WEBVTT - Episode 102: Feat. Tee Grizzley 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:05.360 Alright, we'st up. We are back its lip service. I'm 0:00:05.400 --> 0:00:08.959 seven in Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire, I'm Laurial, Yes, 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:12.680 I'm Angela ye, and we got t grizzly. Here's you're 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:19.599 supposed to say? What mandatory? Now? We had him engaged 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:22.239 and all the girl talk. Not really, but we're trying 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:24.040 to get you engaged in all this like stuff that 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.800 we talk about us. I've been trying to like school 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.040 him on everything that's happening. Like first thing we were 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:32.120 talking about, and this has been what everyone's talking about 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:39.680 is Ussher and her peace Now please it sex that 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:41.720 he has a song called let It Burn too, because 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:44.960 that's all that's like the ongoing joke talking about it 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:46.680 on the Breakfast club and it was playing in the background. 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:48.520 I was like, can you'll stop playing let It Burn? 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.760 That's what it had to been about, though, like right, 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:56.360 but then it turns out it was he. But then 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.920 it turns into a discussion of you know, if that 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:02.040 was you, right, would you tell somebody like you had 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:09.759 an STD? Probably not, damn it. I'm not telling nobody 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:15.400 because I need to somebody because it's illegal, because then yeah, no, 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:17.680 I stull at ting. I'm just protect protect her. I'm 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:21.520 gonna get an happies even if you use a condom, 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:26.559 I mean, and then you can get sued. He's like, well, sorry, 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:33.640 I mean people would I guess you could be like, 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:35.720 I have herpies, but I'm not currently having an outbreak. 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:39.440 You know, one of six people ain't trying to hear you. 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:43.000 One of six people have herpes, So that means somebody 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:46.240 in this room when you was the last one. I 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.960 feel like, if you get herpies, that's it hanging up, 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:55.600 stops burning, that's disgusting. Whoever you gave it to, y'all 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:57.680 needs to just lock it in. Yeah, lock it down, 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:00.680 locking in, but let's keep it a lot of people 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.760 do live with it. And some people have the herpes 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.200 virus and never ever have an outbreak and never have 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:09.080 any symptoms. And some people get it and get like 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.000 one or two outbreaks and never get it again. It's 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.160 not like so many people having and so many people 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.520 live with it. You know, So if you pass it 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:17.359 on and you didn't know you have it, is that's 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.280 still illegal, Like no, that's not not if you didn't know, 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.000 but you know, because so maybe I sure didn't know 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:26.080 he was giving her her except that he didn't know. Doctor, 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.160 he didn't know he was having an outbreak. Now, it 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:30.640 doesn't matter if you know you have it, you have 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:34.440 to let somebody know it's illegal. Okay. That What if 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.880 a girl said to you, and let's just say this, 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.640 like the baddest chip, not even the baddest. What if 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:42.959 you fell in love with her, and you and y'all 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:44.960 was really in a real relationship, and then she came 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:46.600 out and was like, listen, I have to tell you that, 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:49.240 and you've already had sex with her. Anyway, It's nothing 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:52.400 I can do at that point, but with her I 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:57.359 might as well. But what if you go and get 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.000 tested in and find out that you don't have it? 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:01.440 They would if I got lucky like that. I'm straight. 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:03.880 I'm not staying with you because I didn't give it 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.519 to you. So for one, who gave it to you 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:09.320 near for two, I'm straight, I don't want because I 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:12.760 love you. I'm saying it could be cool, doctor, you 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:17.880 need you need Okay. What if there's somebody that you 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:19.760 really like and being liking for a long time and 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:21.880 had the opportunity and she told you, Just so you know, 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.040 I am to have the herpes virus, but I've never 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:29.280 had an outbreak. Honestly, it is no matter how bad 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:30.920 she is, no matter how much I love it is 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:34.960 nothing that's gonna make you want to take that age myself. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:38.600 That's a that's a deal breaker. Bro Okay, Well, that 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.760 brings us to the little game we're gonna play right now. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:44.200 You're doing the time to tell? When do you reveal 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:46.960 certain things? Like do you tell on the first date, 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:49.160 the third date, when you get in a relationship or 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:52.760 never tell? Now? What would you tell if you've ever 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.680 been engaged to somebody, if you're dating somebody, is that's 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.760 something you tell it right away? Do you wait till 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:00.800 you get on like the third fourth date. I think 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.840 that's something somebody would want to know right away, because 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:04.600 I probably want to do that right away on the 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:08.840 first date. It depends on how the connection is. If 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.440 we don't really getting nowhere, ain't gonna tell you what 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.400 If we first date, we're talking, we know we're gonna 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:15.160 have another date, and I'm gonna tell you what do 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:18.640 you guys think? I think, Um, I don't. I think 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:22.600 that's something you tell somebody when you're more serious with them. 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:25.440 So like when you are, because I feel like when 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:28.720 you're starting, when you're in the beginning of a relationship 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.200 with somebody, a new relationship, I don't think it's a 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:34.320 good idea to talk about your past relationships at all, 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:36.839 you know what I mean, Like, I'm not I don't 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:40.400 really care if you were engaged before, Like, so, why 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.960 are you telling me about your acts? You know what 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.440 I mean? So I feel like it's something when you're 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.800 more comfortable with maybe not in a relationship, but not 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:53.760 the first day or the third day. Aren't you curious though, Like, well, 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.880 why did your last relationship and isn't that something that 0:04:55.960 --> 0:05:02.880 you ask like, yeah, get people before a living I 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:04.760 want to know. Yeah, I want to know why y'all 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.480 not together? No more. I mean, I don't want no 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.200 information about your past relationships. It's none of my business, 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:12.920 has nothing to do with me. But your past kind 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.479 of shows you your futures. Let's people lie, Like, let's 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.000 keep it real. If a girl asked you, like, what 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:20.160 happened to your last relationship, are you going to be like, well, 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:26.440 I used to cheat all the time, right, Exactly nine 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:28.200 out of ten times, the person is not even gonna 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:31.200 be honest with you anyway, So damn, that's horrible. But 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.960 let me ask you then, I was engaged twice and 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.200 I never told any of my my anybody i'm dating that, Well, 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.400 you just told everybody on lip service. But I mean, 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.760 I talk about that kind I've started here. I've started 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:45.480 here on lip services many times, you know what I mean. Nine, 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.200 I'm pretty sure that nine. It's like a big chance 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.560 that the guy that I'm dating is not listening to 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.120 them hopefully. Is it wrong that I don't feel like 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:55.120 I would know. I think I would know, like y'all 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:58.360 didn't get married or no ship like that, Like all right, engage, 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.920 I get it, But like guys stuff like that all 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:02.480 the time, Like I don't want her to leave me. 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:05.280 I'm anna proposed to her, like I know guys that 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.839 have done that before. So if somebody says to me, 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.120 like I used to be engaged before, okay, motherfucker, Like 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:12.960 did you leave at the altar? Now? If it's some 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.720 ship like that, I want to know we were all 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:22.279 the way up there your last relationship. We're gonna stap 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:25.560 with you. Why did your last relationship end? Because he's 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.479 a whore. See we always beat another person. But it 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.320 wasn't you know, it was him. Okay, it wasn't me, 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:34.680 It wasn't me, But we can't all take responsibility because 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.480 I'm partly it is. You know, sometimes that's up too. 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.560 I've messed up before and I don't even have to 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.720 be cheating. It could be other things. But you know, 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:46.360 my leagtionship relationship, and it because he was a whore. 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.760 Because I like to hear what people say, because if 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:51.480 you ask him, he probably say something different, something about you. 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:55.159 Of course you want to say that it was me, 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.520 but yeah, why would you say your last relationship ended? Um? 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:02.800 I had. We actually had a lot of problems. It's similar, 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:06.760 like he messed around with other women and stuff like that, 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.560 and I wasn't okay with that like some girls or 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.520 girls he has women he had dated before we're okay 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.840 with it. And they knew he was dealing with multiple women. 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:17.360 They was like, okay, I'm not gonna shut the funk up. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.520 And if you call that being confrontational or argumentative, then 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.960 it is what it is. But like that was the problem. 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.600 So I became a problem too because I'm like, well, 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:28.080 where the funk are you going? What are you doing? 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.960 I started to become annoying because he was a dog, right, 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.239 But you stay, you tried to stay. I did stay 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:35.720 for a while, but that ship just kept getting worse 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:38.240 and worse. It was like awful, You thought he was 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.360 gonna change or you just wasn't. I did, because you 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.920 know what when I had conversations with him, like I 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.560 knew the person he was before, and I've seen him change, 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.160 So I just thought he was gonna keep changing because 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:52.000 I changed. I was a dog to ship. I said, 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.040 I was should I used to talk to this nigga, 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:55.720 that nigga is, you know what I mean? But then 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:57.560 like when I grew up more, it was just like 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:00.360 I was just with him, so he's telling me, Oh, 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.680 we're just gonna be together. Me and you you change me. 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:05.600 I believed it, right, and it might be naive or whatever, 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.040 but when you're in love with somebody, you tend to 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.080 believe what they say. You want to believe. You want 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.240 to believe. What about your tickers and your last relationship? 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.800 Why did it? M Let's see what he says. Because 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:20.880 I got out. Yeah, the person who I was talking to, 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.920 it wasn't the same person when I got out, Like 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.840 we wasn't compatible. We wouldn't know. It wasn't nothing there 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.360 and I'm not gonna force it. Even we can still 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.640 be cool, but it's not no relationship material type of 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:35.280 you feel me connection. She held down while you was 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.040 locked up. She held you down while you was locked up, though, 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:42.520 that's cool, And as soon as you came out, it 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.280 was like over no, and I as soon that I 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:46.880 tried to do it, I tried you feel y'all said, 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.840 I don't want to talked to her whenever house couples 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:55.600 are like thanks to the commentary pictures, you said, because 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.600 I can force it like i'd rather, I'd rather I 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:00.640 can't do it, but I wouldn't be what she's different 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:05.880 over you? Different? Um because you know they got jail talk. Yeah, 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:09.360 I was on my jail talk. You gotta be on 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.160 your jail talk because you ain't got nobody in there. 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.800 So whoever you got, you gotta make sure they think 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:17.080 that they're everything. Everything we're about to suck up. That's 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:19.360 the reality of it, though he's keeping it. That's the 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.640 reality of it. Though. Is she mad now? No, because 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:24.800 I still be you feel me whatever you need, I'm 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:27.160 here from you, I'm here for you. I ain't gonna 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.160 just turn my back on you. We cool and all that. 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.840 Whenever you need me, I'm here. But it can't be 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:34.840 that though, Damn, it can't be what I said it was. 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.640 So it's good to break up with somebody when they 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.120 go to jail. But what are you saying, like we're 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:46.160 gonna be together get married? Did you believe it? I did, 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.200 I wanted. I did what I was writing. I did. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.240 I did when you was away. When I was away, 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:52.880 I was even telling dudes like, I ain't gonna go 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:54.679 out there. She I'll be a fool, And she did 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:56.960 all this time. But I couldn't do it though, And 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.240 she didn't sleep with nobody else. I don't know. I 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.719 wouldn't hurt say that, right, she should do like a 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:08.600 first day remix of what he track she got to. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:14.680 That would be crazy talking about how she held him down, 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:18.120 all right? I mean I ain't completely turned my back 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:20.640 on it, though, right right? I feel you? You just 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:23.679 you gave us some tickets to the show, yeah, or 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.120 that you feel me? But they was in the middle. Though. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:31.120 You deserve somebody that that that that won't you why 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:32.920 you know why I lead her on? Okay, staff, what 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.520 about you? Less situation. Why would you say, you guys 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:38.280 broke up um because he went to jail. He didn't 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:42.960 want to be me anymore. It's the opposite situation. Dudes 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:44.839 beyond that though, because it's like I know seen, but 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:46.400 I know seeing about to be faithful to them behind 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:49.839 anybody myself through that. Yeah, but I told him from 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:51.600 the jump street that I was gonna I wasn't gonna 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.400 be faithful to him while he was in jail. Well, 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:56.160 I told him, I was like, you know, I like 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.000 to have sex. I'm not going to not have sex 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.360 for two years. Maybe I'll go a couple of months, 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:02.880 but I'm definitely gonna have sex while you're in jail 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:07.320 your last two months when you come. Yeah, he was, 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:11.400 he was gone, He's he's already, Um out of jail. 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:14.480 Now we broke up. I felt like you tried, though, 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.319 like you were not. I wanted to. I would have. 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.840 I would have. I would have. I would have held 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:20.920 him down. I would have did anything anything I had 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:23.240 to do for him. I would have gone to the visits, 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:26.360 whatever it was that I needed to do. But and 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:29.120 I would have probably been working with somebody else. I 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:32.280 probably would have dated around while he was in jail, honestly, 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:34.480 but I wasn't gonna tell him about it and heard him. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:36.920 You know, he would have never found out about it. 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:40.760 But I mean, keeping it like I feel like unspoken thing, 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:45.280 like you know me, and you know, I'm I'm gonna 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:48.719 need somebody to eat my pussy. I want point another. Yes, 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:56.720 you know what I mean. That's just what. So he 0:11:56.760 --> 0:12:01.160 broke up with me here he no, we um you know, 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.160 he was gone for two years. We didn't speak for 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.719 most of the time he was in jail, and you know, 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:10.000 I'm I'm, I'm I'm you know, I'm totally on something 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:13.040 totally different now, you know what I mean. He kind 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.880 of did do a favor, No, he did. I feel 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.160 like he did the best thing because we probably weren't 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.360 gonna end up breaking up anyway, because there was probably 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:22.040 gonna be a time when I flew on, when I 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.079 went on vacation with somebody, and I was gonna be 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.360 able to answer my coals, you know, and I was 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:28.240 gonna drive him crazy, and then it was gonna be 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.280 my fault that we broke up. So at least, you know, 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.240 I could be the I could be that person and 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:37.520 blame it on him. And be telling the truth. Okay, 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:39.640 now I time to tell. When do you discuss things 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:43.760 like finances or your credit score? The third date? Third date, 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:48.079 when you get into a relationship or never relationship relationship? Yeah, 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:50.680 that's definitely that's not nothing. Why do you need to 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.880 know that we're just dating now we considering moving on 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:56.840 and being more serious thing? Hell yeah, all right, so 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:59.480 before you get in a relationship, yeah, I think like 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:02.360 around the time when it starts getting real serious. Like 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.440 I think when you when you're about to move in, 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.320 that's a good point when you got because we're getting 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:08.960 a place together. I need to know what you when 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:13.280 you're living together. That's when it's like, um, this is 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:19.120 how much money I really have? When he asked, I 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.320 feel like, like you said, we are moving together. My 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.240 family got to know you and everything. We gotta bead 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.600 we have all the way. Like me, there can't be 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.440 no daught in my mind about you. You ever live 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:32.000 with somebody ever? No? I haven't, So that's gonna be 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.079 a big deal. When I got locked that when I 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.520 was really young. All right, can't home bro? Now you're 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:43.920 just going Are you going crazy now with ladies? Yeah? 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:48.200 I would, I would think that too, all right, Well 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:51.520 credit I would say, um, finances are a very important 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.880 thing to discuss, but I would probably want to discuss 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:55.560 that and maybe not your credit score. But before I 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:58.400 even got into a relationship, just because I'm really good 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.679 with my finances and I don't want to day somebody 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.360 does not really good at because what if you can 0:14:02.400 --> 0:14:04.439 help him? I can help him, and like what if 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.160 he's good like but I want to know, but doesn't 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:09.480 manage his money well? And maybe you can help him? Yeah, 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:10.760 I mean, I just want to say it was a 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:15.600 deal breaker. Shot, what if he's just fucked like, you're 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:18.600 still gonna and that's a good indication of how somebody 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.240 handles their business period. You know what I'm saying, Like, 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:25.280 how are you with your finances? I'm good with I 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:28.760 feel like I'm good. I feel like I got turned 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.640 around and look at the people he it come into 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:33.000 a point where I ain't got a choice but to 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.200 be good with it. It don't look like he's telling 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:44.000 the truth. Everybody else's like you still det right, So 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.680 did you like buy? I know everybody's lyying how's in Detroit? 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:48.680 Did you think about? Like I got to invest in 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:52.680 my city and do all this that? All right? He's like, 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:56.200 I'm not that's what I did, all right? When do 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:59.120 you tell somebody this is a weird question, But this 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.760 has had then And it's interesting because I just interviewed 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.160 this woman, Janet Mack. She has a book cast of 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.920 Passing Certainty that she used to be a different gender. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:09.680 Oh you call to our woman's that was thrown off. 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:12.600 She's a woman now, Okay, okay, so she's got turning 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:14.800 into when she is a woman. Yeah. Now imagine if 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:17.880 you dated somebody for the ladies and you found that 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:22.120 later on that he actually was born as a girl. 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:25.520 That would never happen to me. How do you know? 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:29.640 Because I like guys. I like guys with like big dicks, 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:32.480 big hard dicks. You can't do that. You can't. You 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:35.640 can't get it, debt. You can't create a big, big 0:15:35.680 --> 0:15:39.280 dick like the way I had a strap. Now could 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.600 I would know it like it's in my mouth, it's 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.920 like slapping on my face, like that was not I 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:48.920 would I would know if they were it was artificial, 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:51.760 I would know. I don't think that would ever happens. Okay, 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:56.560 well that's the guys. Dad has sex yet? Oh and 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:59.280 you like, you don't know, and he was just everything 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.560 that you wanted. I don't think a woman could possibly 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:04.840 be built the way that I'm the way as to 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.040 what I'm attracted to win a man. I don't think 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.280 a woman could be built like that with big shoulders 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.880 like I like, I like big. You never watched W 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:19.960 N b A. They're still too frail for me, man, 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:26.440 they're still too frail, like watch hands even a minute, 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:29.280 That's what I'm saying. That's especially with those big guys, 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.640 like come on, there's no way a woman could look 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:35.440 like that. Impossible. That's why I'm not gay, that's you know, 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.480 I'm a straight girl. But why can't they build a 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:40.440 pussy But they can't build a dick. You have to 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:44.280 make maths like you have should be like a dicking plant. 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.160 They could get Yeah, I don't know. I'm sure. I 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:48.640 don't know how. Maybe they could get it from like 0:16:48.720 --> 0:17:00.360 dead people. I don't want to zick transfer. That's what 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:03.320 I'm saying. That would never happen to girls. That that's 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:07.600 a man's problem. Like you're the girl. Your girl might 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:09.480 have been a man, you know what I mean? They 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:14.200 make a guy. I watched that surgery on YouTube turning 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:17.760 a woman, turning a man into a woman, like turning 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:20.000 the dick into a pussy. Right, Yeah, they watch the 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:23.840 middle and they tuck it inside you Jesus Christ, that 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:27.720 your penis becomes your vagina. Yeah, that's kind of cool 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:31.920 that it's not like they can pull out the vagina 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:37.359 and create a penis. And we had somebody think they 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:39.040 had a year they had showed it, like, would it 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:45.280 looked like a year after it really looked like And 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:47.200 that's another thing. Her clip was like the size of 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:49.879 my thumber. Literally it was like a dick on her 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.600 her clip. No, but that's another reason why I know 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:54.840 that would never happen to me, because I know a 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:58.920 creative penis would not be a big penis. It would 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:02.200 definitely be a little one. Well if it's a dead deck, 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:06.400 it could be whatever my penis and stop it. Yeah, 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:08.960 but I never had a small penis, But like I 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:14.520 took a small penis before, already gotta have them. Now, 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:17.560 what if that was you You met somebody, you guys 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:20.840 really clicked, but then you found out that he really 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:27.280 has a clip. I would be shocked. At first, I 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:30.280 would be surprised, and then I would be like, okay, no, 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:34.680 I can't, you can't do it? No, no, no, But 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.000 what do they tearing? What if he treated you better 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:42.160 than anybody else? Has no, because that's just like something 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:44.600 psychological that I don't really want no parts of, like 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:46.720 keep going through something when you feel like he was 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.240 born in the wrong body and I got my own issues. 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:50.680 I don't need to be dealing with that. But you 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:52.520 are you? How are you going to have a man 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:57.880 who gets a period every days and up our ship 0:18:57.920 --> 0:18:59.840 we're gonna leve together in our period is gonna sync up? 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:02.879 By baby? You got tampon? Yeh, at least you're never 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:06.800 run now, And like that's what I'm saying, But what 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:08.800 about you? I don't even really want to ask. It 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:12.840 happened to me, he feels they feel I'm sure that 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:16.240 you have seen some trans women that you could tell, 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:18.880 let that you couldn't tell you have to have seen 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:24.680 on TV. But I investigate like I'm observant, Like I 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:28.080 talked to family members everything, look at Adam's apple O 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:33.119 friends baby pictures, because I know in the world we 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:35.080 live in today, you have to do that, Like that's 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:37.920 proper procedures. Baby, But I feel like everyone should have 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:39.840 at least let me see you in the third grade. 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:43.760 Let me see your third grade baby. Maybe ugly when 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:46.800 they're young, but even probably starting to get prepared for that, 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:52.320 right throw away pictures. Somebody else but who was just 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:56.600 talking about DNA. We were just talking about the little girl. Stepan. 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:59.000 Stephanie was saying that everybody you have raw sex with 0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:02.000 their DNAs and you every woman, when you have a woman, 0:20:02.200 --> 0:20:04.240 every man you have real sex with. I was looking 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:06.159 at a study. I don't know, it's not law. I 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:11.000 didn't create the Yeah, it leaves every single man you 0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:13.560 have real sex with you have a trace of their 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:16.920 DNA inside of you. What about like the back in 0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:18.920 the day, people that don't that make you kind of 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:22.359 like discuss it, Like yes, if you think about that, 0:20:22.480 --> 0:20:25.920 it's like us and exactly what about that exploy friend 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:28.120 that you hate, you definitely have real sex with him, 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:30.760 even if you're a paranoid person like me, you definitely 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:33.440 have real sex with somebody you like. Look at today 0:20:33.520 --> 0:20:37.720 that it's like ill and you're stuck with that. I 0:20:37.960 --> 0:20:43.120 have to study. Yes, I've read it somewhere. I want 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:46.359 to read it somewhere, but I think in the in 0:20:47.040 --> 0:20:49.560 whatever I was reading it said that the DNA stays 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:53.440