WEBVTT - Happy Wife Happy Life with Jennifer Allen

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk or Talk Talk to. We're just two unapologetically black

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<v Speaker 2>women with an opinion who talks. What's up, y'all? Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for tuning in for a new episode that We

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<v Speaker 2>Talk Black, a show dedicated to these niggas in these hoes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh not the niggas that we talked black for Black

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<v Speaker 2>History Month. Okay, now, hey y'all, it's Tan Van. I

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<v Speaker 2>love y'all. I feel like I haven't been telling them

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<v Speaker 2>I loved him a couple of weeks, but I do

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<v Speaker 2>love y'all. I want to remind y'all that you are

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<v Speaker 2>very much loved by We love you too. AJ. How'd you?

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<v Speaker 2>And was about nothing? Child? Line? Do shit? And I

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<v Speaker 2>can't wait till this weekend to not do shit? You're

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna watch the super Bowl? Is that this week Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definite gonna try to find me a little kickback

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<v Speaker 2>this weekend. Yeah, I'm into this weekend. I forgot I

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<v Speaker 2>did do it. Haven't been following I noticed the forty

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<v Speaker 2>nine ers, the red team and the Blue team. Is

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<v Speaker 2>that really? Who's going to the Super Bowl? A red

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<v Speaker 2>team and a blue team. So I know, I know

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<v Speaker 2>there's a red one, the Chiefs. The Chiefs, well they're red,

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<v Speaker 2>the forty nine ers. What color are they are? They blue?

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<v Speaker 2>Red team? Right? Okay, then it's red. It gets red,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's Chiefs. It's a blood. It's a blood super

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<v Speaker 2>Bowl that was done, y'all. Ain't sure we know what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck we talk about. Y'all can tell we don't

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<v Speaker 2>watch sports like that. It's the cheese, Travis Kel I need.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Taylor Swift. So I thought he played for the

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<v Speaker 2>forty nine Ers. I'm wrong. He played for the Chiefs.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh nah, I know that. So this is Taylor Swift's

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<v Speaker 2>first Super Bowl apparently, I just hit yeah, So it's

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<v Speaker 2>two red teens. I just hate, uh how they got

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<v Speaker 2>her taken over. Goddamn NFL man, this is just disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't do it though, she just supporting her dude,

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<v Speaker 2>and everybody just making it about her. She has literally

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<v Speaker 2>come in and they have tried to take over swagsurfing

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<v Speaker 2>and also fades at this point. Okay, well you saw

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<v Speaker 2>the swag surf. Ain't no way they taking it over

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<v Speaker 2>because that shit was very was thirty. It was thirty

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<v Speaker 2>at all and in the fade. That is the funniest

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<v Speaker 2>shit to me. It's just it's how America was founded.

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<v Speaker 2>It stupid Internet new period, that's what the fuck America's

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<v Speaker 2>founded on on a motherfucker trying to say they started

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<v Speaker 2>something that they didn't you name. I guess we're in

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<v Speaker 2>stupid internet news. Travis Kelsey came out and said, like, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do that to me. I did not invent

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<v Speaker 2>that shit ever. People invent that shit. It's black history, mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want no problems. Stop playing with whar he's won.

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<v Speaker 2>They was on some dumb shit man February one. They

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<v Speaker 2>don't care about us. All the white boys going to

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<v Speaker 2>get the Travis Kelsey, that's a boosty say he find now,

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<v Speaker 2>I go, lie, I much can lie. He is nice looking,

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<v Speaker 2>nice to look at. I don't even see him with

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift for real, Like I don't know who she's

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be. But he got a little bit too

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<v Speaker 2>much swag for tailors. He got swag. That's why I

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<v Speaker 2>say I don't think he I don't find him attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think he's got a lot of swag. Because

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<v Speaker 2>if you cut that beard off and you've seen him

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<v Speaker 2>without the meatles. He like male Paul buyan As looking white,

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<v Speaker 2>brownie man, that's what he makes Johnny Ella seed for sure. Shame.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about the Grammys. That's what I did. I

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<v Speaker 2>watched the Grammys. I enjoyed the Grammys this year. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you I didn't watch He's gonna be watching TV JA,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't watch you, lay, I am lying. I let

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<v Speaker 2>my hookah. I had me a bottle of champagne and

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<v Speaker 2>I just watched the Grammys. I was singing. Fantasia made

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<v Speaker 2>me so proud. She looks so good. I'm just so

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<v Speaker 2>happy for her too. Yeah, she's like getting all the

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<v Speaker 2>accolades she has always deserved. Who else? Oh, Tracy Chapman

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<v Speaker 2>and I love that song. I love that remake fast, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the Guy's what's the guy? I don't know? Also

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<v Speaker 2>got that shit every single day comes on the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>I listened to that song. I love that. Yeah, that's songs.

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<v Speaker 2>And she looks so amazing. She looked good, She's aging

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<v Speaker 2>so beautifully. Them dimples aren't the thing is I never

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<v Speaker 2>realized that was her song. I didn't realize that when

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<v Speaker 2>they was playing with that shit on a living Color.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't. I didn't realize that was a black woman's song. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what God they had the sister playing her playing that

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<v Speaker 2>character in Living Color girl. I have no idea. What

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<v Speaker 2>you don't remember them doing that on Living Color, playing

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<v Speaker 2>and doing that song when the Living Color I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I was able to watch him Living Color yet?

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<v Speaker 2>What your mommy? Lets you watch a kid? I was little? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking about deaf comedy jam even deaf comedy jamiot Like,

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<v Speaker 2>what how old are you again? Never mind? So let's

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<v Speaker 2>keep playing. Yeah you might have been born Yeah I

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<v Speaker 2>was little. Yeah, you're right to that part. And Living Color?

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<v Speaker 2>What's that? So you never seen Martin either? I love

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<v Speaker 2>that show. I watched all the reruns. Shame. So the Grammy, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get into it right quick. So jay Z won

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<v Speaker 2>one of the most prominent awards. I would say at

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<v Speaker 2>the Grammy's Grammys. Maybe it's named at the Doctor Dre

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<v Speaker 2>is that Doctor Dre Global Impact Award, And in the

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<v Speaker 2>midst of his acceptance speech, he goes on to call

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<v Speaker 2>it the Grammys about how his wife ain't never one

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<v Speaker 2>album of the year. She got thirty sounds Grammys, but

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<v Speaker 2>for whatever reason, she keeps getting snubbed for Album of

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<v Speaker 2>the Year, while Taylor Swift won this past Sunday, that's

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<v Speaker 2>her fourth Grammy for Album of the Year. Ed labed

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<v Speaker 2>me to go listen to some Tailor Swift music. I

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<v Speaker 2>had to see what the fuck they be hearing. I

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<v Speaker 2>hear this shit on the radio. She doesn't have any

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<v Speaker 2>albums we could just listen straight through either. And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like Beyonce has had several albums, especially Lemonade, she

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<v Speaker 2>should have gotten a Grammy for and she should have

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<v Speaker 2>called Beyonce on the stage like Beyonce did what she

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<v Speaker 2>won her first gram Remember when Kanye was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna let you finish, but Beyonce, well, he didn't lie. Clearly,

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't lie. He wasn't not here. We all tend yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I think jay Z doing the same shit. Taylor swisherd

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<v Speaker 2>said I'm a finish, but Beyonce, can you come up here?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I feel like this should have been your or

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<v Speaker 2>some shit like that. You should have gotten this a

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<v Speaker 2>million years ago, right that way, though she probably doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>feel that way. It's because you know what, Celene Beyond

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<v Speaker 2>gave her the award and she did not even acknowledge

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<v Speaker 2>Selene beyond. I was upset with that, like, girl, how

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<v Speaker 2>are you gonna be standing right next to the queen

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<v Speaker 2>with that bob boy gone looking like a black girl

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<v Speaker 2>in that bob wig with them diamonds on the diamonds.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't even thee the diamonds was blinding me on

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<v Speaker 2>the TV screen. And you're not gonna acknowledge Selene And

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<v Speaker 2>she got health issues. She came out there for you, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk about stats when it comes to Beyonce

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<v Speaker 2>and Taylor Swift. So it's this American songwriter. Taylor Swift

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<v Speaker 2>has released ten original studio studio albums. Beyonce has four.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, Beyonce has seven to Taylor Swift's ten. Taylor

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift has four re recorded UH studio albums, five

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<v Speaker 2>extended plays, and four live albums. She's sold and estimated

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred fourteen million album units worldwide, and in terms

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<v Speaker 2>of pure cells TA tally that forty six point six

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<v Speaker 2>million in the United States and seven million in the UK.

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<v Speaker 2>R IAA, which is the Recording Industry Association of America.

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<v Speaker 2>Her albums have garnered fifty one million certified units in

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<v Speaker 2>the United States. As of February twenty twenty four, she

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<v Speaker 2>is the solo artist with the most weeks most most

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<v Speaker 2>weeks sixty nine at number one on US Billboard two hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's just a little, quick, little brief rundown of

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift's whatever. Okay, so I hear it's Beyonce. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>but here's the thing. Taylor Swift her tour alsold Beyonce's

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<v Speaker 2>tour by dump did it? Are you sure googled it

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<v Speaker 2>last night? Yeah? I did. I know. She's just very

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<v Speaker 2>she's sure watchcraft, y'all ain't seeing that shit. I seen

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<v Speaker 2>those damn clips. She was literally in black hoods on stage. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>she got it. They literally created a thing called post

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<v Speaker 2>concert amnesia because concert goers don't even remember attending the

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<v Speaker 2>Tailorswip concert. They created a syndrome for people after tailerslipt concert.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't even remember going. They don't ever, they don't

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<v Speaker 2>even remember what happened at the concert. They were there,

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<v Speaker 2>but they don't remember what happened. She fucking putting people

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<v Speaker 2>on the hypnosis. I'm convinced it's a real thing. So

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<v Speaker 2>what else happened? Killer Mike got arrested at the Grammys

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<v Speaker 2>after winning three Grammys. I like, he's an elder in

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<v Speaker 2>the hip hop, not an elder, and he won three Grammys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah he's you know, he's not twenty two. You can't

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<v Speaker 2>call that man older. But in hip hop. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>If you you don't think so I'm oldest Killing Mike,

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<v Speaker 2>he's you'd be like, what, forty five is forty six

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<v Speaker 2>years old? That's not an elder. You're like forty eight,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, so we call it. Okay, you really having

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<v Speaker 2>fun today, bitch. Well, I'm not calling him out elder

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<v Speaker 2>for the Earth. I'm not elder for the earth. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>calling it. Maybe that's not what I was saying. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>people were saying like, oh, you're too old, you're this,

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<v Speaker 2>you're that, and he's proven that that is not the case,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, So that's all I was alluding. I was

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<v Speaker 2>surprised I hadn't listened to any Killing Mike album. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't realize he even had an album come out, And

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I really hadn't listened to that much new

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<v Speaker 2>music last year for real, unless you know, a little

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<v Speaker 2>singles and shit like that. I haven't really popped in

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<v Speaker 2>anybody's album. So I just was kind of under a

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<v Speaker 2>rock last year with music wise. I didn't realize he

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<v Speaker 2>had an album that even came out. Did you listen

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<v Speaker 2>to what she was listening to? You? I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know shit, Reverend. I I listened up. I listened because

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<v Speaker 2>of the Scientists and Engineer single that Henry greyd that wards.

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<v Speaker 2>You heard that though, right, Oh, that's the thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>hadn't heard them. I hadn't and maybe I've heard it

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<v Speaker 2>and this just don't remember. I don't know. I got

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to it again, but into world news, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>Son and Nigga got arrested for what though? Oh we're

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<v Speaker 2>going back to that. Yeah, okay, that's the when he

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<v Speaker 2>got arrested because he had a altercation with one of

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<v Speaker 2>the security guards at the Grammys. And I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was just like a very over zealous security guard that

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted to prove a port that you can't play

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<v Speaker 2>with him. He top flight, so they came and got

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<v Speaker 2>him up out of there over something stupid. It really

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<v Speaker 2>was trying to act like he ain't killing Nigga just

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<v Speaker 2>won three Grammys. You don't know who I am. I

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<v Speaker 2>bet you was a black ride. Oh yeah, probably. You

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<v Speaker 2>know they take their security job X football player. When

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<v Speaker 2>them ex football players become security guards, that'd be disgruntled.

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<v Speaker 2>In light of the Grammys And like I said, I

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<v Speaker 2>was talking about Taylor Swift's disco it's a discoography, pstography Beyonce. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 2>American singer Beyonce has released seven studio albums, five live albums,

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<v Speaker 2>three compilation albums, five EPs, one soundtrack album, and two

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<v Speaker 2>karaoke albums. I don't know what the fuck a karaoke

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<v Speaker 2>album is, but I want to do them so to date.

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<v Speaker 2>To date, Beyonce has sold over two hundred million records

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<v Speaker 2>worldwide as a solo artist, making her one of the

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<v Speaker 2>best selling music artists of all time. Billboard ringd her

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<v Speaker 2>as a thirty seventh greatest artist of all time. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know where Taylor Swift rings amongst all the greats

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<v Speaker 2>that we've had, because given her these four Grammys, that

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<v Speaker 2>means she's we not talk about Taylor Swift. We talk

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<v Speaker 2>about in this moment. Let see, she's better than I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just doing a comparison. Still, that means she's better than

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<v Speaker 2>Michael Jackson at this point anyway. So The Recording Industry

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<v Speaker 2>Association Association of America recognized her as the top certified

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<v Speaker 2>certified artist is so Beyonce Okay of the two thousands decade.

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<v Speaker 2>According to our IAA, Beyonce has sold thirty point five

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<v Speaker 2>million albums in the United States, and as of November

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty three, the RIAA list her total certified sales

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<v Speaker 2>as a solo artist, including features as over one hundred

0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:40.880
<v Speaker 2>and seventy four million in the United States. So Beyonce

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna be our batty. Beyonce should have got the

0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:48.640
<v Speaker 2>goddamn Grammy. Okay, Beyonce, we salute you. You are baddy

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<v Speaker 2>who toss back for this week? Girl. We love you,

0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:53.520
<v Speaker 2>and I'm gonna put tailor swift ass in a freezer.

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<v Speaker 2>They are not winning the super Bowl this year, okay?

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<v Speaker 2>But ill world news. All right, y'all come close to

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<v Speaker 2>how you're listening to the device, however you listening it is, y'll.

0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:11.520
<v Speaker 2>Drake Dick was leaked. Drake's Dick was lead. Drake. I

0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:18.800
<v Speaker 2>was so upset Dick is leaking. Don't do that. I

0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:23.080
<v Speaker 2>can lie. I much can lie. That was a nice wikipedist, Drake,

0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:28.120
<v Speaker 2>nice Wickoripedia It is nice and long. It wasn't extremely girthy,

0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.120
<v Speaker 2>but it wasn't all the way you know, full. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a half tub, so it might you know, expand

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<v Speaker 2>a little. I feel like you put that shit out.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't see Drake fucking with somebody at this

0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:42.480
<v Speaker 2>point where they would do something like that, like where

0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.240
<v Speaker 2>you gotta have a little bit more discernment than to

0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:46.840
<v Speaker 2>be fucking with a bitch and they put your dick

0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:51.440
<v Speaker 2>on the internet like that. Yeah, I hate that for

0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.440
<v Speaker 2>him us. I hate that for us because everybody just

0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.680
<v Speaker 2>see our mand. My sister gonna message me like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you got the Drake video. I was like yes, She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>can you send it to me? I was like absolutely not.

0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:05.560
<v Speaker 2>She was like why. I was like, I'm not sitting

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<v Speaker 2>you my man's dig Like, that's weird for you to

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<v Speaker 2>even ask me for that. She was like, bitch, just

0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:15.680
<v Speaker 2>send it. That's not your man, that's not your man.

0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Man like me in one here, like all the dudes

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<v Speaker 2>like on Twitter on excuse me, it's talking about Drake

0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:30.040
<v Speaker 2>got all the holes, money and an XX Glizzie. Yeah,

0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:35.480
<v Speaker 2>it's just too much winning for him. It's disgusting. Man. Yeah,

0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.160
<v Speaker 2>I like cockshots though, Like, I want to know who

0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:41.200
<v Speaker 2>the fuck got that cock shot? Who you said that?

0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.880
<v Speaker 2>That did look all manicure right, that dig look like

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<v Speaker 2>it had just been through like a manicure session, like

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<v Speaker 2>it was all nicely. He was tapping that hairy eyeshole too,

0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:58.160
<v Speaker 2>with the blanket right there, Like, did y'all see our

0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.640
<v Speaker 2>producer tailor? She pulls her little picture and at Drake

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram or her Instagram story. Yeah, I was really

0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:06.160
<v Speaker 2>get at her for that this way, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>just like, you know what, I'm gonna let her hand dad.

0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:10.480
<v Speaker 2>She got into her little picture and she hat but

0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:13.280
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, cause you got Tyler Lepli or

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<v Speaker 2>whatever his name is. You already got pictures with that nigga,

0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:17.800
<v Speaker 2>and now here you come popping out with my you

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<v Speaker 2>know that's my nigger you posted. Look, Drake had his

0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:24.760
<v Speaker 2>arm round tailor neck. I now I felt. I'm like, wait,

0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.040
<v Speaker 2>why you got his hand right your neck like that?

0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Like he was like, yeah, he was showing her a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. I cut the turrn one a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but I'm like, why why Drake got

0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:37.640
<v Speaker 2>his hair on your neck like that tailor top? But

0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:40.280
<v Speaker 2>he know what's up. You better get tailor girl. She

0:16:40.280 --> 0:16:43.680
<v Speaker 2>better take your man. I would hate the choke slam

0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Taylor ass somewhere would hate to do that to her.

0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:54.840
<v Speaker 2>That's not your nigga. Okay, my man, y'all, If you

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<v Speaker 2>ever happened between me and Drake, just know that I

0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:02.200
<v Speaker 2>manifested it here with you listeners. Believe it in it

0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:05.000
<v Speaker 2>right here on this show man from day one, from

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<v Speaker 2>episode one, Yeah, really want Drake. What I do that

0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:16.800
<v Speaker 2>is not even your type. He's not my type. But

0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm a huge fan and I love him so much.

0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:21.720
<v Speaker 2>So y'all, we was at Drake concert. This bitch ain't

0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:25.960
<v Speaker 2>no naw Drake song. That's a lie. I do all

0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.720
<v Speaker 2>the songs. All the real fans were singing the hell

0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:32.680
<v Speaker 2>out that nigga song We like No that was twenty one.

0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Savage said, I didn't know that's what it was. You

0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:41.080
<v Speaker 2>was ready hanging on my love life right now, and

0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:44.920
<v Speaker 2>I just don't appreciate it between you and Taylor today.

0:17:45.080 --> 0:17:47.680
<v Speaker 2>It's just die Taylor. One step, I'm closer than you, bitch.

0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.000
<v Speaker 2>You better get she is. But that's okay because I'm

0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:53.720
<v Speaker 2>going to see Drake again. And two where he gonna

0:17:53.720 --> 0:17:58.640
<v Speaker 2>be at hand he back on tour with Ja Cole. Interesting,

0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:04.560
<v Speaker 2>he gonna be in Ohio. They had Drake, you know

0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:08.159
<v Speaker 2>through your bronze age, tam Bam coming, I ain't gonna

0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:12.960
<v Speaker 2>have one one. So tam Bam coming to see your baby?

0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:15.480
<v Speaker 2>All right, what are we do we have anything else

0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:18.440
<v Speaker 2>for stupid? I think that's that man. That's a whole

0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:21.400
<v Speaker 2>like a lot of gang shit going on, uh this week,

0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:24.960
<v Speaker 2>but Drake just ruined the internet for the day. I

0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.720
<v Speaker 2>think I haven't really been back on and see what

0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:35.600
<v Speaker 2>the fuck people talk about about that dick. But yeah,

0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:37.480
<v Speaker 2>m my mom would call me this morning and she

0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:42.760
<v Speaker 2>was listening to the episode with the Jody you know,

0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:46.800
<v Speaker 2>teaching us how to you know, suck dick. And my

0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:48.560
<v Speaker 2>mom was like, you know what, what was she teaching

0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:52.000
<v Speaker 2>us to suck dick? Well, she she didn't teach us,

0:18:52.040 --> 0:18:56.960
<v Speaker 2>but she said she could like she has closely choreography

0:18:57.200 --> 0:19:00.480
<v Speaker 2>class for a second dick. Okay, yeah yeah, And my

0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.919
<v Speaker 2>mom said, good morning, baby, Can I just say something?

0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I said, yes, ma'am. She was like, every time I

0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:10.760
<v Speaker 2>think we can't get to a new level of what

0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:14.320
<v Speaker 2>the fuck you and AJ take it y'all will take

0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.320
<v Speaker 2>it to a new level of what the It's not

0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 2>really us taking it to a new level. It's the

0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:23.480
<v Speaker 2>guess that's what I said. She said, well, you brought

0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:26.480
<v Speaker 2>them on there, didn't you. I was like, yes, I did.

0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:30.320
<v Speaker 2>We all just be be doing like shit for research purposes. Okay,

0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:36.200
<v Speaker 2>it's just a little high. We have hypotheses ed education, edumacation.

0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:42.080
<v Speaker 2>That's all speaking of education, all right. So I was

0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:44.560
<v Speaker 2>really like, in my feelings, this is the ninth year

0:19:44.560 --> 0:19:46.600
<v Speaker 2>in a row that I have not had a Valentine,

0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:50.920
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, just you know, I'm still hopeful,

0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:53.439
<v Speaker 2>and I still like what love, and I'm still like,

0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I hope it's romantic regardless. If you want to see

0:19:57.680 --> 0:19:59.399
<v Speaker 2>something good, watch The Valve. If you want to be

0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:01.199
<v Speaker 2>all in the field. That's a good movie on Netflix

0:20:01.280 --> 0:20:05.359
<v Speaker 2>right now, the vowel. But I was scrolling and I

0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:07.840
<v Speaker 2>was seeing like this post. I can't remember whose page

0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:10.560
<v Speaker 2>it was on, but it was like tag the happiest wife,

0:20:10.600 --> 0:20:13.520
<v Speaker 2>you know. So I went in there and I started

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<v Speaker 2>reading a women who were tagged, but the ones that

0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:19.679
<v Speaker 2>I who I was most impressed with were the wives

0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:23.520
<v Speaker 2>who tagged themselves. So I messaged those wives and I

0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:26.119
<v Speaker 2>asked them to come on this show and talk about

0:20:26.200 --> 0:20:28.800
<v Speaker 2>why you're the happiest wife, because I want us to

0:20:28.800 --> 0:20:30.560
<v Speaker 2>be hopeful, I want us to find love, and I

0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:33.879
<v Speaker 2>want us to grow. So we'll be right back with

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<v Speaker 2>our first guest. Who's gonna talk about why she's the

0:20:36.840 --> 0:20:45.080
<v Speaker 2>happiest wife. EM Okay, guys, we're back. And y'all know

0:20:45.160 --> 0:20:47.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm a hopeless romantic. So I was scrolling and I

0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:51.560
<v Speaker 2>just saw this beautiful post about the happiest wife. So

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<v Speaker 2>I got to dig it through the comments to seeing

0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:56.520
<v Speaker 2>who they were shouting out to be the happiest wife.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I was more impressed with the women who

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<v Speaker 2>were saying that they were the happiest wife themselves, because

0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:04.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, outside I can thank you the happiest wife.

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<v Speaker 2>You may not be, but these women were saying, no, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>look at me, because I am the happiest wife. And

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<v Speaker 2>I came across this one profile for our guest, Jennifer Allen.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for joining us, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>And she is the CEO of Justin Loaf LLC in Dallas, Texas,

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<v Speaker 2>where she creates traades micro weddings all over Dallas.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for joining us, girl, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us what makes you that? Like? What made you

0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:34.600
<v Speaker 2>decide to say tight? Right there? I am the happiest wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't play with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't play with it, because, let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband is. He is top tier.

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<v Speaker 2>He has been intentional about being a husband, not just

0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:50.960
<v Speaker 2>wanting a wife since I met him, and we have

0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:58.119
<v Speaker 2>been married for thirteen years and we have three sons, eleven,

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<v Speaker 2>nine and two, and every day that we've been together,

0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:08.120
<v Speaker 2>I've never had to question whether or not I am

0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:11.960
<v Speaker 2>enough for him, whether he loves me, whether I am.

0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:14.280
<v Speaker 1>Secure within our relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's not to say that we don't have issues

0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:21.879
<v Speaker 2>or petty arguments or that sort of thing, but it's

0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:25.480
<v Speaker 2>this security that comes with no matter what.

0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:27.960
<v Speaker 1>He can be upset with me.

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<v Speaker 2>If he leaves out the house, he gonna bring me

0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:34.119
<v Speaker 2>something back. If he goes to go do something, he

0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:36.920
<v Speaker 2>gonna I'll be back. I'm about to go do whatever.

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:39.560
<v Speaker 2>It's no storm out of the house. It's all this

0:22:39.720 --> 0:22:42.840
<v Speaker 2>security of no matter what, you are the most important

0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:45.720
<v Speaker 2>thing to me. Even though you're getting on my last

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:48.720
<v Speaker 2>nerve at this moment, and I'm sure our work is nerve,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't care how long did y'all date before

0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:57.119
<v Speaker 2>you got married? So we met in January two thousand

0:22:57.160 --> 0:23:00.640
<v Speaker 2>and nine, and we got married in July two thousand,

0:23:00.840 --> 0:23:04.959
<v Speaker 2>so you knew that quickly, yes, So on our So

0:23:05.000 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 2>I met my husband on my Space, so let's start there.

0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:16.679
<v Speaker 2>So I and what so random is I had not

0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:20.920
<v Speaker 2>been on my Space in years, right, like so long?

0:23:21.080 --> 0:23:25.399
<v Speaker 2>Facebook was popping then had been and so long. And

0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:27.960
<v Speaker 2>my best friend was likeirl, I walked into my MySpace

0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:31.159
<v Speaker 2>page the other day and I'm like, let me get

0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:33.920
<v Speaker 2>on here and see. And I don't know how whether

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:35.679
<v Speaker 2>he has sent me a message. So much time has

0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:38.600
<v Speaker 2>passed since since then, but I don't know how we

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:42.359
<v Speaker 2>end up connecting. We exchange, we end up exchanging phone

0:23:42.440 --> 0:23:47.640
<v Speaker 2>numbers like that same day, talked on the phone all day.

0:23:47.680 --> 0:23:49.119
<v Speaker 1>On a it was a Saturday.

0:23:49.119 --> 0:23:51.720
<v Speaker 2>We talked on the phone all day long, and then

0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:53.359
<v Speaker 2>he was like, man, I wish I could see, but

0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:56.560
<v Speaker 2>I got to go to work tomorrow. He's nineteen years old, right,

0:23:56.640 --> 0:24:01.399
<v Speaker 2>so kids, And so I'm like, oh, don't don't stop

0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:03.640
<v Speaker 2>your bag behind me, like go, you know, go take

0:24:03.640 --> 0:24:06.399
<v Speaker 2>care of your business. So the next day he calls

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 2>me and He's like, what you're doing today? And I'm like, nothing,

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:12.640
<v Speaker 2>what you doing? I thought you had to go to work.

0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 2>He's like I'm sick. I'm like, oh hell la la.

0:24:17.160 --> 0:24:22.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yo, you've got his full work. If you

0:24:22.880 --> 0:24:25.000
<v Speaker 2>feel to take off of your job from some cheek

0:24:25.080 --> 0:24:27.439
<v Speaker 2>you demit on the internet, you FeelA not go to

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:30.240
<v Speaker 2>work behind somebody you don't even know.

0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:34.159
<v Speaker 1>And we end up going to the to Rezus and

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 1>going to.

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<v Speaker 2>The movies and he went with me to Walmart so

0:24:37.160 --> 0:24:40.439
<v Speaker 2>I can get my little groceries for the week and

0:24:41.040 --> 0:24:43.520
<v Speaker 2>we had a really good, like just a really good time.

0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:47.440
<v Speaker 2>So that was a Sunday. That Wednesday, he came over

0:24:47.520 --> 0:24:50.960
<v Speaker 2>my house and he was like, we are gonna get married.

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:54.480
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, boy, you are just trying to get

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 2>you some and you don't have to say all that

0:24:57.680 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 2>because I'm finna give it to you, so you don't

0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:04.479
<v Speaker 2>gotta gas me up.

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:05.800
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like.

0:25:05.760 --> 0:25:08.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't, I don't need this has happening because I

0:25:08.960 --> 0:25:10.879
<v Speaker 2>wanted to happen. This has nothing to do with you

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:15.119
<v Speaker 2>telling me that we're gonna get married. And he was like, no, like,

0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 2>we're we're gonna get married. I'm like, all right, whatever.

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:24.480
<v Speaker 2>So literally we became inseparable from that moment on and

0:25:24.840 --> 0:25:27.520
<v Speaker 2>I had just got out of relationship a couple months prior,

0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:32.080
<v Speaker 2>and I was really on some like I'm setting boundaries

0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:34.800
<v Speaker 2>with people and whoever don't get it, don't get it.

0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 2>So he would come stay the night at my house

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:40.879
<v Speaker 2>and I told him, I said, hey, if you stay

0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:44.879
<v Speaker 2>here seven times throughout the month, you're gonna have to

0:25:44.920 --> 0:25:48.520
<v Speaker 2>pay my light bill because you over here using electricity

0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:51.399
<v Speaker 2>to microwaves, like you just because he lived with his

0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:54.919
<v Speaker 2>mom and so he was in the military waiting orders

0:25:55.040 --> 0:25:57.720
<v Speaker 2>and so I'm like, you, my light bill was like

0:25:58.160 --> 0:26:00.439
<v Speaker 2>sixty dollars. They weren't even like it was like crazy,

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:02.800
<v Speaker 2>And so he was there.

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:04.000
<v Speaker 1>At the end of the month, came.

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:07.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I need my sixty three fifty more, like

0:26:07.800 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 2>where where's where's my money at? And he and he

0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:15.200
<v Speaker 2>paid it, and like I didn't have cable, and he

0:26:15.200 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 2>would come over there and he was like, you don't

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:20.560
<v Speaker 2>have cable. You just watching DVD's. Rest or red Box

0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:23.480
<v Speaker 2>was BD. He's like, you just watching DVD's.

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 1>All the time.

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:27.919
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I have to choose between being able to

0:26:27.920 --> 0:26:32.080
<v Speaker 2>consistently keep my nails done or having cable, and I'm

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 2>choosing my nails, And so I said, if you want

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 2>me to have cable, then you get the cable.

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't need no cable. And so he

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:40.639
<v Speaker 1>got the cable.

0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:43.359
<v Speaker 2>And so when I would leave to go to work,

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 2>I would make him reap get up too, like you

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:50.000
<v Speaker 2>got you gotta go to work, So you head back

0:26:50.040 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 2>to where you're going, because you're just not finna be

0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:55.159
<v Speaker 2>land up in my house. And so it started to

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:58.000
<v Speaker 2>go to where I would we would leave at the

0:26:58.040 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 2>same time. Then it would be when he would leave,

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:03.360
<v Speaker 2>he would bring my key to my job. And then

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 2>that turned into him saying, well, can I just have

0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 2>a key? And so I was like, well, you know

0:27:08.520 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 2>you've never had an apartment before, so let me explain

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.359
<v Speaker 2>to you how it works. When you go into the

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 2>lease in office and you sign on the paper and

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 2>say you're gonna pay the full month's rent, they give

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:22.920
<v Speaker 2>you a key. I said, so I don't need a roommate,

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:26.160
<v Speaker 2>So if you want a key, then you need to pay.

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>You need to pay the rent.

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:31.159
<v Speaker 2>And so I said, but you don't make enough money

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:35.400
<v Speaker 2>to pay the rent, and be my boyfriend.

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 1>Like to take me somewhere. So I'm so I am,

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm three years older than than than my husband.

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:48.320
<v Speaker 2>And so, like I said, I had just dated somebody

0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:52.399
<v Speaker 2>who was trash on top of trash, and I just

0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 2>knew what I did not want to continue to deal with.

0:27:56.520 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 2>And so he was like okay. So like the next month,

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.959
<v Speaker 2>he had got a new job, and he came in

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:07.639
<v Speaker 2>there and slapped the money order on the table and

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:10.640
<v Speaker 2>was like, hey, give me my key. I'm like, boy,

0:28:10.680 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 2>you can have my key. Used to get in the door.

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm knocked on the door to get it there. I

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>don't care. I see if I could come over because

0:28:25.320 --> 0:28:26.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:31.080
<v Speaker 2>You got it? So we we we we kept dating,

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:35.760
<v Speaker 2>he moved in. We were getting serious, and then in

0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 2>October of that year, so we met in January. So

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:42.360
<v Speaker 2>by the time October came, we were we were I mean,

0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 2>it was it was serious. It was you know, we

0:28:45.080 --> 0:28:47.760
<v Speaker 2>were locked in. And I told him, I said, well,

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 2>my my lease is up and I'm gonna move to

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:54.840
<v Speaker 2>another apartment inside of my complex. And I said, you

0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 2>cannot come with me, And he was like, what do

0:28:58.040 --> 0:29:04.120
<v Speaker 2>you mean. I said, you've never experienced living by yourself before.

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:08.200
<v Speaker 2>And I know that you do a great job of

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 2>taking care of things in the house with me together,

0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 2>but I need to know that you could take care

0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:18.960
<v Speaker 2>of yourself by yourself, I said, because if you're gonna

0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:21.520
<v Speaker 2>be my husband, you're gonna be these things. I don't

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.600
<v Speaker 2>want you to feel like you missed out on living alone.

0:29:23.640 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to feel like, you know, I

0:29:26.640 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 2>need to see that you can remember to pay your bills,

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 2>because they your bills to pay, nine need bringing them up,

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:33.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, and that sort of thing. How old were

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:36.479
<v Speaker 2>you on it too, cause that's a very much. So

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:42.760
<v Speaker 2>I was twenty three. So when we met, he was nineteen.

0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 2>I was twenty two, and then he turned twenty in March,

0:29:46.200 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 2>and then I turned twenty three in June, and so

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know, I just I just don't.

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I just need to know a baby.

0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 2>That man told me, if you move out this apartment

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 2>and I don't go with you, we are done.

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 1>And I said, well, I guess we're done.

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 2>And I told my mama and she was like, Jennifer, okay,

0:30:11.920 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 2>And I said what, She's like nothing, And so we

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 2>just kind of left it alone. He ended up getting

0:30:17.960 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 2>his own apartment. I moved into my apartment and he

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 2>stopped talking to me. We broke up, we were done.

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:28.680
<v Speaker 2>His mama tried to hook him up with the lady

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:31.720
<v Speaker 2>with the girl across the street and went to Ikea. Yeah,

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 2>there was Ikea and everything. I said, oh, I know,

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 2>you ain't out here picking our feelings with a bitch

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 2>like they what's the ike up?

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 1>My feelings is crushed.

0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 2>I faill, what.

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Are you serious right now?

0:30:47.280 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 2>And I was talking to my mom about it, and

0:30:49.920 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 2>she said, you know, I really need for you to

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 2>understand that Tavares is a good man. Because he's a

0:30:57.400 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 2>good man. It has nothing to do with you. So

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 2>he's going to be a good man to whoever he's with,

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 2>not just you. So if you want to keep this

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 2>going and be on your high horse, and I'm putting

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 2>my foot down, I'm setting boundaries, She's like, you are

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 2>going to miss out. And she's like, so you do

0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 2>with that what you want to do with the I'm

0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:19.400
<v Speaker 2>not telling you who you're supposed to be with, but

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:21.120
<v Speaker 2>you do what you want to.

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Do with it.

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 2>And I ended up needing to go get my tooth pulled,

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I mean, I'm like, can you please

0:31:28.320 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 2>take me to the dnist? I can't drive myself back

0:31:30.840 --> 0:31:34.479
<v Speaker 2>back home. And he was like, yeah, that's fine. So

0:31:35.320 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 2>he took me to the dentist and when it was over,

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 2>it was like a traumatic experience. And then he was like, well,

0:31:40.600 --> 0:31:43.400
<v Speaker 2>you just come back to my apartment. And I ended

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 2>up being in his house for like three weeks and.

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 1>We were back together.

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 2>And that was in April of twenty twenty April of

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 2>two thousand and ten, and then in he found out

0:32:01.320 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 2>that he was going to be leaving for deployment, and

0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 2>so we kind of had this conversation like, hey, I know,

0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:09.920
<v Speaker 2>we just got back together, Like this doesn't have to

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:12.320
<v Speaker 2>be a thing, Like we can you know, call this

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 2>all and he was like no, like this is this

0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 2>is where I want to be.

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:17.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like good because me too, because.

0:32:17.680 --> 0:32:20.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm at I don't want to I don't want.

0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 1>To do that. Yeah, exactly, I don't want to go nowhere.

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 2>And we decided before he left for deployment and he

0:32:30.040 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 2>he went he went to San Diego for trainings and

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 2>Navy went to San Diego for a training. He came

0:32:35.320 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 2>back in July and he proposed and he proposed on

0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 2>a Thursday, and we got married that next Tuesday, and

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 2>so we went to city Hall and got married and

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 2>we've been married for thirteen years. And I it has

0:32:56.480 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 2>been when you get married young, it's difficult because you

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 2>are growing up in front of somebody else and all

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 2>of your eyes, all of your flaws are on display,

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 2>and all of your wants and needs and desires, they're

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 2>constantly changing and shifting, and you're doing this with somebody else.

0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 2>And then you become parents, and so now you're not

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:29.880
<v Speaker 2>only trying to figure out, you know, how to be

0:33:30.600 --> 0:33:33.000
<v Speaker 2>a husband and a wife, but now a mother and

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 2>a father. But I'm still trying to figure out how

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 2>to be Jennifer. I'm still trying to figure out, you know,

0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 2>what I'm doing with myself. And it has been the

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 2>best journey now when I look back on it, because

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:54.160
<v Speaker 2>all the things that are good about my accomplishments, people say, oh,

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 2>you're so awesome. Oh you've been on Netflix, Love is bla,

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh you married to Brad and Judy all you did this,

0:33:58.800 --> 0:34:02.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh you did that, And I'm like, I would not

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:05.040
<v Speaker 2>have been able to do any of these things had

0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:08.399
<v Speaker 2>I not had my husband. Number One, hyping me up

0:34:08.960 --> 0:34:12.240
<v Speaker 2>so tough to say you deserve all of that, go

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:15.359
<v Speaker 2>do it, you should do it, and him being here

0:34:15.360 --> 0:34:18.080
<v Speaker 2>to be a great dad to his kids, because kids,

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 2>well I'm set you right, I'm out here frolicing around town. Oh, Jennifer,

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:27.840
<v Speaker 2>we thought he was in Chicago to speak an event.

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And I got three children, you know, And so

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>my husband is an amazing dad. You know.

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 2>I often tell him that he's truly the dad that

0:34:40.040 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 2>I wish that I had grown up and to see

0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:47.200
<v Speaker 2>him with our sons, it gives it almost makes me

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:51.799
<v Speaker 2>jealous sometimes because it's like me and I wish I

0:34:51.840 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 2>had that, Like I wish I could have experienced what

0:34:56.680 --> 0:35:01.319
<v Speaker 2>it was like to have a dad who was so

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:05.959
<v Speaker 2>intentional and so involved in everything that I that I did.

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>My dad really didn't come around until I became me. Now.

0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:14.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, when it's cute to say.

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh, look with my daughter, like what's and my daughter,

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, look what she's doing right right? And so

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 2>it's like, yes, in spite of you know, so my

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 2>husband is just I would shout from the rooftops to

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 2>anybody you know that I'm the happiest wife, not because

0:35:33.640 --> 0:35:37.400
<v Speaker 2>we have this fairy tale love. But it is the

0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 2>securest thing I've ever experienced in my life. To have

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 2>somebody who you don't have to question whether or not

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:53.399
<v Speaker 2>your best intentions are their main intentions, and to know

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.440
<v Speaker 2>that it's not going to get out, like if it

0:35:56.520 --> 0:36:02.879
<v Speaker 2>comes down out, they come down to it, he raised

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:06.280
<v Speaker 2>throw them hands behind his woman. And so the fact,

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:09.800
<v Speaker 2>the fact that I know that also gives me the

0:36:09.960 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 2>security to know that you know, it is what it is.

0:36:13.680 --> 0:36:18.080
<v Speaker 2>And I just look forward to what we can keep

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 2>building and having. And sometimes I just be like, oh

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:25.680
<v Speaker 2>my god, i live in a house full of dudes.

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm the only girls because we have three three three boys,

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:31.840
<v Speaker 2>and I live in a house full of clingy, touchy

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Every five seconds, somebody gotta be in my space. And

0:36:37.640 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 2>then you look around and everybody in the house has

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:43.920
<v Speaker 2>been inside your body. Everybody listen in or out, you know.

0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:49.239
<v Speaker 2>And so I'm like, Jesus, give me a break, give

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:53.279
<v Speaker 2>me a break. And you know, my mom, I'll say

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 2>little things to her like, oh girl, this is she

0:36:56.080 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 2>like Jennifer, it is worse problems to have.

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Let let me tell you if your biggest complaint with Tavares.

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.880
<v Speaker 2>Right now is that every time he go to the store,

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:08.239
<v Speaker 2>he got to call you twenty times to say the

0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:12.320
<v Speaker 2>same thing that if that's your only problem you women,

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:20.799
<v Speaker 2>then take it the me online. It's always a thing

0:37:20.840 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 2>about women being submissive and blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah,

0:37:25.000 --> 0:37:28.920
<v Speaker 2>how do you and your spouse like navigate decision making

0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 2>and your relationship?

0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:36.040
<v Speaker 1>So each one of us is good at different things.

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 2>And we have always allowed whoever has the strength to

0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 2>make to make the decision. So my husband is really

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:47.160
<v Speaker 2>good with keeping up keeping up with things like making

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 2>everybody's doctor's appointments and Dennis appointments and figuring out where

0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 2>we should go and do in certain certain things. But

0:37:56.840 --> 0:38:00.120
<v Speaker 2>his strong suit is not remembering when somebody has a

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:03.680
<v Speaker 2>project due at school, or when the parent teacher conference

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 2>is when the follow up, or the kids we're volunteering

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.399
<v Speaker 2>for the Valentine party, well they need back.

0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 1>That's that's not as strong point. So what whatever you're

0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 1>good at, that's what you take the point on, because

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 1>we look at it like these kids don't care who

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 1>do what. The light company don't care who who pay it,

0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:29.600
<v Speaker 1>as long as it's as long as it's paid. Money

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 1>has been one of those things in our relationship.

0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 2>That's never been an issue because when we didn't have it,

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 2>we figured it out, and now that we do have

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:40.920
<v Speaker 2>it is the same. It's we need, we pay what

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 2>needs to be paid, and we keep it pushing from there.

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:48.239
<v Speaker 2>I think the whole debate on you know, I'm not

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 2>going fifty to fifty with no men own no bills.

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:54.720
<v Speaker 2>We have a joint account, so all the money going

0:38:54.760 --> 0:38:57.800
<v Speaker 2>into the account and we and I'm paying the bills,

0:38:57.880 --> 0:38:58.880
<v Speaker 2>he's paying the bills.

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean it, I don't.

0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:02.840
<v Speaker 2>You ain't got no little account on the side. You know,

0:39:03.400 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 2>I have a big account on the right girl, and

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:15.799
<v Speaker 2>and and he knows that. And so you know, I

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.719
<v Speaker 2>work a full time job and I run my business

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:23.520
<v Speaker 2>full time, and so my husband is a data analyst,

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:28.120
<v Speaker 2>so he he makes more than I than I do.

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:30.359
<v Speaker 2>So the way that we the way that we do

0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 2>our funds is that all the money goes into one

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:37.040
<v Speaker 2>account from our job. So all the money goes into

0:39:37.080 --> 0:39:40.640
<v Speaker 2>one account, We pay all all of the bills, whatever

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:43.520
<v Speaker 2>is left over half goes into savings, and then we

0:39:43.600 --> 0:39:45.719
<v Speaker 2>split the other half for you to be able to

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:47.800
<v Speaker 2>do whatever it is that you want to do. It

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:54.439
<v Speaker 2>I manage my business money on my own. And it's

0:39:54.480 --> 0:39:56.400
<v Speaker 2>not that it's it's mine.

0:39:56.800 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 1>It's just that my husband knows. If he sees it,

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:03.680
<v Speaker 1>he gonna be like, well, we could do or what

0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:04.319
<v Speaker 1>if we did?

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 2>And I'm and so we once we recognized that that

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 2>was the thing, he's like, I don't even want to

0:40:09.640 --> 0:40:13.000
<v Speaker 2>have access to it because then when something happens and

0:40:13.080 --> 0:40:16.360
<v Speaker 2>he's like, man, we we got to spend four thousand

0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 2>dollars on XYZ, I'm like, all right, bet it. I

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 2>got it because I'm the saver. And since we know

0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>that's our strong strong point, is what then I handle

0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 2>the money. If I wasn't the saver and I and

0:40:31.400 --> 0:40:34.240
<v Speaker 2>he was, then he would handle it and I wouldn't

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:37.360
<v Speaker 2>look at it like he's giving me an allowance. No,

0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:43.279
<v Speaker 2>we have to keep living beyond our immediate needs. And

0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 2>so because we recognize that it's whoever has, whoever strong

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.200
<v Speaker 2>gets at whatever it is, that's who does what.

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I hate washing clothes. I don't want to touch nobody's dirty.

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Ass, drawing I can imagine, I don't want to turn

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:02.360
<v Speaker 2>your fock and they take their socks off and everything

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 2>is inside out, like I don't. And my husband I

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:09.880
<v Speaker 2>have to, like, don't wash the clothes inside out like

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 2>he will just put it in there. But at this

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 2>point I'm like, whatever, I don't like washing clothes and

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 2>he doesn't like folding clothes. So instead of it being

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:22.480
<v Speaker 2>this power struggle of who needs to do what, he

0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 2>washes the clothes, I fold the clothes up. Everybody put

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:29.640
<v Speaker 2>their stuff up. Instead of it being this, well, you

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:31.239
<v Speaker 2>the woman, you need to do.

0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>We don't have gender roles.

0:41:33.120 --> 0:41:36.040
<v Speaker 2>Of course, you know, it's certain things that people gravitate towards.

0:41:36.960 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 2>He makes sure the car has gas, like stuff dealing,

0:41:41.560 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 2>that's not my strong point. He makes sure the lawn

0:41:43.920 --> 0:41:49.920
<v Speaker 2>the law and man come. But listen, listen, he be

0:41:49.960 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 2>ready to he is social living. I'm like, boy, you

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 2>I ain't never seen you've fiping by your life. But

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 2>the fact that you be so ready, I believe it.

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I believe it.

0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 2>I believe it with my whole heart. I believe it.

0:42:03.840 --> 0:42:06.439
<v Speaker 2>I bet you would. I bet and and and that's

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.279
<v Speaker 2>all I need because I ain't never gonna let you

0:42:09.320 --> 0:42:11.839
<v Speaker 2>fight nobody. But I just I just didn't know that

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:14.239
<v Speaker 2>you will when the time comes. With the time, got

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 2>that dog getting you to go ahead and come out

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:20.080
<v Speaker 2>through I can appreciate that. Girl. Listen, I had a

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:24.879
<v Speaker 2>million questions, but you answer all of them, answer every

0:42:24.960 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 2>last one of them. And I was about to ask

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:30.000
<v Speaker 2>because then another thing, like how do you guys handle disagreements?

0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:32.279
<v Speaker 2>Just different things that come up in a marriage that

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 2>people who haven't been married, they think they're gonna do

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 2>something one way. You know, I can get some advice

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:40.080
<v Speaker 2>from you because you've been married for thirteen years now.

0:42:40.080 --> 0:42:43.320
<v Speaker 2>So how do you guys handle Yeah, disagreements in a marriage.

0:42:43.360 --> 0:42:45.919
<v Speaker 2>So my husband is a he wants to talk about

0:42:45.960 --> 0:42:49.360
<v Speaker 2>it right now type of person, and I am not.

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:52.359
<v Speaker 2>I need a I need a minute. And so we

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:57.440
<v Speaker 2>had to learn that it's okay that I need a minute,

0:42:57.520 --> 0:43:00.279
<v Speaker 2>but I have to also be respectful of the fact

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:03.839
<v Speaker 2>that I can't let that drag out for the day.

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:07.680
<v Speaker 2>And so it's like we set these boundaries up. You

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:11.120
<v Speaker 2>get an hour to cool down because he it's burning

0:43:11.200 --> 0:43:13.040
<v Speaker 2>him up to not be able to talk about it

0:43:13.200 --> 0:43:16.880
<v Speaker 2>right right then and there, and I'm I'm more coming

0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 2>down there he going up yeah, right, And so for

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:23.000
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of things that may happen that he'll

0:43:23.120 --> 0:43:27.000
<v Speaker 2>he'll he'll say, you are too nonchalant about things, and

0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:28.960
<v Speaker 2>it's not And I have to remind him it's not

0:43:29.000 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 2>that I'm nonchalant about It's not that I don't care.

0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:33.800
<v Speaker 1>It's just that I.

0:43:33.600 --> 0:43:37.840
<v Speaker 2>Know that in twenty minutes, none of this is about

0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:41.200
<v Speaker 2>to be relevant. So because I know it's not gonna

0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:44.000
<v Speaker 2>be relevant, I'm not gonna let myself get that worked

0:43:44.080 --> 0:43:48.719
<v Speaker 2>up because why and the stuff that we're going back

0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:51.840
<v Speaker 2>and forth about isn't like, oh, who is this woman

0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:54.479
<v Speaker 2>or who is this and that. It's like white didn't

0:43:54.480 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 2>put a trash bag inside the trash can, or I

0:43:57.560 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 2>thought you said that you was gonna take this out.

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, just little things.

0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 2>But our biggest thing has always been to keep it respectful.

0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:10.880
<v Speaker 1>There is no name calling and you this and.

0:44:10.760 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 2>That and degrading and being the being the meaning to

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:20.319
<v Speaker 2>the other person to get your point across. And we

0:44:20.400 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 2>often have this like little thing like if you got

0:44:23.239 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 2>mad at your boss, you wouldn't go to them and

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:27.400
<v Speaker 2>cuss them out and talk to them all kind of

0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 2>crazy or you're a coworker, because you would fear that

0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:34.160
<v Speaker 2>you would lose your livelihood. But people will talk to

0:44:34.200 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 2>their spouses like trash And it's like how can you

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 2>give a stranger more respect.

0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Than you give your significant other? And we adopted that

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 1>model a long time ago, like talk to me and

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:50.479
<v Speaker 1>talk to me like your coworker, talk to me nice,

0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 1>or don't talk to me at all.

0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:57.800
<v Speaker 2>And sometimes like if it's like a heated thing, especially

0:44:57.800 --> 0:44:58.680
<v Speaker 2>because because.

0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 1>We have kids, we'll text like.

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 2>Because you thought you was about uh or so because

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:13.040
<v Speaker 2>we don't ever want to create this environment for them.

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:16.560
<v Speaker 2>You know, where they living with their parents, going back

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.879
<v Speaker 2>and forth, and that's the sort of thing. I never

0:45:18.920 --> 0:45:21.239
<v Speaker 2>want to give my children a childhood that they have

0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:27.399
<v Speaker 2>to recover from, like be fun loving black boys who

0:45:27.760 --> 0:45:31.319
<v Speaker 2>just your kids are either gonna want a marriage just

0:45:31.560 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 2>like yours or nothing like yours, right, those those are

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:36.799
<v Speaker 2>the only two options they're gonna be. Like, I ain't

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.240
<v Speaker 2>never seen my mama and daddy fight. Meanwhile, y'all texting

0:45:39.320 --> 0:45:44.440
<v Speaker 2>like yeah, nigga, baby, your bowing mama, Like I'm on,

0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:50.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm on y'all relationships sometimes you know what I'm saying

0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 2>because verbally, you fuck are to say something real nasty,

0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:56.520
<v Speaker 2>be a partner. Yes, yes, it's a little bit different

0:45:56.560 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 2>than that. You don't mean it, yeah, And you don't

0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:02.920
<v Speaker 2>mean it because because my text, because your text are

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:06.560
<v Speaker 2>auto correct, you're trying to cuss and it's like duck.

0:46:06.640 --> 0:46:08.880
<v Speaker 2>It's like I wasn't trying to say duck. Like I

0:46:08.920 --> 0:46:11.239
<v Speaker 2>don't even what I was trying to say. But it

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:17.680
<v Speaker 2>definitely helps to going back to the security piece of things,

0:46:18.280 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't let too much get to me because I'm like, dude,

0:46:23.120 --> 0:46:26.439
<v Speaker 2>you I know this is not gonna be a big deal.

0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:28.759
<v Speaker 2>And because i know it's not gonna be a big deal,

0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:32.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not even gonna get ready to get all that

0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 2>work worked up. Our biggest argument always across the board

0:46:37.200 --> 0:46:38.800
<v Speaker 2>is and I wouldn't even call it an argument, but

0:46:38.840 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 2>the biggest thing to go back and forth is my

0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:43.440
<v Speaker 2>husband thinks that we're supposed to have sex like forty

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:47.800
<v Speaker 2>five thousand times a day.

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 1>And he thinks that other people.

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:54.040
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I'm sure we're the only married people that's

0:46:54.080 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 2>having sex like four times a week. That's not I'm like,

0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:03.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm like, do you know what, No, I'm like, bro,

0:47:03.840 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 2>we have like we literally, like clockwork, are gonna have

0:47:07.520 --> 0:47:10.680
<v Speaker 2>sex at least every other day, like at least every

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:11.319
<v Speaker 2>other day.

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:12.799
<v Speaker 1>That is going to be a thing.

0:47:13.440 --> 0:47:18.120
<v Speaker 2>And he'll say stuff like people people, I'm I'm I'm

0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:21.080
<v Speaker 2>sure folks out here married they doing you need to

0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, that is four times a week was

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:26.839
<v Speaker 2>a health for time? People even married for thirteen years

0:47:26.880 --> 0:47:31.319
<v Speaker 2>or three kids, that is a lot of sex. Yeah,

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:36.960
<v Speaker 2>three kids two uh three kids, A business of this

0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:41.360
<v Speaker 2>or that, all of these things, a dog, all this stuff.

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm on the pta board, I'm on you know,

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:49.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm room mom, all these things. I'm like, it is,

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 2>this is healthy and I and it's not that we

0:47:53.520 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 2>argue about it, but it's like, if it's anything that's

0:47:56.239 --> 0:48:02.160
<v Speaker 2>gonna call some type of friction, if it is bring

0:48:02.680 --> 0:48:05.839
<v Speaker 2>him looking at me and I'm looking like.

0:48:08.120 --> 0:48:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I bend over the time I shoe up.

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.279
<v Speaker 2>And he's like, oh, you're trying to be You're trying

0:48:12.320 --> 0:48:17.720
<v Speaker 2>to be freaky. I'm trying not to fall. I'm trying

0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 2>not to trip, like I'm putting anna fall on this

0:48:21.560 --> 0:48:25.520
<v Speaker 2>dick you basically basically you know. And and he's like,

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:27.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm putting all loads like trying to get

0:48:27.880 --> 0:48:28.600
<v Speaker 2>alled up for me.

0:48:30.160 --> 0:48:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to preserve my skin.

0:48:32.200 --> 0:48:38.200
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't I'm trying to moisturize myself, but okay,

0:48:38.280 --> 0:48:41.880
<v Speaker 2>and we both work from home, so it just feels

0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:42.879
<v Speaker 2>like it just needs to.

0:48:42.840 --> 0:48:46.360
<v Speaker 1>Be this free for all all the time.

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:51.440
<v Speaker 2>So that is probably what we But something that I

0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:54.160
<v Speaker 2>do to I will I make it a point to

0:48:54.320 --> 0:48:57.400
<v Speaker 2>like randomly, or it could just be a random Tuesday

0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:01.799
<v Speaker 2>ten o'clock, I'm like, boom, I'm going in here.

0:49:02.040 --> 0:49:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm finnam, I'm in here.

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:07.480
<v Speaker 2>Before I even go in there, I'm Sirritchela going in

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:10.719
<v Speaker 2>and show out real quick. On the tuesdays, it's going

0:49:10.800 --> 0:49:13.640
<v Speaker 2>up on Tuesday for real. I'm like, come on, and

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:15.000
<v Speaker 2>that how catch you off? Bar?

0:49:15.400 --> 0:49:17.640
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. And you you are here

0:49:17.680 --> 0:49:19.759
<v Speaker 1>thinking you missed a big shot for the rest of

0:49:19.800 --> 0:49:20.120
<v Speaker 1>the day.

0:49:20.280 --> 0:49:22.640
<v Speaker 2>But in my mind, I'm thinking, why go the rest

0:49:22.640 --> 0:49:28.320
<v Speaker 2>of the night to do whatever? To do without without

0:49:28.640 --> 0:49:31.120
<v Speaker 2>without you sitting on the couch, like what to do

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:34.399
<v Speaker 2>when you jumped out? You funny as hell?

0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Time you going to bed.

0:49:36.400 --> 0:49:37.560
<v Speaker 2>That's a good problem to have.

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:41.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a good problem to have, So I'll take it.

0:49:41.640 --> 0:49:42.279
<v Speaker 1>I'll take it.

0:49:43.480 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any advice for women who are in

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.840
<v Speaker 2>marriages and they don't seem very happy or any advice

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:52.920
<v Speaker 2>for women who are looking for love or any advice.

0:49:53.080 --> 0:49:55.279
<v Speaker 1>What do you have If you are in.

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:58.280
<v Speaker 2>A marriage and you are unhappy, First of all, figure

0:49:58.280 --> 0:49:59.320
<v Speaker 2>out why you're unhappy.

0:49:59.360 --> 0:50:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Are you are Are you.

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Unhappy because you are comparing your life to somebody else's.

0:50:06.120 --> 0:50:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Are you unhappy because you want this social media love

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:14.880
<v Speaker 2>and you're not getting that. I see that with a

0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:20.960
<v Speaker 2>lot of people. Your husband may not be the Instagram husband,

0:50:21.680 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 2>and that's okay. It doesn't mean he loves you any less,

0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:29.880
<v Speaker 2>and so it's comparison is the thief of joy, and

0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:33.640
<v Speaker 2>I think that that really hurts people. My husband is

0:50:33.680 --> 0:50:36.240
<v Speaker 2>not going If you go to his Instagram, it's probably

0:50:36.320 --> 0:50:37.720
<v Speaker 2>like thirty pitches.

0:50:37.800 --> 0:50:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure seventeen of them is of me. The other

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:43.200
<v Speaker 1>ones are the kids. He it ain't nothing on their

0:50:43.719 --> 0:50:47.080
<v Speaker 1>He's not a I'm a post you type of dude.

0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:54.560
<v Speaker 2>And I'm okay with that because in real life, like you,

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 2>you double tapping me in real life, so you know.

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 1>It's okay.

0:51:01.920 --> 0:51:03.560
<v Speaker 2>But I think that a lot of times, in this

0:51:03.680 --> 0:51:06.919
<v Speaker 2>day and age with social media, I'm finding that people

0:51:06.960 --> 0:51:09.960
<v Speaker 2>are unhappy in their relationships because it's not living up

0:51:10.000 --> 0:51:14.680
<v Speaker 2>to this sixty second real that's being put up with

0:51:14.719 --> 0:51:18.160
<v Speaker 2>your husband showing up with flowers and doing this, and

0:51:18.200 --> 0:51:21.680
<v Speaker 2>doing and doing that. But the things that he is

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:25.000
<v Speaker 2>doing for you, you know, could be.

0:51:24.960 --> 0:51:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Taking the place of all of that.

0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:30.719
<v Speaker 2>It's just not aesthetically pleasing And so I think that

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:35.759
<v Speaker 2>focusing on the good and your own relationship is great. Now,

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:37.640
<v Speaker 2>if you whip be your ass, you needs a niggadvarce.

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Now I ain't ain't.

0:51:41.320 --> 0:51:43.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if he out here knocking you upside your head

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:46.319
<v Speaker 2>and sleeping with everybody under the sun and doing our

0:51:46.960 --> 0:51:48.880
<v Speaker 2>go ahead and move and move on.

0:51:49.040 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, go ahead, but if But to.

0:51:51.239 --> 0:51:55.239
<v Speaker 2>People that are dating, that are wanting to be in

0:51:55.280 --> 0:51:58.280
<v Speaker 2>a relationship and want to be with somebody, my biggest

0:51:58.280 --> 0:52:01.319
<v Speaker 2>piece of advice is that it's that you have of

0:52:02.520 --> 0:52:07.280
<v Speaker 2>He needs to be this tall, make this much money,

0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:11.360
<v Speaker 2>have all these all these things that at any point

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 2>could change. Right, so he has to be this tall.

0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:17.840
<v Speaker 2>What if what if he was that tall and he

0:52:17.880 --> 0:52:20.160
<v Speaker 2>got in a car accident and now he in a wheelchair.

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:22.759
<v Speaker 2>Now now he's not that tall. What if he had

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<v Speaker 2>this amazing job and then he lost it. Those are

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<v Speaker 2>not character traits.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are not.

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<v Speaker 2>Things that will sustain you in a marriage and I

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<v Speaker 2>think that having people often say like I want a

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<v Speaker 2>good man, I want a good woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what is that actually mean for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? What that means for you? And what and what

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<v Speaker 2>that means for me? It's too totally do different things.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think being able to write down like character

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<v Speaker 2>and look at what you write. If you say I

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<v Speaker 2>want a good I want a good man, and then

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<v Speaker 2>you immediately go into he gotta make six feet gears,

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<v Speaker 2>be six foot.

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<v Speaker 1>Five, light skinned, drive this, and that those.

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<v Speaker 2>Are gotta gotta have a dick like Drake drink right, girl?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, ah, I said what I said, girl, did

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<v Speaker 2>you see Drake dick? My husband was like, so, y'all

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<v Speaker 2>just really on.

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<v Speaker 1>And is and I was, and I was I said,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this is a video.

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<v Speaker 2>This was a picture act just in case they take

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<v Speaker 2>it down. That Drake got oh god, you did like

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is something that I do love about my marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>is like he.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't insecure by that, insecure or offended that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's something that's falling around on on social media. If

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<v Speaker 2>somebody said I seen Beyonce sitty, I'm a look, I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, I'll it's curiosity, you know, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I just yeah, Drake's Drake's Dick definitely has been.

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<v Speaker 1>The donkey of the day for real, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally literally literally donkey other day. Yeah, well, let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you something, missus, Jennifer Allen. This was such a

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<v Speaker 2>great interview. You were a great guest. I want you

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<v Speaker 2>to plug all your things, plug your micro wedding venue

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<v Speaker 2>and all the time. Please. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So, I'm the owner of Jesse Lope.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a micro wedding plannet expert based here in the Dallas,

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<v Speaker 2>Texas area. I'm on social media at Jesse Lope LLC.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a podcast called the Wedding to Wife Podcast

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<v Speaker 2>where we talk about all things from wedding planning to

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<v Speaker 2>wife life because it is more than just getting that rain,

0:54:55.800 --> 0:54:58.759
<v Speaker 2>and we also want to educate brides on what it

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<v Speaker 2>takes to actually pull off these pinterest worthy weddings. We

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<v Speaker 2>talk about bridesmaids, disaster stories, and people that have called

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<v Speaker 2>off weddings, called off in engagements. And season two launches

0:55:13.239 --> 0:55:17.480
<v Speaker 2>next month and I'm super super excited about that. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's the Wedding to Life podcast and my personal

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<v Speaker 2>social media is I add thank you nobody, thank you girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm listening hands too. I am thank you. I'm getting

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<v Speaker 2>engaged next year to Drake, so we probably ye come

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<v Speaker 2>home my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't even look at him, no type of way.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody's young man, but everybody thanks everything. Oh the way

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, y'all, she said, look at our man,

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<v Speaker 2>good our husband. I was like, I s relieved for

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<v Speaker 2>some reason, like not you know, yeah, yeah, y'all have it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right. I appreciate y'all having me on you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much Jennifer for joining We Talk Bat. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>y'all enjoyed this episode, I really enjoyed this episode. It

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<v Speaker 2>makes me so hopeful and I'm just like a hopeless

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<v Speaker 2>romantic and I know some of you all are. So

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<v Speaker 2>if you enjoy this, come back next week for a

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<v Speaker 2>part two. We're gonna have another happy wife on y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember speak now and never hold your peace or meet

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<v Speaker 2>like Drake, have a good day. Stop talking about my husband. Okay, bye, y'all.

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