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Speaker 1: here we go fifteen minute Morning Show podcast. Two days.

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Speaker 1: Everyone's acting like a Friday. It's Elvis along with Bethany

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Speaker 1: and Dave Rono, and there's Garrett. There we are, there

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Speaker 1: we are, and there's a scary what's up? And there's Danielle.

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Speaker 1: All right, so welcome to the fifteen minute Morning Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: What's good to be here? Two days in a row.

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Speaker 1: Here he is not happy? Why because when you're not here,

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Speaker 1: he sits at the gold mic and runs the board,

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Speaker 1: this back microphone with the saddest look on his face. No, no,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you why. I don't. I don't mind one bit.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I welcome it. I like to just hang

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Speaker 1: out with everybody around this table, with the people. The

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Speaker 1: it's coming, is this is about to turn into a

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Speaker 1: bash scary session because I already heard whispers. That's why

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, okay, bring it, okay, Well, is this

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Speaker 1: the topic you're talking about? I was told as I

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Speaker 1: walked into the room for the fifteen Minute Morning Show podcast. Oh, Els,

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Speaker 1: we have a topic. Um, and I asked you what

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Speaker 1: is it? And then Bethany said, oh, we got it covered.

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Speaker 1: Don't you worry about it? Not about you. Okay, good,

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Speaker 1: I'll happily popen. So what is it? Scary does something

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Speaker 1: you've all experienced it? Maybe you didn't realize it, but

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Speaker 1: So Bethany showed me a very funny video apparently that

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Speaker 1: when viral and I hadn't seen. I was laughing. Scary says,

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Speaker 1: You just see it now. Scary can't just say, oh,

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Speaker 1: I've seen it. I enjoyed it. Also, if you say

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Speaker 1: I've been going there for six months, he has to

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Speaker 1: He's been doing it. He's a cutting edge ahead of

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Speaker 1: What that is is you be being so freaking your

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Speaker 1: is I'm giving you factual information. You could do with

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Speaker 1: being condescending to you guys for telling you that I

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Speaker 1: So we're going to see both sides. So scary. I

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Speaker 1: being condescending. You're insecure and have low self esteem. The

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Speaker 1: Why does it? Why do you have to let everyone

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Speaker 1: so you want to do a little uh morning lay,

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Speaker 1: So that's so good? What do you guys? What do

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Speaker 1: but my cousin has that cat so so Garrett, how

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Speaker 1: always doing tons of research just on like human behavior

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Speaker 1: kinds of people. And now I'm so paranoid about this.

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Speaker 1: There are people that when you tell them a fact,

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do in Santa Fe? Okay? What's

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Speaker 1: Scary me. I read them the text you sent me

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Speaker 1: here's where it was. I'm like, where are you? He said,

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Speaker 1: do it. Realize subliminal, subliminal. I must say it subliminally, right,

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Speaker 1: last time? Sanchest. But the old people do that, they

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Speaker 1: It's not as impressive as as you just being you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: like that he forgives me because he forgets stuff that

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