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Speaker 1: Subject He asked his ex wife to talk to me.

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Speaker 1: All right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been dating a man

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Speaker 1: for almost two years and we had our first major argument.

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Speaker 1: I cannot seem to get along with his overbearing mother,

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Speaker 1: and no matter how nice I am to her, she's

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Speaker 1: always gritting her teeth and side eyeing me. I sat

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Speaker 1: down with my boyfriend before Thanksgiving and asked if he'd

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Speaker 1: help me get along with his mother. He told me

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Speaker 1: to take her to lunch and talk to her about

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Speaker 1: things that interest her. I took her to a buffet

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Speaker 1: and she loved it. Took her to a buffet that

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Speaker 1: she loved and I hate. I only ate a vegetable

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Speaker 1: plate and she took issue with that. Since it was

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Speaker 1: just the two of us, it was awkward, so I

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Speaker 1: did not force conversation with her. She told my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: that it went great, but she still doesn't see him

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Speaker 1: having a future with me. I was devastated and considered

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Speaker 1: breaking up with him. Then he said he had a

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Speaker 1: solution to the problem. He said he had someone that

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Speaker 1: really knew his mom and could get her to act right.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was talking about his aunt Fee when

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Speaker 1: he told me Fee could fix things, but it was

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Speaker 1: his ex wife, Felicia. I didn't know. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: he referred to her as Fee. He had the nerve

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Speaker 1: dinner for her since I thought it was his auntie

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Speaker 1: coming over. I knew Felicia from school and they were

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Speaker 1: married for only nine months and he hadn't mentioned her

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Speaker 1: in years. She walked in and I thought it was

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Speaker 1: a prank. I thought it was a frank. Needless to say,

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Speaker 1: it didn't go well and we broke up before Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Fee has a protective order against me, and she had

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Speaker 1: to get three or four stitches. Listen very carefully, people,

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Speaker 1: she had to get three to four stitches in her forehead.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend is begging to come back into my life,

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Speaker 1: but he doesn't see how calling his ex wife to

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Speaker 1: come talk to me was a huge problem. I could

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Speaker 1: deal with his mom, but not Felicia. Should I walk

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Speaker 1: away for good? Yes? You should. Yes, this is over.

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Speaker 1: There's no future in this. There is no future in

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Speaker 1: this because your boyfriend. It's crazy, all right. This whole

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Speaker 1: family is crazy. This letter is crazy. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: your man is crazy. His mom is crazy. Who is she?

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Speaker 1: Come on? This is a mama's boy where you're dealing

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Speaker 1: with What man brings his ex into the mix to

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Speaker 1: talk to his mom about mistreating his girl. This makes

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Speaker 1: no sense. I've never heard of this before. And miss

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Speaker 1: Auntie fee fee Felicia, Felicia is a real crazy one

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Speaker 1: for coming over there in the first place. What woman,

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Speaker 1: especially the ex, goes to the house of the X.

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Speaker 1: I just think your man is clueless and crazy. This

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Speaker 1: relationship is never gonna work because his mom doesn't like you,

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Speaker 1: and he keeps She keeps saying negative things about you

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Speaker 1: and he's listening to her. He's not trying to help

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Speaker 1: you get along with his mom. He gave you some

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Speaker 1: crazy advice. This is not gonna work. You guys are

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Speaker 1: broken up. Move on, nephew. Okay, you went to dinner

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Speaker 1: with mama to try to make things better, and you

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Speaker 1: took her to a buffet that you don't like. And

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Speaker 1: I know where y'all went. Where y'all went, because I

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Speaker 1: used to go there with my daddy and I actually

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Speaker 1: love it. I don't know why you ain't like y'all

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Speaker 1: went to Old Corral. I know where y'all went. That's

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Speaker 1: where y'all went. Y'all went to the Golden Corral, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you don't like it. You could

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Speaker 1: have sat down and got you something the rolls, and

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Speaker 1: you could have sat there and had a great conversation

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Speaker 1: with them. Because I'm the best Roles in the world.

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Speaker 1: You could have went to the Golden Corral and sat there.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know why you're sitting there eating some vegetables.

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Speaker 1: Then that's why she grinding her teeth at you, because

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Speaker 1: she don't like how you get down now and she

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Speaker 1: granding her teeth because she old old people grand their

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Speaker 1: teeth and they may her teeth anyway, so don't worry

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Speaker 1: about that. But then I'm trying to take that's not

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Speaker 1: o them. She's been through with her teeth, her teeth

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Speaker 1: being gone. But don't worry about that. What I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to get you to understand is when you sit with

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Speaker 1: show some respect, get something to eat, show them that

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Speaker 1: You understand that. You need to know that. Then that's

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Speaker 1: why people looking at you sideway because you ain't real

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Speaker 1: Get you some rolls, Go over and get you something

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Speaker 1: that ice cream about that machine, put the sprinkles on there.

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Speaker 1: That's when you're having a good time and she's gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I kind of like her.

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Speaker 1: If you'd have done that, Mama would have changed a

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Speaker 1: little bit about you. You know if she got the

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Speaker 1: ice cream with the sprinkle. She has some rolls we

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Speaker 1: got down, she spread butter all over. Now you sat

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Speaker 1: there and ate some damn broccoli and nothing that looks

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Speaker 1: stupid and you ain't talking about much because you ain't

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Speaker 1: eating much. You gotta have conversation for Mama. Mama, is

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Speaker 1: real you that this is this is the this is

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Speaker 1: the first part of the letter. That's the problem that

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Speaker 1: bothers me. Okay, now let's get on to the Let's

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Speaker 1: get on to the second part. Let's get on to

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Speaker 1: the second part. The second part that's devastating. That's devastating

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Speaker 1: to me is now you've been invited, y'all. Don't cooked dinner,

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Speaker 1: right y'all and cooked dinnam because you think ain't fee

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Speaker 1: coming over all right, But it's really Felice Shock, who

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Speaker 1: he used to be married to for nine months. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why that didn't work out, probably because his

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Speaker 1: all she know is she coming to Denner. Felicia didn't

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Speaker 1: know she was coming to dinner. What I asked up

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Speaker 1: and attached to it. She'd had no earthly idea. You've

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Speaker 1: fend to beat the hell out of her, who'll go

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Speaker 1: make no damn sense. Felicia did nothing in her foe head.

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Speaker 1: That means you lost your damn man and you went

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Speaker 1: completely crazy in that house. That's what you did. You

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Speaker 1: come through the door, and it's Felicia from the high school,

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Speaker 1: and you remember her, and you didn't like Felicia back then,

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Speaker 1: No damn way, So you didn't took all your frustation.

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Speaker 1: I know that. Okay, hold on, nephew, hold on here.

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Speaker 1: I know you're on the right, Felicia. If you're listening,

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Speaker 1: I understand you. Okay, Well, at first two of our

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Speaker 1: response to the Strawberry Letter today, the twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after to be our subject is he asked his ex

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, nephew, come on,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. Her subject he asked his

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Speaker 1: woman wrote in she's been dating a man for almost

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Speaker 1: two years they had their first major argument, and because

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Speaker 1: she can't seem to bond with his mother, she calls

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Speaker 1: his mother overbearing, and she says, no matter how nice

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Speaker 1: she is to the mother, the mother's always gritting her

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Speaker 1: the restaurant, but the Corral. It's where they wish. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she ate. She didn't say that in the letter,

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Speaker 1: He just mom just can't see it. So boyfriend said, Okay,

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Speaker 1: his ex wife, Felicia. Felicia came over, a big fight erupted.

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Speaker 1: Felicia ended up with three or four stitches in her forehead.

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Speaker 1: Oh this girl was mad, wasn't she. Don't you ever? Anyway,

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Speaker 1: who didn't know none about this. Felicia ain't asked for

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Speaker 1: don't know. But that's okay. But Felicia walks in and

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Speaker 1: the King of prank. This ain't no damn prank. This

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Speaker 1: This ain't no joke at all. And you guys been

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Speaker 1: happened that didn't go right? Okay, So now now what

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Speaker 1: if it said he got three of fose stitches. Now

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Speaker 1: I understand, I understand because he didn't set this up.

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Speaker 1: If he got three of fose stitches, I get it.

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Speaker 1: What did Felicia do to get the stitches? And did

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Speaker 1: We just sat there and prepare I had this big

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Speaker 1: Her answer is crazy. I told you you didn't need

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Speaker 1: Now your question is no question. Should I should I

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Speaker 1: go ahead? Sir? I'm sorry, no, I'm saying now Felicia,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna have to wear bangs for the rest of

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Speaker 1: her life. You forgot to say that because you didn't

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Speaker 1: cut her foehead, she gonna have stitches. Now, we got

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Speaker 1: to find a man that like stitches on a woman.

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Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Now, she messed up. She

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Speaker 1: shouldn't gone over the woman's house, period, right, Felicia violence. Now,

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Speaker 1: I don't condone that. I don't condone the violence. I understood.

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Speaker 1: why would she go over to her ex's house? Why?

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