the Altar?

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Speaker 3: So you got engaged in September. We have been asking

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Speaker 3: for updates since then. Essentially, do we finally have.

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Speaker 2: Goes by fast? Let me tell you it really does. Actually,

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Speaker 2: I feel like you just got engaged. I think so.

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Speaker 1: I feel the same way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Time flies when you're fiance. Yeah, so have we made

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Speaker 3: some decisions?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say we've made decisions. But I'm like way

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Speaker 1: more proactive than I have been. Like I'm like I

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Speaker 1: got the bug in me, and I'm just like ready now,

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Speaker 1: Like I am constantly like looking at stuff, comparing, contrasting,

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Speaker 1: getting price estimates. Like I am like in the thick

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Speaker 1: of it.

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Speaker 3: Now, what has what do you feel like has been

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Speaker 3: holding you back of like just going for and plant

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Speaker 3: being in the bug having the bug.

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Speaker 1: I think that it's it's so overwhelming because it's a

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Speaker 1: it's a lot of money. B It's like this thing

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Speaker 1: I've been waiting for my whole life. So there's this

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Speaker 1: pressure that I've put on it. So it's like everything

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Speaker 1: has to be perfect, and there obviously nothing's perfect. So

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Speaker 1: I've been able to like find the flaw in every

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Speaker 1: little thing.

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Speaker 2: So I just like keep starting from scratch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I yeah, So I think all that is

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Speaker 1: like kind of what just I just felt. And then

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Speaker 1: also a lot of people have been telling me, and

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Speaker 1: it really is like a full time job. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: so once you start, you can't stop. Once you get

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Speaker 1: on the train, the train goes, you know, like once

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Speaker 1: you have a date, the date's coming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I feel like that is I think

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Speaker 1: what has held me back?

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Speaker 2: But now I'm just like I'm ready.

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Speaker 3: That makes so much sense. The perfectionist, the perfectionist aspect

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Speaker 3: of it, because you do that so much in.

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Speaker 2: Everything everything, Like I remember when you and Rob I

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Speaker 2: can't remember, Like there's been so many times when you're

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Speaker 2: going through something and you can find just the minute.

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Speaker 1: Anything that's not perfect.

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Speaker 2: Why are we focusing on that? Yeah, and then I

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Speaker 2: scrap it. I didn't even put that together. But that

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Speaker 2: is that is you. Yes, it's what you do. It's

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Speaker 2: what I dost about every like, think about it.

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Speaker 1: With a wedding, there's so many details. It's like the

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Speaker 1: one thing I'm like next.

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Speaker 3: But also there is a sense because obviously when you're

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Speaker 3: it's another person. So it's like, you know, but this

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Speaker 2: And bless Robbie because he's like, I just want you

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Speaker 2: to have the wedding of your dreams. So whatever you want,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, but I need your help, like help me

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Speaker 2: push me one direction. I know, but I feel like

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Speaker 2: if he did, he'd be like, I don't want that. Yeah, lost,

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Speaker 2: no matter what, he even knows it. He's a smart man.

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Speaker 2: He is a smart man.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like, so we went on a hike this

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Speaker 1: just like looked over at him and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I love our little family and he was like, it's

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Speaker 2: Was like, oh, maybe, so emotional. Okay, let's get married.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. That's what you needed. I needed that, okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: The wedding will be June.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, next week May eighteen.

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Speaker 2: That's Ali's so oh right, that's my mom's birthday.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, okay, Yeah, I felt like you're a really

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Speaker 3: cute weekend y'all did like Chicken Tender?

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Speaker 2: Well you did it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Robbie really took the reins on that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Do you ever feel sad about not participating in those

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Speaker 3: things because of your not all interesting? I was wondering, like,

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Speaker 3: do the kids are the kids?

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Speaker 1: The kids don't care at all?

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Speaker 1: Also, one of the kids didn't even like the Chicken tour,

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Speaker 1: so he was like more chicken.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm with you.

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Speaker 4: Bud.

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Speaker 2: But I tried a piece of chicken on one of

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Speaker 2: the stops.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, not for me?

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Speaker 2: Which one did I tell you?

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Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you the names of any of them? Wow,

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Speaker 1: but it was one that was in Woodland Hills.

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Speaker 2: A long trick for Chicken Tender which is squid Games

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Speaker 2: RV or are not rv VR?

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Speaker 5: Oh? How was that difference or there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we went to Squid Games v R.

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Speaker 1: It was actually really really fun.

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Speaker 2: Was it scary?

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Speaker 1: But like we did the bridge, you know, like the

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Speaker 2: Like I was like, I was like, I'm not falling anywhere.

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Speaker 2: Hailey loved squid Games on a date night, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: she would love it, honestly.

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Speaker 1: It's like like green light, the bridge, all the like

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Speaker 2: Woh okay, okay, that's that's a taking notes?

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah is that what you went? Were? Y?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? So I was like jealous.

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is what I want to be

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Speaker 3: invited to is a chicken tender tour?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so sorry next time?

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Speaker 1: Next time?

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Speaker 2: Thinking an invite to the barbecue family time? Either? Interesting?

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Speaker 2: How that works? Huh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know a lot of nose, a lot of no's.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to invite her over today.

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Speaker 3: Three what I haven't been invited over for a cookout

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Speaker 1: True, I haven't done many cookouts this year.

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Speaker 2: That's what's the reason. You know you?

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Speaker 1: First of all, I asked you to hang out last weekend.

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Speaker 1: I went wedding dress shopping and I was going to

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Speaker 1: ask you to come, and you said, I have my sisters, yes,

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Speaker 1: and so then.

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Speaker 2: You couldn't come over to my barbecue.

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Speaker 3: It was just the invite you. You know what it's

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Speaker 3: like to want to be invited. It's very hypocritical, and

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Speaker 3: I'd like someone to be on my side of how

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Speaker 2: Who's say, Mike sam Can Sam Can Sam.

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Speaker 1: Off on Sam?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me thank you? Okay.

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, Becca, are you free this weekend? I

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Speaker 1: really I'm going dress shopping on Saturday, and I want

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Speaker 1: to ask you an important question. She said, it's my

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Speaker 1: sister's birthday and Haley's moving in on Sunday. I'm not

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Speaker 1: I have a barbecue. I invite two friends over. Would

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Speaker 1: I invite Becca? Who told me she cannot hang out

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Speaker 2: It's hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody told you they couldn't hang out this weekend.

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Speaker 1: You would not invite.

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Speaker 3: Someone told you they did not like country music. Why

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Speaker 1: Because I like country.

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Speaker 2: Harder for not two months even Beyonce said it's not

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Speaker 2: a country album, right.

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Speaker 5: Said I'm not available Saturday because I'm in London. That's different,

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Speaker 5: but she's around. You could have said like, hey, I

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Speaker 5: know you're busy this weekend, but we're doing this.

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Speaker 3: Also, it's like, hey, I don't know what time you're

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Speaker 3: done Sunday, but we're doing a barbecue if you and

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Speaker 3: Haley want to come over.

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Speaker 2: She loves Robbie's grilled shrimp.

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Speaker 5: You've been moving all day. You're probably exhausted.

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Speaker 2: We have so much good food. We actually had a

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Speaker 3: Well, probably wouldn't have if you had sent out some

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Speaker 2: So anyways, everyone's.

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Speaker 3: Always deeming me like I can't wait for you to

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Speaker 2: So this is for the scrubbers that are team Becca.

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Speaker 1: This is for the scrubbers that are non team Mecca.

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Speaker 2: If somebody told.

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Speaker 1: You that they could not hang out with you, said

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Speaker 1: weekend because it was their sister's birthday and their girlfriends

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Speaker 1: moving in, why would you invite said person to come

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Speaker 2: Because you didn't know my hours.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't do anything Saturday because I was down in Newport,

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Speaker 3: But Sunday it could have been like, hey, not sure

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Speaker 3: if what time y'all finish today, but we are having

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Speaker 3: people over and grilling. You know, when you know when

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Speaker 5: You're right about about that. That's when you get most defensive. Yes,

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Speaker 5: you know you're in the.

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Speaker 2: Tanya gets the most you know I'm right because you

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Speaker 2: all know that I am right here.

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Speaker 1: You all know that deep down you Oh, you're trying

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Speaker 1: to stir the pickle here, you're all trying to stir

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Speaker 1: pickles ever, like literally, ever.

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Speaker 2: Physically mentally or emotionally.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I had someone in my question box ask like, do

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Speaker 3: you ever miss men? I just was like no, like

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Speaker 3: that was my answer, and everyone was like, this answer

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Speaker 2: It's just matter of fact.

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Speaker 1: It's such a random question, Like it's such a weird

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Speaker 1: question because it's like, even when you're in any sort

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Speaker 1: of relationship, it's like, do you ever miss more men?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? The other?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like, yeah, you's just with one person.

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Speaker 2: That's the whole that's the whole thing about monogamy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're just like person like, no matter who you're dating,

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Speaker 2: you don't miss any other like either sex. Yeah, it

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Speaker 6: I don't think straight women miss men.

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Speaker 3: I think so many people will be like, I'm married

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Speaker 2: Or like task rabbit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, taskrab it can do anything.

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Speaker 2: From now that Haley's moved in, I'm like, okay, handle it.

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Speaker 2: I am Thursday, have a professional coming to help me. Nice.

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Speaker 2: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 1: Do you get the money?

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Speaker 6: They just like knock on historic homes and go like, hey,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like that.

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Speaker 6: We had five hundred people come through our house. Oh

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Speaker 6: We did people usually don't. We had a big bowl

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Speaker 6: great bowl that. I thought that was funny. I put

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Speaker 6: We had a scrubber come by that I met. Her

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Speaker 5: Stuff like that.

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Speaker 6: I realized in my office I have a lot of

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Speaker 6: They said he worked at a radio station and he

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Speaker 2: Fetish.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a deep love, a deep and passionate love.

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Speaker 5: It but it was.

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Speaker 6: It was a really great time, and I hope we

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Speaker 2: I feel like you will.

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Speaker 3: It looked it looked really cue and if I loved closer,

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Speaker 3: I would have come back.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Andy recently purchased.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it was easter candy. It was like fun science,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all year round. I heard you. You mentioned in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can chat about that, but I feel like

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Speaker 2: I had a fun weekend, but it was very busy.

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Speaker 5: I think we should all speech fast until we come

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Speaker 4: My gosh bad Joe b r B. All right, speech

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Speaker 4: fast is over, just like that. Yeah, as I think

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Speaker 1: So I read somewhere that's where I don't know KTLA

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Speaker 1: Because when I wouldn't, I keep my phone away from

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Speaker 2: I was like, he was like, oh the mystery. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I understand the challenge it was.

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Speaker 1: It was a challenge, but it was a choice. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna go till noon. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 5: That smart, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Just be pro active with the day instead of reactive,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's gonna try Saturday to see what Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like.

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Speaker 2: I could do this so easily.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, coup, I don't need to talk to

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Speaker 2: Twelve would be here before you know, of.

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Speaker 1: Course, how are you supposed to say, like how'd you sleep?

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Speaker 1: When did you wake up?

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Speaker 5: That's urgent?

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Speaker 2: When did you get up to go to the bathroom?

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't think I am and like yearning

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's all I can think about.

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Speaker 6: What's normally the first thing you say, Becca when you

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Speaker 6: If Haley's there, yeah, Like, what's the like do you

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Speaker 2: Good morning chicken.

448
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,320
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I couldn't say hello more good morning

449
00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 1: to Sunny. And that broke my heart too, because I

450
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 1: was like, that was a sad Instagram.

451
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 6: Sorry I saw you. She was like.

452
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:10,000
Speaker 2: Nuzzled in there and.

453
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,199
Speaker 6: She has no idea what I want to say morning.

454
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was probably so upset it was stressful. Honestly. Well,

455
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 2: we'll get an update on round two. Yeah next week.

456
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 1: Next week, stay tuned, stay tunes for the day. Tune. Okay,

457
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 1: so let's get back to your weekend.

458
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 3: Okay, So my weekend, so Saturday yesterday on the fifth,

459
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,840
Speaker 3: and go to Maya was my sister Caroline's birthday, and

460
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,160
Speaker 3: then she celebrated on the fourth, and so we drove

461
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 3: down to Newport.

462
00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 2: The fourth be with You made the fourth be.

463
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 6: With you and with you, with you.

464
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 2: And you and you, and so we drove down and

465
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 2: she wanted everyone to wear wigs, and so I was

466
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 2: gonna go as Cline.

467
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 3: But I have to be in a certain like energy

468
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,200
Speaker 3: to be Cline. And I knew that if I came

469
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 3: down there halfway through the day, I'd start feeling just like, oh,

470
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 3: I feel so gross, and he doesn't make me feel

471
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 3: calm by any means, right, And I have to be

472
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 3: in the spirit of Clein to really commit. So I

473
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 3: wasn't there, but I had my Daphne wig from a

474
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 3: couple halloweens ago, so I just put that on with

475
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 3: a cowboy hat. Well, Haley finds this random wig we

476
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 3: still don't know where it came from, sick, and she

477
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 3: put it on, and like halfway through the kickball game

478
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 3: when we got there, she was like, I need to

479
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 3: take this off.

480
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 2: I feel terrible about myself, I don't feel cute, I'm

481
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 2: getting insecure, and I'm like, take it off. Your fine.

482
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 3: But the best part is I showed up and they

483
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 3: were already playing kickball, and I'll be honest, I'm not

484
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: a big kickball person, and so we were a little

485
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 3: bit late and I thought like, oh, maybe I've missed

486
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 3: the kickball game. And I get there and they're like,

487
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 3: you're just in time. We need someone on this team,

488
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 3: and I was like, all right, here we go. And

489
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 3: the rule was that you had to be holding a

490
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 3: drink like it could be water, could be anything, but

491
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: you had to be holding a drink in the field.

492
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 3: And so they were playing with this extra big kickball,

493
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 3: like you you.

494
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: Know, the standard sized kickball. It was like that but huge.

495
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 2: So the first play I get out there, that kick

496
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 2: it it.

497
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 7: Comes to me and I'm like I got it and

498
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 7: I'm holding my drink and it hits me and takes

499
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 7: off my wing hat and glasses, and I was like, damn,

500
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 7: that was the most unathletic thing I've ever done.

501
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: Arden happened.

502
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 3: Someone got a live photo of it, so it was

503
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 3: a photo, but when they press play, it was the

504
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 3: whole beginning in the face. So it was a real

505
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 3: treasure we got. And then we just played games. That

506
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 3: was so sore the next day, like spike ball, they're

507
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 3: very active and athletic and their friends are so fun

508
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 3: but also very active in athletics.

509
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 2: So they have you youth. Yeah. Shoot, I was like, dang,

510
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 2: I really feel my age, especially with alcohol. Doing any

511
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 2: sort of activity drunk is like I didn't really drink

512
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, it was sober. The hit to the phase,

513
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 2: I really thought. Yeah, And so that was really fun.

514
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: And then yesterday we moved all the rest.

515
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 3: Haley had moved a lot of her stuff in with

516
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 3: me already, but we did like the final the final

517
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 3: move with like everything.

518
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 2: So now there's like no time apart. You guys just

519
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 2: live together.

520
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 3: Well I mean except for when she leaves me for work,

521
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 3: but yeah, but we hated that. Anyways, we never didn't

522
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 3: stay together, so it's just a depending on where we stayed.

523
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 3: Right now, we don't have to I don't have to

524
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 3: pack up Phoebe and drive to her place, which I'm

525
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 3: so excited about.

526
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 4: I know.

527
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: No, we're packing up Phoebe's food, Phoebe's dishes, everything's in

528
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: one place.

529
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 3: She's come when she said I'm coming home, it's to

530
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 3: one place.

531
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: So coming home I know.

532
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 5: A major step, I know.

533
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 3: I guess I've always thought because we have never stayed

534
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 3: a night apart for as long as I can remember,

535
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 3: and like we've just coexisted in two different places, like

536
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,479
Speaker 3: we'd stay at her place for a week and then

537
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 3: be at my place for a week.

538
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: So I've always felt like we lived together. But this

539
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 2: is like, I guess, the final move of living together.

540
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's actually living together versus like living together.

541
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 1: It's me yeah together, there's a difference.

542
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 3: There is, and so we have taken that step and

543
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 3: it's so cool because it's like my parents came out,

544
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 3: my dad met Haley, and it felt like it was

545
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 3: like this natural move into like future.

546
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, yeah, yes, speaking of future, I was

547
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 2: not looking for the two of you our future looking great.

548
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: Yeah great.

549
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 5: It's fun if you're both engaged at the same time.

550
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 5: How fun was that?

551
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: It could happen depending on how long time it takes

552
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 2: a plan or wedding.

553
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to be married within the year okay, year

554
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: from now?

555
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 2: Okay, so within yeah.

556
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 5: For sure before May five. You will be married.

557
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: Before June of twenty twenty five, so that's.

558
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 5: Not within any year by anything.

559
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 1: Little change here in the little yeah eighteen months, yeah, correct, No,

560
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: twelve thirteen by for June sixth, twenty twenty four.

561
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 5: You will be married? Correct? All right, you heard it

562
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 5: your first Scrubbers, you've.

563
00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 2: Heard it here. First.

564
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 3: You did get a lit anxiety listening to the Vile

565
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 3: Files recap of Nick and Natalie's wedding, the wedding recap.

566
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 2: But what stressed you out so much? Her hairdresser situation.

567
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: I know.

568
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: I for those that don't know, Nick Vial was on

569
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, he was the Bachelor.

570
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 2: He was the Bachelor.

571
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: He has a child with Natalie Joy and they just

572
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: got uh, they just got married.

573
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 5: He was from Wisconsin, yes, and.

574
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: They got married in uh, Savannah, and they do a

575
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: podcast together. And uh, she was telling this story about

576
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: her hairstylist. Basically, I don't even I don't want to

577
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: rehash it. But it was just a nightmare situation with

578
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: her hairstylist.

579
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 3: Well, he was a friend, so he was like also

580
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: kind of a guest, but she had hired him to

581
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,479
Speaker 3: do her hair and he just was like showed up,

582
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 3: very unprofessional.

583
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 1: Try to like make it a business deal, like got

584
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: these like brand deals for the wedding, and that she

585
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,479
Speaker 1: didn't sign off on, which is already like weird and

586
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: shady and then like, yeah, wanted to be a guest

587
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: and ended up like not being there to do her

588
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: hair transition from one look to the other.

589
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: And I was just like, that sucks. But I had

590
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: to give a shot.

591
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 5: Suck.

592
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: That sucks, and you can't predict it, you can't prepare

593
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 3: for it. So it's like you're just you just have

594
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 3: to go with the flow and figure it out. And

595
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,679
Speaker 3: she had Lindsay's avits to her hair, who we love Lindy,

596
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 3: and if I trust it, Like if I had a

597
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: makeup artist like Lindsay, I would feel like, Okay, we're

598
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 3: gonna salvage this because she is so like, we'll figure

599
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: it out.

600
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: And her hair looked so great. I don't have Lindsay.

601
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 2: Girl, you're gonna do my hair out, my makeup next time.

602
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: You got the skills, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

603
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 3: So she she did have the perfect makeup artist to

604
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 3: save the day.

605
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, she did.

606
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: But it's like all those things.

607
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 3: It's like again, the control of perfectionism you don't have.

608
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: I would be like, shout out to you, Natalie Joy,

609
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: because I would be on the floor.

610
00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 2: Position. I feel like Tony, let's get up, get it together.

611
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: Well, like I have you because you could do my hair,

612
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: I could.

613
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: Do your hair, yeah, and a pinch and a pinch

614
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: and a pinch.

615
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: You'd be in there with at But also.

616
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 3: I imagine you would have tawny to your hair and

617
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 3: she would never do that to you.

618
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, could you imagine?

619
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm just like, you can't hire your friends.

620
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: I think in those situations, I think it's better to.

621
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: Have like No, I think you should be able to

622
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 2: hire your friends. And according to Natalie Joy, she's got

623
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: me rethinking some things.

624
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 3: Okay, so I got a really cool offer to do something,

625
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 3: and I'm it's just timing isn't right with when I'm

626
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 3: going to be out of town?

627
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: What don't tell me?

628
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: Which I guess Yeah, okay, but I need a little

629
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: more information than I got a really cool offer.

630
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: It's to go out of the country with a brand.

631
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: Mm I guess it's a brand, a network, a television network. Sure,

632
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: a TV show? Sure you got a TV show?

633
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 5: Wow? Wow?

634
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 2: Well no, it's hold on.

635
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 3: It's an offer, so it's it's based around a TV show,

636
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 3: not me going on a TV show.

637
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: Amazing Race, no Survivor, No Love, Island.

638
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 5: No Traders.

639
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 2: Yes.

640
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 5: Wow.

641
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,479
Speaker 3: So I got invited to go to the Trader's mansion

642
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 3: in Scotland.

643
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: I will not be on it.

644
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: No.

645
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 2: I was like, You're gonna turn that down.

646
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 3: Girl, No, But I was thinking, like me turning this down?

647
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 3: Is this just like a bad look if I.

648
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: Were what is it on peacock? Did peacock and bite

649
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 2: you out? Yeah?

650
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 3: So they were going to fly me out to Scotland,

651
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 3: go to the mansion, spend days and just be able

652
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: to do like content and stuff from there from the mansion.

653
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 3: But it would be the day after I get back

654
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 3: from Ali's wedding in Majorca, and I just that would

655
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: be three weeks away from home.

656
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: They fly you from Majorca.

657
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 3: To the but then I'd be away from Phoebe for

658
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: it just feels like a lot, I know. But I

659
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 3: already turned it down.

660
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: I know.

661
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 3: I was like, also, I feel like I think if

662
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 3: I was going with someone like you or like I

663
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 3: had a friend with me that was like a diehard fan.

664
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: I almost was like, can y'all take Tanya Raud? She

665
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: would in my place. She would thrive. I would thrive.

666
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I just finished New Zealand. Yeah, Traders.

667
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: So now I've watched all of USA, UK, Australia and

668
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: New Zealand.

669
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 5: Look at that.

670
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: I really committed to the show. I have that I'm in.

671
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: I'm in, and I'm like now that I've watched them

672
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 1: all like feeding for the next season.

673
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I can't be so like want mot about it,

674
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 3: never sharing anything with y'all again.

675
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,479
Speaker 1: Well, to get on the show, Well, it was the setup.

676
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 5: It sounds like you've been offered your own television show,

677
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 5: and then we went.

678
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to that. I will.

679
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: On Traders.

680
00:29:59,520 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 4: See.

681
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 6: I thought she was being offered to advertise a peacock app,

682
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 6: which is what it was. That's what I was expecting.

683
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 6: I was still disappointed though, Sorry done.

684
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 2: I can believe that I know. Anyways, I won't be

685
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: sharing big life updates with the all anymore. Definitely not

686
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: telling you if I get an actual offer to reality show,

687
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna ghost you all. No, if you if

688
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: you get asked.

689
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: To go on Traders, you have to be the first

690
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: phone call.

691
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: We'll see. We'll see if I get an invite to

692
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 2: the next grill.

693
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 4: Wow.

694
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: Okay, the met Gala is happening tonight.

695
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 5: They're on the red carpet as we speak.

696
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: Have we seen anybody? Okay, anyone else?

697
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 5: It's just by the way I clicked, I was like, oh,

698
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 5: what's he? Whereing? I textedo, I'm very excited.

699
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: All right, all right, here's my question.

700
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: You get invited to the met gala, they tell you,

701
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 3: and I'm sure they tell them when to show up.

702
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 3: But let's say you have a choice of one to

703
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 3: show up. Are you going carpet opens, you're on the carpet,

704
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 3: are you waiting mid or you are you gonna.

705
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: Try and be the finale. I'm gonna try and go first.

706
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, I know you're.

707
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 6: You're going to go first to Yeah, I want to

708
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 6: hit the snack bar before it starts.

709
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, my last is also rushed and like stressful.

710
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 5: If it's me first, but if I'm like if I'm

711
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 5: bad Bunny laught like, it depends on who I am.

712
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 2: And know you're Kim Kardashian, You're bad Bunny. Your tailors left?

713
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 5: Oh, then you go last? You are? I think you're

714
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 5: in the proper order of your place.

715
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: In the celebrity Yeah. Interesting, I'm going middle, no matter

716
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: who you are, no.

717
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 3: Matter who I am, I'm requesting mid I don't want

718
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 3: to be first and I don't want to be last.

719
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 3: I want to have time to like feel settled once

720
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 3: I get in there and like figure my see my surroundings,

721
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 3: and like talk to people in socialize.

722
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 5: What the whole thing is. You can spend the whole

723
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 5: night getting.

724
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: Your telling what happens in there.

725
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 5: I don't know, right, like Easton wants to hit the

726
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 5: snack bar before what Yeah, the party stand around and

727
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 5: talk to each other, right, I want?

728
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 3: But the rumors that Taylor Swift is going tonight, So

729
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: will she be going with Travis Kelsey? Will she be

730
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 3: going period?

731
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: I don't think they're going either one of them.

732
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: Why because I just have a hunch there's no no the.

733
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: Ground. Yeah no. TMZ reported like back in March that

734
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: they will, that they got invited separately, but they're not

735
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: attending because she's getting ready for her European leg and Travis.

736
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: I don't remember why. Travis's reason was, I'm.

737
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 5: Going to keep refreshing in my social media and I'll

738
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 5: let you know if I get anything on.

739
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 3: Taylor preparing for her European Like she it's a few

740
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 3: hours out of her day. She goes makes a huge

741
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: splash right before her European leg starts gets people going

742
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 3: again about I think.

743
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: It's to rest. My gosh, she just shut eye, maybe

744
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: a little eyemask.

745
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: No, she'll rest on the jets. She'll get a little ivy,

746
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: be back to good.

747
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: We'll see I I love the Gala.

748
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 5: Oh I'm with you by the way, I'm convinced Daddy

749
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 5: I Love Him and I can do it with a

750
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 5: broken heart are both going to be monster smash hits.

751
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 3: Daddy I Love Him is so good, really good, still

752
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: the favorite, so good. I just I really listened to

753
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 3: the lyrics of Guilty as Sin and wow, that's a

754
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: vulnerable track, vulnerable admissions.

755
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not one of my favorites.

756
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 5: Oh, you guys got to live with them, though, I

757
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 5: swear all of these songs. You just live with them

758
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 5: for a couple of days and they're your favorite song.

759
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 5: You think so I do.

760
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 2: I'm still first half of the album though.

761
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Tortured post apartment, the title track is slowly

762
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: creeping up to like.

763
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 2: Top two for me, honestly, whoa wow. Yeah, the Charlie

764
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: Pooth shot out really got me. You know, are you're

765
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 2: a loyal Charlie poother.

766
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, I do agree that I can do with the

767
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 6: Broken Heart's gonna be huge smash. And I have a

768
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 6: little piece of data for you. Fortnite had the biggest

769
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 6: rise on American top forties since twenty seventeen. Wow, it

770
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 6: leaves twenty spots. Isn't that crazy?

771
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 5: That's crazy?

772
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 6: Meanwhile, Selfish by Justin Himber like falls twenty spots.

773
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, I seems like that was JT the big comeback.

774
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 3: Wait, have I told you all my theory that I

775
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 3: think that post Malone looks like Matty Heally in.

776
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 2: The video talked about this, No, I have picture proof.

777
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 3: Just wait, just wait, because him without his tattoos, they

778
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 3: have the same kind of shaped eyes.

779
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so here he is. I can honestly already kind

780
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: of see the comparison. I can post post with you

781
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: and then look at Matt Matty Heally in this.

782
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 5: I love that you have those ready to black and white.

783
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,840
Speaker 2: Do y'all not see the similarities? Yeah? Sure, because like,

784
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 2: why else did you remove his tats?

785
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: Why else would she pick post malone.

786
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: Because he kind of looks like because he's amazing.

787
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: But well, I know, yeah, but I mean when you

788
00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: have that look alike doppelganger your disposal, Yeah.

789
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 2: A talented lookalike.

790
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 4: Yeah.

791
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

792
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,439
Speaker 3: I also had this realization that she probably was really

793
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 3: upset with the Swifties for sabotaging her relationship with Mattie.

794
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was shocked to learn that they had been

795
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 2: dating for like ten years. They haven't been dating, but

796
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: she had a relationship.

797
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 4: Yeah.

798
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 1: But before there was Joe, there was Mattie Healy.

799
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 3: I know, but there was a history years in between them.

800
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: I know, but it's history. There's a ten year history.

801
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 3: There's probably always been the guy that she was like

802
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 3: trying to get and it was like the challenge. He

803
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 3: would like give her hope and then ghost her, and

804
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 3: then she finally had him, and then all of us

805
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,879
Speaker 3: were like, oh.

806
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: And then she's like a daddy.

807
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: Guys that Swifties, I love him, And we were like, no,

808
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: you can do better. Yeah.

809
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, I had that realization, was like, dang, should

810
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 2: we go bad about that?

811
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: I think she's good now?

812
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 3: Okay, speaking of good now, speaking of thinking about past relationships,

813
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 3: Chris Lane posted.

814
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: Okay, I can sorry. I had a BlackBerry seed in

815
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: my tooth and it was driving me.

816
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,959
Speaker 2: Nuts and I finally got it.

817
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, this has been blowing my mind for the

818
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: past however, long set it up for the people. Okay,

819
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: if you don't know the players in the game, I'm

820
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: gonna just I'm just gonna give it to you as

821
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 1: like a Oh, let's use me as an example. I'm

822
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 1: engaged to be married.

823
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 5: Yes, nine months.

824
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: Yes, I am engaged. So this is like me and

825
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: my fyance Robbie and Robbie going to an iHeart show.

826
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 1: Let's say for the very first time, I'm meeting Harry Styles.

827
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 5: Oh, triggering, this has happened.

828
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, cut to I end my engagement. This is actually

829
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: really I don't like the way that I'm sayings, but whatever,

830
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: we're here. I end my engagement and I end up

831
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: marrying Harry Styles. Yes, that is what happened in this situation,

832
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: right with Lauren Lane, Chris Lane, her now husband, and

833
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 1: Ben Higgins who.

834
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 2: Ben Higgins is now married to somebody else.

835
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: Everybody's fine, everybody's happy, and everybody has moved on. Also

836
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: a right, right, Christina Aguilera. But the whole posting of

837
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: it was so bizarre to me.

838
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 2: So basically he's through.

839
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 3: He was like, this was however, many years ago, is

840
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 3: the night I met my future wife, and he has

841
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: pictures of them all Lauren Chris, Lauren's ex fiance, Ben Higgins,

842
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 3: and then Tom Pullman, who's from my heart, and so

843
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 3: he's like, it was so great catching up all these

844
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 3: years later with now my now wife Lauren, you know whatever,

845
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 3: and they're picture documentation of them however many years ago

846
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 3: and they they met and then now yeah, and then

847
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 3: Ben Higgins commented on it. I had big, big plans

848
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 3: for the two of you. Life works out exactly as.

849
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 2: It should, my man, yeah, Ben Higgins, Yeah, And.

850
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 3: It was just so interesting as I was like, no,

851
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 3: that's such an unhingedbold.

852
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: So too, because I'm like, even if like I'm not

853
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 1: saying anything, there was no funny business going on, Like

854
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: they could have obviously met there and didn't have any

855
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,280
Speaker 1: romantic relationships for years, it's still like, no.

856
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 3: I totally believe that because Lauren dated someone in between them,

857
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 3: so I don't think there was anything right, okay romantic.

858
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: But like the fact that he fiance is a part

859
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: of that moment just felt so.

860
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 2: So there's something really kind of funny about it that

861
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: it's been too just like poor Ben right, Like I was.

862
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 5: Just like, oh, It's like if when Brad Pitt was

863
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,479
Speaker 5: married Angelina and he posted a picture and saying, here's

864
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 5: the night I met my wife and he was right

865
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 5: next to Jennifer at the time.

866
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 2: Much better.

867
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 5: Robbie and Christina. I mean, I'm kind of sure at

868
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 5: this point.

869
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was crazy. I was like, this is

870
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 2: so wild, so wild. I had the same thought.

871
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 3: But everyone is happy and moved on from that situation.

872
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 3: It was just an unexpected throwback.

873
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, unexpected for sure. Do we want to do an email?

874
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 5: Oh, we haven't done an email at a bit. I feel

875
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 5: like we have.

876
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: We haven't not, Okay, it's an email. Should we take

877
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 2: a break.

878
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 5: Absolutely, We'll be right asked.

879
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 2: All right, we are back and we have an email

880
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 2: from Marisa Mark take it away, all right, Becka, thank

881
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 2: you very much.

882
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 5: Scrubbing in squad. Longtime listener. I'll look forward every week

883
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 5: to catching up with the gang during walks and car

884
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 5: rides or cleaning the house. Remember that bit we used

885
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 5: to do and what are you doing while you're listening?

886
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 5: And I used to read off all that what they're

887
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 5: doing while they're listening? Yeah, yeah, flash back. Anyway, I

888
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 5: need some advice. I have a few friends that I

889
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 5: feel like ghosting, and I feel guilty about it. I

890
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 5: currently have an almost two year old and I'm due

891
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 5: any day with my second. Spending time with my kids,

892
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 5: my family, quality time with my husband, and some me

893
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 5: time has been enough of a juggle. I don't feel

894
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 5: like I've got enough energy to check in, hang out,

895
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 5: keep tabs and all my friends. Even though they'll check

896
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 5: in on me and bring up hanging out. I usually respond,

897
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 5: but give a vague response, and I'm never the one

898
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 5: to text first. But I feel guilty. Do I owe

899
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 5: these friends? In explanation? If so, how do I frame it?

900
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 5: No one seems hurt or mad, which is great. I'm

901
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 5: just a people pleaser, and I feel guilty. How would

902
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:00,760
Speaker 5: you handle this situation?

903
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 3: I I think even just to talk because it seems

904
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 3: like your friends understand where you're at because they're not

905
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 3: mad or making you feel guilty, So I think you

906
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 3: that's really great that they're understanding of your situation. But

907
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 3: I would even just say, like, hey, I know I've

908
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: been kind of distant and vague and not super available,

909
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: you know, as a friend, but just I haven't really

910
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 3: had the capacity for it. But I really appreciate y'all

911
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 3: checking in, and I just don't want you to feel

912
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 3: abandoned by me. I just don't have the bandwidth to

913
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 3: give a lot right now, but I love you so much,

914
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 3: and just to let them know that you're thinking about

915
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 3: them and you don't want to come across like a

916
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 3: bad friend, but you just don't really have the capacity

917
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 3: for that right now.

918
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good idea to be proactive instead of reactive,

919
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: because what I'm seeing here is like you're saying that

920
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: you never initiate text. You are kind of vague when

921
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: they respond, so that's like you reacting to them, whereas

922
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: if you're proactive and you just say up front, hey,

923
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: I feel like i'm you know a little bit. I

924
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 1: love you, I'm here for you if you anything, but

925
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: like I can't really hang for a bit until I

926
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:09,959
Speaker 1: get my boots on the ground. I think that they'll

927
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: understand if they're real friends, They're going to understand that's

928
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:13,800
Speaker 1: the truth.

929
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just and I think they are real friends

930
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 3: because they haven't made you feel bad for this. And

931
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes even I don't have the capacity,

932
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 3: and I don't even have children, I don't have I'm

933
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 3: not pregnant. So I think you have a very valid reasoning,

934
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:28,879
Speaker 3: and I think that there's going to be a time

935
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 3: where you really want your friends to be there and

936
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,919
Speaker 3: you just don't want them to like go away without

937
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 3: having a conversation, because.

938
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: You know they might if they are, if they're like,

939
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: let's just move on.

940
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 3: She's not really giving us anything, and you don't give

941
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 3: an explanation. You don't want to come out of this

942
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: kind of newborn parental haze. And everyone's kind of gone

943
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 3: because you didn't communicate. So I would say, just communicate

944
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: and be up in front and honest, and you know,

945
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 3: good friends stick around.

946
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 2: I agree, this is life.

947
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 5: This is what happens. And they're going to go through

948
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 5: this too, where they're going to be up to their

949
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 5: eyeballs in it and not have time for their friends too.

950
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 5: It's all this is the circle of life, cyclical and

951
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 5: sil Everything is great. If you want to address it,

952
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 5: go ahead. But these sounds like good friends are going

953
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 5: to be there for you no matter what, So don't

954
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 5: stress about it.

955
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 2: Don't stress, don't stress. Stress. That's all we have for today, folks.

956
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 2: It is. But you know we're going to be back

957
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 2: on Thursday.

958
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 1: With the one and only Hannah Brown. Her debut fiction

959
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 1: novel Mistakes We Never Made, is out tomorrow, so we're

960
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: going to talk all things.

961
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 2: Romance, novels, her engagement, wedding planning, and of course Tyler Cameron.

962
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 5: Well done, you too, Thank you. I do want to

963
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 5: do homework for next week. Rolling Stone and Variety both

964
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,280
Speaker 5: ranked all of Taylor's songs.

965
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 2: Are we saying albums or songs?

966
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 5: Songs? And so? Because they have come up. I'm not

967
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 5: going to make you rank all two hundred and seventy

968
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 5: four of them, but I think we should rank our

969
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 5: top five tailor songs of all time.

970
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so hard. What's number one on

971
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 2: their list?

972
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 5: I'll tell you. I'll tell you the top five for

973
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 5: both Variety number five, Getaway Car number four, Cruel Summer

974
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 5: number three, right where you left me? What number two?

975
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 5: All to well? Ten minute version number one you belong

976
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 5: with me?

977
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 2: To disagree with Variety.

978
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 3: I don't agree, No, I love Cruel Summer is definitely

979
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 3: in my top five though.

980
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 5: All right, let me switch over to Rolling Stone here.

981
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna too well. Ten minute version also is.

982
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to agree with Rolling Stone. I

983
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: don't know what they're saying, but I think I'm gonna agree.

984
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 5: Okay, let me tell you right now. Number five August YEP,

985
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 5: number four, Delicate, Oh Yes, number three, mirror Ball, number two,

986
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 5: number two New Romantics.

987
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: The one that does not get the credit.

988
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: It is a Charlie Pooth of Taylor Ships.

989
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 5: Honestly, the number one, according to Rolling Stone, is all

990
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 5: too well time in version.

991
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 2: Here we go. Rolling Stone got it.

992
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 5: So I think we come up on our own top fives.

993
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: I have to tell you something so funny really quick.

994
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: There's this contestant on Survivor this season that's like obsessed

995
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: with Taylor Swift, like he loves her, and they did

996
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: this because you just you're on the island. You have

997
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: nothing else to do. So he did this game with

998
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: one of the other contestants. The other contestant was a

999
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: fan of like I'm totally gonna miss Van Halen or

1000
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: something I don't know, someone that I did not know

1001
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: any But they basically sat there and one by one

1002
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 1: they said a title of a song from their said artist.

1003
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 1: So he was doing Taylor Swift and the other person

1004
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: had to come up like in tandem. So they're like

1005
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: ping pong and back and forth and they were going

1006
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 1: for hours and the Taylor.

1007
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: Swift fan one, that's a good game. It was really long.

1008
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 2: We could last naming and there's like a timer for oh,

1009
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 2: you each.

1010
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:55,720
Speaker 5: Have to Taylor.

1011
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can and you can't double it.

1012
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 2: Have three seconds before you get a buzzer.

1013
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: But I was like, what a fun game.

1014
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, I love this cast of Survivor just coming

1015
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 2: up with games on.

1016
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 5: The island that.

1017
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good game. Yeah, thank you, thank you,

1018
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 2: thank you Survivor.

1019
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll be back Thursday and with the Hannah Brown And.

1020
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 2: That's all for now, folks.

1021
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: T T Y L.

1022
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 2: I'm just soodful